from boyhood to manhood: the mindset that changed everything

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  • This mindset changed my life forever.. I usually describe videos in the description, but i don't want to spoil it for you.. this video will change your life, let's continue being the Purpose Driven Men that I know we can be. God bless you.
    Become a purpose driven member today:
    / @purposedrivenmen
    To my purpose driven brothers, this channel is for you. My name is Malique, I was born in Miami, and I'm 22 years old. None of that matters though, what matters is that we become 1% better each day and that we stay on our purpose. As I look around in the world many men drift like Napoleon Hill suggests, they drift away from their goals, dreams, and God given purpose. This channel is to help us men become non drifters, in other words help us become purposeful, disciplined, and truly masculine men. Expect multiple uploads a week to help you self improve.
    Connect with me on social media for one on one help @maliquedlewis on instagram/tiktok/X
    OR
    email me forpurposedrivenmen@gmail.com for one on one consultations
    I'm rooting for you brother, let's be great.

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  • @PurposeDrivenMen
    @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +233

    This mindset changed my life forever.. I usually describe videos in the description, but i don't want to spoil it for you.. this video will change your life, let's continue being the Purpose Driven Men that I know we can be. God bless you.
    Become a purpose driven member today: ruclips.net/channel/UCf8gbZ4ZyNcc9WIOOEEfpSQjoin
    To my purpose driven brothers, this channel is for you. My name is Malique, I was born in Miami, and I'm 22 years old. None of that matters though, what matters is that we become 1% better each day and that we stay on our purpose. As I look around in the world many men drift like Napoleon Hill suggests, they drift away from their goals, dreams, and God given purpose. This channel is to help us men become non drifters, in other words help us become purposeful, disciplined, and truly masculine men. Expect multiple uploads a week to help you self improve.
    Connect with me on social media for one on one help @maliquedlewis on instagram/tiktok/X
    OR
    email me forpurposedrivenmen@gmail.com for one on one consultations
    I'm rooting for you brother, let's be great.

    • @user-hr8fe5rs7r
      @user-hr8fe5rs7r Месяц назад +1

      Amen brotha 🙏🏾

    • @tylermitchell8425
      @tylermitchell8425 Месяц назад +6

      aye man love the message, this type of stuff is good for young men everywhere but i would just say while i do agree with not being satisfied of who we are right now. It is also important that we take some time to reflect on how far you have come and be at peace with who you are at this moment. Life is short we may never see our “future”, God forbid so i feel it’s important to give yourself your flowers while you’re here. Be your best supporter and critic

    • @kenyelleadams
      @kenyelleadams Месяц назад

      Keep doing you brother 💯👑🙏

    • @bentleybee3006
      @bentleybee3006 Месяц назад

      Let’s get it god sun ☀️ appreciation to you god peace !!!!💯💯

    • @HR02
      @HR02 3 дня назад +1

      @@tylermitchell8425 bro that so true appareciate live Everyday like if it was your last

  • @luisnunez5017
    @luisnunez5017 Месяц назад +689

    "Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one."
    - Marcus Aurelius

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +14

      Action! 🎬

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +20

      Marcus is one of my favorite philosophers

    • @BusinessWolf1
      @BusinessWolf1 Месяц назад +12

      Yea yea, the problem is he meant that philosophy-wise, he wasn't talking to an international audience of financially disenfranchised young men in one of the most fatherless generations ever who lost THE most formative years of their lives to a worldwide pandemic, in the middle of the stupidest social studies research experiment ever called social media which has caused culture to flip sideways globally in most developed countries, during a mental health crysis that's only getting worse, while also no one's having sex which exacerbates a lot of the issues young men face at all facets.
      Listen, I ain't no doomer, not by a long shot. I'm a realist tilting towards optimist actually. But god damn you can't just ignore ALL that shit I said up there.

    • @plushboii7162
      @plushboii7162 28 дней назад +1

      @@BusinessWolf1 Ain't no words that can fully express where i am from what i just then read up there, though i will stretch myself & say: Unapologetically & Worldly ingored Truce

  • @muhammad1604
    @muhammad1604 Месяц назад +1062

    “As a man, your biggest motivation is your future”. That statement hit deep because it’s so true for me. There’s light at the end of the tunnel just keep at it brothers

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +25

      I agree 100%! That light is there we just have to believe in ourselves. Thank you for sharing that quote with the brotherhood 💯

    • @watersv1072
      @watersv1072 Месяц назад +1

      ts cap

    • @imsae8435
      @imsae8435 Месяц назад +3

      @@watersv1072ong always talking about “light” nah bruh you just learn to live with it

    • @MarshawnDixon
      @MarshawnDixon Месяц назад

      @@PurposeDrivenMen Thanks man, I be needing videos like this🙏🏾

    • @Prof.Dr.Markus-Ruehl
      @Prof.Dr.Markus-Ruehl Месяц назад

      You accept and get stronger. Mistakes are here to be done but the question is if you learn out of it and get better​ @@imsae8435

  • @alando3193
    @alando3193 29 дней назад +379

    Leaving my comment here so that every likes can bring me back here and remind myself

  • @cadeneasley3293
    @cadeneasley3293 Месяц назад +499

    May the person watching this be surrounded by positive energy. God bless our souls.

