Yes the bitter feeling of being ugly knowing you go to sleep and wake up everyday feeling ugly.. 😴 any bit of confidence and happiness you felt just to go down the drain in a second when you see your face.. 0 motivation and energy ..damn i could go on and on
But nah it’s about confidence as these morons love to say also even if you feel comfortable about your ugly face doesn’t mean others will I tried to ignore it but people are odd
remember no ones ugly but everyone's different in a good way if u think about how u look u will become sad and depressed and then u will start to think about what others think u look like and dont think abt what others think about u bc who cares i know ur beautiful and so should u
why do you care what others people think, what made childhood so fun was how you didnt give a damn about what anyone thought all that mattered was having fun
@@Art1cM0k3yz no matter who u are,but I really appreciate and admire ur thoughts, hope u never change , cuz people like u are really found fewer , once again u go❤
You know, some people do call me beautiful but I can't accept that because from the inside I feel ugly and unhappy. Even if they say nice things it's futile if I don't love myself.
no not when it comes to these things...rrather when you are infront of camera and you think if you tell the ugly truth you will be judged you will hurt someone so
that's the most sweet thing about this interaction in my opinion being able to easily be open like that is a sign of a good relationship, and thats good to have when you feeling depressed
Its not about being happy im ugly and i can still be happy its having high self awareness enough to realize that your ugly but not depressed fighting that everyday sometimes looking in the mirror and use the only confidence i have left to say i look gd just for everyone to not bat an eye at you then i have to not fall and stay strong because i accepted my reality a long time ago im a man with a small you know so i can never have a girlfriend never leave a legacy or children behind there are a couple people out in the world same as me what chance do i have meanwhile business men go around acting like its not hard yet their handsome smart tall strong and I’m just useless
I am very ugly. I wish i could change my looks. I always get bullied because of my face. I was happy when i was a kid. I agree with the girl i dont remember the last time Where I was truly happy about my life.
I don't know what you look like but it's not what matters and I'm sure that you are very beautiful. The way we look really doesn't matter. The older I get the more I realize it I pray God reveal how beautiful you really are in Jesus name amen
I'm an ugly woman. I used to not understand this before but when people started to act like that around me i realized omg i really am so ugly. So i can relate. If i had money i would di plastic surgery
What surgery do you want to undergo? What exactly makes you ugly? Why don't you come to live and work in Switzerland? This way, you can make money for surgery ❤
@@Ciskuss Absolutely brutal brother, I'm 30 in the same predicament as you. What a tragedy for the both of us...and I don't have any social media since I'm just too ugly to have my face posted anywhere
Here are 15 things I hate about myself: - I’m so fat - I have a unibrow - I have pimples - I have bad teeth - I’m weird - I’m ugly - I’m too fat that working out doesn’t help - I’m too ugly that a mirror would break - I have insecurities - nobody likes me - my parents are never proud of me because I’m fat and they dk what I’m going through - I have anxiety and can’t fight it off - I pretend I’m fine - I’m shy - I’m just ugly overall
You know guys , I see myself in a random mirror or when somoene take pic of me I find myself soooo ugly, and I had friend who always laugh about my face one time they draw me , long nose smell eyes bad teeth and it hurtzd me a lot . But know when I grec up I realize something , when I smile my mouth is so beautiful my cheeks my Brown eyes open more and especially how I can feel the teeth happiness into my face . Then I see how beautiful I am . And I realize another thing everyone is so beautiful when they smile . When u smile u instantly beautiful !! That's why if u see urslef ugly , see urself smiling and u will se how beautiful u are ♡ . True beauty is in heart
I noticed this too people in the comments just mentioned the girl means she actually attractive. that really sad and hypocrisy of people that always said to stop called people ugly but their action said otherwise ..
@@nun1830women don’t owe you anything if they aren’t interested in you… women shouldn’t be blamed for men’s lack of affection just because they have a specific type. There’s many ways to get a girl besides how you look. Be a good provider, offer her stability for her future with you, or simply be a kind caring man to the woman you are romantically interested in. You don’t have to be super handsome to get female attention, you just need to put effort in yourself as a person sometimes which many men refuse to do. Even my own boyfriend pointed out how in Regular Show, Mordecai fumbled over and over again because he refused to change while Rigby got a steady girlfriend Eileen, because he made changes for her. Many men tend to think “I shouldn’t have to change for a woman to like me” but they don’t see how bad they are personally. My brother doesn’t even use soap to shower, wears the same clothes every week, lives with mom at age 27, still working the same low paying job he’s been for years, and he wonders why no girl he speaks to takes him serious. I wouldn’t take him serious either because he clearly doesn’t take adulthood seriously.
