couldn't agree more, like when you're all cried out and kindly tell yourself "stop being a little bitch, life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it" 100%
I'm really pathetic my parents abuse me and i still favor them and be good to them i really can't explain i know no one cares but i don't know i really feel like not existing and want to get disappeared
I feel like there's comfort in such a matter of fact statement. It isn't said in a cruel tone, just a truthful and non-judgemental one. I find it very calming too.
A friend of mine called Elita showed me this song, she was the sweetest and most beautiful girl i've ever seen, she was born with autism and had lots of difficulties at early age, because she wasn't able to speak for a long time. She disappeared and i never seen her again, she had some suicidal episodes but i really hope she just found her way in her life, i like to believe she's living happy, instead of thinking the worst. I miss you really much Elita, i don't know where you are right now, but you was the sweetest person i've known.
I relate to everything in this song, I stopped talking at a young age for no reason and my parents always questioned what they did wrong. I regret not being able to build bonds with my parents like others did because I wouldn’t speak. I moved out two years ago & I cry almost every night missing them and wishing I could talk to them.
You still can,pick up the phone and tell them you miss being around them,that they didn’t do you wrong like my parents did,don’t take having a family for granted,life doesn’t have much more in store
I have a classmate who i think is going thru the same thing, school started only yesterday but she doesnt talk. When the teacher tries to ask her if everything is ok she just sits there staring and not talking. Even when we hav lunch she takes the food and goes to sit somewhere but she just sits there staring at the window not moving like at all. Ive tried to talk to her but i dont know what to say bcuz i dont wanna be a bother. She seems like a rlly cool person and i would like to befriend her but i dont know what to do bcuz i dont rlly know her that well. If she is going thru smt i wanna be the kind of friend to be there for her. Do u know what i can do?
@@meli_ma0 approach her when shes sitting alone at lunch and ask if jts okay to sit with her. Even if she doesnt talk to you right away she will appreciate it and see your support
@@liverlamakershoe ok thx but i just know my friend will try to intrude and come sit next to me when im trying to be alone with her, do u think that will be ok or should i take slow steps?
This video looks peaceful. It must be nice sitting in a bathtub in a woodsy area. This video brings me back to childhood memories when I loved the backyard inflated pool with water inside from the hose. It’s funny how I was happy without too many things.
This song seems to have the same atmosphere as Jack and The Cuckoo-Clock Heart. It mentions serious things and complicated feelings in a calm tone almost as if they are just facts. Also the "it is what it is" feeling to this song is unexpectedly comforting.
Whenever she says “kys or get over it” it reminds me of those old tv shows where whenever there is a switch of scene, a few seconds of the shows music plays. I dont know why but it truly beings comfort
I love how she was in a small tub of water when she was in the lake. It’s like the lyric “I didn’t want anything to do with the outside world”, so she stays in her pool instead of going outside to the water.
I am a teenager with body dysmorphia social media fucked my life I constantly feel like I have to grow up do makeup dye my hair just take care of myself but at the same time I have no motivation to do so. I’m on my phone 24/7 and feel like my years are getting wasted I wasted my years and it will never come back. It hurts because you’re only a teenager once and it’s so short. I wish I could spend my days hanging out with friends, being happy but I feel like there is something wrong with me. My depression keeps me chained but my anxiety of being the antisocial annoying one wants me to get up and walk even though the chains cut through my skin. I am so sad because I can’t live my life but I also can’t live my life because I’m sad. It’s a paradox. I mean how am I supposed to look put together when I can’t even keep myself sane?
i understand how you feel entirely honestly, I was the exact same way. i still am sometimes even. everything was just so hard, and it was like, 'I want to go out so I'm not depressed but I cant go out because I'm depressed'. or 'my room is getting messy and its making me more depressed but I cant bring myself to get up to clean it'. as someone whos finally leaving their teen years and moving onto gigantic parts of life, I can promise you it gets better. just take it day by day. i hope things get better quickly for you. i don't know you, but I am sending hugs your way
I know that these thoughts and emotions make us feel alone, like nobody is going through the same thing, but I completely relate to your comment and I know it must've been difficult to write because these mixed nonsensical self contradictory thoughts are like complex labyrinths so one can only go so far in explaining them, only explain the superficial aspects of them and suffering caused by them
This song reminds me of my brother, it makes me understand him better but it also brings me comfort and allows me to relate to some parts I love this song and I’ve always wondered what it would be like from the parents perspective
@@megpijanowski6043 I'm curious to what makes you see that as rude, i meant the person is strong enough to have gone through the things that are hard for them so they should be feeling proud of themself instead. That's why I'm wondering why such strength was responded by pity, it feels that the person isn't appreciating their own self enough
@@annemone4758 because they don't want to understand it? They don't want to have the life experiences that makes it so relatable? They want to be a carefree child? have some empathy and stop romanticizing bad sht happening. Let people feel how they feel.
