Clay is the demon he's fighting | Love is Blind Season 6 Ep 7 - Recap/Review

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  • @jackeeB
    @jackeeB 6 месяцев назад +123

    Clay is useless as a protector and future husband.
    He didn't tell his mom about the cheating but decided to voice his parent's business to the whole world.🤦🏿‍♀️
    He dumps all his trauma on AD instead paying a therapist.
    And he's always referring to himself as a baby and laying his head on AD's chest.
    I cannot with this toddler 😒

    • @kellymarieapplebee
      @kellymarieapplebee 6 месяцев назад +15

      Right!! Like where do people get off saying, "I've actually never told anyone this" the person in question here being his own mother! Yet goes on to tell the WORLD!

    • @emilymurphy4995
      @emilymurphy4995 6 месяцев назад +1

      There’s a difference between saying you want to change and be better and doing something about it. I get it’s hard but he is a grown man and needs to take action to start the process because it’s affecting others. Self awareness is a great step but it means nothing if you don’t do anything about it

  • @danaterry2247
    @danaterry2247 6 месяцев назад +205

    When Clay said Black men aren't faithful...I just knew he surrounds himself with men like his father. And it's sad that he's never seen a real man at his big age

    • @Rachelle-cl6mn
      @Rachelle-cl6mn 6 месяцев назад

      Unfortunately this is what’s happening with a lot of the younger men they don’t have the best examples and cheating/being womanizers is all they’ve seen. They think it’s normal that’s a huuuuge problem rn in our culture

    • @JM-sd5dt
      @JM-sd5dt 6 месяцев назад +5

      When you say real do you mean faithful? I'm sure he's been around real men. He's an independent black man, and I think he's had proper guidance.
      He's being transparent about his feelings. I appreciate that he is discussing his insecurities and fears. I hope he gets the help he needs.

    • @danaterry2247
      @danaterry2247 6 месяцев назад +2

      @JM-sd5dt I agree he needs some therapy and he's successful. I was referring to "real men" in regards how they conduct themselves in relationships since that's what he was talking about when he said all Black men are unfaithful. I wasn't saying it in general, I was meaning it in the context of that he was speaking about

  • @hollywont9447
    @hollywont9447 6 месяцев назад +182

    Kenneth was almost as excited about those dolphins as Clay was about hot ass soup at the beach. Neither one of them are really into their fiancés.

    • @07tthom
      @07tthom 6 месяцев назад +6

      😂😂😂

    • @MichElle-py8lk
      @MichElle-py8lk 6 месяцев назад +6

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @KamandaHickey
      @KamandaHickey 6 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂😂 you are right 💯

    • @sbg1911
      @sbg1911 6 месяцев назад +4

      To be fair dolphins are pretty magical

    • @ThatTravelingAhhNurse
      @ThatTravelingAhhNurse 6 месяцев назад +5

      I think clay is just obsessed with AD’s looks and didn’t want to “lose” to Matthew.

  • @thehuntsman8341
    @thehuntsman8341 6 месяцев назад +139

    Jimmy and Chelsea get on my damn nerves. Both of them had two people who were all in on them, and they CHOSE this route. Trevor would have given Chelsea all the reassurance her insecure ass needs, and Jimmy needs a no-nonsense, tell you how it is person like Jessica. Play stupid games win stupid prizes.

    • @KamandaHickey
      @KamandaHickey 6 месяцев назад +26

      Even Trevor would have headaches with Chelsea.

    • @GopherCakeStuff
      @GopherCakeStuff 6 месяцев назад +2

      Even Ms Honey would be tired of Chelsea

  • @JHanson856
    @JHanson856 6 месяцев назад +138

    Its a huge red flag for Clay to not know if he can even be faithful and loyal in a marriage. I wonder if AD asked if he has a history of cheating in the pods? Go fight your demons alone and don't sign up for a reality show where the goal is marriage.

    • @LayoWills
      @LayoWills 6 месяцев назад +13

      He signed up for the wrong show!!

    • @kye447
      @kye447 6 месяцев назад +6

      And AD getting the side eye from me because I think friend just tryna make it down the aisle to be pretty (now I don’t think she’ll say yes) but she is barely digging in and asking questions on all the red flags this man is throwing out.

    • @RR-mv1vr
      @RR-mv1vr 6 месяцев назад +1

      So agree why is he now saying all this where was this in the pods! I guess he wouldn’t have got a yes if he had said all this in the pods madness!

  • @chery4
    @chery4 6 месяцев назад +112

    In my experience when a man is scared to let you down, they are about to let you DOWN lmao. But I acknowledge that’s my trauma speaking.

    • @a.b.2405
      @a.b.2405 6 месяцев назад +4

      My trauma is thinking the same exact thing.

    • @kellymarieapplebee
      @kellymarieapplebee 6 месяцев назад +6

      No sis, your thinking is exactly right!

    • @DJ-wl9iw
      @DJ-wl9iw 6 месяцев назад +7

      My non trauma is right there with you.

    • @diandralee1151
      @diandralee1151 6 месяцев назад +1

      No you’re definitely right

    • @jaquiramiunique1628
      @jaquiramiunique1628 6 месяцев назад +3

      I’ve had a man tell me clays exact speech and I stayed and boy let’s just say when Mona Leo said he had you crying on your birthday I felt it a lil too much 😭😭😭

  • @VanshayMurdock
    @VanshayMurdock 6 месяцев назад +127

    Ken and that damn phone… 🫠😵‍💫

    • @curlyhairedmua2686
      @curlyhairedmua2686 6 месяцев назад +12

      THIS. Had me so upset!!

