This offered so much advice in such a short amount of time. The opinions as well were so personal and relatable and can very well be taken to mind! Love you/your vids! And of course
My eyes was big this whole video lol! I love that you take risks in what you post because some people will definitely put down this video but it was really information whiles also being entertaining. Good job Rj :)
Thank you for making a point to talk about the importance of safe sex. I've lost loved-ones to AIDS and I worry that kids who are coming of age these days don't take HIV seriously because they were not around in the 80's and 90's to experience the epidemic first hand.
So... I'm totally here for RJ Aguiar. Shaming people into safer sex doesn't work though. And "barebacking doesn't feel as good as not being positive" is stigmatizing. I get what you're trying to say, but there's inadvertent shade that further divides us. I think I watch your content enough to know that your intentions are benevolent and that your politics are generally inclusive. This just seems to be a blindspot for so many MSM.
If all you got our of this video was 'shade', then you obviously have some of your own issues to deal with. They put up a fun, informative, sexy as hell video and talked about the subject in a very forthright manner. Enough already with every single thing that comes out of someone's mouth having to be up to someone else's politically correct/sensitivity meter. It's a chat about what's involved in M/M anal sex, from both sides, and to play safe when you do. That's it.
Hey, I'm not shading RJ or Ricky or saying they're assholes. I watched and enjoyed the whole video and I took issue with one part. Then, I addressed it, respectfully. I really don't see the problem. If you want to discuss what I said, that's one thing. But taking issue with the fact that I said it is reductive.
So sorry, I'm way late, ... just found your channel June 2017, now binge watching last 24 hrs... Thank you for this video, opened my eyes and mind to these guys who entertain us. I had seen a while back the Damien (BSB) interview and true or not I believed what he said, and that interview really got to me, reminding me that these guys are real people, and they just doing a job, though they have lives/loves (Damians life partner was Paul, may still be?) like the rest of us, love is love, huge respect now and massive rethink on my part. Love your channel.
J cray I know his real name isnt ricky I didnt say his name out of respect and privacy but we went to WHS and don't remember if he went to CLMS with me too. Not sure who you are either. Anyways he was about two years ahead of me.
All very good, very sound advice. Love the "homobro" dynamic between the two of you. It's adorable. On a side not, people need to calm down with all the cheater talk. Have you guys never seen good/close friends before? If Will had an issue with anything in this video, I am sure it would have been vlogged or tweet'd about.
Hey RJ... first of all I've been subscribed to your Vlog channel for quite some time and I love it. But I just found out you have this channel. Perhaps I haven't been listening that good :D So I'm a girl and I'm straight and from Germany. :D But I loved this Video. I think I'm really open and supportive, even though I'm not part of your community. I think what you do here is extraordinary! Thank you for talking so openly about this stuff. I also helped me, even though I don't really need to know how to top. I hope that in the near future everybody is comfortable to talk about this stuff. I also hope that a lot of people educate themselves before they judge. I've made the experience, that often people are against something because they don't know what they should think about it. I think your video really helps that cause ! Have a great day :) Lots of love, Kathy
I'm a cockyboys fan through and through. I ADORE Ricky's voice. What! I know he's gorgeous,duh... But his voice, oh man.Can send me to the moon and back in a sec. And he's right,of course. You can see the chemistry in a scene, can't hide that. Fake it? Nah, it screams from miles away when 2 ppl just don't mix well. Versatile is like the balance you get to have. And double pleasure! That was a great surprise RJ, thank you :)
i love how this was about tops and yet.....Ricky is wearing a thread like come on,he sounds nice and insightful but Gurrrrrrl that is barely a shirt let alone a Tank top like it would barely count as a scarf ..........well okay that aside i found this video very nice and giving some much needed helpful points and tips keep up the good work RJ
A few of my straight friends have recently tested positive one of them had just lost there virginity there partner said they were tested and clean...they lied. No matter your sexual orientation unless you are in a relationship with 100% trust safe sex is the way to go.
Teal Rose after the 5 years since I have made this comment I can safely say it does. I’m sorry that the same isn’t true for you and I hope you find it one day
Terro Storm nah, I'm friends with too many sex workers. As a het woman I will never trust a het man. A cheat's partner only finds out when someone wants them to find out - someone can be cheating for a decade or more and their spouse never know about it.
