He seems so much happier. I'm proud of him for speaking his personal truth. As a gay woman, I try to remain open minded towards anyone coming out, each story is very personal and different.
After watching Colton honest and heartfelt retrospect of his conflicted lived experiences I look forward in seeing his Netflix coming out with a more meaningful understanding of the man.
Watching “Coming Out Colton” I have no words but respect on him. Parents did a great job regardless if they are divorced yet the support system from both Mum and Dad is amazing, thats all that matters. So proud of Colton.
I probably wasn’t gonna rush to see the Netflix series, but I really like the way Johnny handled this interview. Colton has certainly has made mistakes but this interview has opened my mind to some of his experiences & challenges.
Hey man,I'm completely 100% straight and would always be the one to call names and grew up been homophobic.But I put myself in coltons dad's shoes.Iv got a 16yo and if he came out to me I'd be there 100%.Im not saying my kid is gay and he has a girlfriend.But I could never reject my son.Im glad your dad excepted you.At the end of the day everyone needs to have love and a chance of happiness
Colton has a really great story that is reality based and authentic. He is a great representative for how being closeted can make your life a scary place living in the current hate levels
I’ll be honest at first I was hesitant about Colton, but his honesty and authenticity is really starting to show. It’s refreshing that he is able to understand the complications of his past behavior and his new coming of age as a gay man. Plus, I mean he is very easy on the eyes.
I would love to speak with him. I watched his documentary and seen a lot of similarities in him and I. I grew up in a pentacostal church as a priestesses grand child and grew up in fear of rejection and letting people down. I've been in the locker room conversations and faced the cover up relationships and I can say that now that I have come out, yes I lost people but gained my self. Stay strong, Colton, you've got this buddy. Much love
I’m truly happy for him. It must be an immense relief to finally show up for yourself, stand and live in your truth. Live your life Colton, ppl are going to criticize irrespective because everyone wants to say something. Astonishingly it’s always the ppl who have made the most mistakes in life that will criticize you.
Colton if you’re reading this. 1. You’re so hot. 2. I just finished your Netflix documentary, and I want you to know that no matter what anyone says, I can look into your eyes and tell that you are 100% genuine and your story genuinely touched me. I was fighting back tears the entire series. Thank you for sharing your story man.
Colton was one of my favorite Bachelors!! During the show, most of us who were his biggest fans, already knew he was gay before he actually knew for sure he was. Feel good in your own skin~
I get that he's made mistakes in the past but so did literally EVERYONE ELSE in the world too. Except that they weren't in the spotlight for the whole world to judge them. I hate judging other humans, no matter what they've done in life. I believe that humans have the ability to change. I never jump into conclusion, wish more people were like me. I can't wait to watch his Netflix show. I don't have Netflix right now but I'll try to watch it elsewhere since I'm really curious to know more about this amazing guy :)
If he wasn't attractive, he would have been ripped apart for his past mistakes. lol Only reason people are giving him a pass I would guess is because he is an attractive white guy that gay guys want to sleep with. If he was an over weight, non white, pimple faced guy, everyone would rip him apart for stalking, lying, and wasting people's time on the Bachelor.
Estou assistindo documentário de Colton aqui do Brasil e me coloco no lugar dele, sei como está sendo difícil. Ele precisa de ajuda, um ombro amigo e muito respeito. Admiro sua coragem e você é mais forte do pensa Colton. Abraços aqui do Brasil e muita força pra ti.
I saw him on Netflix, it was interesting. He's such a gorgeous man. I never saw the bachelor, but heard he did girls wrong. Well I hope he made amends with them. He seems to be a good person, hopefully he is. I wish him well. Congrats on coming out dude, I'm happy for you 🤗♥️🙏✌️😎
@@Thisispmarief which he admitted was an awful thing to do , and that he wasn't in a good place and was very sorry for. I'm assuming your sh*t doesn't stick?
@@stevej4328 So fucking what? His ex is scarred for life and you think an "apology" makes it all better? Just because he was struggling with his sexuality does not change the awful things he did to her.
Cokten is on his life journey, he is living his truth, and he is a man of God, your a inspiration to us all that life is about growing and evolving!Proud of you Cokten you make me 😊!
I stopped going to church cause I really hated when the pastors start talking about lgbt people. Talk about pedophiles, cheating husband's, cheating wives, sex before marriage, homelessness, white collar crimes, racism, colorism or drug addicts. Lgbt is less of the world's problems. So bye felicia!
@@b4804514 Who hasn't been scared and messed up? The guy isn't perfect...nobody is but he's being very vulnerable about his journey and I think a lot of good is going to come from his story. Right now, some kid who's afraid to come out is watching this. This is about hope, about forgiveness and love.
Just watched his documentary on Netflix. I respect him I love him even more and also to the rest of the world who is suffering about their sexuality. Jesus loves you and free Britney lol oh wait she’s a free woman …hayyyy !
Every adult alive has made mistakes! Fkups we regret. Things that make you feel ashamed of yourself or embarrassed. So what. That’s just part of the human experience. No one should judge Colton, he stuffed up with Cassie but he was honest enough to explain himself and feel guilty about it and completely own it. Let it go already. It’s so great to see him really happy 🙏☺️🙌
This cutie is new to me..but i watch the documentary then the Jimmy Kimmel interview (yikes!) then the GMA interview then this .. and it's like seeing a caterpillar evolving to a butterfly and its beautiful..
