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Their aren't any fateful Columbia women even the married ones with kids all about the money. I meet a lot of good women Thay like sex and money only caution 🧐
@@oscardena1767 Trsut me there are they just don’t be on social media being loyal to there family, read my comment again “to all the faithful, respectful” but I understand what you mean this generation is just different there’s no respect anymore
I knew a girl in Medellin who flat said "a paisa that doesn't cheat isn't paisa" So Metrallin is a tough place to find a relationship and keep one. It's why you see all these single young mothers there. It's quite sad actually.
Dating overseas have really fallen off the last 5-10 years it seems. The introduction of social media and simps and OnlyFans will always ruin a country. Men have always been the same, but women changed in wanting unrealistic expectations. Men will just respond with going to other countries with more feminine women and a culture that does not promote cheating and hook up culture. It’s a shame when a beautiful country does not learn from the USA dating culture mistakes and it’s consequences.
Social media use, infidelity culture, and abortion stigma is a really bad mix. It's kind of like Colombia has the worst of both worlds: they are very conservative about dealing with unplanned pregnancies, and also very liberal with hook up culture.
If a man comes to Medellin and wants a relationship he should approach women with an indifferent attitude. Odds are better than 50/50 he won’t be the only guy. So why worry about it?
The best and perhaps only good places to find a loyal w0men in colombia are these 2 options: small cities in paisa regions like armenia, manizales and montenegr0. The reason is they have still have the best paisa features but also still have that small town country family feel and values. The second option is bucaramunga, because its a university city and younger generations are more educated and its less known - so less annoying american tourists and passport bros spreading their degeneracy. The downside to those places is that they are too small and hard to navigate around as they are not too tourist friendly. But yeah from my experience colombians are not worth it, espicially if they are from medellin, the coast or cali
Your spanish is great wes. loving the new content. Foreigners need to learn more of the other side of Colombia. I think this video summed up a lot of the reasons why infidelity is common in medellin. Colombian women will rather share a narco guy than have their own 9-5 guy. Watch a documentary called sierra, made in medellin they follow a colombian drug dealer from the barrios in medellin. He has 12 babies from 12 women. I'd say also the men are the same, they want the women they see in the reggaeton videos. Mas culo mas tetas. It's more cultural to me.
I agree with everything you said. Modern Colombian culture is very pathetic and degenerate. But in western countries w0men are happy to be on rotation to "high value men". And western culture/music scene is degrading at an alarming rate
A big difference in Latin America is that people just stay married, even if one party is unfaithful. It is often taken as a given that there will be cheating.
When I caught my 22 year d Colombian girlfriend on a dinner date with a over 50 White guy, she said its not cheating, she and her roommate just have these guys take them on nice dates, buy them things, and give them money. The rise of SIMPING does play a role in it. I broke up with her anyway because I would never trust a woman who aggressively uses someone for personal gain. I met another Colombian woman who told me she was dating two other guys, if I wanted to date her solo, I would need to financially provide for her to cover the lost money the other two guys are providing. I've learned in the larger Colombian cities, Medellin, Cartagena, Bogota, and Barranquilla, all the women have accepted cheating as a social norm.
@hinoswane3243 The one that I caught cheating is in Bucaramanga. The one dating two other guys and wanted me to cover their monthly subsidy to her if I wanted her to date only me and be faithful is in Medellin. Another stay in Colombia I was in Cartagena for 9 months, and during that stint, I dated a Colombian woman who said she was single with no kids but had a kid.
@@Rayjon10857guy depends to be honest where did you find and meet this girls!!! But it’s like everyone not all Colombian woman’s are like that I feel mostly the city’s girl are like that, girls from the town like traditional towns we are very different 🫶🏽! In my case my relationship have been very successful, I was raised and born in a traditional town and also family and we are very hard worker, we study a lot and we literally work to get ourselves better… well that’s talking about my perspective and also other friends that I have that thankfully we are different in that part ☺️ we do also help our partners and is really awesome to have a relationship like that!
