My mom visited me in a dream.
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- Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
- The love and kindness meditation I mentioned:
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“Mouther wounds” are real! It’s always huge benefit to be able to articulate the range of emotions. Acknowledging the impact of the trauma while recognizing and being thankful for the blessings in the experience. It’s important to affirm your love for mom. The balanced approach! Especially because she is still with you in the physical form. Hope that dream continues to bring you ✌🏿. (Positive Energy Always Creates Elevation)
I did a similar meditation focused on my brother after being frustrated by the negativity between us. Seeing him compassionately and really internalizing that feeling changed my behavior toward him. I never told him I was making this effort, and although it took some time, his behavior toward me started to change in response to how I was treating him. I hadn't realized I was part of the problem. If you want to change the world, start with yourself.
Word my brother. This is a very helpful comment. Thankyou
amazing and so true
That's crazy, My higher self has been having me focus on kindness recently, I tottally think this is a message!
im really happy you had a chance to have a healing moment with her! thank you for the advice- im not sure im ready to do that yet with my dad, but maybe one day
Take your time, I can relate
I have a similar relationship with my mom, and I was tearing up throughout this video. This is so helpful Janelle, thank you!! I'm definitely going to try meditating about this.
Thanks for watching and resonating with it
Thanks for watching and resonating with it
I don't pay much attention to my dreams, but I do think that there can be a discharge of emotional trauma through dreams for reasons unknown and unknowable to us. Good luck.
I constantly do stuff like this, I have maladaptive daydreaming and I'm glad I do, because it's helpful, feels good and I'm not hurting anyone 😁 glad you had this beautiful dream! I'm sure you'll treasure it forever. Our mind really is a powerful thing
Sorry for my bad English
Holy hell. I've never heard of this before/ just looked it up and can relate to nearly all of it. So intresting! and no worries
I didn’t realize there was a term for this. I was sick a lot as a kid and had to remain calm and quiet and I developed this as a coping mechanism. To this day I use it to cope with loss and longing.
@@gracesimplified3860I'm sorry to hear that. Hey, at least now you know. I first thought I was crazy (maybe I am), the only one who does this 😁
Good point. I'm not a doctor but I think writers do a variation of maladaptive daydreaming all the time, in order to tell stories. They have to get so deep into their characters and the storyline that they sort of live in a different world. And once they get inside this world, it tells them the story because they are living in it. This process is essential to be a good writer. Although, this may also explain why so many writers are depressed, alcoholics, and often succumb to suicide.
Writers are not the only people who experience an altered state of reality. Most artists have to explore a rabbit hole of some kind, in order to create. Some feel that the altered state of reality that many artists live in, is not a negative one but in fact it makes them more aware. And it's this awareness that reveals the true nature of existence. Once they see the world clearly...for what it truly is...they conclude that they don't actually exist. And then they kill themselves. This is what happens when you reduce life to a mathematical equation.
This also may explain the existence of religion and spirituality. It's a way to protect the human mind from the dangers of too much logic. A form of self-defence, perhaps. Therefore, all data must be filtered in order to sustain human life...or in other words, consciousness.
The compromise between extreme logic and extreme spirituality...is a hybrid theory. A willingness to embrace the universe and collect all the data that you can. Explore all the rabbit holes and see where they lead but interpret the data in a way that gives it purpose and meaning. As much or as little as you want. In other words the answer to every question in life...is creativity. This idea, if employed correctly, can be extremely empowering and can allow a person to experience a very full life.
Thank you for sharing ♥️
I love how simple and truthful this video is. I love the direction your channel is taking. I am FULLY along for the ride. Sending love to all from Greece.
On the same emotional boat.
Thanks for sharing.
I love this idea of love&kindness meditation. I’ll try it and hope it helps.
It's a beautiful guided meditation! Definitely try it when your up for it
It's a beautiful guided meditation! Definitely try it when your up for it
Dreams are totally a different dimension sometimes I don't feel like waking up because I know those who have died 😔 💔 are there. The Dead do communicate 💀 through Dreams.
Soooooo very happy for you and for your healing.
Thank you for all your videos!
I LOVE this! I’m going to try this. Thank you for sharing!