  • @YTNCrew
    @YTNCrew Месяц назад +280

    “As a man only childish thing I’m still holding onto is my dreams “ shi hit fr

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +8

      Facts!! 💯💯 never lose that

    • @kekelp5516
      @kekelp5516 Месяц назад +3

      That hit deep

    • @MrDabkk
      @MrDabkk 18 дней назад +2

      “As a man the only childish thing I’m still holding onto is my dreams”

    • @Dreazzyy
      @Dreazzyy 16 дней назад +1

      Facts remembering that “little me” is still watching & seeing if you stick to your word 💯

    • @Fuzionspeaker
      @Fuzionspeaker День назад

      Dreams are imaginary make the dream a goal

  • @dujoin.
    @dujoin. 18 дней назад +64

    23 years old (currently) when I realized I needed to be a man. Jumping job to job since 18. Living check to check at my parents house where I wasn’t charged rent so no real pressure on me. Driving the car my parents gave me, then when the insurance ran out I just drove my girls car. Then Living at my girls house for half a year. I one day looked at myself in the mirror & realized I was a loser. I got me a legit career job in sales and told myself ima get a car and my own place. That was 2 months ago. I just got my new car. Apartment is next.

  • @lukaslutolli9439
    @lukaslutolli9439 Месяц назад +126

    No cuts, no acting just talking straight from the heart. love to see there's still good people.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +5

      Yessir! Thank you brother 🙏🏽 I’ll always talk from the heart

  • @platosfavoritestudent6509
    @platosfavoritestudent6509 Месяц назад +239

    We need more like you. Not just black men or white men. Not just Christian men or theist men. We need GOOD men. Men who understand the fact that every circumstance is different, and that at the end of the day, no matter your roots, race, or religion, a man makes himself, and a man is only as good as his word and manners. How he treats others is simply a reflection of the man.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +24

      This is facts! every single word I couldn’t agree more. 🙏🏽 I’m grateful to be in this position and I hope to inspire more people and share this wisdom of God. Every situation is different, we all just need to make sure we’re never giving up and we’re all moving forward someway somehow. Thank you for your support. May God bless you.

    • @Twizzyjr
      @Twizzyjr Месяц назад +6

      a REAL Christian man IS a good man

    • @jedddaruwalla6971
      @jedddaruwalla6971 Месяц назад +5

      Good point. Just because you follow a certain religion or culture does not mean you are a critical thinker. You have to figure things out for yourself and your own situation

    • @platosfavoritestudent6509
      @platosfavoritestudent6509 Месяц назад +2

      @@Twizzyjr and a REAL atheist man can also be a good man, you clearly missed the point of the comment. A man is not determined by where he came from or what God he chooses to follow, but would instead be better judged solely on content of his character.

    • @TTTrea
      @TTTrea 18 дней назад +2

      @@platosfavoritestudent6509 he didn’t say they couldn’t

  • @guilhermeferraz9960
    @guilhermeferraz9960 25 дней назад +75

    I'm 20 years old, I'm Brazilian and i live in ireland, i took up residence in this country 6 months ago, I've been through a lot, i have seen a lot, i have learned a lot, but there's still a long way to go, i lost my job and i don't have money to pay rent, but nobody cares, nobody cares because everyone's got their own problems, watching this video made me realize that, watching this video made me realized that I'm still a boy, but it's time to man up, I'm going to make it, I'm going to thrive and be happy, so will you, so will us all. Thank you everyone who took the time to read this! Wish me luck on my journey

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  25 дней назад +2

      Time to man up! You got this brother you got the right mindset I’m proud of you. 💪🏽

    • @jaswazhere7679
      @jaswazhere7679 19 дней назад +2

      Wish u the best in all endeavors

    • @Fransbk
      @Fransbk 13 дней назад

      Good luck bro, make it happen

  • @DavidG_fx
    @DavidG_fx Месяц назад +64

    I realised i was a man when I was 20, I realised that no one is going to rescue me, one of the loneliest days of my life, but at the same time one of the real ones. Thanks for doing this videos dog, keep preaching the word, respect.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  29 дней назад +1

      Facts! We gotta put the work in ourselves. I believe in you bro, let’s keep working 🙌🏽

  • @nxrn4271
    @nxrn4271 29 дней назад +42

    “the you of tomorrow is watching”

  • @woahdaniel
    @woahdaniel Месяц назад +195

    I’m 25 man and this shit is speaking to me. Can’t tell you how many times I fell down the dark path, and came back. I’m finding myself listening to this and I’m seeing hope again. I have a purpose, and it’s to better myself to be the best man possible

    • @D.Dancer999
      @D.Dancer999 Месяц назад +19

      I’m 26 and totally lost 😞 any help I don’t have any purpose and I’m tired of being where I’m at

