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  • Marriage! Is it worth it, is there such a thing as a great marriage?
    Join us, Joas and Priscilla, as we answer YOUR questions about marriage.
    From questions about conflict, pre-marriage advice, secrets, tips and more, join us as we learn together on this wonderful journey of life and marriage!
    Resources
    5 love languages - by Gary Chapman
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    Gems - Dani Johnson
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    Grooming the Next Generation for Success - Dani Johnson
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    Free to be you - Elizabeth Gunter
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    Weekend to remember - familylife.com
    Vertical Marriage “The one secret that will change your marriage”
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    Fireproof movie -
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Комментарии • 248

  • @marjoriecarpenter
    @marjoriecarpenter 3 года назад +44

    One of the best pieces of advice I heard a pastor give couples in premarital counseling was, if each of you always puts the needs of your spouse first, your own needs will always be met.

  • @deeholler1
    @deeholler1 3 года назад +24

    My husband and I have been married 48 years... I agree with everything you said, but we learned through trial and error... I really appreciate your wonderful testimony and steadfastness in your marriage. You are such a blessing. The internet is full of meaningless nothings, and bad advice, but your godly example is a shining light. Keep up the good work! We need more like you.... I love you both dearly.

  • @Teenibash1969
    @Teenibash1969 2 года назад +5

    I am in awe of you both for setting a decent standard. I grew up in single parent family tarnished by alcoholism. I didn’t really have good role models, my grandparents were alcoholics too. I always wanted a stable home life, the solid family unit. I knew what I was looking for but have never found it. Here in Scotland life seems to revolve round bars and pubs. I didn’t want to have to haul my partner out the bar when I wanted to see him. I am hardworking and decent yet find myself on my own at 53, but I take real pleasure in watching your videos and seeing a nice life. Bless you.

    • @spunkycat6144
      @spunkycat6144 7 месяцев назад

      My life is similar, but both parents. Single here as well and yep, I think the guys just hang in bars

  • @carolwagner4592
    @carolwagner4592 3 года назад +12

    My hubby and I do the same thing.....squeeze our hands "I love you" three times...different times and always after we pray together. We will be married 55 years next month. ♥️

  • @joylaschober3771
    @joylaschober3771 3 года назад +7

    I love the way you love each other. Your Godliness is evident in how you respect one another.

  • @donnamyers839
    @donnamyers839 3 года назад +16

    I love the way you look at each other. Your love for each other is visible.

  • @maryknittel1266
    @maryknittel1266 3 года назад +19

    So wonderful. Thank you for sharing. My hubby has been in Heaven for over 5 years, but we were blessed with 53 years of "mostly Heaven here on earth times" Blessings to you all.

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад +2

      I’m sorry Mary. Blessings and peace be on you and your family!

  • @margrietneels6031
    @margrietneels6031 3 года назад +6

    My husband and I have been married since we were just 17 and 18, just over 30 years ago now. We used to read the Five Love Languages, and many books on relationships together, and they were a great help to us! We also squeeze our hands together three times to "secretly" say "I love you"! We also do this with our children!

  • @zenaidalugo7707
    @zenaidalugo7707 2 года назад +4

    You guys are so much fun! I literally enjoyed this! My husband and I had a very rough start on our marriage we were not saved, we came into the marriage with LOTS OF BAGGAGE! We both got saved within our first two years, but things got more chaotic raising 4 kids and family struggles, soon after we became empty nesters and some health issues happened to both of us, that’s when God began a HUGE healing in us (I guess He had our undivided attention) we will be celebrating our 37th anniversary this April and I couldn’t be more in love with my wonderful husband, I’m so glad that divorce was not an option!

  • @karynb7781
    @karynb7781 3 года назад +2

    You know how people say that old couples look alike? resemble one another? You are such a couple. Your thoughts and spirits are so much in sync conversing. Isn't that a wonderful blessing? You have the same smile. It's my favorite part of being married for so long, 35yrs. I wish all my friends enjoyed that. If he was gone, 1/2 of 'me' would be gone and I accept I could never be the same. His happiness is my happiness. He's been in my life longer than I was ever living before. Wow. We enjoy our coffee dates and we take our coffee (I make him guess the coffee beans only by tasting it first because he loves the coffee and tries really hard to know them. funny) in our own thermos' to the park (we visit many local ones) and just crack the windows and listen to the birds or watch the rain for hours and hold hands and talk and it's our favorite. It's cold here, but sometimes we walk too if we both remember our right shoes! Understanding the love languages and personality types are ways of Honoring what God's created in us. Recognizing what's special. Be Blessed. And you're right about the minor or lesser traits coming to the forefront later in life. You're right.

