TikToker responds to users who think her husband should be with someone thinner l GMA
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- Alicia Mccarvell, a self-love activist, wants people to know that size has zero impact on a relationship.
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The way he loves her and the way she loves him…they’re just mad they can’t have that.
Yes, it seems to based on things much deeper than body size
Yea Brian luandrie and Gabby patito loved themselves soooo much you can tell how in love they were thru all the planned social media post. After all everything you see on social media is 100% right. You're so smart that everyone's jealous. Go check out Brian and Gabbys love story you'll love it
You got that right! So sad
THAT PART!
They’re mad they can’t be like that so they bully them to feel better about being shallow. And for the women they are trying to break them up so they can be with him
Imagine being so annoyed by someone else’s life that you can’t focus on your own.
True literary The worst feeling anyone can have anyone that act like that simply he/she Is not happy with their life.
Solid point!!!
Ain’t that the truth
Amen!!
#facts
True story, I was in great shape when my wife and I met. I then gained weight and she stayed the same. Next, she gained weight and I lost weight. Now she is losing weight and I'm overweight. It's just like any relationship. It's up and down and give and take. I love my wife for believing in me and seeing the potential I never knew I had. We are each others rock no matter what. Keep on loving each other. People get jealous over what they don't have. You two are both beautiful people.
That is what people don't understand. They have been together for years. So what, just because she is struggling with her weight he is supposed to just leave her side? It's appalling to say the least. I have always been 111 pounds and couldn't gain weight no matter what when I first met my husband. He was always bigger than me. Fast forward to now, me and him both caught covid. I am now sitting at 155 pounds after getting covid and he looks like he lost weight and looks built. Woman are so jealous of us and have tried breaking us apart during our marriage. We have been together for 13 years. He says he is not going anywhere when I began really struggling with my self esteem. There are probably woman wondering what he is doing with me but it's none of their business. I am sure I will have a great comeback and he will reap the benefits of not being shallow while I was down. It's called " for better or for worse and unconditional love ".
Love your story! You are an amazing man and I love the way you love your wife unconditionally! I believe we get what we give. Thank you for seeing beyond what society try’s to brainwash us with. I wish you both a lifetime of happiness together!
@@classy4ever63 all of those women that wonder what he is doing with you are simple minded and ultimately boring to all men in the long run. Every guy I know that is with a girl that is all about her looks, ends up bored as hell and dumping her after he gets what he wants. It’s sad cause we’re taught that our worth is in our beauty. Beauty that ANYONE can have, not natural. Fake everything = perfection. Ever read a boring book because of its pretty cover?? Wishing you & your hubby an incredible lifelong story together.
My question is: *Why is so much of her personal life available online?* The insecurity of the entire relationship lies solely with her because every inch of that marriage seems to be completely plastered all over that silly TikTak crap, I mean app. Who honestly walks down a hallway just to setup his/ her phone, press record, run back to the other end, and then walk down the same hall (again) acting like it's for the very 1st time?!?!?
thumbed up.
My wife is a full figured woman and I’ve lifted weights all my life and honestly I’ve never thought of her as nothing but beautiful in every way so to hell with the haters because they’ll end up in fake relationship’s with fake people.
Why do you want to be with a glutton? You really think your wife loves you eating the way she does? She won't even try to eat a little less for you. Please be careful. Stay safe and God bless.
"Full figured" and obese are two different things.
Happy people shouldn’t be listening to anyone of us knowing their lives glitter without our input. Let ‘em smile and enjoy something. Each other.
This story is so cool.
@@thewholetruth5473 How do you know a person is a "glutton"? Could be from medical reasons as well. I can't even see you but, your a miserable excuse as a person! How does it feel to be judged by someone who doesn't even know you!? Yeah, sucks doesn't it? My father always told me I was fat when I wasn't! I got down to 80 pounds & he was so proud!! Didn't see I was fricking dying!! I had to almost die to see my father was a horrible person like you. At 130 pounds I'm "fat" again. Goodbye Dad!! No contact rule!!
@@fleciashreve2313 Medical reasons. Yeah right. Smh.
As far as your father being "proud" to see you get down to a weight so low that you were emaciated and "dying", well, I only have one thing to say...you're LYING. I feel bad for your Dad for you spreading lies about him like that. I hope he can stay strong through that abuse. God bless him.
To go as far as messaging someone else's husband that they should be with someone like you is just wicked.
Pure wickedness. You are very right.
And where I come from, if he took the bait, she could be sued for interfering in their marriage and she would deservedly become bankrupt to match her morally bankrupt ways.
@@mermaidtingzzz where do you come from?
For real .should of cursed her behind completely out.
Lols that person probably think theyre doing the husband a favor by helping him realize he deserves a "better" partner in reality its not.
She stated that they've known each other since they were 15. It's a beautiful story. People get so jealous over things that people want and they don't have and have to be so negative about it or make people feel small. They clearly don't love themselves or just a narcissist. I'm happy 😁 for them. Live and let live.
@Thomas Breen what does her weight have anything to do with who she is as a human being or what her character is. I think it’s so disrespectful to comment on someone’s looks or weight period!
First ... She is not ugly, unhealthy fat ... Yes of course
the guy probably had relationships with the most healthy and the sexiest women and thought, meh..
@@pewdavid3338 yes of course I bet you’re one of the haters
@@TheHouseofcoolstuff
Only if women are fat it's ok
Us fat men need to die I know
-COMANCHE NATION
Just look at the way he looks at her! That’s love and serious attraction in those eyes! I am so proud of the both of you for finding true love!
She must have money or something. He sees dollar signs.
@@iaintgonlie7858 your shallow. This is not about how a person looks love is about what's in the heart and if all you're doing is looking at her body the way that you are then you're nothing but a piece of c***
I didn’t see that - at all.
He has a fat fetish, that's all it is
Wtf
U are so BLIND
NO Love NOR Like there at ALL
Love what she said…..”How she allows him to love her has changed”. I have struggled with my weight and this was something I had to learn in my relationship as well. Love her confidence and power. ❤️
this quote was the one that hit hardest for me too.
CLEARLY her husband needs to find someone else. She obviously does not love him if she can't even try to eat a little less for him.
@@thewholetruth5473 You think that is obvious. Lol trust me no one could truly love you no matter what size you are.
@@christineperez7562 You don't even know me at all yet are TRYING so hard to try to _hurt_ me. I am sorry that the Truth I wrote triggered you so much, but I just think it best that people hear and accept the Truth as soon as possible. Stay safe and God bless.
He should CLEARLY want her to get that wide load on a treadmill ASAP, if not for the way she looks, at the very least for the sake of her health and longevity of life. Shes not just a little thick or chunky...... shes a biggin.
How he looks at her with so much LOVE in his eyes, says it all! No one else's opinion or thoughts matter; it's their relationship and choice to share it.
Exactly. You truly get it. This comment, all day, every day. 24/7, 365, baby!!
I noticed that too and it's beautiful.
