How society acts when men get sexually assaulted

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  • @aperkins0627
    @aperkins0627 13 дней назад +3165

    Girl sexually assaulted me in highschool, I threw my lunch tray at her, she went to the principal and accused me of sexually assaulting her. They called the resource officer on me and they were straight up interrogating me in the office. When I finally managed to get them to check the cameras and they saw it was the other way around. She got a 10 day suspension but wasn’t pressed for sexual assault like I was for some reason.

    • @bmendez3782
      @bmendez3782 9 дней назад +465

      Wait hold ten day suspension? that's it? nah f--ked that she should've been either expelled or thrown in jail.

    • @moronoftheinternet8864
      @moronoftheinternet8864 9 дней назад +377

      Dude that's bullshit. She got a fucking vacation instead of justice.

    • @ytuser4562
      @ytuser4562 8 дней назад +121

      God that pisses me off

    • @Rudnaz_127
      @Rudnaz_127 7 дней назад +142

      If it were the other way around, you'd be expelled for sure.
      Edit: I guess I *heavily* underestimated that. Okay let's see, have his reputation absolutely f*cked, gone to prison, most likely eventually killed by fellow inmates, very few people liking you etc.

    • @aryansmily3205
      @aryansmily3205 6 дней назад +1

      This is average USA school, so... Shitty country

  • @defstone999
    @defstone999 19 дней назад +8029

    When I was sexually assaulted by an ex- coworker, the HR lady said to me "look at the bright side, she was attractive". That killed my hope of support. Shits wild.

    • @defstone999
      @defstone999 18 дней назад +355

      @@SpecterShade I wish I was but that's the reality of things.

    • @micahthemessiah1222
      @micahthemessiah1222 18 дней назад +340

      Nah I would’ve gathering all the evidence and took it to court. Get paid cause that’s crazy.

    • @I_eatAss
      @I_eatAss 18 дней назад

      You gay

    • @defstone999
      @defstone999 18 дней назад +276

      @@micahthemessiah1222 I should have after the fact but at the time I was just too demotivated to react properly. She got fired shortly after so I had a sense of relief at the time but I didn't realize just how long the trauma of everything would stick with me. I'm good now but those times definitely sucked.

    • @dominicekezie2011
      @dominicekezie2011 17 дней назад +12

      @@defstone999if youd like, could u explain how u got sa’d? No offense but i struggle to see how this could happen unless you were intoxicated

  • @aerynventress7702
    @aerynventress7702 13 дней назад +727

    If one of my guy friends told me a woman had assaulted him, I would 100% take him seriously, and I would come to his defense. We all gotta watch out for one another.

    • @jorienwachukwu466
      @jorienwachukwu466 11 дней назад +38

      Same. I would never mock a guy if he were to say that a woman SAd him. It's disgusting that we live in a society that operates on such double standards.

    • @omnigod7131
      @omnigod7131 9 дней назад +9

      Agreed

    • @JorgeTorres_777
      @JorgeTorres_777 5 дней назад

      If it was a hot woman, I would make fun of him all day

    • @pikxelsparkels514
      @pikxelsparkels514 4 дня назад +3

      Same

    • @the-ts1pz
      @the-ts1pz 3 дня назад +1

      @@jorienwachukwu466 exactly. No matter someones age or gender, if they get SAd we need to be there for them.

  • @the_dom.
    @the_dom. 14 дней назад +872

    This happened to me at a job, and the HR department still sided with the female instead and said i caused her "stress" for reporting this

    • @Ok-_-719
      @Ok-_-719 12 дней назад +100

      Causing her “stress” for reporting this is absolutely WIIIIIILD… Hope you doing okay though 🫶

    • @darkness_hedge3232
      @darkness_hedge3232 10 дней назад +15

      NAHH ☠️

    • @ahmethacikasimoglu5819
      @ahmethacikasimoglu5819 9 дней назад +38

      What kind of crime is "causing stress"

    • @Mangekyo__
      @Mangekyo__ 8 дней назад +2

      Whate☠️☠️

    • @ytuser4562
      @ytuser4562 8 дней назад +12

      Jesus fucking Christ there’s no hope

  • @TheTrueRandomGamer
    @TheTrueRandomGamer 19 дней назад +20106

    "But she's hot tho. He was lucky."

