Black Box Recorder- Child Psychology (Official Video)

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  • Опубликовано: 5 июл 2018
  • Black Box Recorder- Child Psychology
    Taken from the Black Box Recorder boxset 'Life is Unfair'
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  • @flavorousearthworm3651
    @flavorousearthworm3651 2 года назад +2579

    to me this sounds like the numb feeling u get after breaking down crying

    • @samanthabravo1092
      @samanthabravo1092 2 года назад +62

      yes i hate that feeling it always makes me cry more lol makes me feel like a robot with no ambitions or free will

    • @liliahamida5420
      @liliahamida5420 2 года назад +13

      Omg this is so exact

    • @rabbit1908
      @rabbit1908 2 года назад +10

      Just be permanently numb after it happening so many times, now nothing hurts anymore :)

    • @justanotheranhedonicguy5132
      @justanotheranhedonicguy5132 Год назад

      couldn't agree more, like when you're all cried out and kindly tell yourself "stop being a little bitch, life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it" 100%

    • @chiara6942
      @chiara6942 Год назад +3

      I'm really pathetic my parents abuse me and i still favor them and be good to them i really can't explain i know no one cares but i don't know i really feel like not existing and want to get disappeared

  • @paszczkabrygida7216
    @paszczkabrygida7216 3 года назад +2753

    hurts like hell but im not going to die.

  • @lizxoxox
    @lizxoxox 3 года назад +2046

    this song makes me feel safe for some reason

    • @izzyh6831
      @izzyh6831 2 года назад +144

      I feel like there's comfort in such a matter of fact statement. It isn't said in a cruel tone, just a truthful and non-judgemental one. I find it very calming too.

    • @lizxoxox
      @lizxoxox 2 года назад +8

      @@izzyh6831 yes this!!

    • @kasakgoyal3057
      @kasakgoyal3057 2 года назад +3

      Same

    • @mercedesmusicofficial2244
      @mercedesmusicofficial2244 2 года назад +3

      Me too

    • @chiara6942
      @chiara6942 Год назад +3

      Songs like all that vibes likes this are my bestie forever

  • @xboileeko7226
    @xboileeko7226 Год назад +454

    "Life is unfair. Kill yourself or get over it"
    Most relatable line. And so are the others :(

    • @KrisannaMarie
      @KrisannaMarie 9 месяцев назад +4

      Poignantly relatable 200 percent

  • @banali5062
    @banali5062 3 года назад +2574

    It hurts so bad when you show people signs but they still don’t seem to do anything until it actually happens.

    • @randomletters1681
      @randomletters1681 3 года назад +36

      I hope you're okay

    • @vveregild
      @vveregild 3 года назад +82

      what do u want them to do? everything depends on u, no matter what

    • @user-re9qb7en7y
      @user-re9qb7en7y 2 года назад +4

      Literally what im struggling with rn

    • @lou-annedarbost5243
      @lou-annedarbost5243 2 года назад

      @@randomletters1681 x

    • @szlli6905
      @szlli6905 2 года назад +41

      @@vveregild what if whatever u just said was my last straw? 😍😍

  • @mercoro
    @mercoro Год назад +310

    A friend of mine called Elita showed me this song, she was the sweetest and most beautiful girl i've ever seen, she was born with autism and had lots of difficulties at early age, because she wasn't able to speak for a long time. She disappeared and i never seen her again, she had some suicidal episodes but i really hope she just found her way in her life, i like to believe she's living happy, instead of thinking the worst.
    I miss you really much Elita, i don't know where you are right now, but you was the sweetest person i've known.

    • @JUST.A.PERSON.EXISTING
      @JUST.A.PERSON.EXISTING 8 месяцев назад +21

      We can only hope she is okay, she sounds amazing ❤

    • @hxnnxh77
      @hxnnxh77 5 месяцев назад +5

      She is safe with God 🙏🏻

  • @niaram
    @niaram 7 месяцев назад +84

    funnily the chorus of this song is what made me take a more positive mindset to life. i can be miserable, or get over it. i’m choosing to get over it.