Its just godless and urban culture. Its like that everywhere in the world. Large cities and consumerism=lots of options/swipes, and rationships are ultimately transactional. If you are looking for something more serious, get out of a big city or date very stragically. Its like this in New York, LA, London, Paris, etc etc. Cities are anonymous. You are always one swipe away from replacing someone or being replaced yourself. As a man (or woman), are you chasing quantity or quality? You can have one or the other, but not both at the same time. Choose wisely. We all reep what we sow sooner or later.
@@xa0wnerx Miami and LA are the absolute worst. Any women even slightly above avg wants a millionaire nowadays. F that!! I'm glad I found a sexy Latina outside of those cities.
That is why More people prefer going by their own in Colombia instead of taking a long term ride (me included) and you know is funny because when a fellow compatriot moves abroad they prefer getting along with Colombians not foreigners when having the chance to meet people with different mentality overseas (of course there are rare exceptions) So It seems like most of Colombians are socially conditioned to play these childish and toxic games with relationships. They are so used to it is impossible to play with different rules for them.
@@apexp8176 Bro ur making columbia hating us if they watch this video. Just because u had bad experience, doesn't give u the right to blame the entire race. Because ur creating hate in this video.
Good topic for sure, and in my experience with Coastal and Medellin women, and not nationwide, is they are well into you unless a better offer comes along, and then its chao!!!
Qué risa..lol... That was indeed very cool content, great video bro! However I have to say you're freaking me out of bit because I just left Colombia as I had to come back to Canada for business and my paisa wife is still in Colombia..😳.lol.. Joking aside as always your content is great...sigue así. ;)
I love Medellín! Beautiful paisas querendonas. Love when they say 'mor.... having said that, better watch out for them. Son tremendas! Keep an open mind, have fun and enjoy life. An Uber driver once told me: Most Beautiful girls in Medellín live in the poorest neighborhoods... Santo Domingo, Bello, Aranjuez, Manrique... Don't know if that's true, but those heavily populated areas have lots of Beautiful girls.
Oh man, my friend here in ‘Quilla clued me into the games, cheating, lying, flakiness, etc. Some of which has been verified by a female friend here. He calls it Social Conditioning.
@WheresWes perhaps bar Thailand? It's became more and more Westernised, a lot of ladies have lost their true values , though yeah Latin America seems like a different level
@@WheresWes I've seen stats that show European countries are at the top, and number 1 is Thailand. Also in Asia, Japanese people don't consider seeing prostitutes as cheating. And I've heard of cheating being common in Korea. Cheating in China has also become common, from men mostly. The middle east lacks liberty for women so that one makes sense, although not somewhere people would want to live.
I am venezuelan and my boyfriend is canadian. We went to a latin festival recently and it was mostly colombian focused. During the dance segments we had a bunch of little girls come out and dance reggaeton and twerk and they called it "culture". Im latin american, i personally hate reggaeton but i grew up with it so the whole culture around it is normalized to me. My canadian boufriend compared the little girls dancing to the movie Cuties and he was very uncomfortable. And thats when i realized how F* up the culture is... it really made me think a lot. Not a fan of latino culture myself, and venezuela could get all its issues sorted out tomorrow and i would still not go back, the violence and economic issues are not the only reason i left
Those hotels you are talking about are everywhere throughout Latin America ( the go by many different names ) nothing new, very typical…. It's so funny in the suburbs and along highways, you can drive your car into the rooms😎
I commend those Colombians and people of the world who are faithful to their husbands and wives. That is the way it should be, and if you are not living that way, you need to turn to God and turn away from infidelity. It is a pit that you will fall into and have much trouble getting out of it.
So what your saying is i need to take a trip to Columbia? In all spuriousness i think this is applicable to everywhere, the people you interviewed are just more honest
Good job Wes!!! Do you really need a Mic?? It makes the videos to formal! Also, in SOUTH KOREA there is a lot of LOVE HOTELS...you can t bring your girl friend/boy friend over before you marry!!??