My first thought when I saw the tweet was "oh no he didn't" . Mind you I loved the video I even favorited it, I just didn't expect a video about this specific subject. It just came out of nowhere!!!!
Curios, but what if the top can't, for whatever reason, medical or something, take it. Do you feel he wouldn't make such a good top? Or is it mostly just listening and talking LIKE YOU SHOULD ANYWAY, hahaha? Jeeze Ricky is my Daughter's age. I feel old and dirty for even looking at him....like I've never before *blush*. I think he's the best guest you had on so far, RJ. So down to earth, intelligent and all round lovely guy :-)
He should probably experiment, maybe not necessarily bottom but explore to areas to kind of get a feel for what's good and what's not. Of course, part of the reason why he is a top is because he either doesn't like bottoming and/or can't so he may not necessarily be able to relate to a bottom's want(s) but that doesn't mean they can't be a good top, it's just that their learning curve is much higher is all. And as said in the video, each bottom is different but the exploration is really to get more of a general idea than anything.
This just has me wanting you and SexNerdSandra to get together and do a podcast/yt video together. She is really fantastic about delving into each topic, as well as keeping to the topic of each podcast.
I think when you're in love with someone none of this stuff even matters. I spent many years living a promiscious lifestyle and it never made me satisfied. Kissing someone that you connect with physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually is better than any hook up on the planet!
I tried to top my partner the other day for the first time and was unable to "perform". I was kinda afraid I am not able to please him before we get down and try. Could that be the problem? Please give me some advice.
So if you (RJ) haven't realized yet I've been like stalking your RUclips cause it's awesome but this is the first time I'm hearing of this guy and we have the same name so cool.
For a beginner who is thinking of bottoming, it is better for their mental adjustment is to start by being on top, "Sitting" on his instrument. That way the beginner is in control all the way. After he gets used the feeling, he can roll over on his back and be a bottom for real.
If you are comfortable to have sex with a person you should be equally comfortable to communicate with that person. Thanks for the terrific video, RJ, an Ricky.
As he's in a loving and secure relationship I'd pretty much say he'd be fine, if not only that, he'd be proud and love this vid too Why do you say that?
I'm 500% sure, based on the corresponding daily vlog for the day it was filmed, that Will is standing just behind the camera. So...Umm...I'm going to assume he's okay with it?
You want to know something, I didn't have Sex Ed. Class in High School. We had Health Class, but they didn't talk about Condoms, Straight/Gay Sex and even if they did, they might only talk about Straight Sex. I didn't have sex yet, or even have a boyfriend yet. But I don't know how I'll will feel "Bottoming" because I think that it will be painful, but I don't want to hurt him either.
Is it just me or do you want the bloopers and wills reaction to this video ❤️❤️❤️
Love you RJ!!!
Yes
yas please
Let's make this happen RJ!!
Jake Bass, Connor MacGuire, Colby Keller...yes, yes, and YES.
+terminatingreconstruction mmm Jake Bass.
Oh my god Ricky's voice, the tattoos, and the personality is oozing sensuality. Can he come back?
AND he values communication ugh yes
Ricky Roman is such a sweetheart. My heart goes out to his friends and all those who have HIV/AIDS. Thanks for making another great video TheNotAdam
Thirsty for Ricky now. Time to revisit Cockyboys.
Cocky boys ASMR
THE DREAM
Babe!!!
This offered so much advice in such a short amount of time. The opinions as well were so personal and relatable and can very well be taken to mind! Love you/your vids! And of course
MY BOOOOOOOOO
Oh.. levi..
Me or him? lol
"BOOOOOOOOO" Mike Wazowski!
Levi You so sexy too. Your naked chest... :) and You so sweet.
Caliente Chinito I can't omg hahahahah
"They're Selling Themselves And I Wanna Buy" Perfect xD Great video guys!