I'm suffering from a skin problem called vitiligo from childhood at that time people around me always make me realize that im ugly, I'm not like others etc because of them I really thought that I'm ugly I used to cry all day nighy everytime I used to hate myself so much that. I Couldn't accept the fact that I'm ugly I even couldn’t accept myself. It took me freaking 8 years to accept myself the way I am and now I dont care what people say about me now I realize that how beautiful I am. Now I really love myself that much that I even dont take medicine for my skin problem cz now I'm proud of myself and love myself the way I am after 8 years. JUST LOVE YOURSELF💜💜
Honestly I wish I could change everything about myself, I really hate this person I see in the mirror, the fact that all my life loneliness has followed me, to the point where I just want to quit permanently. I see people in public smiling and happy and it hurts because I would give anything to feel that.
I certainly relate to them .if you are ugly , the pain is not that visible but it is there like a hole that will never heal ..and you just learn to live with that
I was a latchkey kid growing and I was neglected and abused. Now I am an adult and the same parents who ignored me, put themselves first, and to this day don't listen to me, and want me to take care of them in their later years. Here is a reminder. The world is ran and controlled by narcissists on a power trip, and they enjoy your pain, my pain, all our pain. Whether it is parents, your boss, the president, congress, even acquaintances, none of them want to see you do or be better than them.
I wish I had a friend like you who I could speak about this to and you’d understand and I’d understand you. If my kid ended up the way my mom made me, I’d want to just off myself. I feel like I was failed and now I’m failing myself even more, as an adult. I’m trying but it never feels like I’m good enough. Unless I’m constantly ignoring my own needs to help my family then I don’t feel good enough. They did this to me, but I can’t blame them too much because it’s generational trauma. I really want to become a social worker to help kids like me, but I know even then there will only be so much I can do in this horrible world. I have turned to religion also, when I hated that in the past. I am always at crossroads, fall off and end it all or keep pushing for my future family and kids and the kids I will help as a social worker. That’s why I’ve turned to god. I’m so lost and I don’t know where else to turn.
@@gorilla_2282 no it’s the worst time . If you talking about safety and security then yes then it’s the best time but people are more antisocial then ever and there is more pressure then ever to look a certain way and achieve things.
Things to remember 1. You are someones idol 2. You are gorgeous 3. You are unique 4. Every scar of yours tells a story so be proud 5. You can always change 6. You are absolutely stunning 7. You are smart 8. You have right that people dont have 9. You are not ugly 10. Self care is also important 11. Be inspired by people, don't compare 12. You are not alone 13. Someone will always hold a place for you in your life 14. Love is important 15. Puberty isn't disgusting, its a way of life If you are reading this, remember that perfect or odd isnt made to describe people. We can all fight through this together. Remember You Are Not Alone 🤍
@@TheyluvMaryann Is that you on the picture? How did you come to such a conclusion? You're actually really good looking, just brainwashed with TikTok 😢😢😢
your not ugly even if you are you or any another person don’t need to be pretty outside you need to be inside people well not love you for real because of your look they well from your morals people don’t need to love don’t need to respect you they don’t even need to console you but when you look at the mirror you better love what you see don’t care about what people say care about your personality and be strong don’t cry over anything because your tears are more precious and important than theirs. ❤
@@BlackCat-qr6gyaybe only 1 boy or 2 boys called her ugly ,then she remembered.girls are like tha,t 3 think you are pretty and 2 think you are ugly . Girls tend to believe the 2
remember no ones ugly but everyone's different in a good way if u think about how u look u will become sad and depressed and then u will start to think about what others think u look like and dont think abt what others think about u bc who cares i know ur beautiful and so should u
The feeling to cry harder when you try to tell the feeling you get that you are ugly to a person and they start denying it and tell you are pretty..Makes me feel more uglier..😢
These two are so cute. My story: When I was 13 years old, during the big break, my whole class stood gathered in the school yard, and one sentence I accidentally heard marked me for the rest of my life: "Well, Neda is not that ugly (they commented on my physical appearance) ." During that time, I stood with children who were ostracized from society because of their different skin color, and especially poverty. I always helped them with their homework and shared the school desk and snacks with them, when others didn't want to. People avoided them, and it was very painful for me. Even the teachers at that time were full of contempt and prejudice towards the poor and "colored". I always felt injustice towards others and I was hurt by their pain. I loved nature, animals, stars in the sky so much, I was grateful for everything. I have always viewed all people equally. For me, social, national and other differences were a terrible social construct. My human nature rebelled against artificially imposed differences. I could not go against my nature and upbringing. But, hearing that sentence during the big break in the school yard, I started to withdraw into myself. I was sinking into a hopeless depression. The war also started, and that really hit me hard. I was 15 years old and I organized the collection of aid in a camp for refugees from the war. The depression deepened. Of the child who was loved by everyone, elders, children and animals, only a shell remained. All my talents, for music, for painting, for gardening just died out. I have a lot of adopted cats and dogs and they are everything in my life, besides my closest ones. I've been hiding from people all my life because of that sentence. But, for some reason, I've just realized that I was "marked" until my death by that one sentence that still rings in my head and ears: "Well, Neda is not that ugly." I am in my forties, but feeling much older and tired. But, I AM grateful.