    • @woahdaniel
      @woahdaniel Месяц назад +24

      @@D.Dancer999 sometimes we have to create our own purpose. Life is too short to try and make sure everything is perfect. I think you need to look within and stop looking outward, you’ve seen this video and probably countless others, now it’s time to make real changes in your life
      You gotta change your habits in order to change your life

    • @D.Dancer999
      @D.Dancer999 Месяц назад +5

      @@woahdaniel thanks for this I’m not just reading it I’m listening and soaking it in

    • @doggydolittle1698
      @doggydolittle1698 Месяц назад +1

      Im 25 as well one thing that helped me turn things around 180 was faith in god if ur not a beliver then i highly suggest looking for a relationship with our creator ​@D.Dancer999

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +6

      Follow that purpose! It’s your light and the light never left you that’s why you can enter the darkness and make it back out to the light, because you are the light brother. I believe in you.

  • @youngsterdart9236
    @youngsterdart9236 Месяц назад +24

    “If we taking care of everybody else, but we never take care of ourselves, then nothing really gets done”

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +1

      Facts! Cant pour from an empty cup. You got this fam 💯

  • @scottfleming38
    @scottfleming38 Месяц назад +166

    everyday on the stairmaster listening to this. this is my motivation, my affirmation for the day. there will never be another may 3, 2024. thank you bro

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +13

      The only May 3rd, we gotta make everyday count! Stairmaster is no joke! 🔥 keep going fam 💪🏽

  • @Obiiiyk
    @Obiiiyk Месяц назад +69

    I’m 20 and been smoking for the past 3 years daily, commenting this to manifest my change. Time to level up and chases the future, time to take responsibility, time to become a man.

    • @luismello1158
      @luismello1158 Месяц назад +8

      Quitting smoking is hard but i managed to get out of that vicious cycle, sometimes i relapse but it is alright due to the fact that i smoke once a week or so socially ( talking about weed btw). Everything is a process, trust the process

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +2

      Let’s goo!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @BusinessWolf1
      @BusinessWolf1 Месяц назад +6

      Quitting smoking is a skill. It starts with extreme mindfulness and ends in acceptance and learning the amount of discomfort that an identity shift takes. Eventually you'll reach a point where you don't give a shit if you smoke or not because you do it once a year. And that's when the camel's back breaks because you just start saying no to those and boom. You never even noticed the crossing point where you stopped for good.

    • @MylesBroadous-qx5ji
      @MylesBroadous-qx5ji Месяц назад

      was right where you are at 20 and within a year I’ve 180d. Haven’t smoked in 6 months and it’s life changing. people gonna tell you the negatives of weed and try to make you run from it, but think about how much you could elevate without it. no brain fog, no straining anxiety, daily motivation, connection with your purpose. best way i know is to rip it like a bandaid. throw it all away. the pipe, the bong, the papers, the grinder. force yourself to say no every time it’s offered before you have a chance to think about it. and even more important, fill that time with things that help you grow: gym, hikes, books, 2nd job, school. or else it gets filled with things that drown you: alcohol, sex, social media. you got this brother keep going

    • @elvisdumervill8328
      @elvisdumervill8328 Месяц назад +3

      Same. It's not an easy habit to kick, it has taken so much of my time but I can't have regrets. I'm on my first day and I will update my progress right here in this thread

  • @yafetbizuneh3057
    @yafetbizuneh3057 Месяц назад +31

    Mehn I don’t normally write comments on RUclips especially about my feelings but truthfully I hate my self so much. Growing up I was a very ambitious person, I was so driven. I always planned out my future, my dream physique, my business… I was a hussler but I always failed to stick to my plan. I lack consistency and discipline. Now I found my self at my lowest drained in regrets. I’m turning 22 in 4 months and i am at my lowest point financially mentally physically…let alone be where I want to be. It hurts!
    To whomever seeing this, please stick to your plans. Please be active. Please work on your goals. Cause trust me it hurts. Don’t fall for temptation please boys. Trust me, let my life be a lesson for you all!

    • @alo7482
      @alo7482 Месяц назад +3

      Im in the same boat man. My vision is so blurred. Im stuck smoking everyday stuck in a cycle. working 9-5 monotony. sometimes i wake up with no purpose no drive and negative feelings.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      You’re not alone brother, keep going! You’re young and you got the right mindset now, it’s your time! 🙏🏽

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      Love the honesty bro, keep stepping and never give up!