    • @Diamondr11Blue
      @Diamondr11Blue 19 дней назад +1011

      Now reverse that and see the comments

    • @John-Smith02
      @John-Smith02 19 дней назад +299

      We always hear about the hot ones

    • @MugiwaraPhoenix
      @MugiwaraPhoenix 19 дней назад +749

      And I also remember awhile back I was watching vids about female predators and school and all the comments were just saying how the 13 year old kid was lucky to get groomed by his hot teacher and they wished they were them. Society is messed up

    • @dealkill2396
      @dealkill2396 19 дней назад +93

      @@Diamondr11Bluehence the quotations

    • @shun8104
      @shun8104 19 дней назад +275

      Men: Women needs stop belittling violence against men and shaming men who speak up
      also men: belittle sexual violence against men and shame men who speak up
      Although there is a double standard when it comes to sexual assault I feel like majority of men contribute to it and we need to do better.

  • @business-advice-that-works
    @business-advice-that-works 17 дней назад +9354

    I filed a sexual harassment claim against a female supervisor. She wouldn’t accept boundaries I set after she asked me out and turned her down. My ex wife never believed me and accused me of cheating and trying to cover up an affair. She kept that belief all the way to our divorce. I had zero support

    • @jesswhycamarz
      @jesswhycamarz 16 дней назад +923

      I’m sorry you went through that. My brother had a similar situation and the woman kept asking for his sperm. Mind you, he works at a high school.

    • @punishanpika
      @punishanpika 16 дней назад +804

      Sounds like you dodged a bullet of spending the rest of your life with your ex-wife.

    • @onesyphorus
      @onesyphorus 16 дней назад +354

      i hope you find a woman who actually cares abt you brother 🤜🏾🙏🏾

    • @DonovanRobinson420
      @DonovanRobinson420 16 дней назад +172

      She just wanted a reason to stick with bro. She never actually loved you Forreal

    • @kimberlyturner820
      @kimberlyturner820 16 дней назад +21

      😢

  • @polari7658
    @polari7658 11 дней назад +512

    I was assaulted as a child by a grown woman multiple times. No one supported me because she was dating my father. The only person who believed me was my mother. I’m glad she fought to get me out.

    • @PokyDaBesto
      @PokyDaBesto 5 дней назад +23

      Glad she supported u

    • @Cultcyripdsp
      @Cultcyripdsp 5 дней назад +35

      My 14 year old friend was r worded by a 23 year old women and when he posted it online all people said is OH YOUR LUCKY I WISH IT WAS ME WHATS SO BAD ABOUT FREE PLEASURE it’s disgusting and they will say all of that until they see it or it happens to them

    • @simonssj7707
      @simonssj7707 5 дней назад +12

      W mother

    • @SensPiotr
      @SensPiotr 5 дней назад +5

      Cool mother

    • @C12341
      @C12341 4 дня назад +6

      So sorry. Hope you’re okay now. Sounds like Chris Hansen has some ladies he needs to visit and tell to take a seat. Weirdos excusing it are the biggest issue and they should be shamed. I have a bad feeling this has happened to more men then want to admit it and the thing with predators is they enjoy tricking people so you have to remove them from society and throw the book at them male or female. If you abuse a child and it’s proven you should be in jail for life. That’s harsh but it will deter creeps.

  • @BadKDSky
    @BadKDSky 15 дней назад +1359

    Growing I was abused up by my mom but nobody cares. My father wasn’t allowed to see me even though he’s the only one who cares. If I talked about the things that were done to me I’d just be told that’s the only mom I have. Nobody would help me.
    Society does not care about men’s issues. Mental health issues. Abuse. It doesn’t matter. Nobody cared.