Proud of what he has done and what he had to overcome. I relate so much to him growing up in a catholic household. I held my real self back until I was an older adult but the release of coming out is a relief
Thoughts for Cassie and her family. He wrote a book while he stayed with her knowing his truth. Her Mum nursed him back to health. Did he give the profits from the book to them?
This is hilariously ridiculous. But let's be honest, he was a total waste as 'The Bachelor '. But I'm happy for him and hope this works out well for him.
I heard he came out because someone almost outed him. I hope that's not true. I did like the netflix documentary. Glad I gave it a watch to know about the person I've heard about from the other show I never watch. wishing him all the best.
Disliked! Poor Colton married an old troll who looks like Perez Hilton. I hope he doesn’t lose his muscles, or become a sad, old queen. He can still listen to country music, play football, and continue to be a muscular and handsome Adonis.
Im watching Colton coming out on Netflix. I think its wonderful that he is doing this for himself. No longer having to be in shackles anymore. I noticed many things during his documentary.. The one that stands out the most is... Where is his apology to his HS girlfriend after he broke up with her for being sexual. All these years she had no idea the real reason he broke up with her, his own inner demands and took it out on her. At some point Colton, there are amends you must make yourself to people you have hurt. Even from the Bachelor show, the final 4 women and the one he chose. Come out and make an apology for those who have been hurt by you. Heck even me, the viewer of Bachelor, I too have been deceived by you. Yes their are legit reasons but, still the audience still should receive an apology. That would be the right thing to do. Happy for you!! Until he apologizes to many including me,audience, Cassie, final 4, HS girlfriend and others. He will still be a privileged white lying male who has dooped us all.
The sexual chemistry is on fire. 1, 2, 3 flirt... 1, 2, 3 flirt... lol. Colton is like a big kid... like a huge teddy bear....so sweet... Ok nice. Really well asked. Reflected upon. And answered authentically... from where you are.....nice.... Colton demonstrates how real it is for gay men to hide and their anxiety and the escalating social taboo of being gay in a much larger context & the fire & brimstone consequences real or imagined for each of us VIs-a-VIs the idea of being a man of faith or religious or spiritual .... you know? It ain't easy.... rejection is real, bullying is real, violence is real, being disowned by family & friends is real, not knowing what to do or how to do it is real, etc. Great interview. I luved how human it was. And I didn't get a sense of trying to catch Colton in something like many segments like this do.... especially for lgbtqia folks.... because you weren't born knowing all the answers & being a role model for the entire community. Lol. Thank you for such an authentic & honest dialog.... without shaming or dissecting toxic privilege or masculinity as a punitive weapon....to prove he isn't one of us or needs consequences for his actions.... we beat each other's up a lot, but mostly ourselves when we don't have forgiveness or empathy in our hearts.....we are not perfect.... At the end of the day, accountability is great. And needed sure.... but how can you be accountable in a vacuum, without safety or awareness or exploration into self & identity or at least some support and self-acceptance? Colton is who he is... and he made choices like all of us.... some good, some not great, but that was his journey & he's learning & growing... as best as he can....and I see a happier man willing to look at himself & his choices... and that reach for responsibility.....and proverbial accountability......but let's be honest, there is so much more to life.... Well done mate. Ps.... what was the show Colton did on Netflix? And is it currently still on now ---in dec 2021? Will someone please share the name of the show and more information?
@@Krisarooooo thanks. I found it. And watched the 6part series. It was really well done I thought. Oh, I thought it was a one & done. Interesting, if another season. Hmmm. Great for kids to watch with their parents if boys or girls are lgbtqia+ or if they are not for empathy with others-- with bullying, fear, hiding, toxic masculinity or impact of repressing who you are & forced to live a double life... How your actions may be colored by that unhappiness.
@@fc8240 You're so welcome! I haven't had the pleasure of watching it yet, but can't wait to! I too think kids or anyone in general can really learn something about watching his story unfold. I always liked Colton...yes, he's done some shitty things, but haven't we all? It's about learning and growing and I'm happy he's found and shared his truth!
@@Krisarooooo it's worth the time. Gotta admit- I didn't really know him. But, I'm glad I watched. Amazing for kids & their parents-- let's build a more empathetic and tolerant and creative world.
Congrats, Colton on coming out as your True Self!!!! There is NO shame in your game!! Love you brother!! We all love you and care about you. Most people when they throw scriptures out at you, do not know what was going on in the culture of the Hebrew people at that time. Also, Jesus himself NEVER said ANYTHING about homosexuality. I loved your comment: "I am a baby all over again in a 29 year old body!!! You are out of the closet, so live your life the way you want!!!
To all gay men in closet out there, STOP AND STOP use women to hide your actual sexuality just because you too coward to live as an openly gay men. It's hurt and painful for women to finally find out that her boyfriend/husband is a gay man. Be brave and be who you are and stop using women in this disgusting way.
You do realize that coming out can be a really hard process for some people due to religious beliefs and homophobic families, right? Not everyone is lucky enough to have wonderful open-minded people in their lives. Some people have to literally be somebody else just because their countries don't allow them to be gay because it's illegal, some countries literally throw gays off buildings. You're probably one of the lucky ones who were born in a good family environment and you never really experienced any of those type of homophobia so before you speak, try to think deeper next time. Not everything is about you, honey. Some people do want to be themselves but they just can't, not because they're fucking "cowards" like you said but because they just can't and won't want to risk their lives. So don't just say ignorant shit like that without knowing someone's background or family.
