Making a therapist cry - One More Time Blink 182
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As someone who grew up with this band since 98 this song is a love letter to them selfs and for the fans after hearing this I texted everyone I knew and told them I loved them cause no day is promised
Same.. I used to watch them when they were called just "Blink" and played small shows at SOMA in San Diego back in 94.
how beautiful to rediscover old friends and heal with them to bring back that love
all the obvious stuff aside, this song is a real tearjerker for longtime fans. Something that really struck me about this song is Tom's opening few lines, and if I'm not mistaken he's solo on the first chorus. It kinda felt like an apology. And truly beautifully crafted how on the first verse they sing split parts but the entire second verse is a duet.
I identified with Toms opening almost more than any other part of the track. Looking back at my life, I realized I had been the one to break away from friendships and close some doors I wish I had left at least a little open. And some of those doors are permanently closed due to unfortunate deaths. This song hit home more than any other song has in my life. Thanks for your reaction!
From ThriceTheThird: I'm sorry for your losses, and feelings of missed opportunities that have come due to them. Thank you for sharing how you relate to and interpret the song.
I think it also reminds me on the other side. To remember to learn from missed opportunities. To not let future opportunities, for the same, pass us by.
From Micro: Yes, it really cuts deep. It brings us back to all the opportunities lost, and what it takes to love someone - including through loss. You look back and you start to see all the missed pieces, all the doors that have never been opened - and you feel it all, the guilt, the regrets, the heartache of the emptiness and silence. It is what is only left, and it is what must be composed with, which is such a lonely experience at times.
When I look back, there are people I lost that I wish I told many other things, or so much more "I love you"s while it was still possible. It hurts when death or distance force you to acknowledge the frailty of life, of time and relationships too. Somehow, we can't focus on this all the time, as otherwise we would miss out on life itself. But it is still such a brutal reality to come back to.
I hear you and how much it's difficult to think about the doors that were closed, and how much you wished that it could have been differently. Through the disappearance of others, there is oftentimes process of self-forgiveness that is necessary. Just because we are humans, and as human beings we can't live in the fear of death of missing out on important opportunities. If you had to close doors at the time, it means you needed it, and you did just as you could. Regardless of the circumstances behind, it was enough. It's hard to not rewrite the story though as we look back with a different knowledge in mind. Now we know and see acutely where things could have been different, where trajectories could have been changed, where loved could have been expressed even more. But it is also unfair to treat the past in light of the present. It's unfair to our hearts who didn't know better at the time.
What it teaches us though, is how much we can decide to change our language or behaviors in the present moment, and in other relationships. It's important to process and mourn the people we lost as much as the time lost with them. And at the same time, we can look in the present and embrace even more the time that is still available. What you realize, what you feel, is very strong and shows how much these relationships have impacted you. I'm sure that, before those doors were closed, you also had a great impact on these people's lives. It's a legacy that remains, no matter what, and despite the awful silence that grief leaves us with.
I wish you all the best moving forward - much peace, healing, and maybe some level of re-connection with the ones you lost, even if they're not here anymore. Hold fast, friend. <3
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This song came out just after my 11 year relationship came to an end. I work in public safety at a higher education institution, and I was at work and really stoked when I saw the new blink song came out. I listened to it - and even though it wasn’t really about my situation it still hit me really hard and I broke down at work. Almost immediately after the song ended I got called out to help a student with a situation and had the hardest time pulling myself together so that I could get back to helping the people who needed me. It was definitely rough. I still have a hard time with this song, I guess because the timing of its release and the things I was going through during that time. Things do get easier with time, and I’m currently in a pretty good place. If you’re dealing with something, just know time helps - so give yourself the time you need.
Call a friend you haven't spoke to in a while. I secluded myself from everyone that ever cared about me and decided to reach out. The few that answered made me realize how much I missed them. Hope you are all doing okay.
First song i ever heard from this band was “dammit” back in 98 when i just a young lost kid. This band helped me cope through the years, and find myself. Man hearing tom and mark again together is just spectacular. The older they get, the better they sound. God bless BLINK 182
They just dropped an hour interview about whats been going on lately. I cried the entire time.