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад

      Thank you Clair that is so encouraging and wonderful! Blessings to you both!

  • @bellarosesmama2597
    @bellarosesmama2597 3 года назад +8

    A wonderful video! We have been married 53 years in July. Married real young you know!(ha ha)Having said that it seems like only yesterday as the time has passed so quickly. We have two wonderful grown sons who mean the world to us. They are both fine young men.That is where a favorite saying of mine comes in. Children learn what they live and then they live what they have learned! In our earlier years of marriage we had some things to learn and I believe that all couples do. You come from different families and backgrounds and it takes love and effort to create a lasting enduring marriage and anything worthwhile is worth working on! These videos are so needed today in this time of such uncertainty. Things are not what life is all about. I always told my boys it was alright to have things if one has them for the right reason.Not to make others jealous or even because someone else has them (ie keeping up with the others) , but to enrich your life and to share with others! Good friends and family are much more important. I am thinking and hoping and praying that this lastest pandemic has sent this message home more clearly to many people. Sorry for going on so about this, but I feel so passionately and strongly about this. My best to you and your lovely family and may God's grace be with you! 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @TheBonnieberry
    @TheBonnieberry 3 года назад +12

    Loved this.God is definitely using you to encourage couples...We met in Bible College at age 18 ,he asked me out I flatly said no.Some 30 ish years later an old bachelor came back into this old maid's life and yes,we married in 2004 ...some of our friends said "They finally smelled the coffee" we love each other and are just so very thankful that our God directed our paths after so many years. We have been together 17 years and sometimes we are still amazed when someone calls us Mr and Mrs Berry♥

    • @bobbieingram634
      @bobbieingram634 3 года назад +1

      My husband and I were both never married. Met when I was 34 and he was 41. We married in May of 92. It was a very funny when I first met my husband. We met at a Christian dance. The night I went to that dance. I told a good friend of mine that if I was going to be single the rest of my life. I was going to enjoy it and not worry about not getting married. Low and behold that is the night I met my Del. We didn't date right at first but it came in the next couple of months. It will be 29 years this May. We've had our ups & downs but, we both agree to work together and trust God.

    • @TheBonnieberry
      @TheBonnieberry 3 года назад

      @@bobbieingram634 love your story xx

  • @cathy3546
    @cathy3546 3 года назад +7

    Learn as much as you can about each other before you marry. Share, forgive, give grace, apologize, hug, kiss, put your spouse first.
    My beloved husband died unexpectedly 1 yr ago. We recognized that God brought us together. We were best friends first.
    Thank you for sharing Priscilla and Joas. Love to you and your family from British Columbia.🇨🇦

    • @jonirennirt2391
      @jonirennirt2391 3 года назад

      I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved husband, Cathy!! I know God is comforting and keeping you.

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад

      Yes Cathy we are sorry. Peace over you and your family during this difficult season of your life.

  • @Gustav92069
    @Gustav92069 3 года назад +2

    What wonderful advice, I will remember this show Priscilla, the two of you for 15 years? wow, you both still act like it's your first year of marriage. It's a long story for me and I'm still single at 67 years of age for me, I think it was fear of being hurt, my family was very dysfunctional and my father died six months before I was born and my mother remarried but he did not like us, kids, and he abused our mother and us. It was hard for my older brother and sister which had their issues/problems due to Dad's death. Mother and I were very close and I was hurt many times over the years not by my mother but by others I had trusted too much so I never let anyone get close to me again as I said out of fear of being hurt, the pain. I love Montana Haven because of the Love I see between you and your hubby and the children, if God were to give me 2nd chance I would pray we could have the strong love you both share at Montana Haven, you share a life I never had and only could dream of. God bless you both and the children and thank you again for what you give us at Montana Haven.

