Story 1: All of this can easily be avoided with a divorce; the night the wife confess to her cheating or the moment she acting like an ass and stopped being affectionate, but OP said "NOPE, let's nurture years worth of resentment and start an affair because why the hell not?" Its like people are allergic in being a mentally sound adult and do shits the right way
Wife still would have ended herself if OP divorced her instead of having a revenge affair, and kids still would have blamed OP. The only difference is OP would be leaving the marriage with half his stuff instead
Story 1 both parents are trash and if cheating wife felt regretful for cheating then she should have kept her legs closed and op should have divorced her with hard evidence to get rid of her smh sad cruel world
Yet another example of why you NEVER take cheaters back: even after she cheated an pinned a child on you, she found a way to blame and project on you. Sure she might have "behaved better" in the first years, but it always comes a time where entitlement comes in. Honestly, it's not his fault in my opinion, they were all but divorced at the time of his affair, and there's plenty things to do other than suicide, she just wanted something drastic
**Story 1:** In my opinion, the husband is the lesser evil in the story. His wife cheated on him and got pregnant with another man's child, so at that point, the marriage is already mentally over. Therefore, I don't see him stepping out as a big deal. I don’t understand why the comments are trying to portray him as the bigger evil in this situation when he is not.
I agree. She betrayed him in numerous ways, which fundamentally changed him. Saddled him with another man's child, used her trauma to further destroy the relationship until he lost love for her and he moved on, she acted on her own impulses once more at the expense of everyone else. I don't see how he is the villain.
Look if the kids who are now adults have been informed of the truth, and still don't want to reconcile with the dad. Then the kids can go enjoy their life and dad should move on with his life and go no contact with those kids.
Story 1: This marriage should have ended when the wife cheated and got pregnant. They BS'd it and stayed together, just hurting everyone in the process. The wife's accusations were likely projection and she was likely still cheating. She clearly snapped when OP's infidelity came to light because she likely realized that she had finally pushed her husband away and thought her married lifestyle was over. She took the coward's way out when she was the one who had set this all into motion. I really hope he can work on his relationship with his children. This is another prime example of why you don't keep secrets like this from people.
Well, karma will catch up to OP's kids, before too long; if the sons get cheated on by their wives/girlfriends and the daughter marries a guy who's a cheater, has a kid on the way, and the daughter gets cheated on by her husband, has a baby on the way, and ends up having to raise her baby as a single mother, they'll come to OP, and beg him to forgive them, but he'll tell them to kick rocks.⚠️
@@danacarter9147 fuck off lol. I would hope his sons have the self respect and wherewithall to leave instead of staying in a relationship and then revenge cheating
Story 3 is 12 years old. There was an update 10 years ago, but you can't see it, didn't get approved by the mods or whatever. There aren't many comments either, so you can't tell what the update was about.
1st OP should've left after she cheated and got knocked up by another guy. He also shouldn't have stayed silent regarding the affair baby. I don't see him as being in the wrong but as a few people mentioned, he was merely the lesser evil. He shouldn't have been silent regarding how his wife treated him during the three years before his emotional affair. This is a cautionary tale on why staying together for the kids is not a great idea if the relationship is this damn toxic.
Sunken Cost Fallacy terrifies folks. Losing half of your 💩 is a hard reality . To bust your ass for 20-30 years to gain wealth and have to give it up to some skunk and maybe have to work another 10 years or more.
1) op was in thr right in all of this, he isnt a good person but a lesser evil, wife cheated first then got pregnant, from affair had op raise the kid then when the same thing happen to her she hated it and was angry, and comment self termination, she didnt even take th time to consider how OP felt when she cheated on him, she was hypocritical, she didnt think about other, her affair child, her family or counselling, its her mostly fault, Op is a douche in a lesser case because of the double affair, 2)OP's dad has a jelly spine, they all knew what is happening, then decide to rearrange things to give them advantage, 3) Mark is a AH possible worse than john,
STOP PROTECTING CHEATERS HONOR !!!! Sadly, they have none. Expose them and don't let the cheater control the narrative. Especially if kid#3 is an affair kid. They need to know their true parentage.
That is not a wife that thing is pure evil. Nothing is even in the same Universe as paternity fraud. It is the Worst act that a human can do period. . They are Incapable of any form of love. She ended herself because she only cares about herself.
