How Did Your School Bully Turn Out?
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What happened to your high school bully?
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Ah yes, the three outcomes of being a bully:
1) successful, 180 change
2) Jail
3) dead
And for the nice one will be:
1. Successful
2. Jail, 180 change
3. Dead
Don't forget the other two.
Lower paid job, multiple kids, and lives at a trailer park.
Mental ward.
@@jtdboss Facts, you can’t forget those two
looks like a lot of these bullies had something going on in their lives
Not entirely true. Some bullies go on to become successful while continuing to be bullies into adulthood.
Who's not surprised that the Paul brothers were mentioned in this?
Now I know why they are so stupid...
Not me
They don't deserve where they are at all
I mean I kinda don’t believe it bc they are actually pretty smart
Jacob Baker I bully lots of kids in school but I actually study and pay attention in class and I have rich parents so I’m not going to be one of those broke bully’s
@@yespapa8102 the heck?
I had two major bullies in high school. One is in jail for cooking meth now, and the other plays football in the NCAA. The one who plays football messaged me on FB a few years ago to apologize and give me a free ticket to his team's first game of the season
I love it when instead of the bullied kid becoming famous and the bullies are basically forced to be nicer, the bully becomes famous and chooses to change for the better.
Is he Jesse pinkman?
I'd have torn up the ticket and mailed it back to him.
thats cool
@@carojames6776 Why? You could have just given the ticket to someone else if you're not a fan of sports.
Most of them are doing much better than I am still. And I think my teachers told me that one day I would be their boss 😒
Unless you are ready to retire there's still a chance. People change careers an average of 3X while working.
You won't be boss until you learn the difference between "there" and "their".
@@AtlantaTerry dang it he edited his comment ⚰️
@@AtlantaTerry neither will you if you don't add your 'a' .
@@aetherananke 👏👏
The guy ended up getting blown up by a landmine in ‘Nam. He was a bully, but no man deserves that.
-My Grandpa
Jesus Christ
Lol
@@muaadhsalim784 lol
Holy crap!
Yikes
She got divorced, became a nurse, and married a rich architect. Who is now my stepdad.
Yes, my mother was my main high school bully. She was worse than all the others put together. And that's really saying something.
Hopefully we all have grown up by now and if we bullied someone, we should apologize. Although I know a couple who NEVER grew up and NEVER will. So go ahead and live a bitter life. I’m happy.
Agreed. Watching this video, part of me is like "Well, other people have reconnected with their high school bullies who've messaged them on Facebook or whatnot, so why shouldn't I just reconnect with my high school bully, since she keeps trying to get in contact with me?" Then the rational part of my brain reminds me the most important part of that equation: the users in this video who were like "Met him at the dentist's office years later and he apologized" or "he messaged me on Facebook and apologized" or "ran into each other at a football game and he felt bad" IS THAT THE BULLY FELT AD AND APOLOGIZED.
My high school bully stalks me on social media (mostly my public ones, like Instagram and Twitter) and every few years messages me out of the blue pretending like we're long-lost BFFs or something. Literally two weeks after we graduated from high school, when I had a mental breakdown because I was seated next to her at the ceremony but not enough self-assertiveness to ask the teachers to switch our seats, she called me on our landline (this was back when we still had one), and was like "Hey, how's your summer been? Isn't it crazy that we're graduates now? Haha, college is going to be great!" and, now that I think back on it, kind of gaslit me when I told her I was still upset and angry about what she'd done. To boil it down to one sentence, we were sort-of maybe friends during sophomore year, but then during junior and senior year, she started emotionally abusing me, occasionally threatening to kill me, telling me my ideas were stupid, and one time stabbed me in the forehead with a pencil, and then the kicker was a few months before graduation when we were standing outside the school together waiting for our parents to pick us up (because neither of us had bothered to get our driver's licenses lol) and she assaulted me, pulling my hair so hard it came out of my head and telling me she hated me. But on the phone, she denied ever doing any of these things, told me I was just imagining it, etc. Even when I read aloud, verbatim, from my diary the day she threatened to kill me or the day she attacked me in front of the school building, she accused me of just making it up and insisted we were still best friends. I told her never to contact me again, hung up the phone, and spent my entire college career dealing with anxiety and self-doubt brought on by this trauma. I didn't make any friends at all my first two years of college because I was convinced that if I got close to someone else like that again, they'd just hurt me like she did. I managed to break free of this mindset my third year, when I got a part-time job and my coworkers proved, beyond a doubt, that they were true friends and would never hurt me or betray me.
She messaged me on Facebook a few years ago, but I asked her never to contact me again and blocked her. So then she deleted that account, created a new one, and tried contacting me again. I blocked that account. So then she deleted that account and recently sent me a message over Instagram. At that point, I got really pissed and told her "I asked you before never to contact me again. You have continued to ignore that and stalk and harass me against my wishes. This is your last warning. If you try to contact me again, I will take legal action against you for stalking me."