I saw the same thing I would love to have what they have.
As a disabled man who uses crutches to walk due to my disability, I can definitely relate to this. my girlfriend we've been together for 5 years and she's very gorgeous woman who is not disabled. and out of My League. guys would go up to her and try to flirt with her in front of me and asked "why are you with him" she would tell them to back off. The love we have for each is unbreakable. Love comes in all shapes and sizes
Why is she “out of your league” I didn’t know that love had a league? 🤷♀️
You’re perfect for each other, obviously. 🥰 No “league” here.
Take it as a compliment that those (creepy) guys approach her and she reminds them that she already has a soulmate and “no Thankyou” - you got the girl they all wanted and they’re mad about it! Hehehehe!
She's not out of your league hun.. she's right where she's supposed to be.. She is worthy of you .... You are worthy of her... You're both right where you're supposed to be or it would of never happened.
@@asassynation9955 he Mean looks wise she out of his league.
@@asassynation9955 Well said!
@@ree3197 Well said!
My wife is disabled and has more difficulty walking than most. When we are together she takes my arm to assist her and I see it as a gesture of endearment. When we were first together people would stare at her feet as we would walk by. I would get offended, stop and stare right back. They would very uncomfortably look away.
People still stare today but now I am too old to really give a shit and just accept that a lot of people are just fucking stupid.
We have been married for 25 years and I would not change a thing.
That’s lovely. I hope y’all have many more years together🙂🙂🙂
God bless you both 🙏
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@@dw3675
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@@gigicastle5259
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I recently broke up with my obese girlfriend of almost two years.
She constantly accused me of cheating with skinny women.
I had to apologize every couple of days because she dreamt that i had cheated on her.
She said that "When you dream something then it means It's true".
When i met her best friends i had to listen for weeks on end how
my ex was sure that i wanted to be with them instead of her now...
It didn't matter how many flowers i bought, how often i said i loved
her or how tightly i hugged her whenever we were together...
Somehow i was still gonna cheat on her (in her mind)...
She controlled what words i could and couldn't use...
I had to say "consume" instead of "eat" (amongst others)
because otherwise i would trigger her eating disorder.
I don't know these people relationship...
But being constantly accused of doing stuff
you're innocent of is BEYOND draining. I love my ex-girlfriend...
But i asked her if she think she could change how she felt about herself.
She said "No... Never. I'll always be insecure of myself" and that was that...
For this guy to go through something similar and
STILL hang around means that he saw something special in this young lady.
Even when she couldn't see it herself. These people found the person
whom they wanna spend their life with and we should just be happy for them.
And I'm so happy that this woman overcame her insecurities :).
Doesn't matter what you look like, you're still a human being and that's good enough
Yes people respond differently to their circumstances but but humans are very complex beings. I wish people would start to recognize that and show more empathy
You're a great guy.❤
I'm sorry you had to go through that. And I understand that there's nothing you would've done that was to make her see herself and love herself. Thay is what she had to figure out herself and get through it herself. She is hurt and then she hurt you. Hurt people hurt people.
Hoping both of you find healing and don't project to your next relationships. As you feeling like you were controlled may somewhat affect how you carry yourself going forward, always worrying about saying the right thing which can be too exhuasting as we are all humans.
Kind words
@@msessenceofreality
Not sure i agree with the complexity
thing but the empathy part, for sure!!
🙂😁.
@@asafe_space
No i have the opinion that
whatever you learned from one
relationship is useless in the next one.
Doesn't matter if you had
0 partners or a 10 partners because at the end of the day every person is different which makes it VERY diffocult to implement stuff from your previous relationship into the next one.
What you learned last time may not work next time and you just kinda have to start from scratch while getting to know this new partner 🙂🤷🏻♂️.
Alicia, you do you. Clearly, it’s working. You have what others envy: self-confidence, attractiveness, intelligence, healthy relationships with yourself and your partner.
Please ppl especially females should try to eat healthier and strive to be fit it’s not just about looking good. Am encouraging my daughter to eat healthy and take care of her body . Please
@@mpalmer7800 yes you need to get fit aswell
@@mpalmer7800 Please, take your own advice.
@@cutienerdgirl Hell yeah !!! Do i look obese ? U silly ppl applauding big oversized females about beautiful. The woman is obese . Obviously her husband helps feeding her to make himself look better than her. Wake up drinking oil forcing obesity on social media
@@mpalmer7800 please shut up and mind your own business.
How can the commenters NOT see how much he loves you?! It's in every shot of the two of you, even with sunglasses on.His body language shows how comfortable he is with you and how much fun he's having. You are a blessed couple! Ignore the hater-strangers!
That's why she did it because no one is showing them that type if love.. Pure jealousy.
Exactly. In each picture, he’s not even looking at anything else but her. That’s the kind of energy I need 😂
This.
True, he absolutely adore her, its obvious. Many can only wish to be seen like he sees her.
@@w..j..2605 Yes I noticed it too.😍
The girl who said he should be with someone like her showed exactly what she’s lacking that this lady has.
Exactly.
Well said
Truth. And she’ll probably continue to be terrible and alone while missing the correlation between the two and resenting good people who attract good people.
Well said!
@@christinaf713 Thank you. 😊
This couple have been together for so many year's, this is truly relationship goals. Someone who loves you for who you are, Someone who won't judge you, Someone who is willing to be with you no matter what! I call that LOVE
She is speaking straight facts. Long term chemistry really has nothing to do with looks. When you find your person the fireworks are always there.
I dont think there is a person for everyone and love is an illusion
Yes
@Frankie...stop lyin
Exactly. Lust fades quicker than people realize, and then you can be left with someone with no personality, intelligence, or sense of humor, and this is true for both sexes.
@@heatherberry640 what happened to you?
That person who sent the DM' s was literally trying to break a relationship ! That alone says a lot about her.
Anyone that would do that has issues! That’s someone who is extremely vapid and soulless!
Facts
Never venture, never gain
nope. men can't be 'stolen'. they're not a purse, lol. they have free will and agency. If they wanna go - they're gonna go.
He looks very attracted to her, it's very obvious. Maybe he's not into thin girls - or he's simply been in love with her since he was 15. They're probably in a place in their relationship where size doesn't matter. Even if she lost lots of weight or he put om weight - I'm sure they'd still be happy in love.
I think that’s exactly it!
Since 15?…
Yeah they’re at that point where it really doesn’t matter! They see each other wayyy beyond that!
She used to be a competitive bodybuilder; thin, toned. I think she's actually happier now than she was then. He loved her then and he loves her now. I
Clearly he loves her for her I don't think thin or thickness has anything to do with it at all there are some people In this world who don't go for looks period they go for someone who is genuine and honest and sweet and has an amazing personality and clearly she has all of that and more she's very beautiful as well.
I agree beauty comes in all shapes and sizes
In one of her Tick Tocks, she said she used be a competitive body builder and much skinnier.