@@thefreehealer792 i do understand what coming out can be. I am a trans woman from a Muslim country. I lost my closet since i start my transition at 13 years old of age. I'm a victim of bully, a victim of paedophile, a victim of trans bashing, a victim of discrimination and more. All these made me strong and brave and i never use nor exploit anyone. So, if you are a gay man, don't talk about coming out issues with trans people. We have it worst than homosexual people. Only trans people will lose our closet once we start our transition journey unlike lesbian, gay and bi people they still have their closet ready to hide at anytime despite have came out (if you understand what i mean). Now tell me what ignoring shit I'm talking about? I assume that you also need to stop bulshitting women and proud to be who you are
As gay, we have been there. And in the end we do it because we don't feel safe, it's really contradicting and frustrating, I'm glad he is true to himself which tells us it's never to late to start again and live your life.
He seems like such a nice guy, BUT he abused a woman. He stalked her. He tracked her. He harmed a woman that he said he loved. That spells mental instability.So…great that he has moved on, but I HOPE we can realize how hurtful you can be trying to hide yourself. Get some help dude. ? I know your Mom loves you , but I feel so sorry for her. I hope you figure life out. You have the ability to be a David not a Saul.
STALKING AND PUTTING A TRACKER ON A WOMAN’S CAR IS PSYCHO!! The fact that he was gay and never even liked her makes it EVEN MORE PSYCHO!! The show was an interesting take on a coming out story but it definitely isn’t the narrative gay men need trying to represent us. This should be presented as a COLTON show and not a lgbt/gay one like they tried to make it.
All of you keep on saying this and that concerning your own or other peoples opinions or the church etc..but nothing like what would Jesus Christ say about all this.Actually his word is the most decisive and important thing.The key to your eternity is only in his hands.And if he died for your sins and you reject him ,think what it means for you.
So is he gonna take accountability and apologize for his toxic behavior in this series? Or are we just gonna pretend he’s gay now so it’s ok what he did to Cassie?
🙄 and this is why there will never be peace in the world. You’re totally part of the problem. Colton has explained the situation. He explained why it is so complicated even now. This guy didn’t only do Cassie wrong. He screwed many people over, just as you and I have. He is working on rectifying that and that has been abundantly clear. Now to continuously harp on this Cassie thing while Cassie herself has said very little about the show is just you relentlessly fishing for drama. Move on. He screwed up, he is fixing that part of his life. Out there, we have real abusive, violent men who truly are dangerous and you’re just laser focused on this one dude that was spiralling because of the pain he was going through, while having never really harmed anyone before that. Have a little bit more humanity bud!!
@@SavvyGirl751 what more exactly do you think he should’ve done? I mean the matter was between the two of them and eventually had legal intervention. So what do you think we should do further? Undo the past? This guy is not abusive. He might have been in that relationship but he is not an abusive man. There is a THIICK line between a toxic relationship and an abusive partner. Yes he fucked up but I really don’t know what more should be done now???? Have you even watched the show?
@@sam_6447 I'm sorry. Real Abusive? Yikes. Not you saying abuse only counts it its physical. So yes, no on is perfect. But I can proudly say I've never done what he did nor even got close. People act like he was just a good guy that did a bad thing and is trying to change. But he wasn awful guy that did an awful thing and...got a show to promote what exactly? Only 1 episode is truly dedicated to talking about the main issue. The rest is just...fluff. It's weird how the majority of people that are defending him are also calling him hot.
Not buying what exactly? What do you not "buy"? Try to be more positive and compassionate for people, it'll be greater beneficial for your inner peace, babe. Trust me. Spread love starting today!😘❤❤😊
Colton is a nice guy, with a tremendous support network. What Is remarkable how well he is timed for success in playing in the NFL, doing the bachelor, coming out and the doing the Netflix series. Now he is dating a Demorat fundraiser and is into this woke culture that is going to reward $$ him very well… 🤪
This is what you get when you are good looking and comes out and want to share your secret that you have kept hidden while being a total creep towards females for a long time(the way he came out almost sounded like he had incurable brain cancer or something), Netflix throws a show after you, because personality he has not…..not trying to be a hater, but can’t stand that guy.
@@TRACEWORLD2 Who are you to call people that. I'm sure if we judged you you would be absolutely flawless in your day to day life is it? He was interesting enough for like 3 seasons of the bachelor. And now homophobes decided for some reason that it's ok to attack him
« Why is your story important? » , « why should you get a deal for a show rather than someone else? » ....... Um, have you taken a look at him? He’s the most gorgeous man in Hollywood. Not his fault.
He's just so...basic lol Like, this story of a Conservative Christian White dude is not groundbreaking in 2021. I'm sorry, but it isn't. Like, we have heard voices like his and identical stories like his since the 90s. We rarely ever get to to hear the voice of a Muslim lesbian coming out, or a conservative Hindu gay man living in the West story!? There are soooo many other LGBT stories and experiences...yet the TV networks always just go for the "Cute white Christian boy" trope 🙄
@@KaliforniaToni exactly! We rarely ever see Asian Gay stories in Western media...or Indian LGBT voices...and these Gays have legitimate stories to share too!
He let it slip a few times on the show. I commented on it and guessed he was secretly gay to my fiance while we watched the Bachelor. Turns out I was right.