Actually, come to think of it, each time she's messaged me, I've started to doubt more and more the validity of my feelings. It would be one thing if she were to apologize, and acknowledge that she was an emotional gaslighting manipulator, then I'd maybe be able to forgive her, though I doubt I'd ever be able to trust her again and we definitely could never be friends. But at least we could be at a reunion or something together and I wouldn't be terrified that she'd try to hurt me.
I don't think she's remained friends with any of our other classmates, either. She's just a very sad existence who's too proud to admit what she did and that she was in the wrong, who is mistakenly thinking that the one girl who actually did want to be her friend now hates her beyond all reason. Last I heard, she was attending one of the local universities not far from our hometown and studying something random, like philosophy or English, but didn't have much else going for her. Which is probably why she's trying to reconnect with me, but going about it the wrong way.
fun fact:my bully fuckin died
Damn, that's tough. I'm sorry you had to go through that. I wonder why she can't just leave you alone after what she's done to you; it's that simple.
I grew up (about to enter highschool), apologized, and now im one of the nicest kids and have ton of friends. Downside is that i became an A,B student and back then i was a straight A student, but still hopefully i make it to a good college one day
@@egge6145 mine too.
12:52 This is both the most mature, and the coldest, thing. No quips, no comebacks, and barely an acknowledgement.
To remember adversity is to build character.
To be idolized is to be admired and inspired.
To be forgotten is to be made trivial and irrelevant.
Mine is 23 with four kids living in a Florida trailer park while I'm about to start my junior year of nursing school at my dream university and working in pediatric oncology as a nurse tech - looks like making fun of my weight and skin did her no good after all :)
Why did you pick nursing school? Your not going to become a rich millionaire by being a nurse. My parents are making me do investing and real estate when I grow up and I bully kids in school but I’m not going to turn out like that girl you know. Also why doesn’t she just disown her kids? That’s what I would of done.
@@yespapa8102 If I cared about the money, I would become a neurosurgeon or something to that effect. I'm going into this profession because I want to be one of the ones delivering the bedside care and forming trusting relationships (as the caregiver) with my patients. I plan on becoming a nurse practitioner eventually, so grad school and higher pay are still in the works. You need to do something you're passionate about, not just because it promises you massive financial gain. If that were the case, no one would be a public school teacher or a social worker.
@IssyFishyy Amen! I go to school in Utah but live near NYC, and nurses have the potential to make a ton up here in the Northeast, especially if they are in a highly-specialized field of medicine. If I cared about money, I'd want to become an engineer or some kind of surgeon, instead of what I'm pursuing.
Marisa o ok
IssyFishyy no I’m not a troll but I don’t see why some people decide to pick a lower income job when they could get a better job.
If you are in school, and reading this, STAND UP FOR YOURSELF. Period.
Let's get rid of zero tolerance first.
Laughs in social anxiety
@@not_quite_clarinet laughs in anxiety and depression
People in a wheelchair:
But I'm too skinny and weak. I'll fall down even if they just touch me...
My high school bully got a kindness award the same year she bullied me (tripped me on stage, told me I couldn't sing at the holiday show because my song was Christian, was generally a horrible person, yes I told the teachers). Meanwhile I brought gifts and cupcakes for my friends and teachers and created a welcome committee to let international students join our friend group. Yeah. Really glad I'm appreciated. At least she realized she was a bitch and has since become much nicer. Still, it was a kick in the teeth when she got the kindness award after bullying me.
Oof, that's got to hurt. I feel your pain :(
Good thing that the future her and you have grown as people, and no matter what, there is someone out there who can and will appreciate and love you to the ends of the earth
My best friend bullied me in 1st grade for 4 months. We ended up getting into a fight and punched each other in the face and got suspended for a week. After that she and i were inseparable until she moved. We found each other again in high school. Now she has two kids and im aunty to them both.
now this... this is epic
my sister has a similar story she basically bullies people then later they become friends (in fact her bestfriend was somebody she used to bully)
My junior high bully was awfully mean and made me question why I was even living, I only saw him on the bus but that meant 40 minutes before and after school. He stopped bullying me after I sang a sad song near the end of junior high in the talent show, but never spoke to me after that. One day, 2-3 years later in high school I forgot my lunch I went to ask a friend that was sitting at the same take as him if I could borrow some quarters to get some food. The jh-bully stood and insisted on buying me whatever I need. I was still scared of him at the time, but without needing to exchange words I realized as we walked to the counter that he wanted to apologize but want sure how. In that moment I couldn't help but forgive him with only a smile and a "thanks". I just looked him up when I saw the thumbnail on this video. He's a great guy now and regularly volunteers and donates to charities. So glad he changed his life around.