Honestly they have alot of love hotels because the government is encouraging koreans to have sex more and to have more babies since their birth rate is so low... South Korea is still extremely conservative by world standards hence why a lot of Korean men think foreigners are "easy" and will hookup easily
A few years ago, I saw a population ratio of men vs. women (I think it was 5 years ago) in different countries. Anyway, it was saying that the male-to-women ratio was 1:23.xx, 1 man for every 23 point-something women. I asked a girl in Medellin about it and she commented it was wrong, It had to be higher because you had to exclude gay men. There had to be 30-plus women for every man. Somehow I believe it, because I also read in Colombia, men between the ages of 18-29, have the highest ratio of dying either by crime or accident. Hence you are considered lucky as a man once you reach your 30s. Hence the discrepancy in male to male-to-women ratio.
Wow this is sad I am planning a trip in December to Colombia . Need a break from California. I was possibly looking to relocate and live there . A lot of RUclipsrs and commenters I have been reading have stated about the high infidelity. You would think a women would want a family and a solid man .
Don't even come to this shithole, I'm Colombian and I'm planning to leave this crappy country for a better one, idk why people have a good perception of this crappy hellhole, do yourself a favor and don't waste money by coming here
the most unfaithful country? but if you get there you go out at night and in the bars and clubs they are all sitting among friends. no one interacts with other people. and women put pure problems and inconveniences when something happens. many women scared to death, distrustful, paranoid to me it seems like a pure story that they are very unfaithful
As a former back in the day playa now retired from the game. Like all men especially when your younger, we see the beautiful faces, and the beautiful bodies of endless pleasure. But behind those masks? Look beautiful women are a dime a dozen in our world. But beautiful intentions? Hey come on man buyer beware
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Big shout out!!!! to all the real faithful, respectful colombianas your personality’s speaks for itself 💯
Their aren't any fateful Columbia women even the married ones with kids all about the money. I meet a lot of good women Thay like sex and money only caution 🧐
@@oscardena1767 Trsut me there are they just don’t be on social media being loyal to there family, read my comment again “to all the faithful, respectful” but I understand what you mean this generation is just different there’s no respect anymore
I knew a girl in Medellin who flat said "a paisa that doesn't cheat isn't paisa" So Metrallin is a tough place to find a relationship and keep one. It's why you see all these single young mothers there. It's quite sad actually.
lmao was she refering to men or women?
@@xgtwb6473what do you think, women inherit men traits and men inherit women traits
Do you think that single moms become single moms when the man finds their women cheating and leaves?
@xgtwb6473 In that instance she may have been referring to women. But I believe it's just inherent in the Medellin paisa community culture.
@@DJV94022Irrelevant whom inherits what from whom. I'm referring to the Medellin cheater culture.
Dating overseas have really fallen off the last 5-10 years it seems. The introduction of social media and simps and OnlyFans will always ruin a country. Men have always been the same, but women changed in wanting unrealistic expectations. Men will just respond with going to other countries with more feminine women and a culture that does not promote cheating and hook up culture. It’s a shame when a beautiful country does not learn from the USA dating culture mistakes and it’s consequences.
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Exactly, and why i love the Phuilippines over Colombia,
this is global now LOL there is no more safe haven
No the men have change! That’s why the women do what they do? Smh
Its almost as if Colombia takes a lot of cultural influence from Western Europe. Oh wait they do, smart guy!
Colombia is a brothel..you go there to have fun and that is it,nothing serious. You go elsewhere for something meaningful.
Exactly. Use it for what it is that’s it
Same with Brazil.
Set your boundaries and make sure they understand them. Any cheating and I will be gone she won't even have a chance to say goodbye.
The woman will say the same in response
She has every right to expect the same.
@@davidwhitton9050Is great that you think like that because for some men the only loyal most be the woman 😅
@@davidwhitton9050Women are the gatekeepers of Sex, Men are the gatekeepers of relationship. Basically she has no power at all.
Social media use, infidelity culture, and abortion stigma is a really bad mix. It's kind of like Colombia has the worst of both worlds: they are very conservative about dealing with unplanned pregnancies, and also very liberal with hook up culture.
If a man comes to Medellin and wants a relationship he should approach women with an indifferent attitude. Odds are better than 50/50 he won’t be the only guy. So why worry about it?
