Hello Dylan ! The best thing I did was to cut off my person because I was caught up in anxiety and I used to run to my friends and ask for advice which made me confused more than anything. I took a whole week off from work. Took myself on dates, cleansed my space, went out with friends and met new people. When I felt at peace I contacted my person again but this time NO ONE knows that we are in contact and that helped me kill the temptation to run to my family and friends for advice. I also feel more connected to my person so yes I 1000% agree that we need to seek outside validation for our goals. Also did the same for my new business. Other people will see what I’m up to when they need to see it. :)
I also did this with my person i cut him off 2 days after my birthday, cut off my friends and started working on myself! I am getting in a much better place, lost weight, become my own cheerleader, financial stable, and spoiled myself with makeup 2 days ago. Feels amazing having no anxiety! My person said he won't give up on me. Good luck on your journey! ❤️✨
i wanted to share everything i did to manifest where i am now 🥰. of course, like everyone else here, i came across the manifesting community after going through a rough break with someone i wanted to be with forever. here’s what i did: 1. i fully accepted the situation for what it was. i accepted that he didn’t want me and i fully made peace with it. (practicing acceptance means not needing it to change in order to be happy) 2. i dedicated every single moment to feeling better. not “trying” to feel better, not trying to change my circumstances, FEELING BETTER. feeling good just for the sake of feeling good was my #1 priority. 3. i deliberately thought thoughts that made me feel better. and i indulged myself in activities that made me feel better. (instead of thinking thoughts and using affirmations in order to CHANGE what was going on, i thought thoughts and used affirmations that made me FEEL BETTER ABOUT what was going on) 4. i also payed attention to my self concept. mainly by listening to affirmations overnight. (i didn’t necessarily do this every night, i just did it when i felt like it. i didnt listen to sleep tracks because i felt like i had to, i did it for my own enjoyment and comfort.) by NO means did i use this to try to “fix” myself. i used this to FEEL BETTER about myself. by reminding myself just how fucking amazing i am. 1. i adopted the belief system of “every thing always works in my favor” the more i affirmed it, the more i saw and felt it. everytime i saw something i perceived to be negative, i always affirmed “everything always works in my favor.” (i always ended up seeing how it was working for me, either immediately or later on) this helped me not resist what was happening in front of me and put me in more of an accepting state. (what you resist persist, duh) if it’s working in your favor, there’s no reason to resist it, right? 😉 not needing him to change in order to be happy is what ended up bringing him back. and when he did come back, i didn’t even want him anymore. (in fact, i was already in a new, much more fulfilling relationship) it did feel nice knowing that he wanted me back tho, lol.
Two things I have learned from this is to 1. know it into being, focusing on my desire without asking what's going on or seeking clarification about it. 2. don't let outside opinions of friends and family mold my thoughts and perceptions of people. DON'T KEEP SHARING EVERYTHING WITH EVERYONE.
Thank u Dylan. For this. I exist as my partner's best choice and I enjoy them in my life. It's done and the divine brought them into my conscious reality purposely. ✌🏽✨🌼
I straight up LOVE my SP. I love him in advance. I see him being the best person for himself and for me. I know he respects me and admires me too. That is all the confirmation I need. Thats MY mans! Yesterday his new friend was hitting on me at the bar and he tells him no dude thats MY girl. Felt so good !!!
My person, who I would hang out with almost daily for months, actually asked me what we were doing. I told him I’d be open to date and he essentially said he was unsure. I ignored it, yet grew more anxious as we’d continue to hangout. A couple weeks ago I decided to take time for myself and I haven’t heard from him since. Strange enough, someone who has been pursuing me for a while told me he has never loved anyone the way he loves me and my world changed SO quick. I still miss my person/friend but this other man loves me in a way I’ve never experienced. Life is fascinating honestly
I used to think I was unhinged for having doors slammed in my face and saying "that doesn't mean anything it's still gonna happen" and my friends thinking I was crazy. Now I know that's called persisting and it's how you manifest. How beautiful
Going through a kinda breakup but what is made me realise how much I’ve developed is that Iam calm and I don’t have that horrible feeling in my stomach. Everything is going to work out!
THIS VIDEO IS SUCH PERFECT TIMING, I am crying!!! My person just started showing up more consistently and he's been hanging out with me so much more and I am so happy about it, he told me like, a week ago "we're basically dating again, I just don't want labels" & I was tempted to ask him the next time i saw him "whats going on between us like are we official?" so I AM VERY THANKFUL FOR YOUR VIDEO DYLAN I LOVE YOU.
I was about to go home and ask this question, then this video popped up on my screen. Talk about Manifestation. Everything is working in my favor. Amen x
I signed up for your private site. I am one who prefers coaches who are true to themselves. Being raw and cussing is more genuine to me. I follow Kim, Sammy, Loz, and so many that talk like they normally talk, and the information seems more real to me. Thank you for doing this.
Your wisdom, insight, and intelligence is amazing and has changed my life. Also, I appreciate the roasting and cussing; your tough love approach is refreshing and truly resonates with me. Thank you for all you do, Dylan, you are AMAZING!!!
