Not a psychologist but I do know that hoarding is a progressive disorder that over time tends to get worse if something isn't done about it. Most hoarders have some sort of emotional trauma from their past that hasn't been properly resolved. The hoarding is a coping mechanism for dealing with that past trauma.
@@LowTempDabr nah that's hoarding you have trauma that needs dealing with but take it one day at a time follow the steps back that cause you to leave your garbage on the floor rather then throwing it away. Are other people in the house not cleaning their part how is the sink garbage and dishwasher? These could be big things finding a new environment could change your life.
@@LowTempDabr yeah it could just be a lack of structure then if you never learnt to maintain things in a clean state then that would be quite the hassle to learn. I wish you luck though and hope you find your answer.
And not once during this segment, did anyone watching think “oh man I miss woody cutting off the guests in the middle of a sentence”. I Love episodes like this.
@@BigDaddyTony24 he really is the opie of Pka. I can’t wait till people start editing him out of the podcast like they do with O&A episodes where they completely remove opie, but the only problem is what would we call it, noody? Woodless?
My stepdad is a hoarder. He never throws anything away. When my mom and I moved in there 20 years ago, he had expired soup and veggies in the pantry, a 15 year old jar of mayonnaise that was never opened, newspapers and sales catalogs stacked waist high in the living room... It was a mess. She cleaned it up, but then started to hoard stuff herself as she got older. Mostly just junk that kept getting moved to the upstairs part of the house. I'm not looking forward to cleaning that place up when they're gone.
when my grandmas mommy died, she went to the nursing home to collect her mother's belongings. they handed all of whatever stuff it was over to her in a single black garbage bag. Thats when she started hoarding not just food but every. single. thing.
My uncle recently passed.. He was a major hoarder... So far we have thrown out over 1.8 ton of rubbish and packed a total of 125 boxs and there is still 3 sheds to go that was just from the house lol
@@ctt544 i just picture everyone from britain having a garden shed. I started thinking about window cleaning now window cleaning sounds like a british thing lol.
My mom is a hoarder too. It had a negative impact on pretty much every aspect of my life growing up. I couldn't have friends over because of the mess. I didn't have a decent space to do homework. Cooking was way harder than it should have been since gathering up ingredients often involved moving aside a bunch of food no one wanted to get to what I did want. I then had to move her crap off the stove to cook and then put it back when I was done. Even microwaving TV dinners was a chore since I had to get them out of the overstuffed freezer and pray that I didn't cause an avalanche by doing so. Often, just opening the fridge or freezer would send food flying out of them. Once I had the TV dinner in hand, I had to empty the microwave of all the stuff she kept stored in there and put it back once I was done. My mom has a lot of good qualities but I am so glad I don't live with her anymore.
I feel for ya bruh, im aussie, my mum passed away almost a decade ago, very similar to urs, i dont hoarde, but i dont like throwing away certain items, especially my mums. I can understand hoarding if ur preserving an imagination or persona of a loved and lost, some things u cant just throw away. For ur own mental health, having antiques to give ur kids, something from ur past can be important isn't forgotten....
@@geevinz I guess the real question would be why you would choose to live with one. I understand the whole “gotta keep the family together thing” but sometimes it’s better to get the kid and yourself out of that kind of environment
Kyle saying he would just throw everything away is the worst thing you could possibly do. Especially for food hoarding. They're likely doing it because they have some mental issue that's compelling them to hoard food in case they can't get it. So throwing it away would only reinforce the idea in their mind that they need to stockpile it, and the problem would probably be worse within a year.
I do home visits as part of my job. One of my colleagues had one at a high rise building and was looking forward to the amazing view of the city and when she got their the person was a hoarder, house absolutely full with furniture blocking all the windows, it’s really sad to see it happen to someone I can’t imagine what it would be like
Thats funny that Taylor would mention loved ones ashes. I used to work in abatment for the local county and one time we were tearing up some hillbilly property with 6 rotting camper trailers. We go to desrtoy one of the campers and the old hag that owns the property goes no my mom is in that one! I had to crawl through waste high garbage in the trailer to look for it and sure enough i found it. It was just like a square plastic box that said whatever funeral home. Creepy as hell.