    • @LED-xv2nu
      @LED-xv2nu 5 месяцев назад +8

      You are the first person that realizes what this Song really is supposed to mean🎉🎉🎉

  • @mamadukie9530
    @mamadukie9530 Год назад +565

    It’s weird my sadness has started to feel like a blanket of comfort in a way that it’s almost nice being sad

    • @delugesofgrandeur
      @delugesofgrandeur Год назад +50

      "I miss the comfort in being sad" - Kurt Cobain

    • @avatarbbg
      @avatarbbg Год назад +9

      Yeah im going thru the same thing, i always find ways to be upset since being happy after 4 years was a strange feeling. I hope ur doing good love x

    • @suebludhaven3110
      @suebludhaven3110 Год назад +2

      Same

    • @bakatoaster6000-yt
      @bakatoaster6000-yt Год назад +3

      Yeah, but it makes it harder to be happy

    • @pesamesagisum
      @pesamesagisum Год назад +4

      It's the comfort of what is familiar, even if that comfort is inherently uncomfortable.

  • @mcveigh2k624
    @mcveigh2k624 Год назад +92

    hold music for the suicide hotline

  • @milkz5161
    @milkz5161 2 года назад +444

    i thought this year would be better

    • @emo6452
      @emo6452 2 года назад +15

      haha same, but it's been almost five years already

    • @juani.floresalanis2398
      @juani.floresalanis2398 2 года назад +1

      @@emo6452 same since i lost the woman i once knew

    • @MadisonRichards-yj6yi
      @MadisonRichards-yj6yi 2 года назад +2

      make whatever changes you want to see in your life today, i believe in you

    • @asfhkjd
      @asfhkjd Месяц назад +1

      same, i don't even know what went wrong

    • @deco5159
      @deco5159 26 дней назад

      Next year will be….

  • @undercoverelle
    @undercoverelle 2 года назад +133

    i'm obsessed with her talking voice

  • @diana-ll2dt
    @diana-ll2dt 2 года назад +796

    I relate to everything in this song, I stopped talking at a young age for no reason and my parents always questioned what they did wrong. I regret not being able to build bonds with my parents like others did because I wouldn’t speak.
    I moved out two years ago & I cry almost every night missing them and wishing I could talk to them.

    • @highandaesthetic2214
      @highandaesthetic2214 2 года назад +54

      You still can,pick up the phone and tell them you miss being around them,that they didn’t do you wrong like my parents did,don’t take having a family for granted,life doesn’t have much more in store

    • @liverlamakershoe
      @liverlamakershoe 2 года назад +23

      Give them a call, or write them a letter. It will mean everything to them

    • @meli_ma0
      @meli_ma0 2 года назад +21

      I have a classmate who i think is going thru the same thing, school started only yesterday but she doesnt talk. When the teacher tries to ask her if everything is ok she just sits there staring and not talking. Even when we hav lunch she takes the food and goes to sit somewhere but she just sits there staring at the window not moving like at all. Ive tried to talk to her but i dont know what to say bcuz i dont wanna be a bother. She seems like a rlly cool person and i would like to befriend her but i dont know what to do bcuz i dont rlly know her that well. If she is going thru smt i wanna be the kind of friend to be there for her. Do u know what i can do?

    • @liverlamakershoe
      @liverlamakershoe 2 года назад +14

      @@meli_ma0 approach her when shes sitting alone at lunch and ask if jts okay to sit with her. Even if she doesnt talk to you right away she will appreciate it and see your support

    • @meli_ma0
      @meli_ma0 2 года назад +5

      @@liverlamakershoe ok thx but i just know my friend will try to intrude and come sit next to me when im trying to be alone with her, do u think that will be ok or should i take slow steps?

  • @oleana2047
    @oleana2047 2 года назад +43

    Whenever she says “kys or get over it” it reminds me of those old tv shows where whenever there is a switch of scene, a few seconds of the shows music plays. I dont know why but it truly beings comfort

  • @laurieberry4814
    @laurieberry4814 3 года назад +548

    This video looks peaceful. It must be nice sitting in a bathtub in a woodsy area. This video brings me back to childhood memories when I loved the backyard inflated pool with
    water inside from the hose. It’s funny how I was happy without too many things.

    • @VelvetDreams666
      @VelvetDreams666 2 года назад

      @St. Haborym one could also say that your beliefs are bullshit.

  • @ash-fu9ml
    @ash-fu9ml 3 года назад +721

    I don't know if I'm going to get over it.

    • @asmodemons4264
      @asmodemons4264 3 года назад +35

      i hope you're doing okay

    • @orianacampos847
      @orianacampos847 3 года назад +11

      if it’s hurts u, hurt it back i hope ur okay and u get over it

    • @dibecolonelaoun929
      @dibecolonelaoun929 3 года назад +7

      I believe in you you can do it! Karma will get to them.

    • @trilliumallison9363
      @trilliumallison9363 3 года назад +6

      then go around it. take a wide berth, and find a new path.