    • @QueenKeys_
      @QueenKeys_ 6 месяцев назад +11

      Lmbo he was busy , he a principal 😭 I was trying to give him grace... But I feel like he wasn't really listening to her valid concerns or comforting her smh
      He in a relationship with his phone. Poor tink tink Brittany

    • @curlyhairedmua2686
      @curlyhairedmua2686 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@QueenKeys_ stop it!! You know that was an excuse. He did not like Brittany the moment he saw her lol

  • @Assumpta_B
    @Assumpta_B 6 месяцев назад +101

    Clay goes too deep into his presidential debate speeches/ted talks/oscar award speeches. That's why AD rolls her eyes cos they barely talk about her. He is on a self promotion tour😅

    • @shanikarussell1498
      @shanikarussell1498 6 месяцев назад +10

      Omg yes. Couldn’t agree more

    • @sbg1911
      @sbg1911 6 месяцев назад +5

      Yes, like, sir, are you running for governor?

    • @emilymurphy4995
      @emilymurphy4995 6 месяцев назад +3

      FOR AD’D SAKE SOMEONE GET HIM A JOURNAL PLEASE

    • @lastaciasampson
      @lastaciasampson 5 месяцев назад

      Yes I feel everything he says to her is rehearsed!

  • @Assumpta_B
    @Assumpta_B 6 месяцев назад +68

    At first I couldn't believe kenneth was 25. Thought he was over 30. But this episode..he really showed his age...younger than his age- a 17 year old. And he is a principal???!?😮

    • @dangerzzzone2925
      @dangerzzzone2925 6 месяцев назад +2

      Kenneth is 25?!? Wtf lmaoo

    • @Assumpta_B
      @Assumpta_B 6 месяцев назад

      @@dangerzzzone2925 🤣🤣 yessss my reaction exactly after watching the 1st batch of episodes

    • @HopeAndrea_HFG
      @HopeAndrea_HFG 6 месяцев назад

      Why do all these people look so old?! How is Jimmy 27???

  • @Blkbutterfly18
    @Blkbutterfly18 6 месяцев назад +212

    In my opinion, Ken was good with Brittany in the pods because she is great for him in theory but the real world and the convo with AD made him realize that he can’t be with a white woman. He literally shut down.

    • @nerdfantasyxox
      @nerdfantasyxox 6 месяцев назад +36

      They weren’t even great in theory. I always said they were cringy. They literally were checking things off a list of archaic ideas that really weren’t honest depiction of people, but caricatures.

    • @Blkbutterfly18
      @Blkbutterfly18 6 месяцев назад +14

      @@nerdfantasyxox I could agree because all we saw was them bonding over trauma stories. I guess they were good because they had the same beliefs and they fit each other’s idea of a perfect mate.

    • @perdybirdie
      @perdybirdie 6 месяцев назад +19

      I'm also wondering if he truly is gay like I've seen other peoppe say. The church worship leader stereotype is real

    • @cherylwilliams4793
      @cherylwilliams4793 6 месяцев назад +40

      Kenneth was doing some serious gaslighting. He was so obviously shut down, but he kept denying it and being rude to Britanny when she gently tried to broach the subject. He kept putting it on her, saying things like he was "feeling it" - so it must be her issue. Very immature and mean. The least he could do was be honest rather than make her feel crazy and like she was expecting too much.

    • @nerdfantasyxox
      @nerdfantasyxox 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@jgirlinluv55his “mind” ain’t clicking with Brittaney

  • @tialyrliketyler8939
    @tialyrliketyler8939 6 месяцев назад +30

    When AD said she was cold, and Clay was basically like " Thats wild", and his MAMA gave up her shawl.......I almost lost my ish more than when Clay was slurping that damn soup out the bowl like that. I cannot with Soul Glow boy

    • @HopeAndrea_HFG
      @HopeAndrea_HFG 6 месяцев назад +1

      🗣️Just let your Sooouuulll Glooooo

  • @Aussiegirl8300
    @Aussiegirl8300 6 месяцев назад +82

    I completely see what you’re saying about AD and her energy! For me personally, it would be a huge turn off for my fiance to constantly talk about how his father/company he surrounds himself with are all cheaters. I was so disappointed when he said that. It’s like he’s setting himself up to cheat and be like “what’d you expect? I didn’t have good role models!”

    • @TammyTalks
      @TammyTalks  6 месяцев назад +8

      I get that, but at lunch he wasn’t talking about that and her energy was still off

    • @Aussiegirl8300
      @Aussiegirl8300 6 месяцев назад +5

      @@TammyTalksSo true they stress me out to tell you the truth I can’t get a handle on what’s really going on with them 😂

    • @TammyTalks
      @TammyTalks  6 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂

    • @Rachelle-cl6mn
      @Rachelle-cl6mn 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@TammyTalksher energy was definitely off she was staring at him like she was ready to sabotage everything lmao

    • @hollywont9447
      @hollywont9447 6 месяцев назад +19

      @@TammyTalksIt was watching his ass eat soup in 90 degrees, then drinking from the bowl. 😂

  • @lisacraig9325
    @lisacraig9325 6 месяцев назад +96

    Kenneth really pissed me off. The way he totally disconnected from Brittney was extremely disrespectful.

    • @BlackNella
      @BlackNella 6 месяцев назад +13

      Yes!!! That was extremely hard to watch. I was pissed, too, yelling at the screen like, "What an A-hole!"