Hi Dylan! I am from Argentina. I've been listening you for some time now. I truly think that you give amazing advice. So, you shouldn't be so apologetic. Simply you are your true self and the content you create is unique. Be aware of that.
Totally needed this! Hearing this video I know I need to work more on self concept and living in the end. My relationship is coming because I'm worthy,deserving ,and know that I can get what I want and sustain all that comes to me. I love me. Thank you Dylan 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Omg let me just say i have listened to the i am tape for a couple of days now and i feel calm and all of a sudden jobs are flying in, and i got an apartment!!! Even though i haven’t got credit
dylan ive been watching u for a bit now and youre my favorite by far. youre just so knowledged and i feel so reassured watching ur vids💖also your prices are very affordable! definitely getting coaching soon
I've never been the kind of person who asks " what are we " sorts of questions..however, I have different things. I see that as needing a label and not living in the moment. Just enjoying the moments you have with the person.
Morning Dylan ♥️ thank you for all you do for us. I’ve been following you for nearly a year and you really have changed my life. I never knew what limiting beliefs even were but I’ve educated myself on the subconscious mind, self concept, all of it and im in! I love myself again and feel secure. However my subconscious mind is taking some hard work to shift for specifically myself. Not anyone else, not work, money, relationships, just me. I’ve got very secure at everything else in life and feel relax and dont care and everything falls into place but I self sabotage stuff for myself, i want to work out again and get organised at home and do things for myself but i just dont do it. I even wrote out a whole daily routine for myself to start to follow and get back into focus but the next morning i didnt do anything i said just the day before id do. If anything i did even less. Im getting so frustrated at myself. I think my limiting beliefs around this particular situation is “i never achieve/d anything that makes me proud with or worked hard for” “im not the kind of person who’s focused” “im not disciplined” “i never give myself what i need”, “i let myself down”. So im trying to think back and work on where those beliefs came from but yea just feeling a bit stuck. The weather here in the uk has been bad so ive used that as an excuse, the fact its still dark on a morning and night when i could go for run, my kids disrupt what i have planned because..kids lol. Erm yea just lots of things im using as an excuse i guess, im not making that time, im still not choosing healthy options for food and drinks all the time, i say im going to do a pamper night for myself and then sit on the sofa all night instead and feel slobby. Whats happening here? I’ve got a whole life of limiting beliefs to break down about myself here and its proving harder to crack. Whats even more annoying me is that i was doing all these good things when undesirable circumstances had shown up and i almost was more determined then, now everything’s settled I’ve got comfortable and no motivation to carry on. Please help, ive got a holiday coming up and im determined to feel my best self for it, well for everything but to feel good on holiday would be a bonus.
I’m so grateful I stumbled upon you and this video. This is my issue rn and omg hearing you say all of this ….. I know I’m the best thing that’s ever happened to him (not to be cocky) I shouldn’t have to ask anything ! Like you’re saying allllllll the things I need to hear 😭😭😭😭 thank you so much
You are awesome, Dylan!I'm glad you are going to be opening up a membership. You deserve it!You have made such a difference in my day to day life, for real!You've helped me stay in alignment so much to be true to myself and have helped so much in my own personal growth and journey. Thank you!!!I'll be joining your membership!❤
You are the perfect RUclipsr and life coach Dylan James hands down You are the best I'm very happy and grateful to view your channel And really appreciate your content And nice daddy hat too
TBH, this one made me feel more like I'm doomed to a life alone than good. None-the-less, I'm sure things will seem brighter when my mood is better again.
Things are going great for me but if I get a wee bit shaky in my beliefs I listen to this and I switch straight back into my secure self!! Great video!!😍😍😍
If I told you every detail of my story…. You would shake your head strongly.😂 however the last week has been magnificent…… thanks for your help and the help of the book the secret. Two I listen to daily🥰….. thank you Dylan I so love you!!!!
My partner says he loves me but needs time alone because he doesn't know what he wants. I truly messed up and hurt him out of pure fear and insecurity, and went back to my old way of thinking. I'm mad at myself. I truly love him. Any advice or encouragement from people who have experienced this, please let me know. I am giving him his space and am trying my best to focus on myself. Thank you for any replies.
you had a human moment! forgive yourself, refocus on your self concept. trust trust trust truuuust. you're doing the right thing giving him space and reeling your energy back in. He'll come back around when you've manifested the version of yourself that knows you deserve gentleness and forgiveness. that's TWO huge wins headed your way. you got this ily xo
Right now you may just want to take care of you. Don't blame yourself or be angry with yourself. You are human with human emotions. Take this time to love on yourself...try not to focus on what he said or is doing as lack...revise the whole exchange in your mind to an outcome that feels better and build off of that...know that he will be back and will express and show you what you want. You're going yo be ok...allow yourself to feel what you're feeling just don't stay in the negative mind space. 😊
I was literally in the same position as you. My SP said a relationship wasn’t on his radar and we went three weeks without talking and then he finally came back and now we’re together and he tells me he loves me. Anything is possible. Just sleep with the beliefs on and focus on your stability and feeling good.