A social worker once said she believed most of my emotional issues stemmed from the "overt rejection" by my mother as well as my parents divorce and consequently rejection by my father. Unfortunately she died in 2012 without ever apologizing or even acknowledging that she ever mistreated me. So I will never have closure. I can very much identify with you and I am glad that seem to be working through your mother issues.
Janelle, may the peace and healing you received in your dream continue to be carried over into your waking life. You deserve to feel all the love and security you may not have always felt and needed. Take care of yourself and know that we are out here loving you and feeling the love you are putting out here with your courageous vulnerability and strength. 💕
I can’t wait to try this mediation!
I’ve been able to see a lot of things from my father’s perspective since he passed, and I’m much more at peace than I was 7 months ago. The goal now is to share that with every interaction, especially on my off days.
This dream I feel like is healing coming to u. I'm glad to brought u peace. From my experience of dreams, I think it means ur relationship with ur mom is going to be better in the future. Often it's hard to believe coz the reality now could be the opposite. But i feel like healing and resorption is coming ur way.
That would be lovely
That would be lovely
Just did the most minimal version of the thought exercise you suggested, and instantly started crying and feeling a lot of emotional release. I'm going through a difficult time where I've felt very numb and empty, not being able to connect with my emotions, and this made me feel things in a very real way. Thank you.
Wow. Thank you for sharing. I recommend instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist/ she has wonderful tips if you want to check her out
What a crazy way to mediate. I never thought about doing that. I have to try it now!!
I'd love to hear how it goes for you!
I needed this so much right now. Not only has my relationship with my mom been very toxic, but now my relationship with my son has suddenly turned toxic. Your dream is inspiring.
Best of love in both those situations
thats great, have fun you guys!
I like all of your videos, light and heavy.
Love your videos, watching you is like seeing my daughter again. I started watching your video last year You reminded me of my beloved daughter same way she converse and act and Kind of look alike. I feel for you just like I did for my daughter and I hope you will always be happy and be able to fight the bad times. Thank you for your videos And please remember you are not alone and you have people who care and love you even if you don’t see them. Enjoy your journey......
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Nooshin
Thank you!
Wow, wow ,wow,!
Amazing video, thanks for sharing, your awesome journey, and your life changing dream!
Wow,wow,wow!
She was whole...before this life started taking from her. Then, when we die we go back to the source of all love for a refill before moving on to our next journey💛
Have you heard of the "7 round compassion contemplation?" You should look it up because it really helps release everything.
I had a similar dream and it was a very vivid experience, I dreamed that I was visiting my school and for the first time, time had passed (I'm always stuck in a period of time from when I was 13 to 15 a time where I was severely bullied) and the principal came up to me to say hi, we chatted for a bit and then he apologized to me, because he knew about the bullying but not really did anything about it. I really appreciated that and felt a weight lifting off of me.
(English is not my first language, sorry for mistakes)
I loved this video and thank you for the meditation tip!!
I miss your videos! I wish you’d come back. Hope all is well :)
He handles the moment beautifully, and does many things to you. I got what you got from being yours because everything for you that you did for me, which you thought for me, has kept everything intact. this shayari is your story, there is a moment, you have mentioned it in a few words, you may like it.
Please make more content like this 💛
When my father died, I had a dream where we were sitting in his old living space. Fish were flying around us and I'm pretty sure he was a zombie (he's usually a zombie in later dreams) and I remember him saying, "at least we'll still have moments like these."
I'm glad you had a healing dream as well. I'm also glad your mom is still alive. Maybe you two can create a better relationship? I know it can be hard, since I still have major issues with my mom. But I can still hope :)
I'm not sure if better will mean closeness, but I think better for sure. I had to want to want this for a long time before I wanted it, if that makes sense
Good video. By all means, please do more like this one.
thank you!
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Thanx for this video, it's beautiful! xoxo
I LOVE YOU ❤️
I don't think I've ever had a dream like this.
I have had very active dreams and visions lately.
One for example , involved two large toy donkeys appearing on our front lawn. Me petting and brushing one on the face to make its fur nice. Until someone I was with freaked out when they saw a dog's bone in the other ones eye (like seen through the plastic toy eye the bone in the head of the large donkey).
