*Here’s a few links to hopefully help !* *To educate yourself on the matter:* kropotkindersurprise.tumblr.com/post/618115073984151552/could-you-recommend-some-anti-police-literature outfromtheocean.tumblr.com/post/619558933748678656/oh-and-reminder-for-my-non-black-mutuals-to-not *If you’re planning on protesting:* masked-up.tumblr.com/post/619567176971599873/wear-a-mask-for-safety-and-hygyine-try-to *A simplified version to educate yourself a little bit:* slut4rihanna.tumblr.com/post/183392348045/please-watch-michael-ches-netflix-special oberynmartell.tumblr.com/post/619572899235430400 clungedestroyer.tumblr.com/post/619392259119546368 taankhsrealhoodoo.tumblr.com/post/615935561779363840 blondebrainpower.tumblr.com/post/190363847159 szns.tumblr.com/post/619735964629270528/captainamericas-one-year-of-when-they-see *How you can help, donations, suggested actions to take and such:* greekgods.tumblr.com/post/619674068380237824/ways-to-help-protestors-if-you-are-unable-to abbiheartstaylor.tumblr.com/post/619477591995367424/how-can-i-help mothpoem.tumblr.com/post/619400431988342784/so-direct-action-is-not-an-option-available-to orriculum.tumblr.com/post/619652314193707008
Lilithu Allison shallon does more for the black community than most black celebrities and def more than the average American. Shallon is supposed to stop working bc ppl are protesting? She legit opens her video with info and links on how to help. Throwing the privilege blanket term out is typical of someone who just wants to complain smh. Were you here leaving these comments this entire time they’ve been keeping humans in cages at the border..or when those 1500 Hispanic kids disappeared at the border and more than likely sold into sex trafficking? The info/advice she gave in this video is what needs to be heard. I didn’t stand in the protest but I’ve been nonstop advocating for racism within the justice system and inhumane treatment of Latinos at the border for over a decade every week. Y’all only care when shit is trending which is obvious by your comment. Ppl trying to make actual change don’t leave petty ridiculous comments such as yours
I am loving the nicer, newer Shallon. Girl, you have been going through it for over a month now & the growth you have made as a young woman, while still keeping that wicked edge you have & I desperately appreciate, is absolutely astounding. Damn, I & many others, really look up to you & you are addressing some serious topics lately. I am very sorry for what happened to you with a so-called friend, but you are doing a great job by choosing to not dwell on it. You get shit done girl!!! Much love from a grateful Shower Liner!!! ❤️❤️❤️
@boulderarms exactly!! See, all of the women on here know exactly what we are getting with Shallon & although she made a video long ago about BPD that I actually found offensive, I was able to rise above that & got to know her & where she stands & I have the utmost respect for her. I feel like she is my younger sister in some way (if that makes sense!!) And all of the ladies on here, we all are on the same page with respect & I find our little community very empowering. The people that are saying bad things about her & us Shower Liners are the people that wouldn't understand what true feminism is if it hit them upside the head!! I always feel so empowered from these videos & I am grateful that I didn't give up on her only because of the first video I saw made me feel some kind of way. 😘😘😘
She was fine before. RUclipsrs went after her because she is an outspoken woman who is becoming more successful. The whole thing is rooted in sexism--happens to female RUclipsrs all the time.
tbh its crazy to see how insecure and probably unhappy Kylie is - she has more money and fame that anyone could wish for. Really a testament to how material things don't foster happiness.
She didn't deserve that money and that fame, it's all come from his family reality, she didn't work that much for her status. She is completely aware of this, that's why she is not that happy with it
I think Kylie like a lot of people think fame and money are the answers to life’s stresses, pain and suffering. Then they find out that money is just money, doesn’t mean much more than paying for basic needs like water, food and shelter. If you’re helping others with your money than money means a lot but money makes people very selfish and greedy.
Not a healthy reason to have a child and best friend relationships between mom and daughter are often toxic (but hey my moms my best friend too) but she seems to be SUCH a great mom and Stormi is so cute and intelligent
Or maybe she wanted to be responsible and have the baby instead of getting an abortion? She can afford it and she has said that she has always wanted to be a young mother.
I was told since childhood that my looks don't matter, manners and exam scores do. When I turned 21, suddenly was shamed for not being pretty and feminine.
Exactly- like when Yolanda said that Gigi couldn't be a model and a volleyball player at the same time because she won't look feminine and that volleyball players eat like men... I can't imagine if my mom would say that.. and telling your daughter that she has to be on a diet or that she cant have more than a tablespoon of cake!? its awful... (all clips from Housewives)
But Gigi wanted to be a model, had an athletic, strong beautiful body but not the model body and her mother was a model and was at least trying to help. When the Kardashians were growing up, their mother weight shamed and tried to restrict food from them without concern for a job or health - she just wanted to control howthey looked (Kim and Khloe, mostly). She does that with a lot of things in their lives.
Video on Khloe’s “new face”. Maybe talk about how focusing on reframing a need to change the external shell really means we can be benefit from strengthening our internal selves. Maybe also how to reframe thoughts from insecurity to security.
I literally worked crazy hard to get into university in the UK being from Poland and I’m so proud of myself, even getting into st.Andrews university with an unconditional offer (the uni Kate and William went to) never heard I’m proud of you from my mum, I’m working my ass of at uni as well, not getting any financial support from anyone cause my parents are poor, I finance everything for myself since I was 17 and have a whole ass flat with 2 rooms and garden to myself and I’m DAMN PROUD of myself for keeping that up for 3 years so far, but literally not even I’m happy for you or I’m proud of you from my mum, kinda makes me think okay so what else I need to do now
Sara I totally understand you. I had a high functioning alcoholic mother. She would just work and party. I wanted to get a job right after school, just to earn money and get out of poverty. I worked my arse off. Full time job, further training for more education and waitressing on the weekends. Never did I hear anyone tell me they were proud of me. However, it helped me build character. I know what I am capable of and no one can take that from me. I know I accomplished many things in life, so I am proud of myself. I really wish that you will someday get to the point, that you will no longer need the validation of your parents, bosses or strangers! I am proud of you! And you should be very proud of yourself!
sky guard wow I love the way you said that! I had the same thoughts to myself a couple of years ago and it help me SO much because it made me realized how much of a badass I am 😊👍
damn! well done...IM proud of you! I understand to an extent, got into cambridge and parents never told me they were proud either, it's like, what I gotta do here for some positive feedback :(
I feel like I understand what you are feeling cause my mum behaves in a similar way. Being a poor person, from a poor family not having seen the world and other ways of life doesn’t let your mum comprehend that what you have is even possible to be real. It’s like she knows it’s true, but she doesn’t compute that it’s possible to achieve and cannot imagine why this is a success, therefore it doesn’t occur to her that she could congratulate you on it. Poverty often means lack of stability therefore she may also think what you have can disappear any minute. Also if she is still struggling in her life, her mind may be too busy with her problems to focus on your success. Sometimes it’s hard to accept our parents have limitations and can be as scarred by their experiences as any other person who is not our parent, but the fact that they do have limitations doesn’t mean they don’t love their children. They do. You are doing great and it will benefit you in the future in many ways even if your mum doesn’t understand how much you succeeded.