Something similar happened with my recently, I was in this similar place with my sp wondering but also knowing its eventually happening, listening to the love tape at night, doing my best to feel good during the day but out of nowhere a 3rd party showed up and I freaked out when i saw them close. I reacted emotionally but with love but now i am in this place in my mind as to what should i do. The image of them being close is constantly stuck in my mind and its coming in my way of feeling good.
Dylan, yooooo … I was so here energetically from yesterday. I’m listening to you and said waaait, this sounds familiar lol. So so truuuuuue, all of it . 🙌🏼
I tried to book 1 on 1 coaching with you but its not available, so Im trying to ask you here. Can you please make a video on forgiving yourself and others. I was so toxic to my person in the past and ruined our relationship with my thoughts and toxic actions. They broke up with me last year and I completely changed since then. But I have a hard time to forgive myself and also them. I want them back and I cant manifest them when I still have all those feelings inside of me..
Dylan spoke briefly about forgiveness in a video recently - can’t remember exactly which one but definitely within the last couple days so maybe have a watch. When I’ve struggled with situations that require forgiveness (myself or others) I listen to a track called ho’oponopono which is like a Hawaiian prayer/mediation. I appreciate it won’t be for everyone which is cool, but it really helps stabilise me and remove me from that funk :)
Omg Dylan....this was me today...wondering should I bring this up? At work I was listening to your videos to help give me clarity whether to have this conversation. Deep down I knew the answer , tonight I sleep with the beliefs on...which one I wonder?
Ooooooooo DYLANNNNNNNN… Now i never thought of that part of my relationships. I got them but ummmmm it got a little funky lol. Help a sista out on that!!
My friend pointed out that SP and I have been in the "talking" stage for the past year but that he's not talking to me. One of my affirmations is "we are in constant communication" but I don't see anything moving in a consistent manner. It's more like a cycle where there is good communication but then nothing, and I don't know how to approach it or what causes the fluctuation.
Dylan thank you for the really cheap price of the premium group few coaches can understand the conversion of dollars to my own country's money what is cheap in the states is already expensive for us so to offer a 4.99 price means so much to us 💖
You might like this one.. AFFIRMATIONS FOR HEALING - 528 HZ - HEAL YOURSELF SHORT AFFIRMATIONS FOR TOTAL BODY HEALING ON LOOP ruclips.net/video/MkEsD5oOAiI/видео.html
Ok, so if he says that he doesn't want a relationship and that he wants multiple girls at the same time, what should i say? I tell myself: he loves only me, he wants a relationship only with me.....but sometimes i react🤕
the unconscious is phenomenally powerful, anxiety, fear and anger come from our frozen traumatic part since the trauma took place. And we put all his emotions on elements of reality, reproducing with exactness the traumatic moment. when we have identified it then we can detach ourselves from the external elements and take care of this traumatized child: reassure him, and the more he will reassure the more we will detach ourselves from the 3D the less we will suffer.
how do you manifest intimacy? like, we share great chemistry and we have a deep connection.. we hang out and talk... however, i wonder what could help from a manifestation stand point to manifest intimacy....
Dylan I have a question and I would appreciate it if you can write me back! What happens to the negative assumptions (like a sp seeing someone else) and stories that have not yet played out in the 3D? I mean I do not see any factual evidence that undesirable movement is occurring but I been having horrible assumptions and Slowly being reminded who I am and improving my self concept but do those assumptions that I had have to play out still???
Don’t think of that. There always going to be challenges and some circumstance showing up. Your old self concept might still try to trigger you. But Even If they show up you’ll be able to persist with confidence and you will not give it any power. If you shifted your beliefs and your feeling state is in alignment.
Dylan I have a question and I have found very little help on this topic in other coaches groups- if you could touch on it I would appreciate it so much. How would someone manifest their SP’s depression away? Although I know all the techniques I’m still having a mental block. I hope you see this.
Just like any other trait, you're affirming him to show up this way. Everyone is you pushed out. You keep telling that story, so he keeps showing you he is depressed. It's not out there, it's all within you. Change the narrative within yourself. He has no free will.
Same here, how do you manifest an SP's drug addiction away? I've never used drugs and I don't view him as a drug addict as I've know him for over 12 years and he was always such a great guy, very loyal and loving.
@@cheryllynn9301 manifest out of his life. You do NOT want to tango with a person with a drug addiction. Let them sort that out for themselves and then come and find you. Why would he quit drugs when he can have you AND the drugs. Love yourself.
