8 Simple Steps to Overcome Shyness!

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  • Опубликовано: 28 авг 2024

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  • @HumansOfVR
    @HumansOfVR 4 года назад +160

    *_Just want to clarify that being an introvert doesn't mean you are shy_*

    • @osse1n
      @osse1n 4 года назад +12

      Too many use those terms interchangeably

    • @erroreliminator2.076
      @erroreliminator2.076 4 года назад +4

      and doesn't mean it's always me me me and more me either. Everyone including extroverts are me me me and more me these days

    • @beckeralan2
      @beckeralan2 3 года назад +1

      Many thanks, been searching for "how do i stop being shy around guys i like?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Beyophia Unimaginable Blaster - (do a google search ) ? It is a good one of a kind guide for discovering how to say goodbye to your shyness and anxiety minus the headache. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my cousin got great success with it.

    • @ProyectoInnovador-hy6dw
      @ProyectoInnovador-hy6dw 3 года назад

      This was great, thanks, I been tryin to find out about "how do you deal with a bad conversationalist?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Beyophia Unimaginable Blaster - (search on google ) ? It is an awesome exclusive product for discovering how to say goodbye to your shyness and anxiety without the headache. Ive heard some incredible things about it and my work buddy got great results with it.

    • @daydreamer-ty8fs
      @daydreamer-ty8fs 3 года назад +1

      I'm both ._.

  • @FireHax0rd
    @FireHax0rd 4 года назад +93

    1. Make a fear scale. Use it gradually to come out of your shell.
    2. Decipher your relationships. You can be Secure, Anxious-avoidant, Anxious-ambivalent, or Disorganized.
    3. Familiarity with unfamiliarity. Practice going to new places. (Though I personally disagree with this one. I am much less shy in new environments.)
    4. Coin your phrase. It's a 'catchphrase' that helps you get through the intro of a conversation.
    5. Direct your attention outward. Don't be self-adsorbed.
    6. Rearrange your expectations. Helps you develop your ideal self that gives you something real to look forward to.
    7. Conquer one new challenge. Invest you time and energy into one single challenge.
    8. Eliminate your scapegoats. Figure out what habits you use to protect yourself, and then get rid of them.
    Please put the list in the description to save us a lot of time.

    • @tammy5926
      @tammy5926 4 года назад +1

      There doesn't need to be a detailed list in the description. That's what the video is for. 😊

    • @Ale_giro
      @Ale_giro 4 года назад +5

      Tammy for who won't lose 11 minutes of his/her life to listen bullshits, he did a great job. That list it's immediate.

    • @polaroidandroidjeff6383
      @polaroidandroidjeff6383 4 года назад

      @@tammy5926 you completely missed the point of the comment

    • @jeanluisindriagolugo232
      @jeanluisindriagolugo232 4 года назад

      hi guys, the greatest info that i've ever had was with the Seans Shy Program (just google it) - I found it the most useful method that I've tried.

    • @angelinakravchuk2806
      @angelinakravchuk2806 4 года назад

      hi guys, the best success that I have had was by following the Seans Shy Program (i found it on google) - definately the most helpful idea that I've seen.

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 4 года назад +59

    - Work on self esteem
    - Test your boundaries
    - Practise socialising

    • @lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385
      @lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385 4 года назад +1

      Yea absolutely but for me that's a no no but i might work on my self esteem

    • @Snow_Pulse
      @Snow_Pulse 4 года назад +1

      O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me 🙌🏼😆

  • @tammy5926
    @tammy5926 4 года назад +19

    Another great video. On focusing your attention outward, if you are the type who worries what will people think; am I looking, walking, behaving like I should... Well know this.. people are probably not even paying that much attention to those things that you are worried about. They are also too busy wondering what others are thinking about them. And I would say the use of the word shy is really more unconfident. I think we like to use that word because it feels safer and for girls it may even seem cutesy but it really is about not feeling confident or good enough. Something that has always helped me is knowing most people are feeling the same way. We are more alike than different. Relax, breath and know you are ok just the way you are. People will respect you when you are ok with who you are. 💕

  • @andrewheaton5320
    @andrewheaton5320 4 года назад +102

    what I fear most is failure

    • @thebarbender1423
      @thebarbender1423 4 года назад +9

      One cant succeed if he is afraid of fear of failure...
      Michael Jordan once said that he fails again and again...thats why he succeeds
      Best of luck !