    • @TheJazzy1980
      @TheJazzy1980 6 месяцев назад +3

      He ticked me off this episode as well, but I'm wondering if they're another couple like the season before last, the African guy and the blonde girl, can't remember their names, but I think her name is Chelsea, where everyone kept saying he wasn't into her, but in reality he really was.

    • @always_priceless5598
      @always_priceless5598 6 месяцев назад +15

      I especially hated the way Ken tried to flip on Brittney talking about she pulled back from him IN THE MIDDLE OF THE DAMN NIGHT WITH ALL THE LIGHTS ON WHEN SHE WAS ALREADY SLEEP! I was done with Ken at that point. I felt so bad for Brittney, i think she was genuinely hurt!

    • @TheJazzy1980
      @TheJazzy1980 6 месяцев назад +5

      @@always_priceless5598 That's episode 8, chile. Tammy gone get you lol

    • @wonderwomman5135
      @wonderwomman5135 6 месяцев назад +4

      Yes!!!! And she didn't even do nothing wrong.

  • @nerdfantasyxox
    @nerdfantasyxox 6 месяцев назад +71

    You say AD is more flirtatious with Jimmy than she can ever be with Clay as if Jimmy hasn’t shown AD more affection and desire than Clay has the entire time they’ve spoken.

    • @pixiestxNyomouf
      @pixiestxNyomouf 6 месяцев назад +10

      That part, sad to say, that could be friendly AD because we have yet to see romantic AD. Klay act like she got cooties

    • @nerdfantasyxox
      @nerdfantasyxox 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@jgirlinluv55 AD just has a bubbly and flirty personality. SHE WAS A DAMN CHEERLEADER. What do you expect? She has charisma. This is silly

    • @DJ-wl9iw
      @DJ-wl9iw 6 месяцев назад +1

      Jimmy is prepared to risk it all with AD. Let her just say the word, he’ll be right there

    • @Gabriellaella23
      @Gabriellaella23 6 месяцев назад

      At first I didn’t see it, but she was also very flirty with Jeramy as well 😩

    • @nerdfantasyxox
      @nerdfantasyxox 6 месяцев назад

      @@jgirlinluv55 you’re purposely ignoring the obvious 🙄 she’s bubbly. She was literally doing random twerks while talking in the pods where no one except her existed. She’s physically expressive… something CERTAIN people simply can’t be and it makes them miserable.

  • @cherylwilliams4793
    @cherylwilliams4793 6 месяцев назад +43

    Kenneth's doing some high-level gaslighting, trying to put onto Britanny what he's not feeling 🙄

    • @JUYL
      @JUYL 6 месяцев назад +2

      This!! Exactly this!

  • @heygirlhey9363
    @heygirlhey9363 6 месяцев назад +37

    Lol before clay started stacking the plates there was a platter of plantains and instead of asking if she wanted anymore he puts his hands over each one instead of using a fork and mixes everything together. I had the exact same look of disgust that AD did lol

    • @TammyTalks
      @TammyTalks  6 месяцев назад +3

      The plate was in front of him, so it seemed like it was part of his meal.

    • @heygirlhey9363
      @heygirlhey9363 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@TammyTalks possibly but using his hands instead of a utensil gave me major ick 🤣 but I agree it seems like she doesn’t like him or is irritated by him

    • @alyssalane3442
      @alyssalane3442 6 месяцев назад

      BINGO!! exactly

  • @hopeplayssongs
    @hopeplayssongs 6 месяцев назад +48

    I appreciate when people stack up the dirty dishes at a restaurant, but you need to ask if someone is finished when there is food still on the plate. It seemed like AD was not done eating to me, but Clay was passive aggressively signaling that she would not be eating anymore of that food by stacking the plates. It could have been the way they edited it, but that’s how I perceived it.

    • @TheLuxyRoom
      @TheLuxyRoom 6 месяцев назад +3

      exactly that’s the same way i took it

    • @katymello3547
      @katymello3547 6 месяцев назад +2

      I saw it that way too

    • @HopeAndrea_HFG
      @HopeAndrea_HFG 6 месяцев назад +1

      That's how I perceived it as well. Unless they cut it out, he never checked to see if she was done. He's very self-focused.

    • @alyssalane3442
      @alyssalane3442 6 месяцев назад

      Bingo!!!!

  • @cringeLoop
    @cringeLoop 6 месяцев назад +36

    I really cannot stand Chelsea. Her constant need for validation is alarming.

    • @ShayDee8
      @ShayDee8 21 час назад

      Thank you 👏🏾 she irks my nerves!

  • @JHanson856
    @JHanson856 6 месяцев назад +36

    Kenneth gave JP vibes with the not talking on the 2nd date😂😂😂

  • @michellenewton2121
    @michellenewton2121 6 месяцев назад +22

    I feel bad for Chelsea because she doesn't see that her insecurities are the root cause of her constant need for validation and probably a huge reason previous relationships did not work out. Being in a relationship with people that need constant validation like Chelsea and Clay is draining. No amount hugs, kisses, I love you, passionate sex, and PDA will ever be enough. You can not feel that void. It requires healing, and that begins with addressing the root cause if the insecurity.

    • @FaMtz100
      @FaMtz100 6 месяцев назад +3

      And she still in denial yesterday she made a tiktok saying she knew she was a "little insecure". 😅

  • @RockieMatters
    @RockieMatters 6 месяцев назад +78

    Clay never asked AD if she was finished with her plate prior to stacking them. His actions were very self involved.