Unfortunately that is more common thank you think. You are doing great and you should be very proud of your accomplishments. I had to get a little older to get perspective. Sometimes parents are bitter seeing their child leave them behind for a better life, sometimes it's sadness, maybe they spent so much energy working to make ends meet they don't even know how they feel or how to feel or express how they feel. Be kind to them and to yourself. I hope for your sake they are doing the best they can even if it is not very much.
There is something seriously wrong when people living in the richest country on earth have to depend on food banks. It's the people that choose their government, not the other way. If someone is not representing you, or serving you and your community, time to take them out!
@@inxine Ok, if we going to get technical about it, then it would be more appropriate to say that it is the largest economy in the world. In terms of GDP and GNI per capita, tops most of the Scandinavian countries, where that type of poverty is almost unheard of.
@@The_worlddd Nothing is simple. Can you imagine what was it like to fight for women's rights, abolishing slavery, work protection, social security... If that was possible, living wages and social safety net are not unattainable. Lots of other countries already have it. ❤
Can you please talk about not being able to trust your parents? Parents who lie to you or about you, parents who go behind your back, parents who steal from you, or parents who have ulterior motives
Girl if they are breaching your boundaries it's time to confront them head on. And if they still don't see your point and if it's all about their benefits on your expense then it's time to get rid of that toxic environment by any means. You've got to plan your way out.
Could be a misunderstanding,talk with them profoundly whenever you think something hurtful accured. If they try to fool you,manipulate,gaslight and such then note it down,that's what I did. They could be very well narcissistic! If you don't have someone to talk to,if they care to win and not to make peace then you sadly have to walk away. And don't get fooled if they are nice afterwards because these kind of people do anything to keep control over you. I hope though that this is not the case in your home,much love sent your way! 😊
I have a parent like this and I cut her off. Waste of my time, she has a lot to work on and she’s in denial big time! She even used my information to open up credit cards. So I had to cut her off and I feel so much better
Kylie's acting like Kris forced these things on her, if you're so incompetent you cant make your own decisions and keep an eye on your own company, then you definetly dont deserve the millions/billion
Right. That's insane that she gained that much money without any college education or economical knowledge. She's basically like an IG model, but just way more famous...
Dysfunctional parenting will create a crazy strong hold over the offspring/s. Her children have been trained by her to always take things through her. Have you noticed how they STILL call their mom when they have sibling fights...and they’re adults and not small children! On top of that add the mom’s extremely conditional ”love”. She has trained her children to not use their own brains and instead rely on her. It’s very damaged parenting (which isn’t parenting in its proper meaning). Wouldn’t surprise me if she not only laid hands on those now adult children, but like majority of narcissists she has probably also abused them psychologically. She sure didn’t help them prepare for adulthood, and her husbands come off as codependent. Her latest hubby did everything for the youngest kids, but Kris didn’t even bother to know the names of their two closest friends. She doesn’t care, it’s all about her and wealth, but inside there must be a very lonely, confused, angry and hurt little child.
@@britanycsantana She founded this company and sold so many products only thanks to her fame on instagram. She makes money, through her fake image, she doesn't have any financial education or entrepreneurial skills. That's because there are so many stupid people follow and praise her, just like you.
I was going through a tough time when I discovered her channel a few weeks ago. I have watched so many life coaches over the years but nothing ever converted into real tangible progress. Eversince I have started listening to her, and I mean I really listen and implement what she is saying, I have not just started attracting better people, I have also started getting better from the people who were already in my life. The progress is real and is not just limited to interpersonal relations. I'm doing better in every aspect of my life. Shallon Lester has become the voice of my conscience. I'm so grateful.
I think a simple evaluation of ones own life helps and heals a lot. How many Black friends do you invite to brunch, how many Black dolls does your daughter (or son) have, how many Black people have you stepped up to mentor? Most importantly CHECK YOUR RACIST WHITE PEERS AND FAMILY MEMBERS!!! I have a “white passing” friend & he said that the amount of undercover racism in the white community is STAGGERING! If you’re an ally, show & prove 🖤
@onmy computer2020gal sorry to hear that. I really wish people should get rid of these old fashioned mindsets and be more open minded . I grew up in a white country and the peoples around me would mock and discriminate others races ( travelers from India or African American persons) and it really influenced me. But deep down I had a feeling of wrong doing and you should never ignore a Gemini's feeling. The point is , that with everything that's going on I am a little scared to step into the big world and get judged too quickly bc of my race😕🥺
We need the livestreams back! I bought a few bottles of wine to "have a drink with you" while watching your livestreams and then they stopped. I think we can all agree that we miss drunk Shallon reading us manifestation books haha.
Kylie never even wanted to be famous. She wanted a quiet home life. I don't know how all this happened - sometime around the new lips and makeup line and her mom suddenly liking her best as the money earner? Kylie is so gentle, loving and sweet - this public life and what she does to change her looks and actions for others was first confusing, and is now sad.
@@amiia33 exactly! Before she had stormi she said once she became a mom she would delete her Instagram and step away from the public life but now she's a mom and she still hasn't done that.
can you do a vid about toxic/controlling parents; like patterns to look out for, what to do when you are completely incompatible with their personalities and don’t align with their views
Yes please! My dad wants me to be a copy of him (mostly in politics) but when I’m not, he tells me I don’t have critical thinking and I believe everything other people say lol?
I don't worry about that family. They'll just slap their name on some other Vietnamese made sweatshop product and overprice it as usual and get their coin.
It took A LOT of therapy and self inspection to come to terms with my relationship with my mom. It's a continuous process to have healthy boundaries with a woman who I love but is not someone who historically has not had the best intentions when it comes to my emotional well being.
I think that’s because we all secretly know that she is just the face of that company and that just doesn’t impress as much. She is for example nothing like kim, who is the actual force behind her own ventures and businesses. And that’s why kylie is exuding so much insecurity. Becauae she is suffering from (and rightly so) imposter syndrome and is afraid we will find out about her. Well....we know and thus are not impressed 😂
I think their narcissism is so strong (attention seeking) the entire country has become narcissistic supply for them. The moment they get caught they spin the story well and suddenly become victims to deter responsibility
how would that happen??? im curious because of the recent thing about khloe looking different lmao is shallon going to make a video about it ? i hope so
This reminds me to be so thankful for parents who support us to find our own path in life. Dad is from the UK and married mum there, then they moved to New Zealand to escape his controlling and abusive Father - pursued by threats to cut him out of the family inheritance. Dad didn’t care about that, he just wanted his freedom. Fast forward 30 years and my brother followed in dad’s footsteps to become an engineer. He wasn’t happy in that job though so he travelled to Switzerland, found a new girlfriend and is working in a ski/mountain bike hire shop instead. Mum and dad have been totally supportive of this, and mum is so glad that he’s the happiest she’s ever seen him.
