If it’s the line that sings,” kill your self or get over it” then yes I also relate to you. I had 0 fucking motivation, now I’m standing on top of my bed forcing myself to keep on going.
I mean it told me to get over my shit too but in a more detached numb way or "idc what happens nothing bad ever happened to me it's whatever it is what it is" but somehow it made me more miserable and disassociated from the world around me but hey atleast I'm doing good in the world's eyes for the most part
As someone who has always struggled with speech and living in a dysfunctional family, I love this song. It's so bitter but so sweet and soothing at the same time. The picture ties it all together too. That shrug says, "Oh well, this is my life, get over it," while also showing a glimpse of the pain concealed within. I love it.
Things to do if you’re sad (Lashes don’t actually grow from tears) -cut paper (Throw it out afterwards) -scream/cry -make tea -go on a walk alone/with someone -Give someone/something a hug! Including stuffed animals -Watch a comfort RUclipsr Something to distract yourself from negative things -Smell something you like the scent of -Get a fidget toy -pet your pet if you have an animal in your home/house -Take a nap (sometimes when you take a nap after all emotions you’ll remember bad memories when you wake up so try distracting yourself when you wake up) -Go on a FaceTime with someone -talk everything through with someone or maybe even yourself. Saying your feelings and emotions out loud might make you feel better -Go somewhere you enjoy being at Hope this helps!
as someone with selective mutism this is so relatable. I stopped talking at 3 to strangers and kids and then finally started being able to talk to strangers around 14.
"My parents welcomed me with loving arms, that within an hour we're back at each other's throats. Normal, happy childhood back on course." Fucking ouch
I also stopped talking when I was six years old, then was able to talk again when I was 10 years old after meeting this boy who was so talkative, I couldn’t help but also talk to him, and he broke me but also made me have my ego again, somehow. I was passive back then but learned how to fight and be honest because of him.
This song hits hard when you’ve experienced selective mutism on your own skin. It’s breaking and healing my soul all at the same time. I’m glad I wasn’t the only one.
real. i have selective mutism and the hardest thing to deal with is how unpredictable it is. like one day im talking fine with someone and having a good time, the next day i cant get a single word out and they think im being rude but i just physically can’t. i completely understand how you feel
Things to do if you’re sad (Lashes don’t actually grow from tears) -cut paper (Throw it out afterwards) -scream/cry -make tea -go on a walk alone/with someone -Give someone/something a hug! Including stuffed animals -Watch a comfort RUclipsr Something to distract yourself from negative things -Smell something you like the scent of -Get a fidget toy -pet your pet if you have an animal in your home/house -Take a nap (sometimes when you take a nap after all emotions you’ll remember bad memories when you wake up so try distracting yourself when you wake up) -Go on a FaceTime with someone -talk everything through with someone or maybe even yourself. Saying your feelings and emotions out loud might make you feel better -Go somewhere you enjoy being at Hope this helps!
“Life is unfair,kill yourself or get over it” to all my relatives including the ones I hate.I don’t have much I hate but it’s very rare to see a good one.They were raised by themselves,surviving wars and racism.I can’t blame them but I can’t give them the right to be so destructive to others.Mostly their children.I am tired of raising ur children but rather than them doing the “parenting” I will do it.This is my mindset since I know myself.
I love this song so much. I relate to it so much. I have depression, gad, adhd and asd but that's not the point. The point is I've always felt disconnected, almost inhuman, chronically bored with life, and though I'm doing my best to get better that doesn't mean I don't struggle. In fact, every day is a struggle. Only because I ironically know that death isn't an option. This song is really good to just let out some tears to.
Like i used to be kind and friendly but got bullied and harassed now i'm stuck with severe anxiety & ptsd. People call me weird & autistic and i'm so tired of it!
honestly fr, i'm so much happier now that i didn't get bullied but people will still comments about you without knowing your past and all it does is taking effects on you.