    • @SuperJeskimo
      @SuperJeskimo 6 месяцев назад +3

      Not trying to diagnose anyone but he’s been giving me adhd vibes, he kept walking in circles in the pods and he always has to be doing something and his jumps from conversations. He’s super energetic person and it seems his mind is racing a lot

    • @QueenB723
      @QueenB723 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@SuperJeskimointeresting observation 🤔

    • @RockieMatters
      @RockieMatters 6 месяцев назад

      Before adha became "normalized" I was diagnosed with add. Manners and adhd do not play exchanging roles

    • @melinatedthinka8210
      @melinatedthinka8210 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@SuperJeskimoyes same, and his eyes blink a lot

  • @Istandinthesun943
    @Istandinthesun943 6 месяцев назад +26

    When Brittany asks for specifics on what Kenneth is concerned about he doesn’t say anything. Why choose to be in an interracial relationship if you don’t want to teach your partner and communicate

    • @HopeAndrea_HFG
      @HopeAndrea_HFG 6 месяцев назад +1

      He didn't even try. He was over it and tried to gaslight her.

  • @nathaniahenry141
    @nathaniahenry141 6 месяцев назад +16

    The part at the table with Clay and AD, what it felt for me was that he did not want her to eat more. They still had a lot of food on their plates and Clay never asked if she was done. He finished drinking his soup, and threw the rest of the food. It felt off to me that he did that, it felt like he was trying to make sure she wouldn't eat the leftovers. This is of course my feelings towards the scene

  • @heatheraggus7501
    @heatheraggus7501 6 месяцев назад +102

    I respectfully disagree with your take on Jimmy feeling guilt. Chelsea was being insufferable. She's certainly entitled to her feelings but that doesn't mean they are valid. She's projecting her insecurities onto him and that's not fair. She's the gaslighter in their relationship.

    • @Rachelle-cl6mn
      @Rachelle-cl6mn 6 месяцев назад +17

      She has serious issues that she needs to address until then she will project onto every man she dates. She’s actually a beautiful girl it’s a shame she doesn’t realize it

    • @Neicey76
      @Neicey76 6 месяцев назад +21

      For real. She is stiffling and clingy and exhausting 😮

    • @senaawl
      @senaawl 6 месяцев назад +6

      Gaslighting is an intentional act. I don't think Chelsea is doing it intentionally -- it's just the way she is

    • @heatheraggus7501
      @heatheraggus7501 6 месяцев назад +22

      @@senaawl I think she is intentional..just like dropping the Megan Fox comment.

    • @LaQuana1278
      @LaQuana1278 6 месяцев назад +20

      I agree Chelsea is draining!!! I’m team Jimmy atp.. he should run.

  • @TheGP142
    @TheGP142 6 месяцев назад +19

    Clay ain’t ready to be married. Period. All that crying and negativity tells the world that he has commitment issues but “wants love”. Please. I don’t want to hear his “yup yup” anymore. Aggravating.
    I don’t see AD’s faces towards him outside of him eating that soup but she is being super chill. I’d say she keeps being scared off by his stupid ass conversations about him having poor relationship skills and lack of self-love. She probably sees herself in her “I don’t feel like I deserve love” mentality and doesn’t like it reflected back to her. She knows he’s going to hurt her. She’s bracing herself.

    • @HopeAndrea_HFG
      @HopeAndrea_HFG 6 месяцев назад +1

      Agreed, I think AD has her own lack of self-worth to deal with but her facial expressions look more like surprise and concern. She's reacting to his glaring red flags.

    • @alyssalane3442
      @alyssalane3442 6 месяцев назад

      I agree . This more than her not liking him

  • @michellenewton2121
    @michellenewton2121 6 месяцев назад +9

    AD has put herself in the role of being a fixer. Clay wants to emulate his dad (his idol), but he understands that his dad's ways are toxic, and that's causing an internal conflict that AD can not fix. If Clay doesn't get help and they marry, AD will end up in the same situation as Clay's mom.

  • @St.charles23
    @St.charles23 6 месяцев назад +30

    AD really liked Matt. Clay gave her the ick in the pods but she had no other options and stuck with him. He then doubled down on the ick he gave her after all that changed man talk when they talked about her gaining weight. There is nothing Clay can do that will not irritate her moving forward. She didnt want him, “settled”, and ended up disappointed.

    • @QueenKeys_
      @QueenKeys_ 6 месяцев назад +3

      I'm thinking what will be AD's decision at the altar and if she'll be the first to answer. 😮

    • @TheJazzy1980
      @TheJazzy1980 6 месяцев назад

      Yup, Ms black love really wanted the white guy. I wonder if she was thinking about how he would raise black children 🤔

    • @kye447
      @kye447 6 месяцев назад +2

      Child I think friend just trying to finish the season and be done with him after the alter

    • @QueenB723
      @QueenB723 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@kye447Im nervous she might say yes for that status. You heard her after he chose her in the pod "my man my man" after proposal "my rang!!" and after I do will be "my husband" 🤷🏾‍♀️😅

  • @TheLuxyRoom
    @TheLuxyRoom 6 месяцев назад +4

    i don’t thing AD was done with her food, i immediately thought that in his mind he was like “ok you have had enough food” 😂 that’s how i took it, just because he’s done eating doesn’t mean she’s done

  • @julest5767
    @julest5767 6 месяцев назад +18

    Yes, Clay's dad did something awful to his boy by putting him in a position where young Clay felt special by going on these trips with his dad and confused bc he was betraying his mother!