Nobody is perfect I also have my insecurities but guess what? I always strive to be the best version of myself everyday with the qualities I have and willing to improve/learn every time I wake up on a new day! We only have one chance at life so let’s just give ourselves some love and appreciate the moments 💯
insecurities are only real because of society, so ask yourself.. "would you be who you are right now if it weren't for them?" and what would you say? don't hate yourself, because you are worth the world! everyone is different and that's a good thing. don't be insecure, just set goals! be yourself and learn to love who you are
man puberty ruined me, everywhere I went with my mama, I was always complimented and called cute but now people don't even look at me when speaking to me :(
He is very handsome and she is truly beautiful, I also don't like the way I look because people love to look at you and tear you down for something you can't change unless you have an insane amount of money for surgery. Standards are so trash, the way people treat you because you're not attractive is ridiculous.
She just wants to be, beautiful She goes, unnoticed she knows, no limits She craves, attention she praises, an image She prays to be, sculpted by the sculptor Oh, she don't see, the light that's shining Deeper than the eyes can find it Maybe we have made her blind So she tries to cover up her pain And cut her woes away 'Cause covergirls don't cry After their face is made But there's a hope that's waiting for you in the dark You should know you're beautiful just the way you are And you don't have to change a thing The world could change its heart No scars to your beautiful We're stars and we're beautiful Oh-oh-oh-oh Oh-oh-oh-oh And you don't have to change a thing The world could change its heart No scars to your beautiful We're stars and we're beauShe has dreams to be an envy, so she's starving You know, covergirls eat nothing She says, beauty is pain and there's beauty in everything What's a little bit of hunger? I could go a little while longer, she fades away She don't see her perfect She don't understand she's worth it Or that beauty goes deeper than the surface Oh-oh, oh-oh So to all the girls that's hurting Let me be your mirror Help you see a little bit clearer The light that shines within There's a hope that's waiting for you in the dark You should know you're beautiful just the way you are And you don't have to change a thing The world could change its heart No scars to your beautiful We're stars and we're beautiful Oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh And you don't have to change a thing The world could change its heart No scars to your beautiful We're stars and we're beautiful No better you than the you that you are (No better you than the you that you are) No better life than the life we're living (No better life than the life we're living) No better time for your shine, you're a star (No better time for your shine, you're a star) Oh, you're beautiful, oh, you're beautiful There's a hope that's waiting for you in the dark You should know you're beautiful just the way you are And you don't have to change a thing The world could change its heart No scars to your beautiful We're stars and we're beautiful Oh-oh-oh-oh Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh And you don't have to change a thing The world could change its heart No scars to your beautiful We're stars and we're beautiful
it hurts when my family mostly like my cousin rather than me. always saying that she's pretty and smart while me im just dumb. waiting for them to compliment me just once in my life
The first guy saying he misses his kid days shows he is pulled down by school education system cuz they teach literally nothing, I gained much in higher education and at first I felt the same later to realize how easy going I was during school days, those marks and grades in school does not matter.
7:44 I would say it is precisely the expectation that you should have friends that is making you suffer, not the lack of friends. It’s the fact that you find it reasonable to expect to have at least one friend. That reasonable expectation is what’s creating the suffering. That want, that desire, that longing rather than the circumstance itself
God give everything to human. Life,happy also sadly ....... the Life is interesting with his problems. Doesn't matter you are ugly or other.....most important you is here and you is living here . Just will be happy (thanks God - Alhamdulillah)
“i don’t remember the last time i was happy” that hit deep
why hasn't anyone replied?
Here a reply
@Fdywuwus it’s been a year lol
@@Macyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy and?
@@illyrian3057 lmao y did u click into the replies if u didn’t care💀these bitches out here fucking around👹
I felt my happiest when I was a kid before I noticed my flaws being pointed out
You are literally so pretty..
Same lmao now I hate the way I look
If YOU...ain't pretty to them then- 💀🙏🏼
You have no flaws, we live in a jugmental society.
i agree, id rather be a kid again if i was given a change or change the way i look.