    • @michal752
      @michal752 3 года назад +2

      I hope you do I really do

  • @Alex-vs8oc
    @Alex-vs8oc 2 года назад +331

    my mom posts things about mental health every day on her facebook yet can’t be a decent parent for once & tell the signs when her own kids are struggling

    • @simonep8556
      @simonep8556 2 года назад +17

      I'm so sorry babe.

    • @lillbunnyy
      @lillbunnyy 2 года назад +14

      Oh my god same. I'm so sorry. Life will get better, just believe. ❤

    • @YK-xo3bz
      @YK-xo3bz 2 года назад +4

      Hug .hang in there trust me it’ll get better , from your inside strength not from the others

    • @johan.m_
      @johan.m_ 2 года назад +3

      Its hard... Tell everyone you cares how do you feel

    • @mariantakaragani6855
      @mariantakaragani6855 2 года назад +5

      L mom

  • @user-bt2os4px9w
    @user-bt2os4px9w Год назад +97

    This song seems to have the same atmosphere as Jack and The Cuckoo-Clock Heart. It mentions serious things and complicated feelings in a calm tone almost as if they are just facts. Also the "it is what it is" feeling to this song is unexpectedly comforting.

    • @sincerelyeri1
      @sincerelyeri1 11 месяцев назад +3

      THATS WHAT I SAID. THANK UOU.

    • @v01dbug56
      @v01dbug56 6 месяцев назад +1

      omg ur right I love that movie

  • @holytish
    @holytish 2 года назад +355

    This song reminds me of freshman me laying in bed all day bc I was too sad to do anything. I’m a senior now and I still do this.

    • @holytish
      @holytish 2 года назад +34

      Moral of the story I’m still fucking sad

    • @felixboldy1152
      @felixboldy1152 2 года назад +6

      @@holytish wanna talk?

    • @holytish
      @holytish 2 года назад +9

      @@felixboldy1152 Thank you, but I’m actually doing pretty good today:)

    • @kindadone9005
      @kindadone9005 2 года назад +8

      I'm literally a sad freshman laying in bed listening to this lol

    • @jacquelinematamoros68
      @jacquelinematamoros68 2 года назад +3

      Same

  • @chimera2654
    @chimera2654 2 года назад +351

    I am a teenager with body dysmorphia social media fucked my life I constantly feel like I have to grow up do makeup dye my hair just take care of myself but at the same time I have no motivation to do so. I’m on my phone 24/7 and feel like my years are getting wasted I wasted my years and it will never come back. It hurts because you’re only a teenager once and it’s so short. I wish I could spend my days hanging out with friends, being happy but I feel like there is something wrong with me. My depression keeps me chained but my anxiety of being the antisocial annoying one wants me to get up and walk even though the chains cut through my skin. I am so sad because I can’t live my life but I also can’t live my life because I’m sad. It’s a paradox. I mean how am I supposed to look put together when I can’t even keep myself sane?

    • @xen2125
      @xen2125 2 года назад +12

      I’m sorry you feel like that and I promise you it really does get better. Just be patient with yourself and let it happen…❤️

    • @shannonmcmanus8210
      @shannonmcmanus8210 2 года назад +3

      Well im sorry that you feel that way

    • @briana3896
      @briana3896 2 года назад +12

      i understand how you feel entirely honestly, I was the exact same way. i still am sometimes even. everything was just so hard, and it was like, 'I want to go out so I'm not depressed but I cant go out because I'm depressed'. or 'my room is getting messy and its making me more depressed but I cant bring myself to get up to clean it'. as someone whos finally leaving their teen years and moving onto gigantic parts of life, I can promise you it gets better. just take it day by day. i hope things get better quickly for you. i don't know you, but I am sending hugs your way

    • @mikesmith8293
      @mikesmith8293 2 года назад +7

      hey you don’t need to look put together - it’s so ok to feel like shit, have u got anybody to talk to? that helped me infinitely

    • @Alexa-cs6sv
      @Alexa-cs6sv 2 года назад +7

      I know that these thoughts and emotions make us feel alone, like nobody is going through the same thing, but I completely relate to your comment and I know it must've been difficult to write because these mixed nonsensical self contradictory thoughts are like complex labyrinths so one can only go so far in explaining them, only explain the superficial aspects of them and suffering caused by them

  • @neptunejjong
    @neptunejjong 2 года назад +49

    i get so triggered when ppl tell me to get over it but this lyric........helps me in a way i cannot describe

  • @jadepalm9737
    @jadepalm9737 2 года назад +53

    I’ve never been this tired in my life.

