How To Approach Your Crush in 3 Seconds
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- Are you too nervous to approach your crush for the first time? If you're in high school, middle school or college, here's how you can overcome your anxiety and talk to the girl or guy you like in your class in just 3 seconds.
QUESTION: Do you think it's possible for you to approach your crush in 3 seconds? Leave a comment below and we'll talk about it.
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approaches coworker:
You work here?
ApolloRED 😂😂😂
ApolloRED Same
ApolloRED Did you get her?
I just asked my hot co-worker “you work here?" pointing at my D. She just gave a perverted smile and gave me a bj like damn nigga wtf!!!😎
RIT123 wtf is wrong with you
I should really stop telling my friends who I like,half my class already knows...
Timmy Sok i know the same thing happens to me
Timmy Sok same
Timmy Sok lol i understand.Always happens to me
about half of the people I talk to, know... fuck
That's a good thing
My advise to this is, unfortunately, the words of a famous actor: "JUST DO IT!"
Hahaha Shia is the man!
YESTERDAY YOU SAID TOMORROW JUST ........................... DO IT!!!!!!!
he's got a gun to your head, and death in his eyes
but you can do jujitsuuuu
legendary fight with Shia Labof
normal Tuesday night for Shia Labof
+The Josh Speaks I am comfortable around my crush but sometimes take things the wrong way but I talk to her in 5 periods during the day. I want to spill out my heart and relive the stress im getting but I don't know how I was thinking of saying something sweet signing it mystery guy than putting my number on it saying that if she wants to know who sent this note call this number. tell me your thoughts on this idea ASAP because I have to do this the first day I get back to school. I don't know if she takes a bus after school or walks or gets picked up so after the bell rings I loss her in a mob of people who are crazy because school is out finally. I fell as if I wait any longer I may explode. please respond ASAP please
Okay, dude, here are some things to take into account:
1) Don't let everything out at once. Take your time with it. You don't have to do it right away once you get back to school. Talk to her, get to know her, and make some sort of connection before saying anything about you wanting to go out with her. See if you both have things in common, or even discuss some things you both have opposite opinions on and give a piece of your mind (without being offensive, and make sure to be justified and clear with your opinions).
2) Don't do the mystery guy thing. It will actually make you look like a coward and she'll think you have no confidence, because you didn't go up to her face to face.
3) When there is a connection between you two, ask for her phone number or to add you on whatever social network you both have.
4) When confronting her, be calm, relaxed, make eye contact, and just be honest. Don't say you love her, because that never works. When the connection is made, and she's comfortable around you, say something like, "I'm interested in you, and I think we should hangout sometime." Don't try to be funny, no suave moves, no pick up lines; just be yourself and express yourself carefully.
4) If this is causing you stress, then she's not worth it. Love shouldn't cause stress, anxiety or anything negative. You should be calm and comfortable around those who mean something to you.
5) If she turns you down, let it be and move on with your life. Don't let it drag you down. Take what ever result you're given, and do what ever it is you normally do.
The three second rule almost helped today I was about to ask her but then all of a sudden I pussied out 😰
Hey its ok man, it happens to the best of us. The next time you see her, don't think about it, just act.
Ricardo Quehl I feel ya man im asking my crush out 2 days from now and I got scared all the other times I tried to ask her
Ricardo Quehl that hapenns to me
Ricardo Quehl i plan i talking to her today
Jamary Wilson me to
i can walk up to certain girls normally but not my crush. wtf is my social life anymore?
Hey guys read this and I hope you can help: So back in 8th grade there was this girl I really liked but only thought of me as a friend fastfoward to high school. So a couple days later i find a girl that looks like MY CRUSHES twin and they look exactly alike. But I am a freshman and theres only around 50 freshmans in my school and shes not one of them which means shes older then me. During lunch I see her walking around the hall and I only see her like one or twice every week and shes walking alone so when I see her I have to make a move. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP ON HOW TO APPROACH HER. AND WHEN I APPROACH HER WHAT DO I SAY ?? And if asks bout my grade do i lie or not ?And I really tryin to do this so I can get her number so i can talk to her. AND ALL TIMES OF MY DAY I CANT Stop Thinking about her because she reminds me of my old crush Someone please help!
