That last part, controlling your reality, it´s all we need for everything in life. The one who thinks is going to fail and the one who thinks is going to win, are both usually right. It´s all about beliefs. Create your own, and once you start believing in your own beliefs, you´ll start seeing results and changes in your life. Look at all the powerful people from today and the past; they all have and had conviction. It´s all about perception, and your life depends on that perception.
I'm surprised by Cajun, I was expecting him to be full of himself, but its like he said, he built his own philosophy of confidence based from a book. He took something and put faith into it, and it made him realize that it's a match for him. Biggest combo for game seems to be is confidence in holding a conversation and understanding timing.
I remember watching this video back in the day at school to get the courage to talk to a girl I had a huge crush back then. She had a class right before mine I saw her everytime walking out the classroom while I waited for mine. After watching this video I finally set my mindset to success and confidence, as she was walking out I stop her and use indirect approach, asking about her class and teacher, we chatted for a couple minutes but I could tell she had to go, so I went for her facebook, the conversation was smooth, nothing flirty about it, just normal talk, but for me was a victory already, she didn’t seem bored or irritated at all. I really thought it went well, the excuse for her facebook was to hey maybe you can help me with the class, we can talk a little bit more get to know each other, handed my phone with the Facebook app open on search, she type her name and her profile show up, I got my phone back and hit add friend. I said cool , see you later then and she said yeah bye. I waited for hours to get the notification of request approved. Waited and waited and never happen. Days past by and nothing. It was the last week of school so I never saw her again, she never approved my request. I was heart broken, learned a goof lesson. All women are cold bitches
KING- PK you’re right, I didn’t made a strong impression and I found out later she had a boyfriend, I was scare and try indirect but I should had been direct, let her know about my intentions. You make mistakes and you learn, this was also 6 years ago. Now she is not half as cute as she used to be, she didn’t age well she was 19 back then now shes 25 , meanwhile I started bodybuilding and im making decent money. Life’s a bitch 😏
the thing i like about cajun is, that hes a smart guy. he´s not acting like a jerk to make people believe he´s cool. he´s not using ugly words. he´s talking calm and seems layed back.
this is a freaking amazing interview video, now this is beyond dating advice this is like life advice, I mean at least it eventually boils down to that. good job!
No, Gretzky definitely said it. Jordan said this: "I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed." It's of similar meaning, but both are equally valuable.
She can see your confidence. Your body language, voice, tonality, behavior, posture, language and all sorts of other things convey it (or your lack of it). She can also read your status and level of experience.
Awesome basic advice from Cajun. However, I found the last part about quantum physics view of our consciousness = the world, in contrast with what NLP says about not to confuse the map (our mind) with the territory (the world).
Yeah. My thing at first was I didn't know many ways to interact & now girls initiate make-outs. I certainly say lines that have been instructed, every so often. What you listen to is what you say. What you plant is what grows!
i would rather hit on a 9 or 10 girl an get shut down than to hit on 5 or 6 girl who will shut me down....and realised usually the most unattractive girls are the ones that act silly when they get approached..its kinda funny though...
True man.. might as well shoot for the stars if you're gonna risk rejection. @Henry: Bro, just hit up *(The Alpha Mindset, com)*.. Best thing I ever read on social dynamics, female psychology etc..
It's kinda because girls can tell when you're not that much into them but still just approaching regardless, it looks incongruent and feels weird, like you're telling an average girl she's beautiful, she knows it's bullshit
Cajun is really sexy. haha, which is funny because I saw him in Keys to the VIP and had no physical attraction to him (creepy facial hair). He knows what he's talking about. I'm a gal but I love learning about this kind of stuff - it's fascinating!
What I mean is, do you SEE what goes on in good looking men's lives day to day? Do you see how they interact with women when they're not in a club/bar setting? Do you see their personal lives, their day-to-day interactions with their girlfriends or wives? Do you see their text messages? Do they tell you about the difficulties they suffer as well, the rejections they've had? I didn't think so.
Cajun is the man, seriously. He's one of best pick up artists I've ever had the pleasure of listening to (if not the best). Between watching and listening to Cajun, and reading the guide on that "be the bad boy{dot}com" site that everyone seems to be taking about (probably the best overall guide I've read), my game has improved so much! Seriously, it's ignorant to think that you can't improve. Picking up girls is a skill and obviously you can improve with practice and knowledge.
Yo alll .. I'm an old school PUA did a bootcamp back In 2010 was with Cajun In Sydney Australia ... He Is the real deal I can tell you... Pick up has died these days. I'm just wondering If anyone know of any private forums that are still going on? I'm looking to get back In to this stuff I'm 40 and have a lot more to learn again, but keen to get back Into it... Seems all forums have died down?