Hi Dylan, i have a question about the Video and how to react when He says He doesn't want a relationship, because in my situation the connection between my sp and i was really great, lots of contact and intimacy but now that the talk of committment is somewhere around, He is more distant than before and i am a bit scared that He will say that He doesn't want to have a relationship. If He says he just wants to be fwb would you recommend to still Stick around and keep going with it and Just believe that He will commit. Because the last Thing i want is for us to lose eachother again but also i Wonder if i should set a boundary and say i only want a committed relationship and If He can't give that to me WE need to part ways until he is ready. I would love your advice and Help here! I Love your Videos they are very helpful :)
@@IAm_DylanJames that is some gorilla marketing😁 Great timing too as the biggest show of the year is on this weekend. Last time it was scheduled it was cancelled by covid. So a few more eyes will be on that playlist and then BOOM you get them new subscribers😊
Dylan can you please talk about emotional attachment/avoidance relationships I’m stuck in a cycle with an avoidant it’s been over three years and I need hope and encouragement on changing the dynamic I just discovered this many coaches talk about it some say they don’t believe in it but it seems so clear that this is what I have manifested or gotten myself into
I second this request. I am in a LTR/living with a person who displays a lot of avoidant behaviour which I haven’t experienced before (physical intimacy especially) and I am so overwhelmed by it. I can’t believe I’ve manifested someone so uncomfortable kissing or hugging 😅
I'd like to become a member too. My question is: will the lives be at a good time for Europeans as well?😅 By the way, when will you move to Italy? I remember that idea from several months ago. Lots of love❤
I always choke when I feel like something is going to manifest for me. Lol I get soo excited and shoot myself in the foot by sabotaging it in a negative way. 🤨
If you're asking, then it is. Like I said at the beginning: if you feel confident with what you're doing, it will work. If you're not feeling confident, focus on you : )
I'm trying hard to change my story from the issues I'm having with my guy to positive things. How do you change it when it seems like things are constantly triggering you? My self concepts and feeling state were so stable before we got back together
I also struggle with my triggers as well… sometimes all you can do is just breathe it out and try not to “react” as you would have in the past. It’s difficult but it’s only difficult because we still have some self concept work to do.
Hi, I have cptsd.I use an exercise from Anna Runkle, the crappy childhood fariy here on YT. I easily go into a fight/ flight modus, and this exercise is gold to "outburn"/calm down everyday triggers. If you want, I can find a link and post it here, if its okay for Dylan James?
I like watching Dylan but I totally disagree engaging w smb who is not ready for relationship... It's like Dior starts 2 offer free bags 2 people staying in the assumption "they will pay one day".. If u can't make the switch & experience what u want, u walk away, work on urself & see what's happen next...
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Hello Dylan ! The best thing I did was to cut off my person because I was caught up in anxiety and I used to run to my friends and ask for advice which made me confused more than anything. I took a whole week off from work. Took myself on dates, cleansed my space, went out with friends and met new people. When I felt at peace I contacted my person again but this time NO ONE knows that we are in contact and that helped me kill the temptation to run to my family and friends for advice. I also feel more connected to my person so yes I 1000% agree that we need to seek outside validation for our goals. Also did the same for my new business. Other people will see what I’m up to when they need to see it. :)
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I also did this with my person i cut him off 2 days after my birthday, cut off my friends and started working on myself! I am getting in a much better place, lost weight, become my own cheerleader, financial stable, and spoiled myself with makeup 2 days ago. Feels amazing having no anxiety! My person said he won't give up on me. Good luck on your journey! ❤️✨
@@Lizcampos0101 how’s it going? Any updates on your person?
i wanted to share everything i did to manifest where i am now 🥰.
of course, like everyone else here, i came across the manifesting community after going through a rough break with someone i wanted to be with forever. here’s what i did:
1. i fully accepted the situation for what it was. i accepted that he didn’t want me and i fully made peace with it. (practicing acceptance means not needing it to change in order to be happy)
2. i dedicated every single moment to feeling better. not “trying” to feel better, not trying to change my circumstances, FEELING BETTER. feeling good just for the sake of feeling good was my #1 priority.
3. i deliberately thought thoughts that made me feel better. and i indulged myself in activities that made me feel better. (instead of thinking thoughts and using affirmations in order to CHANGE what was going on, i thought thoughts and used affirmations that made me FEEL BETTER ABOUT what was going on)
4. i also payed attention to my self concept. mainly by listening to affirmations overnight. (i didn’t necessarily do this every night, i just did it when i felt like it. i didnt listen to sleep tracks because i felt like i had to, i did it for my own enjoyment and comfort.) by NO means did i use this to try to “fix” myself. i used this to FEEL BETTER about myself. by reminding myself just how fucking amazing i am.
1. i adopted the belief system of “every thing always works in my favor” the more i affirmed it, the more i saw and felt it. everytime i saw something i perceived to be negative, i always affirmed “everything always works in my favor.” (i always ended up seeing how it was working for me, either immediately or later on) this helped me not resist what was happening in front of me and put me in more of an accepting state. (what you resist persist, duh) if it’s working in your favor, there’s no reason to resist it, right? 😉
not needing him to change in order to be happy is what ended up bringing him back. and when he did come back, i didn’t even want him anymore. (in fact, i was already in a new, much more fulfilling relationship) it did feel nice knowing that he wanted me back tho, lol.
