Life Update: Challenges, Growth & Building a New Future Nov 2024
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- Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024
- This past year has been one of incredible change, self-discovery, and growth. I've faced new challenges, but with each one, I've come closer to realizing the life I truly want to live. From navigating daily struggles to learning the hard lessons that come with personal transformation, it's been a journey of embracing both the beauty and difficulty of growth.
In this video, I’ll share how I’m building a new chapter-focused on independence, adventure, and creating a life that feels authentic to me. There’s still a long way to go, but I’m excited for the future and the opportunities that lie ahead.
Join me as I reflect on the milestones, the setbacks, and the important realizations that have shaped this year. If you're on your own path of self-growth or seeking inspiration for your own journey, I hope this update encourages you to keep moving forward.
Topics Covered:
Overcoming challenges in daily life
Personal growth and new realizations
Building a meaningful and adventurous future
The importance of persistence in learning and development
#SelfGrowth #PersonalDevelopment #LifeJourney #ChallengeYourself #Motivation #NewBeginnings
😊Happy to see, hear you again 🎉
Thank you. It's nice to stop in now and then.
@@RoyRissanen
Keep the progress going on with sisu👍
Roy is back! Hyvä juttu!
Kiitos 💪😎
JEE!!! Pitkästä aika uusi video. 🙂 🔥 Olen kaivannut näitä videoita. Seuraava video Suomeksi kiitos. 😊
Toivon ehdottomasti, että minulla on myös lisää videoita suomeksi.
Hyviä oivalluksia ! Keep on getting to know yourself. Olla yksin ei tarkoita, että olisi yksinäinen. Better to be alone than in a meaningless relationship.
hmm, so maybe some choose any relationship because they have a meaningless life.
It was so nice to see you after a long break when you haven't made any videos. I was happy to hear that you have found yourself better, or something. I can't find the right words but I believe you understand what I mean.
Thank you, that means a lot. I will never fully go away ... I guess that's why I make these videos. ;)
awesome video Roy! Very authentic!
Thanks brother. Hope you're doing well.
ihana nähdä sinua taas, toivon kaikkea hyvää, olet hieno ihminen 🤗❤💛💚
Kiitos Katja. :)
Long time no see! Great to see a new video again Roy! Being yourself is always a good guideline in life.
I feel the World that I felt I belong to ended about 15 years ago. This post-factual, anti-intellectual, post-enlightenment, divided, politically toxic World of dictators, billionaires and paid social media influencers doesn't work for me at all! I have almost nothing to offer to the World and the World thinks I deserve nothing in return. I try to make the best of the situation, but things get worse year by year.
Don't blame yourself for all struggles in life. I feel it takes a super-human to overcome many struggles we have today. A lot of people feel the World is getting worse fast. I don't know how long we have before it all collapses. How long before we have a nuclear war between NATO and Russia+China? How long before democracy is dead everywhere? How long before climate change or AI destroys us? It is looking really bad, but I try to enjoy life while I can and I have learned to appreciate small good things in life (such as a sunny summer day or your videos) because there isn't anything else.
There is nothing we can do to change the world that is more powerful than changing ourselves. In a hundred years people will be wishing they had been born a hundred years ago ... don't waste their wishes; go live the time you have to the fullest with what you have been given.
Hei Roy, nice to se you again!
Important to be yourself, which is not allways easy 😊
Thank you ... and as stated, it's important to figure out who "yourself" is.
@@RoyRissanenNiin, onhan se tärkeää ottaa selville kuka on? Sen jälkeen ymmärtää itseään paremmin.
Mutta vain itse voit tehdä itsesi onnelliseksi ja löytää sisäisen rauhan,
sitä ei voi kukaan muu tehdä.
Vaikka on yksin, se ei tarkoita sitä että on yksinäinen, sen on valinnut monet tarkoituksella.
❤ 🤗 ❤️ 🙏 ❤️ Thank you Roy for the wise words! Life is short and we have to try to make it enjoyable and peaceful! Sometimes it is easier to live it single than by other person. "Granmother knows everything"! Wishing you and your son a blessed life! Live like your heart tells you! ❤ 🤗 🤗 ❤️🙏❤️
I would welcome the challanges of a relationship but certenly would not trade any happiness for it.
Hi! 🌼
When you are middle-aged, you sometimes think about what you have experienced in life so far and what you would like to experience. I think life is for making dreams come true, big and small (if possible).
Many times if you are alone for years without a relationship, you may also lose what you hope for in your future partner because no one seems suitable and you are tired of looking. You may also drift into a relationship with the wrong kind of person. But life is for learning. Maybe the people who come into your life are meant to teach you something...
I think accepting the other is important in a relationship and listening to the other's dreams. Outer beauty/handsomeness changes with age, but inner beauty always remains. 🌼
Lately I've been looking for information on how to identify a soulmate or twim flame...? Or what would it mean to me to feel at home with someone else? When they say that meeting the right person feels like coming home.
Thank you, but I have not quite hit middle-age yet. ;) I tend to meet that "twin flame" energy about once every four years. the misery of it is that it is even rarer to find that the energy goes both ways.
Thank you Roy for a thoughtful video 👍. The matrix is falling and we all are going to find our true selves.💖
The Matrix isn't falling - I just rewrote the code ;)
Your pronounciation of pulla deserves a papukaijamerkki
Have a fulfilling path, where ever it leads you.
Life is a grand adventure or nothing at all.
Mukava kuulla, että muillakin keski- ikäisillä on samoja ajatuksia. Tämän ikäisenä on kokenut suurta onnea, mutta myös suurta surua ja pettymyksiä kun elämä e mennyt kuten nuorena ajatteli. Mutta elämällä on meille vielä annettavaa. Jotain spesiaalia tulee kun on valmis siihen!