I would have never raised her affair baby. I would have told the adult kids i dont care and they should never expect me to do or leave anything to them
She destroyed the trust, saddled him with an affair baby, started acting irrationally further eroding a strained marriage and projecting on to him her own deceit and betrayal pushing him away. Created an unhealthy push and pull relationship until she pushed him far enough away and then acted as impulsively and selfishly at the very end. Cheating is cheating, sure, however to imply with your comment this is black and white and he is just as bad or worse is as basement dweller/chronically online moral reasoning as you can get.
cheating is something you do playing monopoly. Betrayal is the worst crime possible that a "male" I used that term because i cant think of a lesser can do. It is unforgiveable. And It is never the BS fault.
Last story, I knew he was cheating. Good for taking your dog. He's gonna give some BS story, but he'll also try to come crawling back to you as the one who got away.
Ah yes the classic she neglected and didn't have intimacy with me so i went for another woman cheating excuse, honestly the wife, op and the friend all suck here.
It wasn't cheating for him. There was no Marriage or relationship after what the wife Did. You cant betray your betrayer. Now He stupid as hell for staying and thinking he could fix it but all that did was to make her look down on him even more if that was possible. And if your SO doesn't sleep with you for 3 years for no other reason than they don't feel like it there is no relationship.
It sounded more like he was no longer in love with the wife and fell into love with another woman. He basically checked out which happens quite a lot in these stories. If she was mad he cheated back, she should have left. She was selfish.
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Story 1: All of this can easily be avoided with a divorce; the night the wife confess to her cheating or the moment she acting like an ass and stopped being affectionate, but OP said "NOPE, let's nurture years worth of resentment and start an affair because why the hell not?" Its like people are allergic in being a mentally sound adult and do shits the right way
Yeah your right but OP have to make more of story out of it divorce would be to easy 😂
Exactly!! 💯
Wife still would have ended herself if OP divorced her instead of having a revenge affair, and kids still would have blamed OP. The only difference is OP would be leaving the marriage with half his stuff instead
Story 1 both parents are trash and if cheating wife felt regretful for cheating then she should have kept her legs closed and op should have divorced her with hard evidence to get rid of her smh sad cruel world
don't forget about the friend also being trash for having an emotional affair that led to sleeping with her friends husband
Yet another example of why you NEVER take cheaters back: even after she cheated an pinned a child on you, she found a way to blame and project on you.
Sure she might have "behaved better" in the first years, but it always comes a time where entitlement comes in.
Honestly, it's not his fault in my opinion, they were all but divorced at the time of his affair, and there's plenty things to do other than suicide, she just wanted something drastic
**Story 1:** In my opinion, the husband is the lesser evil in the story. His wife cheated on him and got pregnant with another man's child, so at that point, the marriage is already mentally over. Therefore, I don't see him stepping out as a big deal. I don’t understand why the comments are trying to portray him as the bigger evil in this situation when he is not.
I agree. She betrayed him in numerous ways, which fundamentally changed him. Saddled him with another man's child, used her trauma to further destroy the relationship until he lost love for her and he moved on, she acted on her own impulses once more at the expense of everyone else. I don't see how he is the villain.
Its Reddit bias. Men is and always will be the bigger evil in any situation.
It's reddit they hate men and he is a man so he has to be the bad guy
@@Knives7777 bunch of white knight
@@Knives7777
So true
OP's fault for taking the piece of shit back and having to deal with the mess. But then again he wouldn't have met with the other woman....
Look if the kids who are now adults have been informed of the truth, and still don't want to reconcile with the dad. Then the kids can go enjoy their life and dad should move on with his life and go no contact with those kids.
Story 1: This marriage should have ended when the wife cheated and got pregnant. They BS'd it and stayed together, just hurting everyone in the process. The wife's accusations were likely projection and she was likely still cheating. She clearly snapped when OP's infidelity came to light because she likely realized that she had finally pushed her husband away and thought her married lifestyle was over. She took the coward's way out when she was the one who had set this all into motion. I really hope he can work on his relationship with his children. This is another prime example of why you don't keep secrets like this from people.
Well, karma will catch up to OP's kids, before too long; if the sons get cheated on by their wives/girlfriends and the daughter marries a guy who's a cheater, has a kid on the way, and the daughter gets cheated on by her husband, has a baby on the way, and ends up having to raise her baby as a single mother, they'll come to OP, and beg him to forgive them, but he'll tell them to kick rocks.⚠️
@@danacarter9147 fuck off lol. I would hope his sons have the self respect and wherewithall to leave instead of staying in a relationship and then revenge cheating
Story 3 is 12 years old. There was an update 10 years ago, but you can't see it, didn't get approved by the mods or whatever. There aren't many comments either, so you can't tell what the update was about.