Your comments about parents' expectations in this video is very relevant to me. I am happy in a relationship with my boyfriend and have been for a while, but my mom has always wanted me to date her bosses son who is a doctor. She keeps bringing up the idea about how he has his own house already, how he has a good degree and how my boyfriend doesn't. She says I am being foolish saying no to going on a blind date with this dude, and that many girls would be lucky to have the opportunity. I myself am getting a Master's degree and don't want anything to do with this dude. I can provide for myself and I support myself financially, so I am doing the work like you recommend in this video. It is good to know I'm on the right path. l I know my mom just wants the best for me (just wants me to be financially stable) but it's so hard hearing that and being pressured constantly when I love my boyfriend and I want my own personal autonomy. Thank you for your explanation and guidance on this topic Shallon
I feel bad for you, your mother really needs to learn the “money does not equal happiness” it seems. My mum told me that she dated a student Dr when she was at University but they broke up because he was too busy with working and studying. Being with a Dr is not easy, they are ‘married’ to medicine in a way. It’s good that you are sticking with your man 🙏
I can't really do anything with generalized messages to "be me" (sleep all day and put Ketchup on everything?), "be positive", "be authentic", I always need these things broken down for me when I feel stuck and preferably from another human with a different perspective and different examples and ideas than my brain comes up with. So thank you for the lesson in authenticity, sometimes I struggle and sometimes I'm almost "too authentic", but changing my major to what I love TODAY and watching shows that actually fuel an intellectual thirst were so simple points that made think I could actually change where I am and made me excited for the process. So thank you for that.
Yay!!! Hey, same. A diff pov is needed and sometimes people offer good povs but yay girl! All love to you. Do what u do even if it is buying a new toothbrush because the other one hurts.
I didn't have this from my mother who died but I did from her sisters. They criticised and looked down on me my WHOLE life growing up, so as soon as i went to university - I CUT THEM OUT!! I don't speak to any of them anymore, and I am SO much happier for it. They were the sort of people who as soon as you have one baby will instantly be like "ohhh when are you going to have another one?!" You never feel good about yourself - whereas all their children are so called "perfect". l I don't need that toxicity in my life, I only want people in my life who genuinely support me and my life choices. It's not nice cutting family out but sometimes it has to be done!
Shallon a good way to help is to speak up when you hear or see others making disparaging remarks about people of color. For example, while at the job, if you notice inequities speak up and let your voice be heard. It will make a difference. Of course, voting for politicians that have shown proven actions about promoting equality and removing disparities for people of color. That’s how people can help.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
It's very interesting how Kris is so concerned about Kylie's financial status and all of that but Kourtney and Khloe have a lower income than the other sisters (or at least that's what I've read). Don't they need a better financial security too?
So true about the basics. My people (Venezuelans) have been busy finding basic needs like food and water that an oppressive regime has been able to rule for over 20 years now. Never lose focus America.
Just wanted to say way to go, Shallon! You have checked off a couple of your goal boxes since this video, got a dog, you moved into a house! I just wanna say how inspiring you've been to me 😋 don't ever forget how awesome you are! F*** the hater 🦐 you are a queen 👑
Shallon, you are so real. This year has thrown you many stones but you've picked them up and threw them right back. Sometimes woke and real people are attacked for being real. Never stop what you do.
I can't tell you how much I needed this video. My family is forcing me to study and follow a path they chose and I HATE it. I have been completely changing my life the past few months to be able to go on my own path. I know exactly what I want against my parents manipulations and restrictions. This video really is exactly what i needed.
my parents and family are so closed minded and traditional to their daughter wanting to move out so badly, that when i packed all of my bags after an argument (i asked them to co-sign my lease for an apartment because i have no credit), my brother called 911. he said "there is a mentally ill woman leaving my home and she is going to be on the streets. she wants to leave home. i think she is also a narcissist." six police officers, two emt's, a visit to the psychiatric ward later (i told the police my entire story, and complied to go to the hospital for a psych evaluation just so i can proceed and leave home), i was discharged with no mental illness. this happened five days ago. since then, i have been living in my best friend's basement, visited two apartments (off the books since i dont have credit), and have been actively searching for used cars. so many blessings and opportunities have come my way. i feel as though my life is making sense. like all the arguing for two months was worth it. i will never forgive my traditional, albanian immigrant parents for being so ignorant to my feelings of being oppressed for almost twenty years at home, to think that i had a mental illness. I told the doctor evaluating me that i felt as though any type of diagnosis would justify my behavior, therefore leading my parents to feel victorious. like an, "oh, so THIS is why she is acting up.". Nope, I just realized how I can dig myself out of my own grave. after my brother called the police, he held up his depression and anxiety medication in the air and said i needed it. i started yelling because i was so frustrated. I responded, "Unlike you, i don't need medication to numb my feelings of sadness. i know exactly why im sad, and its in this home. that's why i want to move out." Shallon, im kinda going through it. but i dont feel like a victim. i kinda just got to piece my life back together now, and I'm completely aware of it. i truly feel like this is the start of something new. anyone else have incredibly strict parents? closed minded, selfish, controlling? like you just can't breathe? sometimes i feel as though my purpose in this world is to have as many children as i can financially support and raise them with love. to break this generational curse my ancestors have passed on for so long. i feel like it means something that im the first woman in my family to have been born in america.
Shallon I had to have a total hysterectomy at 24. My mother said to me while I was still in the hospital recuperating "You know it'll be very difficult for you to find a husband who'll love you cuz you can't have that mans baby." Talk about a very fucked up time to bring this up.
I also had my Grandmas telling me the same. It was horrible! Talk about losing your self esteem!! It was like they didn't understand what happens when you have your uterus removed. It's hurtful when 2 women you admire, and look up to ruin the way you think about yourself.
"There is freedom in discipline/restraint..." What an amazing lesson right here! A hard lesson (as all the great ones are), but an extremely necessary one that is best learned sooner rather than later. Thanks for this Shallon, always appreciate your "tough love"!
Working at my parents business, I’ve learned it’s really hard to balance family and business. I can only imagine what kylie goes through having her whole family in the business and her mom as her manager...
Kris is after safety and security for Kylie?!! A narcissist is only after attention whether good or bad...it started with khloe's photoshopped pic and now the Forbes "scandal". Kris is winning because people are talking about the Kardashians thus they are still relevant even in times like these!!
Forbes says she was worth 900M. 900!!!! That is almost a billion! Kris just wanted her to be the youngest. Have the title. Because most likely Kyle will be a billionaire eventually. Kris is a psychopath. Kris deserves to get in trouble with the SEC and Dept of Justice for this. This is not a little lie.
They said it's LESS then 900. That's a lot of money, but considering she sold half of her company it will be difficult to achieve 1 billion dollars status. All her sales are already drop out, so.....
boulderarms how are they not giving back? Kim has in recent years acknowledged that Paris paved the way for reality stars and she’s literally giving back now by helping people get a second chance in life after prison. And we can’t know for sure they aren’t giving back through charity, tons of celebs do without doing PR for it.
@boulderarms why isn't what I'm saying concrete? Doesn't matter what reason they do it for, as long as it helps people. If you ask Alice or whatever the lady's name was that Kim helped from lifetime in prison, I don't think she would say that they have done nothing. I'm not a fan or anything but I think it's ridiculous how hateful some people are. Sure, they've done terrible things to some other women that doesn't take away from the good they've done for others. They can donate a million dollars which isn't big money for them, it's literally a IG post and you guys can say it's nothing but that million they donate is more than you and your whole family tree will donate to charity in this lifetime. So you can't say it's nothing.
I always knew kris is the one behind kylie cosmetics. Kylie is only the face and maybe some creative decisions here and there. Kris is such a genius in marketing!