One time I talked to my brother about how I felt (keep in mind I’ve never told him or anyone how I felt) all he told me after I poured my heart out to him was "life is unfair" ever since that day I’ve never told him anything and this song always reminds me of it
written out lyrics: I stopped talking when I was six years old I didn't want anything more to do with the outside world I was happy being quiet But, of course, they wouldn't leave me alone My parents tried every trick in the book From speech therapists to child psychologists They even tried bribery I could have anything As long as I said it out loud Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it Of course this episode didn't last forever I'd made my point and it was time to move on To peel away the next layer of deceit And see what new surprises lay in store My school report said I showed no interest "A disruptive influence" I felt sorry for them in a way And when they finally expelled me It didn't mean a thing Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it At that time she stopped what she was doing, she stopped playing She stared, she had the facial grimacing And then the psychiatrist was saying "Julie, Julie, can you hear me? Can you open your eyes?" "Can you stick out your tongue?" And all of a sudden, Julie struck out The November day I came home The Christmas decorations were already up Spray on snow, colored flashing lights And an artificial tree that played Silent Night Over and over again My parents welcomed me with loving arms But within an hour were back at each others throats Normal, happy childhood back on course Batteries not included Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Does anyone else notice around 3:20 when it starts singing the chorus again theres a male voice this time, as if a relative saying it at her as part of the story?
This song reminds me more of Cassie from Skins then anything. And for no reason either because Cassie really doesn't have much a back story. But it just makes me think of her.
I stopped talking when I was six years old I didn't want anything more to do with the outside world I was happy being quiet But, of course, they wouldn't leave me alone My parents tried every trick in the book From speech therapists to child psychologists They even tried bribery I could have anything As long as I said it out loud Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it Of course this episode didn't last forever I'd made my point and it was time to move on To peel away the next layer of deceit And see what new surprises lay in store My school report said I showed no interest "A disruptive influence" I felt sorry for them in a way And when they finally expelled me It didn't mean a thing Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Say what yall want about them but Sonic Youth really influenced alot of new age lo-fi and indie artists and I'm thankful they are a completely disrespected band for what they did for indie/punk sub genres. I hear them and a bit of The Velvet Underground on this track not saying they were the inspiration but the sound is uncanny and I'm loving it. Iykyk I'm only 24 so please stretch your playlists if you haven't heard either it'll be worth it I promise.
this so like so relatable.. I had selective mutism.. LOL I didn’t even know that was a thing until I watched Effy from Skins. I only spoke to really good friends I knew and trusted. I only spoke when I had too as well. The bribery part is so true lmao I remember my teachers would say if I yelled I would get 100 points and I remember everybody looking at me, waiting for me to yell but I never did 😭 At home I spoke A LOT but at school.. nope. I started talking once I hit middle school lmao thank GOD.
Im so happy this song is popular, Black box recorder is such an amazing band and im so upset they are so underrated, but atleast this song is a good one.
I listened to this sing several months ago, then I started watching PLL. My aṣṣ was so surprised when that scene came on, I was like, wait, I know that picture from somewhere. 😭
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I love songs that tell stories.
do u know other songs like this?i can t find simalar song to this
@@gaiag9926
7 years
A million men
Ultraviolence
Television/so far everything is good
Ride (the 10 min video)
Melody of a murder
5 years time
Carmen
♡
@@pau8652 the ride is lana i’m pretty sure. (it took me awhile to look for it)
@@gaiag9926 gods and monsters by lana is pretty similar too :)
@@inisaiahsfreezer true. but west coast is by far the one..
The fact that, that one line motivated me to get over shit more than any bubbly quote ever did lmao
If it’s the line that sings,” kill your self or get over it” then yes I also relate to you. I had 0 fucking motivation, now I’m standing on top of my bed forcing myself to keep on going.
Me
@@thehermionegrangerryou will eventually
frrrr!!! more than motivating quotes and low key more than people telling me stuff like "it gets better"
I mean it told me to get over my shit too but in a more detached numb way or "idc what happens nothing bad ever happened to me it's whatever it is what it is" but somehow it made me more miserable and disassociated from the world around me but hey atleast I'm doing good in the world's eyes for the most part
As someone who has always struggled with speech and living in a dysfunctional family, I love this song. It's so bitter but so sweet and soothing at the same time. The picture ties it all together too. That shrug says, "Oh well, this is my life, get over it," while also showing a glimpse of the pain concealed within. I love it.
Things to do if you’re sad (Lashes don’t actually grow from tears)
-cut paper (Throw it out afterwards)
-scream/cry
-make tea
-go on a walk alone/with someone
-Give someone/something a hug! Including stuffed animals
-Watch a comfort RUclipsr
Something to distract yourself from negative things
-Smell something you like the scent of
-Get a fidget toy
-pet your pet if you have an animal in your home/house
-Take a nap (sometimes when you take a nap after all emotions you’ll remember bad memories when you wake up so try distracting yourself when you wake up)
-Go on a FaceTime with someone
-talk everything through with someone or maybe even yourself. Saying your feelings and emotions out loud might make you feel better
-Go somewhere you enjoy being at
Hope this helps!
