I’m INFJ and my girlfriend is ENFP, and it’s being my best relationship so far! (I’m 33 btw) Edit: we got married recently and everything is being awesome!
@@faheemabid9646 today's our 5 month anniversary, and we're still pretty happy haha Of course we had some challenges, disagreements, and arguments, but we've been able to overcome everything
I'm an INFJ my late husband was an ENFP. When he died only 2 months ago my world fell apart. The energy between us was unbelievable. Hugging him was medicine. I am so lost now.
@@MsYellowSkies That's what we ENFP's do, it's why we are the champion or campaigner. @Roxierawls, While we ENFP's might be few and far between, you can always spot us a light year away (literally!!). Ask one of us for a hug, you will get it. It will not be your late husband, but it will be just as warm and safe. We LOVE bringing other people up to our particular level of energetic insanity and the method is not anywhere near as important as the result. In fact the more seemingly chaotic the method, the better!!
the infj-enfp pair is God-sent! i’m an infj and he’s an enfp. we understand each other. i always say we’re the same, but opposite. two halves of the same circle. we grow together. sitting in silence, long night drives, communicating through eyes, random text messages and inside jokes. a “safe space.”
I'm ENFP. I had INFJ gf 8 years ago but the hugging thing and communicating without words hit me HARD so I cried like a baby. It was hard to me to explain back then (I was like 25, unaware freshly graduated college student) that we felt like we can own the world and achieve everything from day 1. Even sitting in silence was mesmerizing. I have never experienced anything like that again. We were together only for almost a year but it felt like we were married for 20 years. Unfortunately I screwed up and burnt a bridge behind. So stupid and cursed fool I was. Now I am older and working as a leadership trainer, luckily smarter, so I won't let go another girl like her. Well, only if I finally find such a girl in the world. Anyway, everything best to you and thank you for the video. It was like a time travel to me.
Find her. Apologize, earn her trust back. Of course, we both know, she’s already taken, don’t we? (If not, go for it, because it will mean the world to an INFJ that you never forgot her, if she isn’t taken, of course, which we both know, she is…but…just in case…) -INFJ woman
I’m an ENFP and I met an INFJ playing video games. We talked and played until after midnight for 4 nights before her boyfriend shut it down. I’ve never connected so quickly and easily with anyone before. We spoke the same language. Now my heart is hurting because I miss my friend. 😢
ENFP: so i used to work at an office in my university and whenever i would go back to visit i would see how stressed everyone was. So i went around to each person asking how they felt about getting a hug to lighten their day. I then put up posters of affirming statements and i wrote empowering poems on their dry erase boards. Now whenever i visit everyone lines up for their daily hug which lasts a minimum of 20 seconds per person to ensure they can actually feel the love. And on special days i stay behind to let them vent and i encourage them with reminders of what they are capable of. Its my favorite part of going to college. 😂
I had an INFJ-ENFP relationship once. (I'm INFJ and I'm sure she was an ENFP because the description fits perfectly.) What you said about differences in core values is absolutely true. It was one of the main reasons she broke up with me. What I also might add : looking back, it seems to me that she kind of felt too restricted in our relationship. I was often "down to earth", structured and she felt like she couldn't be totally free. That was never my intention; I wanted her to be happy. INFJ-ENFP relationships are often romanticized and presented like they're meant to be. But if one of the people in this relationship has lived serious traumas from the past, it'll be very hard and energy-draining to maintain the relationship. In my case, she told me about emotional, physical and sexual abuse which resulted in negative reactions towards some of my actions or statements and some of her resentment towards me. I did mistakes, too. I've gotten better in articulating my emotions but even today I find it really difficult to express them well spontaneously. I've also learned to see behind my trigger points and express what really matters. Learning about how to argue properly will also be a huge benefit, especially as an INFJ. I'd absolutely be willing to engage in an INFJ-ENFP relationship again. I know the potential of it and with what I've learned from the past, I'm sure a next one will be a lot better in terms of harmony and love.
These are good thoughts. I totally agree with you about trauma changing the game in every way - it runs much deeper than personality type. Thanks for sharing 🙏
Now I do believe in the observation that most of INFJs women are beautiful, charming, elegant and unique. Moreover intelligent as well. You're wonderful and really fit in what I have just described. Do you know or can you guess what type am I ?
@@optimus8740I don't believe you.. there's no way your Fe would allow you to comment something so forward, potentially unwanted and, for lack of a better word... cringe
INFJ here! I have just met an ENFP on this few days in my best friend's birthday. We talked a bit and I could see the conection there, it was so cool! She's a bit older than me, but she was so kind and interesting! I think now I know why it was easy to talk with her.
@@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied Thanks for the suggestion! I would like to, but she's studying on a different university and we are very busy right now hahsha... maybe I'll tell her after all of this.
I have an INFJ best friend, I would call him my soulmate, as an ENFP, we are sooooooo different and soooooo similar at the same time, if I can, I want to have him beside me until the end of the world (ENFP😂) And he always let me be myself, comfort my soul and emotions, pushes me to be the better version of me And I just want to say I love him, even my smallest cells from my body, we all want to shout how adorable he is And I just want him to not work so hard and relax for a little bit and if there is a chance , let me know I am kinda important to him as well … not only me talking about that all the time However , he makes effort to hang out with me every week, sometime only we two person , sometimes with our friends , so I assume that’s a sign ?? 😢
Recently I came to know I'm infj through self reflection and assessment. When I reflect back my life , it makes all sense and I was right , all along. Life's been tough soo far due to challenges but still optimistic about life. I think an enfj partner will be ideal fit for me and for both. Hopefully will find her soon 🙏.