The master manipulator.....all in the name of instafollowers. No thanks, Colton. You should make a public apology straight away, to Cassie, for putting her through all this.I'm disgusted. Be gay, be straight.... it doesn;t matter.....when you're just not a good human being. He admits he was attempting "conversion therapy" on himself, he knew... for a long time. How he went through the bachelor recruiting process to date 30 women, fooling america, hurting an innocent girl, who didn't even want to be with him, he coerced her into giiving it a chance, I have a hard time feeling sorry...confused or not, you dont go out and live a lie on public TV, in attempt to get instagram followers and gain relevancy. It's really hard to respect him or believe anything he says anymore.
Colton when it comes to "Can I be gay and still have God in my life" just remember that Jesus only hung out with men. 12 of them to be pacific tho John the Baptist was Jesus's fav. In Jesus's 33 years on earth he never dated a female. When I was 12 year old I thought Oh Wow!! Jesus was gay and never suffered at the hands of haters. I wish Jesus could have set up the human race for success were they born to be gay but at least he addressed the issue by preaching love for your brothers and we are our brothers keeper etc Jesus definitely supported gay is what I interpretation Even in Jesus's day people were very verbal with their thoughts and physical with their feelings especially with other peoples business. I pray that your Journey including your book will help save the life of even one young gay struggling with the way he was born. I laughed and I cried my way thru your whole Journey and now I wish you Love and Happiness as now you finally have It All 💞from🇨🇦
Do you all want to know what ultimate privilege is? It is the privilege to have the freedom and audacity to actually tell someone they are privileged. Let's talk about liberal privilege next.
Exactly. It's really bizarre that these people have the audacity to tell someone to their face that they are privileged without knowing anything about them except surface level things. Makes me mad. Liberals are going to get crushed in these mid terms and they will lose Congress and the Senate...
today as compared to yesterday has me naustated by this. This is comparison which is bad to do. NO two people are the same and comparing oneself with another is bad. Colton came out on Netflix in a show and all boyfriends should be weary of Colton for that.
Honestly I’m so happy to see him being his authentic self, because since coming out, he seems happier and at peace.
Indeed, you can see that from the first episode untill now, he is always smiling. Big smile. Cheers for him.
He seems so much happier. I'm proud of him for speaking his personal truth. As a gay woman, I try to remain open minded towards anyone coming out, each story is very personal and different.
Being a Christian is about your own, personal relationship with God NOT the organized church, that is corrupt. I love you and support you all😍
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yes
I love this post
Absolutely!!! Well said
You need to read the Bible again.
After watching Colton honest and heartfelt retrospect of his conflicted lived experiences I look forward in seeing his Netflix coming out with a more meaningful understanding of the man.
I know this is old but this was a really good interview. So proud of Colton. ❤ I love both Johnny and Colton sm 🫶❤
Watching “Coming Out Colton” I have no words but respect on him. Parents did a great job regardless if they are divorced yet the support system from both Mum and Dad is amazing, thats all that matters. So proud of Colton.
It was a great series! Saw so many similarities between him and myself
I love Johnny’s openness and questions!
I probably wasn’t gonna rush to see the Netflix series, but I really like the way Johnny handled this interview. Colton has certainly has made mistakes but this interview has opened my mind to some of his experiences & challenges.
GREAT INTERVIEW 😊
I like his positive vibe , I 'll look forward to see what project he'll be working on
Hey man,I'm completely 100% straight and would always be the one to call names and grew up been homophobic.But I put myself in coltons dad's shoes.Iv got a 16yo and if he came out to me I'd be there 100%.Im not saying my kid is gay and he has a girlfriend.But I could never reject my son.Im glad your dad excepted you.At the end of the day everyone needs to have love and a chance of happiness
Need more humans and dads like you! 💪🏽
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Colton has a really great story that is reality based and authentic. He is a great representative for how being closeted can make your life a scary place living in the current hate levels
I’ll be honest at first I was hesitant about Colton, but his honesty and authenticity is really starting to show. It’s refreshing that he is able to understand the complications of his past behavior and his new coming of age as a gay man. Plus, I mean he is very easy on the eyes.
Extremely easy on the eye. 😍 Plus he seems like he's happy with himself and that's all you can ask for.
A yeah!
I would love to speak with him. I watched his documentary and seen a lot of similarities in him and I. I grew up in a pentacostal church as a priestesses grand child and grew up in fear of rejection and letting people down. I've been in the locker room conversations and faced the cover up relationships and I can say that now that I have come out, yes I lost people but gained my self. Stay strong, Colton, you've got this buddy. Much love
Colton's approach to the relationship with God is so very sound and... true! Yes, true is the correct word here. I absolutely love and share it.
I’m truly happy for him. It must be an immense relief to finally show up for yourself, stand and live in your truth. Live your life Colton, ppl are going to criticize irrespective because everyone wants to say something. Astonishingly it’s always the ppl who have made the most mistakes in life that will criticize you.
Thank you Colton. God loves you so, so much.
Colton if you’re reading this. 1. You’re so hot. 2. I just finished your Netflix documentary, and I want you to know that no matter what anyone says, I can look into your eyes and tell that you are 100% genuine and your story genuinely touched me. I was fighting back tears the entire series. Thank you for sharing your story man.
Colton was one of my favorite Bachelors!! During the show, most of us who were his biggest fans, already knew he was gay before he actually knew for sure he was. Feel good in your own skin~
How?