Fr
as someone with selective mutism this is so relatable. I stopped talking at 3 to strangers and kids and then finally started being able to talk to strangers around 14.
@@xleepy221 ty:)
ong same
OMG i used to have this, just in my teenager i started to talk in my school
whats more "funny" is that i really stopped talking when I was six.
I have selective mutism too...
the way they say “kys” takes me out 💀 love this song tho
well, you got two options...
@@Luixxxd1 lmao
For a weird reason this song is very calming, I like the sound of her voice
those 16 dislikes are people that can't accept that life is unfair.
this comment makes me reminisce
@@dinnerbone444 if only we could go back
it only is what you say to yourself that it is. i cannot accept it(i like this song though)
missing when you could see dislikes
Its me
last night i woke up at 1 am, and this song was playing. i was half asleep so this was the weirdest thing to hear in the middle of the night
I listened to this in a breakdown and thought it was a fever dream lol
must’ve been some cool memory tho i love random things like that it’s what keeps me living
@@moneyhearts yeah i was a little scared at first though lol
@@dinnerbone444 lmfao u ok?
The song telling you to kys while you re half awake
"My parents welcomed me with loving arms, that within an hour we're back at each other's throats. Normal, happy childhood back on course."
Fucking ouch
I also stopped talking when I was six years old, then was able to talk again when I was 10 years old after meeting this boy who was so talkative, I couldn’t help but also talk to him, and he broke me but also made me have my ego again, somehow. I was passive back then but learned how to fight and be honest because of him.
i love her voice tone so much
This song is how I feel 90% of the time
This song hits hard when you’ve experienced selective mutism on your own skin. It’s breaking and healing my soul all at the same time. I’m glad I wasn’t the only one.
true, I have selective mutism since I’m a child, I still have it
real. i have selective mutism and the hardest thing to deal with is how unpredictable it is. like one day im talking fine with someone and having a good time, the next day i cant get a single word out and they think im being rude but i just physically can’t. i completely understand how you feel
Things to do if you’re sad (Lashes don’t actually grow from tears)
-cut paper (Throw it out afterwards)
-scream/cry
-make tea
-go on a walk alone/with someone
-Give someone/something a hug! Including stuffed animals
-Watch a comfort RUclipsr
Something to distract yourself from negative things
-Smell something you like the scent of
-Get a fidget toy
-pet your pet if you have an animal in your home/house
-Take a nap (sometimes when you take a nap after all emotions you’ll remember bad memories when you wake up so try distracting yourself when you wake up)
-Go on a FaceTime with someone
-talk everything through with someone or maybe even yourself. Saying your feelings and emotions out loud might make you feel better
-Go somewhere you enjoy being at
Hope this helps!
As a neurodivergent person this song hits me in a very different way.
SAME
“Life is unfair,kill yourself or get over it” to all my relatives including the ones I hate.I don’t have much I hate but it’s very rare to see a good one.They were raised by themselves,surviving wars and racism.I can’t blame them but I can’t give them the right to be so destructive to others.Mostly their children.I am tired of raising ur children but rather than them doing the “parenting” I will do it.This is my mindset since I know myself.
I love this song so much. I relate to it so much. I have depression, gad, adhd and asd but that's not the point. The point is I've always felt disconnected, almost inhuman, chronically bored with life, and though I'm doing my best to get better that doesn't mean I don't struggle. In fact, every day is a struggle. Only because I ironically know that death isn't an option. This song is really good to just let out some tears to.
What’s gad
@@aidenwilson8113 generalized anxiety disorder
whats asd
@@neptune.5758 Autism spectrum disorder
holy shit you’re me
I kinda wish the whole song was singing, but it's really interesting with a story
I love their voice it’s so calming and soft lolz
i think i am obssesed with this song
this song is so addicting and calming
I hope I can make something this incredible one day
you can & you will
i believe in you!
Make one day today! You got this 💕 Can’t wait to hear it!
you’ve got this :)
I'm sure you will
the fact that this song hits right in the spot...