    • @lukagraf2623
      @lukagraf2623 28 дней назад +2

      Wejoow I’m in the same boat guys. I resonate so much with your stories. Get to know Jesus guys, it will transform your life and addictions. Love y’all ❤

  • @cosmic3969
    @cosmic3969 Месяц назад +94

    im 18 took a year of age after I finished school bro i live with my mother and she is the provider in the family I came across this video, never had my father in my life like that but that aint no excuse, thank you for this video and opening my eyes to the world ive been lost but everything u said is truth nobody really cares until you becoming something thank you bro for opening my eyes i have to becoming a man for my future children.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +5

      Just like you said bro do it for your future kids! Let that motivate you. I’m proud of your mindset brother you definitely understood the message. Let’s keep getting better 📈💯

    • @awsomedre26
      @awsomedre26 Месяц назад

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @TiredCitizen
      @TiredCitizen 28 дней назад

      Same here bro, stay Strong 🤍

  • @LatchedLungs
    @LatchedLungs 26 дней назад +11

    I'm 35 and I've been living like a child for too long not taking proper responsibility for myself. I needed this video, respect.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  25 дней назад +1

      Respect to you bro, it’s only up from here 📈💪🏽

    • @Blkmamba757
      @Blkmamba757 4 дня назад

      I'm 34 and feel the same brother, we got this

  • @BlackPositivityChallenge
    @BlackPositivityChallenge 24 дня назад +15

    POSITIVE MASCULINITY!!💪🏾
    Im rooting for every man watching this. 🖤💞

  • @bri4n607
    @bri4n607 23 дня назад +6

    I’m 19 and keep having problems with finding purpose and keep falling into bad habits and decisions. Today I reached a breaking point and stumbled across this video. Man you are right on every single account. I kept playing victim and was avoiding accountability. Thank you. This video hit me right where it needed to. Need more guys like you preaching the truth. I know a lot of other people watching this video feel the same way.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  22 дня назад

      Thank you a lot brother. I’m proud of you for taking that step to being accountable, it’s only up from here. I believe in you. 🙏🏽

  • @solocentral9865
    @solocentral9865 11 дней назад +3

    I've started business from a very young age (16) I've had successful businesses that made thousands in profit every month, but I've also made some really stupid mistakes, poor investments etc. I've lost everything and then fought to make it back, again and again. But I've still kept fighting for a better future for myself and my family.
    I've poured every single last cent, blood and tears into my businesses...
    Sometimes i just ask myself how different would life be if I just worked a normal job and saved up. I've worked so hard and made so much sacrifices, yet have so little to show for. Life is tough as a man. I'm currently 21 this year and I really hope things can change for the better.
    If you're reading this and you're on the road to a better future, then i pray things get easy for you and that you make it! God bless!

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  11 дней назад

      God bless you brother! Thank you for sharing this, I know things will get better GodsPlan! 💪🏽🙏🏽

  • @ElusivEnigma
    @ElusivEnigma Месяц назад +13

    As a late bloomer facing reality checks everyday, this shit hits heavy. Raised by women that repelled men that were trying to guide me. Finally found my words to say enough is enough.... have myself a 15yrs window

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +3

      Enough is definitely enough! Let God lead you instead even if it’s just him and him alone leading you. You two can and will figure this thing called life out. I believe in you and I’m grateful my videos can help 🙏🏽

  • @Akhona3112
    @Akhona3112 Месяц назад +36

    "It's Yaweh and your way"❤.

  • @selldrudd8886
    @selldrudd8886 23 дня назад +7

    "No one's going to tap you on the shoulder and tell you, 'Let's Go'" if you know you know but I felt that

  • @user-jg4wz3qo6b
    @user-jg4wz3qo6b Месяц назад +35

    Bro is testosterone 🔥🔥🔥😤

  • @hescornbread
    @hescornbread 9 дней назад +1

    I don't care how old u are. If you are five years old and can comprehend anything from this video don't take it for granted. It took a man yo even speak on this let alone record and upload it. Bro literally a profit right now and right on time frfr.. every male in the word needs to hear this today! Pass this around...

  • @QuaiChandler-nn5du
    @QuaiChandler-nn5du Месяц назад +10

    YOU ARE ALLOWED TO DO WHATEVER YOU WANT TO DO!!! NOT IN THE NEGATIVE WAY (ATTENTION SEEKING) BUT IN THE POSITIVE WAY (CREATION)

  • @Path_to_becoming_HIM
    @Path_to_becoming_HIM 28 дней назад +8

    4 months ago I lost my grandma.
    3 months ago I lost my father.
    2 months ago my daughter was born.
    I was so confident in anticipating my child and welcome her into the world knowing that I had a great family to support my journey of fatherhood. but then it all happened. I was hit with a reality check that nothing lasts forever. And that eventually I will have to bear it all.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  28 дней назад +3

      I’m sorry for your loss brother and I’m happy for your gain, God bless you bro, you’re going to be a great dad. 🙏🏽

    • @nathantrujillo2195
      @nathantrujillo2195 25 дней назад

      I feel you brother. I lost one of my grandmas 3 months ago and last month my second child was born. These realities hit me even before all this happened. Keep moving we got this. Blessings brother

  • @treyclervi7686
    @treyclervi7686 8 дней назад +2

    “Time alone allows you to find god, and discover who he is” Kevin levrone

  • @AsaJak69420
    @AsaJak69420 Месяц назад +9

    I always blamed my Dad for not being there, I just turned 21 this year and nothing changed since last year the emptiness, the Loneliness all of it stayed the same. I need change and I need to be that change, this is exactly the Reality check I needed, Now it's up to me to make a difference in my life. Thank you Brother❤️

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +2

      You got this brother it’s time to heal and evolve . ❤️🙏🏽

  • @scopiion
    @scopiion Месяц назад +7

    This man is one of the only men,who is being genuine with their content

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      I appreciate that a lot, I’ll always keep it genuine and real! 🙏🏽 thank you for your support

  • @estonsman4566
    @estonsman4566 12 дней назад +1

    Don't take it weirdly, but you are the wisest black man I have ever heard.