  • @reviewbrah6353
    @reviewbrah6353 3 года назад +342

    I don’t think I’m capable of get over it...

  • @pandarebel9517
    @pandarebel9517 2 года назад +148

    My ex left me because I was suicidal. She said I wasn't getting better. Even tho I graduated and going to college. I work so hard but it gets worse. I found myself helping everyone else and never having anyone there for me. I'm waiting for the day it gets better but I can only wait so long

    • @angelinadurkee6071
      @angelinadurkee6071 2 года назад +10

      i hope you're doing ok

    • @pandarebel9517
      @pandarebel9517 2 года назад +9

      @@carolina77903 yea I'm still in college doing more for myself

    • @dudleydursleyasagirl6416
      @dudleydursleyasagirl6416 2 года назад +1

      I’m so sorry

    • @JmanJblack
      @JmanJblack Год назад

      Hey man are you still alive? Please dont do anything stupid…

    • @Skymzzz
      @Skymzzz 5 месяцев назад

      Please, you will get okay.

  • @catadoodle
    @catadoodle Год назад +44

    The line "Kill yourself or get over it" is so good, always on my mind whenever I'm feeling depressed.

  • @beepboop6757
    @beepboop6757 3 года назад +80

    this is the song i think of when i have to listen to a million people vent about their amazing lives

  • @aurabless7552
    @aurabless7552 2 года назад +470

    I wish we had more british "black sarcasm" indie music like this... anything out there?

    • @adastra8019
      @adastra8019 2 года назад +13

      yess i second that question

    • @littlepaperjellyfish
      @littlepaperjellyfish 2 года назад +13

      you should listen to the band black country, new road

    • @Mgmg.mg574
      @Mgmg.mg574 2 года назад +8

      Kick the tragedy?

    • @angel-hy9gk
      @angel-hy9gk 2 года назад +9

      @@Mgmg.mg574 the song by drop nineteen?

    • @chris-um2sh
      @chris-um2sh 2 года назад +16

      Portishead is a lot like this indie dark triphop vibe

  • @kcin1674
    @kcin1674 2 года назад +293

    I don't know how to explain it, but this song opens my mind very gently. It hurts understand the chorus even though I'm just a teenager:((

    • @annemone4758
      @annemone4758 Год назад +7

      What's with the self pity

    • @megpijanowski6043
      @megpijanowski6043 Год назад +13

      @@annemone4758 maybe don't be so rude?

    • @annemone4758
      @annemone4758 Год назад +5

      @@megpijanowski6043 I'm curious to what makes you see that as rude, i meant the person is strong enough to have gone through the things that are hard for them so they should be feeling proud of themself instead. That's why I'm wondering why such strength was responded by pity, it feels that the person isn't appreciating their own self enough

    • @GwenActually
      @GwenActually 10 месяцев назад

      @@annemone4758 because they don't want to understand it? They don't want to have the life experiences that makes it so relatable? They want to be a carefree child? have some empathy and stop romanticizing bad sht happening. Let people feel how they feel.

    • @annemone4758
      @annemone4758 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@GwenActually Sure thing. You make me realize that I shouldn't really care about how people on the internet feel. They can be sad about themselves for being a strong person and it's not my problem so I should just stay silent, is it? Thanks for that, you rock.

  • @mazmaz6905
    @mazmaz6905 3 года назад +98

    my friend posted a video with this song it's my new favorite song. life really is unfair. so unfair.

    • @mfbye6973
      @mfbye6973 3 года назад +5

      so did MY friend... omg I hope they're doing ok🗿

  • @lexilevine5531
    @lexilevine5531 3 года назад +166

    I could listen to this all day

  • @uhh-rb9us
    @uhh-rb9us 3 года назад +74

    this is peaceful to me somehow

  • @AtPitou
    @AtPitou 8 месяцев назад +14

    On a nostalgia trip to my teenage years. I listened to this song almost on repeat, and for some reason I never saw it as grim or negative. It is a blunt and honest depiction of what some of us might go through growing up. Life isn't rosy, easy or free from harmful experiences, yet I wouldn't change or erase any personal negative experience in my past. It's all there to make me who I am today.
    Here I am 20 years later, turning 35 in a couple months, listening to the same song with a smile, reflecting on the impact it might have had on me.
    Welcome to the other side. We got over it and grew up to be slightly bruised and scarred but (hopefully) wholesome adults. :))

