I love how it shows that HE is the odd one out, everyone else is having fun and enjoying each other and the dynamics between men and women while he's distrustful of his wife for no reason.
My ex husband was like that. He always needed to be the center of attention and wanted me to just sit quietly and look pretty. If god forbid I ever spoke and was having fun, he saw it as I was taking attention away from him and would instantly criticize me or put me down. That way I would immediately feel embarrassed and stop talking. After a couple times of being publicly humiliating, I learned not to even bother communicating with anyone other than to agree with him. It simply wasn’t worth the embarrassment.
I love how she says she doesn’t want to ruin it because it took too much work to make and the other woman saw it as such a compliment that someone noticed her hard work. It’s always nice to feel noticed and appreciated.
..and husband, never appreciated what their wives did for him, because he used to see their wives did it. The more we do, the less we appreciated because husband and their mind will 'normalize' it as wives duties at home
And importantly: it’s the highest status person at the table who just got her work flattered. That CEO’s wife will always remember the bubbly redhead who complimented her hard work while cheekily poking fun at her silly husband. So when silly husband starts talking about that new promotion coming up, Mrs Swan is going to have a lovely comment about that thoughtful Mrs Redhead and her husband - what was his name? “Must be a smart man to manage a feisty wife! I imagine he’d easily handle an account-“
This. 😢🥺!! Any hard work or effort gotta be recognised nd preciated. It just hella rude to dismiss like what they did. My Dad still sometimes do that :( but it’s a work in progress in family and preciation 💛
@@christopherbrown5409that’s… not what that means. “Keep your day job” or “don’t give up the day job” basically means *”just keep doing what you’re good at, because this is NOT it.”*
@@Druzica18I wouldn’t cause I have a partner but I’ll become her just for my partner. I’d be her friend. She sounds awesome! Absolutely friend material!!
This is one of the cardinal rules of being a good guest at a dinner party - a bit of a lighthearted challenge on a neutral topic that breaks the ice and gets people laughing. “How hard can it be to make a swan?” “I bet you can’t!” “Oho I’ll take that bet” and suddenly the four couples are all chatting and having a good time. That is a learned skill
@@MissMailina that makes it more impressive. That’s her husband’s boss. He would you react if you had to host your husband’s boss, his wife, and a bunch of colleagues for a formal meal while high as the sky? I’d cry
“Why women kill” is the series. The angry man is her husband. She ate a pot brownie before this dinner so he’s thrown off by her behavior. But he also doesn’t like her and has been cheating on her with multiple women!
@@risingrat5491which is very interesting that you caught that because that’s the little split difference between still being in love and admiration of you wife vs. not being in love with and not even fully respecting your wife. Watch the show! This man has a hell hill of audacity!
He's been so used to her being withdrawn that this was completely out of character for her. TBH she did have a pot brownie just before this for the first time so she's high AF rn
@@baddieog420 Thank you for the man-react to a reply to a very public comment that anyone can reply to as a conversation as an enjoyer of the show. It wasn’t said in disagreement and wasn’t an explanation. Conversation works by a person posting and someone answering, how’s that for a mansplain? Also: not a man. So I hope my lackluster attempt at it meets your criteria for it. Mr. Rude For No Reason. See? I can call someone I don’t know the gender of “Mr.” too.
Idk why but the “Brilliant” and everyone just having fun is really nice to see compared to the usual depictions of the 1950s, where everyone is just unhappy and abused. And yes, people had those experiences back then, but shows and movies never take the time to show the joyful moments in people’s lives. These kinds of moments show how people had fun back then too. Gotta appreciate that.
You talk like today woman are not abused cause they are free to walk naked and work 24 /7 .amazing how twisted some minds are .2024 femicide is live and striving .man becoming lady like throwing more burden on women. And x other details that in so many ways they had better lives.
When your insecure husband is mad because he thought you would embarass him but ended up impressing his boss more in 20 minutes than he has his whole career just by being your true fun self....
Both the actor for the first two characters performed WONDERFULLY! They conveyed so much variety with their expressions that you just felt what they were feeling
I love how all the other men are having fun and aren’t getting offended. Her husband is the epitome of what a narcissist is. Also having the husband try something his wife does regularly is a great way to exercise empathy. He learns that something he thought his wife did was easy is actually hard and that could teach him to appreciate what she does more.
@skyegroome223 *yawn* most things out out serviced due to warranties and such being void if you do it yourself. Men are not handy at all these days and those things only happen every once in a while. Cooking, cleaning, childcare, laundry, etc has to be done EVERY DAY. Yall are always trying to diminish the work women do. The world would be in shambles if not for us
@@skyegroome223I build stuffs (ok not fixing a car, but I mean furniture, light, PC) while he's playing game and have no clues how to do those things.
Dude is the epitome of wanting to have his cake and eat it too. He wants a nice, quiet, shy wife who stays home and does as she's told and to go out and have fun with a party girl who's wild and interesting. When, in reality, he can't handle either woman.
The sad thing about people like this guy is that they COULD have their cake and eat it too! They could look at their partner as a complex, multi-faceted human being capable of being a house spouse AND a fun companion. Instead, they'd rather hold onto narrow & rigid views of what kinds of 'roles' they expect their partners to play.
@@lizardbritchesThen when the partner plays the role they 'expect' it's STILL not enough and they go outside to look for more. Why tf are you expecting something you don't really WANT?
As you should unfortunately a lot of men and women not just men feel as though their partners are a threat to them. My last partner was abusive and he hated that I got along with his family so well non of his other girlfriends did so he expected the same
one day i showed my little cousin how to make origami frogs. the next week i got to my grandmas house littered in little origami frogs. i’ve never been more proud of him 🩷
I love how her getting high as a freaking kite led to her having so much fun with her neighbors rather than being the anxious and worried and tense person she usually was.
I also love it cause it shows that the first woman opened up the conversation more for the other women so that they felt more comfortable to joke around. Really nice touch.