I needed this today. I’m slightly overweight after a long battle with anorexia and in recovery now but I was thinking yesterday how no man would want me because of my weight. So worth it listening to this
I can see why her husband is with her and loves her. She radiates intelligence, confidence, love, and beauty. She or he doesn't need to justify her relationship to anyone. I am just glad she found her person and he found his. I found my hubby and he loves me for me and it feels amazing to know that.
I’ve been following her for a while and she’s such a badass! Both Alicia and her husband are wonderful driven people and it’s so clear their marriage is based on a real romantic connection, friendship, respect and passion. People need to look at what’s wrong with themselves and why they think it’s okay to comment on other peoples bodies and base their value on this. Keep going Alicia, you are a rockstar!
Does she have a RUclips page?? I would love to follow
So what they go by. I would love to fallow myself
Yes! Share that if you can. Cause I would definitely follow her as well 🙋🏻♂️
Exactly... Why would anyone think it's about the money, etc when they've been together sense she was 15 tf
People be so shallow. I love your comment, Anna.
I’m glad that he stood by her through her doubts. She deserves his love. May they enjoy many more years together.
Cool, she found a guy who was scared to date other women. She clearly wasn’t confident in herself, which is why she let herself go. I’d leave a girl’s ass in an instant if she let herself go and started showing insecurities.
@@logicbomb8977
Spoken like the singlest of men 😌. But please, let people know beforehand what type of person you are, it will save every unfortunate soul who'd think about dating you a lot of time (:
@@Blullaby that’s very sound advice blue. Helps me weed through all the BS. Thanks for your help
@@logicbomb8977
Anytime (:
@@logicbomb8977 you're a nasty piece of work.
You go girl! Love who you are and love only someone who loves you more for who you are. Sounds simple but it takes work to shut out all the stereotypes that people have.
He is an example of real men actually loving someone,for who she is.
Actually there are people called “chubby chasers” and they love fat, it’s their fetish, but the idea of it on their body is taboo, so they lustily live vicariously through their partner. Nothing wrong with it, but it’s not exactly a more healthy relationship. The fat host will suffer the typical medical ailments that go along with obesity. Tbh I don’t know this man’s fetish, I merely have a pretty big hunch.
@Your Final Hiring Agency
You may be right....
@Yolanda but the same can’t be said about women. Women are always trying to change the guy they want or are with it’s a double standard.
@@kevinc1001 do not make it sound like ALL women then you would have to be all knowing
@@kevinc1001 plenty of ladies are chubby chasers too. I think it’s bc their dads were fat or something
You can just see how much he loves her by the way he looks at her, and the way she loves herself, their relationship changed after she allowed herself to love herself, what an inspiration to millions of people of any size, shape, color, or any indifference they may feel, to just learn to love themselves is hard on its own, thank you
Let’s be sincere here, in- shape girls don’t even look at fat guys 😂. This outcry is simply because she’s a woman! Who campaigns body positivity for fat men? 😂
@@faraday1178 this is funny why exactly
@@faraday1178 a lot of women like big chubby guys!
That's so loving. He just wanted her to see herself as he sees her. Now that's love! And he does sparkle when he looks at her. 🔥❤️
@@faraday1178 I feel like this is a common misconception in the manosphere/incel cirlces. That women would never date or take seriously romantically, men who they (incels) believe are less attractive. What I see, is actually, that women just want men who enjoy being with them. And often the incel ONLY will approach women that they toxically believe are worth their time. Instead of building relationships.
But like another posted has said, sooooo many women love big men.
She is literally living the DREAM relationship goal - no I’m not talking about his physical appearance- im focused on how he stuck by her side because he truly loved her even when she felt she wasn’t good enough for him & kept pushing him away for many years- WOW!!! What an amazing love story of self-inner-love, triumph & setting yourself free to be loved by the right man!!! I cried. I love her.
People are so mean hating on someone who is in a happy healthy relationship, & is happy with herself & best of all, she is loved by a man who loves her for who she is & not for the superficial appearances that every woman wants to look like (fashionnova models, IG models & the Kardashian/Jenners)!!!
Tbf you don’t know that he is not in the relationship for her body type, it’s a fat fetish. On RUclips this may be the only vid, but it makes up at least 10% of all porn. There is nothing wrong with finding a relationship with someone that’s your type. It starts the strongest relationships really.
Love you and your pure soul 🌹😻
@@troubletime8684 ❤️ Thank You. I love that you and 37 other woman have the same understanding ❤️ Take care!!!
You sound ignorant
Well said.
This story underlines what really being in a relationship is about. They are in the relationship, not everyone else. Other people's opinion don't matter because they don't have to live that relationship, the ones in it do. I'm glad that they are happy with each other and wish them years of happiness together. Society can learn a lot from what this couple exhibits instead of being so superficial and judgemental. Congrats!!😊👍 p.s. the grass is rarely greener on the other side of the fence. Especially when you're happy where you are already.
Some people can't handle the truth. He should CLEARLY want her to get that wide load on a treadmill ASAP, if not for the way she looks, at the very least for the sake of her health and longevity of life. She's not just a little thick or chunky.... she's a BIGGIN.
She's fat and there's nothing to be proud for , not for the people but she should get slim for her own husband cause life doesn't care about your emotions , she needs to get fit to live a healthy longer life with and for her husband
Omg I'm crying. When she talked about how she made him feel silly for loving her and she learned to overcome that, that is something I'm working on
he has fat fetish. No sane man would love that "thing".
Me too... tears & how I can relate
I’ve been there, ladies. You can do it. You are beautiful and amazing, and so very worthy of love. 💜
@@pearlhall3787 💜
I was on that trail too, since one year before covid hit and i got more sick than ever, and i'm still in that learning process you describe, i can totally relate and send you good wishes...we'll get there, don't give up. Ever. ♡
As a disabled woman with a very handsome, younger husband, I can very much relate to this. Women will check him out and try to flirt with him right in front of me, never thinking that the disabled woman beside him could be his *wife*. People constantly tell me how lucky I am to have him, but they never tell him how lucky he is to have me. They act like he's a saint, who has done a good deed by marrying a cripple. What a crazy idea! He married me because he loves me. And I married him because I love him. We are lucky to have *each other*. I love him dearly, but he's not a saint for marrying me.
For a start your abled different and appreciate your loved no one can change that
Listen honey, we are all humans and precious in God's eyes. appearances doesn't matter. Live your life and be happy with your husband! And never question your husband's love because of those shameless crippled minded women because looking at someone else's husband with evil intentions shows how crippled their mind and attitude are. Lots of love!!!
@@carolynnduta2166 No, I'm disabled. I'm not "differently abled." There is nothing wrong with the word "disabled." But, yes, nobody can change the love my husband and I share.
@@elongaabigail8636 Please don't use "crippled" as an insult. Disability does NOT make a person cruel. Cruelty does. They are *not* crippled (ie disabled) in their minds. They are *cruel* in their minds. Saying that cruelty is a disability is very ableist. It is not helping.