Has someone who fought for 4 years to come to terms with my friends suicide this song hits so hard to me
Wow... I was on stage with them in 99 in Nashville at the warped tour. I was a judge in the skate competition and had backstage passes. The guys were awesome. Definitely the nicest band members I met that day.
I totally spaced Travis's accident listening to this, I honestly thought the airplane lyric was about angels and airwaves. Oh boy was I wrong. Anyways... Powerful tune. I recently lost one of my best friends that I had cut out of my life for a while because me spending all of my mental capacity trying to help him get better for a decade made me neglect my own mental health so I had to work on me. I was just getting ready to reach out to him again after a year and a half of not talking when I found out he was in the diabetic coma that eventually took his life. Much love and support to anyone out there who is missing a friend or family member that had passed after losing contact.❤
I first heard this song while driving & I had to pull over because the emotions got the best of me. Great song!
It was the same for me. I was on the way to a party. When I got there, people asked why I I looked like I had been crying. I told them, apparently none of them had yet heard this song, so they looked it up. They all loved it.
Yeah, i heard it for the first time in my truck. I was at a red light and thought, damn that's a fucking deep opening line. I'm not a huge Blink fan, but they were on heavy rotation in my mid to late teens, so they were always present during the TRL days, which is the part of the video that hit me.
I’ve, honestly, never worried about a musician more than I’ve worried about Travis…❤
I connected hard with the lyrics in this song but on a personal level.
The part with "do I have to die to hear you miss me?" because of the relationship between me and my dad which has been none existence since almost 10 years back.
I had a stroke Nov 24th -16 and it was a few years after we lost contact with eachother and my mom made the call to contact him about it because they didnt know if I would be survive the night.
And his answer were basically "no.". So that part in the song I connected hard with because I feel I maybe have to die for my dad to care about me again.
I have never really been a big fan of Blink-182 but now I respect them on a whole new level.
From taylor: Hey friend,
Wow that has to be so incredibly painful. To feel like even when you were potentially going to lose your life your father couldn't set aside your conflict to be there with you and for you. It had to feel so lonely and I imagine there is a lot of grief at the relationship you imagined you might have with your father. Sending you love and care. I'm so glad that you survived and are on your healing journey.
From Micro: Oh friend. My heart breaks for you. I can only imagine how hurtful it must have been to know that your dad refused to see you during a time when you were literally between life and death. It is especially during these circumstances that we would hope for familt to be present - even if distance may have grown between you before, and regardless of what issues could have been present. It is a type of extreme situation that we naturally want to be "off-border", something that reunites people together rather than divide them.
Even though you were not in contact anymore, he is still your dad and it makes completely sense that you would have expected more once you've learned about it. Somehow, it is a grief that you've been forced to experience, and being in this position is truly unfair. We want our parents to love us, to care for us, to look at us and to see us... not to have to do or be a certain way in order to gain their attention or care. We expect unconditional love, and that's the most fair expectation one could have towards their parents. Coming from a broken family where unconditional love was not something my parent knew really, my heart goes out to you. It hurts to feel like something given almost needs to be earned. and if not in face of death, then when? What is actually required? It is such a huge amount of unfair expectations put on your shoulders, and I imagine how much you must have felt like you meant nothing to him. Thankfully, your mom was present, by your side, and she tried too. It sounds like you have a family in her, and even though she will of course never replace the affection you also needed for your dad, I imagine that she is more than willing to love you for two.
I may not know you, but I am so very thankful that you made it through this incredibly scary experience. I hope that, since it happened, you are making sure to take your time to process your dad's reaction, and to grieve as necessary. Whether he would have been present or not, you *have* worth and value in this world, and your dad - nor anyone else - will ever define it for you. This world is better with you in it, and you have nothing to prove in order to exist. You matter, because you are. Thank you so much for sharing about your story here. Hopefully, talking about it can help put some gentle bandaids on this wound. Hold fast, friend.