  • @bunbun3643
    @bunbun3643 2 года назад +54

    Being realistic.., it doesn’t always get better but all you can do is just keep surviving because you don’t have enough courage to stop breathing… life really is unfair but I know that one day this pain, suffering, and misery will all be over and we’ll all be in a better place…
    a place that isn’t here

  • @simcard_101
    @simcard_101 3 года назад +251

    somehow got here from gilmore girls not dissapointed

    • @fa6om
      @fa6om 3 года назад +19

      Glad I found someone came because of gilmore girls like me 😂

    • @simcard_101
      @simcard_101 3 года назад +3

      @@fa6om hello fellow one

    • @bree9009
      @bree9009 3 года назад +4

      Simran Persad I feel gloomy

    • @poppop-in7ge
      @poppop-in7ge 3 года назад +3

      what episode?

    • @ghadah8530
      @ghadah8530 3 года назад +6

      so I’m not the only one from Gilmore girls great

  • @irane6950
    @irane6950 2 года назад +40

    i always come back to this song. its always true. this is just how life is

  • @rawrxdmf5218
    @rawrxdmf5218 2 года назад +20

    Fun fact; this song is banned from being played on the radio even tho it was a popular song at the time ( from what I've read !! )

  • @jewelchanco
    @jewelchanco 3 года назад +43

    this is my life motto

  • @SulfurSoot
    @SulfurSoot 2 года назад +40

    (This is a vent you don’t have to read it) This song makes me feel so weird I’m suicidal because of everything in life going on i try to give hints that i need help but no one seems to notice once i cut myself because of how nervous i was i would bite my skin sometimes for it to bleed and i wanted to see if cutting myself would distract me from life and my mom noticed and finally someone noticed something was wrong with me but i was embarrassed so i just made up excuses on why i had those cuts right now it’s even more harder because of school and toxic friends i stopped being friends with people and now that its starting again i feel like I’m going to get bullied and i don’t tell anyone because of my age i feel like the Internet ruined my life more because i see kids my age faking depression online and i feel like if i told someone they would think its all just a phase and the only escape i have is music and drawing it makes me feel sad but at the same time better this song makes me feel better about life but at the same time hate it more

    • @maggietheog
      @maggietheog 2 года назад +1

      I’m so sorry :( music is honestly the best therapy sometimes

    • @softwater166
      @softwater166 2 года назад

    • @spiritgoose7406
      @spiritgoose7406 2 года назад +5

      Don’t do that to yourself... especially when you’re basically crying out for help and when someone sees something is wrong you just hide it again. You’re not a burden, she won’t think less of you. You’re her child. Even if you’re not comfortable telling her there are other people you can tell, and if you aren’t comfortable telling anyone you know, there’s online therapy

  • @MarsTheOg.
    @MarsTheOg. Год назад +11

    This reminds me of the feeling of not caring about anything or what I feel when I’m alone and it’s very quiet

  • @Armedbarbie
    @Armedbarbie 3 месяца назад +5

    This song reminds me of my brother, it makes me understand him better but it also brings me comfort and allows me to relate to some parts I love this song and I’ve always wondered what it would be like from the parents perspective

  • @user-zz3ie8uu3o
    @user-zz3ie8uu3o 7 месяцев назад +8

    I can’t get over it I can’t kms either. I’m trapped

  • @asukalangleysoryu7878
    @asukalangleysoryu7878 2 года назад +47

    i’ve had selective mutism since i was 6, so i relate to the lyrics

    • @chimeriie5956
      @chimeriie5956 2 года назад +12

      i used to have it and when i heard this song it immediately hit home

  • @izy5823
    @izy5823 19 дней назад +1

    Damn 2024 and still listening to that …

  • @hannaholson934
    @hannaholson934 3 года назад +47

    this is honestly the first time ive liked a song before it got to tiktok

  • @davemiller4liferss587
    @davemiller4liferss587 2 года назад +23

    My friend is everything I can’t have but have always wanted. It came so naturally to her, she didn’t have to try. I DO. I TRY. I fail.