It's this kind of couple where that guy who's already cheating would be like hey let's have an open relationship so he can cheat free of guilt and then she gets 20 more suiters than him
that happened on reddit a few years ago on AITH subreddit lmao this guy kept calling his wife ugly and overweight and didn't like her so he suggested an open marriage not thinking she would agree. she said yes and started getting dates left and right with multiple attractive men and ended up leaving him😂
@camdenhunt7565 I love that for her😂 some people take their spouse for granted. Man or woman, if you suggest an open relationship, you've already got one foot in, one foot out and deserve to be left!
My pre-husband's girlfriend wanted an open relationship. She had sex with her extra then the extra dumped her. My pre-husband went out with me and we got married..32 years now. She is still pissed off and said I broke them up. Play stupid games...
@@thatsroughbuddy1133 my current (and ever since then) husband. I said pre-husband because we weren't married yet at the time setting of the story I told.
Brilliant writing 😂 this scene does a great job highlighting the casualness of overlooking the hard labor of housewives while not falling for the easy trope of making the husbands villains. They are unable to see their wives’ perspectives because of their own pressures, responsibilities, issues, etc. The only way they see where they’re coming from is by being challenged in this light hearted dinner game. This scene also adds to the growing tension and disdain the main husband has for the wife. Great job capturing the nuance. Love it.
People will get jealous like this when they see people like you because they genuinely don’t like you and they don’t understand why other people like you, makes them mad.
I've known guys like the douche husband being liked for some reason in his circle. Or at least tolerated because more work to get rid of and replace him than to just keep him and try to ignore when he spergs out.
Something similar happened to me. I am a cake decorator and my husband said he could ice a cake. Not in a mean way it was more of a running joke and a compliment because he said I made it look so easy. Finally, we made a bet on it. I set him up. Made everything from scratch and let him have at it. lol it took him all of a minute to bow down in defeat.
I did data entry... Spent 12-16 hours 4 days a week and my Ex called it a hobby and "cute" Same thing when I had no free time and got a gazelle exercise equipment... He hated any and everything. Made everything I did like it was "nothing" ... Till the day I landed up in the hospital and he had to do all the things for 2 months without me. We lost our car, my oldest child had balding issues (allergic to certain shampoos) and our whole home was a battle field mess. There was STILL my blood in the hall bathroom when I returned.
@@lorireed8046 I saw the "ex" the first time but went back and read it again at the end. Just to be sure. I needed to be sure. Thank you for making it a sure.
@@lorireed8046I haven't finished reading your comment, but I would like to support you with how offended men would be if we called most of their careers or jobs "cute"
@@scrollcaps He was not an Ex back then did I need to explain that? LOL what silliness. My EX cause he is an Ex and his BS is exactly why I haven't even dated since he became an EX .
@@lorireed8046Oh no, you were clear. Sometimes I miss words while i'm reading. The comment was my clumsy way of saying I'm glad he's not hurting you or your daughter any more. Sorry about that.
It's really sad that guys like him are so incredibly common. I can't tell you how many exes I've had that got incredibly angry when I would be better at something than they were.
As a guy other guys get peepee hurt too when you outdo them, for me if someone is good at something, im like well dont need to worry about that skillset anymore ill do what im good at
What a sad, sad insecurity. I hope you have found someone more secure with themselves these days, or that you are happy with yourself & your own company ❤ how immature that those exes saw life as a constant competition rather than partnership.
I think it says a lot for a man who can actually put himself in a position to try something that his wife made knowing he may not be able to do it but he tries anyway because then by him trying he's acknowledging her efforts. Kudos dude. Kudos!
I love this because it really does show that there are a lot of things that go into the day today that are one person's responsibility the other person doesn't understand. She makes these beautiful napkin designs every party because that's her task that's how they divided labor but because he's never try to help her he doesn't understand what goes into it. All he thinks is if it was that hard she'd stop doing it because she doesn't want to put in that extra effort it's not that big of a deal but it is that detail makes things look so much nicer it's challenging the husband to do it that is chef's kiss it's so good give them a little bit more appreciation for his wife
It does. I love seeing things like this from the other side. I can see what goes into the parts I'm not too much involved in, and I can see our strengths. 😊
This isn’t division of labor, this is “you’re the woman, so put on a nice party, and make it chic.” He thinks she spends her whole day doing her hair and nails, not preparing an unfair amount of work.
@@elisewinchester5624 that doesn't make it not an issue with division of labor definitely still is however it is division of labor based on gender inequality but calling out of sexism will only either put them on high alert stops listening, he told you that's how it's supposed to be and stops listening. The majority of issues with division of believer actually do come from gender inequality and not in the way that it obviously is in this video because this is the 50s but guys simply never being told to prioritize a certain thing and never learning about it because gender expectations we will have taken the trash out at some point they're a little things about taking the trash out that way from house to house that make the task more difficult or easier butt we all have a base idea of that it's not the same with other things
@@dixieflock I did but I have lreaning disabily so that is hard for me plus I'm usually using viceo to text and just talking like a person if you read it out it usually makes it easier
Men - “Honey we need to impress the boss. He needs to like you. It’s so important that you, we, impress him. Please… do your best, be charming, he needs to leave the party enamored with us….” Men when their wives are charming, impress the boss and leave people enamored with her - “😮😡😡😡”
This my ex husband every time he sees me happy or seeing me enjoying myself make me feel I'm crazy...I hope to all the housewives to work for your own money don't ever stop being yourself for a bad husband
@Hischild001 Thank you so much for your kind words...me and my kids are going to a nightmare right now my ex husband won't leave the house his making our life's hell but I'm doing every thing I can to leave this place to start fresh but it's seems impossible sometimes but I know God is here with my kids and my father me...If anyone can send my babies my dad and me prayers it would help alot
@figment9625 I'm sorry to hear that...I just hope your not with that person anymore and that your living your life how you should with no pain or trauma.