  • @DaiAllday
    @DaiAllday 6 месяцев назад +6

    Chileeeee when Jimmy said he bit his lip so he need less kisses…I HOLLERED! That man do not like her 😭
    And Clay….when he said that about black men, I couldn’t believe it, like there aren’t a plethora of examples to look up to, sir you are choosing to follow those men because they align with what you value

  • @nerdfantasyxox
    @nerdfantasyxox 6 месяцев назад +32

    Lauren is 1000% a karen

    • @anonmon8550
      @anonmon8550 6 месяцев назад

      And you see how she tried to gaslight the bean dip situation? Talkumbout “it’s just a joke.” But if anyone else’s husband joked about doing that to Her, she’d be crying about assault (and she would be justified).

  • @neuman_adventures
    @neuman_adventures 6 месяцев назад +28

    OMG, that's what it is, Laura does give 'Karen' vibes.

  • @Lubbylove89
    @Lubbylove89 6 месяцев назад +18

    Kenneth and that damn phone. He's clearly checked out but, at least have enough respect to look at the woman when she's talking to you....

  • @lizziepumpkin92
    @lizziepumpkin92 6 месяцев назад +6

    This episode confirmed a few things for me: 1) AD was definitely flirting with Jimmy in that first meetup episode and I think it's because something about Clay rubs her the wrong way and it's not something we think (based on what we're seeing). She doesn't like that man & I'm wondering if she's playing all of us 2) Kenneth doesn't like Brittany 3) Amy isn't sold on Johnny and will use her dad to back out of it and 4)Laura is a wolf in sheep's clothing. Thanks so much for doing this while you're not feeling well. The best recaps/reviews!!

  • @dyslstudio8889
    @dyslstudio8889 6 месяцев назад +9

    Kenneth on the phone as soon as they get off the plane was triggering. I felt bad for Brittney because I’ve definitely been there. And AD was definitely tight about Clay shutting down the rest of the plantains and cleaning the table like he’s wearing the ring 😂

  • @donitawhite8111
    @donitawhite8111 6 месяцев назад +11

    Does anybody else immediately hit the like button (thumbs up) as soon as the video starts because I already know I'm going to love it or am I the only one?

  • @KamandaHickey
    @KamandaHickey 6 месяцев назад +7

    That title is genius, he definitely is the demon he is fighting 😩 His story sounds like a warning. AD needs to listen and leave asap !!!

  • @likewhoa577
    @likewhoa577 6 месяцев назад +13

    I noticed Ken wasn’t feeling Brittany at the beginning of the honeymoon. Him looking in her eyes just gave me dishonest, like he was trying to get through it. She was all in but he definitely wasn’t.

  • @FaMtz100
    @FaMtz100 6 месяцев назад +7

    This is a crazy theory BUT maybe AD wanted a white guy to have her Lauren and Cameron experience, then Matt broke things up with her so she had no option than saying yes to the next best thing: Clay. That's why shes making all those faces and acts super flirty with Jimmy but not with Clay.

  • @DJ-wl9iw
    @DJ-wl9iw 6 месяцев назад +6

    Clay is faking it till he make it. He is convincing himself that he’s all in but he’ll say no at the altar or should.

  • @GMAMEC
    @GMAMEC 6 месяцев назад +24

    It was insulting for Clay to air the dirty laundry about his parent’s marriage. It was a disrespectful thing to do, especially to his mother.
    ETA- celebrating 36 years of marriage this month. Our parents were married for over 60 years.

    • @MsKayKay1980
      @MsKayKay1980 6 месяцев назад +2

      Agree! He's trash! Also, why are you on a show promoting marriage, AS a BLACK MAN, if you do not believe you will be faithful, sir?!

    • @4Drea
      @4Drea 6 месяцев назад +5

      To be honest, I feel like that was something he was holding in since childhood. The moment he was given the opportunity to say it, he ran his mouth unbeknownst to how it may sound to the rest of us

  • @danaterry2247
    @danaterry2247 6 месяцев назад +13

    We're all hoping you feel better soon 💜

  • @ladydiamond6611
    @ladydiamond6611 6 месяцев назад +3

    Tammy is pulling herself out of the trenches to come on the mic and roast this people, and I respect you so much for that!! Xx

  • @ChrissyBudgets
    @ChrissyBudgets 6 месяцев назад +4

    The last scene with AD and clay was sad Clay dad really messed him up. I thought it was brave for him to go that in depth with her and share that information. He came across as vulnerable in that moment. What annoyed me in this scene is AD kept saying yeah, yeah, and mmhmm, mmmhmm. It came across like she didn’t want to hear what he was saying and wanted him to be quiet. Clay said he needs help I hope he gets it because no child should have to witness their parent cheat and have to hold their parents deceitful secrets it appears that was traumatic for him. I was blown away by what he revealed that’s definitely a red flag. Wow it’s going to be interesting to see how this couples relationship plays out after what he said in this scene.