Maybe you changed his life
He felt guilty doing it to you
So he showed some kindness which he continued with others
Went to 12 different schools. Found the bully each time and put them in there place. Made for a peaceful school year. Never bullied anyone but bullies.
I outlived one bully from middle school.
After all those stupid threats he gave me as well as constantly blaming me for even the smallest things and even assaulting me from time to time, karma got him back in high school. He and a friend were members of a violent gang and both were shot by someone in another gang in front of their high school---only his friend survived, but the bully from my middle kicked the bucket by the time he was rushed to the hospital. He was only 15 while the man who shot him was in his early 20s. (Glad I don't attend that high school because gang activity is pretty high there)
I heard the guy who gunned him down is now serving between 55 to 60 years in prison for first degree murder, among other crimes like violating parole, eluding police for four years/resisting when caught, heavy drug use, child abuse, attempted murder (the bully's friend), domestic terrorism, aggravated assault (especially at a police officer), vandalism, disrupting the peace, grand theft auto, and even armed robbery. Even when in court, he told people that "he wasn't guilty" of killing him. But anyway, a guy in his early 20s who still has a whole life ahead of him is now going to spend a huge majority of his life behind bars. It would be an achievement for him if he survives his whole sentence only to later be sent to a retirement center.
Achievement unlocked: Life waster
This was more my elementary school bully, but he mostly stopped after elementary school, we knew each other in junior high and high school, and we ended up friends in college, mostly because we both ended up in the same campus dorms and sat with each other at lunch or dinner, because we were the only other person we knew.
I had a bully who hated my guts for no reason, even when I asked him he just said random crap about my appearance. I switched schools because the one where my bulky was, was crap anyway. He ended up committing suicide a few years after we finished school🤷🏻♀️
😶
He commited suicide because you left school
Maybe he liked you??
I will sad for both of you all
You for the bullying
Him for he ended his life
Asked me out first year of high school, lost her brother and killed herself by the time I graduated. Wtf karma, you went WAAAAAYYYY too far on that one
Kwayke umm aha
Got you to 20 likes. 🤗
first bully : unemployed, once begging for to work for my studio/convection
second bully : ded on a motorcycle crash
third bully : off duty cop, he's seriously injured after hit by a truck
fourth : he's my lead designer right now and we're besties
Logan Paul, a BULLY?! Hold on, let me find my shocked face.
Here 👉😱
Here. Doubt face 🤨 *he was a bully?*
YES
I was not even suprised
I think that after Logan Paul faced a lot of backlash after he posted the video of the suicide victim, he realized, "Woah, I can't do whatever I want, there's consequences in life," and he changed. Jake Paul is just having an identity crisis and has lost his mind.
My sixth grade bully is now one of the best friends
Aw that’s awesome
How did y’all make up?
I needed help in math in 8th grade and she noticed and offered to help me out because she felt bad for the bullying 2 years before. She invited me to her house I was suspicious at first but it was fun then I came over every week and we are close friends for three years now. Edit: just went to her house today for brunch, she is as sweet as ever.
Awww ☺️ all the feels !!!
@Lalrivunga Hnamte That came out of nowhere
the girls who used to bully me were all athletic and always in sports through elementary & high school. 2 out of 3 of them completely tore their acl’s and now can’t go to college for exactly what they wanted to. and now have to hobble around for the rest of their lives.
She teased me and verbally bullied me in 6th and 7th grade for being gay. This was the time where I was questioning my sexuality, so this affected me a lot for those 2 years. I met her again in my freshman year of HS. She apologized to me for being a bi**h. Apparently her parents were going through a painful divorce and was abused by her Dad for being gay herself. Iunsderstand why she did what she did and I forgave her. She's now one of my bestfriends and is now in a great relationship with my other good friend.
aww that's really wholesome. im glad u guys were able to hash it out
Amber Heart this is creepy you have the same profile picture as me, but my profile picture is of me?
Holy sheesh?
asia black this is awkward but reverse searching the image just shows that it’s a slightly cooler tone filtered version of Dragon Incarnate by Lucky Wolf found on deviantart in 2009, and later posted to Twitter with that slightly cooler tone.
Never forgive a bully, a rotten soul is ritten for ever.
Exactly. Forgiving a bully just gives them power, makes them feel good about themself and makes them think that what they did was okay because " oh i said sorry so now all those years of harassment and hurting was okay" or "its in the past now" . All bullies must burn
The guy that bullied me tried to steal a boat and drowned. He apologized for bullying me a few years prior. I wanted to feel bad when he died, but the dude clearly never changed at a fundamental level as he was a thief back in school, too. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
A few of my school bullies moved schools and quit being assholes to me. I haven't been in touch with them in years. They were part of a clique who harassed me, and I sometimes wonder how their ringleader is doing now.