My dudes this is so relatable I talk my friends who are girls normally but when I try to approach my crush it’s impossible
Same except boys
HowellGaming HD same
Fucken same bro
I'm so happy....today I was with my crush alone in the lab at school...we sat down together and she held my hand and leaned on my shoulder. We later hugged . Best day ever☺
Good for you bro 👍
Nice!
Thats awsome😄
this comment was 2 years ago. how’s life now, my guy?
@@offme2176 he might be lying.. look at his profile pic
It s too hard actually , my heart starts beating faster and faster when I go closer and closer to my crush
Same
@@smokypizza bro what could we do..
@@learnsomethingnewop well the heart beat will eventually get normal after 30sec u are into conversation with ur crush.
it really depends on how far away you and your crush are from each other and how fast your legs are moving to approach her.
This is pretty late but Yo she's my neighbour. We see each other alot but we never say any other word to each other, other than hi(with a cheeky smile). I like her and i think she likes me as well bcuz at times i might be inside and see her passing by through my window(she doesn't see me when this happens). And i noticed she always looks at my house to know if she'll see me. I've asked her ones for her name and she told me. She also asked for mine. But that's the only time we 've talked to each other. Now I'm tired of just saying hi and smiling. What do i do next. How do i get to know her more and get her num? I can't just stop her one day and tell her to give me her number. I don't know how to get on with it
@@etzjunior_ Did you anything?or you still need help?
@@osk3253 I moved away and still didn't get her number
@@osk3253 it is an impossible job. I've done that alot. I know her first name only and I've searched everywhere. Couldn't find shit
If you knew she liked you you should have just went for it even if it was awkward at least you did something. I knew my crush liked me and I listened to the man in this video and just went for it and now we talk almost everyday
3 seconds
1 second = i
2 seconds = like
3 seconds = you
haha i never thought about it like that
The Josh Speaks thanks for replying. And also yea i wasnt really thinking when i typed the comment just typing what i thought you could say in 3 seconds lmao
4 seconds= run!!!!
I think its better to make it to: you...like...me
Time to use that 3-second rule!
*Sees crush one mile away from me*
Well shit.
lol
start sprinting boy
🤣🤣
Looks like the Chad usian bolt will be stealing yo girl
Man you 6 years older rn how are things with your crush?
I was on the lower left side corner of the classroom, my crush from the same class, she was on the upper right side corner. One morning I spot her looking at me, my heart skipped but I didn't break eye contact. 5 second stare felt like eternity. When she broke eye contact my heart was pumping fast and I felt like I was obligated to go to her. I was going crazy inside. I told my seatmates how much I love them and afterwards went straight to her and sat beside her. I said hi. My hands and lips were shaking. I could tell she was shocked and ignored me like a rock. I notice she was reviewing her notes and so I quickly asked her about it. Suddenly she sprang to life and talk to me like a normal person. I asked her name, she asked mine and I offered a handshake. She giggled as she noticed my hands were shaking crazy. My voice and posture were the only things I can control, inside me was a proud lion roaring in victory. A good looking guy who certainly likes her sat also beside her. It didn't matter though, I borrowed her notes and went back to my chair. I could hear the other dude spoke loudly to her. After class I approached her, she was acting so girly and I knew from that moment she was mine. I grew courage from talking to all the grandparents in our playground.
That will never happen to me
Lucky bastard...
+Totally not a gaming channel ahahaha! Yeah i got a little bit luck on that one
I find approaching my crush really hard. I have spoken to her before but I just always manage to talk myself out of it. This video really helped and I'm going to push myself to do it. Your videos are so helpful
so did you get the girl
any updates mate ?
Y’all married now?
UPDATE WHEN
so... im supposed to walk up to someone that is a complete stranger to me and say hey whats up where you headed?
ikr
Kermit The Frog y r u cheating i thought u were with miss piggy
@@jasmineagyakwa 😂😂😂
Sometimes you gotta just shoot your shot you never know just dont be creepy and super direct.
