FAMILY TRADITIONS: WHAT TO KEEP, WHAT MUST GO

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  • @TheMakhs
    @TheMakhs  Год назад +22

    The comments are finishing us! 😂😂😂 ! Thank you DreamTeam for coming all the way through with these comments! Team #Waslap all the way😂. We love you so much❤️❤️

  • @gagebangale9163
    @gagebangale9163 Год назад +40

    Washing rag is for bathing myself and drying myself😂😂😂.. I'm with Mrs Makhs

  • @nothembazizipho6829
    @nothembazizipho6829 Год назад +8

    Your content deserve 100K views the way you put out your hard work through out your sitdowns🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤I love how authentic you are,please don't despair keep up the good work.

  • @phumlashongwe
    @phumlashongwe Год назад +21

    Last time I dried myself using a towel was when my mom used to bathe me, so I'm with Phetola on that wash cloth debate😂😂

  • @materenemolaoa1752
    @materenemolaoa1752 Год назад +21

    Phetola , you make me wanna be more feminine. I look up to you so much in how you relate to your head, your husband. You’re my role model. You make me love marriage and I love how even when you said you struggle with submission, it doesn’t show here at all.
    For me, you’re a led woman. Not a modern day feminist which I was initially subscribed to. Every time I listen to you and watch you, I fall in love more with the fact that I am a woman and I move an inch away from the (emphasis): MODERN DAY FEMINIST.
    So happy we have RUclips. Your channel is a blessing. God bless you hleng! 😭😭😭😍
    I love you. I love you. I love you. Pls!

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +3

      Oh my goodness! What a beautiful message. Thank you so much my sis. I appreciate you kind words❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @Sambulo-biyela
      @Sambulo-biyela Год назад +2

      Touchè! Honestly couldn’t have said it better!❤️ also #tradition😉. Love you family❤️❤️❤️

  • @HisPrincess_
    @HisPrincess_ Год назад +7

    Mrs Macks laugh is so funny like whats going on do you want to laugh or not ? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Like I literally just start smiling when she laughs. Lol

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +3

      😂😂😂😂😂 I actually didn’t realise I had this laugh until we started the RUclips channel😂😂

  • @perfectmoments01
    @perfectmoments01 Год назад +21

    1. I am with Mrs Makhs. I also use my washing rag to bath and dry myself and the towel to just move from the bathroom to another room 😂😂
    2. My grandmother and my mom also start devotion ka sefela. I've changed that for myself. Most days, I prefer playing music in the background and meditate on the word... Or just listen to music or in complete silence. It's not the same everyday, but for them, it's the same always.
    3. #TRADITION
    4. We will keep doing our homework - telling the community about the channel and interacting on paid posts 💃

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      Waslap le sefela gang!!❤️❤️😂😂

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much for spreading the word❤️

  • @mmakuenalesiea529
    @mmakuenalesiea529 Год назад +4

    I' m here for Phetola 's laughter😂😆😆😂❤

  • @_Palesa_M
    @_Palesa_M Год назад +14

    One family tradition we have and I will always appreciate is family prayer in the evening. At our church, we have a quarterly lesson Bible study that consists of lessons for daily study and we just go through that. We have praise and worship, Bible study and prayer. I didn't like it much as a kid but in hindsight, I am so grateful. Not only do I feel I have a solid foundation in my faith, but I am generally confident and well-spoken because of that. My dad made us read out loud a lot, I hated it because he would shout at us when we made mistakes, but now I am in a position where I don't even flinch when I am asked to read out loud or present stuff, even when I am unprepared because of all the preparation that started at home. This is one tradition I am taking with me when I get to my marital home when my time comes.

  • @shantel_Praise
    @shantel_Praise Год назад +19

    The conversations on this channel are always so informative and interesting. ❤

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      Thank you so much Shantel❤️

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 Год назад +5

    My parents used to discuss or even just mention financial issues when we were growing up.. however I realised in my adult life that I developed financial anxiety because I'd think if I bought myself a pair of jeans, I wouldn't be able to pay my bond because sometimes when I'd ask for something my parents would say "no, we have to pay the bond" It took a long time to undo that..