    • @Ronpesos12
      @Ronpesos12 15 дней назад +68

      I’m sorry that you went through that and had a toxic abusive mother I also had my fare share of a toxic mother and as man they just tell you to not have emotions fr. Shit is sad that we have to go through this.

    • @nobody-yk2hu
      @nobody-yk2hu 12 дней назад +49

      I would not wish this shit on my worst enemy I know I could never understand what you went through the world really is screwed

    • @ccscheller8193
      @ccscheller8193 8 дней назад +14

      I care

    • @DENT9330
      @DENT9330 7 дней назад +11

      I am truly sorry, man. Nobody needs people like that in there lives.

    • @DanielKolbin
      @DanielKolbin 6 дней назад

      Overgeneralizing does not fix problems.

  • @beandaddygi
    @beandaddygi 19 дней назад +22251

    The sad part is, he's right. Society is backwards.

    • @mrbard1
      @mrbard1 19 дней назад +490

      hello! his entire brand is about telling the truth using comedy.

    • @airforce9872
      @airforce9872 19 дней назад +2

      In some countries it actually legally true as well, only men can rape others since rape is defined as forced penetration.

    • @Creed034
      @Creed034 19 дней назад +159

      He usually is.

    • @reignbalboa
      @reignbalboa 19 дней назад +36

      What are you Ga- just kidding

    • @the_ed2274
      @the_ed2274 19 дней назад +174

      ​@ShanksD596 it's wrong either way, not about who had it worse. Crazy how you added to his point.

  • @OuterSpace90
    @OuterSpace90 19 дней назад +10818

    "Its ok to be gay, unless your straight, then its not ok to be gay."
    This is SO frustratingly accurate. 😂

    • @luigiwiiUU
      @luigiwiiUU 19 дней назад +119

      truest line Griffy ever spoke

    • @sebastianfiel1715
      @sebastianfiel1715 19 дней назад +66

      😂😂 wait, why did you say "frustratingly"? 🤨🤔

    • @OuterSpace90
      @OuterSpace90 19 дней назад +196

      ​​@@sebastianfiel1715 because its frustrating how accurate it is. Knowing this is how people think is frustrating to think about

    • @raymondcerv1370
      @raymondcerv1370 19 дней назад +6

      Captain Obvious

    • @h4xagon909
      @h4xagon909 19 дней назад +99

      "frustrating" sounds gay to me.

  • @PodreyJenkin138
    @PodreyJenkin138 10 дней назад +201

    The worst are the comments on news reports of female TEACHERS assaulting male MINORS and dead ass adults being like "lucky, i wish that was me"

    • @C12341
      @C12341 4 дня назад +13

      They have to stop this. I was thinking that teaching probably attracts p edos because of access to children. They need to severe punish them and maybe teachers should teach with a Buddy system, a male teacher and a female teacher so the kids aren’t ever alone with just one to protect and hold people accountable

    • @mrjuicejunior
      @mrjuicejunior 3 дня назад

      Throwback when on the news a British woman who was a 13 year old boy's dentist assaulted the boy and there were blue checkmarks on Twitter with those exact words

    • @boldnbrash214
      @boldnbrash214 2 дня назад +3

      That just reminded me of that South Park episode with Ike and his teacher.

  • @TheSaphireKatana
    @TheSaphireKatana 12 дней назад +173

    Only gets worse when you try to defend yourself and are suddenly being told your physically assaulting her

  • @majoraxx2427
    @majoraxx2427 18 дней назад +7254

    The worst is “I wish it was me” 🤢

    • @Rico401Prov
      @Rico401Prov 18 дней назад +622

      You see these type of comments on videos talking about female teachers that assaulted male students. It’s disgusting

    • @trophyscene5015
      @trophyscene5015 18 дней назад +275

      I mean I understand that some people have strange fantasies and that's just something unique about the human mind, and that is that none of us are the same upstairs 🧠. However when it's obvious that someone _isn't_ into it, I definitely agree that they should be taken seriously, and given proper support.