This is exactly how my Grandmother is. My dad and I moved in recently to help his parents out and she’ll buy non stop shit she doesn’t need because its on sale. Hell she has stuff from a fuckin decade ago still it’s insane. I don’t understand how she can look at jello from 2007 and be like yes I’ll keep that there. My dad and I just toss stuff every trash night.
I'm definitely not a hoarder, but I don't like throwing away food either. At one point during my childhood, my mom had separated from my step dad and was effectively a single mother of three, a full-time nursing student, and lived entirely off welfare and child support. She would always make us finish our food or at the very least keep it as leftovers. Even on the rare occasions when we ate out, my brothers and I had to take home the unfinished food, even if it was a half eaten sandwich and french fries or something...her reasoning? "There are starving children in Africa." That had been instilled into my mind so often that I still tell myself that to this day.
@@skullkid692 You'd be surprised. I worked as a server on and off for about a decade, starting off at more casual restaurants and eventually working my way up to fine dining. I would say easily half of the customers don't take home leftovers (probably even more than that). I'd even go out of my way to box up the unfinished food (which is a given in fine dining), and often times the customers would just leave the bags on the table when they left...and I'm talking about steaks and salmon and shit like that. Blows my mind.
My grandma does this! And I don't understand it at all, especially with food! Use to make us cut the mold off expired cheese to eat ect. I have so much PTSD from expired food. To this day, in my adult life, if it's a week before the food goes bad I throw it out! Can't do it anymore.
I read that the only way hoarding has been successfully dealt with is the bandaid approach. There are plenty of companies you can hire that specialize in throwing out and cleaning up a hoarder house on like 24hrs, you just need to get the hoarder out for that long. Apparently you have to take a traumatic approach, even then success rates are very low with this method. But there are some turn arounds
Makes sense,I’m sure some hoarders want to change but the task of cleaning up the mess they’ve made for themselves is too daunting. This service gives them a clean slate
@Zach very true I forgot to mention it. But these hoarder companies recommend you throw everyone's shit out, yours included. Thar way you are in the same boat as the hoarder, plus alot times the hoarder will project onto others, so you must all throw everything away and start fresh.
I’d show all these clips of BT worried sick about his mom on the show to her and personally, I’m a fan of the bandaid ripping approach. If you take it all out she’ll never be able to restore her hoard to the same extent before she passes away. That, or I’d start playing babysitter and monitor what she buys and hold her accountable.
Band-Aid rip will feel like a major betrayal, everything she collects henceforth will be hidden.. You'll smell Rotten fish from the inside of her drywalls as if it is hiding from the Germans. Any future help you give will likely be met with zero trust. We don’t know how much this crap means for her. Wouldn’t be super surprised if she'd rather lose her pinkie opposed to her "loot," her means of making sure her son can eat, survive. Definitely cut her off from the dumpster diving sister which is bringing over literal trash. Perhaps he should build a shed so for the meantime, disgusting crap isn’t within the home.
@@ferrisbueller9991 You’re probably right. Chances are I’m just too irrationally intolerant of behavior like that to look at it reasonably. I just see all those people on hoarders and see pictures on r/neckbeardnests and can’t help but feel like the people around them don’t do enough to mitigate, so I tend to lean towards the “disregard their feelings, it’s for their own good” approach when I think about dealing with a situation like that.
15:01 thats my dads type of hoarding.... every time we have moved him. we took the funniest shit.... so every year, he goes shopping or something. like, ricoroni. dated 2015-2016-2017 just year after year, every year like "one day ill have this" same shit with like cereal and anything that can sit on a shelf.
His mom just sounds smart lol she is loaded and pretends to be broke. She is always saving money anyway she can. She cans food. Maybe just a bit of concern for it not to get so out of hand.
Why don’t you just talk to her like a adult… tell her, mom… your hoarding food is embarrassing me and it’s not healthy for you.. you need to stop there’s no need to do this..
FAke getting sick a few times and maybe she would change if that dont then you have to man up and just throw it all away wtf is she goin do call the cops cause expired food is not valued and is not supposed to even be sold
If this was my Mom, I would encourage this and turn it into a hobby. Buy her a deep freezer and a vacuum sealer, help her build a dry goods pantry. Start completely from scratch cause one spoiled item can contaminate the entire stash so throw out or give away all the old shit.