I love you so much Shallon! You speaking up about these issues...I come from a low income Hispanic family and I feel like privilege people dont try to understand what it feels like to live in survival mode. The reason I started listening to you was for female empowerment and now I love you even more bc at least you try understanding us. At least that's how I felt when you spoke about this in your intro. Thanks.💗
I'm not fully sure I buy that idea that Kylie didn't know. As a public figure and business woman on her level, she might not know the ins and outside of all of her businesses, but at a minimum, most business owners usually have a good idea of their revenues, assets, and what is their bank accounts.
This video really helped me x my mum wants me to go to collage but I don’t. I’m gonna sit and talk with her about it. It’s my life, not hers. Thank you, Shallon xx
I love you Shallon!! I joined Shalligators , I watch all your videos and podcasts . I've learned so much from you I look forward to your content coming out, thank you so much for always staying true to our tribe! Your amazing and I'm rooting for you!!!
Yep been there- I was a total nerd at school back in the day and my mother made all kinds of demands for the grades she expected me to get when I got exam results. I felt the pressure so deeply and so personally that I did snap and asked her if it was all so easy why didn’t she understand a word of what I’d been revising. She was demanding something from me so viciously and with such venom, but it was also something that she could never do for herself. She’d done the same with my older sister and terrorised her in the exact same way. It was implied that we’d be letting her down if we disappointed her. That’s not setting a standard or wanting better for us- that’s conditional love.
Best notification ! 💜💜💜 Shallon thank you for making time for us, for inspiring and helping us. Be safe there, i pray for you guys ! #Blacklivesmatter God bless America ! Stay safe , violence is not a solution, 2 wrongs won't make a right, we must live in peace and love together. This is the answer, destroying all around us is no good. Please be strong, we are supporting and respecting you, i know the injustice is high but if we cannot change a situation we can change ourselves, our mentality our perception on it and so on. Respect all, no matter the gender the nationality, sexuality , political views, religion, race and skin color. We are one, if we hurt each other we destroy each other. We can only win and live in peace and harmony through love and light. #weareone #speakyourself #supportingblackpeople Everybody must be free and treated with respect, is their birthright, everyone should be equal.
My parents never supported my dreams and it really afected me and lead me to choose a career that I do like but I have no passion at all and now I just feel like it is too late for my dreams and that I'm stuck in this path of life that I never wanted
ah very true ... i just want my mini me to be safe. i will definitely be more mindful on how my love, concern and questions or remarks come off. i am human and a mom.
I remember what my mom always said about very young girls who get pregnant. They feel like no one really loves them so they have a baby with the idea that the baby will always love them. I always think of this when I see Kylie. Lucky enough to have all this money but no one ever really loved her just exactly as she was. Kris and Kayetlyn really sucked at the parenting thing.
I think it's very interesting how Kylie always makes a point to say how much she loves her mum, how she's her world, has done everything for her, etc (you'll get what I mean if you've seen kuwtk and some of her interviews). It's almost like she's overcompensating for something. Even though they all joke about how Kylie replaced Kim as the favourite, I think it's still a bit of a touchy subject.
My mom’s expectations are very unrealistic. She has said that I should just move in and live with her my whole life, if I do get married I should not care about love, and I need to “suffer” for her. I’m not making this up.
When you were talking about your sons playing hockey and you said it may not be what they wanna do and then said “it will be” I think that’s how a lot of parents think that’s why they push their children to do something because it’s like “it’s always been my dream why wouldn’t it be my child’s?!” I think 99% of the time it comes from a good place,it comes from trying to give their children everything they always wanted and felt like they never had.
I'M an only child, not my choice, my parents decided that "let's have only one child...." And NOW they are freaking out! " OMG you're single, you don't have children! You don't brother, sister! What are you gonna do when the two parents you have will die?...you're gonna be all alone in this world!" They DEMAND grand-children...not only for their own pleasure ( being grand-parents) and they think that having a man and babies is the magic formula to never be alone! Man can go and children are not possessions....They met when they were 15 and 18 so in their mind " meeting your partner in life is really easy! what is so difficult for you? are you really making an effort?" ...I always have to breath in, breath out, breath in, breath out...before answering....
*Here’s a few links to hopefully help !*
*To educate yourself on the matter:*
kropotkindersurprise.tumblr.com/post/618115073984151552/could-you-recommend-some-anti-police-literature
outfromtheocean.tumblr.com/post/619558933748678656/oh-and-reminder-for-my-non-black-mutuals-to-not
*If you’re planning on protesting:*
masked-up.tumblr.com/post/619567176971599873/wear-a-mask-for-safety-and-hygyine-try-to
*A simplified version to educate yourself a little bit:*
slut4rihanna.tumblr.com/post/183392348045/please-watch-michael-ches-netflix-special
oberynmartell.tumblr.com/post/619572899235430400
clungedestroyer.tumblr.com/post/619392259119546368
taankhsrealhoodoo.tumblr.com/post/615935561779363840
blondebrainpower.tumblr.com/post/190363847159
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@Lilithu Allison Didn't stop you from coming on here to watch it though....
@Lilithu Allisondont use term "white privilage" to be a jerk urself . Its immature. Shallon always supports people of colour .
Lilithu Allison shallon does more for the black community than most black celebrities and def more than the average American. Shallon is supposed to stop working bc ppl are protesting? She legit opens her video with info and links on how to help. Throwing the privilege blanket term out is typical of someone who just wants to complain smh. Were you here leaving these comments this entire time they’ve been keeping humans in cages at the border..or when those 1500 Hispanic kids disappeared at the border and more than likely sold into sex trafficking? The info/advice she gave in this video is what needs to be heard. I didn’t stand in the protest but I’ve been nonstop advocating for racism within the justice system and inhumane treatment of Latinos at the border for over a decade every week. Y’all only care when shit is trending which is obvious by your comment. Ppl trying to make actual change don’t leave petty ridiculous comments such as yours
I am loving the nicer, newer Shallon. Girl, you have been going through it for over a month now & the growth you have made as a young woman, while still keeping that wicked edge you have & I desperately appreciate, is absolutely astounding. Damn, I & many others, really look up to you & you are addressing some serious topics lately. I am very sorry for what happened to you with a so-called friend, but you are doing a great job by choosing to not dwell on it. You get shit done girl!!! Much love from a grateful Shower Liner!!! ❤️❤️❤️
@@lullatstars perfectly said!!!
I agree
@boulderarms exactly!! See, all of the women on here know exactly what we are getting with Shallon & although she made a video long ago about BPD that I actually found offensive, I was able to rise above that & got to know her & where she stands & I have the utmost respect for her. I feel like she is my younger sister in some way (if that makes sense!!) And all of the ladies on here, we all are on the same page with respect & I find our little community very empowering. The people that are saying bad things about her & us Shower Liners are the people that wouldn't understand what true feminism is if it hit them upside the head!! I always feel so empowered from these videos & I am grateful that I didn't give up on her only because of the first video I saw made me feel some kind of way. 😘😘😘
She was fine before. RUclipsrs went after her because she is an outspoken woman who is becoming more successful. The whole thing is rooted in sexism--happens to female RUclipsrs all the time.
s I agree 💯
Let’s be honest, do we really think Kylie knows how to do her taxes..
The life of a celebrity. Don't sweat wiping your own ass... There will be folks to handle it in your stead
One thing I learned about having a narcissistic mother is that you can’t trust them
tbh its crazy to see how insecure and probably unhappy Kylie is - she has more money and fame that anyone could wish for. Really a testament to how material things don't foster happiness.