The best and perhaps only good places to find a loyal w0men in colombia are these 2 options: small cities in paisa regions like armenia, manizales and montenegr0. The reason is they have still have the best paisa features but also still have that small town country family feel and values. The second option is bucaramunga, because its a university city and younger generations are more educated and its less known - so less annoying american tourists and passport bros spreading their degeneracy.
The downside to those places is that they are too small and hard to navigate around as they are not too tourist friendly.
But yeah from my experience colombians are not worth it, espicially if they are from medellin, the coast or cali
That's like half the country lmao
You sound like a sexpat that toured all those cities
Your spanish is great wes. loving the new content. Foreigners need to learn more of the other side of Colombia. I think this video summed up a lot of the reasons why infidelity is common in medellin. Colombian women will rather share a narco guy than have their own 9-5 guy. Watch a documentary called sierra, made in medellin they follow a colombian drug dealer from the barrios in medellin. He has 12 babies from 12 women. I'd say also the men are the same, they want the women they see in the reggaeton videos. Mas culo mas tetas. It's more cultural to me.
I agree with everything you said. Modern Colombian culture is very pathetic and degenerate. But in western countries w0men are happy to be on rotation to "high value men". And western culture/music scene is degrading at an alarming rate
I like the spanish interviews - please do more; they’re great
you got it bro
A big difference in Latin America is that people just stay married, even if one party is unfaithful. It is often taken as a given that there will be cheating.
Some colombian chick told me that they have no problem sharing the spouse or girlfriend...shady shit
This one I know has two ex boyfriends that are friends with each other.
When I caught my 22 year d Colombian girlfriend on a dinner date with a over 50 White guy, she said its not cheating, she and her roommate just have these guys take them on nice dates, buy them things, and give them money.
The rise of SIMPING does play a role in it.
I broke up with her anyway because I would never trust a woman who aggressively uses someone for personal gain.
I met another Colombian woman who told me she was dating two other guys, if I wanted to date her solo, I would need to financially provide for her to cover the lost money the other two guys are providing.
I've learned in the larger Colombian cities, Medellin, Cartagena, Bogota, and Barranquilla, all the women have accepted cheating as a social norm.
Like your comment, Ramon
i caught my Peruvian girl on the same except i was out with another chick too LOL
Where did you meet these women?
@hinoswane3243 The one that I caught cheating is in Bucaramanga. The one dating two other guys and wanted me to cover their monthly subsidy to her if I wanted her to date only me and be faithful is in Medellin.
Another stay in Colombia I was in Cartagena for 9 months, and during that stint, I dated a Colombian woman who said she was single with no kids but had a kid.
@@Rayjon10857guy depends to be honest where did you find and meet this girls!!! But it’s like everyone not all Colombian woman’s are like that I feel mostly the city’s girl are like that, girls from the town like traditional towns we are very different 🫶🏽! In my case my relationship have been very successful, I was raised and born in a traditional town and also family and we are very hard worker, we study a lot and we literally work to get ourselves better… well that’s talking about my perspective and also other friends that I have that thankfully we are different in that part ☺️ we do also help our partners and is really awesome to have a relationship like that!
It be the ones talking about Dios this Dios that, be the biggest 304s
those always make me laugh hahaha
Yeah every other post on their social media is God this and that, then they post a pic of themselves in a bikini hours later 😂
Its just godless and urban culture. Its like that everywhere in the world. Large cities and consumerism=lots of options/swipes, and rationships are ultimately transactional. If you are looking for something more serious, get out of a big city or date very stragically. Its like this in New York, LA, London, Paris, etc etc. Cities are anonymous. You are always one swipe away from replacing someone or being replaced yourself. As a man (or woman), are you chasing quantity or quality? You can have one or the other, but not both at the same time. Choose wisely. We all reep what we sow sooner or later.
100%. Miami is the epitome of this combined with latin culture.
@@xa0wnerx Miami and LA are the absolute worst. Any women even slightly above avg wants a millionaire nowadays. F that!! I'm glad I found a sexy Latina outside of those cities.