Thank you for sharing! I find it very helpful. Already decided to follow your steps 💕
I'm just curious, how long was it until he came back?
@@Rose-lq7uo It was about 6-9 months. Definitely didn’t feel that long, I wasn’t waiting on him anymore.
@@DonnaMerlange love this!!
Yasss Queen!! So inspirational, thanks for sharing ❤
Two things I have learned from this is to
1. know it into being, focusing on my desire without asking what's going on or seeking clarification about it.
2. don't let outside opinions of friends and family mold my thoughts and perceptions of people. DON'T KEEP SHARING EVERYTHING WITH EVERYONE.
Thank u Dylan. For this. I exist as my partner's best choice and I enjoy them in my life. It's done and the divine brought them into my conscious reality purposely. ✌🏽✨🌼
I straight up LOVE my SP. I love him in advance. I see him being the best person for himself and for me. I know he respects me and admires me too. That is all the confirmation I need. Thats MY mans! Yesterday his new friend was hitting on me at the bar and he tells him no dude thats MY girl. Felt so good !!!
Love this❤
My person, who I would hang out with almost daily for months, actually asked me what we were doing. I told him I’d be open to date and he essentially said he was unsure. I ignored it, yet grew more anxious as we’d continue to hangout. A couple weeks ago I decided to take time for myself and I haven’t heard from him since. Strange enough, someone who has been pursuing me for a while told me he has never loved anyone the way he loves me and my world changed SO quick. I still miss my person/friend but this other man loves me in a way I’ve never experienced. Life is fascinating honestly
Update!?
I used to think I was unhinged for having doors slammed in my face and saying "that doesn't mean anything it's still gonna happen" and my friends thinking I was crazy. Now I know that's called persisting and it's how you manifest. How beautiful
this is honestly the best approach to handling sp situations in general
Going through a kinda breakup but what is made me realise how much I’ve developed is that Iam calm and I don’t have that horrible feeling in my stomach. Everything is going to work out!
The only non toxic dating advice on the internet !!!!
THIS VIDEO IS SUCH PERFECT TIMING, I am crying!!! My person just started showing up more consistently and he's been hanging out with me so much more and I am so happy about it, he told me like, a week ago "we're basically dating again, I just don't want labels" & I was tempted to ask him the next time i saw him "whats going on between us like are we official?" so I AM VERY THANKFUL FOR YOUR VIDEO DYLAN I LOVE YOU.
The daddy hat looks GOOD on you. Where can I get one? Thanks for being so consistent for us, you are such a king! We love you Dylan 🧡
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It’s the consistency for me 🔥
I was about to go home and ask this question, then this video popped up on my screen. Talk about Manifestation. Everything is working in my favor. Amen x
I signed up for your private site. I am one who prefers coaches who are true to themselves. Being raw and cussing is more genuine to me. I follow Kim, Sammy, Loz, and so many that talk like they normally talk, and the information seems more real to me. Thank you for doing this.
Honestly Dylan your last videos were like a slap to my face!I feel so much better now and i no more worry.I love it when you are being brutally honest
Are those videos uploaded?
@@aashnasachanandani6188Hey!!!He made them unlisted so you can't watch them...
Your wisdom, insight, and intelligence is amazing and has changed my life. Also, I appreciate the roasting and cussing; your tough love approach is refreshing and truly resonates with me. Thank you for all you do, Dylan, you are AMAZING!!!
YOU ARE ON ABSOLUTE 🔥 W POSTING EVERYDAY. I LOVE YOU
I am so thankful for you, my mind has yet to paradigm switch but i gonna get there soon!! ✨💫👑
I love Dyan ❤️ I just told my friend how I like how peaceful and confident and kind that you are.
Dylan, I would just like to say that your content is amazing. No matter when you post, it always brings a smile on my face.
Hi Dylan! I am from Argentina. I've been listening you for some time now.
I truly think that you give amazing advice. So, you shouldn't be so apologetic. Simply you are your true self and the content you create is unique. Be aware of that.
Totally needed this! Hearing this video I know I need to work more on self concept and living in the end. My relationship is coming because I'm worthy,deserving ,and know that I can get what I want and sustain all that comes to me. I love me. Thank you Dylan 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Omg let me just say i have listened to the i am tape for a couple of days now and i feel calm and all of a sudden jobs are flying in, and i got an apartment!!! Even though i haven’t got credit
dylan ive been watching u for a bit now and youre my favorite by far. youre just so knowledged and i feel so reassured watching ur vids💖also your prices are very affordable! definitely getting coaching soon
I've never been the kind of person who asks " what are we " sorts of questions..however, I have different things. I see that as needing a label and not living in the moment. Just enjoying the moments you have with the person.