    • @Swaggmire215
      @Swaggmire215 18 дней назад

      Straight weirdos

    • @user-ee7pz7gp6s
      @user-ee7pz7gp6s 17 дней назад +23

      ​@@Rico401Provstupid comparison. Those teachers arent assaulting anyone

    • @realnikka2446
      @realnikka2446 17 дней назад +36

      i wish it was me tho

  • @isidornimages
    @isidornimages 19 дней назад +3092

    "You're assaulting her by calling out her assaulting"
    Yep, that's how society works.

    • @trophyscene5015
      @trophyscene5015 18 дней назад +50

      There are pros and cons in life for both genders - it's awful being a woman for many reasons, and it's awful being a man for plenty of reasons as well. In fact I'd say it's probably a very even balance, and life is equally difficult for both genders but for very different reasons 💁‍♂️
      If I had to choose though, I would still choose to be a man, because having tons of physical strength/capabilities for your entire life is very important and useful as a human being in endless ways. And no periods ever lol.

    • @Soto-
      @Soto- 18 дней назад +28

      ​@@trophyscene5015 being able to 🚽 standing up is worth the hardships.

    • @TheRealSuperKirby
      @TheRealSuperKirby 17 дней назад +1

      Also how Cyber bullying on the internet works

    • @user-yy8ff1wv8w
      @user-yy8ff1wv8w 17 дней назад +11

      @@Soto- Women can do that too. You ever been to the club before?

    • @musiccer7446
      @musiccer7446 17 дней назад

      @@trophyscene5015you’re obviously a woman writing this. Physical strength is not very useful anymore, women get assaulted less by men than other men. You get a lot more sympathy even when something terrible does happen. You usually have more stable social circles and more support and help.
      A lot of men are incredibly lonely, and often it’s not their own fault.
      Don’t glamorise being a man, just as women are only valued for looks by many, men are only valued for what they bring to the table, life as an ugly woman is that of a regular man, just remember that.
      No doubt there is loads of benefits, but I personally don’t know what I would choose…

  • @kneecap9927
    @kneecap9927 13 дней назад +209

    I was molested by my cousin when i was like 9. Didn't even realise it was wrong at the time because i had no friends and had a pretty neglectful and abusive childhood. Only realised the effects it had in my midteens when puberty hit, people started paying more attention to me and a girls tried to feel me up and each time i felt sick and greatly uncomfortable. I'm 22 now. Still strugglr horribly with intimacy and mild PTSD from the experience and it only seems to get worse with time as theres still moments i discover or realise what happened is affecting me in other aspects of my life.
    Also, nobody cares or ever took it serious when i reached for help. Honestly, dont even want therapy at this point just to have a professional potentially brush me off.

    • @Keaton42
      @Keaton42 11 дней назад +14

      That's terrible, trauma can have awful effects on people. Men are not excluded from trauma during experiences like this. I really hope you're doing better now. Next time someone touches you unconsented, don't be hesitant to teach them a lesson to make sure they never do that to someone again. And so they can realize the pain it brings to you and anyone else they might do it to

    • @purpseatpeeps8641
      @purpseatpeeps8641 4 дня назад +1

      If it’s any consolation, they definitely won’t. I’ve never been through an experience like your’s, but I similarly didn’t trust the idea of therapy, but most therapists you can get are going to be very supportive and genuinely will listen to you and try to help, if you ever feel like you don’t click with one of them, you can usually start seeing a different one easily enough.