I had a lady INFJ in my ENFP life for years, until recently. She was my high-school sweetheart, met when we were 15, and we hit it off from there. I fought through thick and thin over the years to be there for her, dealing with her unsupportive bigoted controlling parents, even transferring high-schools' in my last year to be there. After school, I wanted to help her get out of the household that had been so crule to her. I moved to a different city with her for a year. After We came back home to live with my Dad and I. We were a couple of free fun-loving spirts for a moment. I fully loved, respected, supported and cared for her. It was a couple of alright years, shit I thought it was REAL LOVE.. with some definite signs, I should've been more open to. She slowly opened my deepest secrets, hopes, dreams, fears, aspirations, she did the same, I thought. She had a drugged up mother that narcissisticly torched her when she was young. She NEVER wanted to anything remotely like her. I made a promise, the first one, that if I should be with her over time I gotta change all those things(Weed/cigarettes)she wouldn't like. Out of the blue, she set out of town for freshmen collage, I joined her a year after. Got a job tossing pizza to get by. I isolated my family, friends to be there, for Her. Subtly throwing everything, Ive opened up about, back in my face. Over the course of the next few years, she broke my heart countless times, every single day. When my Dad was having major health concerns, she even belittled his worries to me. I foolishly proposed to her, not once but twice, She didnt like HOW I did it. She wore the ring for a month. No conversation about it. She kept me strung along, shameful, codependent, numb SHELL of a person, till recently. I helped her move to another town, by herself this time for an internship. She heartlessly kissed me goodbye, only saying to me: 'Time to rip off the band-aid' The pizza job I had, was never 'good enough'. Unless it was supporting her long enough for the internship check come through. The day it was most convenient for her, she left. Discarded, it was the week of our 8 year anniversary. Not on her time, when I was there, visiting for our private celebration. It was a week after, over the phone. When I was supposed to be, THERE. At my cousin's wedding. EVERYTHING, is all my fault. I missed that wedding. All the empty promises about me quitting smoking for her had been enough. I had a life shaking, personal awakening from God. A month after, in the the form of many signs, and synchronicities from the universe about what was REALLY going on. She NEVER wanted to use drugs or alcohol, like her Mom. In her own cold, calculated ways, she used people instead. I had to surrender, listen, and trust the process. NO contact from there. I knew what I needed. In our last conversation I effectively grey rocked her at every turn, and told her NO MORE. 💯🙃 I WAS FREE!! It hurts like hell, but not like what it was, when I was with HER! 🙏🏼🙌🖤
Sou mulher INFJ e lamento muito pela péssima experiência que você teve com sua ex namorada. Creio que o princípio basilar para que um relacionamento venha a dar certo, é ambas as partes estarem saudáveis mental e emocionalmente. Infelizmente, a sua ex namorada não se encaixava nesta situação. Creio que, antes, ela precisaria se curar de suas feridas, traumas e encontrar a si mesma no processo, para só então começar um relacionamento, pois com isso, ela acabou ferindo você. Nós, INFJs, quando saudáveis, somos empáticos e gentis com as pessoas. Nos importamos com a dor do outro e fazemos o possível para ajudar. Tanto que, às vezes, se nós não tomarmos cuidado, podemos até acabar nos prejudicando, anulando nossas vontades e nosso auto cuidado para atender as necessidades alheias. Por um lado, fico feliz que você agora esteja se recuperando desse trauma. Meu desejo é que você busque ao Senhor Deus de todo o coração, pois só Ele é capaz de curar as feridas do passado. Só Ele é capaz de nos fazer verdadeiramente felizes e preencher o vazio que sentimos. Encontre primeiro essa alegia no relacionamento com Jesus Cristo antes de buscar a alegria nas pessoas ou em relacionamentos amorosos. No tempo certo, Deus irá mandar a mulher certa para sua vida. Que Deus te abençoe e desejo que você seja liberto de todos os vícios.
EXZ98 I'm so sad about your story but also what a wonderful, loyal man you are!! I hope that you can find a woman who deserves you, one without so many addictions. It might help to talk to a kind counselor for awhile to heal and not become bitter but better. You have a heart of gold.
you are an amazing human being and you'll find your treasure!! I'm so sorry for what happened to you but people like you are strong, loyal and deserve the world and I hope you know your worth❤️❤️❤️
My gf is a hypersensitive infj and my carefree and sometimes too rational side as an enfp creates some issues like when she's spontaneously daydreaming about something about us or whatever and automatically I tend to rationalize the topic instead of just go along with her and just enjoy the moment, relationships are hard lol
Maybe she has some other issues, you know? Something outside of just her personality type. Perhaps. Infjs and enfps are very in sync, when it comes to sensitivity, so maybe it’s some other issue? Or maybe she is a different type? Infjs are the most intellectual of the “feelers” so you two would likely be compatible in this regard. She would be pretty darn logical. Hmmm…let me think here. (One year later, of course, now that the problem is solved)
ENFP married to an INFJ and together for nineteen years ;). By the way, after years together and going through so so much there’s always the playful times, but also the ENFP INFJ work when the ENFP’s inner baby core of emotions meet the wisdom sage and steadfastness of the INFJ. Also, the ENFP eventually finds the inner INTJ ass of the INFJ and then the conflict can happen and the real work and wonder of these two can literally stop, or start wars and bring balance and peace to any system. It’s intense, it takes a long long time to synergize ( new word haha sorry spell check) this amorphous intense power to appear and it takes time but it’s truly beautiful. We are magical and our NF life has been an adventure. Our meta meta meta conversations are intense ;). And now with a long history ;), it’s rewarding. Yep, so easy the whole time to talk with and INFJs are so intelligent, but even more so emotionally intelligent. You guys are beast like in your sage wisdom like being with a wizard :). 😊😊🎉❤❤❤❤
As an ENFP woman I relate sooo much to this video!!! I miss my INFJ man so much. I really rushed through the relationship and he wanted to take his time. He was a true gentleman and I was absolutely enamored with him. I still am. I had to block contact with him because I was scared it was gonna hurt too much. It’s only been a month since the breakup but damn I regret rushing through things and giving him hell. The relationship was the best I ever had and I felt so safe and secure. Never felt like that before. I felt so happy even doing the most mundane things with him like cooking and cleaning and watching movies lol. But I got scared because he was everything I ever wanted in a life partner. It was too overwhelming for me. I wasn’t ready. But now I just miss him every single day. He’s been trying to contact me a little because I didn’t cut him off on one app and I only realized yesterday he’d been sending me things throughout the month. I just don’t know if I should tell him how I feel or just take it slow. I wish I could pour my heart out to him but I don’t wanna get hurt lol. So I’m hoping and praying he feels the same and I’m just sending replies but it needs to come from him I think. Man this relationship hit me hard lol. I hope we can get another chance at Love. 🙏🏽❤️
Lol, not to sound ominous or anything, but like...life is too short. Love as much as possible as long as you can. One day we won't be able to hold them and tell them we care.
I'm curious about infjs with infps. I'm infp and I'm at a point in my life where I don't need constant support and counseling. So it's been really interesting to not take, but provide that role for an infj friend that i'm close to. I get the feeling that she's used to helping everyone else, and has few people in her life where she can open up and they will really listen. Even if nothing else happens, that feels really special and I'm grateful for that kind of connection.