Love Colton so very much! He’s such a sweet dude! ♥️
I get that he's made mistakes in the past but so did literally EVERYONE ELSE in the world too. Except that they weren't in the spotlight for the whole world to judge them. I hate judging other humans, no matter what they've done in life. I believe that humans have the ability to change. I never jump into conclusion, wish more people were like me. I can't wait to watch his Netflix show. I don't have Netflix right now but I'll try to watch it elsewhere since I'm really curious to know more about this amazing guy :)
If he wasn't attractive, he would have been ripped apart for his past mistakes. lol Only reason people are giving him a pass I would guess is because he is an attractive white guy that gay guys want to sleep with. If he was an over weight, non white, pimple faced guy, everyone would rip him apart for stalking, lying, and wasting people's time on the Bachelor.
Estou assistindo documentário de Colton aqui do Brasil e me coloco no lugar dele, sei como está sendo difícil. Ele precisa de ajuda, um ombro amigo e muito respeito. Admiro sua coragem e você é mais forte do pensa Colton. Abraços aqui do Brasil e muita força pra ti.
Opa, eu assisti ontem à noite kkk
I saw him on Netflix, it was interesting. He's such a gorgeous man. I never saw the bachelor, but heard he did girls wrong. Well I hope he made amends with them. He seems to be a good person, hopefully he is. I wish him well. Congrats on coming out dude, I'm happy for you 🤗♥️🙏✌️😎
I’m so proud of him! He deserves the world! ❤️
"i love a leather moment"
"oh boy"
this killed me
I can’t wait for his show on Netflix
He's so adorable! I have a huge crush on him!
Too bad he stalked and put a tracker on his exes car. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
same I can’t wait for his Netflix show 🥵❤️
@@Thisispmarief which he admitted was an awful thing to do , and that he wasn't in a good place and was very sorry for. I'm assuming your sh*t doesn't stick?
We all do! How tall is he?
@@stevej4328 So fucking what? His ex is scarred for life and you think an "apology" makes it all better? Just because he was struggling with his sexuality does not change the awful things he did to her.
The interviewer blushes everytime Coltan flirts with him lol he is totally crushing on him
Cokten is on his life journey, he is living his truth, and he is a man of God, your a inspiration to us all that life is about growing and evolving!Proud of you Cokten you make me 😊!
Colten, sorry!
Sorry I Butchered his name!
I stopped going to church cause I really hated when the pastors start talking about lgbt people. Talk about pedophiles, cheating husband's, cheating wives, sex before marriage, homelessness, white collar crimes, racism, colorism or drug addicts. Lgbt is less of the world's problems. So bye felicia!
'I finally can breathe for the first time in my life". THAT SAYS IT ALL!!!
Beautiful interview 🌈 ... loving the Netflix series.
I am hoping we are seeing the real Colton. He has been closeted scared and it will take some time to unwind his story.
@@b4804514 Who hasn't been scared and messed up? The guy isn't perfect...nobody is but he's being very vulnerable about his journey and I think a lot of good is going to come from his story. Right now, some kid who's afraid to come out is watching this. This is about hope, about forgiveness and love.
SO GORGEOUS
Everyone's coming out story is different, let colton be himself!
Colton is a hero! He can do no wrong, now that he is living his truth.
NO
God doesn't make mistakes. I applaud Colton's sense of self!
Definitely, God and the Bible are perfection.
🙏 sadly, we are the ones who make mistakes all the time. 😔
Just watched his documentary on Netflix. I respect him I love him even more and also to the rest of the world who is suffering about their sexuality. Jesus loves you and free Britney lol oh wait she’s a free woman …hayyyy !
I like the way he tried to educate the coach. "Gay Guide" could be a thing.
I felt so emotional looking at this. Colton is such a great guy
question: anyone know what style or cut of jeans Colton is wearing PLEASE? and maybe what shoes hes wearing. It looks so good.
I'm pleased he came out if this is who he's ment to be. He still seems to be struggling with his identity. Which is very understandable.
Colton is such a cute kid and Jesus loves him.
Every adult alive has made mistakes! Fkups we regret. Things that make you feel ashamed of yourself or embarrassed. So what. That’s just part of the human experience. No one should judge Colton, he stuffed up with Cassie but he was honest enough to explain himself and feel guilty about it and completely own it. Let it go already. It’s so great to see him really happy 🙏☺️🙌
When do we get the show from the female perspective of being stalked and emotionally abused. I Shall wait.
This dude is just so likable
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@@qtpie1144 you good?
This cutie is new to me..but i watch the documentary then the Jimmy Kimmel interview (yikes!) then the GMA interview then this .. and it's like seeing a caterpillar evolving to a butterfly and its beautiful..
"... dating 30 women at the same time... I don't think any other gay man can say that..."
I can think of at least two others... Wink emoji...
Wait who???? Lol
Okay sis, spill the tea. It's just us here....Come on! 😩☺️
These comments are disgusting. I have so much respect for you and the community. Thank you so much for coming out and sharing your story.
No they’re the truth, it’s your problem if you don’t recognize the toxic waste he is.
The intro was giving ziwe 😂
I can see that he is a very sincere and good person!
Yeah unfortunately gay poc don’t get this type of support or a spotlight for coming out after literally traumatizing someone you had no interest in….
A big teddy bear and he's got the sweetest heart: who's to judge him
many many people.
