a man who lacks purpose distracts himself with pleasure
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- Опубликовано: 23 янв 2025
- theres a purpose driven man and a pleasure driven man, you decide who you want to be, lets lock in brothers I believe in us.
To my purpose driven brothers, this channel is for you. My name is Malique, I was born in Miami, and I'm 22 years old. None of that matters though, what matters is that we become 1% better each day and that we stay on our purpose. As I look around in the world many men drift like Napoleon Hill suggests, they drift away from their goals, dreams, and God given purpose. This channel is to help us men become non drifters, in other words help us become purposeful, disciplined, and truly masculine men. Expect multiple uploads a week to help you self improve.
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I'm rooting for you brother, let's be great.
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theres a purpose driven man and a pleasure driven man, you decide who you want to be, lets lock in brothers I believe in us.
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How do you feel about a man who casually smokes weed. Is that temptation? Or a coping mechanism
I think both. If he fixed his environment and mind and chose to become stronger he will not need a coping mechanism. If he worked on his self and created a system where he knows what to do when he gets a temptation. The Temptations will become weaker and disappear. Good luck brothers
Thanks, I am a Christian and I learned so much from your vlog that I subscribed.
I just wanted to say I appreciate you taking time out of your day to make everyone else’s day better. These videos have helped me go over that hump, things like going to the gym, career development, and finding my relationship with the lord. Thank you bro 💪
Thank you for giving the videos a chance man, I can only thank God for the community we’ve built. Thank you for supporting brother, thank you truly 🙏🏽
I watch your videos each time I feel
Off. I ended up jogging around outside. More motivated to go to work and balance everything. Thanks for everything you do sir.
“How you having fun and yo mama struggling to pay bills”💎💯💯
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my main principles in life
1. know when the time to start working. During those hours, work 100% and don't get distracted
2. know when the time you're allowed to unwind and relax. During those hours, enjoy activities that nourishes your soul and don't ruminate.
3. don't sleep late
4. don't jack off. that's your lover's duty. so maybe put that energy into finding a lover instead
5. exercise everyday. lift weights or just take a short jog.
6. read books instead of scrolling social media. hell, even a 150 page novel is good.
7. make a lot of money and save a lot of it.
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If a man or woman like you became President and preached what you did, maybe it would be heard by the nation
"People chase pleasures because they are empty"
But these pleasures are so easy to do
I miss those old PSA's telling me to go outside and save water, and dance, and be kind to others
Man...
Thank you for making these
I try to watch your channel everyday
It helps
When a person can’t find a deep sense of meaning , they distract themselves with pleasure - Viktor Frankl
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Thank you man of God For Purpose Driven Men your videos are a blessing ❤
ik this may sound like an excuse but im really sorry for relapsing over my momentary pleasures yk, since 2-3 days. lonliness and that crave to have someone loving by your side is so strong and i keep failing to deal w it. also sorry that i stumbled upon this video late or else i couldve made it out today, but im not loosing hope. i wont try but i WILL take purpose over simple pleasures now. i didnt have any place to vent this out so im writing it here....having all the purpose driven men around me. MY brother please dont ever stop posting these vids....sometimes its all i need. Love everyone of yall
Keep going brother
Only one thing to do.. bounce back and keep stepping. Dont ever stop stepping. Love u bro 🫡
God has forgiven you 🙏🏾you are made righteous by his blood. Keep walking the walk of faith, love bro.
@@thebookofdavidinspiration thank you so much brodie
It took me a couple of years to find my purpose. If you chase pleasure, life is going to give you a reality check eventually. Marking all the goals on your weekly to-do list feels so much better. But dont forget to celebrate the small victories at the end of the week and be proud of yourself
Facts!
Happiness doesn't come externally. It has to be generated from within.
Facts!
We have to relearn how to love, discipline, fulfillment and long term gratification, the same way we learned how to love instant gratification, and being comfortable, and not growing…
Thank you brother, I needed to hear this tonight. I’m currently on a cruise, and can’t wait to get back home and lock in. Snap back to reality, and create a sustainable future for my future family. God is good
You can have purpose, clear vision, and unbreaking belief and still distract yourself with pleasure as a "break".
PROVERBS 21:17 He that loveth pleasure shall be a poor man: he that loveth wine and oil shall not be rich.