Sounds like you're a needed support for her, I love that. I've never been in an INFJ-INFP relationship but I have a cousin who's an INFP and we're very close. Something in our brains gets each other. It's definitely a special bond.
I have had INFJ friendships, and as an ENFP, they have been magnific n_n Especially the Ne - Ni combo when it is balanced n_n However, the Fi - Fe conflict has been a big trouble sometimes, especially if ENFP values authenticity a lot while INFJ values harmony much more. If this conflict is not well addressed, both may end inmensely hurt.
Fico tentando entender essa dinâmica entre Fi e Fe até hoje... Acredito que o ENFP precisa entender sobre Fe e INFJ precisa entender sobre Fi para que o relacionamento dê certo. Penso que a aceitação dessas funções é a palavra-chave num relacionamento.
@@GrafinVonHopper De hecho. Más específicamente, tanto el ENFP como el INFJ deben entender qué es lo que valora el otro y llegar a un mutuo acuerdo. Si no, entonces el ENFP puede pensar que el INFJ no está siendo sincero en el mejor de los casos o que es alguien falso en el peor de los casos, mientras que el INFJ podría pensar que el ENFP es desconsiderado y/o egoísta.
I have never had more fun in my life, than the fun I’ve had with my enfp friends. My God, did we get into some trouble together. I loved every minute of it.
i had a friend in middle school who i think was enfp. she was just really bubbly and fun. it felt like we were the dynamic duo. but im not as reserved as infj is supposed to be, and im really messy for an infj. so idk.
Well, not around her you weren’t. You ain’t kidding. That pairing is the bomb. The best times of my life were spent with an enfp friend. A whole host of them, over time. We laughed so hard we cried, there was nothing we wouldn’t do…someone always needed to separate us at some point, to get us back into the real world. We could have gone on forever getting into shenanigans.
Great video! Thanks!! I just started dating Infj and I am an enfp...I can totally see literally everything you talked about already! Super interesting ❤
im not sure how the other letters factor into it but as an IF ive always known EFs are the best friends you can have. They're able to enjoy having a really deep and meaningful connection, and they also don't have any anxiety being around people but they're empathetic enough to see when you do and will sort of hold your hand through social situations
Thanks for this video and your thoughts! I'm an INFJ male who's been single all his life, and I'm debating whether I am too picky when it comes to whom I would want to date. Regarding personality, mentally I keep coming back to the ENFP. Between your descriptions of the relationship dynamic and my own experiences with people, that outgoing, intelligent, cheerful, and understanding personality is one I especially enjoy being around and would highly value in a romantic relationship. I am still willing to be patient and to wait to find that kind of connection with someone. Also, I really dig your room aesthetic!
Oh yeah, you will be happy with an enfp. I just tucked my enfp friend in, on my couch yesterday, she was a wreck after her sister had yelled at her, during Christmas dinner. We took care of her, fed her, and she just shined that lovely enfp light and energy into our world for a few hours. So sweet.
I just discovered your channel, and I must say, appart from part on whom talks more than whom (I am a very chatty INFJ when I feel comfortable) I felt like you just described my boyfriend (ENFP) and I. Even the creative activities you listed, that's 100% him 😅 great video ❤️
Sou mulher INFJ e também fico bem tagarela quando estou confortável com pessoas da minha confiança e conversando sobre assuntos do meu interesse.😄 Ainda não conheci nenhum cara ENFP, mas quando conhecer, quero que venhamos a estar juntos por toda a vida.💕
Another things that I feel is.. When in "chaos" sometimes (me ENFP) have a thinking by logic situation, mirroring how the INFJ should be thinking, and He the INFJ feeling like how I should feel
Always been attracted to and dated ENTP tomboys, I think it's time for a change...I think I'm gonna deep dive on ENFPs, maybe I can find one. I think I am at that stage where I prefer a "feeler" type over a "thinker" type.
Yep lol that thinking vs saying bit is the perfect summary lol before I knew both of our personality types I (an ENFP) actually thought exactly this about him (an INFJ). I noticed it because I talk all the time, while he's much quieter, yet when he does speak, he's saying all those things I keep in my head lol It definitely took us a while to get to this cool and psychic level connection, because he took a while to open up, and we both annoyed one another in those early days, because I was chatting away and prying at his walls while he just wanted to hide out within and be quiet. Conflict avoidance is definitely an issue, and I had that ruin one of my other relationships, so that's really good advice! P.S. we're not romantically involved lol we're family.
That's awesome. It definitely can take time for both INFJs and ENFPs to open up, but when they do it's pretty great. I love that you shared this about your family too because the INFJ-ENFP connection spans all types of relationships and friendships and ages and barriers that would normally keep other types apart. Thanks for sharing!
ENFPs work for a friend basis for me but like ENTPs I feel a pressure and an almost expectation to perform or they get bored. Had an ENTP for about two years and she could be difficult even when accommodating (that tertiary Fe of theirs helps when it finally kicks in) and can nerd out with Ti. ENFPs, in my experience, seem even more chaotic and fickle with a squirrel mentality that is fun in dabs and dollops as buddies but I couldn’t imagine playing a proverbial dad all the time to a gf just to keep her focused or being a mysterious jester to keep her from getting bored. Could just be me but I much prefer the introverted intuitives and have always had the most meaningful friends there as well as the longest lasting. I can imagine those types working well relationally to a better degree as well
Maybe the fp one is having hard time being the entertainer too. They do this with everyone and thinks they should always be positive. Yes fj feels pressure to be like onion, yes you get it if you’re fj. So being onion is hard as much as being entertainer is hard for fp
Holy shit the part " compulsion to petform or they'll get bored and leave" so fucking true!!. And yes INxxs are so much better with meaningful relationships.
As someone who loves INFJs as an ENFP, I never saw my loved ones like that. Like they needed to be spontaneous or wild or funny like me. I loved them for them, for their down-to-earth, sometimes quiet, sometimes not, selves. As an adventurer, we all need something to come home too, and that's my experience with INFJs. Home doesn't always need to be fun and crazy, home just needs to be home. On a side note, if you're babying another human being. That's really less about their personality trait and more on them needed to grow as a person in general. A healthy relationship doesn't involve a parental dynamic.