I don't think abusing his ex makes him a sweetheart
Proud of what he has done and what he had to overcome. I relate so much to him growing up in a catholic household. I held my real self back until I was an older adult but the release of coming out is a relief
Thoughts for Cassie and her family. He wrote a book while he stayed with her knowing his truth. Her Mum nursed him back to health. Did he give the profits from the book to them?
This is hilariously ridiculous. But let's be honest, he was a total waste as 'The Bachelor '. But I'm happy for him and hope this works out well for him.
Was it me ? Or was the word “ privileged “ used to many times ?
I heard he came out because someone almost outed him. I hope that's not true. I did like the netflix documentary. Glad I gave it a watch to know about the person I've heard about from the other show I never watch. wishing him all the best.
The woman contestants ultimately got what they wanted, tv airtime
There is something to be said about the innocence and ignorance of "Baby Gay" culture....
It's funny how he brought public attention to his person when he came out. But isn't this something that people who get on shows like Bachelor seek?
I mean...he has some work still to do...but he does seem lighter...less constipated for sure.
Disliked! Poor Colton married an old troll who looks like Perez Hilton. I hope he doesn’t lose his muscles, or become a sad, old queen. He can still listen to country music, play football, and continue to be a muscular and handsome Adonis.
What’s the “R” word?
Ok I’m not the only one.
@@tomzandmicky8239 another word for someone with special needs
He makes me blush lol omg you are so adorable Colton……You make my knees shake and my face smile….. so dreamy….
Im watching Colton coming out on Netflix. I think its wonderful that he is doing this for himself. No longer having to be in shackles anymore. I noticed many things during his documentary.. The one that stands out the most is... Where is his apology to his HS girlfriend after he broke up with her for being sexual. All these years she had no idea the real reason he broke up with her, his own inner demands and took it out on her. At some point Colton, there are amends you must make yourself to people you have hurt. Even from the Bachelor show, the final 4 women and the one he chose. Come out and make an apology for those who have been hurt by you. Heck even me, the viewer of Bachelor, I too have been deceived by you. Yes their are legit reasons but, still the audience still should receive an apology. That would be the right thing to do. Happy for you!! Until he apologizes to many including me,audience, Cassie, final 4, HS girlfriend and others. He will still be a privileged white lying male who has dooped us all.
The sexual chemistry is on fire. 1, 2, 3 flirt... 1, 2, 3 flirt... lol.
Colton is like a big kid... like a huge teddy bear....so sweet...
Ok nice. Really well asked. Reflected upon. And answered authentically... from where you are.....nice....
Colton demonstrates how real it is for gay men to hide and their anxiety and the escalating social taboo of being gay in a much larger context & the fire & brimstone consequences real or imagined for each of us VIs-a-VIs the idea of being a man of faith or religious or spiritual .... you know? It ain't easy.... rejection is real, bullying is real, violence is real, being disowned by family & friends is real, not knowing what to do or how to do it is real, etc.
Great interview. I luved how human it was. And I didn't get a sense of trying to catch Colton in something like many segments like this do.... especially for lgbtqia folks.... because you weren't born knowing all the answers & being a role model for the entire community. Lol.
Thank you for such an authentic & honest dialog.... without shaming or dissecting toxic privilege or masculinity as a punitive weapon....to prove he isn't one of us or needs consequences for his actions.... we beat each other's up a lot, but mostly ourselves when we don't have forgiveness or empathy in our hearts.....we are not perfect....
At the end of the day, accountability is great. And needed sure.... but how can you be accountable in a vacuum, without safety or awareness or exploration into self & identity or at least some support and self-acceptance?
Colton is who he is... and he made choices like all of us.... some good, some not great, but that was his journey & he's learning & growing... as best as he can....and I see a happier man willing to look at himself & his choices... and that reach for responsibility.....and proverbial accountability......but let's be honest, there is so much more to life....
Well done mate.
Ps.... what was the show Colton did on Netflix? And is it currently still on now ---in dec 2021?
Will someone please share the name of the show and more information?
It's called Coming Out Colton and it's on Netflix now. It's about him coming out, etc. It's 6 episodes...not sure if they'll be a Season 2 or not.
@@Krisarooooo thanks. I found it. And watched the 6part series. It was really well done I thought. Oh, I thought it was a one & done. Interesting, if another season. Hmmm.
Great for kids to watch with their parents if boys or girls are lgbtqia+ or if they are not for empathy with others-- with bullying, fear, hiding, toxic masculinity or impact of repressing who you are & forced to live a double life... How your actions may be colored by that unhappiness.
@@fc8240 You're so welcome! I haven't had the pleasure of watching it yet, but can't wait to!
I too think kids or anyone in general can really learn something about watching his story unfold. I always liked Colton...yes, he's done some shitty things, but haven't we all? It's about learning and growing and I'm happy he's found and shared his truth!
@@Krisarooooo it's worth the time. Gotta admit- I didn't really know him. But, I'm glad I watched. Amazing for kids & their parents-- let's build a more empathetic and tolerant and creative world.
@@fc8240 yes, it's about time... what a world it would be!
Congrats, Colton on coming out as your True Self!!!! There is NO shame in your game!! Love you brother!! We all love you and care about you. Most people when they throw scriptures out at you, do not know what was going on in the culture of the Hebrew people at that time. Also, Jesus himself NEVER said ANYTHING about homosexuality. I loved your comment: "I am a baby all over again in a 29 year old body!!! You are out of the closet, so live your life the way you want!!!