@@GwenActually Sure thing. You make me realize that I shouldn't really care about how people on the internet feel. They can be sad about themselves for being a strong person and it's not my problem so I should just stay silent, is it? Thanks for that, you rock.
On a nostalgia trip to my teenage years. I listened to this song almost on repeat, and for some reason I never saw it as grim or negative. It is a blunt and honest depiction of what some of us might go through growing up. Life isn't rosy, easy or free from harmful experiences, yet I wouldn't change or erase any personal negative experience in my past. It's all there to make me who I am today. Here I am 20 years later, turning 35 in a couple months, listening to the same song with a smile, reflecting on the impact it might have had on me. Welcome to the other side. We got over it and grew up to be slightly bruised and scarred but (hopefully) wholesome adults. :))
My ex left me because I was suicidal. She said I wasn't getting better. Even tho I graduated and going to college. I work so hard but it gets worse. I found myself helping everyone else and never having anyone there for me. I'm waiting for the day it gets better but I can only wait so long
my mom posts things about mental health every day on her facebook yet can’t be a decent parent for once & tell the signs when her own kids are struggling
I dedicate this comment to those who didnt get over it. To those where the pain was just too much. Oh yes there is the sustainability and proportionality of doing the most permanent of actions, but regardless of the logic and reason, I want the voice and heart heard of the pain, the sadness, the grief. That there is no shame or guilt or even brokenness to feeling like getting over it is too much. Of wanting to fall. Anytime someone does suggest such feelings people come out of the woodwork to fight against it, but that makes you feel broken or something is wrong with the way you feel. Its why this song is so important to so many because it presents the choice as an equal, not as one bein imperative over the other.
This song feels like the story of my life, and it also sounds like a very numb feeling, like the feeling I get when I’m in trouble, where I don’t feel anything but emptiness
(This is a vent you don’t have to read it) This song makes me feel so weird I’m suicidal because of everything in life going on i try to give hints that i need help but no one seems to notice once i cut myself because of how nervous i was i would bite my skin sometimes for it to bleed and i wanted to see if cutting myself would distract me from life and my mom noticed and finally someone noticed something was wrong with me but i was embarrassed so i just made up excuses on why i had those cuts right now it’s even more harder because of school and toxic friends i stopped being friends with people and now that its starting again i feel like I’m going to get bullied and i don’t tell anyone because of my age i feel like the Internet ruined my life more because i see kids my age faking depression online and i feel like if i told someone they would think its all just a phase and the only escape i have is music and drawing it makes me feel sad but at the same time better this song makes me feel better about life but at the same time hate it more
Don’t do that to yourself... especially when you’re basically crying out for help and when someone sees something is wrong you just hide it again. You’re not a burden, she won’t think less of you. You’re her child. Even if you’re not comfortable telling her there are other people you can tell, and if you aren’t comfortable telling anyone you know, there’s online therapy
Being realistic.., it doesn’t always get better but all you can do is just keep surviving because you don’t have enough courage to stop breathing… life really is unfair but I know that one day this pain, suffering, and misery will all be over and we’ll all be in a better place… a place that isn’t here
•Lyrics • I stopped talking when I was six years old I didn't want anything more to do with the outside world I was happy being quiet But, of course, they wouldn't leave me alone My parents tried every trick in the book From speech therapists to child psychologists They even tried bribery I could have anything As long as I said it out loud Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it Of course this episode didn't last forever I'd made my point and it was time to move on To peel away the next layer of deceit And see what new surprises lay in store My school report said I showed no interest "A disruptive influence" I felt sorry for them in a way And when they finally expelled me It didn't mean a thing Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it The November day when I came home The Christmas decorations were already up Spray on snow, coloured flashing lights And an artificial tree that played Silent Night Over and over again My parents welcomed me with loving arms But within an hour were back at each others throats Normal, happy childhood back on course Batteries not included Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
I like that this song has boiled the worst moments in my life down to two simple options. I don't want to die so I guess I'll get over it and therefore I'll keep moving forward. It makes me smile that I always have a choice no matter what. Making the situation barrable.