Seems reasonable to me, I’d be wondering what the fuck to do as well. My grandmother is exactly like this, I love her to bits but the last thing I wanna deal with is her pantry full of 15+ year old jello and everything else.
She probably is going to food give aways from places like salvation army or churches I know a lot of older woman who do that and stuff hardly ever gets used but has a mental attachment to it and gets comfort and fears letting something go. Get a life coach good therapists are hard to come by and don't give the honest truth and hold back to the point of enabling look at who okays the gender surgerys for these teenagers. Try not to shame her to much but confront the problem you don't want her to get bitter or resentful throwing her stuff out.
this went on for way too fkin long, heres what you do, FLAMETHROWER. if shes loaded then toss everything, stop allowing her to live that way. yes shes her own person blah blah blah, some people have real issues an will never have the capacity to change themselves. he said it started after he left alright then you need to get a house with her and let her have her own space and youll still be there. clearly him leaving triggered some kind of "store and save up" instinct in her.
Maybe you can start going to the store for her and getting what she needs or accompany her on a scheduled day of both of your choosing and get only the necessary products. But what do I know I’m just a random commenter.
Especially when he’s talking about her getting it from a relative that dumpster dives. How do you stop her getting that? You can’t very well tell her she’s not allowed to see her own relative. And you probably can’t stop the other person from dumpster diving either. Sounds like a lot of problems, I’d rather just leave the situation
Show her how to make good stuff in a can and how to seal it properly so it stays good for years therea some really good stuff you can put in cans. But the real gold is in frozen food (look at frozen meal prep videos) you can save so much money and still live kinda healthy
It’s one thing to hoard food but to serve it to people and act like it can’t get someone sick is insulting. She needs to be told off since she’s potentially killing people.
Lol nah. Real hoarders won't even acknowledge that hoarding exists. If the topic comes up they'll change the subject or get angry and disengage completely
A PKA clip with no Woody? = An AMAZING clip!!! We want less Woody, and more level headed discussions. It's great not listening to woodys pity party, or how he's lived a spoiled rotten life since a kid from his rich father
Psychological help should be free at the point of service like universal healthcare. The kind of people with their shit together enough to pay 200 an hour aren't the only ones who should be getting help.
God you people take any chance possible to shit on this guy for nothing. This is a pretty fucking relatable discussion and it’s nice knowing it’s not just me dealing with a relative who does this shit. This isn’t even “content” in the way your trying to portray it has. There’s barely any entertainment value in this dude talking about not knowing what the fuck to do about her.
get your mom a boyfriend that she really likes. i stopped my entry-level hoarding when i got a girlfriend that i was really into. shes the type of person that has her life totally together and i absolutely didnt want to turn her off, since i was also self aware of too much junk and old papers and stuff in my house.
@@driprubies2464 it's actually a terrible idea. Do not tell people to start relationships because you think it might motivate them to change. Relationships should be started with romantic intentions and progress naturally. It's good to be accountable to someone, but to date a person, mainly for motivation of yourself is not only selfish but really ineffective. People usually will justify and normalise their flaws and addictions rather than change for any one person. Also relationships usually cause a lot of emotional turmoil and stress that might make the hoarding even worse. Every leading psychologist agrees that you should remain single until you have resolved your serious, debilitating traumas. Tldr- if you're a hoarder, don't date, get therapy first.
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People that have lived through "depressions" are really prone to hoarding food (like the Great depression not a sad depression lol)
Or the coof scare in the last 2 years.
@@Bergerons_Review coof?
@@Nazty303 the thing that we were poked for. Have to speak in code or youtube just removes the comment.
@@Nazty303 he’s talking about the world economy being trash ever since Covid hit
My gma was lucky, her dad was had connections which meant they always had butter opposed to margarine.
Not a psychologist but I do know that hoarding is a progressive disorder that over time tends to get worse if something isn't done about it. Most hoarders have some sort of emotional trauma from their past that hasn't been properly resolved. The hoarding is a coping mechanism for dealing with that past trauma.
@@LowTempDabr clean your room bro
@@LowTempDabr nah that's hoarding you have trauma that needs dealing with but take it one day at a time follow the steps back that cause you to leave your garbage on the floor rather then throwing it away. Are other people in the house not cleaning their part how is the sink garbage and dishwasher? These could be big things finding a new environment could change your life.