Yes the bitter feeling of being ugly knowing you go to sleep and wake up everyday feeling ugly.. 😴 any bit of confidence and happiness you felt just to go down the drain in a second when you see your face.. 0 motivation and energy ..damn i could go on and on
Correct😭💔
That's why I cry every morning with 0 confidence and 0 energy😭😭💔
But nah it’s about confidence as these morons love to say also even if you feel comfortable about your ugly face doesn’t mean others will I tried to ignore it but people are odd
Looks don’t matter after a point guys. All you can do is be fit, and be happy and it shows on your face.
@@mihirjoshi8934 when you’re both old & dying sure looks don’t matter otherwise cut the BS
the way i look 😢 this is the most relatable line for people like me.
remember no ones ugly but everyone's different in a good way if u think about how u look u will become sad and depressed and then u will start to think about what others think u look like and dont think abt what others think about u bc who cares i know ur beautiful and so should u
@@PrinAngMatthews🧢, these are only fantasy words far from reality
not talking to u
@@satyamsaikrupa
Be grateful you were born and are alive. Your body is just the shell for your soul, don't let it define you.
@PrinAngMatthews in real life, its totally different.
Im very ugly myself and wish i could be a kid again happy and normal.
People constantly criticize my looks
Lifes harder as an adult
You are definitely not ugly
why do you care what others people think, what made childhood so fun was how you didnt give a damn about what anyone thought all that mattered was having fun
@@Art1cM0k3yz no matter who u are,but I really appreciate and admire ur thoughts, hope u never change , cuz people like u are really found fewer , once again u go❤
Wth?! You are beautiful!! Whoever told you you weren't is LYING.
You know, some people do call me beautiful but I can't accept that because from the inside I feel ugly and unhappy. Even if they say nice things it's futile if I don't love myself.
I need a group hug with them now😕
Eww hugs😷
@@icyunvme2400 eww negative people
@@Alex-tf2ph Eww my little pony pfp
@@icyunvme2400 its a show about ponies you will be fine.
@@icyunvme2400 ew fatherless get away from me 😷
When I was in elementary no one cared how you looked. We all just had fun together. I miss those days 😞
True
Everybody cared about your appreance it's just you didn't know when you were a kid that's all
I love how honest they’re are because it’s really hard to be honest when it comes to these things
no not when it comes to these things...rrather when you are infront of camera and you think if you tell the ugly truth you will be judged you will hurt someone so
that's the most sweet thing about this interaction in my opinion
being able to easily be open like that is a sign of a good relationship, and thats good to have when you feeling depressed
ya I hate being ugly, I wish I looked mesmerizing
Same
@@randomPATTA-ICICLE so sorry
@@ankanaghosh5163 r u a boy or girl ?
You are beautiful no matter how u look like
"Nobody's chapters are the same you can't change it but the least you can do is turn a sad story into an adventure"
“I don’t remember the last time I was happy” i feel so bad 4 u girl 😢😢😢
Some of us will never be happy
Its not about being happy im ugly and i can still be happy its having high self awareness enough to realize that your ugly but not depressed fighting that everyday sometimes looking in the mirror and use the only confidence i have left to say i look gd just for everyone to not bat an eye at you then i have to not fall and stay strong because i accepted my reality a long time ago im a man with a small you know so i can never have a girlfriend never leave a legacy or children behind there are a couple people out in the world same as me what chance do i have meanwhile business men go around acting like its not hard yet their handsome smart tall strong and I’m just useless
Yeah
Yes you will be.
😞
Why not
Pray for me guys .. im in a deep depression nd loneliness because of it ... i cant go out .. i am in hell
May God heal your sadness and get away the lonelinness in you ☪️❤✝️
💔😭
that could be body dysmorphia !
Practice meditation
same here -_-
I am very ugly. I wish i could change my looks. I always get bullied because of my face. I was happy when i was a kid. I agree with the girl i dont remember the last time Where I was truly happy about my life.
I hope you're doing well brother. You don't deserve this.
I hate the why i look too and it made my life a living hell 😔💔so i kinda relate to them
I don't know what you look like but it's not what matters and I'm sure that you are very beautiful. The way we look really doesn't matter. The older I get the more I realize it
I pray God reveal how beautiful you really are in Jesus name amen
Same if I looked normal my life would be easy right now but I guess that’s not realistic
@@tssx11 same
u are uniq n no one replace u in this world
@@tssx11 The hell, you do look normal. Nobody is different because we are all humans. Learn that.
No matter how different we all look globally, some of us have exactly the same thoughts and sadness.
I'm an ugly woman. I used to not understand this before but when people started to act like that around me i realized omg i really am so ugly. So i can relate. If i had money i would di plastic surgery
If that's you in your profile picture, you are definitely not ugly.