  • @hminchella7423
    @hminchella7423 3 года назад +5

    I love your genuine love and honesty. So sweet. The world is blessed to get to know the amish.

  • @dougfrye7775
    @dougfrye7775 3 года назад +2

    Well I've been married for 51 years, and I watched this in it's entirety. I agree about the importance of learning with The 5 Languages of Love, and the Personalities. Nicely done J & P.

  • @MamyHR
    @MamyHR 3 года назад +4

    Thanks for sharing. Very practical. God bless.

  • @malsierover182
    @malsierover182 3 года назад +6

    Yes if we do kiss each other every night before we go to sleep and then in the morning before we get up we also kiss each other. My love language is quality time and Moses is physical touch.

  • @PierAndre
    @PierAndre 3 года назад +3

    Grüezi us dr Schwiiz/Bern...!
    Thank you so much for this post. We have been married for 35 years and have done exactly the same as you. It is worth it to walk with God and live according to His guidelines. 😊😊God bless from Switzerland

  • @spunkycat6144
    @spunkycat6144 7 месяцев назад

    If I saw you guys anywhere, I might look. She looks like Mrs America and it is fun to watch couples interact, especially in stores. I know one of the reasons we came to earth is to love one another, so seeing what God put together to me, is like looking at at a mountain or a sunset. You can just feel peoples spirit also, so people feel drawn to look.

  • @nancybriggs2599
    @nancybriggs2599 3 года назад +1

    I watched Your whole video tonight and enjoyed it. I was 15 and he was 18 when we married. I only my parents as examples for what a marriage should be like. They had a wonderful relationship. No jealousy and only two disagreements that I ever knew about but was only for hours not days. No jealousy between them. My husband was bad with jealousy. Not a good thing to live with. We never had fights and our children rarely if any time knew we were angry because he just didn't talk to me and I didn't argue with him. Jealousy is as cruel as the grave just as the Bible says. Anger is a bad one too. We were married almost 23 years when he dies from a logging accident. That movie Fireproof is very good. Didn't have that when I was married. I enjoy you both and your children. It's so nice to see a family so loving with each other. Lord bless you all and your other family members on both sides. Very wonderful.

  • @deborahcrottylikerottie7684
    @deborahcrottylikerottie7684 3 года назад +4

    You guys are so real and down to earth. I love watching you. Thanks for all your ideas and your love of God. Also, I love Priscilla's laugh.

  • @jonirennirt2391
    @jonirennirt2391 3 года назад +5

    Priscilla, my love language is time also and I've never known another person who had it. This was such a good conversation. I thoroughly enjoyed it, even though I have been divorced for almost 30 years. I am so for marriage!! You two are just precious and I know people were blessed to hear your experiences and tips. Blessings to your family!

  • @dianemartin7778
    @dianemartin7778 3 года назад +4

    This video was awesome!!! Lots of good advice!!! My HONEY and BEST FRIEND have been married 42 yrs!!! Thank u for being willing to do these videos!!

  • @spunkycat6144
    @spunkycat6144 7 месяцев назад

    49 minute is a great topic. It is introvert needing to refill. I call it my turtle time. ❤ Once understood, it makes perfect sense.

  • @sandybowen8444
    @sandybowen8444 2 года назад

    I like how you laugh and enjoy each other and your children. Joas it was no surprise that word of affirmation are part of your love language because you do that all of the time to your children, your animals and your wife. I live the loving twinkle you have in your eyes. You take great pleasure in life together as a couple and as a family.
    I am a widow for 35 years and my children are all in their 40s, two of them live far from me. I love being a part of your family but helps me not feel so alone. Your marriage reminds me of mine and your family like mine when there were 5 of us. May you stay healthy and enjoy life fully your entire life until you are in eternity. Blessings, Sandy Bowen.

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  2 года назад

      Thank you and blessings to you Sandy!

  • @rosieaustin9911
    @rosieaustin9911 3 года назад +1

    Yes to Love Languages. Yes to Fireproof movie. Love all your tips. A new one for me is to write one thing each day that you appreciate about your spouse. I’m going to do that!

  • @michelestout9438
    @michelestout9438 3 года назад +5

    You guys are such a breath of fresh air ❣️. Thank you for sharing your love with us.