    • @juanperez-df1mo
      @juanperez-df1mo 3 года назад +1

      This is glorious, I have been researching "how do i overcome shyness with girls?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Beyophia Unimaginable Blaster - (do a google search ) ? It is a great exclusive product for discovering how to say goodbye to your shyness and anxiety without the headache. Ive heard some great things about it and my neighbour got great results with it.

    • @herilopez1467
      @herilopez1467 3 года назад

      There are several components to cures for shyness. One resource I discovered that succeeds in merging these is the Seans Shy Program (check it out on google) definately the best plan that I have ever seen. look at all the super info .

    • @stevensonrojas1747
      @stevensonrojas1747 3 года назад

      Good info the greatest info that ive had was by following the Seans Shy Program (i found it on google) - definately the most incredible info that I have ever followed.

    • @carlosluissantander4359
      @carlosluissantander4359 3 года назад +1

      There are a few components to reducing shyness naturally . One place I discovered that succeeds in merging these is the Seans Shy Program (check it out on google) definately the most helpful guide that I've seen. Check out the amazing information .

  • @doriancroatia2054
    @doriancroatia2054 4 года назад +11

    I wanna make friends so bad but nobody's interested or are always too busy when I try to talk to them or when I try to invite them to my place or hang out with them..Even my wider family.

  • @carmey4ever
    @carmey4ever 3 года назад +3

    I enjoyed watching this. Is applies to a ton of things for me. The desire is there to do what I dream of achieving but so much hesitation, self doubt and criticism over the years has made little hills look like mountains.

  • @marquezedwards3108
    @marquezedwards3108 3 года назад +3

    The majority of people are either quite or shy at mainly school or don’t know how to start a conversation which proves that school is an environment for us students because the more fear you have the less life you live and to be unhappy and nervous I just wish the government could fix this it hurts me seeing someone by themselves it makes no sense how teachers don’t teach this instead of stupid poems or presentations instead we have to watch RUclips videos come on are u serious☹️☹️☹️☹️

  • @theartofmastery3674
    @theartofmastery3674 4 года назад +25

    Meditation helps a lot😄 Try it

    • @teymyneytor
      @teymyneytor 4 года назад +2

      the greatest success that I have ever had was by using the Seans Shy Program (i found it on google) - without a doubt the most useful info that I've seen.

    • @aditya-qy4wb
      @aditya-qy4wb 3 года назад

      Really

  • @prestressed_courses
    @prestressed_courses 4 года назад +20

    Once I'll reach level 10 and obtain new friend - Death.

  • @sabrinaderose9732
    @sabrinaderose9732 3 года назад +9

    One of the best ways to start changing your behavior and stay motivated throughout the process is to gamify it.
    I’ve come up with a few games for you to play that will help you start being a more social person.
    1. The 60 second game
    The first is called the 60 second game. Within 60 seconds of going into an event, coffee shop, anywhere, you’re going to go up and say hello to someone.
    If you decide later you’re done saying hello and would like to use a different phrase, that’s fine. But the point of this game is to beat your anxiety by taking action before it takes root.
    Overtime, this game will desensitize you from having any type of approach anxiety and you’ll be able to strike up a conversation with anybody in no time.
    2.The phone game
    If you see someone using a phone or see someone reading a book you can say, “what kind of phone is that? I’ve been thinking about switching for a long time”. Or you can say, “what book are you reading? I’m looking for something good to read”.
    Do that 3 times in 24 hours.
    Just like the first game, this will desentize you from having social anxiety. Over time, playing any one of these games (and hopefully all 3) will lead you to becoming that social butterfly that’s been dormant for years.
    The 3 WORST Mistakes You Must AVOID If You Want To Eliminate Social Anxiety , click here:hipolink.me/socialanx

  • @thebarbender1423
    @thebarbender1423 4 года назад +7

    Hey everyone... m scared to dance..i get extremely nervous in parties bt m going to kill this fear by joining a dance class..
    Best of luck to everyone!

    • @BlackStar-xi8zx
      @BlackStar-xi8zx 3 года назад +1

      Same here, but i'll definitely kill this fear. All the best to you

  • @huytinnguyen8789
    @huytinnguyen8789 3 года назад +2

    1, make a fear scale 2, decipher your relationships 3, familiarity with unfamiliarly 4, coin your phrase 5, direct your attention outward 6, rearrange your expectations 7, conquer one new challenge 8, eliminate your scapgoats

  • @aland1405
    @aland1405 4 года назад +2

    Learn that everyone have bad and good things so you will be able to be confident .