She didn't deserve that money and that fame, it's all come from his family reality, she didn't work that much for her status. She is completely aware of this, that's why she is not that happy with it
@@ilonat.2421 No she's not happy because her entire life is not authentic. The last real thing she lost was Jordan.
I think Kylie like a lot of people think fame and money are the answers to life’s stresses, pain and suffering. Then they find out that money is just money,
doesn’t mean much more than paying for basic needs like water, food and shelter. If you’re helping others with your money than money means a lot but money makes people very selfish and greedy.
I honestly don’t think Kylie wanted to be famous
I bet the reason why Kyle had her daughter was so she wouldn’t be lonely 💜 I bet they are gunna be so close.
Not a healthy reason to have a child and best friend relationships between mom and daughter are often toxic (but hey my moms my best friend too) but she seems to be SUCH a great mom and Stormi is so cute and intelligent
Or maybe she wanted to be responsible and have the baby instead of getting an abortion? She can afford it and she has said that she has always wanted to be a young mother.
that’s the saddest thing I’ve ever read 😥
Someone who loves her for who she is. Damn
boulderarms umm yeah that was a jump. Lol
Please do a video like this about how mothers destroy self esteem. Perfect example Yolanda and Bella. She was so toxic to Gigi as well.
I was told since childhood that my looks don't matter, manners and exam scores do. When I turned 21, suddenly was shamed for not being pretty and feminine.
Also pretty disgusted how Yolanda confirmed Gigi’s pregnancy before Gigi did
@Antahvasin wow, I’m really sorry to hear that!
Exactly- like when Yolanda said that Gigi couldn't be a model and a volleyball player at the same time because she won't look feminine and that volleyball players eat like men... I can't imagine if my mom would say that.. and telling your daughter that she has to be on a diet or that she cant have more than a tablespoon of cake!? its awful... (all clips from Housewives)
But Gigi wanted to be a model, had an athletic, strong beautiful body but not the model body and her mother was a model and was at least trying to help.
When the Kardashians were growing up, their mother weight shamed and tried to restrict food from them without concern for a job or health - she just wanted to control howthey looked (Kim and Khloe, mostly). She does that with a lot of things in their lives.
Video on Khloe’s “new face”. Maybe talk about how focusing on reframing a need to change the external shell really means we can be benefit from strengthening our internal selves. Maybe also how to reframe thoughts from insecurity to security.
peep her kylie jenner vids she kinda already talked ab it
but still would luv a vid ab tht too
It's mostly facetune y'all cmon it's obvious.
YESSSSSSSSSSS
I literally worked crazy hard to get into university in the UK being from Poland and I’m so proud of myself, even getting into st.Andrews university with an unconditional offer (the uni Kate and William went to) never heard I’m proud of you from my mum, I’m working my ass of at uni as well, not getting any financial support from anyone cause my parents are poor, I finance everything for myself since I was 17 and have a whole ass flat with 2 rooms and garden to myself and I’m DAMN PROUD of myself for keeping that up for 3 years so far, but literally not even I’m happy for you or I’m proud of you from my mum, kinda makes me think okay so what else I need to do now
Sara
I totally understand you. I had a high functioning alcoholic mother. She would just work and party. I wanted to get a job right after school, just to earn money and get out of poverty. I worked my arse off. Full time job, further training for more education and waitressing on the weekends. Never did I hear anyone tell me they were proud of me. However, it helped me build character. I know what I am capable of and no one can take that from me. I know I accomplished many things in life, so I am proud of myself. I really wish that you will someday get to the point, that you will no longer need the validation of your parents, bosses or strangers! I am proud of you! And you should be very proud of yourself!
sky guard wow I love the way you said that! I had the same thoughts to myself a couple of years ago and it help me SO much because it made me realized how much of a badass I am 😊👍
damn! well done...IM proud of you! I understand to an extent, got into cambridge and parents never told me they were proud either, it's like, what I gotta do here for some positive feedback :(
I feel like I understand what you are feeling cause my mum behaves in a similar way. Being a poor person, from a poor family not having seen the world and other ways of life doesn’t let your mum comprehend that what you have is even possible to be real. It’s like she knows it’s true, but she doesn’t compute that it’s possible to achieve and cannot imagine why this is a success, therefore it doesn’t occur to her that she could congratulate you on it. Poverty often means lack of stability therefore she may also think what you have can disappear any minute. Also if she is still struggling in her life, her mind may be too busy with her problems to focus on your success. Sometimes it’s hard to accept our parents have limitations and can be as scarred by their experiences as any other person who is not our parent, but the fact that they do have limitations doesn’t mean they don’t love their children. They do. You are doing great and it will benefit you in the future in many ways even if your mum doesn’t understand how much you succeeded.
Unfortunately that is more common thank you think. You are doing great and you should be very proud of your accomplishments. I had to get a little older to get perspective. Sometimes parents are bitter seeing their child leave them behind for a better life, sometimes it's sadness, maybe they spent so much energy working to make ends meet they don't even know how they feel or how to feel or express how they feel. Be kind to them and to yourself. I hope for your sake they are doing the best they can even if it is not very much.
There is something seriously wrong when people living in the richest country on earth have to depend on food banks. It's the people that choose their government, not the other way. If someone is not representing you, or serving you and your community, time to take them out!
EXACTLY
If it were only that simple doll.
oh god, i hope ur not talking about America cause it aint the richest lol. but i get you
@@inxine Ok, if we going to get technical about it, then it would be more appropriate to say that it is the largest economy in the world. In terms of GDP and GNI per capita, tops most of the Scandinavian countries, where that type of poverty is almost unheard of.
@@The_worlddd Nothing is simple. Can you imagine what was it like to fight for women's rights, abolishing slavery, work protection, social security... If that was possible, living wages and social safety net are not unattainable. Lots of other countries already have it. ❤
Can you please talk about not being able to trust your parents? Parents who lie to you or about you, parents who go behind your back, parents who steal from you, or parents who have ulterior motives
Girl if they are breaching your boundaries it's time to confront them head on. And if they still don't see your point and if it's all about their benefits on your expense then it's time to get rid of that toxic environment by any means. You've got to plan your way out.
Could be a misunderstanding,talk with them profoundly whenever you think something hurtful accured. If they try to fool you,manipulate,gaslight and such then note it down,that's what I did. They could be very well narcissistic! If you don't have someone to talk to,if they care to win and not to make peace then you sadly have to walk away. And don't get fooled if they are nice afterwards because these kind of people do anything to keep control over you. I hope though that this is not the case in your home,much love sent your way! 😊
I have a parent like this and I cut her off. Waste of my time, she has a lot to work on and she’s in denial big time! She even used my information to open up credit cards. So I had to cut her off and I feel so much better
I felt targeted when she said “and the money you do have you’re blowing at Sephora” 😂😂
Lol me too! The siren song of the lip gloss I don’t need...it’s powerful 🙀
Sigh. Sephora and Ulta have been my bane since COVID hit.
I feel attacked!😂😂
" you wanna be an adult? Do like an adult! Do things without been told to." Shallon Lester👌🏾👌🏾
Kylie's acting like Kris forced these things on her, if you're so incompetent you cant make your own decisions and keep an eye on your own company, then you definetly dont deserve the millions/billion
Right. That's insane that she gained that much money without any college education or economical knowledge. She's basically like an IG model, but just way more famous...