@@LowTempDabr yeah it could just be a lack of structure then if you never learnt to maintain things in a clean state then that would be quite the hassle to learn. I wish you luck though and hope you find your answer.
I don’t buy that. Sounds like an excuse. And most Psychologist are bleeding hearts who chose the shit path in education
@@LowTempDabr how about John Money?
Harley and Kyle with "CAT!!!!" at the exact same moment,I'm dead🤣🤣🤣
And not once during this segment, did anyone watching think “oh man I miss woody cutting off the guests in the middle of a sentence”. I Love episodes like this.
Seriously. I can’t wait until Woody is gone
@@BigDaddyTony24 he really is the opie of Pka. I can’t wait till people start editing him out of the podcast like they do with O&A episodes where they completely remove opie, but the only problem is what would we call it, noody? Woodless?
@@NeighborNick. phlaccid kyle andfriends
No woody so now we get Harley to interrupt people.
The podcast seems perfect this week. Not sure what changed but keep it up.
Lmao
My stepdad is a hoarder. He never throws anything away. When my mom and I moved in there 20 years ago, he had expired soup and veggies in the pantry, a 15 year old jar of mayonnaise that was never opened, newspapers and sales catalogs stacked waist high in the living room... It was a mess. She cleaned it up, but then started to hoard stuff herself as she got older. Mostly just junk that kept getting moved to the upstairs part of the house.
I'm not looking forward to cleaning that place up when they're gone.
This isnt hoarding, its prepping.
when my grandmas mommy died, she went to the nursing home to collect her mother's belongings. they handed all of whatever stuff it was over to her in a single black garbage bag. Thats when she started hoarding not just food but every. single. thing.
My uncle recently passed.. He was a major hoarder... So far we have thrown out over 1.8 ton of rubbish and packed a total of 125 boxs and there is still 3 sheds to go that was just from the house lol
Rubbish and sheds sounds very british
@@UncleHashy rubbish yes. Shed? No. I don't think shed is a particularly British name. In the northeast USA at least everyone calls them sheds.
@@ctt544 i just picture everyone from britain having a garden shed. I started thinking about window cleaning now window cleaning sounds like a british thing lol.
You should drop 200 ug of LSD and trip in a hoarders house. Its quite the experience...
@@ManicMindTrick "you ever try DMT"
When society collapses your going to have to rely on your Mom
For what, food poisoning? You know damn well shes not rotating her stock.
mmm, expired food.
My grandmother hoarded food just like that. Holy shit, seeing those pics brought me back.
Prob something to do with WW2 and the rationing books etc.
My mom is a hoarder too. It had a negative impact on pretty much every aspect of my life growing up. I couldn't have friends over because of the mess. I didn't have a decent space to do homework. Cooking was way harder than it should have been since gathering up ingredients often involved moving aside a bunch of food no one wanted to get to what I did want. I then had to move her crap off the stove to cook and then put it back when I was done. Even microwaving TV dinners was a chore since I had to get them out of the overstuffed freezer and pray that I didn't cause an avalanche by doing so. Often, just opening the fridge or freezer would send food flying out of them. Once I had the TV dinner in hand, I had to empty the microwave of all the stuff she kept stored in there and put it back once I was done. My mom has a lot of good qualities but I am so glad I don't live with her anymore.
Geez dude, did you or your dad never just tell her to cut it out or throw the stuff away
I feel for ya bruh, im aussie, my mum passed away almost a decade ago, very similar to urs, i dont hoarde, but i dont like throwing away certain items, especially my mums. I can understand hoarding if ur preserving an imagination or persona of a loved and lost, some things u cant just throw away. For ur own mental health, having antiques to give ur kids, something from ur past can be important isn't forgotten....
@@Nonamegoodsir4332it dosent work bruh. You really gotta live with one to know how bad it is
@@geevinz I guess the real question would be why you would choose to live with one. I understand the whole “gotta keep the family together thing” but sometimes it’s better to get the kid and yourself out of that kind of environment
Kyle saying he would just throw everything away is the worst thing you could possibly do. Especially for food hoarding. They're likely doing it because they have some mental issue that's compelling them to hoard food in case they can't get it. So throwing it away would only reinforce the idea in their mind that they need to stockpile it, and the problem would probably be worse within a year.