Morning Dylan ♥️ thank you for all you do for us. I’ve been following you for nearly a year and you really have changed my life. I never knew what limiting beliefs even were but I’ve educated myself on the subconscious mind, self concept, all of it and im in! I love myself again and feel secure. However my subconscious mind is taking some hard work to shift for specifically myself. Not anyone else, not work, money, relationships, just me. I’ve got very secure at everything else in life and feel relax and dont care and everything falls into place but I self sabotage stuff for myself, i want to work out again and get organised at home and do things for myself but i just dont do it. I even wrote out a whole daily routine for myself to start to follow and get back into focus but the next morning i didnt do anything i said just the day before id do. If anything i did even less. Im getting so frustrated at myself. I think my limiting beliefs around this particular situation is “i never achieve/d anything that makes me proud with or worked hard for” “im not the kind of person who’s focused” “im not disciplined” “i never give myself what i need”, “i let myself down”. So im trying to think back and work on where those beliefs came from but yea just feeling a bit stuck. The weather here in the uk has been bad so ive used that as an excuse, the fact its still dark on a morning and night when i could go for run, my kids disrupt what i have planned because..kids lol. Erm yea just lots of things im using as an excuse i guess, im not making that time, im still not choosing healthy options for food and drinks all the time, i say im going to do a pamper night for myself and then sit on the sofa all night instead and feel slobby. Whats happening here? I’ve got a whole life of limiting beliefs to break down about myself here and its proving harder to crack. Whats even more annoying me is that i was doing all these good things when undesirable circumstances had shown up and i almost was more determined then, now everything’s settled I’ve got comfortable and no motivation to carry on. Please help, ive got a holiday coming up and im determined to feel my best self for it, well for everything but to feel good on holiday would be a bonus.
I’m so grateful I stumbled upon you and this video. This is my issue rn and omg hearing you say all of this ….. I know I’m the best thing that’s ever happened to him (not to be cocky) I shouldn’t have to ask anything ! Like you’re saying allllllll the things I need to hear 😭😭😭😭 thank you so much
You are awesome, Dylan!I'm glad you are going to be opening up a membership. You deserve it!You have made such a difference in my day to day life, for real!You've helped me stay in alignment so much to be true to myself and have helped so much in my own personal growth and journey. Thank you!!!I'll be joining your membership!❤
You are the perfect RUclipsr and life coach Dylan James hands down
You are the best
I'm very happy and grateful to view your channel
And really appreciate your content
And nice daddy hat too
TBH, this one made me feel more like I'm doomed to a life alone than good. None-the-less, I'm sure things will seem brighter when my mood is better again.
Daddy hattt is back . Dylan by the way your skin is amazing I like to manifest a great clear just like you . You look amazing
Things are going great for me but if I get a wee bit shaky in my beliefs I listen to this and I switch straight back into my secure self!! Great video!!😍😍😍
Oh my god thank you for touching on this topic dear Dylan! ♥️🥰🙏 I adore you!
If I told you every detail of my story…. You would shake your head strongly.😂 however the last week has been magnificent…… thanks for your help and the help of the book the secret. Two I listen to daily🥰….. thank you Dylan I so love you!!!!
Side note NEVER STOP BEING YOU!
Dylan = 🐐
Dylan you have very kind eyes ❤️
He sure does just adorable!
I’ll see you on the membership tab;)
Same lol
My partner says he loves me but needs time alone because he doesn't know what he wants. I truly messed up and hurt him out of pure fear and insecurity, and went back to my old way of thinking. I'm mad at myself. I truly love him. Any advice or encouragement from people who have experienced this, please let me know. I am giving him his space and am trying my best to focus on myself. Thank you for any replies.
You got this. It doesn’t matter focus on your end. You’ll get your manifestation. We are always getting what we want. ❤️
you had a human moment! forgive yourself, refocus on your self concept. trust trust trust truuuust. you're doing the right thing giving him space and reeling your energy back in. He'll come back around when you've manifested the version of yourself that knows you deserve gentleness and forgiveness. that's TWO huge wins headed your way. you got this ily xo
Stop focusing on the past and what happened. Focus on your SC.
Right now you may just want to take care of you. Don't blame yourself or be angry with yourself. You are human with human emotions. Take this time to love on yourself...try not to focus on what he said or is doing as lack...revise the whole exchange in your mind to an outcome that feels better and build off of that...know that he will be back and will express and show you what you want. You're going yo be ok...allow yourself to feel what you're feeling just don't stay in the negative mind space. 😊
I was literally in the same position as you. My SP said a relationship wasn’t on his radar and we went three weeks without talking and then he finally came back and now we’re together and he tells me he loves me. Anything is possible. Just sleep with the beliefs on and focus on your stability and feeling good.
I am so happy that i found your Channel; I love you, thank you!
So grateful i found this channel!! I needed to hear this ! Thank you Dylan 💜
We love the unfiltered. ❤️
Thank you for all that you do Dylan! Sending lot's of love! 🙏🏻💞✨
I love the color black so much.
This is exact what I needed to hear right now, thank you so much. Hamid is my husband ❤️
Really needed this video. Thank you Dylan ❤️
OMG I needed to hear this. I'm constantly asking and need to stop ✋
Can you do a video on contact, consist contact and spending time together?