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      We can definitely see how this can create anxiety in children. We sometimes hear Lehakoe asking us questions about money that a child shouldn’t even be asking about. Kids need to be kids

  • @raisingremiandremo
    @raisingremiandremo Год назад +19

    I grew up in a home where my mom was open, shared a lot and would apologies without thinking twice. My husband is from a completely different home. Definitely something I have to teach him. Thank goodness he’s open to learning

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +2

      As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another. It will rub off on him❤️❤️

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs Год назад

      Hey Mama I didn't know that you have a channel just subscribed

    • @raisingremiandremo
      @raisingremiandremo Год назад +1

      @@joeydlaminivlogs thank you sis ❤️Haven’t posted yet but I do plan on doing so soon

  • @katlegomabaso5101
    @katlegomabaso5101 Год назад +1

    😂😂😂My husband uses a towel as well, The struggle of keeping the towels soft is real 😅😅

  • @DeeBlogs
    @DeeBlogs Год назад

    #tradition
    In America, we dry off with towels. To avoid excess water on the towel, you can use the wash cloth to remove "dripping water."

  • @CornerHouse_Media
    @CornerHouse_Media Год назад +4

    The only couple that looks exactly on their cover page as they look in real live 🎉🙌..lol..

  • @neomoseki8551
    @neomoseki8551 Год назад +5

    Somebody!🤣🤣🤣 Most of the convo had me on the floor and it was quite insightful as well.
    #tradition

    • @moremiracle4279
      @moremiracle4279 Год назад +2

      I couldn’t 😂😂😂😂 this one took me out.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤️❤️

    • @nonhlahlaphyllia6967
      @nonhlahlaphyllia6967 Год назад +1

      ❤😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Bonakelephumo
    @Bonakelephumo Год назад +7

    Tradition! My grandmother used to also gather us every evening for prayer, she would pray for such a long time until we fall asleep😅, but I have kept the prayer tradition until this day. Lovely installment as always🥰🤩

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      God bless our Granny’s ❤️❤️❤️

  • @tsebedaphney2678
    @tsebedaphney2678 Год назад +2

    Ooh please 🤣🤣 I could listen to Phetola laugh the the whole day 🤣🤣
    #tradition

  • @franscinasemakalengmedupe2890
    @franscinasemakalengmedupe2890 Год назад +4

    #Tradition
    Im with Phetola😂😂. I still wipe my body with my wash cloth. I also never understood drying with a towel.
    So I grew up having dinner on the table with my parents and still do it even now and I really love that tradition because I got to share stories and my day with my parents. That is one thing I will take to my household one day. 🤗
    Thank you guys for the funny installment. I literally laughed the whole entire time. 🤣🤣

  • @portiambuli
    @portiambuli Год назад +2

    My aunt used Lotion Brunnel🥺, and I used to be obsessed with the scent as a teenage . I always thought it's for adults 😂I might just get it for the nostalgia.

  • @LifeHaps
    @LifeHaps Год назад

    Me too, i dont understand the Towel thing. I use the towel just to cover myself. Drying yourself makes a lot of laundry

  • @remofilwethage5043
    @remofilwethage5043 Год назад +1

    It's humbling to consider how far beyond his own family & household GrandPa Kennedy's prayers have gone & are still going.
    We give thanks, glory & honour unto the LORD GOD Almighty.🙌🏾

  • @chumajola2511
    @chumajola2511 Год назад +1

    I also use the vaslaap for drying, and I use the towel to cover up and leave the bathroom. 😂😊

  • @melomagagula
    @melomagagula 10 месяцев назад

    Mrs Makhs on this instalment had me rolling 🤣🤣

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 Год назад +2

    Mr Makhs looks more and more like his dad every day..
    Pheto, I use the vaslap for wash and dry when I bath.. but somehow I dry with a towel when I shower.. I never took note until JUST this moment. 🤔

  • @tshenolomasilela6360
    @tshenolomasilela6360 Год назад +1

    Now as the mom who remains silent while the kiddos knock while the parents are knocking 😂😂😂 I feel so fetched

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Год назад +4

    Lerato!!! Same identical experience with knocking parents bedrooms and then the silence. I would think I’m not heard and keep knocking and then… 😂

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jay02021
    @jay02021 Год назад +2

    Lol we use the washing rag for both washing and drying and cover with towel.

  • @Elle_Tee_MrsM
    @Elle_Tee_MrsM Год назад +1

    Also....waslap is for bathing and wiping. Towel is to cover and walk to your room 😂 I can just imagine the amount of towels being washed weekly with Mr Makhs' "weird ways" i kid it's not weird it makes sense its just so different to how I grew up lol

  • @allthings_suzieq
    @allthings_suzieq Год назад

    I’m with Lerato, drying towel for drying 😅.