i still cry about her and think of how much i hate her, but also how much i care about her, and how i would go back to being her friend even if she showed me the littlest bit of attention. you can’t ever truly get over something, you just continue on living. i’ll probably live the rest of my life without her. i guess that’s my way of getting over it. just pretending. but i think that’s how a lot of people feel. its like a scar. you can never truly heal it. even if you can’t see it, and it’s “gone” it still was there, and it’ll always be with you, no matter how hidden.
@ im doing a lot better thanks for checking in :) i feel like things always linger, it gets to a point where sadness isn’t as debilitating as it was before
I believe in you! I’m proud of you for still trying. One stranger once told me “You cannot have a positive life and a negative mind.“ It can be hard but just being positive can help you. It’s not crime to ask for help. If you really need someone to talk to, it’s ok to do it.
This song is just so true and comforting, whenever i remember i am a misanthropic who will never feel really connected with people or believe that is teal and tho i "hate humanity" and believe wolrd is a shit and doesn't worth living, i listen to this song... Its so comforting being like "yes life is a shit, what will you do about it? Cry?" Even for a moment...
This song means a lot to me. When i was still a kid, my mother made sure to tell me that "life is unfair" in one of our countless fights. No wonder I always was an "old soul". My never diagnosed autistic ass couldn't make proper construction through pretty much all of my teenage years. Depression was so-so obvious but for some reason everyone i talked to were blind. Deep in night, lyrics of this song would go through my mind with my mother's words. "Life is unfair. Kill yourself or get over it". And it still feels like I'm never getting over it. But the song has a special warm spot deep in me, it gets me, and that matters for me.
gerçekten çok güzel, klip küçükken hiç arkadaşımın olmamaması ve sürekli zorbalığa maruz kalmam ve herkesin beni dışlaması yüzünden intihar etme girişimimi hatırlattı. keşke o günlere dönsem, bir avuç hap yutup yuttuklarımı geri kusmamak için üstüne reçelli ekmek yiyip en sevdiğim geceliğimle yatağıma uzansam
umarım şu an iyisindir, ayrıca burada bir türk görmek de beni mutlu etti. ben de bu şarkıyı dinleyerek intihar girişimlerimi düşünürüm hem. ayrıca sputnik sevgilim de en sevdiğim kitaptır nickinde o olması çok güzel
As someone who grew up in a seriously dysfunctional codependent family with shitty abusive parents, yeah, this song is pretty relatable. Especially the bit where she says "Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it"
Also, don't try suicide or you'll be poor. Trust me. I finally started with a therapist again, and the first thing she said to me was damn girl, you're broke asf.
I dont understand how the fuck people can live like that, I sure as hell wish I could. How? How can you just be like "ahaha yeah there's no reason for any of this and life kind of sucks but i can still be happy" HOW
hey my love. I know it’s hard but you just can’t end it all! If you have friends or family please dont end it for them and if you dont show other people that youre stronger then they think!
I use this song for anger management which is probably because I interpret it differently. The chorus yields two options if I want to stop being angry about something: 1) Kill myself 2) Get over it... well I have never wanted to kill myself so that just leaves getting over it. This song helps me let things go.
Exactly. It’s suppose to be a brutal punch of reality. You can sit around and mope all day but it won’t change anything. There’s only 2 things to do on this earth when you feel life is unfair. Kill your self… or get over it.
It might seem like that right now.. And it’ll probably stay that way tomorrow, in a week, a month and maybe even a year from now, but you’ll learn to live with it and slowly get over it.. I’m so proud of you for making it this far.. Just a little longer now :)
@@onlyascreenaway1022 wow this was so sweet. at the time i thought i wouldn’t make it to the end of the year. i can confirm you were right! life got better. it took a lot of work but i got to a much better place. thanks for taking the time for writing a sweet comment
to me this sounds like the numb feeling u get after breaking down crying
yes i hate that feeling it always makes me cry more lol makes me feel like a robot with no ambitions or free will
Omg this is so exact
Just be permanently numb after it happening so many times, now nothing hurts anymore :)
couldn't agree more, like when you're all cried out and kindly tell yourself "stop being a little bitch, life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it" 100%
I'm really pathetic my parents abuse me and i still favor them and be good to them i really can't explain i know no one cares but i don't know i really feel like not existing and want to get disappeared
this song makes me feel safe for some reason
I feel like there's comfort in such a matter of fact statement. It isn't said in a cruel tone, just a truthful and non-judgemental one. I find it very calming too.