Two points you are either missing or skimming over: 1. In order to succeed you MUST make mistakes and fail a certain degree. 2. In the end, he got results, because he was persistent and didn't give up. I just said he was an unattractive guy. What, did he suddenly get "better looking" and that explains his success?
I agree. It's not what you say, however, how you say it? If are confident in everything that you do and display it, you may be able to get rid of certain things. With that being said, it aint always the case.
I just realized you're brilliant at detracting from objective arguments by delineating into playground fights concerning who can insult who better. It's a great tactic that I see on RUclips when the other person actually has no argument or no support for their argument. Back to the topic: Do people not use visual cues every day to make determinations about things?
It's sad too, because up to that point I've had nothing but success with women during day time approaches. In hindsight, the only thing I did different when I got rejected was that I wasn't acting natural. Some guys are better suited for Mystery method, scripted routines, and some guys are just better suited to rely on their own natural charm and wit.
Every time this guy doing the interview with cajun, is always attentive, very very attentive LOL! i love it, cajun is a very good teacher, possibly a projector.
Again, she has a good idea of your status and experience by the way you conduct yourself. Regardless of what it is, an inexperienced person tends to be nervous, tentative and unsure. An experienced person tends to be calm, relaxed. These two people will tend to behave differently. A person of high status tends to act the same as an experienced person, same with a person of low status acts like an inexperienced person. You can believe what you want about women, but it's not going to help you
The one time in my life I've ever used that line he gives about going up to a woman and saying, "I think you're really cute, and I know I'd be kicking myself later if I didn't do this...", she looked right in my eyes after I asked for her number, and she told me "No". That happened on one of my first days after moving down to Miami, and I haven't approached a woman since. I hate myself for it.
Well he is also a guest in there reality. But I think that philosophy makes you realize you have a lot of control over what happens in group. Too many people in bars and clubs act like passive observers just trying to look calm and collected. It does sound narcissistic, I wouldn't go around saying it
Actually I have. I've had a hard time deciding what career path to choose because I'm good at so many things. Your "understanding" of attraction is close minded and selective at best. The fact is that given a CHOICE between an unattractive/unhealthy man and an attractive/healthy one, of course women will prefer the attractive/healthy one. That doesn't mean it's a priority or vastly influential.
Because you know I'm right. The truth compels you. ;) I have noticed more people agreeing with me than arguing, and those who do argue violently and vehemently, but not well. You can continue to make erroneous ad hominem attacks against my character, but that doesn't detract from my argument or what the evidence shows, so it would be pertinent to stay on topic. I don't care if you like me or not. I care about the truth. Let's stick to it.
No I'm actually pretty intelligent but, more importantly, observant and open minded. I'm pretty sure I've been to a LOT more parties and clubs and bars than you have and while women may INITIALLY be looking at and gravitating towards the most physically attractive (or best dressed) men, they wind up spending more time with and ending the night with most confident men who display the best status and social skills.
Even though case study after case study demonstrates that men care more about looks AND are evaluate looks more uniformly than women do and men in general date younger women more often than women date younger men.
"Women are just as sexual as guys"... THANK YOU! haha been watching a few of these videos and for some reason women are talked about as if they need to somehow be tricked into sex...
"I'm a woman, and I endorse this message on the behalf of womankind." also "You could get someone like me if you follow this guy's advice"....... Female validation is unnecessary here
+EM Liza Would you agree that confidence rates higher then looks?Im convinced that even average looking or overweight guys with a lot of confidence can pick up beautifull women.
Haha exactly my thoughts-I used to worry about being overweight not excercising enough When I was younger in my twenties I used to practice Kung fu and I had a tight ripped body but I didnt pull any women. Now Im out of shape in my 40's but thanks to building my game over the years(cold daytime approaches(busstop,mall,street,on the train+ nighttime club,parties) I now got my inner game to a level where Im comfortable pulling 9 + hb women without breaking a sweat. And yes making a woman laugh is 80% of the job ;).
10000000% Agree! In my opinion / experience - If you can make a woman laugh - you have more of a chance than even the hottest guy in the bar ever could! Also - cockiness KILLS - PLEASE gentlemen, do NOT be cocky, arrogant, or conceded in any way shape or form. It's is the ugliest turn off in the world!