  • @ALCEU1
    @ALCEU1 Месяц назад +17

    wise words man, thank u. I'm 27 yrs old and yet I dont feel like a man even though I have a job where I am the leader of a big team, live by myself in a good rented house, but I gotta tell y'all, being a man is a lot more than just being able to support yourself. The most important part is being able to take accountability of the mistakes you make, and then grow from it, being able to be disciplined and a lot more. I know I'm not there yet and none of you need to put an act of being a man. That are A LOT of 30 + yrs old that doesnt feel like they are real men cause it is not just about materialistic things, everybody can get money. Im trying to work on myself to be able to mature within myself so I can help my parents and my brothers and I feel that this is a long jorney that isnt defined by age. btw I feel happy that you are only 22 and already feel like that, our community lacks so much of this, most of us grew without fathers cause they were'nt real men.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +6

      Everything you said.. was 100% FACTS. Thank you for sharing this with the brotherhood I hope they take the time to read it and understand it. It’s all about accountability, manhood has a lot to do with the character development of who you are. The materialistic things or money only amplifies what you already are. 🙏🏽

  • @pacoboyd4977
    @pacoboyd4977 Месяц назад +16

    With this mindset at your age you’re going to go very very far in life. Keep going man

  • @whatAYE
    @whatAYE 20 дней назад +6

    Our purpose in this life is to worship God.

  • @tesrevenge8027
    @tesrevenge8027 15 дней назад +1

    I’m 18 man, I just moved from South Africa to the UK alone. It’s never felt so lonely man, taking care of myself and adjusting. But ima keep pushing cause if I don’t who will for me

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  14 дней назад

      Keep pushing bro I believe in you 🙏🏽 one step at a time 📈

  • @DizzleEdits
    @DizzleEdits 4 дня назад

    What I've come to understand of growing up is: you have to do the thing you have to do, not the things you want to do

  • @Nunu-py2ng
    @Nunu-py2ng Месяц назад +20

    6:23 “when you become somebody which you already are all you doing is stepping into your greatness” this stuck out and hit not every other day you here this, i just turned 20 yrs old two days ago so this is definitely a video that i needed to see this so thank you

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +4

      You got the message bro! We’re already great we just gotta believe in ourselves and step into it. Happy belated birthday! With this mindset the world is yours! 🙏🏽

  • @ShauninaV
    @ShauninaV 3 часа назад

    Im 22 years old, today is father’s day. I am not the young man my son can be proud of but I’m trying. Im going to actually change. Keep my word.

  • @Wessim_
    @Wessim_ 25 дней назад +5

    “Part of being a man is figuring it out” Daamn you gave me goosebumps brother ❤️

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  25 дней назад

      🙏🏽❤️ daily progress! Thank you brother

  • @yaya_beatz8271
    @yaya_beatz8271 4 дня назад +1

    This video have re-awaken my midset of leaving boyhood and I pray God strengthen and direct my next step as I strive into becoming a Man. No Dad, mommy got 7 and I'm the second! God I'm ready to step up mehn. Bro your words have power fr I'm bless by this

  • @angelinajade8797
    @angelinajade8797 3 дня назад +1

    I’m not a man, but this message is absolutely beautiful and healthy. Keep it up this shi is genuinely inspiring

    • @DamnFringe
      @DamnFringe 3 дня назад +1

      u a special kinda woman to go out your way watch this for us men 🫶🏼

  • @AccountHolder007
    @AccountHolder007 Месяц назад +6

    Thing is, part of going from being a boy to a man, is also becoming THE man for those around you... It's that part that's difficult, and often you can't simply do what you want to do.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      Facts! Gotta take care of those around you 🙏🏽

  • @jvalid2759
    @jvalid2759 Месяц назад +7

    One thing I learned and this came from my aunt a female and this isn’t just for men, but every adult needs to have a daily routine that includes goals and responsibilities to meet !

  • @rabrandconnections333
    @rabrandconnections333 8 дней назад +1

    Thank you brother!

  • @Alive_Silence
    @Alive_Silence 5 дней назад +1

    Thank You for this!

  • @justdiego3745
    @justdiego3745 Месяц назад +3

    We gotta choose which struggles we're willing to go through fr. Thank you for the talk man we're all gonna climb up this life💯

  • @lollogovs
    @lollogovs Месяц назад +3

    Bro you sended me the right vibes to go through life thanks ❤

  • @raylyricalmusic
    @raylyricalmusic День назад

    Grateful to find this channel 🙏🏾❤

  • @bernardsantos1776
    @bernardsantos1776 8 дней назад +1

    Thank you bro.