I (INFJ) am crying 😢😢😢 the last time I had my ENFP was hugging him after our licensure exam. I felt genuine affection and longing after that hug. Now he has his own girlfriend and I am still moving on
Well as an INFJ i find ENFP attatractive, thats why she wonder why i dont have a girlfriend in my age (im 25 btw),and when she ask one time to tell who im attracted to and tell my feelings before its too late, it sent shivers down my spine and i panicked. After we went home after work, i plucked my courage to ask her out... and she said yes... but sadly in our 2 months of courtship.. her parents does'nt want her to have a boyfriend so i tell her to listen to her parents... but she insisted that for me to not stop liking her.... and we can still be friends. But i added i will keep a appropriate distance as friends and she does'nt want that. She said she will return to me if the time is right... Should i continue to be friends or let go?
That's definitely a tough situation! I think I would give it some time before you make a decision. Her parents might change or she may return to you like you say. Either way, time is your friend. All the best to you 🙏
you have to date lmao. Please don't adhere to bullshit cultural expectations. Trust me it does nothing for you but make you weak. Think about how fucking BIZARRE the idea of not wanting two people dating is, cuz it makes someone else unhappy. News flash, it actually doesn't. These religious fucks are programmed to blindly follow and they no longer care about morality, they die for an ideology THAT DID NOTHING FOR THEM. Be a man, initiate and become free. You can be so strong, you'll be so much more useful to your society and family when you claim what you deserve. Keep submitting to these bizarre unreasonable expectations and you'll be chasing a life or lies and a carefully planned ideology that ONLY limits and hurts you.
Se vocês dois atingiram a maioridade, então é a sua namorada quem precisa se posicionar contra os pais e pedir que eles respeitem a sua decisão e seus limites, já que ela não é mais criança ou adolescente. Acredito que se sua namorada deseja fazer esse relacionamento funcionar, ela precisa correr atrás. Do contrário, não seria justo deixar que você fique preso, esperando a decisão dela ou que alguma coisa do acaso aconteça para que só então vocês possam ficar juntos. Ela precisa decidir se fica com você ou se te deixará livre.
Cara... não viaja!😒 O que te faz pensar que o fato de os pais dela não aprovarem o relacionamento seja por motivo religioso? Você tem tanto ódio dos crentes que está vendo até chifre em cabeça de cavalo.🤷🏻♀️ Vá se tratar!
I think Alexander Avila did research on this, and one of thre takeaways is that introverted females can work with extroverted males. But not vice versa. An introverted male is likely to feel threatened by an extroverted female. So, this vlog is true but only speaks to her type of situation.
I’m an ENFP female partnered with an INFJ male… perhaps we’re an exception to the rule, but we pair beautifully. He accepts me fully in this quiet and patient way, wild extroverted parts and all. Resonate very much with the video above.
OMG, ainda não conheci nenhum cara ENFP, mas quando assisto as entrevistas do Tom Holland, eu penso que ele é o ENFP certo para mim. Sou louca por aquele homem!😍❤❤❤
As an INFJ myself, I want to avoid conflict as much as possible. However, it is better to "rip the band-aid off" now, than the problem continuing to grow. ☠️
I (enfp) currently have a crush on a guy (infj) and I have gotten signals from this guy but it’s extremely confusing. He went from texting me everyday to ghosting me for a week and then texting me again… I have no idea what’s going on
Like peanut butter and jelly, chocolate chips and cookies, water and fish, are you kidding? We gravitate to eachother. Naturally. It’s love at first sight. Friends, romantically, you name it, we just work so well together.
i had an argument with a fellow enfp and i feel bad but it was forced from my other friend (infp) and im not sure if he could see it. she was mad at him for no reason (she started an argument out of nowhere over something that happened months ago) and i was forced into it so eventually i dissed him a couple times and now we're distant, i want to address the elephant in the room & apologize but because we're in a really inactive friend group together. im too scared it might come off as awkward 🧑🦯
its very satisfying to apologise when you are in the wrong, seriously...the burden off the chest is such a good feeling. It's your obligation to apologize, don't worry about the result, you don't control that.
I’m INFJ and my girlfriend is ENFP, and it’s being my best relationship so far! (I’m 33 btw)
Edit: we got married recently and everything is being awesome!
Same here, brother. My ENFP woman is incredible (Just turned 29)
I'm so happy for yall 🥺✨️
everytime i hear this it makes me so happy
How is it going? Please I need to know
@@faheemabid9646 today's our 5 month anniversary, and we're still pretty happy haha
Of course we had some challenges, disagreements, and arguments, but we've been able to overcome everything
I'm an INFJ my late husband was an ENFP. When he died only 2 months ago my world fell apart. The energy between us was unbelievable. Hugging him was medicine. I am so lost now.
So sorry for your loss. Sending love and prayers 🤍
So sorry to hear that sending you ❤️ and 🙏
Enfp here
Hugs \^_^/
I hold you for a bit. I make space for you ❤
@@MsYellowSkies That's what we ENFP's do, it's why we are the champion or campaigner.
@Roxierawls, While we ENFP's might be few and far between, you can always spot us a light year away (literally!!). Ask one of us for a hug, you will get it. It will not be your late husband, but it will be just as warm and safe. We LOVE bringing other people up to our particular level of energetic insanity and the method is not anywhere near as important as the result. In fact the more seemingly chaotic the method, the better!!
thanks for sharing
the infj-enfp pair is God-sent! i’m an infj and he’s an enfp. we understand each other. i always say we’re the same, but opposite. two halves of the same circle. we grow together. sitting in silence, long night drives, communicating through eyes, random text messages and inside jokes. a “safe space.”
I'm ENFP. I had INFJ gf 8 years ago but the hugging thing and communicating without words hit me HARD so I cried like a baby. It was hard to me to explain back then (I was like 25, unaware freshly graduated college student) that we felt like we can own the world and achieve everything from day 1. Even sitting in silence was mesmerizing. I have never experienced anything like that again. We were together only for almost a year but it felt like we were married for 20 years. Unfortunately I screwed up and burnt a bridge behind. So stupid and cursed fool I was. Now I am older and working as a leadership trainer, luckily smarter, so I won't let go another girl like her. Well, only if I finally find such a girl in the world. Anyway, everything best to you and thank you for the video. It was like a time travel to me.
Loved hearing your story! I can relate so much. Thanks for sharing, friend.
ENFP woman. I relate to you so much. I miss my INFJ man so much.