"By default..." Well I didn't, so I can tell you no on that side. "For the most part" I agree, for the most part, yes, but it's not written on stone, because most people aren't much confident anyways. Besides, there's also the situation that most people think they're ugly, when they're not, most aren't good looking, but also not UGLY. And it's true that girls are attracted to other thing than us guys, that's why it's hard for us guys to understand it, because we're attracted more to looks
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"They are guests in my reality and i treat them as so" New quote for my life time :)
4:40 walk and not apologetic
5:35
7:45 - opener (drug dealer) -> transition
8:40 transition -> interactive value demonstrations
11:45 NATURAL GAME
That last part, controlling your reality, it´s all we need for everything in life.
The one who thinks is going to fail and the one who thinks is going to win, are both usually right.
It´s all about beliefs. Create your own, and once you start believing in your own beliefs, you´ll start seeing results and changes in your life.
Look at all the powerful people from today and the past; they all have and had conviction.
It´s all about perception, and your life depends on that perception.
I'm surprised by Cajun, I was expecting him to be full of himself, but its like he said, he built his own philosophy of confidence based from a book. He took something and put faith into it, and it made him realize that it's a match for him. Biggest combo for game seems to be is confidence in holding a conversation and understanding timing.
This guy is insanely charismatic
This guy has beast social skills
I like this PUA.. he's pretty genuine.
Cajun is the best pickup artist ive ever seen.. i saw allot
His Mojo is Legendary! Confidence is the key.
Wow, immense video, great philosophy on life in general, not just pickup, true alpha
I remember watching this video back in the day at school to get the courage to talk to a girl I had a huge crush back then.
She had a class right before mine I saw her everytime walking out the classroom while I waited for mine.
After watching this video I finally set my mindset to success and confidence, as she was walking out I stop her and use indirect approach, asking about her class and teacher, we chatted for a couple minutes but I could tell she had to go, so I went for her facebook, the conversation was smooth, nothing flirty about it, just normal talk, but for me was a victory already, she didn’t seem bored or irritated at all.
I really thought it went well, the excuse for her facebook was to hey maybe you can help me with the class, we can talk a little bit more get to know each other, handed my phone with the Facebook app open on search, she type her name and her profile show up, I got my phone back and hit add friend.
I said cool , see you later then and she said yeah bye.
I waited for hours to get the notification of request approved. Waited and waited and never happen. Days past by and nothing.
It was the last week of school so I never saw her again, she never approved my request.
I was heart broken, learned a goof lesson. All women are cold bitches
lol
KING- PK you’re right, I didn’t made a strong impression and I found out later she had a boyfriend, I was scare and try indirect but I should had been direct, let her know about my intentions. You make mistakes and you learn, this was also 6 years ago.
Now she is not half as cute as she used to be, she didn’t age well she was 19 back then now shes 25 , meanwhile I started bodybuilding and im making decent money. Life’s a bitch 😏
Ahahaha
the thing i like about cajun is, that hes a smart guy. he´s not acting like a jerk to make people believe he´s cool. he´s not using ugly words. he´s talking calm and seems layed back.
I used to hang out with this guy back in Alabama. Im glad hes made some great progress. Kudos Bro!!
this is a freaking amazing interview video, now this is beyond dating advice this is like life advice, I mean at least it eventually boils down to that.
good job!
This guy plays life in Main Character, thats the mind set.
No, Gretzky definitely said it. Jordan said this: "I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."
It's of similar meaning, but both are equally valuable.
She can see your confidence. Your body language, voice, tonality, behavior, posture, language and all sorts of other things convey it (or your lack of it). She can also read your status and level of experience.
Cajun. You sir. have become my hero.
ahhh, the joy of reading such elegant prose.
Awesome basic advice from Cajun. However, I found the last part about quantum physics view of our consciousness = the world, in contrast with what NLP says about not to confuse the map (our mind) with the territory (the world).
''you control you're reality'' Quantum physics is fucking genius!! Quote of wisdom of the year for me!
the most honorable video on youtube
Is this guy a prophet? Holy shit
Brady Moore Im proud of my creation
Funny shit
This is golden advice.
In my opinion better than the rsd guys. Practical advice not theory
this is why i love natural game
best pu interview i ever seen
So, if you are smart, women want to converse with you. Wow! The code has been cracked! Thanks, Cajun!!!
im so glad that not many people know about the book , gives me more chances =D
Yeah. My thing at first was I didn't know many ways to interact & now girls initiate make-outs. I certainly say lines that have been instructed, every so often. What you listen to is what you say. What you plant is what grows!
True !!!
Honest open line. I use it too.
