Introduction to TBRI®
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2015
- Dr. Purvis gives an overview lecture of Trust-Based Relational Intervention®. TBRI® is an attachment-based, trauma-informed intervention that is designed to meet the complex needs of vulnerable children. TBRI® uses Empowering Principles to address physical needs, Connecting Principles for attachment needs, and Correcting Principles to disarm fear-based behaviors. While the intervention is based on years of attachment, sensory processing, and neuroscience research, the heartbeat of TBRI® is connection.
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I'm speechless, this is amazing, I love that she loved Jesus!!!
Thank you for making this available to the public. Fascinating for foster and adoptive parents!
This information is an answer to many prayers.
"capacity to know that I matter and are of value" is an important point ...
when carers come... the larasympathetic mode is regulated, and with time the kids learn to self regulate.
Important points.
Having such a hard week with my boys! So much has been brought up during birthday and overstimulating Disney vacation. So overwhelming. Their fighting and lashing out had gotten so much better and has erupted in a huge way. Seemingly more than before. That quote about 400 something pos. Interactions for synapse and 12 with joy and laughter almost made me cry. Sometimes it feels like too much to help these buddies of mine heal. 400+ I cannot do on my own. 12 with smiles eye contact and play. I can do! So thankful for your resources.
This is such important information that needs to be mandatory for people that adopt childeren , fostercare or work with kids and youth .
I have learned so much from this video. I wish I had seen it earlier in my career as an educator. Thank you!
This video is amazing! Don't be turned off by the more extreme examples of abuse and neglect used here. My 12 yr old was parented with attachment parenting, nursed till he was 3, homeschooled, etc, etc, etc. But he's exhibited behavioral issues for years - much due to lyme and other serious health issues, along with food sensitivities. Even a bad fall can cause trauma to the brain (in his case a fall that resulted in 3 staples on the back of his head at the age of 3). I am very hopeful after watching the video that we can address the residual behavioral issues that we deal with.
This woman knows her stuff!
I appreciate your videos more than you could imagine. Thank you soooooo much for sharing this!
This is very helpful for any teacher, administrator, counselor, and school nurse to be trained in TBRI. That way we know what is going on since we do not get all their background information. Love it!!!!
I agree. This should definitely be professional development for all school employees.
This is an admirable effort to help and maybe save traumatized children. What would lessen the problem even more is to teach would be parents about nurturing and effective parenting. As parents we do the best we can with what we know, but if we don't know, the problem of uneducated parents will continue. See Peter Gerlach on RUclips. Teach the parents.
Looking at Peter.
I have hoped some well formulated, science based, easy to digest information would find me. It's always vague snippets I've put together through out life like "get on their level." Or "children don't act out for fun." And this really answers my "why, how, when" questions. Thank you.
As and occupational therapist working with pediatrics, this video was highly informative. Growing up with adopted Foster siblings, I wish I had this information so very much. Brain development and attachment as well as neuroplasticity is so powerful...
It sure is! We are in the process of adopting 2 foster children, and this will help us be able to help them heal
This is SUPERB information. Thank you so much!
Powerful and so informative. Thank you!
Wow! This explains a lot! I wish teachers would take the time and watch this video. It explains why a lot of children have behavioral issues and instead of just getting on to them and making them feel like the class nuisance, or sending them to ISS where they are served cold lunches instead of hot lunches , they would be more understanding of what the underlying issue is and be more sympathetic and have empathy for the child.
This was great. Thank you.