Find her. Apologize, earn her trust back. Of course, we both know, she’s already taken, don’t we? (If not, go for it, because it will mean the world to an INFJ that you never forgot her, if she isn’t taken, of course, which we both know, she is…but…just in case…) -INFJ woman
@@menoshacfind him.
@@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied NO. This is one of the worst things you can do to an infj. Stay away from her she doesn't need more hurt.
I've been with my ENFP husband for over 30 years. It's still great.
The INFJ / ENFP bond is truly unparalleled :)
I’m an ENFP and I met an INFJ playing video games. We talked and played until after midnight for 4 nights before her boyfriend shut it down. I’ve never connected so quickly and easily with anyone before. We spoke the same language. Now my heart is hurting because I miss my friend. 😢
Hugs \^_^/
ENFP: so i used to work at an office in my university and whenever i would go back to visit i would see how stressed everyone was. So i went around to each person asking how they felt about getting a hug to lighten their day. I then put up posters of affirming statements and i wrote empowering poems on their dry erase boards. Now whenever i visit everyone lines up for their daily hug which lasts a minimum of 20 seconds per person to ensure they can actually feel the love.
And on special days i stay behind to let them vent and i encourage them with reminders of what they are capable of.
Its my favorite part of going to college. 😂
You are amazing!! :)
Sad that this great video received such few views... I am an INFJ and I agree with everything you said
I had an INFJ-ENFP relationship once. (I'm INFJ and I'm sure she was an ENFP because the description fits perfectly.) What you said about differences in core values is absolutely true. It was one of the main reasons she broke up with me. What I also might add : looking back, it seems to me that she kind of felt too restricted in our relationship. I was often "down to earth", structured and she felt like she couldn't be totally free. That was never my intention; I wanted her to be happy.
INFJ-ENFP relationships are often romanticized and presented like they're meant to be. But if one of the people in this relationship has lived serious traumas from the past, it'll be very hard and energy-draining to maintain the relationship. In my case, she told me about emotional, physical and sexual abuse which resulted in negative reactions towards some of my actions or statements and some of her resentment towards me.
I did mistakes, too. I've gotten better in articulating my emotions but even today I find it really difficult to express them well spontaneously. I've also learned to see behind my trigger points and express what really matters. Learning about how to argue properly will also be a huge benefit, especially as an INFJ.
I'd absolutely be willing to engage in an INFJ-ENFP relationship again. I know the potential of it and with what I've learned from the past, I'm sure a next one will be a lot better in terms of harmony and love.
These are good thoughts. I totally agree with you about trauma changing the game in every way - it runs much deeper than personality type. Thanks for sharing 🙏
I feel the majority of INFJs have experienced some form of verbal trauma. :[
Keep your eyes on God everyone. He is always good no matter what. :')
Don't worry man things will turn better
You seem like an enfp… I love them too. They are adorable, cuddly, fun, sweet, genuine and extremely intelligent.
Now I do believe in the observation that most of INFJs women are beautiful, charming, elegant and unique. Moreover intelligent as well. You're wonderful and really fit in what I have just described. Do you know or can you guess what type am I ?
Thank you so much! I'm gonna say ENFP 🤫
Are you asking her on a date you little devil? You lovable Enfp, YOU!
@@christinelise I am actually the same type as you. 😚😊🤟✌️
@@optimus8740I don't believe you.. there's no way your Fe would allow you to comment something so forward, potentially unwanted and, for lack of a better word... cringe
INFJ here! I have just met an ENFP on this few days in my best friend's birthday. We talked a bit and I could see the conection there, it was so cool! She's a bit older than me, but she was so kind and interesting! I think now I know why it was easy to talk with her.
Now, go on a road trip together. You won’t regret it. Take photos.
@@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied Thanks for the suggestion! I would like to, but she's studying on a different university and we are very busy right now hahsha... maybe I'll tell her after all of this.
I have an INFJ best friend, I would call him my soulmate, as an ENFP, we are sooooooo different and soooooo similar at the same time, if I can, I want to have him beside me until the end of the world (ENFP😂)
And he always let me be myself, comfort my soul and emotions, pushes me to be the better version of me
And I just want to say I love him, even my smallest cells from my body, we all want to shout how adorable he is
And I just want him to not work so hard and relax for a little bit and if there is a chance , let me know I am kinda important to him as well … not only me talking about that all the time
However , he makes effort to hang out with me every week, sometime only we two person , sometimes with our friends , so I assume that’s a sign ?? 😢
Wait, are you in love? It sounds like you are in love….kind of cool.
Recently I came to know I'm infj through self reflection and assessment. When I reflect back my life , it makes all sense and I was right , all along.
Life's been tough soo far due to challenges but still optimistic about life. I think an enfj partner will be ideal fit for me and for both. Hopefully will find her soon 🙏.
This episode makes my heart sparkle!! ❤️ Enfp here.
INFJ lady here just found my INFP dude. Lol. It’s as you describe. We both have never experienced this level of synergy. Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏻
INFPs are precious souls. I was with a beautiful soul for 23 years. I adored her.
When me and her cuddle, it’s a feeling that’s magnetic. I can’t describe it.
Literally literally magnetic! I would almost sell my soul if that meant I could have that magnetic hug with my INFJ guy forever (ENFP me)
I had a lady INFJ in my ENFP life for years, until recently. She was my high-school sweetheart, met when we were 15, and we hit it off from there.
I fought through thick and thin over the years to be there for her, dealing with her unsupportive bigoted controlling parents, even transferring high-schools' in my last year to be there. After school, I wanted to help her get out of the household that had been so crule to her. I moved to a different city with her for a year. After We came back home to live with my Dad and I. We were a couple of free fun-loving spirts for a moment. I fully loved, respected, supported and cared for her. It was a couple of alright years, shit I thought it was REAL LOVE.. with some definite signs, I should've been more open to. She slowly opened my deepest secrets, hopes, dreams, fears, aspirations, she did the same, I thought. She had a drugged up mother that narcissisticly torched her when she was young. She NEVER wanted to anything remotely like her. I made a promise, the first one, that if I should be with her over time I gotta change all those things(Weed/cigarettes)she wouldn't like. Out of the blue, she set out of town for freshmen collage, I joined her a year after. Got a job tossing pizza to get by. I isolated my family, friends to be there, for Her. Subtly throwing everything, Ive opened up about, back in my face. Over the course of the next few years, she broke my heart countless times, every single day. When my Dad was having major health concerns, she even belittled his worries to me.