I hope ur okkk
i love alison
who is Alison?
@@VMrevelations alison is the girl in the backround, shes a character from pretty little liars.
@@chickenpirates ty, Didn't know
i don’t
I don’t🤗
Like i used to be kind and friendly but got bullied and harassed now i'm stuck with severe anxiety & ptsd. People call me weird & autistic and i'm so tired of it!
honestly fr, i'm so much happier now that i didn't get bullied but people will still comments about you without knowing your past and all it does is taking effects on you.
alison is pretty but this gives effy vibes 100%
wow yes
Yess
yes effy!!
Right
Fr
what a lovely voice
I’ve had this song stuck in my head for 8 hours omg
i dont reamber commenting this
Love that for you
Last night I had it stuck in my head so long omg
I could definitely imagine Allison listening to this.
Who's Allison?
@@d.akiehs a character from pretty little liars
“i like this song, it makes me gloomy.”
“gloom is good.”
“really gloomy.”
Her voice reminds me of Myrtle Snow from AHS
omg it does
myrtle is honestly an angel
its true omg
I would listen to this everyday like fr
Gonna have many thoughts in school , I can barely get words out at certain moments. It's horrible but I'm here., not doing amazing but I'm breathing.
you're doing great, love
@@innactiveaccount7390 thank you, I'm doing so much better and you made it even better
This made me feel so better. I’ve always felt so alone, thank you.
@@Toohonesttohandle :))
One time I talked to my brother about how I felt (keep in mind I’ve never told him or anyone how I felt) all he told me after I poured my heart out to him was "life is unfair" ever since that day I’ve never told him anything and this song always reminds me of it
written out lyrics:
I stopped talking when I was six years old
I didn't want anything more to do with the outside world
I was happy being quiet
But, of course, they wouldn't leave me alone
My parents tried every trick in the book
From speech therapists to child psychologists
They even tried bribery
I could have anything
As long as I said it out loud
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Of course this episode didn't last forever
I'd made my point and it was time to move on
To peel away the next layer of deceit
And see what new surprises lay in store
My school report said I showed no interest
"A disruptive influence"
I felt sorry for them in a way
And when they finally expelled me
It didn't mean a thing
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
At that time she stopped what she was doing, she stopped playing
She stared, she had the facial grimacing
And then the psychiatrist was saying
"Julie, Julie, can you hear me? Can you open your eyes?"
"Can you stick out your tongue?"
And all of a sudden, Julie struck out
The November day I came home
The Christmas decorations were already up
Spray on snow, colored flashing lights
And an artificial tree that played Silent Night
Over and over again
My parents welcomed me with loving arms
But within an hour were back at each others throats
Normal, happy childhood back on course
Batteries not included
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
also Effy Stonem vibes
omg yes
@@paigeeee9946 :')💖
So quirky
@@petrovicisimon7501 it has nothing to do with quirkiness
@@faildabortion effy always tries to be edgy ,that's really sad lmao
Alison perfectly fits this song
I remember hearing this song in Spotify and remembering how much I loved it
I used to listen to this song back in july-august every single day and i'm getting so many warm memories I love this thank you ❤️
I FINALLY FOUND THIS SONG AGAIN OMFG
I first listened to this song yesterday and I can’t stop thinking about it now
omg this fits allison so well wtf i never noticed how much it fits until now
Does anyone else notice around 3:20 when it starts singing the chorus again theres a male voice this time, as if a relative saying it at her as part of the story?
Yea I hear it
The male voice is here from the first chorus but I get what you mean anyway
This song reminds me more of Cassie from Skins then anything. And for no reason either because Cassie really doesn't have much a back story. But it just makes me think of her.
I stopped talking when I was six years old
I didn't want anything more to do with the outside world
I was happy being quiet
But, of course, they wouldn't leave me alone
My parents tried every trick in the book
From speech therapists to child psychologists
They even tried bribery
I could have anything
As long as I said it out loud
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Of course this episode didn't last forever
I'd made my point and it was time to move on
To peel away the next layer of deceit
And see what new surprises lay in store
My school report said I showed no interest
"A disruptive influence"
I felt sorry for them in a way
And when they finally expelled me
It didn't mean a thing
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Say what yall want about them but Sonic Youth really influenced alot of new age lo-fi and indie artists and I'm thankful they are a completely disrespected band for what they did for indie/punk sub genres. I hear them and a bit of The Velvet Underground on this track not saying they were the inspiration but the sound is uncanny and I'm loving it. Iykyk I'm only 24 so please stretch your playlists if you haven't heard either it'll be worth it I promise.