The End : Dying or getting married :D legend
Excellent video, mensroomtv!
i would rather hit on a 9 or 10 girl an get shut down than to hit on 5 or 6 girl who will shut me down....and realised usually the most unattractive girls are the ones that act silly when they get approached..its kinda funny though...
True man.. might as well shoot for the stars if you're gonna risk rejection.
@Henry: Bro, just hit up *(The Alpha Mindset, com)*..
Best thing I ever read on social dynamics, female psychology etc..
Amen my brother...
The amounts of truths here is damn too high!
It's kinda because girls can tell when you're not that much into them but still just approaching regardless, it looks incongruent and feels weird, like you're telling an average girl she's beautiful, she knows it's bullshit
Sooooo fucking true, i think because everyone is hitting on them
Cajun is the Einstein of the Game!
Cajun is really sexy. haha, which is funny because I saw him in Keys to the VIP and had no physical attraction to him (creepy facial hair). He knows what he's talking about. I'm a gal but I love learning about this kind of stuff - it's fascinating!
What I mean is, do you SEE what goes on in good looking men's lives day to day? Do you see how they interact with women when they're not in a club/bar setting? Do you see their personal lives, their day-to-day interactions with their girlfriends or wives? Do you see their text messages? Do they tell you about the difficulties they suffer as well, the rejections they've had? I didn't think so.
Had to rewind because I was checking ring finger.
Cajun is the man, seriously. He's one of best pick up artists I've ever had the pleasure of listening to (if not the best). Between watching and listening to Cajun, and reading the guide on that "be the bad boy{dot}com" site that everyone seems to be taking about (probably the best overall guide I've read), my game has improved so much!
Seriously, it's ignorant to think that you can't improve. Picking up girls is a skill and obviously you can improve with practice and knowledge.
Derek Cajun is a GOD!
i saw this dudes handy work on keys to VIP, he OWNS!
Yo alll .. I'm an old school PUA did a bootcamp back In 2010 was with Cajun In Sydney Australia ... He Is the real deal I can tell you...
Pick up has died these days.
I'm just wondering If anyone know of any private forums that are still going on? I'm looking to get back In to this stuff I'm 40 and have a lot more to learn again, but keen to get back Into it... Seems all forums have died down?
Sure. It's also been proven that confident people, wealthy people, happy/optimistic people and successful people are treated better.
One of the best pua
Two points you are either missing or skimming over:
1. In order to succeed you MUST make mistakes and fail a certain degree.
2. In the end, he got results, because he was persistent and didn't give up.
I just said he was an unattractive guy. What, did he suddenly get "better looking" and that explains his success?
you sir are a true student, great answer :)
This guy knows what hes talking about
I agree. It's not what you say, however, how you say it? If are confident in everything that you do and display it, you may be able to get rid of certain things. With that being said, it aint always the case.
This dude is a BOSS!!!!!
that one line at about 11:45 as worked for me multiple times :)
"The end is when you die, or when you get married - depending on how you look at it" LOL
I just realized you're brilliant at detracting from objective arguments by delineating into playground fights concerning who can insult who better. It's a great tactic that I see on RUclips when the other person actually has no argument or no support for their argument.
Back to the topic: Do people not use visual cues every day to make determinations about things?
Barney Stinson is so proud!!
Ok. You go ahead and keep believing what makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside.
whatever this guys says, its amazing
i read that book called "the game" its really good
When is it published i cant find it
@@mahdijafari6145 The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists
Book by Neil Strauss
great video
Cajun rocks. Gz man
it's the men's room....so yes
It's sad too, because up to that point I've had nothing but success with women during day time approaches. In hindsight, the only thing I did different when I got rejected was that I wasn't acting natural. Some guys are better suited for Mystery method, scripted routines, and some guys are just better suited to rely on their own natural charm and wit.
This guy is the living Tony Stark.
Every time this guy doing the interview with cajun, is always attentive, very very attentive LOL! i love it, cajun is a very good teacher, possibly a projector.
Again, she has a good idea of your status and experience by the way you conduct yourself. Regardless of what it is, an inexperienced person tends to be nervous, tentative and unsure. An experienced person tends to be calm, relaxed. These two people will tend to behave differently. A person of high status tends to act the same as an experienced person, same with a person of low status acts like an inexperienced person.
You can believe what you want about women, but it's not going to help you
Cajun is the god.. but it's different in every country..
He observes the 3 second rule!
Respect bro, respect. u deserve it
11:57, I just used that line it works, confidence, and say to your self F*** it go for it.
Props Mark, good shit !
what a guy
great intro video
What book did Cajun mention?