@@izzyh6831 yes this!!
Same
Me too
Songs like all that vibes likes this are my bestie forever
hurts like hell but im not going to die.
hope youre staying strong, friend
Stay alive
me too we’re in it together
love u
same, stay strong
It hurts so bad when you show people signs but they still don’t seem to do anything until it actually happens.
I hope you're okay
what do u want them to do? everything depends on u, no matter what
Literally what im struggling with rn
@@randomletters1681 x
@@vveregild what if whatever u just said was my last straw? 😍😍
It’s weird my sadness has started to feel like a blanket of comfort in a way that it’s almost nice being sad
"I miss the comfort in being sad" - Kurt Cobain
Yeah im going thru the same thing, i always find ways to be upset since being happy after 4 years was a strange feeling. I hope ur doing good love x
Same
Yeah, but it makes it harder to be happy
It's the comfort of what is familiar, even if that comfort is inherently uncomfortable.
A friend of mine called Elita showed me this song, she was the sweetest and most beautiful girl i've ever seen, she was born with autism and had lots of difficulties at early age, because she wasn't able to speak for a long time. She disappeared and i never seen her again, she had some suicidal episodes but i really hope she just found her way in her life, i like to believe she's living happy, instead of thinking the worst.
I miss you really much Elita, i don't know where you are right now, but you was the sweetest person i've known.
We can only hope she is okay, she sounds amazing ❤
She is safe with God 🙏🏻
@@hxnnxh77 oh shut up hannah.
I admire how she remains calm and non-judgmental, simply conveying the truth with clarity and honesty. No embellishments, just pure sincerity.
Ordinarily lyrics like these would probably be a lot sadder and morose, but the calmness in her voice makes it a lot more reassuring oddly
funnily the chorus of this song is what made me take a more positive mindset to life. i can be miserable, or get over it. i’m choosing to get over it.
You are the first person that realizes what this Song really is supposed to mean🎉🎉🎉
same. not to be dramatic but it changed my whole perspective on life
"Life is unfair. Kill yourself or get over it"
Most relatable line. And so are the others :(
Poignantly relatable 200 percent
i'm obsessed with her talking voice
hold music for the suicide hotline
😂😂😂
I relate to everything in this song, I stopped talking at a young age for no reason and my parents always questioned what they did wrong. I regret not being able to build bonds with my parents like others did because I wouldn’t speak.
I moved out two years ago & I cry almost every night missing them and wishing I could talk to them.
You still can,pick up the phone and tell them you miss being around them,that they didn’t do you wrong like my parents did,don’t take having a family for granted,life doesn’t have much more in store
Give them a call, or write them a letter. It will mean everything to them
I have a classmate who i think is going thru the same thing, school started only yesterday but she doesnt talk. When the teacher tries to ask her if everything is ok she just sits there staring and not talking. Even when we hav lunch she takes the food and goes to sit somewhere but she just sits there staring at the window not moving like at all. Ive tried to talk to her but i dont know what to say bcuz i dont wanna be a bother. She seems like a rlly cool person and i would like to befriend her but i dont know what to do bcuz i dont rlly know her that well. If she is going thru smt i wanna be the kind of friend to be there for her. Do u know what i can do?
@@meli_ma0 approach her when shes sitting alone at lunch and ask if jts okay to sit with her. Even if she doesnt talk to you right away she will appreciate it and see your support
@@liverlamakershoe ok thx but i just know my friend will try to intrude and come sit next to me when im trying to be alone with her, do u think that will be ok or should i take slow steps?
This song reminds me of freshman me laying in bed all day bc I was too sad to do anything. I’m a senior now and I still do this.
Moral of the story I’m still fucking sad
@@holytish wanna talk?