I was bullied generally in high school. There were two particular teachers. One was Mr du Plessis. Everyone knew he had a thing for a pretty boy called Paul Mony. Eventually he hit on Paul and Paul thumped him and everyone knew it. The other gave me a shitty nickname and was virulently homophobic. He got thrown out because one day he gave a boy a lift home and tried to sexually molest him. Yes, homophobes often turn out to be fighting gay feelings - not too well.
I turned out gay and have been in a relationship/married the last 27 years. We live in a great house in a great neighbourhood.
Love how people are congratulating the deaths of bullies. If you're a bully, I suggest you quit it before Reddit sacrifices you
*You've been warned*
One of them ended up being a crackhead. Another one ended up being sewage cleaner. Another one is having an abusive marriage and is basically a house slave. One of them even messaged me on Facebook and I pretended that I don't know her and deleted my account shortly after. Considering the severity of their abuse, the fact that nobody from authority wanted to help me in dealing with them (family connections, yay!), the fact that I was on therapy for depression for 3 years after I finished schooling and still I am coping with trauma, nightmares and flashback attacks, I consider their fate as good riddance.
One of my bullies (I had a lot of them, probably 50% of our about 300 students) turned out to be a good person. She's a nurse now, has a kid and another one coming, apologized to me years ago annd such. Had a rough time at first, but is now doing well. We're also on good terms, and I'm glad we are, because she's my husbands step sister.
This man seriously turned my life around. I had a bad life too, before I met him. But now we're happily married, have our own house, dogs and a child, and I couldn't be happier.
Most of my bullies went nowhere in their life, some of them have apologized, and some are doing pretty well. Teenagers are stupid, do stupid stuff in groups, but thankfully most of them grow up and realize they were dumb, and turn their lives around. Most of them bully, because they have their own problems (maybe at home, maybe just with themself etc.), or just because they 'want to look cool infront of their friends'. Thank god most of my old bullies are a lot nicer these days, tho I can't say that about all of them, but I wish all of them luck in life!
I was never bullied exactly. I lived in an area where diversity was rampant, and I loved it. I was always neutral, from preschool through high school. I was a great listener and gave great advise for everyone. In elementary some people tried to bully me (very big schools pre k-high school). I was so chill they didn't do anything to me, and actually apologized. We didn't become friends, but neutral. I was a very caring and helpful child.
One had a mental breakdown at her first years of uni due to "stress", abandoned uni and went back to leach of her parents...I guess not being able to channel stress into mocking/hitting others while at a small class in a small town where everyone knows each other is bad for your health.
The last time I saw the other (who wasn't only the entire class's bully but the younger children's bully too) she has gained a lot of weight. Me and my hs bf joke about karma morphing her into an unatractive beach ball shaped person as a punish for her actions.
Another bully of mine was arrested cuz he pulled out a gun in Popeyes when they didn’t give him enough sauces
He hasn’t been to school in a year due to anxiety that he refuses to take his pills for
Well, I moved schools back in November 2018, there were people from my primary school there. First class, one of my primary school bullies comes up to me and apologises, which I appreciated and accepted. He did not keep up that apology, he went back to doing so, along with some old and new ones. Can't wait for secondary school to be over, remind me in 10 years or so to come back to this and tell you where they are.
One is serving a life sentence
another has been back and forth between mental hospitals and jails his whole life.
The other was shot to death in 1983
"You might have heard of him and his younger brother. Logan and Jake Paul."
Oh shit. At least they're still stupid. Logan would apologize to you, Jake, maybe not so much.
There's a kid I used to bully when we were both in elementary school. We went to the same daycare. When we were both put in time out one day, we all of a sudden started talking, and before we knew it, we became friends. Fast forward 15 years later, and we're still the best of friends
Anyone saying "My bullies were my friends" didn't have bullies lol.
Or didn't have friends.
@@Brievel both
theoddonesout’s bully now makes James’ merch.
WHAT?!
@@taisdrills he explains it in his video about how he got lost at a camp called Camp Geronimo
I was bullied pretty badly in middle school but I can’t even remember their names now, Idk how these people find their bullies and keep track of them like that, seems like they’re still not over it I guess...
Haven't seen them since I graduated High school. Honestly I'm glad. I never want to see them ever again. I could care less how they're doing in life. I did have one person who used to bully me in elementary school send me a Facebook friend request one time. I ignored it and blocked his ass. Never forgotten all the rotten stuff they did. Nor will I ever forgive them. They can all go to hell
Also, my bullies are either my friends or somewhere else in the world
I'd rather be friends with Satan's first born.
A girl in my elementary school bullied me for no apparent reason. Any time she was asked why she did, she always said "I don't know." She switched schools during 4th grade. We ran into each other in high school years later where she said she was sorry for bullying me and said that she did it because she had a crush on me. I said that I forgave her and asked is she wanted to hang out after school. Since then, we've been together for the last 25 years, bought a house in 2004, got married in 2006 and had a daughter in 2008. A lot of the stuff she is into (generation 1 Monster High, Helluva Boss, Skylanders even though there hasn't been a game since 2016, etc) have become huge guilty pleasures of hers and mine. I love both of them to pieces.