Same here
What surgery do you want to undergo? What exactly makes you ugly? Why don't you come to live and work in Switzerland? This way, you can make money for surgery ❤
"I don't remember the last time i was happy" to me was the most relatable thing that anyone had ever said
They need good friends and people who can love them. May god bless them ❤
I didn't realize how many people suffers from these issues.
I feel you brother...I'm ugly af too and I'm not getting any younger so it's over for me
I feel you, living the same nightmare :( i can not see any chance for getting better
I'm so sorry. I'm 40 and single without kids. I feel a lot of shame for it and it's a living hell. Maybe we can talk on Facebook or somewhere else
@@martin_93 It's so over for us. Tragic how life has to turn out for some men
@@Ciskuss Absolutely brutal brother, I'm 30 in the same predicament as you. What a tragedy for the both of us...and I don't have any social media since I'm just too ugly to have my face posted anywhere
@@EliHank i don't think so man. I was in a long relationship but I just left her..
we ugly people are also humanbeing
Here are 15 things I hate about myself:
- I’m so fat
- I have a unibrow
- I have pimples
- I have bad teeth
- I’m weird
- I’m ugly
- I’m too fat that working out doesn’t help
- I’m too ugly that a mirror would break
- I have insecurities
- nobody likes me
- my parents are never proud of me because I’m fat and they dk what I’m going through
- I have anxiety and can’t fight it off
- I pretend I’m fine
- I’m shy
- I’m just ugly overall
😢
Most relatable comment..
@@Shubhu647 thank u:)
Im sorry for laughing at the mirrors break thing but thats relatable lol
@@Youknowwho910 :)))
"You don't have to like what you have, you just have to accept it"
might aswell not be born
I agree with the dude.. I miss my childhood.. many will never be as happy as being a kid.
She's beautiful!!! Don't focus on the details and things you deem imperfections
They both are beautiful
He’s beautiful too
not everyone is beautiful in their “own way” i hate to break it to you
Who are u if u dont mind?
@@bandlabgoonz who???
I also hate the way i look😢😢
Then change it
@@Idkbro799 you're the person to tell a homeless man to just build a house. And boom! He has a house. Bruh
They are literally me 😢
I think it kinda makes me feel better that I'm not alone.I get you❤️🤍
Get better bro, join to the gym or do at least physical exercises u automatically will be good
@@zyzzzzzz7940there’s no gym for your face
You know guys , I see myself in a random mirror or when somoene take pic of me I find myself soooo ugly, and I had friend who always laugh about my face one time they draw me , long nose smell eyes bad teeth and it hurtzd me a lot . But know when I grec up I realize something , when I smile my mouth is so beautiful my cheeks my Brown eyes open more and especially how I can feel the teeth happiness into my face . Then I see how beautiful I am . And I realize another thing everyone is so beautiful when they smile . When u smile u instantly beautiful !! That's why if u see urslef ugly , see urself smiling and u will se how beautiful u are ♡ . True beauty is in heart
❤❤❤ love you thanks for this comment
I cant smile until i fix my ugly asss teeth lol
😂
It's honestly sad how a majority feels bad for the girl but not the guy. Both of them need * Equal * treatment
thats how it is for guys. if you arent chad, tyrone, edgar, or yao ming you arent getting any attention from women. thats just how it is.
@@nun1830Listen as a ugly girl, its pretty much the same- if you are black you basically get no attention from men and are told everyday your ugly 🫠
That's the feminist double standard.
I noticed this too people in the comments just mentioned the girl means she actually attractive. that really sad and hypocrisy of people that always said to stop called people ugly but their action said otherwise ..
@@nun1830women don’t owe you anything if they aren’t interested in you… women shouldn’t be blamed for men’s lack of affection just because they have a specific type. There’s many ways to get a girl besides how you look. Be a good provider, offer her stability for her future with you, or simply be a kind caring man to the woman you are romantically interested in. You don’t have to be super handsome to get female attention, you just need to put effort in yourself as a person sometimes which many men refuse to do. Even my own boyfriend pointed out how in Regular Show, Mordecai fumbled over and over again because he refused to change while Rigby got a steady girlfriend Eileen, because he made changes for her. Many men tend to think “I shouldn’t have to change for a woman to like me” but they don’t see how bad they are personally. My brother doesn’t even use soap to shower, wears the same clothes every week, lives with mom at age 27, still working the same low paying job he’s been for years, and he wonders why no girl he speaks to takes him serious. I wouldn’t take him serious either because he clearly doesn’t take adulthood seriously.