Dysfunctional parenting will create a crazy strong hold over the offspring/s. Her children have been trained by her to always take things through her. Have you noticed how they STILL call their mom when they have sibling fights...and they’re adults and not small children!
On top of that add the mom’s extremely conditional ”love”. She has trained her children to not use their own brains and instead rely on her. It’s very damaged parenting (which isn’t parenting in its proper meaning). Wouldn’t surprise me if she not only laid hands on those now adult children, but like majority of narcissists she has probably also abused them psychologically. She sure didn’t help them prepare for adulthood, and her husbands come off as codependent. Her latest hubby did everything for the youngest kids, but Kris didn’t even bother to know the names of their two closest friends. She doesn’t care, it’s all about her and wealth, but inside there must be a very lonely, confused, angry and hurt little child.
@@ilonat.2421 she made a makeup company so her money doesn't only come from stupid photos
a person can't be checking every part of their company. There is a reason there is a finance group, a markenting group, a design group, etc
@@britanycsantana She founded this company and sold so many products only thanks to her fame on instagram. She makes money, through her fake image, she doesn't have any financial education or entrepreneurial skills. That's because there are so many stupid people follow and praise her, just like you.
Dear Shallon, thanks for helping me be a better person.
Shallon is amazing 😍 She has definitely helped me more than my shrink!!! Much respect ❤️
I was going through a tough time when I discovered her channel a few weeks ago.
I have watched so many life coaches over the years but nothing ever converted into real tangible progress.
Eversince I have started listening to her, and I mean I really listen and implement what she is saying, I have not just started attracting better people, I have also started getting better from the people who were already in my life.
The progress is real and is not just limited to interpersonal relations. I'm doing better in every aspect of my life.
Shallon Lester has become the voice of my conscience.
I'm so grateful.
‘no second mom to go get’ ... Caitlyn has left the chat
I don't believe one second that Kylie was not aware of this.
me neither. Maybe it wasn't her idea and Kris came up with all of it but no way did Kylie not know.
Yeah, my thoughts exactly
Me too
I will always support Shallon you won’t be cancelled I’ll keep watching and they hate it
Yesss 👏👏
I think a simple evaluation of ones own life helps and heals a lot. How many Black friends do you invite to brunch, how many Black dolls does your daughter (or son) have, how many Black people have you stepped up to mentor? Most importantly CHECK YOUR RACIST WHITE PEERS AND FAMILY MEMBERS!!! I have a “white passing” friend & he said that the amount of undercover racism in the white community is STAGGERING! If you’re an ally, show & prove 🖤
❤
Does bratz count?
@onmy computer2020gal sorry to hear that. I really wish people should get rid of these old fashioned mindsets and be more open minded . I grew up in a white country and the peoples around me would mock and discriminate others races ( travelers from India or African American persons) and it really influenced me. But deep down I had a feeling of wrong doing and you should never ignore a Gemini's feeling.
The point is , that with everything that's going on I am a little scared to step into the big world and get judged too quickly bc of my race😕🥺
ilon ildea They ALWAYS count! 😉
onmy computer2020gal SO awkward!
Don't you dare ever stop bless us with your wisdom. Your videos changed my love/ friendship life. ❤️
We need the livestreams back!
I bought a few bottles of wine to "have a drink with you" while watching your livestreams and then they stopped. I think we can all agree that we miss drunk Shallon reading us manifestation books haha.
We do!
Kylie never even wanted to be famous. She wanted a quiet home life. I don't know how all this happened - sometime around the new lips and makeup line and her mom suddenly liking her best as the money earner? Kylie is so gentle, loving and sweet - this public life and what she does to change her looks and actions for others was first confusing, and is now sad.
Oh plz
Kylie is too busy scamming people with those Instagram ads to be innocent
@@amiia33 exactly! Before she had stormi she said once she became a mom she would delete her Instagram and step away from the public life but now she's a mom and she still hasn't done that.
She likes being famous , she could easily be like Kendall who is lowkey and you neverrrr see her business . Kylie loves the attention
can you do a vid about toxic/controlling parents; like patterns to look out for, what to do when you are completely incompatible with their personalities and don’t align with their views
Yes please! My dad wants me to be a copy of him (mostly in politics) but when I’m not, he tells me I don’t have critical thinking and I believe everything other people say lol?
I don't worry about that family. They'll just slap their name on some other Vietnamese made sweatshop product and overprice it as usual and get their coin.
It took A LOT of therapy and self inspection to come to terms with my relationship with my mom. It's a continuous process to have healthy boundaries with a woman who I love but is not someone who historically has not had the best intentions when it comes to my emotional well being.
Kylie might be having all the money in the world but that hasn't bought her any respect in the public.
It's lonely at the top. She has her family.
I think that’s because we all secretly know that she is just the face of that company and that just doesn’t impress as much. She is for example nothing like kim, who is the actual force behind her own ventures and businesses. And that’s why kylie is exuding so much insecurity. Becauae she is suffering from (and rightly so) imposter syndrome and is afraid we will find out about her. Well....we know and thus are not impressed 😂
I think their narcissism is so strong (attention seeking) the entire country has become narcissistic supply for them. The moment they get caught they spin the story well and suddenly become victims to deter responsibility
Exactly they know this too shall pass....
Imagine Khloe not knowing she had plastic surgery so Kris could give her plausible deniability when people asked her if she got plastic surgery lmao
how would that happen??? im curious because of the recent thing about khloe looking different lmao is shallon going to make a video about it ? i hope so
Maybe that's exactly what is going on with her. She is still denying all surgeries
Exactly
MsJujubee3 I don’t know it was just a joke and a funny thought
@@YonekuniKyuhyun One word: Chloroform.
This reminds me to be so thankful for parents who support us to find our own path in life. Dad is from the UK and married mum there, then they moved to New Zealand to escape his controlling and abusive Father - pursued by threats to cut him out of the family inheritance. Dad didn’t care about that, he just wanted his freedom. Fast forward 30 years and my brother followed in dad’s footsteps to become an engineer. He wasn’t happy in that job though so he travelled to Switzerland, found a new girlfriend and is working in a ski/mountain bike hire shop instead. Mum and dad have been totally supportive of this, and mum is so glad that he’s the happiest she’s ever seen him.
No one can tell me Shallon was talking down on anyone’s struggles. She’s one of the most generous people around .
Exactly
Your comments about parents' expectations in this video is very relevant to me. I am happy in a relationship with my boyfriend and have been for a while, but my mom has always wanted me to date her bosses son who is a doctor. She keeps bringing up the idea about how he has his own house already, how he has a good degree and how my boyfriend doesn't. She says I am being foolish saying no to going on a blind date with this dude, and that many girls would be lucky to have the opportunity. I myself am getting a Master's degree and don't want anything to do with this dude. I can provide for myself and I support myself financially, so I am doing the work like you recommend in this video. It is good to know I'm on the right path. l I know my mom just wants the best for me (just wants me to be financially stable) but it's so hard hearing that and being pressured constantly when I love my boyfriend and I want my own personal autonomy. Thank you for your explanation and guidance on this topic Shallon
I feel bad for you, your mother really needs to learn the “money does not equal happiness” it seems. My mum told me that she dated a student Dr when she was at University but they broke up because he was too busy with working and studying. Being with a Dr is not easy, they are ‘married’ to medicine in a way. It’s good that you are sticking with your man 🙏
@@b.6826 Thanks for the support
I can't really do anything with generalized messages to "be me" (sleep all day and put Ketchup on everything?), "be positive", "be authentic", I always need these things broken down for me when I feel stuck and preferably from another human with a different perspective and different examples and ideas than my brain comes up with.