Amen
Needed this today G. Hope you are well
I’m sending your videos to my sons 🙏🏾🙏🏾 My husband has a tattoo that says, “I’m going to sit here and enjoy this pain.” I used to think he was nuts for getting that tattoo. I understand now.
powerful tattoo wow 🙏🏽 thank you for sharing it with your sons, i can already tell you’re an amazing mother. God bless you and yours
Appreciate your videos bro its a wake up call. I'm 20 and realizing I haven't been progressing much since I graduated high school. I've been focusing on comfort instead of my long term goals. I need to start working more and saving up so I can go back to school next year.
You got this bro I believe in you 🫡📈 only up from here
Nah this one hit different wtf why is god really speaking to me through you rn 😭
Another satisfying video fam. Showing Support.
I just to say that I'm back brothers.. the devil had a hold on me for the past few weeks. but God reminded me that i have purpose driven brothers out there. So let's go man let's get locked in 🤞🏽
Welcome back brother!
12 am gang watching this man couldnt sleep deciding to lock in make a late night beat a stumbled across the gem just wanted to tap in and say thank you brother
Thank you for tuning in bro 🙏🏽
Just did a whole gym session to this it made me go harder I’m locked in finishing this year off
Let’s go! 🔥
Man I feel so bad disrespecting Gods body he has given me, but purpose gives us direction thank you Lord for sending your only son to die for us
Amen
I think this is the first time I am listening to you, and I just want to say thank you for what you doing, you are saying some things that many people needed to listen but they didn't know that they did. Thank you my man, thank you
Thank you for being open minded to listen, I appreciate your support and I’m glad my videos have impacted you positively 🙏🏽
I officially added you to my morning routine so thank you for making these videos I try to send em to my best friends but idk if they watch em
this video got me emotional cause i’ve been struggling with addictions and letting go of certain bad habits for years and yet it’s so easy to delude yourself into thinking things are ok when it’s really not. thank you for telling me what i need to hear bro
You got this bro
Perfect listen for an early morning gym session
Appreciate you listening! 🙏🏽🫡
I know I am a monster out here, intellectually and in the physical aspect. These thoughts are what weigh individuals down; I mean from the aspect of reference. We forget that progress doesn't have a direction, universally. It's about perspective. There is no intrinsic right and wrong, the thought most often must be = "Is it progressive to the vision?" In the moment, if the energy is masculine (to provide impact in the moment), it creates variables that you have to see. If the energy is feminine, it is to retract in the moment to provide impact in a further depth of time. You have to feel that in the moment and trust yourself to attract the derivatives in the energy of the moment. Keep doing you, bruh.
The mindset is the playground for the ego. On my way to finding purpose again. Once again, appreciate you G.
didn’t have an older brother growing up. my dad raised me well but there were things that I didn’t know how to ask. this feels like the advice i needed from an older brother.
Even though we don’t know each other I’m really rooting for you bro, I never had a consistent father figure in my life, I’m glad I can give the info you needed, we brothers man, much love 🫡
@@ForPurposeDrivenMen appreciate you and the mission bro - gonna pass along the message and keep supporting for as long as i can
Im 27 and still can't like myself enough. Underachieving, fear of failure and procrastination have cost me years of potential
You got so much time left, keep going!
@@vladmakowski don’t quit brother that’s the key to a happy life fight the urge to quit and the urge to self hate man what flower grows by yelling at itself it needs water. You are the flower bro be nice to yourself trust yourself fall in love with yourself Brodie trust that all is well and all will be well for you and you alone can make it so. At the end of the day it’s your life you are the master of it if you want to be happy to be happy chase it don’t chase anything that won’t fulfill your energy your soul
Don’t dwell on it too much , I’m 28 and I’m restarting and learning how to love myself again . Like the previous comment said “ water yourself with self love”
Listening to This 1 Helped Me Tap Into Wolf 🐺 Mode & Keep it Activated. Refuse to Be A slave To Pleasures over Purpose. Understanding why staying consistent is So So Critical important & Beneficial. TRUE KING 👑 💪🏿✌🏿
We tapped into that wolf! 🐺 let’s keep it going KING! 👑
Needed to hear this!