I'm suffering from a skin problem called vitiligo from childhood at that time people around me always make me realize that im ugly, I'm not like others etc because of them I really thought that I'm ugly I used to cry all day nighy everytime I used to hate myself so much that. I Couldn't accept the fact that I'm ugly I even couldn’t accept myself. It took me freaking 8 years to accept myself the way I am and now I dont care what people say about me now I realize that how beautiful I am. Now I really love myself that much that I even dont take medicine for my skin problem cz now I'm proud of myself and love myself the way I am after 8 years.
JUST LOVE YOURSELF💜💜
How?
Honestly I wish I could change everything about myself, I really hate this person I see in the mirror, the fact that all my life loneliness has followed me, to the point where I just want to quit permanently. I see people in public smiling and happy and it hurts because I would give anything to feel that.
Bro, I really feel that
I've always felt ugly, and it doesn't get better you just learn to accept it and ignore it
I wanna hug both of them now!! 🥺❤
I am also not a good looking and i have never been happy because of that
Then change it
Stop @@Idkbro799
Never hate yourself.. If you don't love yourself who will?
Fax bro. Only good comment here !
I want both of them to be happy, they deserve to be happy, they are beautiful enough and precious🙏
I certainly relate to them .if you are ugly , the pain is not that visible but it is there like a hole that will never heal ..and you just learn to live with that
i dont remember the last time when i was happy..feel the same..and many more out there must feel the same..truly sad world we live in
Broken world we live in. You all have the possibility to change it.
I feel for both of them. This world we live in is tearing us apart
There's something in you that the world needs.🤗
not all of us
I was a latchkey kid growing and I was neglected and abused. Now I am an adult and the same parents who ignored me, put themselves first, and to this day don't listen to me, and want me to take care of them in their later years. Here is a reminder. The world is ran and controlled by narcissists on a power trip, and they enjoy your pain, my pain, all our pain. Whether it is parents, your boss, the president, congress, even acquaintances, none of them want to see you do or be better than them.
I wish I had a friend like you who I could speak about this to and you’d understand and I’d understand you. If my kid ended up the way my mom made me, I’d want to just off myself. I feel like I was failed and now I’m failing myself even more, as an adult. I’m trying but it never feels like I’m good enough. Unless I’m constantly ignoring my own needs to help my family then I don’t feel good enough. They did this to me, but I can’t blame them too much because it’s generational trauma. I really want to become a social worker to help kids like me, but I know even then there will only be so much I can do in this horrible world. I have turned to religion also, when I hated that in the past. I am always at crossroads, fall off and end it all or keep pushing for my future family and kids and the kids I will help as a social worker. That’s why I’ve turned to god. I’m so lost and I don’t know where else to turn.
I get chills when people say they miss their childhoods
Finding happy people is so rare nowadays
Nowadays? In which fucking period of time people was happy? We are living in the best possible time, what are talking about?
No it isn’t just go outside there’s plenty.
@@gorilla_2282 no it’s the worst time . If you talking about safety and security then yes then it’s the best time but people are more antisocial then ever and there is more pressure then ever to look a certain way and achieve things.
I miss being innocent
Practice meditation u will bé back to this state
I was not happy even in my childhood because i was always the excluded kid from my friend circle as well as from my parents 😊🌸
Things to remember
1. You are someones idol
2. You are gorgeous
3. You are unique
4. Every scar of yours tells a story so be proud
5. You can always change
6. You are absolutely stunning
7. You are smart
8. You have right that people dont have
9. You are not ugly
10. Self care is also important
11. Be inspired by people, don't compare
12. You are not alone
13. Someone will always hold a place for you in your life
14. Love is important
15. Puberty isn't disgusting, its a way of life
If you are reading this, remember that perfect or odd isnt made to describe people. We can all fight through this together.
Remember
You
Are
Not
Alone
🤍
I'm the ugliest woman alive
@@TheyluvMaryann Is that you on the picture? How did you come to such a conclusion? You're actually really good looking, just brainwashed with TikTok 😢😢😢
yeah thats me tysmm means so much
I was often happy when I was kid, because that time I thought the people are good. Then I was cursed with knowledge
I miss how optimistic I used to be , I use to look at the world with joy… now all I see is the negative aspects ❤
Neither of those people are ugly 😢❤.
This clip is a tad sad :(
Your beauty never have scared me
I love their honestly. Hand on heart they are both attractive people. Please love yourself.
your not ugly even if you are you or any another person don’t need to be pretty outside you need to be inside people well not love you for real because of your look they well from your morals people don’t need to love don’t need to respect you they don’t even need to console you but when you look at the mirror you better love what you see don’t care about what people say care about your personality and be strong don’t cry over anything because your tears are more precious and important than theirs. ❤
She’s actually pretty, not ugly at all
@@daddyjeff I bet you’re pretty too^
@@daddyjeff She isn't even ugly. You probably just think you look like her.