This js the perfect example of a narcissist 😂😂 All the other husbands qere eader to please and try to make a swan laughing together as they knew they couldn't do it 😂 But mr. Sour was upset because he wasnt the center or the cause of the laughter 🥰
THIS SHOW IS SO FUCKING GOOD. for anyone who hasn’t seen the first season, it follows three different couples in different decades, all in the same house. HIGHLY recommend. edit: big dumb on my part, the show is “why women kill”. was in a very big rush when i commented this lol
@@merioceann i honestly really liked her sections. i think the difference between the dynamics of that relationship and the other two made it different than if it were just two or three traditional couples. to me there’s a huge emotional difference between experiencing betrayal in a situation you have little to no knowledge of vs a situation that you helped create, facilitate, and are now being excluded from and essentially punished for trying to involve yourself in. i could be wrong but from my observations from watching this season a million times that’s what i gathered.
I love that the women are ribbing the men, and acknowledging the foolishness of the men, but lovingly. And the the men are too, very healthy banter in a disagreement and wonderful resolution. Men and women can be wonderful together.
Women used to do obviously helpful stuff like cooking, sewing, knitting, and other little but necessary things, but in the early to mid 1900s, innovations and technologies made all of that WAY easier (such as refrigerators, electric ovens and other tools, and larger varieties of ready-to-use foods at the grocers). With all of their old responsibilities made so much easier, women began spending their free time on trivial stuff, such as folding napkin swans for dinner parties, in order to feel useful. Their husbands noticed that their wives were spending o much time doing useless stuff and instead of appreciating it (and the other remaining traditional housework), they began seeing their wives as materialistic and vain, and started losing respect for them. The entire 20th century was a very chaotic time for marriage relations.
@@justaway_of_the_samuraiand on the flip side, men started to struggle to pull in enough money to support a household and started paying put a whole lot of time into useless hobbies (look at the huge crowd for gaming). Technology was too much for traditional marriages.
@@NONAME-hz1se True. The uncertainty of the continuously changing labor market left a lot of men (and subsequently their wives) stressed and seeking to release it in unhealthy ways (gambling, alcoholism, or worst of all spousal abuse). It also didn't help that the labor market was beginning to be more flooded with extra laborers, such as women that were recently freed from housework responsibilities, and immigrants from abroad, such as the Irish.
SPOILER ALERT‼️‼️ His cheating didn’t anger me nearly as much as him blaming her for their daughter’s death and torturing her for it when he knew all along he was 1000% at fault
Wait, what episode said it was his fault? I was watching to see where that storyline was and what happened but I didn’t see it. Maybe I haven’t gotten to it yet? 🤔
I've only seen a few shorts but i find myself coming back for more. Especially the friendship that develops between Beth & her husband's mistress. Well casted & directed...well done!
Some people are only happy when those are miserable around them...they are called toxic narcissists.... I have encountered them before but never let them think that you care about what they say....
When I get all dolled up I used to make my husband watch. He thought it should only take 30 minutes. It took me 1 hr 30 min. I showed him how I do it. He even helped at one point. He was flabbergasted with my eyebrows. Because mine are very thin, but I'm able to make them look more full and defined. The hair part, he actually did the back of my head. I taught him that I have to spray each section, smooth it then take the flat iron to it. Starting at the end, then working up to the root. He was surprised at how much his arms hurt after that. Then I was ready to go. Him "Aren't you tired from all that? How do you have energy to go out?" Me "How does any woman on date night? Why do you think I am so hungry by the time we get to the restaurant?" He appreciates it much more now. That it's something special I do for him.
I bet you she would actually have more fun like that if he wasn't the way he is. I mean, she's bringing up the mood of the party, and everyone is enjoying her company, and he's just looking at her in disgust. (Spoiler) The show is "Why women kill," and in this scene, I think I remember she accidentally ate an edible, and that's why she's like that. She is usually more reserved, quite but very polite so it was great to see her have fun. Also what I meant by "she'd have more fun if he wasn't the way he was" is that he cheats on her and she found out and he just isn't there for her but pretends to be a good husband. Also, if I remember correctly, they loved her and told him to bring her back when they do that again sooooo really, he should be grateful she was there.
@c.l4219 True, I definitely agree. I think because of the time period, she strived to be a good wife and be loyal and doting, and also the guilt she has about their daughter especially since he blamed her for it is what caused her to stay. And then plan everything out for revenge. But if she had never met him and had someone else, it would've been perfect for her. He never saw her as a human being.
Never seen this piece of media, but I love this small scene! The contrast between the guest husbands partaking in the challenge and her own unsupportive husband cringing at her infectious playfulness is perfect!
this scene just shows that his behaviour can’t be excused by the time period, while the power dynamics are definitely still skewed the boss and the other couples at the table have genuine connection and love for each other, while Rob sees Beth Anne as nothing but an objecg
I love how everyone is having such fun with it, not taking anything too seriously. Just enjoying the moment, each others company, and the banter. Great atmosphere for building friendships! Well everyone except for that one guy anyway.
There is nothing worst than being with a person that hates you and that cheating that’s decided that your not good enough but everyone loves you and they can’t understand why
That’s her husband and he thinks she’s embarrassing him but everyone at the table loved her. FYI, she got the pot brownie from from the woman who he’s having an affair with and took it because she found out that her husband had been doing in with the woman.
He was cheating on her while keeping her as his prize virgin bride! He was smoking weed had sex all the debauchery of the 1950’s while forcing your wife to be absolutely perfect.
Кино
I love how it shows that HE is the odd one out, everyone else is having fun and enjoying each other and the dynamics between men and women while he's distrustful of his wife for no reason.
Yeah especially with all the pain he caused his wife
I mean she’s high and out of character
@@sunnyday4055 so what? No one else has a problem with her behaviour
She's not being inappropriate.. he's just jealous
My ex husband was like that. He always needed to be the center of attention and wanted me to just sit quietly and look pretty. If god forbid I ever spoke and was having fun, he saw it as I was taking attention away from him and would instantly criticize me or put me down. That way I would immediately feel embarrassed and stop talking. After a couple times of being publicly humiliating, I learned not to even bother communicating with anyone other than to agree with him. It simply wasn’t worth the embarrassment.