Jake Bass is my favorite. Please get him on ur show
Communication is so key seriously! Loved the video :) xx
My eyes was big this whole video lol! I love that you take risks in what you post because some people will definitely put down this video but it was really information whiles also being entertaining. Good job Rj :)
I just can't stop ski;ing. You two crack me up, while providing important information.
R.J. Love your videos especially Just the Tips. It's comedic and also informative. I'm still dying on the end. #gottagetthoseviews
I suggest a weekly talkshow hosted by Rj & Ricky! :3
very educational. i liked this vid a lot. it just hits the right spots of issues top and bottom problems. this was really good.
Thank you for making a point to talk about the importance of safe sex. I've lost loved-ones to AIDS and I worry that kids who are coming of age these days don't take HIV seriously because they were not around in the 80's and 90's to experience the epidemic first hand.
this is my favorite just the tips episode
Ricky is adorable, this was so entertaining!
I'm getting thirsty, I need some water. I feel like I should renew my Cocky Boys membership.
This video was fantastic and I really enjoy this series
Ricky seems like a really nice guy. Like he has a sweet aura about him.
So... I'm totally here for RJ Aguiar.
Shaming people into safer sex doesn't work though.
And "barebacking doesn't feel as good as not being positive" is stigmatizing. I get what you're trying to say, but there's inadvertent shade that further divides us. I think I watch your content enough to know that your intentions are benevolent and that your politics are generally inclusive. This just seems to be a blindspot for so many MSM.
That doesn't make any sense. at. all.
Sarah Jepson ???
If all you got our of this video was 'shade', then you obviously have some of your own issues to deal with. They put up a fun, informative, sexy as hell video and talked about the subject in a very forthright manner. Enough already with every single thing that comes out of someone's mouth having to be up to someone else's politically correct/sensitivity meter. It's a chat about what's involved in M/M anal sex, from both sides, and to play safe when you do. That's it.
Hey,
I'm not shading RJ or Ricky or saying they're assholes. I watched and enjoyed the whole video and I took issue with one part. Then, I addressed it, respectfully. I really don't see the problem.
If you want to discuss what I said, that's one thing. But taking issue with the fact that I said it is reductive.
Amen
I will re watch this over and over! Haha love it! Love all your just the tips videos :)
So sorry, I'm way late, ... just found your channel June 2017, now binge watching last 24 hrs... Thank you for this video, opened my eyes and mind to these guys who entertain us. I had seen a while back the Damien (BSB) interview and true or not I believed what he said, and that interview really got to me, reminding me that these guys are real people, and they just doing a job, though they have lives/loves (Damians life partner was Paul, may still be?) like the rest of us, love is love, huge respect now and massive rethink on my part. Love your channel.
This video was amazing in every way possible!!!
Congrats on being featured on the Towleroad Twitter Feed! I hope this video goes viral.
I loved this video so much I think it's my favorite just the tips video
"The 'has to be nine and up crowd'" *RJ indicates engagement ring*
Humble-brag
Ricky is my fav!!!!!!!
Mine too!
I'm glad he mentioned Colby Keller, my favorite.
Shit! Colby Keller is my favourite. I haven't seen any of his scenes. But he seems like a very down to earth adorkable human being.
I went to school with Ricky during high school. He's changed so much lol he is too cute
I went to middle and high school with "Ricky". If you knew him you would know his name isn't "Ricky". And I don't remember you at all.
J cray I know his real name isnt ricky I didnt say his name out of respect and privacy but we went to WHS and don't remember if he went to CLMS with me too. Not sure who you are either. Anyways he was about two years ahead of me.
I do love Just The Tips segments! This was fun haha
Loved the title! Can't wait to watch!
Yum! Cockyboys are really the best. Their models/actors seem to be very happy where they are.
All very good, very sound advice. Love the "homobro" dynamic between the two of you. It's adorable. On a side not, people need to calm down with all the cheater talk. Have you guys never seen good/close friends before? If Will had an issue with anything in this video, I am sure it would have been vlogged or tweet'd about.
Hey RJ...
first of all I've been subscribed to your Vlog channel for quite some time and I love it.
But I just found out you have this channel. Perhaps I haven't been listening that good :D
So I'm a girl and I'm straight and from Germany. :D
But I loved this Video. I think I'm really open and supportive, even though I'm not part of your community.