  • @I_dont_read_replies_555
    @I_dont_read_replies_555 6 месяцев назад +11

    Sooooo Clay didn’t have these “demons” before coming on the show? 😂 I feel like that is something he should have sought out therapy for before looking for a “blind” love. Neither one of them are feeling it after sex it appears. Hmmmm

  • @terrijones693
    @terrijones693 6 месяцев назад +10

    I felt bad for Brittany. Kenneth should just be honest with her about his feelings. If it's not there, it's not there. I've been in education for 31 years, and I've been a school based administrator; yes, it is a lot of work, but Tammy, you are 100% correct: if it waited 3 weeks, a couple more hours wasn't going to be that big a deal.
    AD has got to stop settling for the okey doke. This man is screaming from the mountain top, but you refuse to see it.
    Jeramey, Laura, Jimmy and Chelsea...just go away already. None of them are going to make it. Johnny and Amy...maybe.

  • @Missusbadu
    @Missusbadu 6 месяцев назад +5

    We never see AD talk about herself. It’s always about clay and his own problems!

  • @brianna9034
    @brianna9034 6 месяцев назад +5

    2 things I noticed this ep:
    -AD sounded surprised that clay wanted to introduce his father to her. Idk if it’s bc she actually doesn’t want to meet him but I thought it was expected that everyone meets the family/friends, so why be shocked?
    -In group settings, Kenneth always seems to look lovingly at clay/AD together as if he’s missing out. He made a couple “look at Black love, y’all so cute” type of comments with them. Idr him complimenting the other couples similarly. I’m not sure he’s ready for Brittany or being honest with himself

    • @alyssalane3442
      @alyssalane3442 6 месяцев назад

      Yess I also wondered if his 2 black love comments were envy

  • @mo_better101
    @mo_better101 6 месяцев назад +17

    My issue with AD asking that question is that she's not a close friend of Ken's. If it came from friends and family it's fair game, but a stranger... nah, it's none of your business Ms AD

  • @ME3877
    @ME3877 6 месяцев назад +6

    When Clay was talking about how he’s never seen a black man be faithful to a black woman, I believe he meant from a personal standpoint. More specifically his family members. So I think he should’ve corrected his verbiage when explaining that, to not include ALL black men in that explanation, because that gives a very bad look. But even still that is VERY sad to hear. And I agree with you Tammy, now that he’s an adult, he should be surrounding himself with people that set a better example. And have WAY better role models, especially considering the man thinks he’s ready to get married

    • @wavesonswim8738
      @wavesonswim8738 6 месяцев назад +2

      He mentioned celebrities too so his statements were broad

  • @PourLaMourDeLargent
    @PourLaMourDeLargent 6 месяцев назад +8

    AD is smitten by Clay he could tell her the most toxic shit she gone be like omggg 🥰🥰 that’s so powerful that you said that i respect that you said that 🥰 like girl bffr

  • @LynetteLockhart
    @LynetteLockhart 6 месяцев назад +4

    I have a straaaaaaange feeling that we'll learn more about what wasn't shown b/w Ken & Brit at the reunion. Not excusing him @ all, but something tells me we didn't get to see what really happened between them.

  • @rachellecronephotography9898
    @rachellecronephotography9898 6 месяцев назад +3

    Seriously hit every point I’ve been thinking. Clay is awful and AD needs to run for the hills. Thanks for making this video through your cold. I hope you feel better soon

  • @melisarose7052
    @melisarose7052 6 месяцев назад +11

    Clay i expected anything from Kenneth on the other hand broke my heart, he got some splaning to do

  • @PhilSoReal1
    @PhilSoReal1 6 месяцев назад +30

    Johnny want to go raw. Just say that

  • @nakiatexas10
    @nakiatexas10 6 месяцев назад +4

    Jeramy not only wants to meet Sara, he said he wants to be “friends” 👀

  • @ask_why000
    @ask_why000 6 месяцев назад +3

    Why aren't you in bed recovering miss ma'am?!
    ...but I do appreciate the review! So thanks for tuffing it out.

    • @TammyTalks
      @TammyTalks  6 месяцев назад +1

      I’m in bed now 👀😂

  • @Christine-lt9ok
    @Christine-lt9ok 6 месяцев назад +9

    It seems like AD has such an ick for Clay now!

  • @kaylabower5619
    @kaylabower5619 6 месяцев назад +2

    I think him never seen any of his male counterparts, being faithful or not is his story. It’s also the story of many others. I think it’s good that we see this and hear him talk about it. That way it can be called out and addressed, because it’s not OK, that kind of behavior is never OK, but it’s a reality a lot of people face. #BringJesusBackInTheHome

  • @madisonhenry
    @madisonhenry 6 месяцев назад +2

    “DOLPHINS! DOLPHINS!” 😂😂😂

  • @nema8223
    @nema8223 6 месяцев назад +2

    I can't believe how Kenneth totally ignored Britney while on his phone, that was just plain rude. She better pay close attention because that behavior is a preview of things to come.
    Hope you feel better soon Tammy.

  • @preciouslife4824
    @preciouslife4824 6 месяцев назад +1

    I noticed that AD didn’t possibly like Clay during her talk with Jimmy at that night party. She rolls her eyes when looking back at Clay after Jimmy mentions their relationship. I was like, naw, she don’t like him.

  • @angelc5435
    @angelc5435 6 месяцев назад +1

    I really feel bad for Britney. She seems genuine and really trying with Kenneth. I really hope he don’t end of breaking her heart!

  • @neotheboxer6337
    @neotheboxer6337 6 месяцев назад +7

    Thank you for mentioning the cleaning up of the plates. I do that ALL the time! People laugh at me but I find it is courteous for the same reason you said. I found that reaction to be odd from AD as well (unless it was edited that way). I also understand Clay's worries given what he has been exposed to with cheating and marriages that don't last etc. I thought Clay came across much ok because he put out his concerns for what he has experienced.