  • @gokulpraveen3688
    @gokulpraveen3688 Год назад +2

    My father was an extroved person he likes to make friends usually go out hang with them no problem for him. But i am opposite i feel shy to talk difficulty in making conversation and avoid social interaction

  • @ishatiwari5176
    @ishatiwari5176 4 года назад +8

    I have a fear of judge when someone told me fat someone told me ugly i have biggest fear
    I am trying to i don't care but i can't

    • @Thekweens
      @Thekweens 4 года назад +3

      Yes me too i am trying to get rid of shyness and i just can't it is so hard y'll think "ok i can do this i am not shy" then you try to do it then we get shy😪😪😪😪😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤧🤧🤧🤧😭😭😭😭😭😞😞😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @greg198
      @greg198 3 года назад

      Me too, I made new friends and im really shy so I go on facetime with them and I don't speak im trying so hard but I just can't I feel like I will get judged or embarrass myself im going to start by talking more to strangers like going out and one thing a close friend of mine told me was others are much more good at hiding there shyness but with me im not and I hate being shy because its just unfamiliarity

  • @labradormcgraw
    @labradormcgraw 2 года назад +3

    If I were a wealthy man,
    Such things I'd give to thee:
    All gauges and guises
    Of umpteen surprises,
    And wealthy I'll someday be.
    If I were a clever man,
    Such things I'd build for thee:
    All manner of modes
    Of humble abodes,
    And clever I'll someday be.
    If I were a travelling man,
    Such things I'd bring to thee:
    All features and faces
    Of faraway places,
    And travelled I'll someday be.
    If I were a braver man,
    Such things I'd promise thee:
    All valour in verses
    Of tethering curses
    Will someday be set free.

  • @erroreliminator2.076
    @erroreliminator2.076 4 года назад +9

    Do you think extroverts aren't also me, me, me and more me as well? LOL

  • @raudelgomez4116
    @raudelgomez4116 4 года назад

    Best detailed information, Shyness isn’t better than us!

  • @lightningchef2752
    @lightningchef2752 3 года назад +2

    Me wishing I watched this before 1st day of school

  • @ritugupta9974
    @ritugupta9974 3 года назад

    Thanks a million for this video !!....Your new subscriber and follower 💙...you people are doing great work ,MAY GOD BLESS YOU ♡

  • @czarinajaynedannug7744
    @czarinajaynedannug7744 3 года назад

    the greatest info that i've had was by following the Seans Shy Program (i found it on google) - I found it the most helpful resource i've seen.

  • @randeep.007
    @randeep.007 3 года назад +2

    Thanks it's motivated me a lot🤗

  • @user-nr7mo1xj8u
    @user-nr7mo1xj8u 3 года назад +2

    My people don’t worry I’m here.

  • @yoshkagekira1856
    @yoshkagekira1856 3 года назад +1

    What i fear most is dying lonely or being empty

  • @100sportif8
    @100sportif8 4 года назад

    here's several things to try
    Work out why you suffer from shyness - the first step in solving an issue is to understand why you have it.
    Be comfortable with yourself - this makes it easier when you are with others.
    Challenge youself - you will gain confidence by taking action - especially by doing things that stretch your limits.
    (I read these and more ideas on sebs shyness tactic site )

  • @flowermochi2040
    @flowermochi2040 3 года назад +2

    I hate being shy, I don't know why I am* shy but I am... making friends is so hard bc of this >:(

    • @ryans413
      @ryans413 3 года назад

      You sure your not introverted I don’t have many friends but it don’t make me shy

    • @flowermochi2040
      @flowermochi2040 3 года назад

      @@ryans413 Well I was EXTREMELY shy in the past I can tell you, I would cry when I had to present smt lmao😭👍 But well now we can say that I'm just an introvert

  • @samarmisra
    @samarmisra 3 года назад

    Thank you for giving me the knowledge

  • @numanmendoza1147
    @numanmendoza1147 3 года назад

    the best info that i've had was by using the Seans Shy Program (i found it on google) - definately the no.1 idea i've followed.

  • @artstudent3077
    @artstudent3077 4 года назад +4

    Im so shy thank u

    • @jessicachatham5421
      @jessicachatham5421 4 года назад +1

      Me too I need to work on it

    • @jessicachatham5421
      @jessicachatham5421 4 года назад

      I'm so shy too but I'm dating a guy for 5 months now and he us more talked then me and he didn't like that I wish I wasn't so shy

    • @differentvoices6241
      @differentvoices6241 4 года назад +2

      @@jessicachatham5421 even I'm shy though I want to tell so many things 😔

    • @artstudent3077
      @artstudent3077 4 года назад

      @Kat Holland This video is made for us then lol

  • @Teabagformori
    @Teabagformori 4 года назад +1

    Great video helped me a lot 💙👍🏼

  • @lellow7087
    @lellow7087 3 года назад +2

    But I don’t really want to socialise. Except from close friends and family 😊❤️

  • @aland1405
    @aland1405 4 года назад +2

    Find your bad things and start changing them no matter what . Work hard !!