  • @OneilClarke-oc
    @OneilClarke-oc Месяц назад +7

    Seeing this a week before my 21st birthday. Been through so much and not sure what my path is… you’ve made me realise I have to create it and show up everyday. I have to turn it all around.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +1

      You got this bro, this is going to be the best year of your life 🙏🏽 you got the right mindset now. Take it day by day, show up each day for yourself and your goals, I believe in you

  • @MrFuturisticFunk
    @MrFuturisticFunk Месяц назад +3

    Up in the mountains in my head. Needed this man

  • @CLE619
    @CLE619 9 дней назад +1

    Pain into purposeful passion!
    Well said.
    The journey from prince to emperor with the guidance and instruction from The Most High!

  • @ripkobe248
    @ripkobe248 Месяц назад +2

    Thank u for this

  • @denalinmccall5632
    @denalinmccall5632 Месяц назад +3

    First time I ever commented on a RUclips video and let me say that I never thought somebody really could speak on what I think. Great words brotha, stay strong n go make it happen 💯

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      Means a lot brother! Thank you for giving this video a chance, I appreciate your support and I’ll continue to provide value 🙏🏽

  • @dylansebastiani7438
    @dylansebastiani7438 Месяц назад +3

    I need more friends like you bro. Love the mindset. This real fucking shit thru and thru.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      Appreciate that a lot fam! It’s not easy to find like minded brothers so I’m grateful for the purpose driven men community. Thank you for watching and being part of the brotherhood 🙏🏽

  • @dreamchasingtv8531
    @dreamchasingtv8531 7 дней назад +1

    Dam man we really getting to watch u grow I remember when u had like 2,000 subscribers

  • @gusgus7400
    @gusgus7400 Месяц назад +1

    I’ve been watching your videos lately and all I can say is thank you, this is what I need to hear to be heading down the right path in life…a lot can learn from you

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you brother that means a lot I’m glad my videos have been helping!

  • @wfug
    @wfug Месяц назад +3

    I’m 22 too, just graduated college and i’m going through the similar changes.
    Thank you for sharing your perspective, it is a real feeling.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      It definitely is real, I know you’ll continue to do great things brother. Congratulations on graduating! 🙏🏽

  • @Nzlk
    @Nzlk Месяц назад +4

    Great vid brotha this brought tears to my eyes. Keep doin u. Stay blessed. Thanks for the guidance

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +1

      That means a lot fam, this vid hit hard for me too, it wasn’t easy to make but it had to be made. Let’s keep being the best we can be, stay blessed as well. I believe in you family, always 🙏🏽

  • @animation_walk
    @animation_walk 4 дня назад +1

    more than a constant reminder ... best life briefing ever ...

  • @swaggyk4626
    @swaggyk4626 16 дней назад +3

    Honestly this hit hard, I turned 20 in january and i still feel as though i have a boy mindset. I wake up late and spend my day being lazy because i still live at home while i go to college and just go to class. I feel as though i’m behind everyone else around me. I see all of these people being successful around the same age as me and at times i feel sad cuz i’m like damn man, why can’t i be like them. But this video made me realize, it’s not up to others to form who i will become. It’s time for me to take action and just man the fuck up. Honestly dude, this made me realize i need to focus on myself, be more disciplined, continue with school and get an internship soon. It’s time to form my own life and future, i appreciate you for opening my eyes man. The timing on this is insane too since i just got out of a relationship and have been lazy since. Take care everyone, i hope we can all continue to man up and stay disciplined 🫡

    • @gueja
      @gueja 16 дней назад +2

      I'm 21 and until recently I was the same, we can do whatever we want with our lives and become whoever we want so lets take the action now

    • @swaggyk4626
      @swaggyk4626 15 дней назад +1

      @@gueja thanks man, I needed to hear this. Although I know it's hard, I know I can become who I want and I just need to focus up and ignore all the hate/lazy attitude and just go get, I appreciate it man.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  14 дней назад +1

      You got this brother, your time is now! One step at a time brother 🙏🏽

  • @dolo_dul
    @dolo_dul Месяц назад +2

    i appreciate this bro fr im not even halfway through the vid and its hitting me hard i really appreciate this man

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      So glad to hear that bro I’ll continue to make vids like this in the future 🙏🏽💯

  • @Javien
    @Javien 26 дней назад +6

    God gave this man a message to speak! God loves you if your reading this.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  25 дней назад +2

      God loves you too thank you for watching fam! 🙏🏽

  • @marcelomacaza1761
    @marcelomacaza1761 Месяц назад +3

    Bro god just recommended this video to me I have been praying for Answer
    Thank you
    😭😭🙏❤

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      I believe in you brother God bless you 🙏🏽❤️

  • @noodledealer7447
    @noodledealer7447 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for this video, needed to hear this fr! ❤️

  • @surrealgee
    @surrealgee Месяц назад +1

    Very appreciated. Thanks for the energy young king!