Love your drive. Very thankful for what you do! So nice to follow you on you tube! Love the heat to!
Thank you for sharing your knowledge, great content you are very handsome. Keep up the great work.
Thank you Dylan for this video. I am looking forward to the membership program. :)
AWESOME!!! Love the idea of a group membership and we can let our hair down!
Something similar happened with my recently, I was in this similar place with my sp wondering but also knowing its eventually happening, listening to the love tape at night, doing my best to feel good during the day but out of nowhere a 3rd party showed up and I freaked out when i saw them close. I reacted emotionally but with love but now i am in this place in my mind as to what should i do. The image of them being close is constantly stuck in my mind and its coming in my way of feeling good.
Omg I needed this right now!! Ty Dylan you're the best
Dylan, yooooo … I was so here energetically from yesterday. I’m listening to you and said waaait, this sounds familiar lol. So so truuuuuue, all of it . 🙌🏼
My BFF Dylan 💙 I’m here for it all!! 🔥
Excellent i enjoy all ur videos and will def looking forward to subscribe for a whole year!! Thanks for bring in light into our lives✨✨💫💫
I tried to book 1 on 1 coaching with you but its not available, so Im trying to ask you here. Can you please make a video on forgiving yourself and others. I was so toxic to my person in the past and ruined our relationship with my thoughts and toxic actions. They broke up with me last year and I completely changed since then. But I have a hard time to forgive myself and also them. I want them back and I cant manifest them when I still have all those feelings inside of me..
Dylan spoke briefly about forgiveness in a video recently - can’t remember exactly which one but definitely within the last couple days so maybe have a watch. When I’ve struggled with situations that require forgiveness (myself or others) I listen to a track called ho’oponopono which is like a Hawaiian prayer/mediation. I appreciate it won’t be for everyone which is cool, but it really helps stabilise me and remove me from that funk :)
@Reeben22 thank you so much! I’m in the same situation and this is great advice.
@Reeben22 Thank you for the suggestion and the good wishes! Looking at that channel now.
Fire as always❤❤❤
Bring on the sass! I’ll deff be there! Great idea! 🥰💕
Omg Dylan....this was me today...wondering should I bring this up? At work I was listening to your videos to help give me clarity whether to have this conversation. Deep down I knew the answer , tonight I sleep with the beliefs on...which one I wonder?
Ooooooooo DYLANNNNNNNN… Now i never thought of that part of my relationships. I got them but ummmmm it got a little funky lol. Help a sista out on that!!
My friend pointed out that SP and I have been in the "talking" stage for the past year but that he's not talking to me. One of my affirmations is "we are in constant communication" but I don't see anything moving in a consistent manner. It's more like a cycle where there is good communication but then nothing, and I don't know how to approach it or what causes the fluctuation.
Dylan thank you for the really cheap price of the premium group few coaches can understand the conversion of dollars to my own country's money what is cheap in the states is already expensive for us so to offer a 4.99 price means so much to us 💖
Dylan can you please make an affirmation tape for health, general health issues like dental issues etc ..
You might like this one..
AFFIRMATIONS FOR HEALING - 528 HZ - HEAL YOURSELF SHORT AFFIRMATIONS FOR TOTAL BODY HEALING ON LOOP
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This is really helpful for me right now
This came at the right fucking time. Fr. Thank you so much Dylan ❤️
The daddy hat is back!
Dylan, please give some advice gow to deal with anxiety related to what's happening in the world right now... thank you!
Ok, so if he says that he doesn't want a relationship and that he wants multiple girls at the same time, what should i say?
I tell myself: he loves only me, he wants a relationship only with me.....but sometimes i react🤕
the unconscious is phenomenally powerful, anxiety, fear and anger come from our frozen traumatic part since the trauma took place. And we put all his emotions on elements of reality, reproducing with exactness the traumatic moment. when we have identified it then we can detach ourselves from the external elements and take care of this traumatized child: reassure him, and the more he will reassure the more we will detach ourselves from the 3D the less we will suffer.
I decide what's going on between us
Dylan, can you make a video on manifesting somebody you know but they don't know you. Like how that's going to unfold.
how do you manifest intimacy? like, we share great chemistry and we have a deep connection.. we hang out and talk... however, i wonder what could help from a manifestation stand point to manifest intimacy....
ok Dylan , what to do how to think if a person doesn't want to meet? he just writes messages
They love being around you. They crave your attention. They feel safe and secure around you
Dylan I have a question and I would appreciate it if you can write me back! What happens to the negative assumptions (like a sp seeing someone else) and stories that have not yet played out in the 3D? I mean I do not see any factual evidence that undesirable movement is occurring but I been having horrible assumptions and Slowly being reminded who I am and improving my self concept but do those assumptions that I had have to play out still???
Don’t think of that. There always going to be challenges and some circumstance showing up. Your old self concept might still try to trigger you. But Even If they show up you’ll be able to persist with confidence and you will not give it any power. If you shifted your beliefs and your feeling state is in alignment.