Get to know her on social media a little bit so she will know who you are
"Hey, those are cool shoes, what are those"?
Elite Spartan
lmao 😂😂😂
"that's paragon"
Elite Spartan "Thanks.. Damn Daniel"
Why would a guy ask what shoes a girl has, u wont be able to get them anyways
DAMN DANIEL! BACK AT IT AGAIN WITH THE WHITE VANS
Knowing me I'll probably walk right up to them, open my mouth to talk, realize that I have nothing to say, then turn around and run away.
Approaches girl on first day of highschool:
“You new here?”
Lol
what you said between 3:00 - 3:10 was yelling in my head the whole day after i saw ur video .. the next day i did it i finally talked to my crush and told her all about and you helped me a lot ! THANK YOU BRO.
Josh I need help. I'm afraid she'll punch me...
Just walk up to her, smile and say hi, then talk about common interests
I've done that m8 and now I'm making progress. But thanks for the reply mate.
np bro
FreezingSauce Derp me too
What happens if I know none of her interests...
I used the 3 second rule just recently and I was able to talk to my crush, but when I asked her out, I got rejected😂😂 it's all good though. Im actually surprised that I wasn't down or sad at all ! But Great Video👍🏾Keep Up The Good Work
OOF sorry about that. I hope that doesnt happen to meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
dude. u did the impossible. YR A WINNER FOR THAT
Try again there plenty of pretty girls out there...
Me: *Walks up to crush*
Me: Hey! Uh, this may come off weird but I just wanted to say you have a really cool hoodie! (He always wears a green hood :I)
Him: Uhhhhh, thanks?
Me: *Inner Thoughts:* FUCKFUCKFUUUHUHUHUUUCK HE THINKS I'M A LUNATIC NOW, OR THANKS TO GENNY MAYBE HE THINKS I'M THE FIFTH GRADER WHO LIKES HIMMMMMM
Me: And uuhhhh, yeah! See ya! *Walks away blushing*
Him: The heck just happened...?
Me: *THINKING: PLEASE COME AFTER ME AND TALK TO ME I PUT ON A SKIRT, DID MY HAIR, PUT ON LIGHT MAKEUP, DID MY NAILS, ALL FOR YOUUU!!!!*
Spencer Smith all me xd
This is so relatable 😂
Me:sees crush
Also me : lets talk to her
Worry mode:igth lets get to work
All might Bakisan Confidence: ight ima head out.
Omgggg accurate
Me: *sees crush all the way down the hall*
Also me: *runs as fast as I can while screaming counting*
yeah
🤣
Pls tell me a solution for that bro.. Your brother.
Boys, I’m doing it tomorrow, liked her for a month, finally gonna take action, wish me luck
Good luck!
You done it brave soldier?
Can you tell me what you said
One of my problems is I don't know if she out of my league or not but I don't think I should let that stop me
Go for it. If you get rejected just move on.
Corpus i only like the girl in my gym class. and the girl in my class likes me as a friend. wtf do i do the girl in my gym class rejects me?
cyberchris 19 As I said: Move on. I didn't talk to the girl that I liked and now she is after another guy.. It hurts but I know I had my chances.
what if im popular and shes not?
Hey guys read this and I hope you can help: So back in 8th grade there was this girl I really liked but only thought of me as a friend fastfoward to high school. So a couple days later i find a girl that looks like MY CRUSHES twin and they look exactly alike. But I am a freshman and theres only around 50 freshmans in my school and shes not one of them which means shes older then me. During lunch I see her walking around the hall and I only see her like one or twice every week and shes walking alone so when I see her I have to make a move. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP ON HOW TO APPROACH HER. AND WHEN I APPROACH HER WHAT DO I SAY ?? And if asks bout my grade do i lie or not ?And I really tryin to do this so I can get her number so i can talk to her. AND ALL TIMES OF MY DAY I CANT Stop Thinking about her because she reminds me of my old crush Someone please help!
Hey fellas, I won the battle I've been dating my crush for the past 3 months and it's all going amazingly well.