@@CharlotteIssyvoo As a disabled man who uses crutches to walk due to my disability, I can definitely relate to this. my girlfriend we've been together for 5 years and she's very gorgeous woman who is not disabled. and out of My League. guys would go up to her and try to flirt with her in front of me and asked why are you with him she would tell them to back off. The love we have for each other is unbreakable. Love comes in all shapes and sizes. Everyone deserves love 🙂
I’m not sure why it still amazes me at how cruel people can be. And the audacity they have to say such things online. You go on living your best life! Wish you guys all the best.
@kkeeves121
YES, people are bold as they hide behind there computer and devices
Let’s be sincere here, in- shape girls don’t even look at fat guys 😂. This outcry is simply because she’s a woman! Who campaigns body positivity for fat men? 😂
@@NoName-hu8ju facts
They probably have no life at all.
As a fellow former chunk, I totally get it, but my weight eventually killed my health and almost me. Show yourself some real love, watch "Forks Over Knives" and live your best life! Hugs!
Our society (in most countries) unfortunately has evolved in the direction that what matters is the physical image, something that's getting stronger each passing day, instead of being overcomed. It's so GREAT to bump into a story like hers to remind us all that what matters is your essence as a person, and not your face and or body. It shows us that there's still hope for human kind...
Well if your partner works out and is in great shape don't you think you would want to go that same route it really makes sense
No good letting yourself go. Diabetes and death
@@JESC-RV It all depends on many circumstances... All that I've stated is that HE doesn't love her for her physic, but for THE KIND OF PERSON SHE IS IN ESSENCE. That's My point.
That's nothing new it has always been about looks. World view of beauty changes.
@@christineperez7562 But now, with technology and social media it's what people are "fed with", more than ever, 24/7. So, nowadays it's worse than ever. That's My point.
She is EXACTLY the type of person teenage girls need to listen to and who's example they ought to follow!! You go girl!!
Yeah so they can all be unhealthy too? You're in luck! Obesity rates of rising. Lifespan is decreasing
In some ways yes, as far as keeping a positive attitude, in some ways no, because the extra weight she carries means dramatically increased risk of early heart attack, stroke, diabetes, etc. I have a relative who ignored a similar weight problem and in his late thirties his spine is damaged and he needs knee and hip replacements- ignoring the health consequences of so much extra weight is a foolish choice.
Her weight is not an example however.
@@MisterMooster
Exactly. Ever seen obese elderly? The lifespan is so short
What would she be teaching them please?
My guys, once that woman loves you and is for you, hold on to her with all you got. This is beautiful. Let the haters Hate.
I love just seeing how he looks at her in every shot. He clearly adores her. ❤️
Hello beautiful
I love how he looks at her. This is an important message to most people who rely on their looks to keep a happy home. Looks come and go. They are BOTH is soooo fortunate to SEE beyond their looks and build a relationship FOCUSED on who they are as individuals, and not worry about 'is he gonna leave be for someone more beautiful, more skinny, etc?". She doesn't have to worry about that and they can both just enjoy their life beyond the shallow. He might be 'hot' now, but if he ever looses his body, etc..he's more likely to KNOW that he has a deeper love with her that will sustain and maintain what really matters, the value of their relationship, not their looks. This is a breath of fresh air. They are both gorgeous in their own way.
Wow a real life snorlax
@@MR.BONES007 Meh, black dudes know why he is with big Beulah ... He got a ruler in his pants. It would be confusing to other white folks lmao.
Well said facts.
Yeah, handsome now for sure but maybe not so much in his 50s. I'm so happy for them that they found love
She is overweight but she is a pretty lady. You can be overweight and still be pretty. Fat does not = ugly.
I’ve been following them for a while and I’m so happy for them . They are doing amazing job of normalizing that our body shape does not define our worth. Scott really stood by her when she pushed him away , that’s one hell of a man . He stood by her at her lowest and helped her in her healing journey , not many us are lucky to find a good partner like they both did .
The world needs more people like them!
It shows how much he loves her to wait for when she was ready to be with him.
When a man loves you for you, it’s nothing that will break that bond. Some people are so cliche and pathetic. Let these two people love on one another. Blessings!!!!!!
I disagree.
I loved someone but the bond broke because she told me the only way to be with her is to except two other guys into the relationship.
-COMANCHE NATION
@@thechiefwildhorse4651 This comment was intended for the woman and the man that love each other in the video. You sound like a nice guy and I hope you get the love you give reciprocated.
@@MeekeeKobellaDrNP
I'm in my 40s with cancer.
I still play soccer and do my best to captain a tuna vessel
My love and energy is somewhere much more fulfilling than bothering with a female these days lol
But I do appreciate your kind words
-COMANCHE NATION
This made me tear up, this relationship is absolutely beautiful 💕 this shows looks don’t matter it’s the inside of who you are! He looks beyond happy with her! She def is an amazing soul who wouldn’t want to be with her! She’s beautiful 😭💕💕💕
They knew each other since they were 15 so he got to know her before she blew up which does change things
BBW
@@aceboogy7958 he is still with her isn’t he? why are u crying lmao… also u don’t turn fat overnight i was fat at 15 what’s ur argument dufus 😂
@@aceboogy7958 Some people can't handle the truth. He should CLEARLY want her to get that wide load on a treadmill ASAP, if not for the way she looks, at the very least for the sake of her health and longevity of life. She's not just a little thick or chunky.... she's a BIGGIN.
I actually like seeing these kinds of videos, shows how wrong society is and how outside of the box, life can really be. It's actually inspirational in many ways.
who are you guys referring to? People you don't know? I don't get why you would care
@@mkhanman12345 You cared enough to comment though?
@@prettylyricsmarie you posted something and I responded?
@Scooby Doo Okay. I'll rewatch the video, and look for what you told me.
@@mkhanman12345 Yes.
❤👏🏽❤️. “Help the younger generation learn it so they won’t have to unlearn it “💪🏽🎉. She’s giving, showing a great lesson for people.
No she isn't. She's an exception not the rule
What's the lesson? That the men will be discipline and takes care of himself, while the wahmen is a slob?
She has insecurity issues and wants people to validate her relationships while she flaunts her man like a trophy wife , its common to see skinny dudes with fat bitches like it's common to see hot bitches with ugly guys
Everyone judging her has only experienced lust in their love life. This is real, and very rare to find someone who loves you for you and not how you look.
Impossible !!! I challenge you to sexually fall in love with a 80 year old grandma
@@ni12907 Wth? So u think it’s impossible for an 80 year old grandpa to still be attracted to his 80 year old wife? 😐
Who says he doesn’t love how she looks? Did you not see the way the man looks at her?
@@cookiecookielookies no, I’m challenging you to fall in love sexually with Z80 year old granny
@@cookiecookielookies thats nice, how about 25 and 80? RIDDLE ME THIS
I love this so much. Part of the reason I have stayed single for so long is because I’m a bigger girl and I just don’t see how/why some would want me, that’s my burden to bear though and I hope someday I see myself differently. I hope I can see that my worth is more than the size of my body. I wish that for everyone as well.