  • @leoramessinger6795
    @leoramessinger6795 3 года назад +4

    You are lovely. I stayed to the end and got to remember how I can make my very good marriage even stronger. I do agree about the need for personal space.

  • @veronwatkis2501
    @veronwatkis2501 3 года назад +2

    I made it to the end, I learned and laughed too😍🤗🤣🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💞

  • @mclemay6703
    @mclemay6703 3 года назад +1

    My 3 married daughters and sons in law waited for their wedding for their first kiss too. Such a sweet gift. Thank you for sharing.

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад

      Thank you so much and God bless you!

  • @jeannemaciej687
    @jeannemaciej687 3 года назад +3

    Delightful video and full of so much wonderful advice! I, too lost my husband, unexpectedly 4 1/2 years ago. I miss him every day. He was such a strong man & I learned so much from him in our 48 years together. God’s blessings to you & your family. 🙏❤️🌷

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад

      Jeanne,
      I’m so sorry that you lost your husband. Peace and blessings on you and your family!

    • @jeannemaciej687
      @jeannemaciej687 3 года назад

      @@MontanaHaven Thank you. I appreciate your taking the time to respond! It shows me you are truly a caring couple! God’s Blessings!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @meripederson8379
    @meripederson8379 3 года назад +3

    Love the pics! You two are so obviously in love with each other. It's so wonderful. God bless you both and your marriage!

  • @pattymiller8778
    @pattymiller8778 3 года назад +2

    I have been a widow for many years. I watched this and really enjoyed it.

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад

      Blessings and peace to you Patty!

  • @weronikas1307
    @weronikas1307 3 года назад +3

    Wow! I wish one day I can have such a wonderful marriage as you guys! Priscilla you look beautiful as always I think I have the same personality type as you☺️💕

  • @barbaramiller3205
    @barbaramiller3205 3 года назад +2

    Finally got it all watched, not all in one sitting but loved the video.
    My husband and my love languages are totally opposite. We have to constantly work on speaking each other’s love language.

  • @suelapointe5299
    @suelapointe5299 3 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for this. Wonderful suggestions. What I noticed about the two of you on the very first video of your I watched is the way you look at each other. It would be wonderful to have someone look at me like that. God bless you, your family and the way you reach out to the world.

  • @cia1204
    @cia1204 3 года назад +3

    Oh what a joy it was to hear your wonderful advice for married couples! And thanks for you kindness!❤️

  • @deborahmattin6026
    @deborahmattin6026 3 года назад +2

    You both are the sweetest folks bless you

  • @dawnj.a.2387
    @dawnj.a.2387 3 года назад +6

    This was so helpful. I found a lot of this to be helpful in all relationships. Thank you!

  • @ruthmcewuen2086
    @ruthmcewuen2086 2 года назад

    I watched it all. I shared this with my Grandchildren that getting married.

  • @judyholbrook7915
    @judyholbrook7915 Год назад

    I love to watch your couple videos. I wish I had some of your advice at an early age and early marriage. We have been married for 48 years and are a Christian couple. Marriage is really a journey and God as the center is mostly important.
    You two are so funny…..hair…..laughs .
    love you both.

  • @kristynorman
    @kristynorman 3 года назад +2

    What a gift you both are to the world! Thank you so much for sharing your marriage tips. Love the secret hand signal ;) My husband and I are both 41 & have been married for 18 years. We have 3 kids and are soon to be grandparents! You have a beautiful family & home. And I love Priscilla’s cooking videos!! Blessings from northern British Columbia😊

  • @wandafraver9263
    @wandafraver9263 3 года назад +1

    Thanks so much for your ideas for marriage. I'm going to share with my kids that are married. They are young and can learn so much from it. I've been married 46 yrs to a wonderful man. Today I told him he needed to kiss me goodbye when he leaves! He watched your video with me so he laughed. He knew where that came from! God bless you both. 🥰

  • @karenhamann9490
    @karenhamann9490 3 года назад +2

    God bless you both as you pursue him and each other.