P.S. People who bully your crush in hopes that they'll fall for you, *STOP.* It might work in movies, but it sure as hell well won't work in real life.
I'm not the victim but I was the bully but theres my story
I used to bully this girl in fourth grade and I felt like shit now remembering what the hell I did to her. She was a very sweet girl, shy, and smart. I remember her being new to the school and so me and my gang targeted her for the bullying.
She was also very sickly so she was always wearing masks and brought a towel to school almost everyday so gossip got around that she left boogers every where (they werent true at all, she was too polite to ever do that).
She never heard about the rumors about her and I heard that her best friend told about it in sixth grade and she was fine with it since it's been so long. Skip to fifth grade and she was the same, just a little more mature.
I did notice she was a little mature for her age and I think she got that from all the bullying. She was still bullied in fifth grade but we werent classmates anymore then meaning it was a different girl bullying her.
I should mention the girl I used to bully was an amazing artist but the people bullying her in fifth grade shamed her for it. Skip to sixth grade I didnt recognize her. Not physically but mentally.
She turned mean, toxic, and she also almost turned into a bully herself. I felt awful both for myself and for her. I learned she had a pretty shitty home life too so those were one of the reasons for her change.
Seventh grade came after we graduated sixth and I dont know how shes doing right now but i do hope shes doing ok.
When you realize that Logan Paul was your highschool bully
Phebe Mun that does not surprise me lol
Logan was homeschooled I heard?
Had an elementary school bully, we were best friends at the time (or so i thought). She would hurt me in different ways (physically, emotionally). At the time, I didn't understand why she would change from being someone I liked to be around to someone I would feel terrified by literally seeing. I understand now why she did what she did, as she told me herself years later that she was envious and couldn't control her jealousy and anger. Anyways, after 2 years of tormenting she moved schools. She really traumatized me back then, I was genuinely afraid of her because she was intimidating, very athletic and tough, knew how to manipulate, cheat off my answers-basically let her use me, etc. Everyone knew to not mess with her (one time she used a whiteboard cleaner and sprayed it in some kids eye). But I am glad to say she is a new person now! We currently go to the same high school and she changed drastically. She even apologized to me and we are totally fine with each other now. She's doing well for herself as she made the silver honour roll, honestly happy for her and wish her all the best in life.
In kindergarten, I got bullied by this one boy for not speaking English. My mom was hired by the school system from the Philippines because they needed teachers. The next year, this same boy had a crush on my best friend (this was 1st grade) and asked her out! A 7 year old! Obviously she rejected him. A year after that, he had a crush on me this time and he asked me to be best friends with him. I bet you know what I said, I said no. Duh.
I didn't have any bullies in high school since I left my original district in 7th grade to escape the bullies. I have Asperger's Syndrome and was the punching bag of the school. I've only really gotten confirmation of two of the people that bullied me back in the day. There was one, we'll call him P, whose mother I met at our family store once back in 2017. I recognized her the moment I saw her, and asked about P, and she had a restraining order on him. P was an alcoholic, and about a month before, they got in an argument with her about his problem, and when she tried to take the open can he had, he gave her a black eye.
There was another one of them I had issues with for a while, but we sort of made up with before I left, we'll call him C. C and I reunited last year at a mutual friend's graduation party. There was no ill will, and he was quite happy to see me, and even invited me to go hunting with him on his family's land. We did exactly that, and told me that his childhood was rougher than I'd imagined. His parents were separated, and he lived with his dad, who he constantly got in fights with that would often get physical. One day, his dad just left, and he had no choice but to walk a whole town away to his mom's house with his most valuable possessions (including several hunting firearms slung over his back). After he graduated, he moved out to Colorado for a few years, but recently moved back to spend time with ill family members. At the end of the first morning hunt, he dropped a big bombshell on me; P, who was a friend of his, had hanged himself just a few weeks before and left behind a girlfriend and kids. I wish I could feel sorry for him, but after everything he did to me and how little he seemed to change, I just couldn't. Still, C's turned his life around and become a respectable guy. I almost got my first deer with him (a nine point at that), and I may very well hunt with him again.
Died of a drug overdose 3 years after graduation.
Felt absolutely horrible when I found out, since I'd fantasised about him dying in all sorts of horribly creative ways since we left school.
At the end of the day, he was still a human being and, as horrible as he was to me, there were still plenty of people he'd left behind who truly loved him and had their lives touched by him in a very positive way. And that was something I couldn't dismiss just because I wasn't one of those people.
Plus, it didn't fix any of the problems I was currently dealing with in my life at the time.