  • @mariaafzalzubery3414
    @mariaafzalzubery3414 4 года назад +1

    That's really helpful!!

  • @kavibaby7574
    @kavibaby7574 4 года назад

    very educational & helpful

  • @nick888yt
    @nick888yt 4 года назад +1

    I really like the video thank you for video please make a video on personality development
    Thanks

  • @samarmisra
    @samarmisra 3 года назад

    Thank you once again

  • @yassirbouhoum6962
    @yassirbouhoum6962 4 года назад

    Just about time thanks Top Think

  • @bwick2990
    @bwick2990 4 года назад +1

    9:55 - called out.

  • @Kumori90
    @Kumori90 Год назад

    Sometimes the threshold for making a comment closes before I can make it, and sometimes the comment doesn't come out right and I'm just like "screw it: can't just 'edit' my response now"

  • @noa2051
    @noa2051 Год назад

    The numbers for the fears I have are higher than 6, where do I start if I can’t start with a lower number?

  • @ruslankonovalenko2621
    @ruslankonovalenko2621 3 года назад +1

    I have spent months investigating treating shyness naturally and found a fantastic resource at Seans Shy Program (look it up on google)

  • @lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385
    @lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385 4 года назад +6

    Nah this too much work but i might give it a shot *maybe* 😅

    • @Thekweens
      @Thekweens 4 года назад +1

      I don't care if this is too much herd work i will try and if it doesn't work i will keep trying😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪

  • @sundaypro
    @sundaypro 2 года назад

    I don't know what to say after the first contact. Dunno how to uphold a conversation.

  • @kamiisama523
    @kamiisama523 4 года назад

    Expect that hits hard now i feel little more vonfident

  • @adorable3006
    @adorable3006 4 года назад

    There are a few components to treating shyness at home. One resource I found which successfully combines these is the Seans Shy Program (google it if you're interested) definately the most helpful resource i've seen. Check out all the unbelievable info .

  • @bhaskarkhadka6668
    @bhaskarkhadka6668 4 года назад

    There are a few components to treating shyness at home. One resource I discovered which succeeds in merging these is the Sebs Shyness Tactic (check it out on google) without a doubt the best blueprint i've seen. look at all the great information .

  • @SeanAndreiLIson
    @SeanAndreiLIson 3 года назад

    Me searchin this before research defense

  • @amanpreetkaur-yh4nc
    @amanpreetkaur-yh4nc 3 года назад

    I am shy with some people but not shy with most of the people

  • @rabbitdroppings8567
    @rabbitdroppings8567 4 года назад +1

    Sorry but, 5 is not true for all of the shy squad 🤨

  • @sabrinawanderer7560
    @sabrinawanderer7560 4 года назад +6

    I'm scared of men😂😂😂😂

  • @user-tg4ln8ds3p
    @user-tg4ln8ds3p 5 месяцев назад

    Nah im shy FOREVER IM EVEN SHY CHATTING THIS BRUH

  • @joseignaciogodoysilva3133
    @joseignaciogodoysilva3133 3 года назад

    There are many components to reducing shyness at home . One resource I found which succeeds in merging these is the Seans Shy Program (check it out on google) without a doubt the most useful guide i've heard of. look at all the incredible information .

  • @heythere4924
    @heythere4924 3 года назад

    There are many components to treatments for shyness. One place I discovered that succeeds in merging these is the Seans Shy Program (google it if you're interested) without a doubt the best guide i've seen. Check out all the awesome information .

  • @aleksandarmiletic2229
    @aleksandarmiletic2229 4 года назад

    There are several components to reducing shyness naturally . One place I found which succeeds in merging these is the Seans Shy Program (google it if you're interested) definately the most helpful blueprint that I have ever seen. Check out all the unbelievable info .

  • @harisberisha9592
    @harisberisha9592 3 года назад

    Im scared when i talk with my girlfriend

  • @gustavomarquez9450
    @gustavomarquez9450 3 года назад

    Hello the greatest info that i've ever had was with the Seans Shy Program (just google it) - I found it the most useful idea that I have ever followed.