  • @keepyourfaith39
    @keepyourfaith39 Год назад +1

    Love and obedience Rewarded ❤🙏 today we better people because of our granny's guyz . I love Deuteronomy 11:1-32 fam I want to share it with you ❤❤❤❤

  • @nonkumbuzongalonkulu8116
    @nonkumbuzongalonkulu8116 Год назад

    Never heard of Lotio Brunel in my life. Love you guys,

  • @yolisalisanqari
    @yolisalisanqari Год назад

    😂😂😂😂Yhooo its Phetola's laugh for me... paaa i enjoy you guys. Please leave the rents alone🤣🤣

  • @AnnstaciaK
    @AnnstaciaK Год назад +2

    Something to entertain me last hour at the office 😢

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      Yaaay!!❤❤🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @asantesana.
    @asantesana. Год назад +1

    😅 The level of letting kids in should definitely be discussed with the kids and hear their level of comfortability

  • @Babs.K
    @Babs.K Год назад +4

    Aus’ Pheto, I’m totally like you in terms of drying myself with the washing rag and my husband uses the towel. Yho I can’t. And I feel like the towel develops a smell because it’s so big and soggy even after a day or 2, whereas the washing rag dries quickly.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      Towels are for wrapping ourselves guys 😂. It would be interesting to hear from other men. Seems like most women use the washing rag for drying.

  • @sivmdingi8950
    @sivmdingi8950 Год назад +1

    💯 % with Petola here. Everything that she said about the washing rag, you are me 100%. Towel is just to cover yourself not dry yourself. I also judged those around me that used it to dry themselves 😅. I just like keeping my towels clean, till today.

  • @gbngcobo
    @gbngcobo Год назад +2

    No drying with a towel, please. LOL. And how many towels are you going to wash in a week?! Awa. I still proudly use my 'waslap', thank you very much LOL!

  • @itumelengmochai
    @itumelengmochai Год назад +1

    Love that you guys called us out for not engaging with the content your putting out there with paid partnerships, considering that we also hold you accountable when you disappear for a while.❤️
    I for one intend to do better as a result!Thank you for your honesty!💝
    #Traditions I'm trying to keep ,praying as a family(I realized our disagreements come from a different space compared to our disagreements when we don't pray together.I wonder if this true with other people as well?)
    #Tradition I'm trying to create, having money conversions with my nieces and nephews.
    And talking about how each of our actions affect other people.A simple statement I keep reiterating with my 6 year old niece, is "You must treat people how you want to be treated ",we revisit this statement whenever both of us feel there is a sense of unfairness going on.
    #Traditions I'm trying to move away from, Believing that my opinion is the only one that matters because I'm older.(As Mr Makhs said, The idea that parents are never wrong)
    #Tradition I will be adopting, using a towel to dry instead of vaslap!You guys are killing us.🤣🤣

  • @zikhonampekula6405
    @zikhonampekula6405 Год назад

    I am sold to this family 🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @mokgo_r
    @mokgo_r Год назад

    #tradition, getting older ne, then when you go home to your Granma all those scents come back 🤩😍

  • @omolemomore7627
    @omolemomore7627 Год назад

    #TRADITION! Lols I use a vaslap to bath and dry my body. Towel is used to move from one room to another. I absolutely do not like wet towels🤣🤣🤣

  • @InspiredBy_
    @InspiredBy_ Год назад +1

    I dry myself with my wash rag too. The towel is for covering. Always. 😂

  • @ponatshegomakhuza6039
    @ponatshegomakhuza6039 Год назад +4

    🤣 This episode was funny...thank you. Please, not another 12 days neh #tradition

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      😂😂😂❤❤❤ we will make sure🤗

  • @busisiwekhumalo7571
    @busisiwekhumalo7571 Год назад +2

    I also had to introduce celebrating birthdays as well coz my husband's family never did that.

  • @mwelasendabula2911
    @mwelasendabula2911 Год назад +3

    Comfort Fabric Softener has been my softener since I moved out of home 😊

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      It’s smells divine ❤❤❤

    • @vuvumofficial
      @vuvumofficial Год назад +2

      And I love that I can use it as a room spray or spray it on my blankets and curtains. It smells devine

  • @ntlharimabunda1843
    @ntlharimabunda1843 Год назад

    Enjoyed this a lot 😂😂 #Tradition

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Год назад +1

    I dry myself with a was lap when travelling/not at my house to avoid having to dry towels. Otherwise at my house, I use towels.