All in all, from that day on, I learned an important lesson about holding grudges; you can wish all the hateful shit that you want on someone but, if it ever actually happened, it will never undo whatever pain or humiliation they've put you through.
Mine cyber bully: she was just using 70 alternative accounts to stalk me and talk shit about me. But i just keep my cool and blocked her without saying anything. She really was focussed on me that's she failed middle school. And her parents abandoned her when she's 18 and a failure. That's what i heard from a former friend of her. But it turns out that she was a psychopath the whole time and tried to have romance with me. I would say no. I probably rejected her but i forget i did. But at last i never see that girl no more. And i am now in collage going for succes.
And that's why bullying and stalking others isn't needed in lifen if you think have a mental problems. Try to get help to make sure. I don't feel bad for the person do.
*my high school bullying is really famous right now his name is Jake paul lmao*
She's still a bully. Continuously laughed at people for no reason. I moved to a different country. When I went home for a visit my Dad would tell her not to come to his house while I was there. Last time I saw her was at my Dad's funeral. She stood in front of me laughing.
My middle school bully died in a car crash back in December of 2021, made my life a living hell and apparently made fun of my late mom….but, I don’t Wish this upon anyone
Small town bullies never change. Graduated in 03 and moved out of there the next day. Last time I heard about any of them, they're still stuck in that small town, hating their lives and still clinging onto the "golden years". And since they have no one to Bully, they're bullying each other.
Karma.
Them: Do you still know your high school bully?
Me: Of course I know him; He's me.
did you apologise for your mistakes?
7:05 that guy literally started a poem.
My high school bully is DEAD.
I did not wish him dead. I wish no one dead. I recently found out through old classmates.
There all kinds of bullys. In high school we didn't have a classic bully, but after high school everyone had bully story. In college, After college, I got one of those dead end jobs, and had to ride the bus from my apartment. The bus was on the way to a city College, and many of the students rode the bus. I would ride, and the student would ask me, "Why are you riding the bus? Why doesn't your Daddy just buy you a car white boy." Yeah, I was white, and the only white person on the bus. It sure beat walking through the black neighborhoods, where they asked you, "White boy? Why are you walking through our neighborhood?" Eitherway, in most case, thing were fine. I noticed, most of the students were gay males. The ride was a long one, so I would talk to everyone. Most of the people were okay. I was often told, I was not only the only white person on the bus, but the only straight young male on the bus. This wasn't exactly the truth, but almost it was almost true. I asked, why that was so, since it was pointed out to me. Most the gay guys had to think about it, but said, "Life isn't like on TV. When you're black, and gay, every hates you." When your parents find out, they hate you, or throw you out. The schools are black school, and the teacher all have a silent contempt for you. Teacher would say nasty things to you, even when you were very young. The other student were the worst. You had to be smart, or it was a fight every day. The teacher would just stand by and say, "You got to learn to be a man." while someone five year's older than you, beat you senseless. I was told, being black and gay, makes everyone a bully when your a child. Still, you knew there was no place for you, so you had to try harder, to make a place for yourself. That's why they went to the city college, because an education was their only out. Not every black male was gay. There was this one time, a guy was riding the bus for a while. He was going to the city school, but he wanted to be a comedian. He would say jokes about all the gay student riding the bus. None of the jokes were very funny. This guy would walk up, and down the bus, threaten the gay students. Most of the people riding the bus had jobs, or things to do. Everyone hated this guy, and said so, but not to his face. He was big. One day, the bus was packed, and and there was standing room only. The big, guy was telling his jokes, when the bus stopped, and most of the people on the bus got up, and left at the same time. They just swept the big guy off the bus. One older woman said, "Oh boy you're gon'na get it, you're gon'na get it now." Off the bus, I could see the the mass of gay guys surrounding, and clubing someone with pipes, and baseball bats. As we drove away, the older woman kept say, "He's gett'en it, gett'en good." I assumed they killed him. Six months latter, I saw the same big guy get on the bus. He was a bit crippled up, and his face was mashed. He stared at the floor, the whole bus ride, and never talked. So that's what happened to that bully.
Never be a bully
I know they say there is no excuse for bullying, but the story where the guy apologized and then killed himself, it reminds me that we are all human and going through things. I know a few former bullies who turns out were being physically and sexually abused at home, and taking out their anger on others. Bullies can be victims too.
There is either "they snorted coke and fucking died" or "they became the most succesful and nice person ever"
I had 3
Bully #1 became a mechanic in the next town and seems to have become a decent guy.
Bully #2 has been in and out of prison since high school and has been disowned by his family.
Bully#3 became a truck driver and is still an asshole
My childhood bully is now saying my twin sister
"How Did Your School Bully Turned Out?"
Me: **7-Page Muda flashbacks**
6:58 Why am I so not surprised?