@@felixboldy1152 Thank you, but I’m actually doing pretty good today:)
I'm literally a sad freshman laying in bed listening to this lol
Same
This video looks peaceful. It must be nice sitting in a bathtub in a woodsy area. This video brings me back to childhood memories when I loved the backyard inflated pool with
water inside from the hose. It’s funny how I was happy without too many things.
@St. Haborym one could also say that your beliefs are bullshit.
i thought this year would be better
haha same, but it's been almost five years already
@@emo6452 same since i lost the woman i once knew
make whatever changes you want to see in your life today, i believe in you
same, i don't even know what went wrong
Next year will be….
This song seems to have the same atmosphere as Jack and The Cuckoo-Clock Heart. It mentions serious things and complicated feelings in a calm tone almost as if they are just facts. Also the "it is what it is" feeling to this song is unexpectedly comforting.
THATS WHAT I SAID. THANK UOU.
omg ur right I love that movie
Whenever she says “kys or get over it” it reminds me of those old tv shows where whenever there is a switch of scene, a few seconds of the shows music plays. I dont know why but it truly beings comfort
I don't know if I'm going to get over it.
i hope you're doing okay
if it’s hurts u, hurt it back i hope ur okay and u get over it
I believe in you you can do it! Karma will get to them.
then go around it. take a wide berth, and find a new path.
I hope you do I really do
i get so triggered when ppl tell me to get over it but this lyric........helps me in a way i cannot describe
I love how she was in a small tub of water when she was in the lake. It’s like the lyric “I didn’t want anything to do with the outside world”, so she stays in her pool instead of going outside to the water.
I am a teenager with body dysmorphia social media fucked my life I constantly feel like I have to grow up do makeup dye my hair just take care of myself but at the same time I have no motivation to do so. I’m on my phone 24/7 and feel like my years are getting wasted I wasted my years and it will never come back. It hurts because you’re only a teenager once and it’s so short. I wish I could spend my days hanging out with friends, being happy but I feel like there is something wrong with me. My depression keeps me chained but my anxiety of being the antisocial annoying one wants me to get up and walk even though the chains cut through my skin. I am so sad because I can’t live my life but I also can’t live my life because I’m sad. It’s a paradox. I mean how am I supposed to look put together when I can’t even keep myself sane?
I’m sorry you feel like that and I promise you it really does get better. Just be patient with yourself and let it happen…❤️
Well im sorry that you feel that way
i understand how you feel entirely honestly, I was the exact same way. i still am sometimes even. everything was just so hard, and it was like, 'I want to go out so I'm not depressed but I cant go out because I'm depressed'. or 'my room is getting messy and its making me more depressed but I cant bring myself to get up to clean it'. as someone whos finally leaving their teen years and moving onto gigantic parts of life, I can promise you it gets better. just take it day by day. i hope things get better quickly for you. i don't know you, but I am sending hugs your way
hey you don’t need to look put together - it’s so ok to feel like shit, have u got anybody to talk to? that helped me infinitely
I know that these thoughts and emotions make us feel alone, like nobody is going through the same thing, but I completely relate to your comment and I know it must've been difficult to write because these mixed nonsensical self contradictory thoughts are like complex labyrinths so one can only go so far in explaining them, only explain the superficial aspects of them and suffering caused by them
this is the song i think of when i have to listen to a million people vent about their amazing lives
I could listen to this all day
This song reminds me of my brother, it makes me understand him better but it also brings me comfort and allows me to relate to some parts I love this song and I’ve always wondered what it would be like from the parents perspective
I don't know how to explain it, but this song opens my mind very gently. It hurts understand the chorus even though I'm just a teenager:((
What's with the self pity
@@annemone4758 maybe don't be so rude?
@@megpijanowski6043 I'm curious to what makes you see that as rude, i meant the person is strong enough to have gone through the things that are hard for them so they should be feeling proud of themself instead. That's why I'm wondering why such strength was responded by pity, it feels that the person isn't appreciating their own self enough
@@annemone4758 because they don't want to understand it? They don't want to have the life experiences that makes it so relatable? They want to be a carefree child? have some empathy and stop romanticizing bad sht happening. Let people feel how they feel.
@@GwenActually Sure thing. You make me realize that I shouldn't really care about how people on the internet feel. They can be sad about themselves for being a strong person and it's not my problem so I should just stay silent, is it? Thanks for that, you rock.
Damn 2024 and still listening to that …
Same…
Soon 2025 and I'll still listen to that
I’ve never been this tired in my life.