I foolishly proposed to her, not once but twice, She didnt like HOW I did it. She wore the ring for a month. No conversation about it. She kept me strung along, shameful, codependent, numb SHELL of a person, till recently. I helped her move to another town, by herself this time for an internship. She heartlessly kissed me goodbye, only saying to me: 'Time to rip off the band-aid'
The pizza job I had, was never 'good enough'. Unless it was supporting her long enough for the internship check come through. The day it was most convenient for her, she left. Discarded, it was the week of our 8 year anniversary. Not on her time, when I was there, visiting for our private celebration. It was a week after, over the phone. When I was supposed to be, THERE. At my cousin's wedding. EVERYTHING, is all my fault. I missed that wedding. All the empty promises about me quitting smoking for her had been enough.
I had a life shaking, personal awakening from God. A month after, in the the form of many signs, and synchronicities from the universe about what was REALLY going on. She NEVER wanted to use drugs or alcohol, like her Mom. In her own cold, calculated ways, she used people instead.
I had to surrender, listen, and trust the process. NO contact from there. I knew what I needed. In our last conversation I effectively grey rocked her at every turn, and told her NO MORE. 💯🙃
I WAS FREE!! It hurts like hell, but not like what it was, when I was with HER! 🙏🏼🙌🖤
Sou mulher INFJ e lamento muito pela péssima experiência que você teve com sua ex namorada.
Creio que o princípio basilar para que um relacionamento venha a dar certo, é ambas as partes estarem saudáveis mental e emocionalmente.
Infelizmente, a sua ex namorada não se encaixava nesta situação.
Creio que, antes, ela precisaria se curar de suas feridas, traumas e encontrar a si mesma no processo, para só então começar um relacionamento, pois com isso, ela acabou ferindo você.
Nós, INFJs, quando saudáveis, somos empáticos e gentis com as pessoas. Nos importamos com a dor do outro e fazemos o possível para ajudar. Tanto que, às vezes, se nós não tomarmos cuidado, podemos até acabar nos prejudicando, anulando nossas vontades e nosso auto cuidado para atender as necessidades alheias.
Por um lado, fico feliz que você agora esteja se recuperando desse trauma.
Meu desejo é que você busque ao Senhor Deus de todo o coração, pois só Ele é capaz de curar as feridas do passado.
Só Ele é capaz de nos fazer verdadeiramente felizes e preencher o vazio que sentimos.
Encontre primeiro essa alegia no relacionamento com Jesus Cristo antes de buscar a alegria nas pessoas ou em relacionamentos amorosos.
No tempo certo, Deus irá mandar a mulher certa para sua vida.
Que Deus te abençoe e desejo que você seja liberto de todos os vícios.
EXZ98 I'm so sad about your story but also what a wonderful, loyal man you are!! I hope that you can find a woman who deserves you, one without so many addictions. It might help to talk to a kind counselor for awhile to heal and not become bitter but better. You have a heart of gold.
you are an amazing human being and you'll find your treasure!! I'm so sorry for what happened to you but people like you are strong, loyal and deserve the world and I hope you know your worth❤️❤️❤️
My gf is a hypersensitive infj and my carefree and sometimes too rational side as an enfp creates some issues like when she's spontaneously daydreaming about something about us or whatever and automatically I tend to rationalize the topic instead of just go along with her and just enjoy the moment, relationships are hard lol
Maybe she has some other issues, you know? Something outside of just her personality type. Perhaps. Infjs and enfps are very in sync, when it comes to sensitivity, so maybe it’s some other issue? Or maybe she is a different type? Infjs are the most intellectual of the “feelers” so you two would likely be compatible in this regard. She would be pretty darn logical. Hmmm…let me think here. (One year later, of course, now that the problem is solved)
@@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied it's getting better, I am making efforts to seize the moment and let go more than before
ENFP married to an INFJ and together for nineteen years ;). By the way, after years together and going through so so much there’s always the playful times, but also the ENFP INFJ work when the ENFP’s inner baby core of emotions meet the wisdom sage and steadfastness of the INFJ. Also, the ENFP eventually finds the inner INTJ ass of the INFJ and then the conflict can happen and the real work and wonder of these two can literally stop, or start wars and bring balance and peace to any system. It’s intense, it takes a long long time to synergize ( new word haha sorry spell check) this amorphous intense power to appear and it takes time but it’s truly beautiful. We are magical and our NF life has been an adventure. Our meta meta meta conversations are intense ;). And now with a long history ;), it’s rewarding. Yep, so easy the whole time to talk with and INFJs are so intelligent, but even more so emotionally intelligent. You guys are beast like in your sage wisdom like being with a wizard :). 😊😊🎉❤❤❤❤
As an ENFP woman I relate sooo much to this video!!! I miss my INFJ man so much. I really rushed through the relationship and he wanted to take his time. He was a true gentleman and I was absolutely enamored with him. I still am. I had to block contact with him because I was scared it was gonna hurt too much. It’s only been a month since the breakup but damn I regret rushing through things and giving him hell. The relationship was the best I ever had and I felt so safe and secure. Never felt like that before. I felt so happy even doing the most mundane things with him like cooking and cleaning and watching movies lol. But I got scared because he was everything I ever wanted in a life partner. It was too overwhelming for me. I wasn’t ready. But now I just miss him every single day. He’s been trying to contact me a little because I didn’t cut him off on one app and I only realized yesterday he’d been sending me things throughout the month. I just don’t know if I should tell him how I feel or just take it slow. I wish I could pour my heart out to him but I don’t wanna get hurt lol. So I’m hoping and praying he feels the same and I’m just sending replies but it needs to come from him I think. Man this relationship hit me hard lol. I hope we can get another chance at Love. 🙏🏽❤️
You broke up with an INFJ.... because they were too perfect??
I hope you told him!!
Lol, not to sound ominous or anything, but like...life is too short. Love as much as possible as long as you can. One day we won't be able to hold them and tell them we care.
Be with him pls. I know my comment is late. ❤
Is there any update ?
I'm curious about infjs with infps. I'm infp and I'm at a point in my life where I don't need constant support and counseling. So it's been really interesting to not take, but provide that role for an infj friend that i'm close to. I get the feeling that she's used to helping everyone else, and has few people in her life where she can open up and they will really listen. Even if nothing else happens, that feels really special and I'm grateful for that kind of connection.
Sounds like you're a needed support for her, I love that. I've never been in an INFJ-INFP relationship but I have a cousin who's an INFP and we're very close. Something in our brains gets each other. It's definitely a special bond.