@@daddyjeffwho call you this ? The guys in your class ?
@@BlackCat-qr6gyaybe only 1 boy or 2 boys called her ugly ,then she remembered.girls are like tha,t 3 think you are pretty and 2 think you are ugly . Girls tend to believe the 2
Funny how no one mentions the dude lo😂
Same I’m so fucking ugly
remember no ones ugly but everyone's different in a good way if u think about how u look u will become sad and depressed and then u will start to think about what others think u look like and dont think abt what others think about u bc who cares i know ur beautiful and so should u
He’s not even ugly though, honestly he deserves better.
Last time I was happy was when I was a kid doing pizza delivers with my Dad R.I.P old man 👴
Give that girl a hug damn
I miss being innocent and carefree
Well thats how it is. Your older now so go do something with your life
The feeling to cry harder when you try to tell the feeling you get that you are ugly to a person and they start denying it and tell you are pretty..Makes me feel more uglier..😢
I just love there honesty.look how honest they are.. this so deep can relate 😔😭
These two are so cute.
My story:
When I was 13 years old, during the big break, my whole class stood gathered in the school yard, and one sentence I accidentally heard marked me for the rest of my life: "Well, Neda is not that ugly (they commented on my physical appearance) ." During that time, I stood with children who were ostracized from society because of their different skin color, and especially poverty. I always helped them with their homework and shared the school desk and snacks with them, when others didn't want to. People avoided them, and it was very painful for me. Even the teachers at that time were full of contempt and prejudice towards the poor and "colored". I always felt injustice towards others and I was hurt by their pain. I loved nature, animals, stars in the sky so much, I was grateful for everything. I have always viewed all people equally. For me, social, national and other differences were a terrible social construct. My human nature rebelled against artificially imposed differences. I could not go against my nature and upbringing. But, hearing that sentence during the big break in the school yard, I started to withdraw into myself. I was sinking into a hopeless depression. The war also started, and that really hit me hard. I was 15 years old and I organized the collection of aid in a camp for refugees from the war. The depression deepened. Of the child who was loved by everyone, elders, children and animals, only a shell remained. All my talents, for music, for painting, for gardening just died out. I have a lot of adopted cats and dogs and they are everything in my life, besides my closest ones. I've been hiding from people all my life because of that sentence. But, for some reason, I've just realized that I was "marked" until my death by that one sentence that still rings in my head and ears: "Well, Neda is not that ugly." I am in my forties, but feeling much older and tired. But, I AM grateful.
what a beautifully written comment, thank you for sharing neda ❤
Am sorry neda and thank you for sharing your thoughts with us❤
Nobody is perfect I also have my insecurities but guess what? I always strive to be the best version of myself everyday with the qualities I have and willing to improve/learn every time I wake up on a new day! We only have one chance at life so let’s just give ourselves some love and appreciate the moments 💯
insecurities are only real because of society, so ask yourself.. "would you be
who you are right now if it weren't for them?" and what would you say? don't
hate yourself, because you are worth the world! everyone is different and that's
a good thing. don't be insecure, just set goals! be yourself and learn to love
who you are
Damn! That sucks. These people need a hug.
Man...
Wish I was not limited to one thing. I would want to change a lot about myself.
emotional damage is the worst
Yep
Remember this, perfect isn’t a person, normal isn’t real, different and happiness is the best thing you can feel
I was in treatment for addiction and mental health, and this a more common case than people realize.
I wish they knew how pretty they are and I hope they feel truly happy
man puberty ruined me, everywhere I went with my mama, I was always complimented and called cute but now people don't even look at me when speaking to me :(
How did that happen
@@Idkbro799 hormones bruh
@@kusuossecretgf5401 fuck that. You can still be at least a 6 or 7.
@@Idkbro799 best I can say is i'm a 3
@@kusuossecretgf5401 yeah but I mean you can at least GET UP to a 6 or 7
I feel the same way 😢
“ none of us are ugly, we are just born into a judgmental society .”
Dont hate yourself.. God made you this beatiful body for you to thrive and afterlife so pls yall are awesome✨
God don't exist
@@randomPATTA-ICICLERather, how were you created?
They must be siblings. Trauma bonding 😢.
Wow. Thanks for the diagnonsense, Brian.
@@remmilayne6153 diagnonsense is now my favorite word
@Mohamed Alkutaini where which city???
Herring that broke my heart and now I’m crying
The summer spent with my cousin was a fever dream.