  • @LifeWithYolly
    @LifeWithYolly Год назад +2

    I use my vaslaap to dry myself too, it’s easier to wash and dry. My husband uses a drying towl and I honestly hate it because it’s damp and we can’t always wash it everyday. Lol love you guys. Your topics are always so informative and relatable❤️❤️

  • @NicoleNeewat-Cloete
    @NicoleNeewat-Cloete Год назад

    #Traditional 🤩

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Год назад +1

    We used to have that and gather so much until my grandfather passed on then they stopped including us because he was the tree that brought us together regardless of where rich stable or poor you are within my family until this day they do gather without us cause they rich have businesses lot of car’s houses and my parents divorced each other them has one car and we just not stable enough to live with any of our parents that’s why we moved to my grandmother I miss my grandparents were still alive I miss those gatherings so much we don’t even communicate on WhatsApp just face to face when I visit church because We left my home church cause family was starting to leave as well but we left because of my parents situation so we are now at 3C ministries in centurion

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад +1

      This happens in most families. There’s usually that one person who is the glue that keeps the family together . It’s sad😢. So sorry your family went through this fam❤

  • @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy
    @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy Год назад

    #Tradition . Loved Loved this installment, laughed so much.

  • @rirhandzusibiya8695
    @rirhandzusibiya8695 11 месяцев назад

    “ We don’t do that here” 😂😂😂😂 Ausi Phetola😂😂

  • @msmoloi8135
    @msmoloi8135 Год назад +1

    I genuinely enjoyed this installment 😂❤

  • @thandiswazide3999
    @thandiswazide3999 Год назад

    I love the "covering the house in prayer" #tradition

  • @thatoolga
    @thatoolga Год назад

    Me I am Phetola please 😂😂 The towel is for covering, vaslap ke go phumala please .. I love this conversation man 😍😍

  • @lesedimofokeng_
    @lesedimofokeng_ Год назад +1

    #tradition.Ya'll are effortlessly funny😂😂😂

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      😂😂😂thank you! ❤️❤️

  • @tariey___
    @tariey___ Год назад +1

    #tradition. i love it here. WIth my family we always sit down and pray everyday before sleeping without fail even if my younger siblings are sleeping but i love that culture so much

  • @livhuanigadisi2663
    @livhuanigadisi2663 4 дня назад

    #tradition❤

  • @tshenolomasilela6360
    @tshenolomasilela6360 Год назад

    Had me at “come we can work” 😂😂😂😂

  • @seciliagabriel7879
    @seciliagabriel7879 Год назад +1

    Knocking is the way to I believe because what if they forgot to lock

  • @ongezwadikiso5687
    @ongezwadikiso5687 Год назад +2

    You guys are hilarious, what a funny and yet insightful conversation. Thank you! I'm definitely Mrs Makhs with the waslap. #Tradition

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Год назад +1

    I went to a workshop months ago for making prayer time interesting for families with children. Need to find my notes.

  • @nomcebo63674
    @nomcebo63674 Год назад

    #Tradition ❤

  • @mamajonephororo6524
    @mamajonephororo6524 Год назад

    I just found this channel recently. Guys, I just went through this channel and want to watch more of your videos! I am so in love with Mrs Makhs. She's full of life and love! She can laugh, and I find myself laughing all the way!❤❤❤

  • @nyaradzomunyanyi6197
    @nyaradzomunyanyi6197 Год назад

    #TRADITION😍😍

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Год назад +3

    Be consistent! That’s when you will leave the 60k’s 😂

  • @wewemhlaba7593
    @wewemhlaba7593 Год назад +2

    #Team Waslap😂😂😂😂This was a fun video please make more of these videos.Who dries themselves with a towel?Mr Makhs is so boujee😂😂😂.Love you guys.I might as well download Insta anything for you guys❤❤❤

  • @ntombifuthigloriamajola9985
    @ntombifuthigloriamajola9985 Год назад

    #tradition , one time ,too real oh yeaaaaaah!

  • @ReignTravel-o4e
    @ReignTravel-o4e Год назад

    You guys are just amazing

  • @octaviamahlatsi2203
    @octaviamahlatsi2203 Год назад +1

    Watching this has made me appreciate my parents and everything they have passed down to my siblings and I.
    Also, I’m with Ous Pheto… I use vaslapa to wipe myself also😅😅

  • @mukololo_Lorna
    @mukololo_Lorna Год назад +2

    🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 Yuwiiii vaslap gang pls gather here... I also dry myself ka vaslap and dry myself with a towel. And surprisingly i have a few sets of towels 😅😅😅

  • @eugenias8327
    @eugenias8327 Год назад

    In my house only the kids use towels, me and hubby use our face cloths to dry ourselves. Actually, there are no towels in my room, i just put on a gown if i need to leave my room.
    My family is big on birthdays, the only time we sat around the table to eat was on our birthdays. We cook up a storm, a starter, main, dessert and cake. We all still go home on each other's birthdays and celebrate them together. I did that with my kids during lockdown but we haven't kept it, next year we must start it again.