@@lauriejordan2716 thank god he's your ex !!! Good for you for getting away from that toxicity xx
I love how she says she doesn’t want to ruin it because it took too much work to make and the other woman saw it as such a compliment that someone noticed her hard work.
It’s always nice to feel noticed and appreciated.
Exactly. Right then , she now had a new friend.
..and husband, never appreciated what their wives did for him, because he used to see their wives did it. The more we do, the less we appreciated because husband and their mind will 'normalize' it as wives duties at home
And importantly: it’s the highest status person at the table who just got her work flattered. That CEO’s wife will always remember the bubbly redhead who complimented her hard work while cheekily poking fun at her silly husband.
So when silly husband starts talking about that new promotion coming up, Mrs Swan is going to have a lovely comment about that thoughtful Mrs Redhead and her husband - what was his name? “Must be a smart man to manage a feisty wife! I imagine he’d easily handle an account-“
This. 😢🥺!! Any hard work or effort gotta be recognised nd preciated. It just hella rude to dismiss like what they did. My Dad still sometimes do that :( but it’s a work in progress in family and preciation 💛
She was also high off her ass lol
I love how she compliments and then stands up for the hostess. She is a strong, kind woman and should have held out for a more deserving man.
" Keep your day job" savage and subtle and UNDERrated.
Savage how? What he does actually earns money
❤❤❤❤ 😂😂😂Agreed
It's a common phrase
@@christopherbrown5409and? That makes it more valuable to you? Keep sucking down capitalist boot ig but that’s not for me
@@christopherbrown5409that’s… not what that means. “Keep your day job” or “don’t give up the day job” basically means *”just keep doing what you’re good at, because this is NOT it.”*
OKAY BUT when she pointed and said "Make a swan, I dare you" that was so freaking adorable, what a ungrateful husband
He's a serial cheater and blames her for their daughter's death (when it was actually one of his mistresses and he knew)
I mean, if he's not into her, I'll marry her!
Ginnifer Goodwin is a really beautiful actress. I love her.
@@Druzica18I wouldn’t cause I have a partner but I’ll become her just for my partner. I’d be her friend. She sounds awesome! Absolutely friend material!!
Right, I was thinking the same thing 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
I love how everyone in the scene including the men is having a good time, and her husband still acts like it’s the end of the world
he's a narcissist
It’s the end of his world because she’s able to enjoy herself and be herself without him.
Yeah a total control freak
Typical raging narcissist.
He’s so nice in Handmaids Tale, he seems mean here!
This is one of the cardinal rules of being a good guest at a dinner party - a bit of a lighthearted challenge on a neutral topic that breaks the ice and gets people laughing.
“How hard can it be to make a swan?” “I bet you can’t!” “Oho I’ll take that bet” and suddenly the four couples are all chatting and having a good time.
That is a learned skill
She was high af
@@MissMailina that makes it more impressive. That’s her husband’s boss. He would you react if you had to host your husband’s boss, his wife, and a bunch of colleagues for a formal meal while high as the sky? I’d cry
She's also high as a kite
Every one but the narcisistic husband
Name of movie?
The "brilliant" was said so perfectly 👌 😂
I'm still laughing at it, the way she said it in that deep mocking voice was amaizing🤣🤣🤣
For some reason I hate the way she said it. It irked me for no good reason. I may need to evaluate myself lol 😂 but I really enjoyed the whole scene 🤣
😂😂😂
“Why women kill” is the series. The angry man is her husband. She ate a pot brownie before this dinner so he’s thrown off by her behavior. But he also doesn’t like her and has been cheating on her with multiple women!
And one of the women killed their daughter and he is too much of a d-bag to take the fault in it
Thanks 🙏
What’s wild is it turned her into the kinda woman he was actually chasing
He's scum. At the end, the cheating turns out to be the LEAST of his bad deeds.
And their daughter died…. I don’t want to spoil the rest.
He is such a contrast to other husbands, who decided to engage in this little challenge and have some fun.
have you watched the show? lmao
@@madisonevans7950 no, I didn’t, but I’m interested so don’t spoil it to me
I gotchu bud! Highly reccomend it. Freakin rollercoaster@@risingrat5491
@@risingrat5491 you should watch it 10/10. It's a very solid show.
@@risingrat5491which is very interesting that you caught that because that’s the little split difference between still being in love and admiration of you wife vs. not being in love with and not even fully respecting your wife. Watch the show! This man has a hell hill of audacity!
Hes so mad he doesn’t have control 🤣😭
He's been so used to her being withdrawn that this was completely out of character for her. TBH she did have a pot brownie just before this for the first time so she's high AF rn
@@mrimmri thanks for the mansplain mr sir 😂 I have watched the show but I appreciate your uninvited explanation 🤣
@@baddieog420 Thank you for the man-react to a reply to a very public comment that anyone can reply to as a conversation as an enjoyer of the show. It wasn’t said in disagreement and wasn’t an explanation. Conversation works by a person posting and someone answering, how’s that for a mansplain? Also: not a man. So I hope my lackluster attempt at it meets your criteria for it. Mr. Rude For No Reason. See? I can call someone I don’t know the gender of “Mr.” too.
@baddieog420 I did not watch the show an I am thankful for his comment
@@mrimmri I didn’t post anything of question, and I called you a SIR BECAUSE YOUR NAME SAYS MR ON IT. Are you dense???
The other husbands are fun and the wives have precious smiles😂❤
The delighted giggle and “I bet you couldn’t!” Lord she’s so adorable
It’s all fun and games ‘til the CEO gets pi$$ed!
She was high apparently
@@morticiagomez6166
Lots of script meds in Connecticut, even back then (valium… lol.)
@@morticiagomez6166very high
It’s cause she’s Snow White 🤭
Some men will really get mad when you’re doing good and being liked by the people they want to be liked by
It's not just men
@@grungegoddess7058 its men especially babygirl its men
@@grungegoddess7058no reading comprehension at all
@@grungegoddess7058in the context of the video, this applies
@@grungegoddess7058ItS nOt JuSt mEn
Idk why but the “Brilliant” and everyone just having fun is really nice to see compared to the usual depictions of the 1950s, where everyone is just unhappy and abused. And yes, people had those experiences back then, but shows and movies never take the time to show the joyful moments in people’s lives. These kinds of moments show how people had fun back then too. Gotta appreciate that.