So thank you for the lesson in authenticity, sometimes I struggle and sometimes I'm almost "too authentic", but changing my major to what I love TODAY and watching shows that actually fuel an intellectual thirst were so simple points that made think I could actually change where I am and made me excited for the process. So thank you for that.
Yay!!! Hey, same. A diff pov is needed and sometimes people offer good povs but yay girl! All love to you. Do what u do even if it is buying a new toothbrush because the other one hurts.
@@Esotericspruce Awwwe you're too sweet 😂❤️
I didn't have this from my mother who died but I did from her sisters. They criticised and looked down on me my WHOLE life growing up, so as soon as i went to university - I CUT THEM OUT!! I don't speak to any of them anymore, and I am SO much happier for it. They were the sort of people who as soon as you have one baby will instantly be like "ohhh when are you going to have another one?!" You never feel good about yourself - whereas all their children are so called "perfect". l I don't need that toxicity in my life, I only want people in my life who genuinely support me and my life choices. It's not nice cutting family out but sometimes it has to be done!
Yeah. U go girl! Ain't got no time for haters!
@@Esotericspruce Awwww thank you!! Xxx
Shallon a good way to help is to speak up when you hear or see others making disparaging remarks about people of color. For example, while at the job, if you notice inequities speak up and let your voice be heard. It will make a difference. Of course, voting for politicians that have shown proven actions about promoting equality and removing disparities for people of color. That’s how people can help.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My mom when I was a kid/teen: You can't go out, your friends are bad
My mom now that I'm an adult: Why don't you have any friends?
How can someone be authentic if they don't truly know who they are? or is authenticity the process of becoming self-aware?
I love that description! I agree that starting small is so important because it builds the foundation for larger authenticity!!
It's very interesting how Kris is so concerned about Kylie's financial status and all of that but Kourtney and Khloe have a lower income than the other sisters (or at least that's what I've read). Don't they need a better financial security too?
Kris made them, she cant be anything but grateful
So true about the basics. My people (Venezuelans) have been busy finding basic needs like food and water that an oppressive regime has been able to rule for over 20 years now. Never lose focus America.
please can we have a video about Lea Michele and all the hypocrisy that has come out recently?
@xo xo apparently, she bullied Samantha Marie Ware because of her race during Glee
Urg yes
Yes!
I remember comments about her atitude when Glee was on, she probably paid to silence them
The way you stopped talking because of the humming bird shows your heart
Just wanted to say way to go, Shallon! You have checked off a couple of your goal boxes since this video, got a dog, you moved into a house! I just wanna say how inspiring you've been to me 😋 don't ever forget how awesome you are! F*** the hater 🦐 you are a queen 👑
Shallon, you are so real. This year has thrown you many stones but you've picked them up and threw them right back. Sometimes woke and real people are attacked for being real. Never stop what you do.
I can't tell you how much I needed this video. My family is forcing me to study and follow a path they chose and I HATE it. I have been completely changing my life the past few months to be able to go on my own path. I know exactly what I want against my parents manipulations and restrictions. This video really is exactly what i needed.
my parents and family are so closed minded and traditional to their daughter wanting to move out so badly, that when i packed all of my bags after an argument (i asked them to co-sign my lease for an apartment because i have no credit), my brother called 911. he said "there is a mentally ill woman leaving my home and she is going to be on the streets. she wants to leave home. i think she is also a narcissist." six police officers, two emt's, a visit to the psychiatric ward later (i told the police my entire story, and complied to go to the hospital for a psych evaluation just so i can proceed and leave home), i was discharged with no mental illness. this happened five days ago. since then, i have been living in my best friend's basement, visited two apartments (off the books since i dont have credit), and have been actively searching for used cars. so many blessings and opportunities have come my way. i feel as though my life is making sense. like all the arguing for two months was worth it. i will never forgive my traditional, albanian immigrant parents for being so ignorant to my feelings of being oppressed for almost twenty years at home, to think that i had a mental illness. I told the doctor evaluating me that i felt as though any type of diagnosis would justify my behavior, therefore leading my parents to feel victorious. like an, "oh, so THIS is why she is acting up.". Nope, I just realized how I can dig myself out of my own grave. after my brother called the police, he held up his depression and anxiety medication in the air and said i needed it. i started yelling because i was so frustrated. I responded, "Unlike you, i don't need medication to numb my feelings of sadness. i know exactly why im sad, and its in this home. that's why i want to move out."
Shallon, im kinda going through it. but i dont feel like a victim. i kinda just got to piece my life back together now, and I'm completely aware of it. i truly feel like this is the start of something new.
anyone else have incredibly strict parents? closed minded, selfish, controlling? like you just can't breathe?
sometimes i feel as though my purpose in this world is to have as many children as i can financially support and raise them with love. to break this generational curse my ancestors have passed on for so long. i feel like it means something that im the first woman in my family to have been born in america.
Shallon I had to have a total hysterectomy at 24. My mother said to me while I was still in the hospital recuperating "You know it'll be very difficult for you to find a husband who'll love you cuz you can't have that mans baby." Talk about a very fucked up time to bring this up.
I also had my Grandmas telling me the same. It was horrible! Talk about losing your self esteem!! It was like they didn't understand what happens when you have your uterus removed. It's hurtful when 2 women you admire, and look up to ruin the way you think about yourself.
"There is freedom in discipline/restraint..." What an amazing lesson right here! A hard lesson (as all the great ones are), but an extremely necessary one that is best learned sooner rather than later. Thanks for this Shallon, always appreciate your "tough love"!
Your videos are gold. I love how you’ve been changing up your channel recently so much positivity💕💕💕
Working at my parents business, I’ve learned it’s really hard to balance family and business. I can only imagine what kylie goes through having her whole family in the business and her mom as her manager...
Kris is after safety and security for Kylie?!!
A narcissist is only after attention whether good or bad...it started with khloe's photoshopped pic and now the Forbes "scandal".
Kris is winning because people are talking about the Kardashians thus they are still relevant even in times like these!!
The hummingbird could've been your gma you had just mentioned her🥰🥰
This video is my therapy for the week, literally
I feel you with the personal achievements. I don’t even have one friend in the world. That sucks, especially now. 😕
You just inspired me to fight the good fight Shallon. I’m rich but I love what you said about fighting for those who can’t. Thank you. ❤️✊
loved this video Shallon! It‘s like you put my exact thoughts into words.
Forbes says she was worth 900M. 900!!!! That is almost a billion! Kris just wanted her to be the youngest. Have the title. Because most likely Kyle will be a billionaire eventually. Kris is a psychopath. Kris deserves to get in trouble with the SEC and Dept of Justice for this. This is not a little lie.