Tell the whole story
@@milan9180he finds an alien watch in the forest he went with his cousin and grandpa at summer, that device has given him shapeshifting powers
The way he's trying act normal while saying it made me cry. But this comment section made me cry harder. I wish there weren’t any beauty standards.
I have acne scars and i feel insecury and don't like myself
That gucken up bro. Sorry to hear that..
But ay you got this bro! I beliefe in you men. It can only get better
Omg they share a negative energy and send it to each other , that your massage to make sure to have a happy friend to become happy too
He is very handsome and she is truly beautiful, I also don't like the way I look because people love to look at you and tear you down for something you can't change unless you have an insane amount of money for surgery. Standards are so trash, the way people treat you because you're not attractive is ridiculous.
damn that girl needs a hug
So the guy doesn’t need a hug? 🤡
@@Mannthug well in this case the girl seemed more sad
@@JacobPang ohh alr, makes sense
She just wants to be, beautiful
She goes, unnoticed she knows, no limits
She craves, attention she praises, an image
She prays to be, sculpted by the sculptor
Oh, she don't see, the light that's shining
Deeper than the eyes can find it
Maybe we have made her blind
So she tries to cover up her pain
And cut her woes away
'Cause covergirls don't cry
After their face is made
But there's a hope that's waiting for you in the dark
You should know you're beautiful just the way you are
And you don't have to change a thing
The world could change its heart
No scars to your beautiful
We're stars and we're beautiful
Oh-oh-oh-oh
Oh-oh-oh-oh
And you don't have to change a thing
The world could change its heart
No scars to your beautiful
We're stars and we're beauShe has dreams to be an envy, so she's starving
You know, covergirls eat nothing
She says, beauty is pain and there's beauty in everything
What's a little bit of hunger?
I could go a little while longer, she fades away
She don't see her perfect
She don't understand she's worth it
Or that beauty goes deeper than the surface
Oh-oh, oh-oh
So to all the girls that's hurting
Let me be your mirror
Help you see a little bit clearer
The light that shines within
There's a hope that's waiting for you in the dark
You should know you're beautiful just the way you are
And you don't have to change a thing
The world could change its heart
No scars to your beautiful
We're stars and we're beautiful
Oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh
Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh
And you don't have to change a thing
The world could change its heart
No scars to your beautiful
We're stars and we're beautiful
No better you than the you that you are
(No better you than the you that you are)
No better life than the life we're living
(No better life than the life we're living)
No better time for your shine, you're a star
(No better time for your shine, you're a star)
Oh, you're beautiful, oh, you're beautiful
There's a hope that's waiting for you in the dark
You should know you're beautiful just the way you are
And you don't have to change a thing
The world could change its heart
No scars to your beautiful
We're stars and we're beautiful
Oh-oh-oh-oh
Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh
And you don't have to change a thing
The world could change its heart
No scars to your beautiful
We're stars and we're beautiful
it hurts when my family mostly like my cousin rather than me. always saying that she's pretty and smart while me im just dumb. waiting for them to compliment me just once in my life
Damn
No they should be happy because they are good looking ❤❤❤
People around us make us realize that "we r ugly " because we deeply dont care how we look until we see mirror or someone's opinion
The first guy saying he misses his kid days shows he is pulled down by school education system cuz they teach literally nothing, I gained much in higher education and at first I felt the same later to realize how easy going I was during school days, those marks and grades in school does not matter.
7:44 I would say it is precisely the expectation that you should have friends that is making you suffer, not the lack of friends. It’s the fact that you find it reasonable to expect to have at least one friend. That reasonable expectation is what’s creating the suffering. That want, that desire, that longing rather than the circumstance itself
I dont know why the girl feels she is ugly!!
She is beautiful man!!
I agree. I would be proud to be in a relationship with such a woman.
Young people will really know how good they look when they get old , and look back.
Not every I actually looks ugly I will always feel insecure when even I looks in mine young pic
Happiness matters more than the way u look
Sorry guys ❤😢 I feel same
God give everything to human. Life,happy also sadly ....... the Life is interesting with his problems. Doesn't matter you are ugly or other.....most important you is here and you is living here . Just will be happy (thanks God - Alhamdulillah)
my exes left me for a better looking person, i wanna put a big cardboard everywhere i go from nowon
Same. Not always necessarily better looking though but definitely clearly better men.
Sad fact your brain replays your happiest memories when you die
Grateful is the answer. We will never had enough in this life
It does not matter how you look you are beautiful no matter what no one can take Kentucky weather you ❤
They are both beautiful , but im ugly
Life as an adult is difficult when you feel you are a burden to your people and when you can't give them what they gave you💔