You talk like today woman are not abused cause they are free to walk naked and work 24 /7 .amazing how twisted some minds are .2024 femicide is live and striving .man becoming lady like throwing more burden on women. And x other details that in so many ways they had better lives.
The fact that none of the men got upset or super defensive but instead joined in the fun and start to laugh and enjoy the challenge is really sweet
When your insecure husband is mad because he thought you would embarass him but ended up impressing his boss more in 20 minutes than he has his whole career just by being your true fun self....
Under the influence, but who's counting 🤫😂
Shes high
Women need to return to conventional roles, talking to people at social gathering for you
Lol she just ate an edible so idk if it's exactly her authentic self
@@AYVYNritar moment
Her husband is such a buzzkill in this scene 🙄 has an affair for the "thrill" and "fun" but cant handle when his wife is funny and not too serious
I think that was the point. He had his fun with his fun girls, but he married Beth because she was manageable.
Men suck. Mostly.
Throughout the series, he treated her with disdain.
Welcome to narcissism. He cant bear for his wife to be the interesting one, even for a moment. .
@@Plethorality so true
Her cute little nose scrunch when she smiled like a kid 😊😊 so adorbs
Both the actor for the first two characters performed WONDERFULLY! They conveyed so much variety with their expressions that you just felt what they were feeling
I love how all the other men are having fun and aren’t getting offended. Her husband is the epitome of what a narcissist is. Also having the husband try something his wife does regularly is a great way to exercise empathy. He learns that something he thought his wife did was easy is actually hard and that could teach him to appreciate what she does more.
And vice versa. Husbands who fix cars, washing machines, and other complicated or tedious items should also be appreciated by wives.
@skyegroome223 *yawn* most things out out serviced due to warranties and such being void if you do it yourself. Men are not handy at all these days and those things only happen every once in a while. Cooking, cleaning, childcare, laundry, etc has to be done EVERY DAY. Yall are always trying to diminish the work women do. The world would be in shambles if not for us
@@skyegroome223I build stuffs (ok not fixing a car, but I mean furniture, light, PC) while he's playing game and have no clues how to do those things.
Exactly. What show is this
@@Isthisjoebidendude you straight up suck butts.
I love that the hosts were just kind of running with it and having fun instead of putting her on the spot and making her feel uncomfortable
Yeah because they're normal, unlike her crazy husband.
Because they are normal healthy loving adults
These types of normal enjoyable people existed back then.
That's the best part. Made me tear up just a little.... unlike the husband, they appreciated her❤
I love the tone of PATRONISATION in his voice when he says sweeter, it can't be that hard and immediately lived to regret it!
The exchanges of sweet and lighthearted banter is so precious ☺️
Ooo the face of a narcissist when they arent the main event
He hated that she impressed his boss more in minutes than he ever could.
Yup. How dare you win a competition you didn’t know you were in!
Pf real
Hahaha. So accurate 😂😂😂 @@saturdayschild8535
Yessssssss the distain when he looks at her.
Dude is the epitome of wanting to have his cake and eat it too. He wants a nice, quiet, shy wife who stays home and does as she's told and to go out and have fun with a party girl who's wild and interesting. When, in reality, he can't handle either woman.
He is the epitome of a mediocre man.
The sad thing about people like this guy is that they COULD have their cake and eat it too! They could look at their partner as a complex, multi-faceted human being capable of being a house spouse AND a fun companion. Instead, they'd rather hold onto narrow & rigid views of what kinds of 'roles' they expect their partners to play.
THIS!!!
He wants a mom and a hook up
@@lizardbritchesThen when the partner plays the role they 'expect' it's STILL not enough and they go outside to look for more. Why tf are you expecting something you don't really WANT?
I love how wholesome this interaction is and then there’s the husband like ,”eww no get it away from me”.
I like how everyone is loving her energy and getting hyped but he’s just scowling
If that was my wife, i would’ve been laughing and proud of her for making the mood lighter😂
As you should unfortunately a lot of men and women not just men feel as though their partners are a threat to them. My last partner was abusive and he hated that I got along with his family so well non of his other girlfriends did so he expected the same
@@saebeee4289 damn. Werent the wive's supposed to get along with their husband's family?
@@Hobo-Fushiguro I know, right?? That's like best-case scenario.
@@Miss_Equinox I think he hated his own family secretly.
YES YES❤
one day i showed my little cousin how to make origami frogs. the next week i got to my grandmas house littered in little origami frogs. i’ve never been more proud of him 🩷
Thts so cute😭
@@hruthpurvakayeah...❤❤
Teaching the younger generation pure choas,beautiful
Awe that's awesome
Absolutely freakin precious!!!!
Bro its hilarious how her husband is the only one NOT laughing while everyone else is being a good sport and having fun lmao
I love how her getting high as a freaking kite led to her having so much fun with her neighbors rather than being the anxious and worried and tense person she usually was.
"I think you gotta lay it flat to start." "Brilliant." That one went over my head at firat, the writin for this show is somethin else!! 😂😂
Wait what's the trick?
I also love it cause it shows that the first woman opened up the conversation more for the other women so that they felt more comfortable to joke around. Really nice touch.
Haha, a sex joke
Thanks. I didn’t catch the joke at all. I guess I’m slow!
@@wewemcrhyneI still don’t get the joke.
It's this kind of couple where that guy who's already cheating would be like hey let's have an open relationship so he can cheat free of guilt and then she gets 20 more suiters than him
that happened on reddit a few years ago on AITH subreddit lmao this guy kept calling his wife ugly and overweight and didn't like her so he suggested an open marriage not thinking she would agree. she said yes and started getting dates left and right with multiple attractive men and ended up leaving him😂
@camdenhunt7565 I love that for her😂 some people take their spouse for granted. Man or woman, if you suggest an open relationship, you've already got one foot in, one foot out and deserve to be left!