I think what you do here is extraordinary! Thank you for talking so openly about this stuff. I also helped me, even though I don't really need to know how to top.
I hope that in the near future everybody is comfortable to talk about this stuff.
I also hope that a lot of people educate themselves before they judge. I've made the experience, that often people are against something because they don't know what they should think about it.
I think your video really helps that cause !
Have a great day :)
Lots of love,
Kathy
Best. Video. Ever.
I'm a cockyboys fan through and through. I ADORE Ricky's voice.
What! I know he's gorgeous,duh... But his voice, oh man.Can send me to the moon and back in a sec.
And he's right,of course. You can see the chemistry in a scene, can't hide that. Fake it? Nah, it screams from miles away when 2 ppl just don't mix well.
Versatile is like the balance you get to have. And double pleasure!
That was a great surprise RJ, thank you :)
Oh dear God of Gay Porn, i'm SO ready for that to happen!
OMG poor Mama Aguiar and Mama Shep! Both must be clutching their pearls and I'm just blushing *for* them! :D
Lmao I'm dying right now! This was really cool to watch!
i love how this was about tops and yet.....Ricky is wearing a thread like come on,he sounds nice and insightful but Gurrrrrrl that is barely a shirt let alone a Tank top like it would barely count as a scarf ..........well okay that aside i found this video very nice and giving some much needed helpful points and tips keep up the good work RJ
Very fun. Ricky can be your very own Dr. Ruth of the 21st Century.
I just came here for Ricky Roman
Thanks for this! Also, thanks for mentioning that subs have power in healthy BDSM relationships. Too few people want to acknowledge that.
Sweet Jesus!!!! I have never been more jealous of you RJ !!!!
Omg Ricky is so cute and nice, the hand touches are what kills me with cuteness overload *dying whale noises*.
the top of the list is Jake baby boo Bass
Lol, LOVE the Will & Grace reference
just the tip! words to live by
Give the vers boys some love and interview Dale Cooper. (Or just interview Dale Cooper bc holy shit damn its Dale Cooper)
I KNEW IT I K N E W IT I SAW THE THUMBNAIL AND I WAS LIKE 'THIS GUY LOOKS FAMILIAR' (huge Jake Bass fan here) hELLO RICKY
Jake bass is my BIOLOGICAL FATHER
Jamal Williams Daddy.
Awesome.. Great .just the tips my favorite. So far.
Wow i love him. He made this video fun. A+
I love Ricky Roman and Jake Bass together omg 😍
Finally! Once I am in the under 301 club even though it doesn't matter.
A few of my straight friends have recently tested positive one of them had just lost there virginity there partner said they were tested and clean...they lied.
No matter your sexual orientation unless you are in a relationship with 100% trust safe sex is the way to go.
Terro Storm 100% trust doesn't exist.
Teal Rose after the 5 years since I have made this comment I can safely say it does. I’m sorry that the same isn’t true for you and I hope you find it one day
Terro Storm nah, I'm friends with too many sex workers. As a het woman I will never trust a het man.
A cheat's partner only finds out when someone wants them to find out - someone can be cheating for a decade or more and their spouse never know about it.
Teal Rose I’m sorry that’s your prospective on life and love
My first thought when I saw the tweet was "oh no he didn't" . Mind you I loved the video I even favorited it, I just didn't expect a video about this specific subject. It just came out of nowhere!!!!
Curios, but what if the top can't, for whatever reason, medical or something, take it. Do you feel he wouldn't make such a good top? Or is it mostly just listening and talking LIKE YOU SHOULD ANYWAY, hahaha?
Jeeze Ricky is my Daughter's age. I feel old and dirty for even looking at him....like I've never before *blush*. I think he's the best guest you had on so far, RJ. So down to earth, intelligent and all round lovely guy :-)
He should probably experiment, maybe not necessarily bottom but explore to areas to kind of get a feel for what's good and what's not. Of course, part of the reason why he is a top is because he either doesn't like bottoming and/or can't so he may not necessarily be able to relate to a bottom's want(s) but that doesn't mean they can't be a good top, it's just that their learning curve is much higher is all. And as said in the video, each bottom is different but the exploration is really to get more of a general idea than anything.
