How to Spot “Beige Flags” in Money and Relationships
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We love to throw a flag on romantic relationships-whether it’s red, green or now . . . beige? Find out how George and Rachel react to Gen Z’s relationship flags, and discover which ones you’re guilty of flying.
In this episode:
- Candid reactions to Gen Z relationship etiquette
- George and Rachel’s personal beige flags
- Why George dubs Rachel as “America’s Favorite”
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This Week’s Happy Hour Special: Orange Cream Soda Mocktail
Ingredients:
1/2 cup orange juice
1/3 cup lemon-lime soda
Whipped cream
Orange slices (to garnish)
Instructions:
Fill a glass with ice cubes. Add a generous amount of whipped cream on top of the ice. Pour in the orange juice and gently stir. Then pour in the lemon-lime soda until the glass is full. Top with more whipped cream and garnish with an orange slice.
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One time I was driving and the guy i was with threw his can out the window. I legit stopped and made him go pick it up 😂
Yesss 👏♻️
We need more people like you!!!
We love you for that!
oh yeah...well 8 times I went to the beach with co workers and we volunteered to pick up trash and adopted a section of the beach...beat that!!!!
@@jfloyo11 nice!
Red flag - people talking on speaker phone in public
I am a dental hygienist and I applaud you George !! 1000% dental hygiene is a total red flag for me if you don’t take care of your oral health.
I agree to a certain extent. I don’t judge for past mistakes, but if they currently don’t take of their oral health they’re not ready for a relationship.
Yes!!!
Poor oral hygiene is a total deal breaker.
Yes! I love George's dental hygiene routine! I also brush 3x/day, floss twice, and use mouthwash twice. Nothing better than a fresh mouth!
Ya’ll coming after me with the Frappuccinos, I’m coming after you with that orange juice whipped cream drink 😂
I am not a coffee drinker, but i do enjoy a Frappuccino once in a while.
A frappuccino is not coffee though...
@@tduck828 I know, but it was mentioned in today's show. It can have a coffee base. I buy a Coolatta or a Frappuccino at Dunkin' or Starbucks.
There are people who don't drink coffee, but end up in a coffee shop with co workers or friends or family. Frappuccino is good to order.
I'm having a "Fun with Flags" flashback :-)
Hahaha! Yes!😂😂😂
Rachel, oh my gosh, I have never felt more heard when you said you feel like the dentist is a little bit of a scam! I have always secretly felt that way down hidden in my soul, but never have really voiced that out loud or to anyone else! Wow! Haha! But hey, I am still going to go every 6 months anyway. LOL
If I didn't have dental insurance, I would go once a year.
Completely agree! My dad didn't go to the dentist for 10 years and when he went back the only thing he needed was to replace a fake tooth he had bc it had yellowed so it was completely optional. And that's when I decided dentists weren't super necessary unless you have an obvious problem.
When my husband was like 24 he hadn't gone to the dentist in about 5 years. No prior cavities on his adult teeth but then he had 9 cavaties 🙃 @@Sara_The_Feral_Housewife
Bingo. Don’t take the flouride either. See a bio dentist should an issue arise
Yeah, I have always felt Dentists are a bit scammy.
Hey I never got more compliments from my hair dressers than when I used head and shoulders shampoo. And not even the name brand 😂 Soft, shiny and healthy!
George used to annoy me. I now love his personality. I can’t think of anyone who has grown more on me than him. He is a gem than Ramsey needs to hold on tight to.
I really thought he was dry as toast when he first joined. But now I love him; I laughed so many times in this episode alone.
George is so different than I he helps me smile and be patient with my entitled millennial employees. I still shake my head of his experiences. I love hearing Lindsey laughing at both. Want to see her in front of the camera vs off to the side.
Same here!
Yea me and my uncle always called him a Dave-copy, but he truly is amazing. He increases my quality of life.
Same!!