There’s a big difference between being attracted to a woman and actually being interested in who she is as a whole human being. I’m not trying to put anyone down but I think women confuse attraction with genuine interest. This man loves his wife. Period.
beautifully said. I will save your wisdom in my journal.
@@mjey1 Yes! I've seen some attractive men and I could never be with anyone like them. I've seen some people that I didn't find attractive at first until I knew them and after I knew them, they looked handsome AF too me. Attraction can change based on actions.
People just be hating for real.
So true!
And thirsty. It’s pathetic 😤
And it's not even necessary 😒
Yet nobody blinks twice at every fat, or older man with a thin/beautiful/younger woman. It’s clear this man is crazy for her. I love body neutrality. She isn’t advocating for one body type or another, but instead focusing on how our bodies enable us to live our lives. Great stuff, beautiful couple. *Edit: this was a fascinating accidental social experiment* I My comment referenced *men* but with such strong social conditioning, most of you didn’t register that criticism could exist towards the fat/older/unnattactive *male* partner with a female bombshells. Even if you criticised the golddigger narrative, the mind still didn’t consider the criticism (or lack of) of the *male* partner, and instead went to still looking at criticism of the attractive woman.
Absolutely fascinating stuff. I never intended that, but thanks anyway for playing everyone.
BING!!! exactly. Double standards must die
The female should be prettier tho
@@anonymous-cx7ng bruh what
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Not true. I definitely looked at Harvey Weinstein and his ex wife and said it’s the money. Same with a lot of those men and young or attractive women. It definitely goes both ways. We see it way less with this set up.
No need for explanations or rationalization of their relationship… the way he looks at her says it all! How fortunate they both are to have the kind of love most people will never get to have. ❤️
He seems to be extremely loving and extremely attentive to her. There’s an obvious strong love and bond between them. It made me kind of teary eyed. Great love story! I would love to see more just like it. I truly believe people go to their grave not being with their soulmate because they judge other’s exterior, instead of someone’s heart and soul. This is really a breathe of fresh air.
People go to their grave not being with their soul mate because soul mates don't exist. Thats just made up, fairytale, Disney stuff and you fell for it.
Love her. People are awful and I am glad to see her speaking up. I've been thin and overweight in my 15 year relationship and my husband treats me the same no matter.
Love this! Me too! 15 years of marriage and 3 kids and I’ve been up and down in weight the last few years and my husband loves me no matter what. Other people need to stay out of marriages and find their own path. Period.
Same.
Same!
Men like fat women because other men won't hit on them.
She’s dishonest and terrible
I like how she’s about body neutrality. That we’re more than our body. That her size isn’t who she “is”. Positively or negatively. And that’s why she can love herself and work out without thinking that her relationship or identity depends on it
I love body neutrality more than the idea of body positivity! That doesn't mean you can't love yourself or want to improve your health, but not focusing on the look of your body and instead focusing on what it can do has been super helpful! (just my opinion as someone who's dealt with both anorexia and binge eating issues at various points)
Imagine losing your mind and having that thought process.
@@johnhunt9674 so we should think our body is our sole identity? Are you joking?
She deserves all this love. Truly beautiful and inspiring to hear her. Love wins!!! I feel hopeful
What a wonderful relationship! People have no right to judge or question their relationship. I am a very big woman, my husband is average weight and 23 years older than me. He loves me as I am and we've been married for 15 years now. I'm the happiest I've ever been, because I thought no man would want me. All people need love regardless of size, race, disability etc!
Thankyou for sharing ❤️
wrong. no one owes you a relationship or love. you are entitled to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. you are not entitled to anything else.
I've been with my hubby for over 28 years. He was the only guy who never had an opinion about my weight, and even when I bugged him about it, he just shrugged and said I was always beautiful to him. I really needed that. Even when I couldn't lose the baby weight in my belly, he just put his hand there and said, "This belly carried my children." My previous boyfriend before him was a decent guy, but he said one thing that I could never get over. When I asked him what he thought of my body, he said, "Well, you could stand to lose about 5 or 10 lbs." I was literally only 125 lbs at the time, and athletic as well. That hurt me, and I don't think he ever understood why. We had other ideological issues that clashed, and they were important ones, but this is the one thing that really stuck in my head.
Those people should really butt out of other people's relationships. Meanness and jealousy. That is always the problem with these people.
it's those backhanded comments that really stick with you and leave you questioning if you should lose the weight or lose the guy
Cat Brash : its the guy, every time in those situations, once you figure it out. 👍👍
Physical appearance doesn't matter honey, live your life and never question your husband's love because of those shameless crippled minded women.
Gorgeous you and gorgeous husband. Y'all are pure love and power.
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I hope you learned not to ask questions that you don't want to hear the answer to. You asked. Should he have lied? Then how do you feel about that?
I see why he loves her. She is damn intelligent and drops nuggets of wisdom throughout her speech. Second, she is honest; thirdly she is relatable and finally she is beautiful.
no she is not beautiful take your libtard snowflake agenda and gtfo of here... she is fat pure and simple...
Agreed 🦋🦋🦋
Yes, I agree and she's probably sweet, non confrontational, like a true lady, wife material obviously. When you Love, not lust someone it overcomes any and all obstacles. They are cute!! 💕
I love Alicia and Scott. Such a wholesome couple. And she is such a honest, caring advocate for body image and mental health.
"Caring"? Well Alicia obviously does not _care_ about Scott. If she did then she'd at least try to eat a little less for him.
Her true love is food; not Scott.
@@thewholetruth5473 what a horrible, cruel thing to say.
@@JessicaComptonHR My comment is neither horrible nor cruel. It is kind and caring towards Scott. I wouldn't say this TO the gluttonous woman Alicia though. That would be mean. My comment is to this GMA video. Not to Alicia.
I am simply pointing out some truth under this GMA video. Apparently my comment struck a nerve with you; so you call it "a horrible, cruel thing to say." Lol. Come on. Be realistic. You KNOW my comment is the Truth.
@@thewholetruth5473 troll
OMG, the way he looks at her! He is so in love with her. ❤
It's heartbreaking to me that we live in a world where people are not valued for who they are, but more on how they look. I am in my mid 40s, overweight, never worn makeup or colored my hair, have many skin imperfections, including freckles. I once heard a coworker say that she "would die" if she had freckles! She is in her early 30s, thin, bleach blonde, and already had botox. I can't imagine what her true thoughts on my appearance are, but I don’t really care. What I do care about, is that she is passing her thoughts on to her two very young daughters. They will grow up thinking someone like me has less value than someone like their mom. It's just wrong and extremely sad.
Would all of you here have the same out look or even care about this story if he was the same size as her?
@@tangiblemammal5273 Troll.
The first thing I noticed was the way he looks at her, too. People can suck. I hope they keep growing as a couple
@@tangiblemammal5273 mm that's why it is a story in the 1st place.