    • @Neicey76
      @Neicey76 6 месяцев назад

      Exactly!!! Her disgusted look at that made no sense lol.

    • @elizabethsoares3918
      @elizabethsoares3918 6 месяцев назад +4

      Could it be that AD face was about him taking the food away? Maybe she was not done eating?

  • @msshug9995
    @msshug9995 6 месяцев назад +19

    Is Kenneth growing his facial hair out or is this the final stage? Can we at least brush it? I hate it.

    • @wavesonswim8738
      @wavesonswim8738 6 месяцев назад +4

      He looks disheveled, the soft body doesn’t help either. He looks sloppy

    • @michyhart1815
      @michyhart1815 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@wavesonswim8738 🤣

  • @blessedblessed2473
    @blessedblessed2473 6 месяцев назад +2

    I am rooting for Clay and I hope he proves everybody wrong bc I can see that he does want to change and just has that internal struggle going on.

  • @EverythingMoxie
    @EverythingMoxie 6 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you for doing the reviews even though you are not feeling your best ! it is much appreciated.

  • @ibechilllin
    @ibechilllin 6 месяцев назад +1

    You're 100% right. She was HEAVILY annoyed by him pre-bussing the table. Looked as if its something she's never even considered doing

  • @myacoyote5930
    @myacoyote5930 6 месяцев назад +32

    Really wish LIB would stop casting insecure men and women! Clay and Chelsea are one in the same, on different ends of the insecure spectrum. In terms of Kenneth, that man just seems out of the entire experience all together. Hes only 24 or 25 so I think his age is revealing his unpreparedness for marriage.

    • @invinciblesummer2844
      @invinciblesummer2844 6 месяцев назад +3

      He's how old 👀😬. I thought that man was 35

    • @KamandaHickey
      @KamandaHickey 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@invinciblesummer2844😂 him and Britanny are respectively 25 and 24 . Crazy right?! Why are they even on the show

  • @LaiLai..
    @LaiLai.. 6 месяцев назад +4

    Kenneth doesn’t like Brittney and I think he’s starting to look for a way out . In the pods , he said he doesn’t care that she’s white . Now he’s in his head about the challenges they may face as an interracial couple..? If you love someone , then you will find a way to make it work. It just comes off like he’s looking for a reason to say no at the altar .

  • @mo_better101
    @mo_better101 6 месяцев назад +3

    17:40 I noticed how she looked when he gathered the dishes also.. I do the same at a restaurant also, I assume he's probably worked in the service industry in his past, so it's really out of courtesy to do that.

  • @shylandethomas7381
    @shylandethomas7381 6 месяцев назад +2

    Clay is bread crumbing the idea to AD that there will be a possibility he may cheat so that when he does he can say he’s always been honest about how this may be a problem in their relationship. If you’re so introspective and aware that you have a lot to unpack in this regard why go on a show to be married!

    • @alyssalane3442
      @alyssalane3442 6 месяцев назад +1

      This!! Totally to keep her expectations low and setting the stage

  • @shadowpuppet0312
    @shadowpuppet0312 6 месяцев назад +1

    First of all... PLEASE take care of yourself and rest.
    Second, your reactions are the only reactions that matter. 👏👏👏👏

  • @pppaaattt4671
    @pppaaattt4671 6 месяцев назад +4

    I believe Clay said all the black men in his life have been know to cheat, not all black men. Feel better and ty for the review!!

    • @TammyTalks
      @TammyTalks  6 месяцев назад +4

      He said he’s never seen a relationship where a black man is faithful. I put the text on the screen on the picture

    • @pppaaattt4671
      @pppaaattt4671 6 месяцев назад

      @@TammyTalks Okay, I misunderstood.That’s really sad, I do believe if someone really wants to they can change but I don’t think he will in this relationship. He needs therapy and he needs to change the friend he hangs around with to start.

    • @carcar0358
      @carcar0358 6 месяцев назад +2

      I also read it as he's never witnessed monogramy amoung the Black men in his life, so he's afraid he will mess up. He says the "in my life" part either before or after this screenshot.

  • @raeday93
    @raeday93 6 месяцев назад +2

    Clay said in HIS experience. Did you come that hard for Jefferi on Ready To Love when she said the same thing?

  • @evanshomevideos6308
    @evanshomevideos6308 6 месяцев назад

    Oh honey, please take care of yourself. If you need to take a break, we understand. Please feel better!! Spending prayers

  • @more4sure609
    @more4sure609 6 месяцев назад +1

    AD is giving- I’m just here for the ride and my future paychecks. 😭😂

  • @alyssab.9994
    @alyssab.9994 6 месяцев назад +2

    I couldn’t believe Clay got on national tv and said that about Black men and relationships. And then to mention Diddy of all people. He must be stopped!

  • @jlolly806
    @jlolly806 6 месяцев назад +2

    God love you Tammy. I really love your break downs. Please take care of you❤. This stuff that is making its rounds is no bueno. My husband also has this respiratory mess and it has been not great and lingers. Thank you for taking time out when you aren’t feeling your best to share your insights. Spot on❤️Praying for complete restoration for you❤️🙏🏻✝️

  • @edkahh
    @edkahh 6 месяцев назад

    That is such a good observation, you are right, AD is not as playful with Clay like she is with Jimmy, I never realised that.

  • @debbierobin2900
    @debbierobin2900 6 месяцев назад

    Sending blessings to you and praying your cold gets better soon.