  • @karensimaeys295
    @karensimaeys295 3 года назад +2

    I loved this video so much! you two are so special and are such good examples to the younger generation and most of the things you talked about My Husband and I do. The biggest things for me in a marriage are grace and prayer we all need this the Lord works wonders for us when we pray. thanks again for the video and looking forward to your next one! From Alberta Canada

  • @marlenezimmerman8080
    @marlenezimmerman8080 3 года назад +7

    You guys are amazing 🤗

  • @marionburns6719
    @marionburns6719 3 года назад +2

    I was so interested to hear your thoughts on marriage. Your thoughts about the need to really get to know each other and to communicate honestly and kindly resonate with me. Sadly I never found anyone who shared this idea so at 65 and in poor health I have come to terms with the fact that a happy marriage is not in the devine plan for my life. Never the less I am hugely grateful for the people and so many other blessings in my life. Congratulations that you have made such a happy marriage and home in which your young ones are so neurchered. Thank you for this video. Sending blessings from England.

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад

      Marion, I’m sorry for you but I pray peace and blessing over your life even at your age! God bless!

  • @dianewilliams5271
    @dianewilliams5271 3 года назад +3

    Very good advice for young couples getting started out. Hopefully, many will think on these things. I had a wonderful marriage for almost 46 years. My husband just passed away last July 1. I can't believe it yet. Time goes by so quickly, but I have only good memories.

    • @jonirennirt2391
      @jonirennirt2391 3 года назад +1

      I am so sorry for the loss of your wonderful husband, Diane. May God continue to comfort and provide for you.

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад

      Diane, we are sorry for the loss of your husband. Blessings and peace over you during this difficult time of your life!

  • @kated4359
    @kated4359 3 года назад +3

    Yes, PLEASE!!! Do a budget video for us!!🌺

  • @janicew6222
    @janicew6222 3 года назад +1

    My husband and I always kissed good-night, good-morning and good-bye. Great video for couples.

  • @suellenmcgillick8177
    @suellenmcgillick8177 2 года назад

    Communication is key. Talking through everything is important. Sometimes you do need to take some moments to think through how to approach discussing disagreements. I do remember someone told me once ...don’t test your spouse when they don’t know they’re being tested. Communication is key.

  • @rebekahchappel1633
    @rebekahchappel1633 2 года назад

    Your advice and thoughts are beautiful. My husband and I have been married for almost 25 years. Our kids just moved out. We get to have more spontaneous dates now. A couple years ago, for Christmas, I made my husband a box of dates. They are cards inside envelopes, the outside has indicators of indoor/outdoor, level of energy required (I have a genetic condition that causes a lot of issues), and cost. What’s inside is the surprise. It’s a fun way to be spontaneous. We’ve had a lot of fun with them. Some of the ideas were from the kids and are things we would have not thought of on our own, but have been the best dates.

  • @christineschwartz8269
    @christineschwartz8269 3 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for taking time to answer some of my unasked questions.. 💝,, May God Bless you both..🌹

  • @estrellabeale9036
    @estrellabeale9036 3 года назад +2

    I enjoyed watching the two of you giving these tips very much.😊 Although I am too old and been married for 35 years, I was soo tickled when you looked at each other.To me that is very romantic.🥰Thanks for making me feel young again🤗. God Bless 🙏 and I hope you will continue to inspire others.❤️❤️❤️😘

  • @SJD36
    @SJD36 Год назад

    Great video! I needed some fresh perspective and inspiration . We have been married 18 years and have 4 kids at home as well. It's been a financially stressful time lately and for me, that has been our hardest marriage hurdle to get over. Thank you for sharing your ideas and resources with us! I appreciate any prayers for us and will also keep your dear family in my prayers❤
    You guys shine so bright for Jesus and thats awesome!
    Take care! ~ Sarah

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  Год назад +1

      We pray, blessings on your marriage, Sarah, and financial blessing and peace in Jesus name over you both!

    • @SJD36
      @SJD36 Год назад

      @@MontanaHaven Thank you very much for that! It means a lot 🙂 Believing for peace and breakthrough in the mighty name of Jesus!

  • @WVRailroadPapa
    @WVRailroadPapa 3 года назад

    Marcelle and I have been married for 41 years. We certainly agree with the many things you said about marriage. We are blessed with four grown kids and six grandchildren. Also thank you for mentioning and praying for Marcelle's twin sister Marcia who lost her spouse almost 10 years ago. The Lord has been faithful to watch over her during this time.