You said she got botox right? Well you already won because she had to hate herself or not think she is beautiful to get one that badly. How pathetic of her and people like that. If it is not natural then your just plain ugly period!
They’re a cute couple. People are so mean and cruel. Best wishes for them! It just goes to show that self love and your partner pouring into you is key in life.
As a man I could NEVER date a skeleton! Women need some meat on their bones and to be healthy.
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"Immediately values Scott more than me." That is heartbreaking to hear those words. I wish people that hate themselves, would stop hating others, bc of it. I won't forget those words anytime soon, hopefully not ever.
I don't really like myself and i'm working on it. But i would never transport this feeling on others. Quite the contradary. I treat other people better than myself. I know what you talk about, but this is also just stereotypes that people who struggle with selflove automaticilly hate on others :/.
I honestly don’t think that that is the reasoning, that people are valuing him more than they are her, it’s more likely that it’s jealousy of her, because they feel like because they have worked toward this beauty standard, they are entitled to have an attractive man that fits that standard. They’re actually angry at her for having depth, for being able to live in a way that doesn’t value the surface of things.
It's sad. If she had any value for herself she wouldn't be morbidly obese.
@@mlem6951 I understand your point but I think what her comment actually translates to is that everyone who hates on others, hates themselves not that everyone who has any level of hate for themselves always hates on others. I wish you the best in your journey of self love ❤️
Just because people have normal beauty standards doesn't mean they hate themselves. I like most am not attracted to overweight women. If anything, that guy is the one who hates himself. Or maybe he's just a chubby chaser.
Your body has a huge impact on who you are and what you are capable of. Obesity is not an opinion. It is a condition that comes with health problems. Ive seen too many members of my family die or become disabled from heart disease and diabetes. Also, it puts extra stress on joints. Every time they would go to the doctor, the doctor recommended they lose weight. The doctor was not concerned with how attractive they were or how people percieved them. The doctor made the recommedation because being obese deteriorated their health. I do not see how anyone who is being honest with themselves can say that has no impact on who you are and what you are capable of.
Love them together. They are a perfect example of real love. They've been loving each other since their teen years and he loves her for who she is. If he would have gotten with the weirdo that thought he should have been with her because she was thin, he would have been miserable.
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Real love also includes physical attraction and this man is obviously physically attracted to her I have plenty of homies that love bigger women. You can even say they thirst for it lol no joke
@@rafaelmoreno3243 real love is not physical attraction. It's deeper than that and it's loving someone without boundaries; truly being in love with them for who they are not how they look. shut the fuck up
She finally found what real human beings are searching for in REAL LOVE. This is something I would like. A human being that sincerely cares about both of us and allows us to grow together. Yes, he's a good-looking man on the outside but his and her heart are beautiful together. Your story Ms. Alicia is better than "The Notebook". Beautiful real lifetime romantic story life. Yes, I meant it just like that. A story worth living.
he has fat fetish. No sane man would love that "thing".
I was agreeing with everything you said until you got to the notebook. The notebook is such a great love story. But you can’t compare love stories because they’re all different and they’re all amazing.
@@Asdfgqedfglo I agree with you on that. Their story is beautiful. I hope we can we can watch them as they grow mature like the Notebook. But you are right.
YES I AGREE YOU HAVE SUCH ANGRY, JEALOUS HEARTED PEOPLE OUT HERE JUST TROLLING BC MISERY LOVES COMPANY. I REALLY HOPE SHE DOESN'T LET THOSE VICIOUS PREDATORS EAT AWAY HER HAPPINESS😣
All I saw were two beautiful human beings. Makes u wonder about the fragility and vanity of a lot of modern day relationships. As if ntn cant happen to your body at any given time. *gasp* God forbid some of these thin ppl shaming her get pregnant and gain baby weight and go through the metamorphosis of bringing life into this world and then get shamed for doing stn so natural 🙄. Like let ppl exist. How does their existence change gas prices?
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and her husband beholds her beauty because he is beautiful. There it is, he's not a shallow man. They are blessed to have the love of each other.
That’s a powerful concept to me about changing how you have allowed him to love you, I think you are amazing and have inspired me to try harder to be ok in my own skin
Thank you!! I really needed this!! This is coming from a petite skinny girl who can’t gain any weight. My whole life I felt like in order to be loved by somebody I had to fit society’s beauty standards of big boobs and big butts. She spoke volumes when she said me not loving myself directly impacts the experiences my man has to go through just to love me. And it does suck to love somebody so deeply and for them to not even see how beautiful or enough they really are… trying to unlearn these toxic thoughts about the insecurity I have with my body is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to overcome in my whole 30 yrs of living… learning to love yourself and your body is so hard to do especially if you grew up feeling unlovable based off of your outer appearance. But I guess it all comes down to realizing that your body is not who u are… ur soul is.. who u are inside is who you are. Your body is just what people see. And being too big or too little is not a reflection of how worthy you are. You are worthy because God said you are worthy. You are enough because God said you are enough and made u in his image. Perfectly made. From the top of your head To the little hairs on your toes. PERFECTLY MADE!!!
This is exactly how I feel! You took my thoughts about being skinny etc and made it into words! Thank you and sending love and light to you! ❤️🥰🙌🏿
It's not about society's standards. Men being more attracted to women with big breasts and butts(most especially breasts) has scientific reasons that go way back. Even there's no standard set, most men will always be attracted with bigger boobs.
@@IslanderloverBKK that is individual to each man. I grew up with all male friends,and some were boob guys but only 2,some were leg guys, some were butt guys, some were height guys, three were hair guys, some liked big women and some liked petite women - it's individual to each man, I know this for fact.
@@a.b.creator It's not an individual thing and you clearly didn't understand my post nor understand Science. You can keep repeating what you post, but it will not beat what has been proven since life existed.
@@a.b.creator By the way what you posted isn't a fact, it's an opinion.
That's why so many end up in an unhappy relationship or in a early divorce because they choose love based on looks. I enjoyed your story, keep pushing forward and wishing you two many more years
She squirts
Oh my God.... you hit it right on the button that is so true, you can be with someone that is so good looking and they will treat you like crap. That is what has happened to me my whole life I always went out with very good looking men and I married a very good looking man and he cheated on me. Life is short I am not in a relationship now and don't want to be, was married a really long time(18 yrs) and then had a boyfriend for 11 years and he passed away two years ago I'm really good now and a nice place enjoying my grandchildren and my career but I totally agree with what you say everything is always emphasized on looks. That is totally not the way to go take it from someone who experienced hell with that and will not happen again. So good to see these two happy and I am 100% sure they will be together for a very long time. Blessings and much love🥰🌻🙏
@@michelleb1 my condolences to you 🙏
@@ChrisandTyCox thank you so much💗🙏
more so "status" "i have this valuable object" "everyone wants this object, but its mine, and that makes me feel good"
Wow, this was enlightening. Hearing what she had to say made me realize a lot of people have issues with self worth on some level. knowing we are worthy of love is so important, no matter what background or circumstances we come from.