On a nostalgia trip to my teenage years. I listened to this song almost on repeat, and for some reason I never saw it as grim or negative. It is a blunt and honest depiction of what some of us might go through growing up. Life isn't rosy, easy or free from harmful experiences, yet I wouldn't change or erase any personal negative experience in my past. It's all there to make me who I am today.
Here I am 20 years later, turning 35 in a couple months, listening to the same song with a smile, reflecting on the impact it might have had on me.
Welcome to the other side. We got over it and grew up to be slightly bruised and scarred but (hopefully) wholesome adults. :))
My ex left me because I was suicidal. She said I wasn't getting better. Even tho I graduated and going to college. I work so hard but it gets worse. I found myself helping everyone else and never having anyone there for me. I'm waiting for the day it gets better but I can only wait so long
i hope you're doing ok
@@carolina77903 yea I'm still in college doing more for myself
I’m so sorry
Hey man are you still alive? Please dont do anything stupid…
Please, you will get okay.
I don’t think I’m capable of get over it...
I hope your doing ok
you don't have to get over it, step on it.
I hope ur ok
@@cornykorn2478 istg if tiktok finds this song
@@resett6765 they did
The line "Kill yourself or get over it" is so good, always on my mind whenever I'm feeling depressed.
i always come back to this song. its always true. this is just how life is
my mom posts things about mental health every day on her facebook yet can’t be a decent parent for once & tell the signs when her own kids are struggling
I'm so sorry babe.
Oh my god same. I'm so sorry. Life will get better, just believe. ❤
Hug .hang in there trust me it’ll get better , from your inside strength not from the others
Its hard... Tell everyone you cares how do you feel
L mom
I dedicate this comment to those who didnt get over it. To those where the pain was just too much. Oh yes there is the sustainability and proportionality of doing the most permanent of actions, but regardless of the logic and reason, I want the voice and heart heard of the pain, the sadness, the grief. That there is no shame or guilt or even brokenness to feeling like getting over it is too much. Of wanting to fall. Anytime someone does suggest such feelings people come out of the woodwork to fight against it, but that makes you feel broken or something is wrong with the way you feel. Its why this song is so important to so many because it presents the choice as an equal, not as one bein imperative over the other.
This song feels like the story of my life, and it also sounds like a very numb feeling, like the feeling I get when I’m in trouble, where I don’t feel anything but emptiness
this is peaceful to me somehow
my friend posted a video with this song it's my new favorite song. life really is unfair. so unfair.
so did MY friend... omg I hope they're doing ok🗿
this is my life motto
I wish we had more british "black sarcasm" indie music like this... anything out there?
yess i second that question
you should listen to the band black country, new road
Kick the tragedy?
@@Mgmg.mg574 the song by drop nineteen?
Portishead is a lot like this indie dark triphop vibe
Fun fact; this song is banned from being played on the radio even tho it was a popular song at the time ( from what I've read !! )
(This is a vent you don’t have to read it) This song makes me feel so weird I’m suicidal because of everything in life going on i try to give hints that i need help but no one seems to notice once i cut myself because of how nervous i was i would bite my skin sometimes for it to bleed and i wanted to see if cutting myself would distract me from life and my mom noticed and finally someone noticed something was wrong with me but i was embarrassed so i just made up excuses on why i had those cuts right now it’s even more harder because of school and toxic friends i stopped being friends with people and now that its starting again i feel like I’m going to get bullied and i don’t tell anyone because of my age i feel like the Internet ruined my life more because i see kids my age faking depression online and i feel like if i told someone they would think its all just a phase and the only escape i have is music and drawing it makes me feel sad but at the same time better this song makes me feel better about life but at the same time hate it more
I’m so sorry :( music is honestly the best therapy sometimes
Don’t do that to yourself... especially when you’re basically crying out for help and when someone sees something is wrong you just hide it again. You’re not a burden, she won’t think less of you. You’re her child. Even if you’re not comfortable telling her there are other people you can tell, and if you aren’t comfortable telling anyone you know, there’s online therapy
Being realistic.., it doesn’t always get better but all you can do is just keep surviving because you don’t have enough courage to stop breathing… life really is unfair but I know that one day this pain, suffering, and misery will all be over and we’ll all be in a better place…
a place that isn’t here
This song is beautiful
•Lyrics •
I stopped talking when I was six years old
I didn't want anything more to do with the outside world
I was happy being quiet
But, of course, they wouldn't leave me alone
My parents tried every trick in the book
From speech therapists to child psychologists
They even tried bribery
I could have anything
As long as I said it out loud
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Of course this episode didn't last forever
I'd made my point and it was time to move on
To peel away the next layer of deceit
And see what new surprises lay in store
My school report said I showed no interest
"A disruptive influence"
I felt sorry for them in a way
And when they finally expelled me
It didn't mean a thing
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
The November day when I came home
The Christmas decorations were already up
Spray on snow, coloured flashing lights
And an artificial tree that played Silent Night
Over and over again
My parents welcomed me with loving arms
But within an hour were back at each others throats
Normal, happy childhood back on course
Batteries not included
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Thanks man
This reminds me of the feeling of not caring about anything or what I feel when I’m alone and it’s very quiet
I can't believe I just found this song and it was released a really long time ago. Really love it
somehow got here from gilmore girls not dissapointed
Glad I found someone came because of gilmore girls like me 😂
@@fa6om hello fellow one
Simran Persad I feel gloomy
what episode?