My pre-husband's girlfriend wanted an open relationship. She had sex with her extra then the extra dumped her. My pre-husband went out with me and we got married..32 years now. She is still pissed off and said I broke them up.
Play stupid games...
@@kellydavis6316 Pre-husband?
@@thatsroughbuddy1133 my current (and ever since then) husband. I said pre-husband because we weren't married yet at the time setting of the story I told.
“I bet you couldn’t 🤣🤣🤣”
Wow.. YASSSSSS 😂😂😂😂
Brilliant writing 😂 this scene does a great job highlighting the casualness of overlooking the hard labor of housewives while not falling for the easy trope of making the husbands villains. They are unable to see their wives’ perspectives because of their own pressures, responsibilities, issues, etc. The only way they see where they’re coming from is by being challenged in this light hearted dinner game. This scene also adds to the growing tension and disdain the main husband has for the wife. Great job capturing the nuance. Love it.
Hard labour? It's a fucking napkin swan...
@@maewest68- Hard labour when you add up all the jobs a housewife did/does. At last calculation, the work of a SAHM is $375,000 a year.
@@kdphotos4691how much of that $375k did that napkin contribute?
@@maewest68 - Read the OP's and my comment again.
@@kdphotos4691No, can't be assed.
"Keep your day job"💀😂😂😂😂
She is such a delightful actress.
I love her. She’s great in Walk The Line as Johnny’s first wife. She plays dignified women so well.
She is the absolutely most perfect snow white in once upon a time 😍
She was a great voice for the rabbit in Zootopia, as well.
@@Catalina-Winemixer What's the movie called?
Seriously, Ginnifer Goodwin makes everything she's in just that much better.
This woman has a gift I love her acting. Perfect character to portray and deliver.
I love the wardrobe and style of each actor.
Exactly, " how would you know" and " I bet you couldn't", hilarious!😅
The little eyebrow lift after "Make a Swan" adds a little something! This is adorable!
when she said that all i could think of was Once Upon A Time(( cuz her daughter is emma swan))
@@dumbassthetic15 hahah, didnt even put that together. shes already made a swan herself hehehe i love jennifer goodwin
@@dumbassthetic15snow white
‘I dare ya!’
People will get jealous like this when they see people like you because they genuinely don’t like you and they don’t understand why other people like you, makes them mad.
Or they know why people like you but they don’t understand why those people don’t like them back
I've known guys like the douche husband being liked for some reason in his circle. Or at least tolerated because more work to get rid of and replace him than to just keep him and try to ignore when he spergs out.
@@ethosterros9430 I knew one guy like that too. My advance is run far run fast. Never tolareted him or even women like him. They are so not worth it
@@nicholerubes2959 they always worm their way into situations ots pretty cringy
@@ethosterros9430 oh I know it. From my own experiences. Still what I learn it was a mistake to give people like that anything. Even tolerence
She’s like sunshine!
I LOVED this show, 'Why Women Kill' first season was brilliant
Something similar happened to me. I am a cake decorator and my husband said he could ice a cake. Not in a mean way it was more of a running joke and a compliment because he said I made it look so easy. Finally, we made a bet on it. I set him up. Made everything from scratch and let him have at it. lol it took him all of a minute to bow down in defeat.
I did data entry... Spent 12-16 hours 4 days a week and my Ex called it a hobby and "cute"
Same thing when I had no free time and got a gazelle exercise equipment... He hated any and everything. Made everything I did like it was "nothing" ... Till the day I landed up in the hospital and he had to do all the things for 2 months without me. We lost our car, my oldest child had balding issues (allergic to certain shampoos) and our whole home was a battle field mess. There was STILL my blood in the hall bathroom when I returned.
@@lorireed8046 I saw the "ex" the first time but went back and read it again at the end. Just to be sure. I needed to be sure. Thank you for making it a sure.
@@lorireed8046I haven't finished reading your comment, but I would like to support you with how offended men would be if we called most of their careers or jobs "cute"
@@scrollcaps He was not an Ex back then did I need to explain that? LOL what silliness. My EX cause he is an Ex and his BS is exactly why I haven't even dated since he became an EX .
@@lorireed8046Oh no, you were clear. Sometimes I miss words while i'm reading. The comment was my clumsy way of saying I'm glad he's not hurting you or your daughter any more. Sorry about that.
I think it’s hilarious that she’s totally stoned in this scene lol
From the pot brownie her husband's mistress gave her
Remember those days.
What show is this?
@@CHRISTIAN-LADYwhy women kill
@@CHRISTIAN-LADY it’s called woman who kill(pretty sure) it’s AMAZING
The chick in blue was on: ONCE UPON A TIME
( like fairytale in modern days/culture. )😅
Yeah! She was! 😁
She was snow white😊
And this is why she played Snow White in the TV series I think it’s called Enchanted???
The pureness just shines through. I love her.❤❤
Once Upon a Time*
Women: are actually fun, sociable and enjoyable company
men: "HoW dArE YoU EmBaRrAsS Me?
In this scene it's just her husband.
The other men are actually having fun.
Not men. Man
Only one dude is annoyed. The rest of them men are laughing and having a good time.
Lmao thiS*
@@Jammy_McButzinuisance He's the average male
It's really sad that guys like him are so incredibly common. I can't tell you how many exes I've had that got incredibly angry when I would be better at something than they were.
As a guy other guys get peepee hurt too when you outdo them, for me if someone is good at something, im like well dont need to worry about that skillset anymore ill do what im good at
Because most dudes never grow out of their narc stage of childhood development
What does that say about you, and your choice of men?
@@shonabeggs4640That's all she has to choose from.
What a sad, sad insecurity. I hope you have found someone more secure with themselves these days, or that you are happy with yourself & your own company ❤ how immature that those exes saw life as a constant competition rather than partnership.