I didn’t realize how bad my grandmas hoarding was until I moved out, she moved back to her old house in 2015 but had expired apple cider from 97.
Man I love the episodes with no Woody
I do home visits as part of my job. One of my colleagues had one at a high rise building and was looking forward to the amazing view of the city and when she got their the person was a hoarder, house absolutely full with furniture blocking all the windows, it’s really sad to see it happen to someone I can’t imagine what it would be like
Thats funny that Taylor would mention loved ones ashes. I used to work in abatment for the local county and one time we were tearing up some hillbilly property with 6 rotting camper trailers. We go to desrtoy one of the campers and the old hag that owns the property goes no my mom is in that one! I had to crawl through waste high garbage in the trailer to look for it and sure enough i found it. It was just like a square plastic box that said whatever funeral home. Creepy as hell.
This is exactly how my Grandmother is. My dad and I moved in recently to help his parents out and she’ll buy non stop shit she doesn’t need because its on sale. Hell she has stuff from a fuckin decade ago still it’s insane. I don’t understand how she can look at jello from 2007 and be like yes I’ll keep that there. My dad and I just toss stuff every trash night.
bro durring the zombie outbreak someones going to stumble up onto the house and then bust bc the amount of food
I am going to be honest. Hording right now is not a bad idea. Thinking nothing bad could ever happen to the food supply ATM is kind of silly.
Definitely don't sneak in and throw it all away, that's a good way to ruin your relationship. Get a psychologist involved.
Looking at the room behind him i think BT have have inherited those genes
I'm definitely not a hoarder, but I don't like throwing away food either. At one point during my childhood, my mom had separated from my step dad and was effectively a single mother of three, a full-time nursing student, and lived entirely off welfare and child support. She would always make us finish our food or at the very least keep it as leftovers. Even on the rare occasions when we ate out, my brothers and I had to take home the unfinished food, even if it was a half eaten sandwich and french fries or something...her reasoning? "There are starving children in Africa." That had been instilled into my mind so often that I still tell myself that to this day.
You are acting like it’s a weird thing to take your leftovers home? Fuck outta here
Bringing home leftovers frome eating out is a normal thing to do... shits not cheap.
@@skullkid692 You'd be surprised. I worked as a server on and off for about a decade, starting off at more casual restaurants and eventually working my way up to fine dining. I would say easily half of the customers don't take home leftovers (probably even more than that). I'd even go out of my way to box up the unfinished food (which is a given in fine dining), and often times the customers would just leave the bags on the table when they left...and I'm talking about steaks and salmon and shit like that. Blows my mind.
@@jenjuice432 they obviously weren't talking about fine dining
I understand eating something like a can of beans that expired one month ago, but eating years old expired food is crazy.
Beans are eternal
BEENZ
fire cleanses all lol
The trash covered table, dangling wires, and messy room behind BT don't bode well for his later years...
My grandma does this! And I don't understand it at all, especially with food! Use to make us cut the mold off expired cheese to eat ect. I have so much PTSD from expired food. To this day, in my adult life, if it's a week before the food goes bad I throw it out! Can't do it anymore.
I read that the only way hoarding has been successfully dealt with is the bandaid approach. There are plenty of companies you can hire that specialize in throwing out and cleaning up a hoarder house on like 24hrs, you just need to get the hoarder out for that long. Apparently you have to take a traumatic approach, even then success rates are very low with this method. But there are some turn arounds
Makes sense,I’m sure some hoarders want to change but the task of cleaning up the mess they’ve made for themselves is too daunting. This service gives them a clean slate
@Zach very true I forgot to mention it. But these hoarder companies recommend you throw everyone's shit out, yours included. Thar way you are in the same boat as the hoarder, plus alot times the hoarder will project onto others, so you must all throw everything away and start fresh.
How awkward would it be if he had her get rid of it all.... And then there was a national food shortage and she's like "I TOLD YOU!!!"
With how fucked up shit is I don't blame Hordering If it's food money ammo gas oil extra get it while you can if it's something people use 24/7
You need to get her a therapist not sneak food into the garbage.