They’re richer than me where as my severe depression stole years of my life wasted hiding because I genuinely thought I was the worst human being and hated. But ya know happiness is a choice and the abuse and pain is my fault
He was a sociopath and a narcissist..and probably still is. Parents moved him back to Sweden and never saw him again
I'm amazed about how many of these stories end in death. I guess being a bully makes you aggressive (crime stuff) or horribly depressed.
There are two scenarios that usually cause bullying 1. The child comes from a broken home and is abused or neglected meaning they will probably end up in prison as there trauma manifests itself in a violent or abusive way or 2. The child is genuinely sadistic and or spoiled rotten meaning they don’t think of the consequences because they either don’t care or think mommy and daddy will bail them out meaning they will do something stupid and die because of it
My favorite school bully story. This kid was a idiot genius...knew how to mentally torture or physically attack other students but figured out how not to get caught or do the “who me?” routine. He began picking on a new girl. She had a cousin at the school. She was smaller than the bully but had been training in the martial arts for a number of years. Next time he picked on the girl her cousin was there & she verbally pushed back. People started to laugh at him. Turning red he tried to shove the cousin who easily dodged him. He tried to push the cousin several times. Each miss caused more laughter. Livid he tried to bum rush the female cousin...again the cousin was able to outmaneuver him. Overbalanced he fell & hurt the palms of his hands as he landed on gravel. Bewildered he started crying in pain & the crowd laughed even louder.
Bully’s parents came to school but many students talked to the principal of him bullying the two girls and how the cousin had never touched him. Unveiled the bully found the tide had turned against him as many other students were fed up with his behavior. They banded together & refused to let him be mean to anyone. The bully was deflated and he transferred to a different school the following year...
Lol
Mine is dating my ex boyfriend just to piss me off and is still trying to "make me suffer" as she says, all while she follows the footsteps of her alcoholic parents and tries making this ex boyfriend that was generally nice into a douche and trying to take away my best friend to no avail. The girl was my ex girlfriend that cheated and she's still concerned with me even though I haven't spoken to her or even been in that town for months
A girl who treated me like crap, gave me a huge hug in highschool and told me she was so proud of me and said she was sorry for treating me like trash
there was a guy who used to bully a lot of kids in our school. This was 90's la, and since my dad was deep involved with the crips he never used to lay a finger on me. But according to a high school friend that im still friends with he shot up an entire school. Then killed himself after. This dude was a psychopath, he once brought in a metal bar to school to try and beat up a nerd with it. Once again, this is 90's la so there were metal detectors at our school and he got caught. The kid who he tried to beat moved upstate somewhere, i think somewhere around san francisco but we never saw him again
Mine works in a hotel kitchen, washing dishes and cleaning up after the catering staff. She started working there when she left school at 16, and she’s still there, 32 years later. She never married or had kids, I don’t think she ever had a boyfriend for longer than a month or two, and she rents a tiny basement flat that’s flooded three times in the last ten years. I went to university, have a career that put me in the top 5% of earners, my husband and I have been married for over 25 years, we have 3 kids and a grandson, and we own a quirky period home with fantastic views. I always nod a hello when I see her, and she just glares at me. She clearly still hates me, but at least now there’s some justification for it.
so my school bullies weren't actually bullies, they just didn't realize that I was actually bothered by what they thought was innocent joking around. When I confronted them they apologized and I felt awkward so I apologized and once I realized that they weren't being malicious I was able to joke around with them too.
Dunno what happened to him, but I heard he was kicked out of his college on the second day, after that no one seems to know what he’s doing
I have a suspicion that someone that tries to bully me for being gay is gay himself.. it’s kinda funny ngl
She was my bully in elementary she was also really popular but we went on to become friends sophomore year and she ended up dropping out and getting pregnant :)
Oh. Are you guys still friends?
One is in jail for battery and a break in. The other is a vet tech. My dad saw my one bully in jail, when he worked as a corrections officer before retiring. He asked about me, for some reason. I hope he can clean himself up and try to do something better with his life. It kinda made me sad to hear that he got himself into trouble.
I feel so bad that in elementary school 1st-2nd grade i bullied (by elementary school standards) this one boy who joined our class, for no reason... and all though i only remember two instances of this happening, i wont put it behind me that there might have been other times as well.
Ive wished i couldve apologised at some point but after 3rd grade we werent in the same class and went to different middle schools and only at middle school did i remember the things i did and realized i bullied him.
I wish i could message him and apologise but i only remember his first name, so trying to find him is difficult... not to mention this was almost 10 years ago so i dont even know if he remembers to be honest...
Every guy who was around me at school has become a lawyer. The bully, the rich kid, the poor kid, the fat kid, the kid who drank too much and the weed smoking kid are now all lawyers. The guidance counselors at school must have been getting kickbacks from the Bar Association.
this gives me faith that one day the people who have treated me like shit, it wasn't chronic, constant bullying but it was bad either way, will be hit by karma.