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад

      Thank you Doug blessings to you and your family!

  • @tignim231
    @tignim231 3 года назад +5

    Thank you for your prayers😊 it's nice to receive a Godly perspective on marriage advice. God is great! May the joy of our Lord keep shining & blessing your marriage, Amen💙💜

  • @sariahinlandbountiful9366
    @sariahinlandbountiful9366 2 года назад

    I wish my husband watch the two of you sharing your thoughts. It works well to you guys cuz BOTH of you are doing your best to be on the same page…!!!! Thanks for sharing. CHENN

  • @autonomous_collective
    @autonomous_collective 3 года назад +7

    Great presentation and resources. Well done.

  • @Laura95000
    @Laura95000 3 года назад +4

    You guys are SOOO PRECIOUS! LOVE YOU! LOVE YOU! LOVE YOU!🥰

  • @malsierover182
    @malsierover182 3 года назад +3

    Yes the fire proof movie is a good one we have watched that one already

  • @lorifugate1570
    @lorifugate1570 3 года назад +1

    Oh yes, Joas an Priscilla made it to the end, very interesting indeed, always enjoy your videos!!! Just wanted to say you've learned a lot with each other over 17 years of marriage and have a lot of good advice....we are almost at our 30 yrs an you know we always learn no matter how many years we have together.....I have learned over the years that forgiveness, love an prayer is what keeps our marriage!!!! You are a couple that that has inspired!!! God's blessings!!!

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад

      Thank you so much Lori and blessings to you !

  • @sarahneufeld4232
    @sarahneufeld4232 3 года назад +2

    I really enjoyed this video! Such great tips for a happy marriage. We will be married 34 years in July. Still going strong! May God Bless You!
    I would also be interested in a bugeting video :)

  • @malsierover182
    @malsierover182 3 года назад +3

    That was a great vlog. Yes we listen to the five love languages. We still don’t have the book. And before we were married Moses bought me a star chart that also reads and they’re a lot about like your gems and what the person is so we know each other more like that. You are a great couple together and have beautiful children. I know we have to work on how to discipline our children are words we use towards them.

    • @mayochsetcher5528
      @mayochsetcher5528 3 года назад

      Hey Joas and Priscilla we did make it to the end of the video ha ha Ha
      When you first got together I always thought an disagreement comes in like if you don’t understanding which I think is a little of that as well but I have realized that it seems like there’s still something missing and I think it could very well have to do with the personality.
      At first when we got married I thought if we make sure we will understand each other we should not have disagreements or get upset at each other but no it is more to then that.
      I could tell when we were there how great of a couple you are you were very secure with each other!!

  • @diamondhair11
    @diamondhair11 2 года назад

    I agree with what you said about having other friends of the opposite sex. When my husband and I got married, we agreed to never go alone with anyone anywhere, but we really never wanted to....I think when God puts a man and woman together, they are so into each other, you don't want anyone else, even 41 years later my husband and I are madly in love with each other.. We love being together, really, we are best friends. and then God gives us the ultimate bond which is making love....Always take time to make love with your spouse. God wanted us to enjoy each other. ....and yes, we also have open phones. I look at my husbands all the time and he mine.

  • @gladysntsibande830
    @gladysntsibande830 2 года назад

    Wooow thank you guys for special massage to married or those about to be married these are the best teachings and people will never go wrong when doing all you have said guys godbless you love you

  • @wrinklymango775
    @wrinklymango775 3 года назад +4

    it was my moms birthday a couple days ago and she is such a hug when fan of your channel. if you could say happy birthday kim in your next video it would mean the world to her!!! 😊

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад +1

      OK we might do that :-) we’ll try to remember! 🤞🏻

    • @wrinklymango775
      @wrinklymango775 3 года назад

      @@MontanaHaven thanks she’s so excited!!! 🥰

  • @OneDawn4All
    @OneDawn4All 3 года назад

    Listen, you 2 love birds, I'm more than a decade older than Joas, but wanted you both to know I was so inspired by this video, the way you relate to each other and your very specifically practical tips that I downloaded it to share with my soon-to-be hubby on our honeymoon! (We're far too busy to watch it together these last 16 days of engagement!!) I love watching you 2 and feel blessed by every video of yours I watch!! May the blessings return to you tenfold!!🙏🏼🙌🏼 ...and how absolutely precious your pausing to pray for widows by name❣ I have no doubt our unfathomably loving God is well pleased with your lovingkindness!!🥰

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад

      Thank you so much Dawn, for your kind comment! We pray a blessing on your soon- to- be marriage!