  • @kampfkeks661
    @kampfkeks661 3 года назад +31

    This song is beautiful

  • @carlosmanuelalbarrantoxqui5465
    @carlosmanuelalbarrantoxqui5465 10 месяцев назад +5

    I can't believe I just found this song and it was released a really long time ago. Really love it

  • @margotschumacher6565
    @margotschumacher6565 2 года назад +11

    This is the most gorgeous thing I’ve ever experienced

  • @st.haborym
    @st.haborym Год назад +22

    As someone who grew up in a seriously dysfunctional codependent family with shitty abusive parents, yeah, this song is pretty relatable. Especially the bit where she says "Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it"

  • @kathrinS888
    @kathrinS888 Год назад +5

    i still cry about her and think of how much i hate her, but also how much i care about her, and how i would go back to being her friend even if she showed me the littlest bit of attention. you can’t ever truly get over something, you just continue on living. i’ll probably live the rest of my life without her. i guess that’s my way of getting over it. just pretending. but i think that’s how a lot of people feel. its like a scar. you can never truly heal it. even if you can’t see it, and it’s “gone” it still was there, and it’ll always be with you, no matter how hidden.

  • @anotherbutterflyeffect
    @anotherbutterflyeffect Год назад +9

    this song has always reminded me of myself growing up. that's why it's my favorite song.

  • @abigaiilqrx
    @abigaiilqrx 4 дня назад

    still listening to this song after 2 years, never gets old ❤

  • @sunny9240
    @sunny9240 Год назад +8

    Melancholically beautiful

  • @ravenpangan3775
    @ravenpangan3775 2 года назад +335

    dear humans pls don't get a child when u're literally so poor

    • @tipsyskeleton
      @tipsyskeleton 2 года назад +20

      fr

    • @gigglino
      @gigglino 2 года назад +10

      true true words

    • @alanamccarthylight732
      @alanamccarthylight732 2 года назад +19

      Also, don't try suicide or you'll be poor. Trust me. I finally started with a therapist again, and the first thing she said to me was damn girl, you're broke asf.

    • @papillon2135
      @papillon2135 2 года назад +32

      this should be in the instruction manual for life. if ur miserable don't bring additional humans into that misery

    • @MadisonRichards-yj6yi
      @MadisonRichards-yj6yi 2 года назад +6

      interesting thing about this is the new abortion laws in the us rn

  • @guslima1130
    @guslima1130 4 года назад +37

    Riff of the spoken word part reminds me vaguely of My Iron Lung

  • @sammy18
    @sammy18 3 года назад +31

    i dont think i can get over it

    • @lynnisstupid8684
      @lynnisstupid8684 3 года назад +11

      I believe in you! I’m proud of you for still trying. One stranger once told me “You cannot have a positive life and a negative mind.“ It can be hard but just being positive can help you. It’s not crime to ask for help. If you really need someone to talk to, it’s ok to do it.

    • @MadisonRichards-yj6yi
      @MadisonRichards-yj6yi 2 года назад +1

      it’s okay to not be okay, it’s not okay to suffer in silence

  • @janeisoblivious
    @janeisoblivious 3 года назад +366

    •Lyrics •
    I stopped talking when I was six years old
    I didn't want anything more to do with the outside world
    I was happy being quiet
    But, of course, they wouldn't leave me alone
    My parents tried every trick in the book
    From speech therapists to child psychologists
    They even tried bribery
    I could have anything
    As long as I said it out loud
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Of course this episode didn't last forever
    I'd made my point and it was time to move on
    To peel away the next layer of deceit
    And see what new surprises lay in store
    My school report said I showed no interest
    "A disruptive influence"
    I felt sorry for them in a way
    And when they finally expelled me
    It didn't mean a thing
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    The November day when I came home
    The Christmas decorations were already up
    Spray on snow, coloured flashing lights
    And an artificial tree that played Silent Night
    Over and over again
    My parents welcomed me with loving arms
    But within an hour were back at each others throats
    Normal, happy childhood back on course
    Batteries not included
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it

  • @spirits470
    @spirits470 Год назад +3

    It hurts when I been showing signs since I was a kid but no one cared enough to help

  • @VigorMortis413
    @VigorMortis413 2 года назад +38

    If you're reading this, I'm proud of you and I'm glad you're still here.

  • @linie3183
    @linie3183 2 года назад +6

    my only two choices left.

  • @chrismarshall22
    @chrismarshall22 2 месяца назад +1

    I like that this song has boiled the worst moments in my life down to two simple options. I don't want to die so I guess I'll get over it and therefore I'll keep moving forward. It makes me smile that I always have a choice no matter what. Making the situation barrable.

  • @zephvonarni
    @zephvonarni Год назад +6

    This is painfully underrated

  • @orianacampos847
    @orianacampos847 3 года назад +17

    hopefully no one ever finds this except us from this comment section

  • @Kosh_Naranek.
    @Kosh_Naranek. 8 месяцев назад +2

    I’ve considered it every day since I enlisted. I got out, worked hard, talked got therapists, and life has not gotten better.