A true gem ❤
I watched the entire video and what you have to say makes a lot of sense. BUT, when you compromise and you do the compromise and the child learns that they can get what they want, what do you do when they dont follow the compromise? Are you suppose to compromise again and again until you get the desired results? My adopted son has severe R.A.D. and has learned this, and uses it to get what he wants. We have tried almost everything available, with no results (and I mean months of trying, not a week and then say "well this doesnt work".) We have done the trust based therapies since we adopted him and his sister, we have done Love and Logic, we have done DBT, we have done FFT, and was just getting with a Trauma therapist, when things became violent. We want help for our son, but because of Medicaid and the Medicaid facilitator here we could not get anywhere. Our local DHS has care of him now (we did a self reporting to get help for him, and we are still in constant contact with him). Our situation can not be unique, but there seems to be nowhere to turn. He can be a great person, and we just want help for him. How do we make TBRI work (or will it in our case). He has been with us for around 15 years (He just turned 16), and knows that I will always be there for him 9( have shown him this from day 1, by being there for him when things are upsetting to him). Where do we turn to help this child. We do work (actually my ex wife, his adoptive mother) with R.A.D. advocates, looking for answers. His sister has adapted and is doing well (not perfect, but doing well and acting more like a teenager.) Like I keep asking how do we help this young man?
Thank you so very much
Thank you
holy wow, that siren scared the living 💩 out of me !!!! was not expecting it or it being that loud LOL ! but Karyn, this was an absolutely moving talk. wow
Awesome information!
Gracias al Instituto por esta información valiosa. Agradeceríamos poder tener acceso a ella mediante subtítulos en Español o traducción de los vídeos, para fortalecer conocimiento en TBRI. Gracias
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This is an important request! It’s much needed for deaf people as well!! Please enable captions, so we can choose language options. My friends in Ukraine also really need this helpful information- please make it more accessible for different ethnic groups by enabling captioning on your videos. 💙🙏🏽
Very intersting.
This is so important. I wonder...what if the child is now an adult? Can they still repair through proper attachment?
Yes, if you heal the wounds of attachment through applying the 3 principles consistently, her research shows that the brain is actually healed.
What do you do if your a parent who has grown up in a broken home a parent who has fetal alcohol syndrome who was abused and neglected and you're trying to parent your children and your last husband was abusive when you were an adult and as a result are trying to raise children who have been in traumatic situations with you how do you heal so you can be a blessing to those children?
You mentioned prenatal stress as a major negative factor on the developing brain. In your opinion what is more damaging, taking depression/anxiety medication while pregnant or struggling through unmedicated. Thanks
I think you need to take care of yourself first, like putting the oxygen mask on yourself first on a plane and then put it on your child. You will be a better mama when you are healthy and feeling good. Talk about options for anti-depressants during pregnancy with your doctor.
Dr Karen could I use this technic on my boyfriend of 4years who has chilhood trauma?... Hes mother was killed by his stepdad whe e was 2... he went to a gov institute where the carer abused all the children under her care physically sexually verbally. Made the boys lick the urine around the toilet bowl to teach them not to let their wee drop out of the toilet seat. Thats just one example and others that are too traumatic to mention but i think you get the idea.
Today he is an alcoholic and gets violente if he drinks he is trying to get revelations of God. He keeps going to church to try and make sence of his life. He agreed to rehab, went for 6 months he came out and he went straight into drinking again...I want to try and be supportive and use your technique. Im really running out of options to help him.. what do I do?.
The country of Sierra Leone is full of traumatized adults from the war
What if you child isn’t adopted and never had trauma nor neglect? My son has DMDD.
I wonder what her opinion is on cry it out methods.
She would have repeated one of her favorite phrases "the baby cries, the mother comes." It's about establishing trust. Also, think of all those stress chemical circulating during the "cry it out" spell.
@@elizabethkennedy9410 spot on.
I must first give all glory to God through Jesus Christ for where He has brought me from though i have not apprehended.
I am a one of five children from a mother who married a man 3× her age when she was about thirteen or fourteen.
Unfortunately he died when I was a little girl in diapers, I don't remember much of anything about him.
But me and my three sisters where placed in foster care while my mother's sister kept our brother.
While in foster care much abuse occured daily and we were there for years.
The nearest of kin that came when I was about the age of ten or eleven still in elementary school to adopt me and my two other siblings.