this song gives lisa rowe energy and i love it
im so in love with this song
idc what people say about tiktok i wil always love tikto for showing me this song
Yep, as long as they didn't make weird remixes i'll thank them for showing this amazing song
this so like so relatable.. I had selective mutism.. LOL I didn’t even know that was a thing until I watched Effy from Skins. I only spoke to really good friends I knew and trusted. I only spoke when I had too as well. The bribery part is so true lmao I remember my teachers would say if I yelled I would get 100 points and I remember everybody looking at me, waiting for me to yell but I never did 😭 At home I spoke A LOT but at school.. nope. I started talking once I hit middle school lmao thank GOD.
This song in a way feels relatable I feel something is wrong with me but I can’t put my finger on it
sounds like an unreleased song by lana del rey ❤️
it really does
i tough it was lana del rey 😨
you should check out black box recorders tho the songs are so good
YESSS
this was released 20 years ago before lana
Heard this in Gilmore girls and loved it, it has a lana vibe to it
Me tooooooo💔 I was looking for your comment
There’s smth about this song that brings peace in my soul
0:51 any minor inconvenience in my life lmao
"kill yourself or get over it." this..this makes me feel something strange inside..
this song is so relatable to me but instead of speaking its understanding
Here before this blows up (i really hope it does its underrated)
this is really good
My comfort song
i love this song sm
Listening to this song makes me feel so comfortable
This song is so beautiful right now
Such a bittersweet song, nothing much like it to be frank.
this is like 100% effy but the "life is unfair kys or get over it" feels like sth Lisa Rowe would say
This song always reminded me of girl interrupted tbh
Really canon
3:12 this voice sounds like Lana
Im so happy this song is popular, Black box recorder is such an amazing band and im so upset they are so underrated, but atleast this song is a good one.
i was looking for an hour in my history to find this song im so happy
Have so much friends yet no one to talk to. No one to eat with. No one to go to bathroom together. No one to tell your problems to.
I love how this song is :]
Juat found this song and im in love with it.
atleast I’m not the only one, thank you guys, I genuinely appreciate all of you.
I feel like this song would be great in the first season of ahs, it should've been part of tate and violets moments
STOP TALKINGGG
I listened to this sing several months ago, then I started watching PLL. My aṣṣ was so surprised when that scene came on, I was like, wait, I know that picture from somewhere. 😭
I just got dymped so i was looking for sad music. I love this
my current fav songs
Omg i first heard this song when i was watching gilmore girls
i always heard this song on tik tok but decided to listen to the full version after hearing it on gilmore girls 😃
When was it in Gilmore girls? Episode season?
Samee
@@wosiksls It was in season 1 last episodes or 2 earlierst Lane and Rory were listening to it
i can't get over it haha
mt bomm! i essa msc combina com a ali
gilmore girls had a soundtrack so ahead of its time
She was like 12 I hope the production team produced boundaries
Idk why but this song reminds me of tori from the heart stopper comics
i wanna find more songs with this vibe
Lana Del rey songs
@@andromeda5126 Yup I feel like most of the people that like this song are lana del rey fans including myself
Also TV Girl and Eyedress
@@andromeda5126 yeah I love these 2 ❤️
other songs by black box recorder , my personal favourite is kidnapping an heiress
New National anthem
Ok but Alison in the background 😩💪
AAAA amooo
I lost my best friend ...
Nisa i love u sm i will never forget you
this is amazing
Gostei da vibe da música.
Coming here everytime I feel like this
come back 🙏
@@emiven9592 well………idk if you’d want them to come back
🌅Glad you are at a better place. Everything is temporary
I'm not crying you are
i like this song.
love this
a few years ago I went mute, I was really upset with the world and hated everything so I just shut up, I’m better now but yeah
This song gives some vibes🧍🏻♀️
This song is everything 🌿🖤 best type of fever dream
I can’t believe I’m relating to this song 😄
Ok i’ll get over it
I sometimes (alot)think about just what if i stop talking it would be so easy
I already feel a disconnect with everyone else what would not talking do
gonna start listening to the band