They said it's LESS then 900. That's a lot of money, but considering she sold half of her company it will be difficult to achieve 1 billion dollars status. All her sales are already drop out, so.....
boulderarms how are they not giving back? Kim has in recent years acknowledged that Paris paved the way for reality stars and she’s literally giving back now by helping people get a second chance in life after prison. And we can’t know for sure they aren’t giving back through charity, tons of celebs do without doing PR for it.
L K I’ve heard continuous rumours that they never tip. Not that that’s reliable information but yeah.
it’s less than 900m that’s why they made the article.
@boulderarms why isn't what I'm saying concrete? Doesn't matter what reason they do it for, as long as it helps people. If you ask Alice or whatever the lady's name was that Kim helped from lifetime in prison, I don't think she would say that they have done nothing. I'm not a fan or anything but I think it's ridiculous how hateful some people are. Sure, they've done terrible things to some other women that doesn't take away from the good they've done for others. They can donate a million dollars which isn't big money for them, it's literally a IG post and you guys can say it's nothing but that million they donate is more than you and your whole family tree will donate to charity in this lifetime. So you can't say it's nothing.
I always knew kris is the one behind kylie cosmetics. Kylie is only the face and maybe some creative decisions here and there. Kris is such a genius in marketing!
I love you so much Shallon! You speaking up about these issues...I come from a low income Hispanic family and I feel like privilege people dont try to understand what it feels like to live in survival mode. The reason I started listening to you was for female empowerment and now I love you even more bc at least you try understanding us. At least that's how I felt when you spoke about this in your intro. Thanks.💗
How kris and his sisters ruined Robert (his son)
Some parents also like to brag to other people about their children's success or who they marry
“We are your worst nightmare” Raw passion and I totally respect that shallon 💖
My mom raised a nerd too. I totally relate to what you say Shallon.
Girl I needed one of your peptalks this morning u have no idea
I get that feeling of omg when people ask me when my boyfriend and I are getting engaged, like please give us a damn minute!!
When you stopped to say hi to the hummingbird, I stopped to hit the like button. 💗
I'm not fully sure I buy that idea that Kylie didn't know. As a public figure and business woman on her level, she might not know the ins and outside of all of her businesses, but at a minimum, most business owners usually have a good idea of their revenues, assets, and what is their bank accounts.
This video really helped me x my mum wants me to go to collage but I don’t. I’m gonna sit and talk with her about it. It’s my life, not hers. Thank you, Shallon xx
I love you Shallon!! I joined Shalligators , I watch all your videos and podcasts . I've learned so much from you I look forward to your content coming out, thank you so much for always staying true to our tribe! Your amazing and I'm rooting for you!!!
Yep been there- I was a total nerd at school back in the day and my mother made all kinds of demands for the grades she expected me to get when I got exam results. I felt the pressure so deeply and so personally that I did snap and asked her if it was all so easy why didn’t she understand a word of what I’d been revising. She was demanding something from me so viciously and with such venom, but it was also something that she could never do for herself. She’d done the same with my older sister and terrorised her in the exact same way. It was implied that we’d be letting her down if we disappointed her. That’s not setting a standard or wanting better for us- that’s conditional love.
Best notification ! 💜💜💜 Shallon thank you for making time for us, for inspiring and helping us. Be safe there, i pray for you guys ! #Blacklivesmatter God bless America ! Stay safe , violence is not a solution, 2 wrongs won't make a right, we must live in peace and love together. This is the answer, destroying all around us is no good. Please be strong, we are supporting and respecting you, i know the injustice is high but if we cannot change a situation we can change ourselves, our mentality our perception on it and so on. Respect all, no matter the gender the nationality, sexuality , political views, religion, race and skin color. We are one, if we hurt each other we destroy each other. We can only win and live in peace and harmony through love and light. #weareone #speakyourself #supportingblackpeople Everybody must be free and treated with respect, is their birthright, everyone should be equal.
My parents never supported my dreams and it really afected me and lead me to choose a career that I do like but I have no passion at all and now I just feel like it is too late for my dreams and that I'm stuck in this path of life that I never wanted
ah very true ... i just want my mini me to be safe. i will definitely be more mindful on how my love, concern and questions or remarks come off. i am human and a mom.
You look amazing! Makeup, hair, everything!
The hummingbird break was nice 😂😂💗
Im falling asleep with Your voice tonight Shallon! Greetings from Poland.
The most satisfying sound in the world is Shallon pausing to take a sip.
Shallon, I've been sharing your videos for weeks now. You kill it Girl!
LOVED the hummingbird moment! Made my day. ❤❤
I love you Shallon! Favourite RUclipsr ever
I remember what my mom always said about very young girls who get pregnant. They feel like no one really loves them so they have a baby with the idea that the baby will always love them. I always think of this when I see Kylie. Lucky enough to have all this money but no one ever really loved her just exactly as she was. Kris and Kayetlyn really sucked at the parenting thing.
I fucking love you Shallon, “you should be afraid “ Shallonaters unite!!!!!
Wow, idk why i clicked so fast this time, maybe i need to hear something from here
Shallon, you don't know how much your content helps me during this quarantine. Big thank you.
I think it's very interesting how Kylie always makes a point to say how much she loves her mum, how she's her world, has done everything for her, etc (you'll get what I mean if you've seen kuwtk and some of her interviews). It's almost like she's overcompensating for something. Even though they all joke about how Kylie replaced Kim as the favourite, I think it's still a bit of a touchy subject.
I love how you keep kicking me out of my comfort zone, great video Shallon 😁👍💯
This is seriously one of the best and most inspiring videos I have ever watched. Thank you Shallon.
My mom’s expectations are very unrealistic. She has said that I should just move in and live with her my whole life, if I do get married I should not care about love, and I need to “suffer” for her. I’m not making this up.
Anyone else find it really cute when shallon presses her finger tips together and looks at the ceiling.
❤ as always, amazing and on point 👍
THANK YOU SO MUCH. I needed this topic more than ever.
It’s just like our parents talking us up to their friends about our grades, sports, jobs etc.
Shallon is pretty much the only RUclipsr I watch these days.. no one compares to her!
Love you Shallon!! LOL the hummingbird, so cuuutee❤️ ohh Shallon your vulnerability, So much relatability on this topic
When you were talking about your sons playing hockey and you said it may not be what they wanna do and then said “it will be” I think that’s how a lot of parents think that’s why they push their children to do something because it’s like “it’s always been my dream why wouldn’t it be my child’s?!” I think 99% of the time it comes from a good place,it comes from trying to give their children everything they always wanted and felt like they never had.
Your hair looks GREAT, Shallon! ✨
I'M an only child, not my choice, my parents decided that "let's have only one child...." And NOW they are freaking out! " OMG you're single, you don't have children! You don't brother, sister! What are you gonna do when the two parents you have will die?...you're gonna be all alone in this world!" They DEMAND grand-children...not only for their own pleasure ( being grand-parents) and they think that having a man and babies is the magic formula to never be alone! Man can go and children are not possessions....They met when they were 15 and 18 so in their mind " meeting your partner in life is really easy! what is so difficult for you? are you really making an effort?" ...I always have to breath in, breath out, breath in, breath out...before answering....
Your videos are amazing. They really feed my authenticity, the best way to start my day in Europe. THANK YOU
I feel like the buisness is ran and organised by kris but Kylie is the face of it and takes full credit
Thank you!!! I needed this. "Authenticity"
Shallon PEACH IS YOUR COLOR!