I not only return my cart and any strays I see but I'll actually reorganize the cart return so the same carts are together, you know the small ones and big ones. My husband thinks I'm crazy but it drives me nuts when there is one small cart in the row of big ones. Red flag to the person who messed it up!
I do exactly the same thing, and so does my sister!
This is me! I chased a stray cart down that was heading toward the front end of a vehicle on a windy day and I didn’t realize the car owner was walking toward me. Her gratitude gave me so much joy.
Nope, gotta go every six months. Dental health has a huge impact on the rest of your body's health!
Shopping carts: I have a philosophy that while I am young and able I am putting away my cart no matter what to save up the karma for when I am old and it is too hard. ;)
😂 love this!
The dentist knows whether you're lying about flossing.
You're a green flag George Kamel! I'm almost 60, and believe me, the single men at this point don't pay enough attention to hygiene so your lovely wife will really appreciate all this when you guys are 60.
Totally love George’s travel preparedness. ❤️
You return the carts so that they don’t roll and hit a car. Red flag from me if you don’t return them. I had three little kids and I still returned them.
Exactly. Or park right next to the car corral.
After two days of watching this show I’ve now put a Nespresso machine in my Amazon cart (& budget) because George has made me sad every time I make a cup of coffee with my kurig
I was sold on it too!
Some can't afford money but can be generous with their time as a way to give.
I'm British, the l in salmon is silent over here too. :)
Loved this episode! George’s commentary is always great
I TOTALLY agree with George! High standards! NOT high maintenance! Love u George!
Getting in bed with outside clothes on BOTHERS me sooooo much lol!! Im a total germaphobe
Loved this show! And I made a modified version of the mocktail (no added sugar, just sparkling flavored water and OJ) and it's still really good!
Oh my gosh! If it’s not, George’s beige flags around 27:45 need it’s own clip. 😂😂 “I’m a Boy Scout/ Soccer Mom enigma.”Love y’all
Came to comment this! Hahaha
George is being a red flag hating on Android users...
If everyone puts their shopping carts away, that young high schooler can’t get their first job.
To support George's tech question about Androids, you double tap the power button to get to camera, even if the screen is locked it will launch the camera app (you can also configure this setting to launch a particular app if you don't want to launch the camera). Please don't be limited to iPhone just because of iMessage and not finding the camera app 🤣🤣
Yep. I refuse to buy iPhone ever!
@tduck828 yeap its my not so beige flag but green flag too 🤣
Learned something new today, thanks!
My mom doesn’t return her cart at the grocery store and says, “I’m giving them job security…” 🤦🏻♀️…boomer
I worked in retail and I knew that those who had to get the carts didn't really want to do it. I have always returned my cart. I am a boomer. I was in China and there was a French grocery store where you had to put a quarter in the cart, to get it. You got your quarter back when you returned the cart. I know one place does it in the US. I think all stores should do that. I do like the cart stalls that are out in the parking lot. It does make returning easier.
@@Magazinelady thank you for following up to my comment! I know that not all “boomers” behave this way. I used the descriptor to highlight her age range, not to slight the generation overall. I apologize if it came off that way.
My mom has done this since I was a child, and my intuition kicked in early that said, “this seems wrong…selfish?”
The chain you’re referring to. The US company you’re talking about is Aldi!
@@carollaw4507 I understand. I thought it was Aldi, but I have never been to one. I have only read about that in comments. I wasn't 100% sure based on my memory. My mother always returned the cart and so I learned that as a child and then I worked in retail. It bothers me when I see a frozen item "returned" to the cookie shelf. I have changed my mind about items when I have gotten to the register, but I let the cashier know before she starts ringing up my order. I never did that with frozen items. Having worked in retail, I know someone collects those baskets and returns the items. At work, we had a huge staff meeting--over 400 employees from across the system. People left paper cups and other garbage under their seats. I mentioned it to someone and the reply was, "Oh, the janitors clean up." The janitors had enough to do with setting up and taking down chairs and putting display carts back on the main floor. It is one team regardless of position. To me, it is respectful to do your own part in cleaning up. If a person is disabled that is a different story. I think everyone should have to work in retail or in the restaurant business for a minimum of 6 months.