Wishing you all luck :)
hows it going for you now
Okay so what if I don't like her friends, or don't have any classes with her, and I am super akward
+Zachary Johnson Fuck off
Josh Guernsey say hey u look really pretty today and I wanted to come over and say hey then say we should talk sometimes
Josh Guernsey then aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Josh Guernsey Omg this is me with my crush😔He is so perfect and I dont know what to say...
Abrea Jyles when? Before school? During lunch? After?
my nigga josh what if you never talked to your crush at all O.O and she already knows whats up ?
Ur fucked
+Aaron Holloway lol ,how about if she doesn't know you in general how do u go up to her
+Conqwest13 M most recent relationship, I went down the friend path, while carefully keeping out of the friend zone, just asked her out the other day and it worked.
What should I say to her if we've never talked and she don't know I exist
+Conqwest13 all I got is: just go up and say "hi. What's up?"
how do u talk to ur crush when her friends hate u
Abraham Isaac Jacob Hey man its 1 year later. what did you do?
Zonatic her friends ended up breaking his legs when he talked to her
Abraham Isaac Jacob YE UR RIGHT BRO I EVEN HATE HER FRIENDS
Kill the friends
@@nopenope1936 Lmao
I'm about to do it tomorrow boys il let you know
Didn't do it
Justin C I feel u bro lmao
Justin C JUST DO IT
Kevin Aguilar I didn't do it any my last day of school was Monday
Justin C fuck man Ima try the 3 second rule it's sad for me to see my crush in the halls walking
Her: nice weather
Me: *thanks*
On Wednesday my crush told me that she knew who liked me and she would tell me on Thursday.On Thursday she wanted me to guess who it was...she gave me hints and I asked if it was her and she said yes..now things feel awkward and I still like her please help!!!
That's good that she likes you first of all, she won't get mad at you for talking to her then, maybe just say something like, "I think we should hang out more." And let it go from there. I'm no pro like Josh but I hope I helped :)
+Dark W. Yeah that's good but he also needs to talk to her in person
+Dwash6124 Thanks we are talking to each other just like we used to
+Young J Awesome man I'm glad to hear that :D
I'll do it Monday, I'll reply back with results...but don't hold your breath everyone
fayt87 good luck and me two iam gona talk to her
I'm gonna do it Monday too
Its been a week, give us results!
Nope, We are good friends thank you
fayt87 good luck I'm trying tomorrow!
I say it's impossible😂😂💯💯🔥
maliah gill it's not
it is to me, I'm a shy/antisocial person😂
maliah gill u in miami
YodaWithASoda no😂
maliah gill kool
Yeah let me just
Approach someone who doesnt know me
“Hey me and my friends are going to the movies this weekend what do you recommend?”
My problem isn't getting there, it's what to say that broke my mind.
I am THE WORST when it comes to topics of conversation
BUT I LITERALLY TAKE 1 SECOND TO HAVE EVERYTHING HIT ME AKDSBDOSBDID
Okay but if I started to a talking, it’s extra worrisome because what if they’re homophobic. But imma try, I’d rather be rejected than wondering what could have been. Great video!!
What if u want to get to no ur crush more before u ask her out? Josh can you do a video about how to ask ur crush to hangout to get to no each other moe?
I saw her today and wanted to talk but when it was time all that comfidence went away
who is a freshman here
Well now your a junior... thats a nut in the face
Me
Me
Me
😂 I'm in college.. sad..
everyday I have a pick-up line for my crush this was one of them: I fell in front of my crush so he helped me up and I was really embarrassed and said so u have a band-aid because I just scraped my knee falling for u
I sent this to my friend and it actually worked. I was so surprised when he managed to pull off a hottie like her. Thank you Josh you got my friend to stop being a depressed piece of trash lol XD
Thankyou sm turns out my crush actually likes me back ❤️ Thankyou ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I have liked my Crush for four and a half years and the last time I said " hi " was in grade 4...now I'm in grade 8 and never said a word....I need some big tip to make to go talk to her
Hey, after 4 years like that I would treat it like it's brand new for you. Try talking to her about her plans for the summer, message her if you can or better yet ask her in person if you can.