Which led to me opening the other ones head (zip) and like, six fluffy black and white kittens falling out.
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Ahem, anyway yeah, weird
What does it mean if you're lucid dreaming from an ancestor
I do like it.
Great video thanks for sharing I was hoping it wasn't a bad dream LOL
My mum died so I love to see her in my dreams.
Were you in Ubud?
Are you coming back to the hospital???
I am back in your dream. So where are you, and how are you doing?
*Loving Kindness
ahh sorry! The link is correct though
@@JanellKristina yeah it is. I checked it out
:) I'm glad you had such a soothing and comforting experience after practicing it
dude is like she still alive? i honestly feel like shit might have gotten bad for her in india...hope not but dam maybe
Is there an email where I could privately message you?
Goodness Ur stunning,lets hold hands hahah Sorry im weird....Meow
Please don’t throw RUclips.
I wouldn't expect such a potty mouth from a yoga teacher
Loved your video. But I find your use of the word"like" too distracting. Unsubscribing.
Awwwe the title made me smile. I'm so happy for you.
I was tearing up watching this. Our relationships with our parents are so complex. Definitely going to try this. So cool and crazy you two ran into eachother. Seems meant to be. Thank you for making videos again!
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My parents made a lot of mistakes raising me and my sibs. One thing that's helped me be more understanding/forgiving of that is the realization of how flawed the parents who raised them were, and how young they were when they had me. So, they didn't get a good foundation in their upbringing, and they didn't have much experience being adults before they became parents. When I can view it as them doing the best they could with what they had, I'm way more compassionate and accepting in my view of them. I'd be happy to see more videos like this. Thanks for sharing your story.
Same here, they did much better by their kids than their parents did by them and for that I'm greatful
@@JanellKristina So great that you have that perspective--I saw a Brene Brown interview where she posed the question: what if everyone (we judge) is doing the best they can? Because, I know I'm doing the best I can--so they probably are, too. (even the most messed up people may be doing their best in this crazy life.) When we can see others that way, we're forced to give up some to the criticism of them that we carry (I carry a lot!) and be more OK letting them be them, flaws and all. I know it was a milestone for me to learn to accept my parents as imperfect, and stop being mad at them for not living up to my expectations (being the perfect people I thought as a kid they should be), and to quit expecting them to function at my level. Maya Angelou said when someone shows you who they are, believe them. So adjusting my expectations of people to be realistic has been huge for me. Peace to us on our journey!
@Faffy Yes, it's hard to be around people like that. Posing as perfect usually comes from a deep sense of insecurity and being NOT ok with oneself. Maybe their inner self is just a scared little child who never felt worthy or good enough, so they overcompensate with that posture. If you can decide to view them with compassion for their insecurity, and love them despite their flaws , (and of course set healthy boundaries when appropriate) you will probably be happier in your relationship with them. Good luck!
This breaks my heart, my mom and I don't have the best relationship ever either. I'm 20 and I feel like I'm going to be struggling with the same thing for a very very long time. Love you Janelle I watch all your videos and I relate to you ALOT, down to like our degrees and where you come from ha.
Big love to my fellow nurses
I swear I relate to ur videos more and more
I feel good about what I'm putting out now so thank you!
I really think i was meant to listen to this today
I dedicate this video to you then
You guys attracted each other! Twice! 😂
Thanks for sharing I can relate.. I would love to experience these vivid dreams, I think I subconsciously block them because I’m scared of what I might see.
Janell is such a sweetie 😢🤧
I will have to check it the meditation. I have been trying to balance my energy, chakras, and heal from a lot of things. A LOT. I don’t meditate enough but I do have a lot of sleep paralysis which turns into lucid dreaming and I experience a lot of symbolic stuff involving healing. I always begin in my bedroom and get up and my house turns into a different place as I walk around from room to room. About two weeks back I had a dream where my dad and step mom were right there in this big open auditorium and I asked “why are you guys here?” (Meaning in the dream) and my step mom said, “We are here to listen.” It is kind of too bad because the older I get I have so many things I want to say about my past but I can’t because I want to steer clear of hurting anyone’s feelings.