BEAUTIFULLY explained. Thank You.
and YES, I DO want to hear more about this connection :)
I have had INFJ friendships, and as an ENFP, they have been magnific n_n Especially the Ne - Ni combo when it is balanced n_n
However, the Fi - Fe conflict has been a big trouble sometimes, especially if ENFP values authenticity a lot while INFJ values harmony much more. If this conflict is not well addressed, both may end inmensely hurt.
Yes, great thoughts. Thanks for sharing.
Fico tentando entender essa dinâmica entre Fi e Fe até hoje...
Acredito que o ENFP precisa entender sobre Fe e INFJ precisa entender sobre Fi para que o relacionamento dê certo.
Penso que a aceitação dessas funções é a palavra-chave num relacionamento.
@@GrafinVonHopper De hecho. Más específicamente, tanto el ENFP como el INFJ deben entender qué es lo que valora el otro y llegar a un mutuo acuerdo. Si no, entonces el ENFP puede pensar que el INFJ no está siendo sincero en el mejor de los casos o que es alguien falso en el peor de los casos, mientras que el INFJ podría pensar que el ENFP es desconsiderado y/o egoísta.
@@azarishiba2559 Exatamente. 😉👍
I have never had more fun in my life, than the fun I’ve had with my enfp friends. My God, did we get into some trouble together. I loved every minute of it.
ENFP-A here, you are spot on
So cool on the details on how they interact with each other..
Especially not having to say a word and so so comfortable with that .
You are so right about this. This has been my experience. I feel so blessed
I am an ENFP and my best friend is INFJ and he gets me a lot.
I’m an INFJ male. It would be great to meet a ENFP lady out there.
You will…
i had a friend in middle school who i think was enfp. she was just really bubbly and fun. it felt like we were the dynamic duo. but im not as reserved as infj is supposed to be, and im really messy for an infj. so idk.
Totally get that! Even with general guidelines for the types, every person on the planet is unique! Thanks for watching 😉
Well, not around her you weren’t. You ain’t kidding. That pairing is the bomb. The best times of my life were spent with an enfp friend. A whole host of them, over time. We laughed so hard we cried, there was nothing we wouldn’t do…someone always needed to separate us at some point, to get us back into the real world. We could have gone on forever getting into shenanigans.
Great video! Thanks!! I just started dating Infj and I am an enfp...I can totally see literally everything you talked about already! Super interesting ❤
Me infj (5w6) and bf enfp (4w3) perfect combo so far :D!
im not sure how the other letters factor into it but as an IF ive always known EFs are the best friends you can have. They're able to enjoy having a really deep and meaningful connection, and they also don't have any anxiety being around people but they're empathetic enough to see when you do and will sort of hold your hand through social situations
Thanks for this video and your thoughts! I'm an INFJ male who's been single all his life, and I'm debating whether I am too picky when it comes to whom I would want to date. Regarding personality, mentally I keep coming back to the ENFP. Between your descriptions of the relationship dynamic and my own experiences with people, that outgoing, intelligent, cheerful, and understanding personality is one I especially enjoy being around and would highly value in a romantic relationship. I am still willing to be patient and to wait to find that kind of connection with someone. Also, I really dig your room aesthetic!
Aw I love these thoughts - and thanks for the vote of confidence about my room!! 😉
Oh yeah, you will be happy with an enfp. I just tucked my enfp friend in, on my couch yesterday, she was a wreck after her sister had yelled at her, during Christmas dinner. We took care of her, fed her, and she just shined that lovely enfp light and energy into our world for a few hours. So sweet.
omg the rubicks cube one i feel hard
I just discovered your channel, and I must say, appart from part on whom talks more than whom (I am a very chatty INFJ when I feel comfortable) I felt like you just described my boyfriend (ENFP) and I. Even the creative activities you listed, that's 100% him 😅 great video ❤️
I love hearing that! Gotta love those creative ENFP boys 😎 Thanks for stopping by! ❤️✨
Sou mulher INFJ e também fico bem tagarela quando estou confortável com pessoas da minha confiança e conversando sobre assuntos do meu interesse.😄
Ainda não conheci nenhum cara ENFP, mas quando conhecer, quero que venhamos a estar juntos por toda a vida.💕
You two are married by now….
Another things that I feel is.. When in "chaos" sometimes (me ENFP) have a thinking by logic situation, mirroring how the INFJ should be thinking, and He the INFJ feeling like how I should feel
Always been attracted to and dated ENTP tomboys, I think it's time for a change...I think I'm gonna deep dive on ENFPs, maybe I can find one. I think I am at that stage where I prefer a "feeler" type over a "thinker" type.
They rule. Entps are a bit self absorbed, enfps are, but in a lovable, cuddly, way.
Been married to my enfp husband for 2 years now. I knew from the first date he was the one ❤
ENFP here!! I am a HUGE hugger!! My sister is an ISFJ, and I've told her MANY times if I go off on tangents to tell me to be quiet HAHA
I love you already. One paragraph in the RUclips comments section was all it took. -INFJ
@@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied 🤗 I'm flattered!!
Yep lol that thinking vs saying bit is the perfect summary lol before I knew both of our personality types I (an ENFP) actually thought exactly this about him (an INFJ). I noticed it because I talk all the time, while he's much quieter, yet when he does speak, he's saying all those things I keep in my head lol
It definitely took us a while to get to this cool and psychic level connection, because he took a while to open up, and we both annoyed one another in those early days, because I was chatting away and prying at his walls while he just wanted to hide out within and be quiet.
Conflict avoidance is definitely an issue, and I had that ruin one of my other relationships, so that's really good advice!
P.S. we're not romantically involved lol we're family.
That's awesome. It definitely can take time for both INFJs and ENFPs to open up, but when they do it's pretty great. I love that you shared this about your family too because the INFJ-ENFP connection spans all types of relationships and friendships and ages and barriers that would normally keep other types apart. Thanks for sharing!
Hey INFJ here I subscribed to your RUclips channel. I wish the best of luck with your channel! I appreciate your content genuinely .
Aw, thank you friend!
ENFPs work for a friend basis for me but like ENTPs I feel a pressure and an almost expectation to perform or they get bored. Had an ENTP for about two years and she could be difficult even when accommodating (that tertiary Fe of theirs helps when it finally kicks in) and can nerd out with Ti. ENFPs, in my experience, seem even more chaotic and fickle with a squirrel mentality that is fun in dabs and dollops as buddies but I couldn’t imagine playing a proverbial dad all the time to a gf just to keep her focused or being a mysterious jester to keep her from getting bored.