Jake Bass and Kolby Keller... What I'd do to be a cockyboy....
No you did not... Just get my FAVORITE cockyboy! Thanks for the amazing video, much love.
This was terrific. Ricky is one of my favorite Cockyboys!
Love those Ricky's shorts...
This just has me wanting you and SexNerdSandra to get together and do a podcast/yt video together. She is really fantastic about delving into each topic, as well as keeping to the topic of each podcast.
Uhhhuuu... Well.... I think I already know what happened after the taping of this video. Hahahahaha!!! ^_^
Wish I could like this video a thousand times...
Great advise, guys!
Great education, complete versatile here
I think when you're in love with someone none of this stuff even matters. I spent many years living a promiscious lifestyle and it never made me satisfied. Kissing someone that you connect with physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually is better than any hook up on the planet!
I tried to top my partner the other day for the first time and was unable to "perform". I was kinda afraid I am not able to please him before we get down and try. Could that be the problem? Please give me some advice.
Ricky has such a gorgeous voice. Oooof
I'm in love with Ricky😍😍😍
RJ, I don't know if anyone has told you this before, but you remind me sooo much of Dale Cooper (from CockyBoys)!!
I Hope RJ & Will got a Free Cockyboys password for promoting them :)
I thought this guy looks like Ricky Roman but God he is really Ricky Roman . lol
*RJ is much hotter that Ricky and I only realized this after they took the shirt. (loved the part of lick the nipple)*
Does anyone else feel like RJ and Ricky did the dirty?..... Just saying Will keep an eye on him
"Gross child like connotations..." says the guy who just moments ago said "Hung like a baby's arm".... lol.
finally interesting video
RJ, please tell me where you got those pants. My bussy yearns to own them.
This went south quick! Like hot miami beach south lol.
That ricky Roman damn
So if you (RJ) haven't realized yet I've been like stalking your RUclips cause it's awesome but this is the first time I'm hearing of this guy and we have the same name so cool.
Do a second one with him he was very involved and had something to say
Ricky over here looking like a snack❤️
That Ricky guy looks macho yet acts cute. I like him.
For a beginner who is thinking of bottoming, it is better for their mental adjustment is to start by being on top, "Sitting" on his instrument. That way the beginner is in control all the way. After he gets used the feeling, he can roll over on his back and be a bottom for real.
If you are comfortable to have sex with a person you should be equally comfortable to communicate with that person.
Thanks for the terrific video, RJ, an Ricky.
Connor Maguire FUCKING CHRIST no shame I would let him do ILLEGAL things to me LAWD, this was a really great video
I'd love to know what Ricky said right after "I legit said he's cute" - there was some choppy editing there.
OMG I love, LOVE Colby Keller :P
How does will feel about this?
As he's in a loving and secure relationship I'd pretty much say he'd be fine, if not only that, he'd be proud and love this vid too
Why do you say that?
No, I absolutley love them to death It was just pure curiosity and sarcasm! Sorry didn't mean to cause anything or be rude :D
Ahh, right. Thought it was an odd thing to say...if you "knew" them :-))))
I wouldn't be surprised if Will was there helping with the filming and enjoying the whole thing as much as them.
I'm 500% sure, based on the corresponding daily vlog for the day it was filmed, that Will is standing just behind the camera. So...Umm...I'm going to assume he's okay with it?
Someone has a crush on RJ... can you guess who? :P
When you're a bottom and you watch this you learn a lot!
You want to know something, I didn't have Sex Ed. Class in High School. We had Health Class, but they didn't talk about Condoms, Straight/Gay Sex and even if they did, they might only talk about Straight Sex. I didn't have sex yet, or even have a boyfriend yet. But I don't know how I'll will feel "Bottoming" because I think that it will be painful, but I don't want to hurt him either.
I feel bad for all the girls opening their mouths gasping about these conversations XD
The end tho 😂😂😂
Oh "just the tips". I thought it said "just the tip". I was gonna say "Amen".
loooove the vid
Isn't that guy from the blossom facebook videos?