To all gay men in closet out there, STOP AND STOP use women to hide your actual sexuality just because you too coward to live as an openly gay men. It's hurt and painful for women to finally find out that her boyfriend/husband is a gay man. Be brave and be who you are and stop using women in this disgusting way.
You do realize that coming out can be a really hard process for some people due to religious beliefs and homophobic families, right? Not everyone is lucky enough to have wonderful open-minded people in their lives. Some people have to literally be somebody else just because their countries don't allow them to be gay because it's illegal, some countries literally throw gays off buildings. You're probably one of the lucky ones who were born in a good family environment and you never really experienced any of those type of homophobia so before you speak, try to think deeper next time. Not everything is about you, honey. Some people do want to be themselves but they just can't, not because they're fucking "cowards" like you said but because they just can't and won't want to risk their lives. So don't just say ignorant shit like that without knowing someone's background or family.
@@thefreehealer792 i do understand what coming out can be. I am a trans woman from a Muslim country. I lost my closet since i start my transition at 13 years old of age. I'm a victim of bully, a victim of paedophile, a victim of trans bashing, a victim of discrimination and more. All these made me strong and brave and i never use nor exploit anyone. So, if you are a gay man, don't talk about coming out issues with trans people. We have it worst than homosexual people. Only trans people will lose our closet once we start our transition journey unlike lesbian, gay and bi people they still have their closet ready to hide at anytime despite have came out (if you understand what i mean). Now tell me what ignoring shit I'm talking about? I assume that you also need to stop bulshitting women and proud to be who you are
Good for him!!
Um he stalked his ex relentless, put a tracker on her freaking car and threatened her life. Why are y'all highlighting him??
EXACTLY
Oh one of those people who still can’t move on.
P E R I O D👏🏼
Again, he addresses this in his show. Do grow up, please.
@@gumbodance IKR! I guess in today’s gen an apology is not a thing anymore and that’s sad.
He is making a lot of money surely. Lots of interviews. Has found is own way to be a millionaire just for telling he is gay.
Colton is cool!
The sexual chemistry tho ahaha
As gay, we have been there. And in the end we do it because we don't feel safe, it's really contradicting and frustrating, I'm glad he is true to himself which tells us it's never to late to start again and live your life.
Love you Colton, you are the best. Live your life and be happy. 😊🤗♥️♥️
He seems like such a nice guy, BUT he abused a woman. He stalked her. He tracked her. He harmed a woman that he said he loved. That spells mental instability.So…great that he has moved on, but I HOPE we can realize how hurtful you can be trying to hide yourself. Get some help dude. ? I know your Mom loves you , but I feel so sorry for her. I hope you figure life out. You have the ability to be a David not a Saul.
Aren't you judgemental
Its judgmental to point out what he did??
@@Karensmclarenn yeah it is but we all did made mistake just no one to judge us
STALKING AND PUTTING A TRACKER ON A WOMAN’S CAR IS PSYCHO!! The fact that he was gay and never even liked her makes it EVEN MORE PSYCHO!! The show was an interesting take on a coming out story but it definitely isn’t the narrative gay men need trying to represent us. This should be presented as a COLTON show and not a lgbt/gay one like they tried to make it.
All of you keep on saying this and that concerning your own or other peoples opinions or the church etc..but nothing like what would Jesus Christ say about all this.Actually his word is the most decisive and important thing.The key to your eternity is only in his hands.And if he died for your sins and you reject him ,think what it means for you.
Colton keeps saying that Cassidy is his best friend...does he mean the Cassidy that he chose from his Bachelor season?
No, the Cassidy he is referring to is in his documentary, she's the second person he comes out to.
is this the first ever interview done in a mirror?
Lol
So is he gonna take accountability and apologize for his toxic behavior in this series? Or are we just gonna pretend he’s gay now so it’s ok what he did to Cassie?
yeah he did
@@abderrahmenetabetaoul726No, he didn’t. She has a gag order. They didn’t even put up a warning label for DV.
🙄 and this is why there will never be peace in the world. You’re totally part of the problem. Colton has explained the situation. He explained why it is so complicated even now. This guy didn’t only do Cassie wrong. He screwed many people over, just as you and I have. He is working on rectifying that and that has been abundantly clear. Now to continuously harp on this Cassie thing while Cassie herself has said very little about the show is just you relentlessly fishing for drama. Move on. He screwed up, he is fixing that part of his life. Out there, we have real abusive, violent men who truly are dangerous and you’re just laser focused on this one dude that was spiralling because of the pain he was going through, while having never really harmed anyone before that. Have a little bit more humanity bud!!
@@SavvyGirl751 what more exactly do you think he should’ve done? I mean the matter was between the two of them and eventually had legal intervention. So what do you think we should do further? Undo the past? This guy is not abusive. He might have been in that relationship but he is not an abusive man. There is a THIICK line between a toxic relationship and an abusive partner. Yes he fucked up but I really don’t know what more should be done now???? Have you even watched the show?
@@sam_6447 I'm sorry. Real Abusive? Yikes. Not you saying abuse only counts it its physical. So yes, no on is perfect. But I can proudly say I've never done what he did nor even got close. People act like he was just a good guy that did a bad thing and is trying to change. But he wasn awful guy that did an awful thing and...got a show to promote what exactly? Only 1 episode is truly dedicated to talking about the main issue. The rest is just...fluff. It's weird how the majority of people that are defending him are also calling him hot.