Sad to say there was no initial attention conscerning the trauma and abuse suffered.
Personally I think they had issues of their own and was just ignorant concerning what should be done about these types of things.
I don't hold bitterness or unforgiveness toward them.
But I have suffered psychologically tremendously in my life, unaware of the mental, emotional and psychological state that I was in.
I involuntary never spoke anything upon arrival with kin or during the raising process about the abuse suffered.
It was not because I chose this as I mentioned above it was involuntary, It's like what is being explained in the video I missed that teaching part- I never got that.
I literally walked through life partially brain dead because of the abuse and trauma suffered.
I saw a psychologist not to long ago and was diagnosed with a thinking disorder.
I do wonder what my life would have been like if someone was there to recognize this and respond appropriately.
I have had three children -one set of twins while still under the partial brain dead condition.
I've been unable to teach them and raise them adequately because of the mental health condition.
It's pretty scary but I got this information about the intervention from their therapist so I am listening..
I have had treatment for what I stated above the brain dead(in which I was to a certain extent)/ also known as cognitive impairment.
I'm much much much better, Because now I am able to make sound judgment's and reason and logically think through things.
But I know there is structure and training needed.
Why did animals have to be hurt
Description of the hostage negotiation was a bit dramatic
OMG THIS IS HORRIBLE
I understand all of this, but what do you do with children who are 9 or older and they exhibit some of these issues, yet they were never abused or were subjected to any traumatic experience whatsoever?
Is the not being able to sleep or wanting to eat every 30 minutes are just spoiled behaviors and plain gluttony? What if they fake crying just because they want to still be treated like babies, even though they are older?? And what happens when an adult acts like this, but that adult has never been abused, neglected, abandoned, malnourished or anything like that??? Are we supposed to baby these people well into their 40's??
You seem to be omniscient regarding every minute of other people’s life experiences. How can you be so absolutely sure another person has never experienced trauma or stress?? Much trauma occurs without the knowledge of parents when a child (for example) goes to school, or to the houses of friends/relatives/neighbors, or when children are playing alone with other children, or if the child/adult has undiagnosed issues such as the neurodiversity of being on the autism spectrum, or having ADD/OCD etc. I experienced traumatic experiences which may not have been traumatic for a more secure and resilient child, while walking to school, and at my local library and church! I experienced other traumatic things after school at other people’s homes. Most of these things I couldn’t even put into words until my adulthood, and then only with a very few people I had trusted for years. It was certainly not my birth family with whom I eventually shared these experiences!
I believe it’s extremely rare to be omniscient enough to understand everything that causes stress or trauma to another human being. Some people I know are stressed by things they misunderstood in childhood, or by fears they can’t even verbalize. Many are merely surviving daily by trying to ignore/distract from or placate their confusion or fears. Many of us have enough of our own challenges that our lenses are colored, and we do not completely empathize with or enter into another person’s stress enough to truly understand them, and to arrive at a trusting relationship.
The continuation of addictive behaviors shows there is some unmet need or some defective foundational problem or challenge, some need for healing. If the person suffering this can admit there’s a problem, can see it & agree with reality, there’s hope for positive change. More alcohol, more food etc. will never solve the problem. It’s just self-medicating, pouring into a bottomless hole. Can they admit this? If they can see the problem and admit the truth, then there is hope. If they can admit the truth, and if they can hope for a better future, then with positive loving support, there is hope for healing and health!
No one needs to be babied. Instead, everyone needs to be loved!
For permanent change to happen, I believe and have seen & experienced that the person suffering needs to come to a place where they are confident in and experience the love of others. They need to know someone caring is on their side, being honestly supported rather than being torn down or attacked. They need to have positive role models of how to take responsibility and make better choices. Some situation similar to an AA groups or other small group/therapy group or prayer support accountability group has been helpful for very many people with a wide range of issues. Love Heals!!!
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