1st OP should've left after she cheated and got knocked up by another guy. He also shouldn't have stayed silent regarding the affair baby. I don't see him as being in the wrong but as a few people mentioned, he was merely the lesser evil. He shouldn't have been silent regarding how his wife treated him during the three years before his emotional affair. This is a cautionary tale on why staying together for the kids is not a great idea if the relationship is this damn toxic.
Sorry but op is nta, he had this affair after constant neglect and break ups, and even after his wife cheated on him
He should’ve gotten a damn divorce?
@@Afrogirrland lose loads of his financial assets despite being cheated on?
@@denizkenger52 Should’ve gotten a prenup 🤷🏻♀️ Don’t try to complain about an issue that you can easily solve.
Every time she left for 3 months, she was cheating again and blaming him to use it as an excuse to continue to cheat.
Why are people so allergic to just getting a freaking divorce????
Sunken Cost Fallacy terrifies folks. Losing half of your 💩 is a hard reality . To bust your ass for 20-30 years to gain wealth and have to give it up to some skunk and maybe have to work another 10 years or more.
1) op was in thr right in all of this, he isnt a good person but a lesser evil, wife cheated first then got pregnant, from affair had op raise the kid then when the same thing happen to her she hated it and was angry, and comment self termination, she didnt even take th time to consider how OP felt when she cheated on him, she was hypocritical, she didnt think about other, her affair child, her family or counselling, its her mostly fault, Op is a douche in a lesser case because of the double affair,
2)OP's dad has a jelly spine, they all knew what is happening, then decide to rearrange things to give them advantage,
3) Mark is a AH possible worse than john,
I only feel bad for the kids in the first story; both parents sound like hot garbage tbh
S1 has not been updated in 5 years thats likely going to be all we ever know about it.
STOP PROTECTING CHEATERS HONOR !!!! Sadly, they have none. Expose them and don't let the cheater control the narrative. Especially if kid#3 is an affair kid. They need to know their true parentage.
That is not a wife that thing is pure evil. Nothing is even in the same Universe as paternity fraud. It is the Worst act that a human can do period. . They are Incapable of any form of love. She ended herself because she only cares about herself.
I would have never raised her affair baby. I would have told the adult kids i dont care and they should never expect me to do or leave anything to them
Cheating is cheating.
Food for thought for the basement dwellers before they make excuses for one of them while antagonizing the other.
She destroyed the trust, saddled him with an affair baby, started acting irrationally further eroding a strained marriage and projecting on to him her own deceit and betrayal pushing him away. Created an unhealthy push and pull relationship until she pushed him far enough away and then acted as impulsively and selfishly at the very end. Cheating is cheating, sure, however to imply with your comment this is black and white and he is just as bad or worse is as basement dweller/chronically online moral reasoning as you can get.
cheating is something you do playing monopoly. Betrayal is the worst crime possible that a "male" I used that term because i cant think of a lesser can do. It is unforgiveable. And It is never the BS fault.
Once the wife cheats the marriage contract is already broken. The guy didn’t cheat.
One one of the partner cheats, they have no right to be mad or upset their partner did the same back.
Story 1: Am I supposed to feel bad for a doormat who agreed to raise the result of his wife’s one night stand?
Edit: Guy is just sad and dumb lol
Story 2 - I seemed to have missed the part where the father had a breakdown and lost his grandson.
Last story, I knew he was cheating. Good for taking your dog. He's gonna give some BS story, but he'll also try to come crawling back to you as the one who got away.
Ah yes the classic she neglected and didn't have intimacy with me so i went for another woman cheating excuse, honestly the wife, op and the friend all suck here.
It wasn't cheating for him. There was no Marriage or relationship after what the wife Did. You cant betray your betrayer. Now He stupid as hell for staying and thinking he could fix it but all that did was to make her look down on him even more if that was possible. And if your SO doesn't sleep with you for 3 years for no other reason than they don't feel like it there is no relationship.
It sounded more like he was no longer in love with the wife and fell into love with another woman. He basically checked out which happens quite a lot in these stories. If she was mad he cheated back, she should have left. She was selfish.
Story 1 should've just divorced.
These are very good stories here to support another Reddit story creator wish your channel the best!!
Maybe he shouldn't have fucking kept quiet, this mess wouldn't have happened if he decided to get away.
All u had to do was leave.
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