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      Thank you for the support! Keeps me
      going! 🙏🏽

  • @palmersandeno
    @palmersandeno Месяц назад +6

    Totally recommend for anyone watching this to read "Iron John" by Robert Bly. Good resource for maturing into manhood. Thanks for the video, Malique.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you for the recommendation fam! Glad you enjoyed the video

  • @mgwent3871
    @mgwent3871 Месяц назад +3

    “As a man you got to think for yourself, yeah you gotta think for yourself..” not even Isaac newton on this level of thinking for real💯

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      Too much people let the world think for them, we gotta be the one in the drivers seat 💯

  • @GrimReaper369.
    @GrimReaper369. Месяц назад +1

    Thank you so much for these words of wisdom brother! I appreciate them with all my heart. Specially because I don’t have anybody else to tell me stuff like this !

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +1

      You’re very welcome bro, this is what I do it for. I remember when I didn’t have much people telling me these things either. I had to make a video like this, we gotta share the wisdom we know 💎🙏🏽

  • @AlexCereal
    @AlexCereal 3 дня назад +1

    I feel like I came across this channel at the perfect time in my life🙌🏽

    • @DamnFringe
      @DamnFringe 3 дня назад

      thank you jesus what i say 🫶🏼🙏🏼

  • @Zbrxh
    @Zbrxh Месяц назад +8

    Needed to hear this. How do you remind yourself to not look outward? To not complain, maintain your own mental and just push?

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +3

      You said it brother. Maintain your mental and push. Nothing else matters if you don’t focus on yourself and prioritize yourself. You gotta fill up your own cup first before you can pour into anything or anybody else. Lock in on how you can self improve. Lock in on you!

  • @player6165
    @player6165 Месяц назад +3

    the goal is to inspire cause at the end of the day it aint a single one gon change the world. It’s all of us

  • @NoLiMiTSwErVoty
    @NoLiMiTSwErVoty 6 дней назад +1

    Needed this man ‼️‼️

  • @lrichu21
    @lrichu21 Месяц назад +1

    Much Love My G. Needed to hear this✊🏿

  • @ravipahlevi
    @ravipahlevi Месяц назад +12

    Man this hit hard. Im 26 just been me and my brother and mum. I had to be an adult by like 12 years old. Me and my broski were able to be able to retire mum close to about 10 years now. We are no where near above average. But man we went through some trials and hardship. I just know that when things turn into fruition it will taste so good. All the sacrifices and risk Made willball make sense. However, it feels like im running out of fuel. Its been so long, growing up so young. I just wanna enjoy the little moments i had when i was a kid. But, this is the difference. Its break or make.
    I remeber a comment i saw on IG, and it stuck by me.
    No risk. No rarri.
    Chase that feeling fellas.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      No risk no rarri!! 🔥 appreciate your comment bro

  • @JBWalk
    @JBWalk Месяц назад +11

    facts im 24 i realized it late but not too late you cant blame nobody else for your situation but yourself

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +1

      Facts bro with accountability we’re able to make solutions and create a better life 💯💯

    • @fugopychotka7560
      @fugopychotka7560 Месяц назад

      No, if you get to age of 18 messed up by past its not fault having problems to resocialize

  • @l0bsterk1ng
    @l0bsterk1ng Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for this video. I've been thinking about future and what I need to do to become my best self .

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +1

      That’s the right mindset. Now think about what your future self is doing, how your future self thinks, talks, walks, what your future self’s morning routine is. And slowly but surely incorporate those things into your daily life. 🙏🏽
      You got this 💯

  • @justinthematrix
    @justinthematrix Месяц назад +1

    Thank you bro for puttin me on game. Glad i found your channel

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      Glad you found it brother! Let’s keep leveling up 📈🙏🏽

  • @JM-dk4ec
    @JM-dk4ec Месяц назад +3

    True man I just turned 25 last month and I moved across the country from NYC to LA by myself on the same week it was my Birthday for my dream job. It’s been a hard transition because I left all my friends and family behind for the pursue of my dream career and future. I think long term I made the right decision but I miss my friends and is hard to build a new circle of friends and I hope I can build that here in Los Angeles, and I’m also single which makes it hard 😢.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +1

      You’re focused on your purpose ! You’re doing the right thing. Just make sure you connect with your family. Don’t neglect them! I believe in you 🙏🏽

    • @JM-dk4ec
      @JM-dk4ec Месяц назад +1

      @@PurposeDrivenMen thank you for the words brother I really appreciate it, it’s been a tough transition and everyday im trying to figure it out. Is a hard process and took a long time to get to this point, hopefully one day I can look back and say this was worth it 🙏🏼. I know for a fact I can rest in peace knowing I tried.