+The Josh Speaks it's easy to say bro...im too shy to speak to her....
+The Josh Speaks can you talk to me on Instagram??
Kid ya don't just crush for four years ur in love
pussy
See the thing is, my “worry mode” doesn’t kick in as soon as I see her. It’s as soon as I start walking towards here to talk to her, that’s when it kicks in.
Him: "Say something casual!"
Me to my crush: "so... I like you and was wondering how you feel haha omg ha! So ya just think about it um byeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
1. walk 2. say hey 3. say "im going to go crap bye" 4. succeed in making your crush go "wow, that guy is weird" -Good job!
I have a nervous problem, my crush and I are already in a relationship and but we are just way nervous to go talk to each other in real life. (We started on the Internet) I don't think I'll ever grow guts to talk to her.
+Joshua Lim just.....DO IT.....(If you're already in a relationship you should start treating your crush like you'd treat a friend at first, until you're comfortable around them)
If she likes you too just know that there isn't a problem talking to her. What's the worst that can happen? I mean just because you bundle up some words I don't think she'll get mad at you for it. You also get bonus points for her being in a "relationship" with you already bro
.-.
+Joshua Lim Okay how about this, tell her that you feel nervous when you talk to her in person. She'll probably ask why, then you can tell her why. If you say I don't know then say that you'll start talking to her more in person
I tried. .-.
I’ve been telling myself this recently, because I’ve been very scared to talk to my crush.
“I’ll be very proud of myself if I actually walk up and talk to him but I won’t be proud of myself and I know I will regret it if I don’t ever talk to him. “ I only have three weeks left of school which means I only have three weeks left to see him because we’re going to high school next year and at least I tried when I talk to him and if he doesn’t talk to me back again, at least I tried if he does. Well that’s good for me.
I expected this video to be 3 seconds long.
I was wrong.
I don't worry, I just being myself and I express my feelings with honesty and I aim on myself to be myself and that is all
My "3 second rule" is a "3 millisecond rule"
If you don't have motivation it's hard to talk to your crush please do a video on motivation
This is the third damn time I’ve watched this video and I’m still a nervous dip.
I'm a girl in 6th grade and I have a crush on this guy that's new to the school this year. I'm always nervous to talk to him, and being in different classes doesn't help. This 3 second rule will help my me and my friend a lot. Thanks.
Hi u alive
Are you in 11th now?
She always hanging out with a group. What should I do???????? I also think her friend may like me. And I have little social anxiety. What's this man, i am probably the most unlucky person in the world.
I did this before I even knew about it... Around 2-3 weeks ago I couldn't even talk to my crush but now I can hold like a 1 min conversation...
So yesterday me and my crush started hanging out and she was clingy af but then the day after she texts me”im sorry but i’ve got feelings for my close friend for a year” after her being clingy af to me... so uhhh what do i do 😐
Lol, today the girl i sit next to, just went to the girl that I had a crush on, so I stopped her, pretty much strangled her, and said that I liked her, instead of her.
Hey Josh why did you decide to do these type of vids on RUclips??? They are very helpful
+Brent Dorland Hey, at first I started making videos about topics that interested me but as I got more and more feedback I began to see there was a need for a regular guy to teach and connect with young teens and adults on topics like confidence, dating and being your best self. I'm hoping I can help people fill out those parts of their life.
+The Josh Speaks I sit next to my crush in 7th period and when im about to ask her something i just can't get the words out of my mouth. Is there a way u can deal with that situation
I have a head-scratcher for you; there's a Fitness Trainer at the gym who seems to go out of her way to avoid looking at me/making eye contact with me. We make accidental eye contacts from time to time, and she always turns her head or looks away ___, in dramatic fashion as if she wants me to know that she's allergic to me. I am mystified because I have never approached her nor have I given her any indication that I'm interested in her. My only interaction with her happened when she was fairly new, I went to the gym directly from work, she was at the front desk and she complimented me on my outfit. I chalked it up to a new staff trying to appear friendly. I wouldn't hit on a Trainer for the same reason I wouldn't hit on a Bar Tender. She is very attractive, my guess is, she's used to getting a lot of attention and I have not given her any validation. I'd love to hear your feedback. Apologies for the ultra long message,
Well I am just right next to her in 3 classes what to do ?