  • @lebohangntjabane693
    @lebohangntjabane693 Год назад

    Tradition ❤

  • @vuvumofficial
    @vuvumofficial Год назад +1

    Im with Petelo on the using washing rack to dry my skin. Hayke since i have an ensute i dont even bother with the towel 😂😂... but my husband is towel kinda guys 😊

  • @loriamakhubele5404
    @loriamakhubele5404 Год назад

    I personally don't like the admin that comes with drying yourself with a towel, so I'm with Mrs Makhs on this one. Washing rag is for bathing and drying myself, Towel is just to cover myself 😂

  • @SekokaziVimbelo
    @SekokaziVimbelo Год назад

    #Tradition!

  • @kgothatsomosweu7358
    @kgothatsomosweu7358 Год назад

    Towels are for covering up🤣🤣🤣 totally agree with Phetola

  • @rollykgware
    @rollykgware Год назад

    #tradition 😊

  • @tlaly
    @tlaly Год назад +1

    Loved the conversation, so relatable❤#tradition

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Год назад +1

    I’m wired I dry myself with both first the cloth then the towel just to finish off spots I missed

  • @nthabisithole1985
    @nthabisithole1985 Год назад

    This is the best channel I ever stumbled upon . I'm hooked ....I go as far as watching videos from 2 years ago.

  • @kgothatsomosweu7358
    @kgothatsomosweu7358 Год назад

    say "neighbour, subscribe to the Makhs"🤣🤣🤣

  • @khalalelosefali_loula
    @khalalelosefali_loula Год назад +2

    I'm 20 years old and I still dry the Mrs Mkhs way shame🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @yolz555
      @yolz555 Год назад +1

      Me too

    • @nomsamsomi4535
      @nomsamsomi4535 Год назад +1

      Same 😂 waslap gang that time I have a basket of towels but will only use to wrap myself

  • @lakeishalleke619
    @lakeishalleke619 Год назад

    I dry myself ka waslap hleee😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @nokulungamasango4926
    @nokulungamasango4926 Год назад

    I love you guys and enjoy every instalment, on this 1 I am with Mrs Makhs Vaslap is for washing and drying, I use 2 though 1 for face and the other for the body😅

  • @sarahmahlangu890
    @sarahmahlangu890 Год назад

    #Tradition❤Lots of love for the Makhs😊❤

  • @teemtshali9411
    @teemtshali9411 Год назад

    # Tradition.

  • @SammyD_23
    @SammyD_23 Год назад +1

    #tradition❤

  • @tlaly
    @tlaly Год назад

    That knocking segment in the beginning took me out man!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @TheAdedolapo.
    @TheAdedolapo. Год назад

    Tradition forward

  • @pulengmapholisa
    @pulengmapholisa Год назад +1

    I am half way and I cannot stop laughing🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yoh ya no, I love you guys. Mrs Makhs I totally use a vaslaap to dry myself. I must say kea lerata. I am sharing this with a friend

  • @khensanimoses4896
    @khensanimoses4896 Год назад

    I haven’t laughed so loud!😂😂😂

  • @Sis_Nonto
    @Sis_Nonto Год назад

    #tradition please leave dawn at home and le brute perfume, please tuu ha.e we’re struggling in the taxi’s 😂😂

  • @AnnstaciaK
    @AnnstaciaK Год назад +2

    Wash clothe is for washing and drying. 1 for Mrs Makhs and 0 for Mr Makhs

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      That’s my gal!❤😂

  • @palesamatabane3138
    @palesamatabane3138 Год назад +1

    Notification gang! We're up! ❤

  • @Debbie_MW
    @Debbie_MW Год назад

    #Tradition.. Love you guys all the way from Malawi

  • @makhosazanangwenya1693
    @makhosazanangwenya1693 Год назад +2

    #Tradition: Lerato we use Vaslap to dry not towel baba😂 I don't think I will ever stop using Colgate❤

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Год назад

      Aaah Colgate is the girl she thinks she is😂

  • @kingdomgirlsarise
    @kingdomgirlsarise Год назад

    Notification gang🎉🎉🎉I know my life is about to change coz The Makhs always bring the A game

  • @joeydlaminivlogs
    @joeydlaminivlogs Год назад

    Lol I was Phetola with waslap but I now use both 😂😂😂. The door knocking one😂😂😂