  • @caillouquieredolares6719
    @caillouquieredolares6719 4 года назад

    There are several factors in treating shyness at home. One place I discovered which successfully combines these is the Seans Shy Program (check it out on google) it's the most incredible blueprint that I've heard of. look at all the unbelievable info .

  • @adanperez6438
    @adanperez6438 3 года назад

    the greatest success that i've ever had was with the Seans Shy Program (just google it) - without a doubt the most helpful method i've seen.

  • @gianbel782
    @gianbel782 3 года назад

    Good info the best results that i've had was with the Seans Shy Program (just google it) - I found it the most helpful resource i've followed.

  • @laurensvanhoeve8792
    @laurensvanhoeve8792 4 года назад

    2

  • @purvin7741
    @purvin7741 4 года назад

    10

  • @berylodondi7706
    @berylodondi7706 3 года назад

    I've been studying treating shyness at home and discovered a great website at Seans Shy Program (google it if you are interested)

  • @kevinrodirguez2993
    @kevinrodirguez2993 4 года назад

    I'm researching best natural remedy for shyness and found a fantastic website at Seans Shy Program (check it out on google)

  • @johnboscoc4940
    @johnboscoc4940 4 года назад

    😍

  • @creation556
    @creation556 4 года назад +2

    💗

  • @adilouass2858
    @adilouass2858 3 года назад

    I\'m not sure but ,if anyone else needs to find out about best books for getting over shyness try Tarbally Fast Shyness Tactics (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some great things about it and my partner got amazing results with it.

  • @lilianabolet2
    @lilianabolet2 4 года назад

    Good info the greatest results that I have had was by following the Seans Shy Program (just google it) - without a doubt the best method i've followed.

  • @prooption0758
    @prooption0758 3 года назад

    interesting points ,if anyone else is searching for how to cure shyness naturally try Tarbally Fast Shyness Tactics (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my colleague got excellent success with it.

  • @brosephgilmore8418
    @brosephgilmore8418 4 года назад +1

    THERES ALWAYS A COUPLE PESSIMISTS THAT CLICK DISLIKE 😂

  • @breadises9936
    @breadises9936 4 года назад

    999999. Subscribers

  • @Victorleoh
    @Victorleoh 4 года назад

    No

    • @Anhedonxia
      @Anhedonxia 4 года назад

      Victor no wat

    • @Victorleoh
      @Victorleoh 4 года назад +1

      @@Anhedonxia idk i just pressed a random video and commented no and left

    • @Anhedonxia
      @Anhedonxia 4 года назад

      Victor lol you evil man . if u typed anything but that u would have received a heart(give up ur evil ways to receive hearts) 😂

    • @tammy5926
      @tammy5926 4 года назад

      @@Victorleoh That's pretty lame. Take the time to actually watch a video and then leave a comment. If you don't watch the video don't comment. People aren't impressed by random comments just because.

  • @Mark-xw5yt
    @Mark-xw5yt 4 года назад

    Is this channel dead? 1 million and less than 1k views in an hour

  • @Ale_giro
    @Ale_giro 4 года назад +1

    Bullshits. Stopped at 7th min. I want those 7 minutes of my life back.

  • @srthatejeep
    @srthatejeep 4 года назад +1

    Is there 8 simple steps to overcome gayness 🤔

  • @katherinemarsh7429
    @katherinemarsh7429 4 года назад +1

    Not helpful. At all

    • @JohnDoe-qq8et
      @JohnDoe-qq8et 4 года назад +3

      Socializing is a skill. Like any skill, it's a collage of multiple skills merged as one. Also, like any skill, it takes deliberate practice to improve. The "use it or lose it" concept applies. The more we practice being shy, the better we get at being shy. Same formula, different variables.

    • @tammy5926
      @tammy5926 4 года назад +2

      Apply the principles here, even if just one and it's extremely helpful. You can't just read or watch something, you have to be willing to apply it in your own life. 💕

  • @labradormcgraw
    @labradormcgraw 2 года назад +1

    If I were a wealthy man,
    Such things I'd give to thee:
    All gauges and guises
    Of umpteen surprises,
    And wealthy I'll someday be.
    If I were a clever man,
    Such things I'd build for thee:
    All manner of modes
    Of humble abodes,
    And clever I'll someday be.
    If I were a travelling man,
    Such things I'd bring to thee:
    All features and faces
    Of faraway places,
    And travelled I'll someday be.
    If I were a braver man,
    Such things I'd promise thee:
    All valour in verses
    Of tethering curses
    Will someday be set free.