Divorce is so low because few people get married here
I remember Life With David said Brazil and Colombia are 1 & 2 respectively are the most unfaithful in Latin America. I wonder who are in the World.
I've seen Thailand and Brazil as 1 and 2
Mostly Rio de Janeiro is hookup culture. The rest of Brazil is quite conservative (I’ve been to 13 cities).
great work, need more of this
That is why More people prefer going by their own in Colombia instead of taking a long term ride (me included) and you know is funny because when a fellow compatriot moves abroad they prefer getting along with Colombians not foreigners when having the chance to meet people with different mentality overseas (of course there are rare exceptions)
So It seems like most of Colombians are socially conditioned to play these childish and toxic games with relationships. They are so used to it is impossible to play with different rules for them.
Eso sucede en todo el mundo, que ego el que tiene usted creyendo que descubrio la piedra filosofal.
Así es colombia, nadie honesto
Loving the street interview format Wes! Keep up the great work🫡
Thanks!
These hotels you mention are in Dominican Republic too. They call them cabañas. You can rent a room for 3 or 4 hours.
Great video!
Thanks!
Wow your spanish has gotten better
Damn, you went from why Columbia is so much different and better to this. What’s that about, Wes?
?? i just show both sides, the good and the bad.
Ok brother, I was just asking. Keep up the good work.
@@apexp8176 Bro ur making columbia hating us if they watch this video. Just because u had bad experience, doesn't give u the right to blame the entire race. Because ur creating hate in this video.
@CoolNumber1 bruh it's literally a video of Colombians talking about their own country wtf
I ended my relationship with my year long relationship because I knew she could never be loyal. It’s in their culture. Sex. Drugs etc
Sex and drugs... Sounds also like the USA
I think that you are 100% correct! Even though as you know, I come at this from a different viewpoint!
It's simple they trying to come up. Trying to get the bag 🤨
Good topic for sure, and in my experience with Coastal and Medellin women, and not nationwide, is they are well into you unless a better offer comes along, and then its chao!!!
Interesting !!!
Qué risa..lol... That was indeed very cool content, great video bro! However I have to say you're freaking me out of bit because I just left Colombia as I had to come back to Canada for business and my paisa wife is still in Colombia..😳.lol.. Joking aside as always your content is great...sigue así. ;)
I love Medellín! Beautiful paisas querendonas. Love when they say 'mor.... having said that, better watch out for them. Son tremendas! Keep an open mind, have fun and enjoy life.
An Uber driver once told me: Most Beautiful girls in Medellín live in the poorest neighborhoods... Santo Domingo, Bello, Aranjuez, Manrique... Don't know if that's true, but those heavily populated areas have lots of Beautiful girls.
Medellín is a bad place to find a relationship
Oh man, my friend here in ‘Quilla clued me into the games, cheating, lying, flakiness, etc. Some of which has been verified by a female friend here. He calls it Social Conditioning.
Glad you enjoyING the capital of the CACHO.
Chicas locas are the best in the sack 😅 let’s face it, 2 months till I unplug. Can’t wait ❤
I feel like infidelity is found everywhere and high everywhere not just Colombia.
It does seem to be more in Latin America tho, it isnt the same level in Asia or the Middle east for example
@WheresWes perhaps bar Thailand? It's became more and more Westernised, a lot of ladies have lost their true values , though yeah Latin America seems like a different level
@@WheresWes I've seen stats that show European countries are at the top, and number 1 is Thailand. Also in Asia, Japanese people don't consider seeing prostitutes as cheating. And I've heard of cheating being common in Korea. Cheating in China has also become common, from men mostly. The middle east lacks liberty for women so that one makes sense, although not somewhere people would want to live.
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3:41 omg doggy is so cute😍😍
Korea has had love motels for decades.
Thats good to know actually
@@WheresWes Same with Japan
Great content, keep it up! I would like to see condos in the 300k-400k USD if you can.