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I was never a big fan of them either, but this song definitely strikes a cord for deep thought. Sorry that happened to you.
Song is GOATED. Miss you will always be #1 for me. But this is such a great song to tell their story
Love blink. I watch reaction videos cuz I have no friends and it emulates the feeling of listening to music with someone other than yourself.
This one's for the bros
Did you catch Travis saying One More Time at the end!?
no! I was reading the lyrics going to start watching the video instead :)
taylor you wasn't the only one who cried to this song. it makes me like about my grandpa who died in 2019
@heartsupport I bawl listening to this one
Crazy to think this was Tom’s first song back with the band, I hope they don’t have have to do this one more time it’s greeting having the original band together again
"I don't really wanna cry right now you guys..." I have terrible news...
hahahahha
This song makes me think of my two best friends. They have always been there for me, but for a long time I didn't appreciate what they did for me. I only saw what they didn't do for me and the advice I didn't agree with. I'm finally coming out of my depression and I realize now how much they mean to me. I sent them this song explaining that. They didn't listen to it lmao
My first time spotting your channel, really happy to subscribe to you. This track hits hard for me and sad to not be able to speak to freinds i have grown apart from due to my own MH. @Heartsupport
Thank you for having such a awesome channel. I needed to find this.
From Micro: Hey friend. Thank you so much for sharing about how the content on this channel resonates with you, and how it can help uplifting you during times when it's needed. It's amazing when a resource seems to just come at the right time. Hopefully, it can also help releasing emotions at times that would be necessary. I'm very thankful that you've posted here in the first place. Thank you for being here. <3
I also hear you when you say that growing apart from friends due to mental health is a struggle. It really is. On top of mental health struggles that are too often isolating us with shame/guilt, it adds another layer of loneliness to the picture... It feels like a curse that one would be meant to navigate and process just on their own. It is heartbreaking to feel like things that are *not* necessarily in your control - and even less things you would have ever asked for - are a cause of distance created with loved ones. While it is especially during those times that you need the presence of others, someone to confide in, a safe person to listen to you... I'm so sorry you've been experiencing that kind of loneliness, friend. I know personally how deep this kind of solitude hits at times.
Regardless of the exact circumstances that created this distance between your friends and you, I hope you never lose sight of the fact that struggling with your mental health is not your fault. We live in a time where there is a strong cult of self-empowerment, and a situation like yours can easily make you feel like you would be guilty for struggling in the first place. It's like you would be *responsible* for things going wrong with friends, for misunderstandings, or even for not feeling able to preserve a friendship at times. I know I personally lost quite a lot of friendships over the years because I've been very limited in my struggles and just couldn't keep the pace of "normal" communications/connections with loved ones - it was taking so much energy, and so naturally people distanced themselves thinking I didn't care, while I did. I felt guilty for a very long time, still sometimes do. But really, all of this is just the manifestation of our humanity - and truth be told life is very challenging for many people, if not for everyone.
If you ever need a safe place to talk to people who care and can understand what you go through, feel free to post on our anonymous forum too, at forum.heartsupport.com. It is a safe environment, and overall just a great outlet to share what's on your heart any time you would need it. All in all, know that you are not alone. I hope that, with time, you will manage to either reconnect with people you miss dearly, or to find a new chosen family. You are not meant to be stuck or isolated in your struggles. It is possible to cultivate friendship *despite* MH challenges, even if it implies different challenges or obstacles along the way. In any case, know that someone out there is rooting for you and believes in you very much. You got this. <3
I loved this video! Hola from
mexico🎉!
might be an unpopular opinion but this is one of the best Blink songs EVER yes it's not their normal typical song but still this is just so good
It doesn't have to take a sickness was mark's cancer treatment and aeroplane crashing was Travis's aeroplane crash it was them coming back together an telling eachother they love eachother an tomorrow isn't always gonna happen but live for today and now.