HANDSOME GOOD SWEET MAN... WISHING HIM ALL AND ONLY THE BEST!
Im not buying it
Not buying what exactly? What do you not "buy"? Try to be more positive and compassionate for people, it'll be greater beneficial for your inner peace, babe. Trust me. Spread love starting today!😘❤❤😊
Colton is a nice guy, with a tremendous support network. What Is remarkable how well he is timed for success in playing in the NFL, doing the bachelor, coming out and the doing the Netflix series. Now he is dating a Demorat fundraiser and is into this woke culture that is going to reward $$ him very well… 🤪
This is what you get when you are good looking and comes out and want to share your secret that you have kept hidden while being a total creep towards females for a long time(the way he came out almost sounded like he had incurable brain cancer or something), Netflix throws a show after you, because personality he has not…..not trying to be a hater, but can’t stand that guy.
Then just move along, is it hard to do? A lot of poeple love Colton and his show
@@user-wy2iv2vr7t yes you love this creeper for absolutely no reason other than he's cute is that it? Sure doesn't take much🙄
@@TRACEWORLD2 Who are you to call people that. I'm sure if we judged you you would be absolutely flawless in your day to day life is it? He was interesting enough for like 3 seasons of the bachelor. And now homophobes decided for some reason that it's ok to attack him
Both of them can make a hot cute couple just sayin 👬❤❤
« Why is your story important? » , « why should you get a deal for a show rather than someone else? » ....... Um, have you taken a look at him? He’s the most gorgeous man in Hollywood. Not his fault.
LA QUIERO EN ESPAÑOLLLLLLLLLLLLL
POR FAVOR
He's just so...basic lol
Like, this story of a Conservative Christian White dude is not groundbreaking in 2021. I'm sorry, but it isn't. Like, we have heard voices like his and identical stories like his since the 90s.
We rarely ever get to to hear the voice of a Muslim lesbian coming out, or a conservative Hindu gay man living in the West story!?
There are soooo many other LGBT stories and experiences...yet the TV networks always just go for the "Cute white Christian boy" trope 🙄
He actually exposed the world of football and sport in general, that still in 2021 is a homophobic environment. I think it was a good thing actually
It’s always the white gays™️ that get to be “the face” like when love Simon came out first THEN they rolled out love victor.
@@KaliforniaToni exactly! We rarely ever see Asian Gay stories in Western media...or Indian LGBT voices...and these Gays have legitimate stories to share too!
Hater
Pass!
He is and has been so confused.. I pray for him. God made him a man!!!!
Wtf kind of question is that?? LOL 😂🤦♀️🤦♀️
He so feminine now he hid it so well
He let it slip a few times on the show. I commented on it and guessed he was secretly gay to my fiance while we watched the Bachelor. Turns out I was right.
@@BTyler808 what do you mean LOL
@@josedelcid3965 When he was on the Bachelor the TV show
@@BTyler808 what did he tell your fiancé
Ohhh I understand I thought he texted your husband haha
The master manipulator.....all in the name of instafollowers. No thanks, Colton. You should make a public apology straight away, to Cassie, for putting her through all this.I'm disgusted. Be gay, be straight.... it doesn;t matter.....when you're just not a good human being. He admits he was attempting "conversion therapy" on himself, he knew... for a long time. How he went through the bachelor recruiting process to date 30 women, fooling america, hurting an innocent girl, who didn't even want to be with him, he coerced her into giiving it a chance, I have a hard time feeling sorry...confused or not, you dont go out and live a lie on public TV, in attempt to get instagram followers and gain relevancy. It's really hard to respect him or believe anything he says anymore.
I really wish he would tell everybody how much money he has made with books, TV shows etc off of him being gay!.....
Colton when it comes to "Can I be gay and still have God in my life" just remember that Jesus only hung out with men. 12 of them to be pacific tho John the Baptist was Jesus's fav. In Jesus's 33 years on earth he never dated a female. When I was 12 year old I thought Oh Wow!! Jesus was gay and never suffered at the hands of haters. I wish Jesus could have set up the human race for success were they born to be gay but at least he addressed the issue by preaching love for your brothers and we are our brothers keeper etc Jesus definitely supported gay is what I interpretation Even in Jesus's day people were very verbal with their thoughts and physical with their feelings especially with other peoples business. I pray that your Journey including your book will help save the life of even one young gay struggling with the way he was born. I laughed and I cried my way thru your whole Journey and now I wish you Love and Happiness as now you finally have It All 💞from🇨🇦
Doesnt wash his jeans? Sounds about wyt
To be fair, they were wasting their own time watching the show, which history and the track record of people actually being together...proves
Do you all want to know what ultimate privilege is? It is the privilege to have the freedom and audacity to actually tell someone they are privileged. Let's talk about liberal privilege next.
Yeah the hypocrisy and lack of self-awareness is off the charts, but when you’re in a cult, you have to expect cult-like behavior
Exactly. It's really bizarre that these people have the audacity to tell someone to their face that they are privileged without knowing anything about them except surface level things. Makes me mad. Liberals are going to get crushed in these mid terms and they will lose Congress and the Senate...
Good for him living his true self.
today as compared to yesterday has me naustated by this. This is comparison which is bad to do. NO two people are the same and comparing oneself with another is bad. Colton came out on Netflix in a show and all boyfriends should be weary of Colton for that.