  • @julia-kf9bc
    @julia-kf9bc 9 месяцев назад +8

    I relate a lot to this song. I stopped talking when I was a child because of selective mutism and it really did affect my whole life, I was just living my life as a normal kid then out of a sudden I wanted to die desperately.

  • @Gia_Maria
    @Gia_Maria 11 месяцев назад +5

    This song is so addicting

  • @riverbanzachamploo9725
    @riverbanzachamploo9725 Год назад +4

    This sound always reminded of Effy from Skins.

  • @hannahfannah7821
    @hannahfannah7821 2 года назад +5

    This song have a sense of memory’s

  • @zolarianrace
    @zolarianrace 2 года назад +4

    this song makes me feel a feeling that doesn’t exist

  • @resett6765
    @resett6765 2 года назад +6

    This song is something else

  • @szlli6905
    @szlli6905 2 года назад +4

    This is weirdly comforting for me

  • @zonkedforlife2
    @zonkedforlife2 2 года назад +108

    I use this song for anger management which is probably because I interpret it differently. The chorus yields two options if I want to stop being angry about something: 1) Kill myself 2) Get over it... well I have never wanted to kill myself so that just leaves getting over it. This song helps me let things go.

    • @gavrikoksana6646
      @gavrikoksana6646 Год назад +7

      Exactly. This line saved me so many times honestly

    • @Drunkenmallsanta
      @Drunkenmallsanta Год назад

      Exactly. It’s suppose to be a brutal punch of reality. You can sit around and mope all day but it won’t change anything. There’s only 2 things to do on this earth when you feel life is unfair. Kill your self… or get over it.

  • @nicosmind3
    @nicosmind3 3 года назад +250

    Wondering if im in the minority here but i see this as a positive song. Get over it, thats life.
    Now No Shore by oOoOO, thats a depressing song!

    • @ellenorlurrens3499
      @ellenorlurrens3499 3 года назад +8

      NO BC SAME

    • @jellopackets3770
      @jellopackets3770 3 года назад +8

      I dont understand how the fuck people can live like that, I sure as hell wish I could. How? How can you just be like "ahaha yeah there's no reason for any of this and life kind of sucks but i can still be happy" HOW

    • @ellenorlurrens3499
      @ellenorlurrens3499 3 года назад +1

      @@jellopackets3770 idk it takes time i guess

    • @ellenorlurrens3499
      @ellenorlurrens3499 3 года назад +12

      @@jellopackets3770 I mean no meaning means no responsibilities. You can do anything really, so that’s pretty happy :)

    • @ellis51773
      @ellis51773 2 года назад +10

      @@jellopackets3770 you’ve just got to relinquish any desire to have a happy life and enjoy what you have

  • @AndreaRamirez-zd8ry
    @AndreaRamirez-zd8ry 3 года назад +18

    i love this song

  • @sputniksevgilim3993
    @sputniksevgilim3993 3 года назад +43

    gerçekten çok güzel, klip küçükken hiç arkadaşımın olmamaması ve sürekli zorbalığa maruz kalmam ve herkesin beni dışlaması yüzünden intihar etme girişimimi hatırlattı. keşke o günlere dönsem, bir avuç hap yutup yuttuklarımı geri kusmamak için üstüne reçelli ekmek yiyip en sevdiğim geceliğimle yatağıma uzansam

    • @ceyhuncavadov3438
      @ceyhuncavadov3438 3 года назад

      neden? hala okadar kotumu hershey?

    • @bettysubs9878
      @bettysubs9878 3 года назад

      umarım şu an iyisindir, ayrıca burada bir türk görmek de beni mutlu etti. ben de bu şarkıyı dinleyerek intihar girişimlerimi düşünürüm hem. ayrıca sputnik sevgilim de en sevdiğim kitaptır nickinde o olması çok güzel

    • @ceyhuncavadov3438
      @ceyhuncavadov3438 3 года назад +1

      @@bettysubs9878 teshekkurler, umarim sende iyisin. nick’im kendi isim ve soyismim. tam olarak sputnik sevgilimle ne alakasi var anlamadim

    • @mrblara369
      @mrblara369 2 года назад

      @@ceyhuncavadov3438 sana dememis

  • @bugletto666
    @bugletto666 5 лет назад +31

    Sounds like this was the inspiration to Wonderboy by tenacious T
    I keep expecting Jack Black to start singing.