Her husband got what was coming to him in the end😂😂😂😂😂😂
I think it says a lot for a man who can actually put himself in a position to try something that his wife made knowing he may not be able to do it but he tries anyway because then by him trying he's acknowledging her efforts. Kudos dude. Kudos!
the emotion in his face while LITERALLY everyone else is having fun makes me so upset, well done!!!
I love this because it really does show that there are a lot of things that go into the day today that are one person's responsibility the other person doesn't understand. She makes these beautiful napkin designs every party because that's her task that's how they divided labor but because he's never try to help her he doesn't understand what goes into it. All he thinks is if it was that hard she'd stop doing it because she doesn't want to put in that extra effort it's not that big of a deal but it is that detail makes things look so much nicer it's challenging the husband to do it that is chef's kiss it's so good give them a little bit more appreciation for his wife
It does. I love seeing things like this from the other side.
I can see what goes into the parts I'm not too much involved in, and I can see our strengths. 😊
This isn’t division of labor, this is “you’re the woman, so put on a nice party, and make it chic.” He thinks she spends her whole day doing her hair and nails, not preparing an unfair amount of work.
@@elisewinchester5624 that doesn't make it not an issue with division of labor definitely still is however it is division of labor based on gender inequality but calling out of sexism will only either put them on high alert stops listening, he told you that's how it's supposed to be and stops listening. The majority of issues with division of believer actually do come from gender inequality and not in the way that it obviously is in this video because this is the 50s but guys simply never being told to prioritize a certain thing and never learning about it because gender expectations we will have taken the trash out at some point they're a little things about taking the trash out that way from house to house that make the task more difficult or easier butt we all have a base idea of that it's not the same with other things
Please use punctuation. Without it, your replies read like you and Bethann ate the same brownies.
@@dixieflock I did but I have lreaning disabily so that is hard for me plus I'm usually using viceo to text and just talking like a person if you read it out it usually makes it easier
She was blazed to outer space😂 love this scene😂😂
"She's feisty, you're on".... lol love that he embraced the challenge with good humor
I love how they all embraced their childlike wonder and participated. So sweet.
Life is much more fun when you don’t have someone dragging you down for simply having fun just bc it’s not on their time
I love that she's actually high in this scene 🤣
He acting and looking at them like they all weird.😂
I love how all the women look at the men trying to make something they think is easy and prove the men wrong.
They don't know what women do at home because it's done before they know it needs doing
Unfortunately true. Needs to change. It is, more females are not marrying nor having children.
@autumngrace8541 It the person's choice duh its not the 1900s now (not to be rude)
She was such a good wife to him with a great personality. He took that all for granted
Men - “Honey we need to impress the boss. He needs to like you. It’s so important that you, we, impress him. Please… do your best, be charming, he needs to leave the party enamored with us….”
Men when their wives are charming, impress the boss and leave people enamored with her - “😮😡😡😡”
This my ex husband every time he sees me happy or seeing me enjoying myself make me feel I'm crazy...I hope to all the housewives to work for your own money don't ever stop being yourself for a bad husband
❤❤ love this thank you
I'm sorry you are going through this. I pray for peace and joy in your home in Jesus mighty name amen 🙏
@Hischild001 Thank you so much for your kind words...me and my kids are going to a nightmare right now my ex husband won't leave the house his making our life's hell but I'm doing every thing I can to leave this place to start fresh but it's seems impossible sometimes but I know God is here with my kids and my father me...If anyone can send my babies my dad and me prayers it would help alot
That's called a PSYCHOPATH. I dated one is those. It was torture.
@figment9625 I'm sorry to hear that...I just hope your not with that person anymore and that your living your life how you should with no pain or trauma.
What makes this scene beautiful is how light-hearted and gracious the wife's responses a
are. If she reacted otherwise, this party would be a mess 😂
Well, that scene just tickled me pink...brilliant.
The gummies kicked in.😂😂😂❤
This js the perfect example of a narcissist 😂😂
All the other husbands qere eader to please and try to make a swan laughing together as they knew they couldn't do it 😂
But mr. Sour was upset because he wasnt the center or the cause of the laughter 🥰
He couldn't stand that she was the hit of the party. Oh well, Rob. You don't have to worry about it anymore😂😂😂😂
"I think you gotta lay it flat to start"
Wife : "Brilliant"😅😂
"EEEMMGGH!!, BRILLIANT!!"
🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂😂🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣😂😂
I like how the other dudes are just having fun tryna figure out how to make a swan 😂
It's very sweet. They seem like good company 😂
THIS SHOW IS SO FUCKING GOOD. for anyone who hasn’t seen the first season, it follows three different couples in different decades, all in the same house. HIGHLY recommend.
edit: big dumb on my part, the show is “why women kill”. was in a very big rush when i commented this lol
What is the show called?
@@rumaparvin8633 why women kill. i started it thinking it was a true crime series but i was HOOKED by the first 20 minutes of the first episode
You didn't give the name of series 🤦♀️
This couple and the ones from the 80s are the only ones that made the show great, the lawyer from 2019 was honestly not needed
@@merioceann i honestly really liked her sections. i think the difference between the dynamics of that relationship and the other two made it different than if it were just two or three traditional couples. to me there’s a huge emotional difference between experiencing betrayal in a situation you have little to no knowledge of vs a situation that you helped create, facilitate, and are now being excluded from and essentially punished for trying to involve yourself in. i could be wrong but from my observations from watching this season a million times that’s what i gathered.
BAHAHHAHAH yes!!!!
She said I DARE YOU!! 😂❤❤
I love that the women are ribbing the men, and acknowledging the foolishness of the men, but lovingly. And the the men are too, very healthy banter in a disagreement and wonderful resolution. Men and women can be wonderful together.
This is the cause of the issues the men stopped appreciating what women did and expecting it 24/7 without help
Amen...
Women used to do obviously helpful stuff like cooking, sewing, knitting, and other little but necessary things, but in the early to mid 1900s, innovations and technologies made all of that WAY easier (such as refrigerators, electric ovens and other tools, and larger varieties of ready-to-use foods at the grocers).