Appreciate you bro keep dropping gems . Niggas be needing to here this
God bless you brother. Keep going, you’re doing good
Thanks, you too brother! God bless
Amazing Video bro!! What I’ve learned as a man going through hard times is we all have a gift (talent) GOD gave us. We have to find our gift in life and learn how to PRODUCE instead of CONSUME. Social Media has blessed and destroyed ppl. We have to go through pain, cut off all distractions, work on having better habits , and read more books to clear our minds. Keep going bro we will all be successful one day and stay hustling-and blessed up 🙏🏾
Speaking facts Brother 🙏🏽🫡
Ideas without a plan is a dream
Facts!
this the one, this one gotta reach the masses
Thank you brother
Let’s go Brodie 🔥☝🏽
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Great video bro. It’s crazy bro because yesterday I was talking to this girl and I said “Damn doing these daily task all day fake feel boring” but then I realize that if I just do daily tasks all day that I need to do will just align me to my goals and dreams. It might be boring and tiring now but over a long period of time of putting in work it will pay off. A compound effect is what success is. Your videos realign everyday man. Keep drop everyday bro I need videos everyday.
You said it bro! Compound effect there’s a science to do this. We just gotta add our part to the equation to get the outcome we want.
Do not grieve for the joy of the Lord is your strength. Nehemiah 8:10
Prayer helps so much🥲
Amen! 🙏🏽
damn straight bro. thank you for sharing
This is one of the reasons I love Jesus so much not only does He give purpose but a plan to fulfill that plan. Everyone is born different no one has the same life there are things only we can do that no one else can and if we don’t fulfill it who will. Those people who need that one conversation that one word people who are suicidal, sad, poor or even just need that next step
god isnt real, grow up
Amen
bro you so real 💯💯
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I’m 17 just found out your videos and i love the content
17 bro keep going keep being purpose driven , you’re getting an amazing head start bro 🫡
I didnt bump into this channel for no reason , I have purpose and Im here for it .
Everything for a reason !
Thanks bro. I needed to hear this today. Keep doing what you are doing, you don’t know how much people you are helping every day. I appreciate you man! Thank you! 🙏
Appreciate you too brother
Idk what it is, but I started to feel like I wasn't focusing. But your channel is always here to put my feet back on the ground and keep me moving forward ❤ Have a fulfilled, complete day my friends! 🔥
🫡❤️ you got this!
You always post what needs to be said at the right moments too.. real problems men need to fix that no one talks about, and most of us can relate and hopefully learn so we can be purpose driven ‼️
Purpose driven! 🫡🙏🏽 thank you for being part of this community brother
Hey Malique, i just recently started watching your videos and they've helped me get back into my grind mindset, but it has been mentally draining getting these things done when you have nobody to tell these things to or nobody to really talk to about your achievements and it all seems pointless sometimes when im doing all of these things, for nobody to see me become better. honeslty after writing all of that out i realized that its okay if nobody sees me go from my lowest to my highest self, I just want friends to build with and i dont have that right now. I will be talking with god until i find those friends or that friend who aligns with my goals and my purpose.
@@zavionpseudo3784 bro once you grinding those friends/girl will come. People have to see you doing or becoming something in order for them to attract to your greatness. It’s like gonna be like an magnet. The more you become successful the more the universe is going to bring positive things/people into your life. I have no friends right now either but it’s cause all my old friends wasn’t aligned with my mindset. Just put your head down. All you need is these videos and journaling until they start coming to you because of your grind.
The most important person seeing your growth is you brother and I’m proud of you for that
I feel like more people need to listen to this treasury of wisdom. Its calming to listen to and opens the eyes of my mind that have been closed and couldnt see. Now its on me and on us to act on this very starting point. Stay blessed brothers❤️🫵
Speaking facts brother stay blessed!
I really loved this. I'm noticing myself watching your videos when it nighttime so I get motivated but don't do anything. I will try to start the day by those reminders brother. I really love everything you say here and I appreciate you for hard work. And wanting us to become purpose driven too. You're a hero and wish you the best friend
Thank you brother that means a lot, I believe in you 🙏🏽🫡
Thanks man your helping me a lot with locking in to reaching my goals
Happy to help bro, let’s stay locked in! 💪🏽
locked in
Watching these videos everyday keeps me on track, thanks for the knowledge brother
You got this brother 🙏🏽 🫡
Found your channel earlier today and now your speaking on a topic that is directly what I need to work on… thanking god for letting me find your channel I’ve been struggling with purpose struggling with planning and executing struggling with managing my emotions messing up my relationship because of my porn addiction.. but my growth starts today 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 it’s time
It’s time brother! 📈
You right, I said this to a gf from my past..I rather have fulfillment then being happy cuz it’s temporary (happiness is)
Facts 🙏🏽 fulfillment lasts forever, it’s something we can control. If we show up, fulfillment shows up too
Locked 🔐 in
The best one so far … I appreciate the word big dawg 💪🏾
You got this dawg! 💪🏽
@@ForPurposeDrivenMen appreciate that gang 💪🏾💯🙏🏾
Been subscribed since you had 15k , love and thank god for the growth of your channel 💯🙏🏾
Thank you for your support brother, truly grateful man 🫡God bless you
Choose Purpose over pleasure and avoid the regret , disease , heartbreak, weakness , etc …..