I'm working on a collab over on my friend's Martin's channel (ruclips.net/user/PeakYourMind) which comes out soon, but one tip I share is to talk to the people next to you about school related stuff, cool movies that came out or even weekend plans.
Same😔
victory obisesan don't do your work and then ask her if she knows how to do it and tell her to teach you
get her
Ask her for like a piece of paper or something bro it's hella easy in your situation
I can spot my crush from afar, I will definetly take more than 3 seconds if I decide to do it
Saying a random hey sounds so weird to me
What if we talk by texting but I cant talk to her in person because her friends are always around? Do I ask her when she is alone, or do I just jump straight into the group and start talking to her?
I don't think talking to her in a group is a good idea I think talking to her when she is alone is a better idea
I told my crush i liked her shoes, and she said “thx my bf got them for me”🥀
I'm not afraid to approach my crush, I know her kinda well, but if I randomly walk up to her and be like "hey! 'Sup" but that's not something I'd normally say because I'm weird and I'd probably say something like "heeeeeeey " but either way id seem super into-her
Yeah I know right I wouldn't just walk up and be like hi!
I have the same problem, I rarely ever talk to girls in my school because my self confidence is basically nothing, so if I was even gonna say "Hi" or something, people would think I'm trying to flirt with her or something, but thats not the main problem, its that she would likely be grossed out by me, or I would run out of things to say and look like a complete idiot, so it wouldn't just be rejection I would have to deal with.
Kinda wish I was Asexual now (not attracted to any gender)
Guess I will be forever alone either way...
bro i dont care that this video was made 7 years ago but im still saying it, i tried this frickin three second rule and i was barely thinking anything and i just felt like i was exhausted and my chest was bouta burst and brick wall fell in front of me when trying to talk to her. idk maybe it was like 6 seconds, i wasnt keeping track.
I like my friend's sister and I'm having a pool party soon should I invite her and her brother ( She knows me well)
Kind of a bad situation close to a friend be careful about getting her to like you
Keep in mind that this doesn't just work in cases with your crush. It also works with other people, like maybe there's this popular kid in your class who you want to start a conversation with.
I don't have him in any of my classes. What should I do?
+Born2BeMe check out my video from a few weeks ago on what to do if you never see your crush around, it might be helpful for your situation.
Born2BeMe just say you're looking really good I just wanted you to know. and let's see
Thnx josh now im more confident about talkin to my crush
Ur like my favorite RUclipsr 😊
+Son Goku Thanks man, I really appreciate it.
+The Josh Speaks i need help with a girl...so there is this girl in my class and shes always looking up at me. she doesnt talk to me alot but i feel like she likes me. im not really her freind but when she broke up with someone i was the first pearson she talked to. she always wants to be my partner in any activity we do in class. im in 6th grade and i hope you can help:)
+Diego Galvan She likes you,but the reason why she doesn't talk to you is bcz she is shy and affraid that she will mess up something.
The exact thoughts I had before not doing it after 10 minutes she had left
HOW CAN I DO THIS IMPOSSIBLE THING
Im trying to get this girl that was together with me for 5 times but none of the relationships were real but now im looking forward to opening up and havin it real thanks!
I am in middle school and I asked out my crush and she said yes but there is a 3 inch height difference between us(I'm the small one ) what do I do
Jay Play I think that's adorable😄
Grow XD
Jay Play That's adorable! It's ok to be shorter than someone else! It's cute!!!