I’d say hoarding food might be the best not worst form of hoarding.. just need to organize it and you just have a lot of food for emergencies.
I’d show all these clips of BT worried sick about his mom on the show to her and personally, I’m a fan of the bandaid ripping approach.
If you take it all out she’ll never be able to restore her hoard to the same extent before she passes away.
That, or I’d start playing babysitter and monitor what she buys and hold her accountable.
Band-Aid rip will feel like a major betrayal, everything she collects henceforth will be hidden.. You'll smell Rotten fish from the inside of her drywalls as if it is hiding from the Germans. Any future help you give will likely be met with zero trust. We don’t know how much this crap means for her. Wouldn’t be super surprised if she'd rather lose her pinkie opposed to her "loot," her means of making sure her son can eat, survive.
Definitely cut her off from the dumpster diving sister which is bringing over literal trash.
Perhaps he should build a shed so for the meantime, disgusting crap isn’t within the home.
@@ferrisbueller9991 You’re probably right. Chances are I’m just too irrationally intolerant of behavior like that to look at it reasonably. I just see all those people on hoarders and see pictures on
r/neckbeardnests and can’t help but feel like the people around them don’t do enough to mitigate, so I tend to lean towards the “disregard their feelings, it’s for their own good” approach when I think about dealing with a situation like that.
Honestly the best option in these type of situations
it's the only way to handle it. the hoarder may even begin to realize their problem
15:01 thats my dads type of hoarding....
every time we have moved him. we took the funniest shit....
so every year, he goes shopping or something.
like, ricoroni. dated 2015-2016-2017 just year after year, every year like "one day ill have this"
same shit with like cereal and anything that can sit on a shelf.
In a similar boat with my mom. I had to accept it for my own mental health. Unfortunately, I just don’t visit her house anymore.
As they said fire cleanses all
His mom just sounds smart lol she is loaded and pretends to be broke. She is always saving money anyway she can. She cans food. Maybe just a bit of concern for it not to get so out of hand.
Did you not see the part where he talks about how he has to make sure shes not using outdated food that makes him fucking sick.??????
No woody? Oh hell yes
I have some great value honey from 1995 I won’t throw away because I like the label.. is this how it starts ???
Buying a lot of groceries will mean that you have a lot of groceries that you will have
Damn man this got deep.
I’m super late to this party but seriously, f@&k that. Go there and throw it all out. That’s disgusting and who cares if it freaks her out
Over buying groceries is a upper class first world problem. I stay hungry on the other end of the spectrum…poverty
Just “take care of” the house (burn it down), and say the food was lost! You’re welcome!! 😇
W comment
you need to take charge and throw everything away. how do you let your mom do this stuff?
Why don’t you just talk to her like a adult… tell her, mom… your hoarding food is embarrassing me and it’s not healthy for you.. you need to stop there’s no need to do this..
FAke getting sick a few times and maybe she would change if that dont then you have to man up and just throw it all away wtf is she goin do call the cops cause expired food is not valued and is not supposed to even be sold
If this was my Mom, I would encourage this and turn it into a hobby. Buy her a deep freezer and a vacuum sealer, help her build a dry goods pantry. Start completely from scratch cause one spoiled item can contaminate the entire stash so throw out or give away all the old shit.
She doesn't throw away expired food. That's where it all started. This would not help.
Seems like his concern is less about his mothers condition and more about what hes gonna do with this shit when she dies
Seems reasonable to me, I’d be wondering what the fuck to do as well. My grandmother is exactly like this, I love her to bits but the last thing I wanna deal with is her pantry full of 15+ year old jello and everything else.
@@jman72898 lol definitely can relate. My grandpa kept everything lol. Definitely a generational thing
She probably is going to food give aways from places like salvation army or churches I know a lot of older woman who do that and stuff hardly ever gets used but has a mental attachment to it and gets comfort and fears letting something go. Get a life coach good therapists are hard to come by and don't give the honest truth and hold back to the point of enabling look at who okays the gender surgerys for these teenagers. Try not to shame her to much but confront the problem you don't want her to get bitter or resentful throwing her stuff out.