Could just be me but I much prefer the introverted intuitives and have always had the most meaningful friends there as well as the longest lasting. I can imagine those types working well relationally to a better degree as well
Maybe the fp one is having hard time being the entertainer too. They do this with everyone and thinks they should always be positive. Yes fj feels pressure to be like onion, yes you get it if you’re fj. So being onion is hard as much as being entertainer is hard for fp
Holy shit the part " compulsion to petform or they'll get bored and leave" so fucking true!!. And yes INxxs are so much better with meaningful relationships.
As someone who loves INFJs as an ENFP, I never saw my loved ones like that. Like they needed to be spontaneous or wild or funny like me. I loved them for them, for their down-to-earth, sometimes quiet, sometimes not, selves. As an adventurer, we all need something to come home too, and that's my experience with INFJs. Home doesn't always need to be fun and crazy, home just needs to be home.
On a side note, if you're babying another human being. That's really less about their personality trait and more on them needed to grow as a person in general. A healthy relationship doesn't involve a parental dynamic.
How about an INTJ for you, friend? I got me one. They are wonderful.
INFJ here, would love to meet a suitable ENFP.
I (INFJ) am crying 😢😢😢 the last time I had my ENFP was hugging him after our licensure exam. I felt genuine affection and longing after that hug. Now he has his own girlfriend and I am still moving on
I've been there. Give yourself grace - It takes so much time to heal.🤍
Go get yerself a new one, then. Off ya go, now…find you another enfp…on the double.
Well as an INFJ i find ENFP attatractive, thats why she wonder why i dont have a girlfriend in my age (im 25 btw),and when she ask one time to tell who im attracted to and tell my feelings before its too late, it sent shivers down my spine and i panicked. After we went home after work, i plucked my courage to ask her out...
and she said yes...
but sadly in our 2 months of courtship..
her parents does'nt want her to have a boyfriend so i tell her to listen to her parents...
but she insisted that for me to not stop liking her.... and we can still be friends. But i added i will keep a appropriate distance as friends and she does'nt want that. She said she will return to me if the time is right...
Should i continue to be friends or let go?
That's definitely a tough situation! I think I would give it some time before you make a decision. Her parents might change or she may return to you like you say. Either way, time is your friend. All the best to you 🙏
you have to date lmao. Please don't adhere to bullshit cultural expectations. Trust me it does nothing for you but make you weak. Think about how fucking BIZARRE the idea of not wanting two people dating is, cuz it makes someone else unhappy. News flash, it actually doesn't. These religious fucks are programmed to blindly follow and they no longer care about morality, they die for an ideology THAT DID NOTHING FOR THEM. Be a man, initiate and become free. You can be so strong, you'll be so much more useful to your society and family when you claim what you deserve. Keep submitting to these bizarre unreasonable expectations and you'll be chasing a life or lies and a carefully planned ideology that ONLY limits and hurts you.
Se vocês dois atingiram a maioridade, então é a sua namorada quem precisa se posicionar contra os pais e pedir que eles respeitem a sua decisão e seus limites, já que ela não é mais criança ou adolescente.
Acredito que se sua namorada deseja fazer esse relacionamento funcionar, ela precisa correr atrás. Do contrário, não seria justo deixar que você fique preso, esperando a decisão dela ou que alguma coisa do acaso aconteça para que só então vocês possam ficar juntos. Ela precisa decidir se fica com você ou se te deixará livre.
Cara... não viaja!😒
O que te faz pensar que o fato de os pais dela não aprovarem o relacionamento seja por motivo religioso?
Você tem tanto ódio dos crentes que está vendo até chifre em cabeça de cavalo.🤷🏻♀️
Vá se tratar!
waiting for my infj
I think Alexander Avila did research on this, and one of thre takeaways is that introverted females can work with extroverted males. But not vice versa. An introverted male is likely to feel threatened by an extroverted female. So, this vlog is true but only speaks to her type of situation.
I’m an ENFP female partnered with an INFJ male… perhaps we’re an exception to the rule, but we pair beautifully. He accepts me fully in this quiet and patient way, wild extroverted parts and all. Resonate very much with the video above.
I just found out I'm an infj almost an hour ago😊
I am enfp
OMG, ainda não conheci nenhum cara ENFP, mas quando assisto as entrevistas do Tom Holland, eu penso que ele é o ENFP certo para mim.
Sou louca por aquele homem!😍❤❤❤
I’m an INFJ guy who recently met an ENFP guy. We will see how things go
I’m INFJ and I still single.. Just saying that.. I haven’t met my ENFP yet.. Maybe he still stuck somewhere😂😂
As an INFJ myself, I want to avoid conflict as much as possible. However, it is better to "rip the band-aid off" now, than the problem continuing to grow. ☠️
You are such an INFJ. me too. Couldn’t agree more…
Did he leave you for an INTJ? They fascinate me so much!
I (enfp) currently have a crush on a guy (infj) and I have gotten signals from this guy but it’s extremely confusing. He went from texting me everyday to ghosting me for a week and then texting me again… I have no idea what’s going on
We DO look good in red, don't we ?
Christine where the next video hey ? 😅
I love this but how would an infj end up with an enfp?
Like peanut butter and jelly, chocolate chips and cookies, water and fish, are you kidding? We gravitate to eachother. Naturally. It’s love at first sight. Friends, romantically, you name it, we just work so well together.
Hi sweety♥️
😊😊😊
Are you still dating that enfp or not and if not why ? ( If you want to share )
i had an argument with a fellow enfp and i feel bad but it was forced from my other friend (infp) and im not sure if he could see it. she was mad at him for no reason (she started an argument out of nowhere over something that happened months ago) and i was forced into it so eventually i dissed him a couple times and now we're distant, i want to address the elephant in the room & apologize but because we're in a really inactive friend group together. im too scared it might come off as awkward 🧑🦯
I think trying to make amends is a good idea. Yes, it takes courage, but if he's a good friend, it's worth it. xo
its very satisfying to apologise when you are in the wrong, seriously...the burden off the chest is such a good feeling. It's your obligation to apologize, don't worry about the result, you don't control that.
@@aladdout9454 that helps alot thank you
@@christinelise yup! :D
Do it. Enfps will forgive you. They take it pretty hard, but if you are sincere, which you will be, they will understand.