This is possibility vs probability. Let's be honest, they're married because they've been together since young and he truly knows her and loves her. Most guys in shape like this don't give a girl this size the chance to get to know them. How many couples do u see where the guy is super fit and his wife is obese? Obesity is directly health related too so you gotta question how much he loves her if he accepts and promotes her unhealthiness🤷🏾♂️
@@pwest1101 you are projecting.
@@pandadragon8266 how so? 🤔
Amen
@@pwest1101 they’re called “chubby chasers” in the wild
This is just so beautiful 🥰 My parents were together at 15 too, and now they’re 58. Love is real ❤️
How sad and pathetic do you have to be to message a married man to say " you should be with a thin woman like me"??? I wish this beautiful couple many many more years of happiness, keep making the haters MAD!!!
Exactly! How insecure and thirsty is that broad? Pathetic. They look amazing together.
Right. They’re happy and that’s all that matters.
yeah must be a white man to only a white man would be so ignorant right? can i join your group since i don't like whitey?
That's the sad society we live in unfortunately. It happens every day. How about when they are hitting on your husband right in front of you. Just shameful.
Health is important however a thin slut is useless to a man
Anyone who DMs a married man is a slut
she's amazing! it's so wild to me that people think looks are THAT important. they really aren't - there's a lot of good people out there who care about you as a person
Why do you give her the credit? just curious
@@yourfinalhiringagency3890 I can't answer for them, but as someone who also thinks she's amazing, it's because she's the one talking in this video. She's sharing ideas that are well-articulated and really helpful to people struggling with body issues.
Why would you give the husband credit when you haven't heard him speak at all?
@@2GoatsInATrenchCoat takes 2 to tango sweetheart
@@2GoatsInATrenchCoat if he left her, her message would be disproven, but as long as he stays loyal, it rings true. The whole message hinges on his loyalty.
you must be from somewhere else than the usa
The fact that the husband is very loving and supportive is an A+ for me!!! You do you boo, the world will adjust
So beautiful. I have been with the same person since I was 16 and we go through everything together ups and downs. You guys are beautiful and love your message
I could feel the sexual chemistry and passion between these two just by watching this. This man got the Hots for his wife and their connection is strong and undeniable.
People with an issue are just lonely and wish they had a mate who desired them this much.
Big facts
Bro he pounding that shit ..... He wants that woman.... You go girl
He has his hands in his pockets all the time. It's an "indication" in body language.
Im NOT saying that "bigger sized" people dont deserve love by people who are fit. However, there's something deeper going on here, psychologically, with the guy...
Exactly
Well Said
@@SomeOne-ji8ny sorry explain?
Makes me so mad when people try to tell others who they 'should' love. Those trying to tell her she's not attractive enough for him have no idea what real love is, unlike this couple who have been together since they were 15.
That was what my relationship ended being. After I had my kids and reached my 40s - I went from being naturally thin to gaining weight. My husband told me he was no longer attracted or in love with me. I was at most 20 to 30 lbs heavier that I had been before. I did work out and exercise. He at every turn tried to sabotage any healthy meals and habits that I attempted to initiate for myself and my children. That was when I began to realize how toxic he was. Fortunately for me we are now divorced but I still have some residual hurt. Working hard on telling myself that all of that was about his issues and not my fault.
It's not your fault. We all change as time passes, he is so superficial and immature that he can't accept it and also see his own change. It's great that you left him behind
Im glad u got free! 😌
He sounds like a nightmare, consider yourself lucky and keep it pushin. You would be miserable if you were still together, like I’m positive he is deep down.
He didn’t really love you for you. He cared about looks is all. I hope you find happiness, and you deserve so much better!
@@purpledrea45 the most important thing to females is their looks. You are not just giving any guy who u find unattractive a shot.
I have lived this. Oh how my heart aches over this! I understand; I have fought my weight all my life (I'll be 74 in August) and after a severely abusive first marriage, my second husband (we were married 2 1/2 weeks short of 25 years when he passed away from cancer just discovered 2 1/2 months before he died) was like your husband - trim, athletic and ha ndsome; and, yes, people often felt we didn't belong together.including me, myself, quite often because of my size. Bless your heart for valuing yourself! Awesome! I wish I could have managed that in my life.
It's not too late. You're still alive.
This story actually inspires me. They genuinely love each other, such a difficult thing to find that a man loves you for just who you are as a human being, first, second as a woman. And admire her for having the courage to letting her to be loved. Love both.
goes both ways and its just another BS story that is not true not different then the "news"
he has fat fetish. No sane man would love that "thing".
Self love effects all your relationships. I love that she made me realize that by me not loving myself, was making me not allow my husband and kids to have experiences with me. Such as pool time, going to a beach, saying no to going to events because I didn't like how I looked and felt....very powerful message. Wishing them many many years of happiness, health and success.
That was the takeaway I resonated with as well. I think I do limit what we do, and what pictures we share, because of my insecurity about my body. I was okay actually with being a size 16 hourglass, but then I got lipedema and my thighs have become very large and heavy, and one aspect of lipedema is the rippled and lumpy skin. My calves look so much smaller (it looks like I tied a rubber band just below my knees) compared to my thighs. I don't want him looking at my legs or touching them because it makes me feel ashamed. I never thought about the fact that it makes my husband have limiting experiences we used to do.
@@heidiquayle5054 it's only legs, you are still very beautiful ❤
I think I just had that same realisation
That first sentence.. I can’t believe there are very wise people in this world who understands that. Thank you for sharing that. Fully agree 🙏🏼
But it only works if you are with someone who sees and values ALL of you. Because even if you learn to love yourself but stay with someone who compares you to others, puts you down or makes you feel less than..it won't work. You have to love yourself enough to know where you are actually valued.
Man this truly is so wonderful to see. And I'm glad her husband isn't moved by surface level ideas because what's on the inside will always count more than what's on the outside. I don't care what anybody says.
What a beautiful relationship. It's nobody's business why or how they look. Anyone else saying otherwise is just jealous and needs to work on themselves instead of mouthing off garbage. 🙄
Good for them! There needs to be more ppl out there like her inspiring young kids to love themselves, no matter how they look.
Hello beautiful
I watched this without the volume. You can tell by the way he looks at her that he absolutely adores her.
I peeped that also, he looks at her with adoring eyes
I personally know a couple exactly like this and they don't let their looks get in the way of their relationship. They love each other for who they are and that's how love should be. As for all the shit talkers online they're just hating because they don't have what they have. Don't pay them no mind keep living your best lives. You two deserve each other.
I would quote Bonn jovi its my life cd
Yea the difference is that wouldn't even be a topic of conversation if botj were thin.
