My daughter in law's parents let her live with them for 4 years after high school. She had a job and paid a small, reasonable amount of rent while attending school on scholarships, loans and grants. . When an issue arose over a dispute about rules (curfew and general housekeeping) she was told if she didn't like their rules, she could leave. She chose to stay. She completed her education, moved out, and they gave her a gift of all the rent she had paid them over the years. I think that's a deal.
If they're not working some sort of job and are able to, they should not get any support from parents. A job, even part time, not only earns them some money, but will also help them learn how to interact with others and help teach them to be an effective member of society rather than rot away in their room all day. Forget this 'I"m a stay at home daughter/son" stuff.
My parents were lower middle class. I went to community college then state college living with them and paid for it outright. That was the right path for myself who wasn't naturally gifted by common measures. Post financial crises living in California it was the land of remedial jobs and high costs. I was always embarrassed trying to date, etc. I had a small business for several years that was semi successful then eventually wasn't profitable. I love my parents and thank them for everything. I did contribute to the household with household work, rent, etc but it was discounted. However, looking back they should have probably kicked me out about at 26-28. I ended up moving at 30 to Texas and the world of jobs and opportunity opened up for me. To each their own. My biggest comment to this would be in the US only offer to pay for your kids to go to CC and then local State College and offer them a free roof. If they choose to go another route so be it. But even as I failed ended up failing with a business in my 20's; being debt free with savings in my 30's blew me past many of the colleagues growing up even with my lost years.
This video may not apply to all parents who have young adult children. Every parent has his/her timeline to gradually wean their children off financially. This video is targeted towards young adults who lavishly use their parents' money for their personal interest and don't realize the inconvenience their parents went through to earn that ideal amount of money. There are young adults who may not be of this character profile but they are just either content with their parents' financial support or are not ready to take on the financial responsibility of their own. This video serves as a reminder for young adults to be mindful of their parents' financial situation and be grateful for the support they are receiving.
It s a different world allright! Her parents did not have a cell phone, did not buy Starbucks coffee and had one pair of jeans. The younger generation have been spoiled and they want that PLUS a house.
Its to save My family took 0 But i wd give them at random a envelope full of cash notes Or appear with cakes Or tickets etc When sick I wd get their meds I moved in and out 4 times When they away looked after pets Had very good food
OMG this this comment right here when parents age guess what they are adults, so do you want to come live with me mom because you’re old well guess what I’m going to charge you rent do you need me to help you wipe your butt man well that’s what I’m gonna charge you because you’re an adult. In fact, you are an adult five times over.
I absolutely hate it when parents charge rent, espescially if the offspring don’t have a job or money. It’s basically financial domination and it’s abuse
And we wonder why Millennials and Gen Z are so enabled and spoiled today. I would be ashamed to even ask my parents for help. Find some friends and move in together to cut costs. Cut your expenses. Get a part time job. Don’t rely on your parents to save you! And parents need to stop this enabling.
I hate how Americans have been conditioned into thinking they’re not supposed to help their kids anymore when they turn 18 or graduate. It’s perfectly normal in other countries around the world to not leave the nest even into their 30s.
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Must be nice to have parents who let you do this. Remember, people who have this option, you're lucky.
Its also enabling and not forcing many people to grow up. It is a luxury but it can also at a certain point become a hinderance.
My daughter in law's parents let her live with them for 4 years after high school. She had a job and paid a small, reasonable amount of rent while attending school on scholarships, loans and grants. . When an issue arose over a dispute about rules (curfew and general housekeeping) she was told if she didn't like their rules, she could leave. She chose to stay. She completed her education, moved out, and they gave her a gift of all the rent she had paid them over the years. I think that's a deal.
If they're not working some sort of job and are able to, they should not get any support from parents. A job, even part time, not only earns them some money, but will also help them learn how to interact with others and help teach them to be an effective member of society rather than rot away in their room all day. Forget this 'I"m a stay at home daughter/son" stuff.
My parents were lower middle class. I went to community college then state college living with them and paid for it outright. That was the right path for myself who wasn't naturally gifted by common measures. Post financial crises living in California it was the land of remedial jobs and high costs. I was always embarrassed trying to date, etc. I had a small business for several years that was semi successful then eventually wasn't profitable. I love my parents and thank them for everything. I did contribute to the household with household work, rent, etc but it was discounted. However, looking back they should have probably kicked me out about at 26-28. I ended up moving at 30 to Texas and the world of jobs and opportunity opened up for me. To each their own. My biggest comment to this would be in the US only offer to pay for your kids to go to CC and then local State College and offer them a free roof. If they choose to go another route so be it. But even as I failed ended up failing with a business in my 20's; being debt free with savings in my 30's blew me past many of the colleagues growing up even with my lost years.
This video may not apply to all parents who have young adult children. Every parent has his/her timeline to gradually wean their children off financially.
This video is targeted towards young adults who lavishly use their parents' money for their personal interest and don't realize the inconvenience their parents went through to earn that ideal amount of money.
There are young adults who may not be of this character profile but they are just either content with their parents' financial support or are not ready to take on the financial responsibility of their own.
This video serves as a reminder for young adults to be mindful of their parents' financial situation and be grateful for the support they are receiving.
It s a different world allright! Her parents did not have a cell phone, did not buy Starbucks coffee and had one pair of jeans. The younger generation have been spoiled and they want that PLUS a house.
If your kid lives at home, they should be able to pay rent.
Definitely
Its to save
My family took 0
But i wd give them at random a envelope full of cash notes
Or appear with cakes
Or tickets etc
When sick I wd get their meds
I moved in and out 4 times
When they away looked after pets
Had very good food
Same thing for parents and siblings.They only call me when they need money smh.
Stop wasting your money start saving your money, grow up and move out of your parents house. I did it and I was stupid and I managed to make it.
Wait till parents age
OMG this this comment right here when parents age guess what they are adults, so do you want to come live with me mom because you’re old well guess what I’m going to charge you rent do you need me to help you wipe your butt man well that’s what I’m gonna charge you because you’re an adult. In fact, you are an adult five times over.
I absolutely hate it when parents charge rent, espescially if the offspring don’t have a job or money. It’s basically financial domination and it’s abuse
We indian know about your family problem. This is British education system in whole world causing it....
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And we wonder why Millennials and Gen Z are so enabled and spoiled today. I would be ashamed to even ask my parents for help. Find some friends and move in together to cut costs. Cut your expenses. Get a part time job. Don’t rely on your parents to save you! And parents need to stop this enabling.
What a coddled generation
Its love
Its too high rent
If the kids still live at home with parents, they don’t have to pay rent
If they're done with high school and old enough to work, they should pay some rent. It will teach them some responsibilities and appreciation as well.
When I lived at home I wasn't allowed to get a job and I had to pay 700 a month rent
They should pay some rent even at a reduced rent
I hate how Americans have been conditioned into thinking they’re not supposed to help their kids anymore when they turn 18 or graduate. It’s perfectly normal in other countries around the world to not leave the nest even into their 30s.
@@ilovemuslimfood666 If the young adult has a full time job, he should pay some rent.n Welcome to adult life