Kyllä, elämä tarjoaa paljon enemmän, kun olemme valmiita vastaanottamaan. Koputa, niin ovi avataan.
You articulated my feelings and thoughts perfectly there, thank you. I have being processing those things a couple of years now and it has been tough. Now I feel calmer and like I'm more inside my own life, if that makes any sense.. I feel that I have found the right path, my path and that makes me happy, even if it is hard.
Hei Katja. That makes perfect sense. There is little reward in the easy path.
Thank you for the video, I really enjoyed listening your thoughs and your pleasant voice.
Thank you. I have often been told that I have a face for radio. 🤔
@@RoyRissanen I forgot to mention your kind eyes and beautiful English pronunciation. Looking forward to your next video 🙂
Some very deep thoughts here, thank you for sharing. That garden and butterfly metaphor was so beautiful it made me tear up. Wishing you all the best on your journey of life ❤
A good friend was a beautiful violinist; he told me once that the greatest compliment is to see someone tear up when he plays. Thank you. 🤗
So, are you learning to live in the moment, learning to enjoy simple things in life? Finding out who you really are and what you want to do with your life?
Fulfillment is found in challenges and responsibilities. Living in the moment is a fool's game, but I certainly enjoy the simple things.
Ihanaa pohdiskelua ❤ Kaikkea hyvää sinulle, Roy
Kiitos Elina. :)
Very interesting. As somebody who's been through a lot of health issues past decade or so, I don't subsribe to the idea that what we go through somehow refines us as a person. I hate it when people say that it would be boring if everything went well all the time. I would definitely take the boring "average" life over the mostly misery that my life has been.
100% Wishing you all the best, stay healthy, stay strong. 💪😎
@@RoyRissanen Kiitos.
Roy, You've very finnish, kind and melancholic heart 🫶 so You're in right place finally 🇫🇮
Happiness is truly in the little things, mine is just relaxing and having saunaweekend in little saunacottage Pirkanmaa region. Enjoyable autumn everybody! 🍁🍂
Yes, there is a certain happiness in the Finnish melancholic heart that I think is not always easy to understand, by others or ourselves.
There were deep thoughts. I myself have come to the same conclusion. Yes, that beautiful garden is the purpose of life and yes, the right butterfly will find its way there when the time is right. I hope that all your wishes come true in your life.🙏🪄💖
Thank you. 🤗
Your story about butterflyis and garden was mind opening!
Thank you. It's been one of my favorites for awhile.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts 🥰
Thank you for watching. :)
Wise words...
Thank you Kata.
Hello Roy, very good to see you long time. I hope you a good and this Finland country you like. And everythings its okay. Yes, good to see you just. Be Well you and Byee 🙌🌅🙌🍮🍂🍁🌾. And you Son too its good.
Thank you. :)
Your thoughts on life and dreams are relatable to me. I grew up as a strict Christian girl, got married pretty young and had two kids. But me and my partner didn't really fit together at all and we ended up divorcing. Now I'm a divorcee mom of two teenagers, I live in a rental condo, don't own a car etc... many of my dreams didn't come true but I'm realizing maybe the cookie cutter life wasn't for me in the first place. After leaving the cult like church (I'm still a lutheran moderate christian though) I'm still finding out who I am as a person.
It's a long road but you will know you're on the right path when the path disappears.
Wow, thank you for this video!!!
Thank you Annamary.
Better to be alone than in a bad relationship or as we say parempi yksin kuin paskassa parisuhteessa.
I divorced 2013 and i don´t have hurry to have a woman. I rather be alone than compromise anything that even might effect on my happines in a bad way. I almost found perfect woman for me at 2015 but things got compilicated and didn´t work out. Well she is still best thing that has happened to me and we still are friends. But that it didn´t work out as a relationship was more bitter than my divorce. I needed months of time to recover that.
But it is hard after that kind of missed possibility when you´ll be always compairing her to other womans. And everytime you´ll notice that the new one isn´t even near what she was. But better to stay positive and move on. You´ll never know what the life is going to throw to you.
I’ve had the good fortune to know women who left me thinking there’d never be anyone like her-and that’s true... until it’s not.
Itseensä rakastuminen on elinikäisen romanssin alku - Oscar Wilde
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Hienoa kuulla sinusta Roy! Kiva että vielä asut Suomessa. Varmaan puhutkin jo aika sujuvaa Suomea?
Kiitos. Se vie aikaa, mutta suomen kieli paranee
Hi nice to see you again. Have you visit on America, Canada? Where was you from? I have forgot. 😊 At Finland IS living foreing people WHO study on Finland from another country. Maybe you must study on university to find someone to your Life. I am Happy that you find yourself your soul.
No, I have not plans to leave Finland anytime soon. Too much to do and see here.
Still looking hunky, steamy, dreamy daddy 🥰
*blush
Just write a free form journal? Healing is not linear. Also, try short therapy if you feel that would help. (like solution-oriented one). Best of luck! PS: We lack the wisdom when we are young.
The youth is wasted on the young.
Muutit Suomeen jonkun vuoden kesäkuussa. Oliko 2021 vai 2022?
2021 ... time flys
I'd love to know about that podcast you refer to...
His name is James Sexton, I believe it was on the Modern Wisdom or Lex Fridman podcast.
What do you mean by "casualties"?
No matter how much we wish, we can't always be there for others like we should have been at the time. 😞
she is out there and you will meet him eye to eye in someday. it will be like flash on the sky. 🤏
Maybe, maybe not. I'm not worried about that but I hope she's happy.