  • @skylord3980
    @skylord3980 Месяц назад +4

    Appreciate the video. Also I like the music choice this time. I think it’s definitely better to have calming relaxing emotional music on the types of videos that you do because it helps bring the message forward a little better. Compared to the intense music you used to have.❤

    • @seeyouontheothersider5189
      @seeyouontheothersider5189 Месяц назад +1

      I agree very much

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you brother I’ll definitely be using this type of music moving forward I believe it’s peaceful and allows for my words to truly be heard and felt. Thank you again! 🙏🏽

  • @ebushyy9974
    @ebushyy9974 Месяц назад +1

    Man…. I needed this one today. I appreciate you and your guidance🧡✌🏽

  • @khalidtkrebs7610
    @khalidtkrebs7610 Месяц назад +1

    really good videos man.i watched the whole thing through and you really opened my eyes. thank you🙏

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      So glad this video can help, it’s for us to be the best we can be. I believe in you 💯

  • @Alz16243
    @Alz16243 Месяц назад +4

    19 minutes and 20 seconds of fax, the so called men around me need to hear this

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +2

      Facts! 💯💯 thank you for watching brother

  • @lIlIIIlllllll
    @lIlIIIlllllll Месяц назад +6

    Thank you I needed this I’m 23 and I’m just now started realizing my purpose. Been really lost for these couple years. Sinning and taking accountability for my mistakes n learning

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      You got this, that’s step one and the most important step. I believe in you 🙏🏽 📈

  • @JordanDrydenB
    @JordanDrydenB Месяц назад +1

    Appreciate your time & content brother. This deeply resonated with me

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      So glad it resonated brother, keep being the purpose driven man you are. 🙏🏽

  • @gunzobeats
    @gunzobeats Месяц назад +1

    I really feel your meesage bruh. Gotta focus more on ourselves. Thank you so much for sharing this. Subbed

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +1

      You got this bro, grateful for the sub 🙏🏽

  • @AnthonyGaurana
    @AnthonyGaurana Месяц назад +4

    Malik bro, needed this reminder. Why everyday we need to be better than who we use to be, drop the childish, toxic, arrogant ways. At least for me. Appreciate this mannn🤞🏼

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      Facts!! Appreciate you for watching bro glad this vid can help 🙏🏽

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      Let’s keep winning Anthony. It’s only the beginning 📈

  • @zlievanzar
    @zlievanzar Месяц назад +9

    turned 18 3 months ago struggling i hope i get to see this comment after years and see how my life changed

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      It definitely will change bro! It believe in you 🙏🏽

  • @ThingsWithKJ
    @ThingsWithKJ 11 часов назад

    I just stumbled upon this video and it has changed my entire world view. Thanks bro

  • @cr6nk
    @cr6nk 2 дня назад

    Thank you for taking your time to inspire us. I feel like you are the older brother I never had giving me real life advice. I'm figuring it out!

  • @sergio-pq6rm
    @sergio-pq6rm Месяц назад +7

    that bee flying next to u is a signs that your energy is positive they buzz at a love frequency and u producing it just wanted to say that brody and thankyou for your words of wisdom

  • @aceacesoulgaming8152
    @aceacesoulgaming8152 Месяц назад +3

    What this generation lost is the experience crazy to think a lot of men start fresh when others hade fathers teach since 4 but that’s life we need change gang

  • @gentlyweepx
    @gentlyweepx 20 дней назад +2

    thankyou for this man! this video came at the right time

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  19 дней назад

      Glad it helped fam 💪🏽 it’s on you now, run with it. You got this

  • @Nate-wn1lk
    @Nate-wn1lk Месяц назад +1

    love this bro thank you for this kind of reflection.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +1

      I’ll definitely do more like this in the future. Thank you for watching 🙏🏽

  • @GhostOfJaumell
    @GhostOfJaumell Месяц назад +4

    I’m 19 got into the trades young and now I live in my own place pay my own bills and working on getting a car (hopefully impala ss) while I’m blessed I found what path I wanna go in life i can’t shake this feeling of not being n adult yet

    • @GhostOfJaumell
      @GhostOfJaumell Месяц назад +2

      Like I’m progressing in life but ion feel anymore wiser

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад +1

      You’re doing great brother wow, don’t be too hard on yourself. Know that the greatest teacher of life is life it self. And what I would say to do is to reflect on the good/bad things that have happened in life and figure out a way to make new insights on what happened and what you can learn from those things.
      Do the same thing for the present moment. As you live life day by day there are hidden lessons and opportunities to grow wise.
      I believe in you brother. You got this.

    • @solostepping3993
      @solostepping3993 Месяц назад

      Can you still live off trading today?

    • @GhostOfJaumell
      @GhostOfJaumell Месяц назад

      @@solostepping3993 trades as in construction and shi

  • @user-lp1so9ht1e
    @user-lp1so9ht1e Месяц назад +1

    You preaching to me today. This is good 🙏🏽

  • @JON_JON9
    @JON_JON9 7 дней назад +1

    You have a great mind keep going young brother

  • @carminica2846
    @carminica2846 Месяц назад +1

    Appreciate this video bro even know we the same age it’s nice to see people out there with the same ideologies. Need more people like this 🙏🏼

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  Месяц назад

      I appreciate that fam! It definitely is nice to see like minded people 🙏🏽 that’s what I’m trying to do here, build a purpose driven community. Glad to have you part of it 💯