I'm 39 (What's my age again?). And blink 182 was one of my favorite groups when I was younger. I've cried when I saw this song video first time. I know all the history, I remember all this videos. And i wanted to figure out all references from that video - that's how i found your video. And I'm crying again. And I love this..., BUT I like that it's hurting me. because 1 song can give me so much emotions. The older you get, the harder it is to get that kind of emotion out of music.
😢😢😢 this song like a tribute
Sososogreat!❤❤❤❤
I'm going through depression right now, and this song hits me hard.
Glad you opened up and shared. You are not alone. Glad you are here.
-The Video Editor
From AliceBlue: @lances4654 I’m very sorry to hear that you’ve been weighed down with depression. I just wanted to remind you of your worth and of the fact that you are worthy of love and of life.
I’m so proud of you for reaching out and for acknowledging your struggles.
From DyllonKG: @lances4654 Hey my friend. This one single sentence brought a lot back for me. I remember this feeling really well. www.loom.com/share/9605d269a85f4ef3b41632347d5ac2fb?sid=a7323d4c-5ec4-4763-b5de-8401720183d3
as a 35 yo elder emo I cried my eyes out to!!! every time i hear it i just don't get it!?? whos chopping onions??
Damn ninjas cutting onions in here
cry, it is totally ok😔
This was a very Frank song to both their fans and themselves. I think if you know Blink or have gone through loss you understand this song wholeheartedly.
On a related note have you heard of the Scottish Folk/Indie band Frightened Rabbit? The songwriter of that band also wrote very Frank songs about his struggles with mental health. Definitely worth checking out either privately or on here.
I’d recommend The Modern Leper. That’s the gateway drug.
My ex cheated on me who worked for heart support. How ironic this shows up lol. Shout out Gabby..regardless song is amazing!!
I'll start playing drums tomorrow, and i could be your travis!!!😊
Heard this yesterday for the first time while driving. Had got news that a friend had passed hours before. Ironically I was doing the tough guy thing and trying to suppress emotions. The universe had other ideas apparently. 😂
From Lisalovesfeathers: I am very sorry for the loss of your friend, I beg to differ though, I actually think you ended up doing the tough guy thing! :wink: Sendin g love to you in your time of grief. Lisa x
@@HeartSupport I appreciate the kind words. As I’ve grown older and gained some emotional intelligence, I’ve learned the importance of processing and allowing myself to feel emotions especially grief. Albeit usually in a private setting, however I find it much easier and less painful than suppression. I wish it was more well known how damaging subduing emotion can be to your overall attitude and mental well being.
Thanks to you all, for doing what you do. Your content was an unexpected find, which turned out to be not only entertaining but helpful!
From Micro: Yes, I wholeheartedly agree with you. There is such release and healing to experience through the act of allowing ourselves to *feel* what needs to be felt. Suppressing is a normal act of survival and avoidance - no one enjoys feeling their heartache and internal turmoil. And under some specific circumstances or social settings, it serves us well. But to make it our go-to, a habit to use when difficult emotions arise, adds so much more pain on top of the one that is already present. It puts constant pressure on our body and so much loneliness within our heart - as no matter how hard we try to push them away, emotions are there as long as they are not fully processed.
I'm so very sorry for your loss of your friend - it's devastating to lose someone you are close with. It leaves you with all this affection that requires now to be carried for two. My heart goes out to you. I hope you keep letting your emotions out just as you need. That you'll allow yourself to feel it all, without any judgment, especially as grief tends to come in unexpected waves. You have learned yourself how important this is and that is such a huge strength that you have. Over time you have learned to be a safe and caring presence to yourself, and the fact that you couldn't suppress these emotions anymore shows how much you *know* now internally that it is safe to feel whatever comes.
Grief is - dramatically - such a powerful catalyst in so many ways. To me personally, it has been this force that has given me some huge reality check and pushed me to stop trying to toughen everything up. At some point, we've pushed ourselves so much into one direction that we reach the very bottom of it. No other choice but to try differently.
