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10 Lies That Married Man May Say To Lure You In
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- Опубликовано: 18 авг 2024
- Lies that married men say to make you feel closer and more attached
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00:00 Introduction - Lies that married men say
02:36 "I don't feel like I can talk to anyone like I can to you"
04:29 "You don't get angry like my wife does"
05:27 "I'm not getting any with my wife right now"
06:18 "I feel alive when Im with you"
07:27 "You're so much understanding of my wife or my spouse"
09:47 "You make me feel like I matter"
10:28 "I can't imagine my life without you"
12:54 "Im trapped in my marriage but I feel free with you"
One that he's said too me is that I'd be lost without you or is go into depression if I didn't have you. He tends to guilt trip me when I hint to drawing a line in the sand to end things after almost 5 yrs into it. Very frustrating. Thank you for your content.
Every single lie you said, he has said to me.
Wow how explained all very true. Thank you. 😊
Thank you @sabitarijal1944 I'm glad you found it valuable 🙏
It’s been the hardest 12 months of my life I’ve pulled away now but it almost broke me we made plans to be together to be dropped he said so much to me that it was over with his wife they are like best friends but he can’t leave her because of the financial side I just don’t understand how he can stay with his wife and live separate lives when he said he loved me 💔
Hi @mariewarner7001 You have been through much, sending you so much love as you move through the grief and process all of this.🤍🤍
@@katelondon01 thankyou you have helped so much it’s just a good feeling to have someone to listen too ❤️
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This is the same thing I’m going through. I miss that connection and human contact.
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So why don't they ever leave their wives if they are so unhappy? No sex, no emotional connection or intimacy. More like friends. I get the reason that they have kids, but kids aren't stupid. There's no use staying 'together' purely for them. They grow up and leave home eventually. Financial reasons-Ok, men get taken to the cleaners with divorce, but you can't put a price on happiness. Affairs are purely a sticking plaster together with deeper, more serious issues within the marriage. Exactly - why doesn't the wife want to have sex and be intimate with him? How do you know that he isn't horrible to her? Why doesn't she end it? Probably financial reasons.
Affairs are a cowards reaction to an unhappy/sexless marriage they aren't willing or able to get out of. Endless excuses why they can't leave. But they can meet and sleep with other women behind their wives' backs quickly enough.
Money. Always financial. Convenience. Cheaters have no integrity. Ego is being stroked.
Amen. Say this again!
All so true in my experience! I will also say that a lot of the time they are keeping the marriage together for appearances. they are afraid of the judgments of others- family and peers. They very well know the marriage is not meeting their needs but the easiest thing to do is go seek out some thing on the side.
At a certain point you feel like you are just enabling their situation.
@@EadsB7002 So, so true!!!
Kate, do you regret the break up? Do you miss him? How do you feel now?
He told me, " I thank God you came into my life"
Another day..
"I want you to be in my life always....will you marry me?"
"Can we have babies"
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Now that I remember those moments, i hate myself.
But I'm in a better place now.
I'm free now.😊
I’m so happy to hear you are in a good place now 🤍 @owenkigz3920
What about "You are the best lover that I've ever had, I have never had such a deep physical connection, chemistry and great sexual relationship with anyone before you. With you I can finally feel completely free to express my fantasies, and at the same time I also admire you as a person?" How do you go over that? Because I also felt and still feel the same. I finally decided to break up with him 6 weeks ago and implemented No contact. I still miss him a lot, I miss having the deep conversations we had, I miss his smell and I miss making love to him, I miss everything. I want to continue to stay strong, I managed until now, but I do miss him.😢 We had an almost 5 years relationship... You never spoke about the sexual attachment, conected with the emotional attachment. How do you get out of the impression that you will never find a man that will make you feel the same in bed as well as he makes you feel like a significant woman in his life by all those "lies" you've already mentioned in this video? Thank you for your great work!🤗 Will you consider doing a video on this sexual addiction topic in an affair relationship? Because I think there is also this part that keeps us tied to an affair partner, besides the emotional intimacy, and I didn't find anything about how to "rehab" from that easier. How did you manage to get over that part after your 7 year relationship? Thank you!❤
I had something very similar, except he had a gf and not a wife and he also told me our sexual chemistry was great and I honestly also miss that...
We can chat if you'd like :)
All I can say to help is, what did you gain from the relationships apart from the sexual attachment, you were still his side piece. I'm also struggling, in the same shoe, but what I tell myself when I miss him, is how I usually feel after the great sex.
If you meant so much he would never leave after the great sex, forever.
So you are not that great to him, he is not that attached to you. We were (me, you and the rest of us)and are sometimes still living in that delusional world.
Oh yes yes! How can I recreate this video and add that line! 🤔 you are so spot on. That line is often said. Thankyou for sharing for everyone to read and feel so understood. Sending you much love as you heal from this 5 year experience 🤍 I can add that topic to my list to do for you 🤍