Dude lmao same
Not in middle school but I'm shorter than her
For all those people who are nervous about being rejected then you should try something I thought up. you could say at some point "hey did you know I used to have a crush on you". Then if they say "I like you as well", then you can say "I actually still like you too". Not sure of it works but I would be interested to see if someone tries it out and it does work.
idk why people have a hard time talking to their crush lmao its easy asf
Hey guys read this and I hope you can help: So back in 8th grade there was this girl I really liked but only thought of me as a friend fastfoward to high school. So a couple days later i find a girl that looks like MY CRUSHES twin and they look exactly alike. But I am a freshman and theres only around 50 freshmans in my school and shes not one of them which means shes older then me. During lunch I see her walking around the hall and I only see her like one or twice every week and shes walking alone so when I see her I have to make a move. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP ON HOW TO APPROACH HER. AND WHEN I APPROACH HER WHAT DO I SAY ?? And if asks bout my grade do i lie or not ?And I really tryin to do this so I can get her number so i can talk to her. AND ALL TIMES OF MY DAY I CANT Stop Thinking about her because she reminds me of my old crush Someone please help!
It is absolutely impossible it takes me less than 1 second to start panicking
mmkay so basically I like just recently transferred to a new school (like after school had already started) and there’s this kid that immediately caught my eye. He’s definitely an introvert, as I am, and like we have to wear uniforms at our school so there’s like nothing I can really compliment him on (that I would feel comfortable with). The only time I interacted with him was when I was doodling, and a bunch of kids came over and were complimenting me, and he kind of walked by to see what it was all about and he told me I was really talented. But that’s basically it. I am really eager, and maybe even willing to talk to him, but I just don’t know how to approach him.
Help??
I was talking big man in my head at the gym "Yeah when she come in ima talk to her and get her Instagram".. when she came in boy let me tell you, I felt like my world dropped of how anxious I got.
watching this video is giving me butterflies to think about it
For some reason I get super hype at the start of your videos
I know my crush likes me back 100% but her friends are so annoying and always tease her and it makes her get very shy so I’m scared if I go up to her she’s going to find it very awkward and not know what to say😬
I am not a conversation starter, no matter what you think, it wont work if I am the one starting the conversation. But I am good however when it comes to "butting in" a conversation.
Thanks alot, I doubt myself every freaking day at the worst moment but I think I'll be able to use this rule :D
when your 5'2 in 10th grade trying to get a girl is the hardest thing (for me) because a lot of girls always say they don't want to date anyone shorter than them or in general prefer a tall guy
I talked to him today and my voice was never this shaky
Hey Josh. My crush is a girl at my work. We have exchanged glances a couple of times. The thought of starting a conversation with her gives me that horrible stomach feeling :(
Ok I was in school today and saw her , I looked her in the eyes and smiled and she looked back .I had this tingly feeling in my belly I was like " no I cant do this , I fucking cant " But believe me , Im going to do it as soon as I am seeing her when she is alone . Im going to walk up to her and tell her that she is interesring and hopefully this will end in a good conversation :D
What if you’ve never spoken to your crush except like twice?
I didn't know this was a problem these days. I thought it was just the talking part. I find it easy to approach her, its just like approaching any other person for me lol...
I actually did this about 6 months back and I just walked up and talked to him. It was amazing he was smiling and seemed to enjoy the conversation. After that it was more so hi and goodbyes. Now that I look back I should’ve been more social with him. But nether less I’m so glad I talked to him. Now I can be like apart of his memory some what. So you guys better work up the courage it’s so fucking worth it.
I did it, I finally struck a conversation with my crush, I think she likes me!
I'm 35. I've had three LTRs and plenty of casual "things" with women. Yet here I am, searching for how to approach the one woman I *really* like, because I bottle it every time.
Her and I have spoken very briefly twice, and that was recently. I played it cool and all was fine. She knows I exist but that's not enough for me. I need more interactions and I need to instigate them. Yet I can't. I feel like a teenager again 🤦♂️
Yeah I have been in that kind of situation before. Its really hard because I always hesitate when I want to talk to my crush.
Alright, I'm going to try my best.
I'm a girl who likes a guy. I've never had a conversation with him but I'm just crushing on him. We've had our moments where we've locked eyes 👀. How on earth do I approach him if I'm shy!?
Easy bro,usually i will say " hey you look hot without make up yesterday and now you look like a printed panty with make up" on the 2nd day they will staring at me and i'll say "hi you look sweet with this hairstyle" and they become my admire.
I like this guy, he's confident
What should you do if she doesn't know you that well but you know her quite well