Hoping for this season ahead to go as smoothly as possible for you. May you keep giving yourself as much care and patience as possible. Sending hugs your way. <3
Gen X baby!We killed it!
I would love you to look into a band from my home town. Lansdale Pa. The Wonder Years.
Local Man Ruins it All.
I wanted to be Brave.
Cardinals
I have struggled with depression for 30 plus years and these guys who are many years younger than me, have helped me know that I'm not alone and they grew where I grew.
Also, Neck Deep and The Story So Far. Both examples of bands that talk about the struggles of life and dealing with it.
Listen up people. You are not alone. The lyrics are key to understanding that others know you. And some have written songs that are here on RUclips! Look them up. Type what YOU'RE feeling and song lyrics will be turned into songs that have those words in them. YoU dont even need to know the band. Just know what you feel and you tube does the rest. Bless and love to all of you. Lyrics are modern-day poetry and help for those who seek it. LOVE and keep searching for those like you. Help and grow to better understanding and different lives. =];-)~
Will anyone know that Travis sings one more time in this video and he doesn’t usually sing so we’ll see if you catch it
I can be your Travis person. Haha. Great reaction video.
do Adams song!!!!!
So in less then three days I'm going to a intensive patient facility for Alcoholism eventho I been sober for over a month and idk what to feel or what to think despite deep down I feel like I need this and I am working since the 15th of Feb but I gotta quit to enter this place and tbh I feel again like I'm taking another huge step back and I feel as if the ones I love who support this for me are just wanting me to just fuck off deep down and out of their space, please tell me I'm not alone..... by the way it's gonna mean at least a month and a half 45 days without my access to music that sooths me and also channels like this 🤬😡🤬😢💀😔
From bmao: @zanesam5195 I want to start by congratulating you on your recent sobriety! Over a month is a long time and it truly makes me happy that you are persevering in your fight against addiction! Though it may feel like a step back because you'll be missing work, it sounds like this facility is the best thing for you right now. It is going to help you solidify your newfound sobriety and really set in stone the fact that you are beating your addiction. You are not alone, and I sincerely appreciate you opening up on here. We will be here waiting for you when you return from your program! Best of luck with this next step in your journey- it is surely the right step, and I know that it is leading you towards lasting sobriety.
From Micro: @zanesam5195 Oh friend, what you are doing is so brave and so strong. Well done for deciding to go there. It is an important and very significant step. It makes so much sense though to feel particularly fearful and anxious regarding what the future holds for you and what you could expect from this time of being in this facility. This is a significant change and the outcomes are particularly important too.
Reaching this point most of been already very difficult and one thing is sure: you can be proud of your self for working on your healing and taking steps towards ensuring your well-being in the long run. You are doing this first and foremost for yourself and that is what matters the most. This is about your journey, your healing, your well-being, regardless of what others could think about it or of you.
There is no doubt that this change comes with a good amount of stressors, fears and doubts altogether, but I want to reassure you that you are not alone. We see you here, we see your efforts, we understand the importance of what you are doing. A month and half there will certainly feel very long at times, and as if time would flow very slowly somehow. Thankfully it could also turn out to be opportunity for you to reconnect to yourself at a deeper level, and uncover strengths within you may not have been able to see before. Somehow, this is going to contribute to a self-discovery journey, and learning how to be an ally to yourself for when you will be out of the facility as well. It's not the most pleasant and comfortable process especially as we would naturally lean towards *avoiding* what feels uncomfortable or painful. But you certainly have what it takes to go through this season in a way that will feel meaningful and healing to you. You can come out of this facility feeling more empowered and confident in your abilities.
This is a challenging and difficult journey, but you are doing well, myfriend. You are standing up for yourself and doing what is right to heal and take steps forward. We are so, so very proud of you here and will be rooting for you during this time, regardless of the distance. You got this!!
Have you done a video for Linkin Park - One More Light?
If you are truly a therapist, can I ask for you to contact me. I need help
Dont tell her about lil peep lol!!!
No reaction to the video whatsoever.
We’re you listening only?
Did you notice Travis’ backing vocals?