It's weird how she had to lie about where it came from. I tell my friends and family that I dumpster dive.
this went on for way too fkin long, heres what you do, FLAMETHROWER. if shes loaded then toss everything, stop allowing her to live that way. yes shes her own person blah blah blah, some people have real issues an will never have the capacity to change themselves. he said it started after he left alright then you need to get a house with her and let her have her own space and youll still be there. clearly him leaving triggered some kind of "store and save up" instinct in her.
Maybe you can start going to the store for her and getting what she needs or accompany her on a scheduled day of both of your choosing and get only the necessary products. But what do I know I’m just a random commenter.
Especially when he’s talking about her getting it from a relative that dumpster dives. How do you stop her getting that? You can’t very well tell her she’s not allowed to see her own relative. And you probably can’t stop the other person from dumpster diving either. Sounds like a lot of problems, I’d rather just leave the situation
Seen my cousin pull butter outta a dumpster
Give up on trying to help her. She won't change.
Show her how to make good stuff in a can and how to seal it properly so it stays good for years therea some really good stuff you can put in cans. But the real gold is in frozen food (look at frozen meal prep videos) you can save so much money and still live kinda healthy
It’s one thing to hoard food but to serve it to people and act like it can’t get someone sick is insulting. She needs to be told off since she’s potentially killing people.
I’m living with a hoarder without the der.
we can food, too. its called being smart.. hahaha
Get your mom to agree to go to therapy. Maybe you can go with her.
17:46
North Carolinians horde different
I’ve had sweetos.
harley nailed it!
Anyone else have a feeling blametruth is the hoarder?? He’s blaming the truth on someone else when it’s him. Hoarding is hereditary.
Lol nice profile picture. I guess you are just adding another conspiracy theory to the list lol.
Oh shit look behind him
Lol nah. Real hoarders won't even acknowledge that hoarding exists. If the topic comes up they'll change the subject or get angry and disengage completely
Jet fuel can melt dank memes
bt seems nice
American Problems. Noice.
A PKA clip with no Woody? = An AMAZING clip!!! We want less Woody, and more level headed discussions. It's great not listening to woodys pity party, or how he's lived a spoiled rotten life since a kid from his rich father
Where do you people develop these completely made up perceptions of woody? Ive literally never seen woody have a woe is me attitude about anything
He was thrashed to within an inch of his life daily.
you can still see the floor so thats something, my wife is worse. or soon to be ex wife
Sorry you've had to go through that man
@@juddyyoutube thanks man, onwards and upwards. it was me or the mess, she chose the mess
Bruh he talks about her like she should be on hoarders. I can see the floor this is a rip off.
lol this guy still lives with his mom? LOL wtf
Psychological help should be free at the point of service like universal healthcare. The kind of people with their shit together enough to pay 200 an hour aren't the only ones who should be getting help.
When your kid uses you for content, gg, blame...
God you people take any chance possible to shit on this guy for nothing. This is a pretty fucking relatable discussion and it’s nice knowing it’s not just me dealing with a relative who does this shit. This isn’t even “content” in the way your trying to portray it has. There’s barely any entertainment value in this dude talking about not knowing what the fuck to do about her.
Weak content
Once the Chinese balloons blast us with EMPs you’re gunna be begging for those jars lol
get your mom a boyfriend that she really likes. i stopped my entry-level hoarding when i got a girlfriend that i was really into. shes the type of person that has her life totally together and i absolutely didnt want to turn her off, since i was also self aware of too much junk and old papers and stuff in my house.
Imma steal ur girl
Not a bad idea!
@@driprubies2464 it's actually a terrible idea.
Do not tell people to start relationships because you think it might motivate them to change.
Relationships should be started with romantic intentions and progress naturally. It's good to be accountable to someone, but to date a person, mainly for motivation of yourself is not only selfish but really ineffective. People usually will justify and normalise their flaws and addictions rather than change for any one person. Also relationships usually cause a lot of emotional turmoil and stress that might make the hoarding even worse.
Every leading psychologist agrees that you should remain single until you have resolved your serious, debilitating traumas.
Tldr- if you're a hoarder, don't date, get therapy first.
Yeah I don't think his mother is an entry-level hoarder...
When we have a good shortage in the next couple years you’re going to love your mommas “hoarding”
Wrong, if the food is bad it won’t matter😂