Imagine having two bullies fighting over who gets to bully you
Man that would Be Long and stupid
My elementary school bully gained a lot of weight and is working at Wendy’s. She remembered my name and says hi to me with a everytime I go to get food🤷🏾♀️
Did she say hi to you as an apology?
Dentist to bully: you used to bully me in high school- is it safe?
It's gonna take a while for some folks to get that reference. LOL
Im satisfied with both endings. If they changed, they deserved to do well. If not, they got what they deserved.
Did anyone else catch the story where the girl-bully who lived next door to the OP had gotten a tramp stamp tattoo as 12?!? WTH??? And was pregnant at 15 or 16. Holy Christ what a train wreck - life will not be kind to her.
I did not get bullied in school, even though I was not the biggest kid around. A couple of people tried, but waaaay back then I had a hair-trigger temper and could go from zero to thermonuclear in a snap, which meant those who tried bullying me decided to move on to a less dangerous target.
So they were scared of you because of that? 😂
@@claricethefox7922 No, just that when you fight back and knock them down, they decide that "the juice isn't worth the squeeze." In short, they bothered me once, but never again. But this was in the late 60s to mid-70s and things were a bit different.
I used to be friends with my bully, until a switch flipped in her brain one day and she severed all ties. Then she did the same to others. She'd be their BFF for a while before suddenly turning into a monster. It made high school very exhausting. Anyway, last I heard, she was in the hospital for severe bipolar disorder. Or maybe it was Borderline Personality Disorder. I don't recall which. Either way, it explains a lot.
A lot of the bullies I dealt with (back in early to near the end of elementary school) either moved out and forgot about me, or they became my friends. I stay in touch with only 2 or 3 of those friends, though.
Not quite bulkiest, but they are jerks.
They call me “SS” which stands for ‘stupid scientist’.
So Imma be a scientist for
1: my unbroken streak of pettiness
2: I like science
I'm still in high school, & almost all of my previous bullies are friendly with me. We got nicer as we got older
My primary school bullies turned out great and are so good rn but they fucked me up and basically changed my whole personality made me fall into a depressive state and can never trust another person again. If I can turn back time I am going to stand up for myself (tbh not really still learning about confidence)
The bully who led the charge for his friends to treat me the same (I'll refer to him as Rupert) was an outspoken racist who would treat me as a lesser being just for having slightly darker skin than him, as well as for being gay (I'm not, but my friend was gay, but I didn't notice as I'm autistic and he didn't come out until after graduation) ended up leaving the school in disgrace a few months before the final exams.
Rupert had to repeat his final year.
I found out about 15 years later that somehow this grotesque excuse for a human being had not only gotten married but was also a father to at least two unfortunate children who have to live with him. I know some people are capable of changing and becoming decent people, but I guess Rupert lacks this ability.
Looking at his FB page, he's still a raging racist.
Recently Rupert's wife left him. I hope she's got full custody of the kids; they're all better off without him.
Unfortunately, shes training to work as a teacher for children with learning disabilities and other special needs. Ironic considering that she spent all our school years calling me a ‘retard’, making fun of me for being autistic, giving me death threats, throwing rocks at me while i was walking home and telling me to kill myself.
I had to deal with a gang of bullies in middle school. Later, after graduation and while I was in the US Air Force, I learned that one of the ring leaders had hanged himself in jail.
Karma is a bitch.
Wedding photographer whose addicted to crack.
Ones in jail for drug possession
One is Dead
And the last one is trying to reconcile for past mistakes.
My hs bully is a single mom had 2 kids with different fathers. She became a mom at 14 and now is alone. No one sustaining two of her kids one kid is a new born. I wanna feel bad for her but she made my hs life hell and made the principal and everyone hated me. She bullied me for being single and poor. My life now is more better than her also I fixed myself. Honestly I'm glad Im not friends with her anymore. She's toxic af. Very narcissistic indeed.
Plus I was a bully also, but my victims became my friends as well, so everything worked out
I was a sophomore in high school and I stop at a gas station in my old neighborhood on my way to school and I saw my bully from grammar school and he didn’t recognize me. I walked up and he opened the door for me and said here you go sir, I said thank you then he asked for money. Found out that he dropped out of high school and he was just hanging outside of the gas station asking for money with his other friends.
I had a bully. his name was brian. switched schools. bullies mom died from cancer.. father constant drunk. his family had many many issues. saw him once a few years back. said hi., hows things. hows the family. hey hows your mom and dad doing? healthy I hope? .. walked away. bullies dont understand that karma like life .. doesnt give a fuck.
i was never bullied, but there were a few douchebags in my grade that i didn’t particularly like and got on my nerves. one such person said some racist+homophobic stuff on an instagram post. people took screenshots before it was deleted, sent it to his college coach, and he supposedly lost his scholarship, but it’s unconfirmed