  • @emilyinnetherlands5295
    @emilyinnetherlands5295 2 года назад

    I have made it to the end. I didn’t know any of the book you mentioned. So thank you for sharing. I find the love language book especially interesting. The Only book that I read that really helped before marriage was “men are from mars and women are from Venus.”

  • @jsmm2908
    @jsmm2908 3 года назад +2

    I love watching you two!! Thanks for the suggestions!!

  • @lydiazook4615
    @lydiazook4615 3 года назад +1

    Lol!! The way you guys react to conflict sounds exactly like hubby and I. He shuts down and I wanna talk about it and figure it out already 😅

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад

      Lydia, thanks for watching! Blessings to you and your family!

  • @macdollente1352
    @macdollente1352 3 года назад +2

    Your my favorite couple always and I enjoyed watching till the end all your videos .. tnx again for the tips and "God Bless"❤️🇨🇦❤️

  • @reidumphrey1980
    @reidumphrey1980 3 года назад +1

    Both of you set an incredible example. Thank you.

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад

      Thank you Reid blessings to you!

  • @samanthafrisby6043
    @samanthafrisby6043 3 года назад +3

    I really enjoyed your video, you are a lovely, inspirational couple, thank you 🙏😊

  • @swissmiss857
    @swissmiss857 3 года назад

    You both have so much to offer others. It's obvious that your advice is taken from your own experiences as well as great resources. How wonderful it is to see a couple who work together at life and love.

  • @lorisullivan327
    @lorisullivan327 3 года назад +1

    What a sweet vid... thank you for walking out your faith with such conviction and grace! I’m not married, but if Abba opens up that door, it will come in handy - I appreciate the good solid Biblical input! Much grace and love to you! God bless you all hugely!

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад +1

      Blessings to you Lori! May God bring the man he has for you!

  • @aprilhollander8015
    @aprilhollander8015 3 года назад +2

    Thank you. And I love the flirting with one another. You guys are so sweet. Im going to do that. By the way I loved the peanut butter.

  • @mlm7598
    @mlm7598 3 года назад +1

    You are such a loving and beautiful couple I can understand people looking as you walk together down the street or go places together. I think that is very sweet that people see that in you as it speaks to your godliness and true enjoyment spending time together. When we look around these days it isn't often we see that and I believe this world needs to be reaffirmed in it, that there are loving couples and wonderful people out there. We have been married 54 years and met in high school. We both came from large families with 7 and 8 siblings and we both have always had the same religious belief. That being said, I think no matter even yet we could enjoy the benefits of the books and the personality tapes. Perhaps even more so because as we age we do get set in our ways and each day is a new beginning. I am urging our grandchildren who are engaged to read these books and listen to the cd's.......I think it would be a wonderful bonus to anyone at any age but especially for newlyweds. It would make marriage so much more enjoyable and give us insights to be aware of each others ways.
    This was a wonderful vlog....I think you both are so very special and truly feel as you are messengers in a real way to the young couples and families.
    God bless you both...........your family is so sweet and we can see why when we watch you both interacting.
    Just loving that I caught this vlog.
    :-)

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад +1

      Blessings to you Mary Lou thanks for sharing!

  • @joannenoringseth7055
    @joannenoringseth7055 3 года назад +2

    You two are the best... thank you for being open & honest about your lives . Always look forward to yr videos. Beautiful family!!

  • @jeanniesmith3156
    @jeanniesmith3156 3 года назад +4

    I love your relationship and little family.

    • @cathylowery3478
      @cathylowery3478 3 года назад

      Passwords on phones #1. I believe in this day and age probably the biggest issue.