My bf insists on saying “eye-talian” for Italian. Worse red flag than the L in “salmon”.
ANDROID!!!! I work in tech. To each his own. Cheers!
Cats are dope, they are like roommates. I think the main problem is when you have so many pets that it’s really hard for a significant other to fit in the picture. Most people want shared responsibility not the “this is my dog” and “this is my cats”
I had my card declined once because there was a data breach and they closed it before they contacted me. They apologized and said my card should've been left open for another week. Always carry a backup method. Also- 5mph over max
Not returning your cart is the biggest red flag to me. Unless you are physically disabled, return that cart. Rachel is a little suspect.
I am not returning my cart in my current stage of life because I have 2 rowdy young boys with me at all times who can’t be trusted alone in the car but also can’t be trusted to hold hands and walk safely back and forth across the parking lot. Before they were born I returned carts and after they’re like preteen age I will again, but 3 and 7… safety first!
Loving this one today, George and Rachel! Too fun! Love the "situations" and scenarios!
That flag is not beige! it's white! 🔶
Use your ✨imagination✨
@@GeorgeKamel 😂😂😂 Heeeey George! Y'all are awesome. Thanks for all the fun laughs!
I'm a scrooge like George! Haha jk. But I do love the show and your differences in personality make this a great duo.
I love Rachel and George EQUALLY on these videos!!! The chemistry is 🎯!
Cats absolutely rock. That's all there is to it.
George- I have different ringtones for everyone in my phone so I know who’s calling
Love how they are using 'paper' print-outs for this show (instead of each having an iPad to scroll).
It’s the Boomer in me.
Hey George, we Brits don't pronounce the L in salmon. How dare you! 😅
Overspeeders the most selfish bastards, imho. They should be charged with attemped murder or attempted harm to life or property.
Song ring tones are a big thing in Asia. There is also a thing called a "hello tune", fortunately, US has been spared. 😅
“I’m a Boy Scout, Soccer Mom enigma, you can’t put me in a box!”
- George Kamel
George pronouncing salve like salmon… love you George! Just playing… but seriously.
I don't have a problem with foLks, but saLmon? That's just funny.
Also they said ringer weird... Like there were 2 Gs... ring-er not ring-ger
Can I critic for a minute how Ramsey always focuses on the monetary side of giving? We live paycheck to paycheck and do not tithe currently, but we do give of our time and talent regularly. I serve on the church's women's committee and orchestrate the schedule for cleaning the church. If there is a need and we have a little extra at that time we will contribute, but there are others ways to serve and be generous besides just money.
TY for your service. I feel called to give money beyond the tithe as a spiritual gift per se and so so value people who give their time! There are many parts to the body of Christ and we all have different gifts.
@@jackiem9460 Thanks! Its just something I notice every time the topic of giving comes up within the Ramsey network. Giving in whatever form is important of course, those who give their time because they don't feel they can afford to give money still need those who can afford to give monetarily to supply the materials needed to accomplish the tasks done with time. And in my opinion it can be either, or, or both. I would say its my only annoyance when discussing those trying to get out of debt that they must budget giving too. Of course giving is super important, but there are so many ways to give!
Exactly, and not everyone can afford to give and it should not be an obligation. As you said, others to give without it being money, nothing wrong with that.
RED FLAG: Pronouncing it “Ring-Ger”
I used to have a IPhone. I hated it. Moto z 4 can also have a projector attachment
My Mom and Dad have the imperial March ringtone
LOLOL, They have more cats then they do fingers...
lol, I love this channel.