Pray for strength . Enjoy pleasure according to Gods law only, and avoid the downfall of putting pleasure over purpose .
If we fall do NOT give up . Get back up quick , learn , and move forward on your purpose no matter what !
No matter what!
I feel like we should make a discord or something for all of us like minded driven men just to give updates, help each other out all that stuff it’s so hard to find driven ppl to have a group would be wild reply to this if you’d join
Check the channel description, join today brother
Preciate you 🙏
Appreciate you too fam
Just found this video and channel, your doing great work. Thank you.
Thank you brother 🙏🏽
Ooooooo man this the one.
I'm. Watching your video while doing stairs and it's pushing me harder
Let’s gooo!
Needed this thanks
It makes me happy to watch the videos when I can and to see more and more subscribers, love the videos bro your doing a great job🙏🏼
I appreciate that a lot brother thank you
@@ForPurposeDrivenMen your welcome brother, Merry fourth of July!💪🏼
You inspired me brother, keep up the good work 🤝
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👏🏽will see you at the top
I love you bro, thank the lord I found your channel it helped me get back on track and keeping a positive mindset. purpose over pleasure💪🏻
Love you too bro, God bless you, purpose over pleasure! 💪🏽🔥🔥
I'm ready to go!
Purpose
Really needed this preciate it brudda
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Great video! I remember when you just had about 800 followers, keep going brother!
Thank you brother, only up from here!
I’ve watched this video over 8 times… purpose over pleasure
All day everyday purpose over pleasure 🫡💪🏽
Such an amazing video brother proud of you brother🖤💪🏾keep going 🫡
Thank you brother we got this!
Another great video! Can you make a video on when you lose that initial spark, but you see the end result. Basically tips on how to re spark that motivation even though you’re disciplined to due the mundane routine.
Great suggestion brother thank you 🙏🏽
Keep dropping them Gems 💯
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What would you call it if you are comfortable but don’t like where you are but have no motivation to change? That’s where I was unfortunately the motivation that made me change was my break up and this yt channel, you helped me a lot bro God is definitely working through you.
Proud of you for self improving brother keep at it! God bless you
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A boat with no destination has no favorable wind
Love that line bro 💯💯💯
i just cut my hair today feeling better feels like i let back energy leave
Yes we do women , money , entertainment … distractions 🔥
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Purpose over pleasure!! Stay strong on your journey my purpose driven brothers!!🔥🙏💪
Purpose > pleasure brother! 🙏🏽🫡🔥🔥
without purpose we just drift. its like a ship without a captain. we gotta be that captain and know where we want to go. constant course correction.
Exactly! I rather steer than drift! 🙏🏽🫡
love u more then before malique
Love you too bro!
What if I can’t find a purpose that motivates me. What if there’s nothing calling for me? What if I don’t have drive anymore and I’m just exhausted of all of it?
You gotta remember you’re Gods child and take things step by step. Focus on where your feet is. Purpose doesn’t have to be grand and pretty, purpose can change over time. Your purpose right now might be to find the strength to keep going. I hope that helps brother
@@ForPurposeDrivenMen that’s what Im doing been doing. Just keep going. Hoping some of these videos can spark some momentum or something. thank you brother. God bless
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BRO! TODAY'S VIDEO WAS GOOD.BLESS BRO. BUT MAHN THAT T-SHIRT YOU GOT IS MAD CLEAN! I NEED YOU TO PLUG ME BRO
My man you are the young man jacked version of Jordan Peterson
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They allowed themselves to be driven by their weaknenesses.
Amen
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Your mic sounds good, could you send a link of where I could buy it?
DJI Mic 2’s
Even now i am still lost
What have i done
My 8 yr old son is watching you🩵💙🩵
he's going to be amazing!
Maan I can be both pictures its a time and place for everything first and foremost
The video agrees with you bro, only difference is this: the purpose driven man earns the pleasure. We do what we need to do so we can do what we want to do.