Got some cool ones coming up
I am venezuelan and my boyfriend is canadian. We went to a latin festival recently and it was mostly colombian focused. During the dance segments we had a bunch of little girls come out and dance reggaeton and twerk and they called it "culture". Im latin american, i personally hate reggaeton but i grew up with it so the whole culture around it is normalized to me. My canadian boufriend compared the little girls dancing to the movie Cuties and he was very uncomfortable. And thats when i realized how F* up the culture is... it really made me think a lot. Not a fan of latino culture myself, and venezuela could get all its issues sorted out tomorrow and i would still not go back, the violence and economic issues are not the only reason i left
Tweking culture is big in the USA also by the way. Its is biggest in the African American culture but has become mainstream now.
Those hotels you are talking about are everywhere throughout Latin America ( the go by many different names ) nothing new, very typical…. It's so funny in the suburbs and along highways, you can drive your car into the rooms😎
I commend those Colombians and people of the world who are faithful to their husbands and wives. That is the way it should be, and if you are not living that way, you need to turn to God and turn away from infidelity. It is a pit that you will fall into and have much trouble getting out of it.
So what your saying is i need to take a trip to Columbia? In all spuriousness i think this is applicable to everywhere, the people you interviewed are just more honest
It is a well known thing in Colombia specifically tho
Glade you speak their language ..
So you said a few years ago Medellin was like a game of Russian Roulette, so do u mean everyday you go out , your life could easily be taken ?
Not necessarily. More that you can get robbed at a moments notice if you're not careful
@@WheresWes That's most of latin america also.
Good job Wes!!! Do you really need a Mic?? It makes the videos to formal! Also, in SOUTH KOREA there is a lot of LOVE HOTELS...you can t bring your girl friend/boy friend over before you marry!!??
Honestly they have alot of love hotels because the government is encouraging koreans to have sex more and to have more babies since their birth rate is so low... South Korea is still extremely conservative by world standards hence why a lot of Korean men think foreigners are "easy" and will hookup easily
Love motels are very common in Japan.
nice to know
But Japanese are not into hookup culture
@@Dividenddream and Japanese don't think that men seeing prostitutes is considered cheating
@@Dividenddreamyes they are lmao
Reggatone contributes to infidelity?
Yeah absolutely, a ton of the songs are about being unfaithful lol
I love reggaeton tho haha
the majority of women in SA has 3-4 men helping them, don't think you're special, you're in a rotation 😂
5:51 she is a more traditionally minded Colombiana. 👍
A few years ago, I saw a population ratio of men vs. women (I think it was 5 years ago) in different countries. Anyway, it was saying that the male-to-women ratio was 1:23.xx, 1 man for every 23 point-something women. I asked a girl in Medellin about it and she commented it was wrong, It had to be higher because you had to exclude gay men. There had to be 30-plus women for every man. Somehow I believe it, because I also read in Colombia, men between the ages of 18-29, have the highest ratio of dying either by crime or accident. Hence you are considered lucky as a man once you reach your 30s. Hence the discrepancy in male to male-to-women ratio.
Definitely not accurate
2:34 a culture of ambition
😂😂😂 been living in medellin 2 years,mostly all the women cheat
Wow this is sad
I am planning a trip in December to Colombia .
Need a break from California.
I was possibly looking to relocate and live there .
A lot of RUclipsrs and commenters I have been reading have stated about the high infidelity.
You would think a women would want a family and a solid man .
Don't even come to this shithole, I'm Colombian and I'm planning to leave this crappy country for a better one, idk why people have a good perception of this crappy hellhole, do yourself a favor and don't waste money by coming here
the most unfaithful country? but if you get there you go out at night and in the bars and clubs they are all sitting among friends. no one interacts with other people. and women put pure problems and inconveniences when something happens. many women scared to death, distrustful, paranoid to me it seems like a pure story that they are very unfaithful
My husband's from Bogota and hes faithful ❤
You are in the wrong country
As a former back in the day playa now retired from the game. Like all men especially when your younger, we see the beautiful faces, and the beautiful bodies of endless pleasure. But behind those masks? Look beautiful women are a dime a dozen in our world. But beautiful intentions? Hey come on man buyer beware