George forgets he was only 7 years shy of being a Gen Zer himself 😂
Staunch Android user and my ringtone is the scooby doo theme. :)
If someone orders a Pepsi (or Diet Pepsi) instead of a Coke (or Diet Coke) - def a major red flag for me!!! Pepsi drinkers need help 😂😂
Lol thank you!
Pepsi drinker here. Crying. 😂😂
I have a weakness for Cherry 🍒 Pepsi. Coke is gross.
@Bethelgal42 when you are at a restaurant, ask for pepsi with grenadine. Essentially a roy rogers but with pepsi. Still is awesome though
I do this, if the restaurant doesn't have Cherry Pepsi. 😋
Hey Girrl! LOl what's wrong with that! seems super cool to me! 🤣
My 5 & 6 & 13 & 14 year olds listen to this podcast with me on the way to and from school 🏫 your guys comments about if there's a kid listening always make us laugh. I just found this podcast a week ago so we are catching up! You two are so funny.
George!!! Salve-the L is silent as in salmon! Come on!
Hey I BUDGET for my Frappuccinos. Don’t come after me for my adult milkshakes!
😆
"isn't honest about their taxes" so basically every waiter and anyone else gathering tips.
Can we get Dave on one of these episodes please 😂
I’m not buying a Frappuccino for the coffee, I’m buying it because it’s hot outside and I want a delicious little sugar pick me up! Like a root beer float!
Cats define my being and alter my brain chemistry
A co-worker of mine is paying $1,000 /month😢
Tbh when house of cards was popular, I made my ringtone Francis Underwood’s ringtone..that feels like a red flag saying that now…😬😅
I have an android and a Keurig 😂
LOL! Twinsies! 😅
Their drink's basically an Orange Julius.
Always an hilarious time! Thanks for the post!
THAT SCENARIO FOR THE CART IS LEGIT! It’s the only time I have left a cart in the middle of a grocery store parking lot. A bus full of workers sitting on the curb of the parking lot smoking pot while my two babies were in the car…. That cart is staying where it is, sorry.
Apple is the Keurig of phones.
Hanging clothes inside out is actually a great hack for avoiding those hanger dents clothes can get! It’s better to clean up fast in my mind too😍
I've actually picked up other people's trash. Occasionally. I like to model for my kids to pick up their stuff and mention if everyone would do that, wouldn't the world be a cleaner place.
Question for Rachel: would Winston have a similarly minded young 20s relative or friend? Are you aware of the recent young woman at the Daily Wire named Brett who has a channel called Comments Section with Brett Cooper? She's interested in marriage and I'm thinking a young Winston type might work for her. (I'm not related or even know her other than binge watching both you and her and trying to set up this blind date.)
Our dad's wore socks and slides in the 90s...like....40 yr olds
Thank you George for defending us head and shoulders peeps
My wife has a hunk yoga instructor. He helps her stretch a lot right in front of me. I think it is a green flag that my wife wants to get exercise.
My wife's boyfriend agrees
Could you do a walk through behind the scenes video of all the video sets? 😁🎥
Did you see the Barbie movie, George? Because if you did and you think it’s mid…RED FLAG.
Yeah, Rachel, I would always park near the cart return when I had little kids- but if I couldn't then I didnt return it
BEIGE FLAG: Girl you're dating constantly bothering you with small purchases. Like, if you ain't gonna bring money or cash card in your purse when you have a job, I have a pretty harsh judgement I'm gonna lay on you.
First couple of dates is fine, but you're going to drive me nuts after a while.
George wtf is it with the android judgement? The only reason to need apple is if you're in graphic design or music production. It's silly. Outside of that it's just preference of company. And my preference is not needing all my other devices to need to be Apple becuas3 my phone is and it would be inconvenient otherwise. So I go with android. If I didn't mind having everything be the same product, I'd probably like iphone
So, it is a red flag if you pronounce the "L" in the word "salmon", but you both say rin-GER and han-GER with impunity?
How do you say those words?