The one time in my life I've ever used that line he gives about going up to a woman and saying, "I think you're really cute, and I know I'd be kicking myself later if I didn't do this...", she looked right in my eyes after I asked for her number, and she told me "No". That happened on one of my first days after moving down to Miami, and I haven't approached a woman since. I hate myself for it.
he used mystery method very well
how old is cajun
This was motivating
when you enter be the bad boy .com ,does a video come up about a goldfish ??
ok ill take your word for it, i have never experienced that
Keys from the vip
cant help but feel like he is a mimic of Mystery
Well he is also a guest in there reality. But I think that philosophy makes you realize you have a lot of control over what happens in group. Too many people in bars and clubs act like passive observers just trying to look calm and collected. It does sound narcissistic, I wouldn't go around saying it
Dammmm this shit is solid. Great advice, thanks a lot man!
What about the first pickup god?
So, all I need is a cane and a funny hat, that's awesome now i dont have to waste 21 minutes of my day watching this clip. (Y)
didnt "Men's Room" hint that before you clicked the video?
Actually I have. I've had a hard time deciding what career path to choose because I'm good at so many things.
Your "understanding" of attraction is close minded and selective at best. The fact is that given a CHOICE between an unattractive/unhealthy man and an attractive/healthy one, of course women will prefer the attractive/healthy one. That doesn't mean it's a priority or vastly influential.
Because you know I'm right. The truth compels you. ;)
I have noticed more people agreeing with me than arguing, and those who do argue violently and vehemently, but not well.
You can continue to make erroneous ad hominem attacks against my character, but that doesn't detract from my argument or what the evidence shows, so it would be pertinent to stay on topic.
I don't care if you like me or not. I care about the truth. Let's stick to it.
does this work on like 16-20 year olds? or is it only for 30 year olds
No I'm actually pretty intelligent but, more importantly, observant and open minded.
I'm pretty sure I've been to a LOT more parties and clubs and bars than you have and while women may INITIALLY be looking at and gravitating towards the most physically attractive (or best dressed) men, they wind up spending more time with and ending the night with most confident men who display the best status and social skills.
cajun changed my life...case closed
The halo effect is not by any means strictly related to looks. Go look it up again (somewhere other than wikipedia, preferably).
Quick soloution to Gaining confidence - 8 shots of brandy! It Weally WoRcs! :::))
My index finger is longer than my ring finger but I always feel like doing physical activities, and I love women. What's going on?
That was dope
Even though case study after case study demonstrates that men care more about looks AND are evaluate looks more uniformly than women do and men in general date younger women more often than women date younger men.
"Women are just as sexual as guys"... THANK YOU! haha been watching a few of these videos and for some reason women are talked about as if they need to somehow be tricked into sex...
have anyone see the that book he talk about it
Where's Bas Rutten..:;
wtf,i want this jacket!!!
5:32 is where you realise the black guy is a nerd
Haha why?
Cajun is a Nerd...of course...they're both Nerds
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👆👆👆👆👆👆👆👆👆 Oh god
Hahaha I come back once a week and click on this coment and look at his face again
Lol 🤣
"I'm a woman, and I endorse this message on the behalf of womankind." also "You could get someone like me if you follow this guy's advice"....... Female validation is unnecessary here
+KonohasGreen Beast I second
+EM Liza Would you agree that confidence rates higher then looks?Im convinced that even average looking or overweight guys with a lot of confidence can pick up beautifull women.
Oh absolutely! That and humor. Attraction by eye alone, is nothing :D
Haha exactly my thoughts-I used to worry about being overweight not excercising enough When I was younger in my twenties I used to practice Kung fu and I had a tight ripped body but I didnt pull any women. Now Im out of shape in my 40's but thanks to building my game over the years(cold daytime approaches(busstop,mall,street,on the train+ nighttime club,parties) I now got my inner game to a level where Im comfortable pulling 9 + hb women without breaking a sweat. And yes making a woman laugh is 80% of the job ;).
10000000% Agree! In my opinion / experience - If you can make a woman laugh - you have more of a chance than even the hottest guy in the bar ever could! Also - cockiness KILLS - PLEASE gentlemen, do NOT be cocky, arrogant, or conceded in any way shape or form. It's is the ugliest turn off in the world!
"By default..." Well I didn't, so I can tell you no on that side.
"For the most part" I agree, for the most part, yes, but it's not written on stone, because most people aren't much confident anyways. Besides, there's also the situation that most people think they're ugly, when they're not, most aren't good looking, but also not UGLY. And it's true that girls are attracted to other thing than us guys, that's why it's hard for us guys to understand it, because we're attracted more to looks