so I’m not the only one from Gilmore girls great
this song has always reminded me of myself growing up. that's why it's my favorite song.
Nice pfp
@@aggserp4340 thank you :)
My friend is everything I can’t have but have always wanted. It came so naturally to her, she didn’t have to try. I DO. I TRY. I fail.
I’m such a poser.
cute channel
This is the most gorgeous thing I’ve ever experienced
I can’t get over it I can’t kms either. I’m trapped
Melancholically beautiful
life sucks but i'm gonna die anyway; might as well wait until something good happens or it'd not have been worth it. keep living
I like that this song has boiled the worst moments in my life down to two simple options. I don't want to die so I guess I'll get over it and therefore I'll keep moving forward. It makes me smile that I always have a choice no matter what. Making the situation barrable.
i still cry about her and think of how much i hate her, but also how much i care about her, and how i would go back to being her friend even if she showed me the littlest bit of attention. you can’t ever truly get over something, you just continue on living. i’ll probably live the rest of my life without her. i guess that’s my way of getting over it. just pretending. but i think that’s how a lot of people feel. its like a scar. you can never truly heal it. even if you can’t see it, and it’s “gone” it still was there, and it’ll always be with you, no matter how hidden.
How’ve you been?
Is there any hope to get over something completely?
@ im doing a lot better thanks for checking in :) i feel like things always linger, it gets to a point where sadness isn’t as debilitating as it was before
I’ve considered it every day since I enlisted. I got out, worked hard, talked got therapists, and life has not gotten better.
this is honestly the first time ive liked a song before it got to tiktok
This is painfully underrated
It hurts when I been showing signs since I was a kid but no one cared enough to help
Riff of the spoken word part reminds me vaguely of My Iron Lung
i dont think i can get over it
I believe in you! I’m proud of you for still trying. One stranger once told me “You cannot have a positive life and a negative mind.“ It can be hard but just being positive can help you. It’s not crime to ask for help. If you really need someone to talk to, it’s ok to do it.
it’s okay to not be okay, it’s not okay to suffer in silence
i’ve had selective mutism since i was 6, so i relate to the lyrics
i used to have it and when i heard this song it immediately hit home
This song is something else
i love this song
This song is just so true and comforting, whenever i remember i am a misanthropic who will never feel really connected with people or believe that is teal and tho i "hate humanity" and believe wolrd is a shit and doesn't worth living, i listen to this song... Its so comforting being like "yes life is a shit, what will you do about it? Cry?" Even for a moment...
This song's been resonating with me more and more recently
this song makes me feel a feeling that doesn’t exist
This song have a sense of memory’s
This song means a lot to me. When i was still a kid, my mother made sure to tell me that "life is unfair" in one of our countless fights. No wonder I always was an "old soul". My never diagnosed autistic ass couldn't make proper construction through pretty much all of my teenage years. Depression was so-so obvious but for some reason everyone i talked to were blind. Deep in night, lyrics of this song would go through my mind with my mother's words. "Life is unfair. Kill yourself or get over it". And it still feels like I'm never getting over it. But the song has a special warm spot deep in me, it gets me, and that matters for me.