  • @kittybeefaroni2119
    @kittybeefaroni2119 2 года назад +6

    love this.

  • @unddzmbistr
    @unddzmbistr 2 года назад +2

    This is beautiful

  • @munakum2708
    @munakum2708 2 года назад +6

    This song reminds me of my dark days

  • @epsilonioncellulargenocide38
    @epsilonioncellulargenocide38 8 месяцев назад +1

    This song's been resonating with me more and more recently

  • @radioheadd2444
    @radioheadd2444 3 года назад +3

    I love this

  • @lanaray1661
    @lanaray1661 Год назад +3

    i love this song so much this was my exact child hood

  • @Cinnamongirl4life
    @Cinnamongirl4life 3 года назад +21

    im not gonna get over it

    • @onlyascreenaway1022
      @onlyascreenaway1022 3 года назад +6

      It might seem like that right now.. And it’ll probably stay that way tomorrow, in a week, a month and maybe even a year from now, but you’ll learn to live with it and slowly get over it.. I’m so proud of you for making it this far.. Just a little longer now :)

    • @Cinnamongirl4life
      @Cinnamongirl4life 2 года назад +2

      @@onlyascreenaway1022 wow this was so sweet. at the time i thought i wouldn’t make it to the end of the year. i can confirm you were right! life got better. it took a lot of work but i got to a much better place. thanks for taking the time for writing a sweet comment

  • @Gogeies
    @Gogeies 2 года назад +3

    Favorite song ...

  • @pacinofilms
    @pacinofilms 3 года назад +4

    i love this ^^

  • @okok-dc4qf
    @okok-dc4qf 2 года назад +7

    i can’t get over it.

    • @misshottie1404
      @misshottie1404 2 года назад

      hey, I hope you’re doing okay

    • @Tia-pv5ro
      @Tia-pv5ro 2 года назад

      hey my love. I know it’s hard but you just can’t end it all! If you have friends or family please dont end it for them and if you dont show other people that youre stronger then they think!

  • @vodka9152
    @vodka9152 3 года назад +14

    one of my favourite songs ❤️ i know it from gilmore girls

    • @pelin2343
      @pelin2343 2 года назад +2

      yess ! I knew it before Gilmore girls but when she was sitting on the bed with lane I knew I recognised it

    • @rhea9743
      @rhea9743 2 года назад

      i discovered this song last year and I was just watching that gilmore girls episode and got so excited when i heard it again !!

  • @olivia-nn8oc
    @olivia-nn8oc 3 года назад +2

    beautiful

  • @semecayoelinternet
    @semecayoelinternet Год назад +1

    i love this

  • @chulwell
    @chulwell Год назад

    this song means so much to me

  • @sitttt9007
    @sitttt9007 2 года назад +1

    i cant get over it

  • @geno2033
    @geno2033 3 года назад +35

    god i hate myself

  • @Karoline7787
    @Karoline7787 10 месяцев назад +17

    I stopped talking when I was six years old
    I didn't want anything more to do with the outside world
    I was happy being quiet
    But, of course, they wouldn't leave me alone
    My parents tried every trick in the book
    From speech therapists to child psychologists
    They even tried bribery
    I could have anything
    As long as I said it out loud
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Of course this episode didn't last forever
    I'd made my point and it was time to move on
    To peel away the next layer of deceit
    And see what new surprises lay in store
    My school report said I showed no interest
    "A disruptive influence"
    I felt sorry for them in a way
    And when they finally expelled me
    It didn't mean a thing
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
    Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it

  • @asc_ft01
    @asc_ft01 3 года назад +5

    love

  • @Sleepyfries4286
    @Sleepyfries4286 8 месяцев назад +3

    I literally sent my brother a playlist with this song in it and I don’t think he listened to it… bro the signs are so obvious

  • @mathewt5546
    @mathewt5546 7 месяцев назад +3

    i think ima get over it

  • @sallyfaceenjoyer
    @sallyfaceenjoyer Год назад +3

    Idk if I can get over it though, might just do the other option

  • @lifeissucks6096
    @lifeissucks6096 7 месяцев назад

    Most relatable thing I've ever seen

  • @Yummifoods
    @Yummifoods 5 месяцев назад +1

    It’s the raw feeling that makes it so disturbing

  • @xenos-sens5863
    @xenos-sens5863 Год назад +3

    This song is just like , fatality

  • @redadamearth
    @redadamearth 5 месяцев назад +1

    Shades of Sparklehorse. Good stuff.