  • @karenhelser2834
    @karenhelser2834 3 года назад

    Thank you for sharing. When Christ is in the center of your marriage, He grows you to become one in faith, friendship and love. So evident He has been growing you. Lessons you have learned my precious husband and I have also learned, especially in love languages, conflict styles and personalities. Closing each night with prayer and kiss is our tradition also...our favorite time. Love to hear you laugh....must have laughter and joy in your relationship. Blessings to you and your family. This is one of your best videos.

  • @paulabhatt8211
    @paulabhatt8211 2 года назад

    Absolutely gorgeous pics god bless healthy life and family 🙏🌺🌺

  • @elofamily7241
    @elofamily7241 3 года назад +2

    Wonderful advice!! You are a beautiful couple and it's clear that you succeed at keeping Christ at the center of your family. I appreciated hearing your perspective - we are also coming up on 17 years this fall and a lot of what you said rings true for us as well.

  • @alaskamountaingirl
    @alaskamountaingirl 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing your marriage advice! God Bless 🙏🏾

  • @debbieroberts600
    @debbieroberts600 2 года назад

    You Guy’s are a Beautiful couple & a Godly Example fo other’s!

  • @diamondhair11
    @diamondhair11 2 года назад

    You are so right about Love languages. My husband and I have been married for 41 years. My husband is so amazing to help me around the house, clean something take trash out, etc, but I want a hug, a pat, a kiss,......I'd rather have that. My husband seems to love it so much when I help him do little things and if I praise my husband (honey your such a good husband, Thank you for taking out the trash, You are such a good Sunday school teacher and Preacher,, Thank you for filling up the gas tank) he seems to stand taller, be sweeter, want to do for me more rubs my feet and legs (one of my favorite things).

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  2 года назад

      It sounds like yours and Priscilla‘s love language could be the same and mine as your husbands! :-)

  • @shaleneschmidt5112
    @shaleneschmidt5112 3 года назад +1

    I loved this video so so much (and btw, I watched it to the end ;). Thank you so much for your inspiration and encouragement and for pointing back to the Lord in your advice. God bless you and much love to you!

  • @laurenlewis1129
    @laurenlewis1129 3 года назад +2

    Bless you both! 💕💕💕

  • @ArthurAgape
    @ArthurAgape 3 года назад

    God is good. I just watched the fireproof movie last night/15hrs ago (hadn’t watched it in years it’s so good!!) and then I watched this. He is indeed sovereign.

  • @valariecroslin1427
    @valariecroslin1427 3 года назад +1

    Thank you all so much for doing these marriage questions and answers your family is amazing

  • @reanndonaghy1433
    @reanndonaghy1433 3 года назад +2

    Such a wonderful video, thank you so much for sharing!!

  • @CelesteDemko
    @CelesteDemko 2 года назад

    Excellent! Full of so many little nuggets. Thank for sharing

  • @janonthemtn
    @janonthemtn 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for taking the time to make this video, much needed.💗✝

  • @karenhamann9490
    @karenhamann9490 3 года назад +1

    I so enjoyed all that you shared and will use some of the great ideas you talked about. 😊

  • @annelalonde1
    @annelalonde1 Год назад

    You are both so lovely and genuine, thank you for sharing !

  • @gaildavis710
    @gaildavis710 3 года назад

    Dec. will be our 42nd Anniv. What we found important was communication and trust!!!!!!!

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад

      Yes communication and trust is a big deal in marriage!

  • @carladeupree284
    @carladeupree284 3 года назад

    I'm looking for some good and healthy recipes if you have some. Me and my husband have been married for 22 years. We have one daughter and the one thing that we have always said and done in our little family is make time for the family and also ourselves. Love watching your family.

  • @lindajones16
    @lindajones16 3 года назад

    I think you two have it down I have been married 49 yrs and could not have gave better advice Take time to enjoy because to soon you are on the Fall of your life with memories to keep you going

    • @MontanaHaven
      @MontanaHaven  3 года назад +1

      Yes yes Linda good word. Thank you for your reminder. Blessings to you!

  • @cindygoblirsch9438
    @cindygoblirsch9438 3 года назад

    A very thoughtful video Joas and Priscilla. We celebrated our 43rd Anniversary on March 11th, and I you reminded me of things we need to do the annual check up on. Blessings to you both as you continue to seek the Lord and serve others. Thank you for your ministry through all your videos!