Dylan I have a question and I have found very little help on this topic in other coaches groups- if you could touch on it I would appreciate it so much. How would someone manifest their SP’s depression away? Although I know all the techniques I’m still having a mental block. I hope you see this.
Just like any other trait, you're affirming him to show up this way. Everyone is you pushed out. You keep telling that story, so he keeps showing you he is depressed. It's not out there, it's all within you. Change the narrative within yourself. He has no free will.
Same here, how do you manifest an SP's drug addiction away? I've never used drugs and I don't view him as a drug addict as I've know him for over 12 years and he was always such a great guy, very loyal and loving.
@@cheryllynn9301 manifest out of his life. You do NOT want to tango with a person with a drug addiction. Let them sort that out for themselves and then come and find you. Why would he quit drugs when he can have you AND the drugs. Love yourself.
Hi Dylan, i have a question about the Video and how to react when He says He doesn't want a relationship, because in my situation the connection between my sp and i was really great, lots of contact and intimacy but now that the talk of committment is somewhere around, He is more distant than before and i am a bit scared that He will say that He doesn't want to have a relationship. If He says he just wants to be fwb would you recommend to still Stick around and keep going with it and Just believe that He will commit. Because the last Thing i want is for us to lose eachother again but also i Wonder if i should set a boundary and say i only want a committed relationship and If He can't give that to me WE need to part ways until he is ready. I would love your advice and Help here! I Love your Videos they are very helpful :)
Great message 🥳
Hi Dylan, this is really great advice I wish I had watched this sooner. I already did all the things you said not to do, how do I fix it now?
So do you have any idea why your video was added to the Free Matches Playlist of Over The Top Wrestling?
@@IAm_DylanJames fair enough😁
I saw it and wanted to find out. Good luck to you!
@@insidebriansmind honestly its very odd, very out of place.
@@IAm_DylanJames that is some gorilla marketing😁
Great timing too as the biggest show of the year is on this weekend. Last time it was scheduled it was cancelled by covid.
So a few more eyes will be on that playlist and then BOOM you get them new subscribers😊
@@insidebriansmind it looks like whoever the creator of that channel is realized they made a mistake and removed it. very funny though
@@IAm_DylanJames I'm telling you...
Gurilla Marketing😁
Dylan your videos help like crazy... Could you please make videos on no contact person?
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My issue is actually the opposite. It's hard for me to manifest a relationship, dating or even simply hanging ou with the people I love. Any tips?
Dylan can you please talk about emotional attachment/avoidance relationships I’m stuck in a cycle with an avoidant it’s been over three years and I need hope and encouragement on changing the dynamic I just discovered this many coaches talk about it some say they don’t believe in it but it seems so clear that this is what I have manifested or gotten myself into
I second this request. I am in a LTR/living with a person who displays a lot of avoidant behaviour which I haven’t experienced before (physical intimacy especially) and I am so overwhelmed by it. I can’t believe I’ve manifested someone so uncomfortable kissing or hugging 😅
Can’t wait
Can’t wait to become a member
More vids with this vibe 💕
What your advice would be if my ex is getting married soon what should I do in this situation??
Great video 👍
Where are the Livestreams?
Are you teaching law of attraction or assumption?
I love your voice
Daddy hat ! ❤️
I'd like to become a member too. My question is: will the lives be at a good time for Europeans as well?😅 By the way, when will you move to Italy? I remember that idea from several months ago. Lots of love❤
doing this 😊
I always choke when I feel like something is going to manifest for me. Lol I get soo excited and shoot myself in the foot by sabotaging it in a negative way. 🤨
Those triggers ugh .
I love you ♥️
Anyone knows if liking a pic of them is considered chasing or not? Especially in NC situations
If you're asking, then it is. Like I said at the beginning: if you feel confident with what you're doing, it will work. If you're not feeling confident, focus on you : )
@@IAm_DylanJamesWhoa!! I had a fleeting thought about you replying and here we are 😆 Thank you for everything you're doing for us!! 🌸🌸
I'm trying hard to change my story from the issues I'm having with my guy to positive things. How do you change it when it seems like things are constantly triggering you? My self concepts and feeling state were so stable before we got back together
I also struggle with my triggers as well… sometimes all you can do is just breathe it out and try not to “react” as you would have in the past. It’s difficult but it’s only difficult because we still have some self concept work to do.
Hi, I have cptsd.I use an exercise from Anna Runkle, the crappy childhood fariy here on YT. I easily go into a fight/ flight modus, and this exercise is gold to "outburn"/calm down everyday triggers.
If you want, I can find a link and post it here, if its okay for Dylan James?
I like watching Dylan but I totally disagree engaging w smb who is not ready for relationship... It's like Dior starts 2 offer free bags 2 people staying in the assumption "they will pay one day".. If u can't make the switch & experience what u want, u walk away, work on urself & see what's happen next...
It's all in the approach. I wouldn't wait or put my life on hold, if I want it; I got it. It's all about enjoyment and knowing it into being : )
@@IAm_DylanJames ❤️
So handsome in black😊❤