My parents would RARELY use a credit card, so when my mom would occasionally go out shopping and try to use it the credit company would flag it as stolen, it would be declined and she would have to call and say, yes I am using this card. So there are other reasons cards will be declined.
Time for you and your family to follow the Ramsey plan and get rid of that sucker. The CC telling you and your parents no is basically Dave speaking through them and telling y'all not to use your CC anymore.
@@katyedwards3935 I'm not responsible for my mom. I'm trying to steer her toward the Ramsey method since my dad passed away. I was merely responding to the red flag on the credit card decline that there are other reasons cc's get declined.
@@katyedwards3935if it's only on occasion then the odds on it being a problem is pretty small. No need to get rid of it.
How can those three items with ice, in that small glass, cost 83 cents a glass.
Especially using generic and not on brand sprite.
CRAZY expensive. I could make it for way less.
Good show tho..
You can spot the guitarists with long nails because they will only be long on one hand. I know because a friend of mine......... 👀
George - it says lemon lime soda because it's supposed to be 50/50 not Sprite. I think a lot of people don't know what 50/50 is anymore though since it's an older soda so the recipes aren't specific anymore. Drank it all the time as a kid 🙂
Freaking love this show! 😂
Apple users are just worse. Let me buy a more expensive phone that has less features and lower quality camera.
My beige flag is 💯 my love of Dollar Tree! My husband will get super annoyed to find out I bought things like candy canes from Dollar Tree instead of paying double at Target. He says food manufactured in China isn’t up to the same standards, but I say sugar and mint are the same anywhere!
I feel like Rachel is talking about her girl T Swift at 8:43 😂😂
I'm not spending more money for a Nespresso machine for a regular cup of coffee. I'll keep my Keurig with the refillable basket. And I'll keep my android too. I don't like being behind the times and spending more money than I need to
I have a different ring tone and text tone for each of my six grown children and my husband. I’m old. 69 years old. Sorry.
Question for my fellow Smarties
I plan to spend the rest of my life working as a pastor.
Financial Beige or Red Flag?
Regarding your debit card being declined. I was out of town on a business trip at dinner and I when I tried paying for my meal my bank thought it was a fraudulent purchase, and locked up my card. I had to ask a friend to cover for me. I was so embarrassed. I had to go to the nearby branch the next day and withdraw cash to repay him. Since then I have a secured credit card which it solely for that sort of situation.
Pronouncing the "l" in "folks"? How about pronouncing a hard "g" in "ringer" and "hanger"?
21:24 the thing with extreme couponing is that they stockpile things they're not going to use. I like the one lady that donates all the groceries to homeless shelters, so it really depends how responsible they are with the products. No one should have a thousand dollar car payment, its plain stupid to have a thousand dollar car payment because you could loose all that money and have to give up your car and not be able to afford it. My coworker works most of the week because he has to pay off the super expensive car he got when he used to have a better job, and he still has a kid to take care of, anyone with a monthly payment for anything over a thousand doesn't care about preparing for future accidents.
It's called a yellow flag... Beige is neutral. Yellow is cautious. I think yellow makes more sense.
How do you shut off an iPhone? Seriously, I hold the off button down, and the siri bubble comes on.
Hold off button on the right and the volume up button on the left at the same time. Then slide right to power off when the notification comes up.
I have 3 kids ages 3 and under and I have never left my shopping cart in the parking lot. No excuses. Find a way to make it work.
Guitar players only have long nails on the right hand, not on the left. Because nails would get in the way of pressing on the strings. You have to press with your fingertips. So that’s how you know the difference.
In my opinion, yall shouldn't be dating if you've never had a job. If you don't have a way to pay for a date, probably not the time to be dating. Yes there are lots of dates you can do that don't cost money but ultimately if you're dating to get married you want to create a small bit of stability so..a job😂
I have a song for a ringtone! Guilty. Red flag is when a guy has more hair and skin products than me.
Financial red flag is car loans for me.
The look into the camera @29:51 killed me. 10/10 episode