gerçekten çok güzel, klip küçükken hiç arkadaşımın olmamaması ve sürekli zorbalığa maruz kalmam ve herkesin beni dışlaması yüzünden intihar etme girişimimi hatırlattı. keşke o günlere dönsem, bir avuç hap yutup yuttuklarımı geri kusmamak için üstüne reçelli ekmek yiyip en sevdiğim geceliğimle yatağıma uzansam
neden? hala okadar kotumu hershey?
umarım şu an iyisindir, ayrıca burada bir türk görmek de beni mutlu etti. ben de bu şarkıyı dinleyerek intihar girişimlerimi düşünürüm hem. ayrıca sputnik sevgilim de en sevdiğim kitaptır nickinde o olması çok güzel
@@bettysubs9878 teshekkurler, umarim sende iyisin. nick’im kendi isim ve soyismim. tam olarak sputnik sevgilimle ne alakasi var anlamadim
@@ceyhuncavadov3438 sana dememis
As someone who grew up in a seriously dysfunctional codependent family with shitty abusive parents, yeah, this song is pretty relatable. Especially the bit where she says "Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it"
dear humans pls don't get a child when u're literally so poor
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true true words
Also, don't try suicide or you'll be poor. Trust me. I finally started with a therapist again, and the first thing she said to me was damn girl, you're broke asf.
this should be in the instruction manual for life. if ur miserable don't bring additional humans into that misery
interesting thing about this is the new abortion laws in the us rn
love this.
Shades of Sparklehorse. Good stuff.
This is weirdly comforting for me
Favorite song ...
still listening to this song after 2 years, never gets old ❤
Wondering if im in the minority here but i see this as a positive song. Get over it, thats life.
Now No Shore by oOoOO, thats a depressing song!
NO BC SAME
I dont understand how the fuck people can live like that, I sure as hell wish I could. How? How can you just be like "ahaha yeah there's no reason for any of this and life kind of sucks but i can still be happy" HOW
@@jellopackets3770 idk it takes time i guess
@@jellopackets3770 I mean no meaning means no responsibilities. You can do anything really, so that’s pretty happy :)
@@jellopackets3770 you’ve just got to relinquish any desire to have a happy life and enjoy what you have
i can’t get over it.
hey, I hope you’re doing okay
hey my love. I know it’s hard but you just can’t end it all! If you have friends or family please dont end it for them and if you dont show other people that youre stronger then they think!
i love this song so much this was my exact child hood
my only two choices left.
I use this song for anger management which is probably because I interpret it differently. The chorus yields two options if I want to stop being angry about something: 1) Kill myself 2) Get over it... well I have never wanted to kill myself so that just leaves getting over it. This song helps me let things go.
Exactly. This line saved me so many times honestly
Exactly. It’s suppose to be a brutal punch of reality. You can sit around and mope all day but it won’t change anything. There’s only 2 things to do on this earth when you feel life is unfair. Kill your self… or get over it.
Sounds like this was the inspiration to Wonderboy by tenacious T
I keep expecting Jack Black to start singing.
This is beautiful
one of my favourite songs ❤️ i know it from gilmore girls
yess ! I knew it before Gilmore girls but when she was sitting on the bed with lane I knew I recognised it
i discovered this song last year and I was just watching that gilmore girls episode and got so excited when i heard it again !!
If you're reading this, I'm proud of you and I'm glad you're still here.
im not gonna get over it
It might seem like that right now.. And it’ll probably stay that way tomorrow, in a week, a month and maybe even a year from now, but you’ll learn to live with it and slowly get over it.. I’m so proud of you for making it this far.. Just a little longer now :)
@@onlyascreenaway1022 wow this was so sweet. at the time i thought i wouldn’t make it to the end of the year. i can confirm you were right! life got better. it took a lot of work but i got to a much better place. thanks for taking the time for writing a sweet comment
Wow these guys are on the same record label as Bjork, makes sense, both are amazing artists.
Bahoi m-a adus aici
it’s make my feel more comfort i don’t no why but it has a power that is not depress
This song reminds me of my dark days
Me encanta esta música!
Es muy buena
This sound always reminded of Effy from Skins.
hopefully no one ever finds this except us from this comment section
It’s the raw feeling that makes it so disturbing
Most relatable thing I've ever seen
Getting over it
i think we need to promote this haha its kinda cool beats and have a nice lyrics
i think ima get over it
love