Did you see all the callbacks?
she isn't a big enough fan to notice all the small things...
I was just reading the lyrics while listening so I could do a lyric analysis but I'm actually going to start watching the video so I can add stuff about that as well! Thanks for watching and for feedback :)
Today is my birthday and i've been slowly growing apart from all my friends because of work and depression making me not want to go out as much and it hit the hardest today when i didnt hear from anyone except immediate family. I'm also dealing with my dad recently passing away unexpectedly in a car accident (I was there and watched him pass in front of me) and it feels like I actually lost them all just like my dad and i feel really lonely right now. I even reach out sometimes and dont hear back. its super upsetting but i just try to remind myself maybe theyre just busy because they all have their own lives to focus on. :/
The line in the song "do i have to die to hear you miss me?" hit so hard right now. What will it take to get my friends together again? Would they even be there if I were to die or something happens? :( @HeartSupport
From Lisalovesfeathers: @stripesandwheels Oh Friend, I can surely see you have not had a good day and things are very hard for you right now but I want to wish you a Happy Birthday because we all deserve that.
I am so terribly sorry for the loss of your Dad, I cannot imagine how traumatic that was and how deep in grief you are feeling at present and of course this is the time when we want to lean on our friends the most and we want our friends (even the ones we do not see very often) to reach out to us, to comfort us, to listen and to just be there.
That should be the case and it breaks my heart that it isnt, some people do struggle when it comes to knowing how to respond to someone who is grieving, the fear of not being enough, not being able to make it better or making a mistake and saying the wrong thing makes people feel uncomfortable which is understandable to a degree but little do they reaslise that even just a hug would go such a long way.
I would love for you to reach out as much as you would like on the support wall here, there are so many that would be honoured to be your friend and support you, that is what we do here. We see you, we value you and know that you deserve nothing but the best of us.
I have some literature on coping with grief after trauma too that may help but please feel free to message any time at all.
You truly are very special and very important. Much Love Lisa. x
store.samhsa.gov/sites/default/files/sma17-5035.pdf
From Micro: @stripesandwheels Friend, what you have shared feels so relatable to me and I am so thankful that you took the initiative to talk about it. It is so hard to feel like you are completely isolated from the people you love and that somehow you wonder if you simply matter to them. You have a good understanding of what has progressively separated you from them but at the same time there is this wish deep inside that they could be proactive in reaching out and that you wouldn't have to take the first step each time. Of course, you know rationally that your friends are also focusing on their life and it's understandable to not be communicating all the time, or at least less regularly. But then your birthday arise, or you send a message to someone, and you are only met with the silence and absence of others, which feels like a brutal slap on the face.
It's really hard to not start to spiral and wonder if you did something wrong, or if you are just not good enough for them, or if you even matter as a person. I personally lost friendships over the last year and it is something that I keep having a hard time with, so my heart really goes out to you as your experiencing this as well. It's painful to feel like people leave away from your life and don't seem to try to reconnect. As you said so well, it makes you wonder what would need to happen for you to be seen again.
It is such a painful type of solitude and I'm really sorry that you have been facing this, especially in light of having known such a loss with your dad recently. You have been sthrough omething highly traumatic and under such circumstances it is human to expect that your friends would be there with you and for you. I know it's a little bit different but rest assured that you have friends here at Heartsupport and in our community. We are here to listen and support you as best as possible. You are not alone, friend. :heart:
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Ive been a long time blink fan and I've seen the drama in the band and its been painful seeing them have bad blood over the years and i think this song is such a poignant, beautiful message to each other. You can really hear the emotion and sincerity, so much so that you can hear Tom's voice crack when he says "strangers into brothers". It really is a profound and beautiful message and that chorus with the background cutting to the warped tour 99 really is heart wrenching.
I've never seen this channel before, ive just been watching One More Time reactions but i honestly truly love the idea behind this channel and having a safe place for people to be able to help deal with their mental health struggles. Thank you for doing what you do and providing a valuable service for others. Peace and love