With all of their old responsibilities made so much easier, women began spending their free time on trivial stuff, such as folding napkin swans for dinner parties, in order to feel useful.
Their husbands noticed that their wives were spending o much time doing useless stuff and instead of appreciating it (and the other remaining traditional housework), they began seeing their wives as materialistic and vain, and started losing respect for them.
The entire 20th century was a very chaotic time for marriage relations.
@@justaway_of_the_samuraiand on the flip side, men started to struggle to pull in enough money to support a household and started paying put a whole lot of time into useless hobbies (look at the huge crowd for gaming). Technology was too much for traditional marriages.
@@NONAME-hz1se True. The uncertainty of the continuously changing labor market left a lot of men (and subsequently their wives) stressed and seeking to release it in unhealthy ways (gambling, alcoholism, or worst of all spousal abuse).
It also didn't help that the labor market was beginning to be more flooded with extra laborers, such as women that were recently freed from housework responsibilities, and immigrants from abroad, such as the Irish.
SPOILER ALERT‼️‼️
His cheating didn’t anger me nearly as much as him blaming her for their daughter’s death and torturing her for it when he knew all along he was 1000% at fault
hope she d i v o r c e d then🙄
Duuuuuude, wtf
Right, spoiler alert…!
Wait, what episode said it was his fault? I was watching to see where that storyline was and what happened but I didn’t see it. Maybe I haven’t gotten to it yet? 🤔
@mamaofboys1503 this is DEFINITELY a spoiler. So sorry you didn't get a warning. It'll come out later.
"make a swan, i dare you!" Aaaahhhh just look at the way she emoted, her body language!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
I've only seen a few shorts but i find myself coming back for more. Especially the friendship that develops between Beth & her husband's mistress. Well casted & directed...well done!
Tell me that you're jealous of how likeable your wife is without telling me
Some people are only happy when those are miserable around them...they are called toxic narcissists.... I have encountered them before but never let them think that you care about what they say....
When I get all dolled up I used to make my husband watch. He thought it should only take 30 minutes. It took me 1 hr 30 min. I showed him how I do it. He even helped at one point. He was flabbergasted with my eyebrows. Because mine are very thin, but I'm able to make them look more full and defined. The hair part, he actually did the back of my head. I taught him that I have to spray each section, smooth it then take the flat iron to it. Starting at the end, then working up to the root. He was surprised at how much his arms hurt after that. Then I was ready to go. Him "Aren't you tired from all that? How do you have energy to go out?"
Me "How does any woman on date night? Why do you think I am so hungry by the time we get to the restaurant?"
He appreciates it much more now. That it's something special I do for him.
He doesn’t even see what an absolute match he’s married to
"Make a swan!" An Emma Swan? Ah ha! Ah ho! *slaps knee* Ahhh...I'll see myself out.
😂 good one. Solid pun
I'm so sorry, was that an OUAT reference?☠
@@_mental-disability_ yes it was 😊
@@PottersGirl785 fucking metal😂
😂😂😂🎉
I bet you she would actually have more fun like that if he wasn't the way he is. I mean, she's bringing up the mood of the party, and everyone is enjoying her company, and he's just looking at her in disgust.
(Spoiler)
The show is "Why women kill," and in this scene, I think I remember she accidentally ate an edible, and that's why she's like that. She is usually more reserved, quite but very polite so it was great to see her have fun. Also what I meant by "she'd have more fun if he wasn't the way he was" is that he cheats on her and she found out and he just isn't there for her but pretends to be a good husband. Also, if I remember correctly, they loved her and told him to bring her back when they do that again sooooo really, he should be grateful she was there.
She would be happy if she would have never met him.... Or finally has the strength to leave him.
@c.l4219 True, I definitely agree. I think because of the time period, she strived to be a good wife and be loyal and doting, and also the guilt she has about their daughter especially since he blamed her for it is what caused her to stay. And then plan everything out for revenge. But if she had never met him and had someone else, it would've been perfect for her. He never saw her as a human being.
Thank youuuu!! I kept looking for a comment that actually said the name of the show but couldn't find any!
BEAUTIFUL .... this time the dudes REALY got served !
This is one of the best scenes of the entire show!
Never seen this piece of media, but I love this small scene! The contrast between the guest husbands partaking in the challenge and her own unsupportive husband cringing at her infectious playfulness is perfect!
When the other guests are just casually turning it into a fun dinner game and the one guy looks mortified
this scene just shows that his behaviour can’t be excused by the time period, while the power dynamics are definitely still skewed the boss and the other couples at the table have genuine connection and love for each other, while Rob sees Beth Anne as nothing but an objecg
So many lessons in this scence but the beautiful thing is how being your authentic self is best.
I love how everyone is having such fun with it, not taking anything too seriously. Just enjoying the moment, each others company, and the banter. Great atmosphere for building friendships!
Well everyone except for that one guy anyway.
I love how everyone is having light-hearted fun with it and dude is *so* pressed. This man is in desperate need of more hugs 😅
Nah, he's been hugged too much. By all the women he's been seeing on the side. This man makes my blood boil.
You mean he needs a slap, this time with a shoe
Oh my god, I love this character, she's the diamond of the show!❤
Her smile and the way she points❤😂
There is nothing worst than being with a person that hates you and that cheating that’s decided that your not good enough but everyone loves you and they can’t understand why
They understand WHY perfectly well. They object because validation from others makes it harder to control you.
Why does the one guy look so upset? Seems like their all having fun
she's ate an edible and it's acting way different, he's also having an affair
That’s her husband and he thinks she’s embarrassing him but everyone at the table loved her. FYI, she got the pot brownie from from the woman who he’s having an affair with and took it because she found out that her husband had been doing in with the woman.
He was cheating on her while keeping her as his prize virgin bride! He was smoking weed had sex all the debauchery of the 1950’s while forcing your wife to be absolutely perfect.
He's mad she's impressing his boss more than he ever could.
He's a creep.
One women supporting & praising other women effort is really needed in the society specifically right now 💕🥰😍
S1 is one of the best shows to come out in the past 10 years!