  • @MyAndreabraga
    @MyAndreabraga 6 месяцев назад +1

    Tammy, you´re phenomenal! In Brazil, we´d call you FADA SENSATA (sensible fairy). So many clarifying perspectives about so many issues, far beyond a reality show. I was really happy finding you on RUclips! Thanks for sharing. I hope you get better real soon from your flu and come back right away to share some more clever POVs about LIB 6. It´s gonna be on fire on gasoline!!!! Popcorns up!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Queima quengaral!!!! Ihuuuuuuuu🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥Big kisses and hugs from Brazil!

  • @lisacraig9325
    @lisacraig9325 6 месяцев назад +2

    I agree. This episode AD seems to have lost some attraction for Clay. She is not ignoring the flags the way Paige did. She also is a lot more confident in her herself than Paige ever was. I still cannot deny the other similarities.

  • @joyeetarozario7907
    @joyeetarozario7907 6 месяцев назад

    I live for your commentary. It’s like you are my aunt and we are discussing this show and I always love your insight!! Please never stop

  • @ThatTravelingAhhNurse
    @ThatTravelingAhhNurse 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you! I was so pissed with clay saying that BS!!!!! Get better sis!!!!❤

  • @SunshineSolice
    @SunshineSolice 6 месяцев назад +1

    Britney kills me with the “he identifies as as black male and she identities as black woman “ bahahah
    Her intentions and willingness seems pure but for any interracial relationship there is so much learning that needs to happen.
    I’m thankful she is even willing to take the time…
    But on both ends, intention is much different from actions.
    Lord Bless these two because they are going through it !!!!

  • @maggsg6209
    @maggsg6209 6 месяцев назад +1

    Ok I thought AD was staring Clay down because he didn’t ask her if she was done with her food and just started stacking plates. I kept thinking she would say something but she just didn’t?? It was weird af! Totally noticed the vibe too.
    And he’s 100% telling her point blank he’s going to cheat on her and her only response is a blank stare. Good luck to them I guess lolol

  • @mlssmaya
    @mlssmaya 6 месяцев назад +1

    i think AD needs to RUN while she still can. Clay is letting her know everything she needs to damn know!!

  • @amandafarris2090
    @amandafarris2090 6 месяцев назад

    If you got swabbed for strep at urgent care and it came back negative, but your throat is still sore after a couple days, make sure to go back and have them really swab your throat good because I got sick with strep and they didn’t swab well so it came back negative so it was left untreated for about a week and it’s awful. Take care of yourself and feel better! ❤

  • @CLM1988
    @CLM1988 6 месяцев назад +1

    Clay was raised to dehumanise his mother for his fathers affection...that is trouble...

  • @gwencooke7158
    @gwencooke7158 6 месяцев назад +2

    You are so right about AD, she’s inventing reasons to complain, l don’t think she likes him either

  • @tommysmith2719
    @tommysmith2719 6 месяцев назад +4

    Happy Wednesday love your review

  • @BeautyNBrains86
    @BeautyNBrains86 6 месяцев назад +1

    Tammy, I love you & your reviews. However, I need you to be well. Rest & take care of yourself for the next 4 days at least. We'll be here when you come back. Feel better. 🙌🏾 😘

  • @modelk25
    @modelk25 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you!!!!!!!! I literally been saying this. AD is the 1 who 1st brought up how he didn’t look how she expected. Clay called her gorgeous and was kissing on even before he saw her booty at the reveal. He was definitely surprised but he wasn’t totally disappointed. He was actually in the midst of complimenting her when she stood up. AD has confidence she literally said what is he gonna do with all of her. I think the “I’m a baby” talk by Clay is already getting old. She told Jimmy AD was a lot not the other way around. And I think AD was annoyed with the plates because he didn’t ask her if she was done with her food. She was eating plantains in the scene right before. He just started stacking the plates. Go back and look she was confused. Plus the soup was a bit much to her. AD doesn’t want to be a man’s momma. She may paint her nails red but she is not tryna raise a man. People were definitely projecting because AD is darkskin.

  • @sagqueen1984
    @sagqueen1984 6 месяцев назад +2

    That last scene with Clay and AD all I kept saying was can you breathe because you are going non-stop. Also Clay probably has worked in food service before which I have and you just kind of start doing that without realizing that you're doing it because you find it easier for the server .And I completely agree with you. AD does not like Clay. Clay is not AD's type.

    • @TheJazzy1980
      @TheJazzy1980 6 месяцев назад +1

      she seemed more excited about the white man 😂 Ms. Black Love, smh.

  • @jayjanzee9059
    @jayjanzee9059 6 месяцев назад

    Awww! Your voice is hoarse 🥺🥺🥺
    I really hope you feel better. I appreciate you uploading content for us, but I hope you continue to nourish yourself back to good health

  • @nikitanewman2401
    @nikitanewman2401 6 месяцев назад +1

    The way I be waiting for these videos to drop

  • @lastaciasampson
    @lastaciasampson 5 месяцев назад

    I honestly think that AD wanted Matthew not Clay. She said in the pods that he was the typical guy she would go for and would want to fix him.

  • @meganburch
    @meganburch 6 месяцев назад

    I died when you paused and said, "Dolphins!" ☠️☠️😂😂

  • @PKNCRM
    @PKNCRM 6 месяцев назад

    Hey Tammy! Thanks for the video!
    The comment Clay said re: Black men are not faithful had me shook! It as so shocking that he said it out loud.
    Thank you for this detailed recap/review
    Hoping your cough continues to get better