Hi Janell! Hope you're enjoying your travels so far:) I'm currently a master's student and I'm interested in spending a month abroad next May. I'm interested in hearing more about how you finance your travels
I miss you Janell! I hope you are safe and healthy during this difficult time. Whenever you are able, I hope we can see you and hear what's the latest with you. Stay safe and healthy! 💗
Yet again. Another great video. I needed this. I will try this. Thanks 💗
You are the loveliest young lady on RUclips, in my opinion. I wish you love and success on your continuing journey.
What a powerful encounter. I too had a very powerful dream, just a few days ago. It was simply of my family eating dinner together at a restaurant. That was all.
But everyone was so happy and there wasn’t any sign of awkward tension or fear, like I usually have. My younger brother passed away just a few months ago in a terrible car wreck. He was at the dinner too, and while I was amazed to see him in my dream, I felt like he wasn’t the focus necessarily. The focus was how happily we got along. No sadness from his passing, no silence from disagreement or ‘moderately fucked up childhoods’. Just laughter and a nice meal together.
Wow that's amazing
Great video. My mom is emotionally abusive to me. For the past few months I am actively working on healing myself. I read one book about toxic parents and then another one about toxic mother's. It's hard and uncomfortable knowing how your mom really feels about you but I want to hear myself so I can be happier in my life. I can't ever imagine doing that meditation and thinking of my mom as her highest self. Maybe one day but Iam not ready now. Iam still angry with my mom.
Yeah I can relate, no pressure you can't force something like this. I'm proud of you for learning more about it and gaining awareness on how you feel. It's a huge step
@@JanellKristina Yes thank you it is a huge step for me. The more I realize things about my mom it's very sad and uncomfortable but I acknowledge it now instead of suppressing. Maybe once I grieve the relationship I wish I had with my mom I will be able to do this but as of right now Iam still sad that we don't have a good mother daughter relationship. This is such a good idea anyways. I never thought to think of anyone in that way.
truly love all these videos of you sharing about who you are and your journey. it is definitely something i can relate to on a surreal level. sending love thank you so much.
I had a dream just last night about my former partner! We're going through another (our second) breakup, and there has definitely been some trauma in our relationship, and in the dream, I was trying to find him on this forested trail, despite this threat of danger. It's always felt like we've been on different paths, and it was crazy to see this actually visualized. It's hard to admit that those paths are probably not headed in the same direction.
OMG... I had similar experience with my dad after he passed.
I had something similiar too. I had a familiar constellation ( I hope that is the correct word in English) and there I had to hug my father and this experience was sooo deep and curing ( i hadn’t had any contact with him for years now )
After this I decided to contact him again and since then we talk again and it feels good . Very impressive is also that the same day of the constellation familiar my ex boyfriend contacted me again . He sended me a video with our song . Since then we had contact again and now we are in love again and are a couple again 🥰. That is very interesting because the women who did the constellation familiar with me said that all my problems in relationships came from my broken relationship with my dad . And without doing anything just minutes after the experience my ex boyfriend sended me the video. I strongly believe there is much more energy out there that we still aren’t aware of. I can recommend this kind of forgiveness meditations because we all have topics with our parents . It can be very healing
This was a nice video :’)
Thank you for always sharing your honesty. Love the growth and healing you’re doing 🧡
Awe💖 i find when im better theyre better too
I find it really brave of you to share your story here! You're so inspirational 🖤
This is beautiful ❤️
Hey!
Glad to see you again!
Awesome stuff!!!
Cant wait to watch this vid!!
Janell
cultivating metta, maitri or loving kindness towards one self through daily meditation is a very effective way of widening the circle of compassion. I’ve been practicing being there for myself every day, sitting, feeling whatever is happening in life and trying not to judge thoughts, emotions, people.
the willingness to sit and stay with an open heart and an open mind is like an act of loyal friendship and it is certainly an act of courage. It has shown me that ones suffering is the same as everybody else’s and that we are in this path to break the pattern of trying to aliviate our pain by doing more of what exacerbates it.
I very much enjoy this type of video, thank you for sharing some of those powerful experiences.
It makes me very happy to know that many others are practicing these valuable teachings!
Much love and many blessings to you and to all!!
this whole comment is so beautiful thank you