You do realize that's a backhanded compliment, right? Looks get in the way? You're basically saying the "prettier" one doesn't let the others ugliness get in the way. People say that about my relationship and I hate it. Yes I love him for him, but I also love his body. I've only ever been attracted to chubby guys. Nothing about his body/Looks could get in the way, cause I find him hot af. 🤣 just because one is heavier doesn't mean the other doesn't find them attractive
Your both very lucky to have found a true love that goes beyond looks, and what others think. That is a very rare love that we all dream of
I agree with you Mary Lasiter-100%!
Hello Mary how are you doing today.
Jealousy makes many ppl mean. Just the way he looks at her... he's exactly where he should be and he knows it.
I'm tears 😭 literally in tears. What a beautiful, loving, caring, respectful relationship you have. After being in a abusive 32 year relationship, I finally left last year and I dream of having a man love me the way he looks at you and loves you. And I vow to come to a place soon where I will be healthy enough to attract such a partner through all the Therapy and healing I am going through now. 👍 I wish you many more years. 💕
After all you've been through you deserve it.
Omg, these two look like they have so much fun. Don’t let idiots talk you into unhappiness. These two look so much like they are happy being themselves with each other. What an inspiration!
My god, her last sentences were so meaningful. She's one of a kind. Loads of love and best wishes to both of you.
Yes, if only! It would change their lives from the get go. It can be so damaging to be judged when you aren't old enough to even know what the word means.
Why should he be with a glutton like that? She obviously does not love him if she can't even try to eat a little less for him.
Scott loves all that softness, tenderness, Men sing about holding pillows tight NOT sticks !!!!
As a similar couple I'm so happy you have put this out there. I am a thick and curvy woman and my boyfriend is thin and muscular. He is a fitness trainer but loves all my curves and squeeshy bits. Lol I'm glad she is bringing this to light.
Chubby chasers unite! Me too 😉
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Something she said really hit me where it hurts. I’ve undervalued myself for most of my life which has led to me feeling undeserving of love, of happiness, of success, all because of how I’ve been treated because of my body size. I’ve had it beaten into my head since I was 10 years old that my worth and my value were lesser than others around me because I was heavier than others. The heavier I got, the less pretty I was. I’ve only ever had online relationships. I’m 30 years old and have never gone on a real date with someone because I can’t believe that anyone would genuinely want to go out with me or like me or care about me. It’s a frustrating and incredibly lonely life and I’m just tired of it.
I’m so sorry, I hope you can unlearn those lies and realize that you are worthy in every way. And I hope you meet an amazing partner who will help you see the beauty in yourself.
@@jennyteresia ‼️‼️‼️ couldn’t have said it better myself.
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You are more than worthy. Love yourself and expect love to come for you.
I promise you you’ll find the one and you’ll never be lonely again 💕
I want to hear his point of view as well and speak to men who think “they have to have a hot skinny girl” in order to feel like a sexy man. It’s important for men to reach out to other men and let them know that what’s supposed to be “sexy for a man” in a woman is just standards set by society. Like I always say… why choose someone who has a nice body but can treat me like shit over a nice guy who’s loving and won’t cheat and doesn’t have a six pack.
He’s not super into social media really. He created an account basically for the sole purpose of responding to comments she gets. That, and participating in her videos when she wants him to
I would like to see his side of it as well, but he honestly looks to be a bit shy, so he probably doesn’t normally really do social media?
I think that in itself shows how much he loves her, that if he hates social media normally, but is willing to appear In her vids to help her, etc - that’s quite a sacrifice to make for people who are very private and personal.
No. It's not just what society says, most men do not find someone like her attractive
@@Goggalor1990 who the fuck cares what other men think of her?! Why is that relevant to the fact that her husband loves her?
Why do women bring down other women. It’s so shameful but I really happy a queen found her king.
Her words are so true and so powerful. Really disappointing that people would react to this beautiful couple in such a way. Says a lot about them and their own self-worth to attack two people just living their lives.
I love the way he looks at her. You can see the love.
@Scooby Doo or theyre happy together?🤷♂️ why does there always have to be a catch?
at least she has a FAT ass.
@Scooby Doo Or maybe he COMPLETELY trusts her and has a bond with her family. They've been together since they were teens. Also who say he doesn't have a great job as well?
You see the love. I see the visually impaired.
@@keychain3039 why? Because people who say things like this are jealous when they see two people who are happy together.
Nobody has ever loved me that way. Happy some people can experience that feeling. Thank you for sharing.
its all bs man.. they are making big bucks off this
@@brookeburner4243
Making big bucks off Dem haters 👍
I’m a TikTok fan of their‘s and have been for a while, and actually started following them because they’re adorable and funny.
This is beautiful! More women should see this. You have to love yourself first before you can learn to love anyone else.
AMEN
💯 that’s where it all begins
umm, she's obese. you shouldn't love yourself if you're obese.
My husband and I stepped into a tavern in a town we were passing through and a woman walked up to my husband and asked him why he was with me. He told her "because she's my beautiful wife", and she walked away. When he said that to her it made me feel so in love, but at the same time I could never forget that someone had the gall to walk up to him(a complete stranger) and ask him that.
I hope you can see yourself the way he sees you :)
Ive watched this every time I see it. The MOST important part was her saying she had to learn how to allow him to love her...how to be loved. Some people are beautiful thin "perfect", but destroy their partners by not knowing how to trust and how to accept love. They look so friking happy. That is all that matters.
Your not wrong. But the love in his eyes and hers when they look at each other seems to be found in dreams or fairytale. That look is not found but felt and that is absolutely magical.
She obviously does not love him if she can't even try to eat a little less for him.
@@thewholetruth5473 You never know where people are in their journey. By this time next year she might be thin and he may be larger. What the fuck does that have to do with Love. Respect. Passion and compassion. Friendship and trust.
The difference is...noone would say a damn thing. Men are allowed to be fat, women are not.
Why does she have to eat less for him? He's fine with it. His Love isn't conditional on her weight. He probably stops for the ice cream before he gets home for her and she massages him cause he just got back from the gym. Ive known plenty hot thin women...most of them crazy as hell and not concerned at all about their partners happiness. Thin does not equal a good partner.
@@scatteredstars80AD You know very well that the odds that "by this time next year she might be thin and he may be" fat are about a million to one. So please be realistic.
Men are NOT "allowed to be fat" any more than women. Yes, looks are more important in women than in men to some degree, but obesity is regarded by people in general as just as unattractive and unhealthy in men as in women.
@@scatteredstars80AD Of course he's not going to tell her this, but he is NOT fine with her gluttony. Of course he wants her to eat less (unless he's "gay" or something).
I doubt she ever "massages" him. Gluttonous people don't tend to be energetic, especially not for others benefit.
It is ridiculous for you to assume that "thin [healthy] women" are in general any more "crazy" than obese (gluttonous) women. Come on.
I don't see how this is a "Taboo" relationship. I see couples like this all the time one partner fit the other not so many people are getting bent out of shape over something like this.
Also I've seen a photo of her on her Instagram timeline she was actually pretty skinny in the beginning.
This is so touching and thought provoking. That is love! That is confidence that is untainted!!