    • @Littlefighter1911
      @Littlefighter1911 4 дня назад +3

      (Jump to [Jump here] if you're not interested in my story)
      When I was about to turn 8, the neighbor girl I had a crush on talked me into having sex with her (on her 9th birthday).
      I had no clue what that was aside from rumors and only knew it's purpose for reproduction and was a bit curious after everything she told me then.
      So I agreed hesitantly.
      After she did a bit of things to me, she demanded I did the same to her and I was like:
      "Fuck no".
      She then told me extremely seriously that she will tell around the school, that I forced her to do that, if I don't comply. I didn't comprehend, but obliged. That girl what infinitely more intelligent than me at the time and I didn't want to find out, what that meant.
      I did what she demanded, but started sobbing a bit into it. I think once she realized that, she told me I could stop.
      After all that was over she apologized, but told me, if I told anyone about this, my parents would be gone, whatever that meant. Not that I took that very seriously, but it did tell me I was in for a bad time, if I tried talking to someone.
      Long story short, she nagged me about (mostly oral) sex with her for the next year, which I did, because just like you I didn't really have other friends,
      while reciprocating the bare minimum to keep me going.
      When I went to my mom with that, she didn't take me serious and was sure that I just didn't know what "sleeping with someone" means and brushed it off as play.
      Then, after I was simping too hard for that girl, she wanted to cut contact with me, and offered to hook me up with another girl I had a crush on. Needlessly to say, it was a stupid idea let the girl that initially SA'ed you help you, because you don't feel confident and we proceeded doing a similar mistake.
      I felt like shit for years to come because of that (a mistake I did when I was 8).
      Sex ed in school was horror because of that, when you finally learn what you should have known and learn that it was extremely bad and no one would believe you and you would probably be the only one held accountable. It only added insult to injury.
      [Jump here]
      I'm 27 now, so 18 years later and I'm still afraid of falling in love again,
      because how on earth am I going to tell that a potential partner?
      That's when my "mild PTSD" is triggered.
      Am I even going to tell them? If so, when?
      What do I answer if they ask if I had experience before?
      I had this so often and I don't want to lie...
      I also don't want to scare them...
      I don't want to seem weak...
      I don't want to seem insane...
      I don't want to seem manipulative...
      How do you even have "normal" sex? Did I "learn" it wrong?
      Shit was fine during teen, I could just postpone this indefinitely, but now I really can't/shouldn't.
      And I think THIS is important to you.
      I've met my former best friend last year, he does his PhD in psychology.
      I talked with him about it after I found out it's exactly his field of specialization.
      All I can tell you is, that it helped me immensely and almost immediately.
      I don't even think I *need* therapy.
      But if I had it, I would probably do a lot better.
      I think in your case you should definitely give it a try.
      The earlier you get this sorted out, the better your memory is
      and the less long it will affect you.
      After all, if your shoulder is dislocated you go to the chiropractor.
      Why not do the same with a professional for these cases?

    • @kneecap9927
      @kneecap9927 4 дня назад +2

      @@Littlefighter1911 Thank you. Hearng this from someone who can relate is meaningful and means more than you know. I think eventually, might give it a try but for now, I've absorbed myself in work and trying to focus on helping m family. Right now, I need the distraction because every momentary pause in my day where my mind is not occupied, it just drifts back to that and I can't stand it.
      But truly, thank you. Even though I'm not ready to deal with it with confrontation, you revived the hope I have that one day I can be relieved of my suffering. God bless you

    • @Littlefighter1911
      @Littlefighter1911 4 дня назад

      @@kneecap9927 I know, I know unfortunately 😕
      I'm glad I could help. And to me, I got out of this thinking cycle again, mostly.
      I wish you best of luck 🤞

  • @Loveistheanswer248
    @Loveistheanswer248 13 дней назад +90

    Nobody with a soul / conscience likes to be treated like an object, whether female or male.

  • @shaystenhuerta418
    @shaystenhuerta418 19 дней назад +5852

    "What if I was a child?"
    "Who cares? You got lucky young"
    Sad that this happens

    • @JordanWheeler1999
      @JordanWheeler1999 19 дней назад +30

      Bruh

    • @shaystenhuerta418
      @shaystenhuerta418 19 дней назад +279

      @@JordanWheeler1999 I don't know whether you think I'm weird for thinking this or if I'm right, but look up any time a child was found of being r@'d by his teacher and the internet says "lucky". Just saying. It's sad.

    • @JordanWheeler1999
      @JordanWheeler1999 19 дней назад +23

      @@shaystenhuerta418 I'm not going to look that shit up

    • @shaystenhuerta418
      @shaystenhuerta418 19 дней назад +139

      @@JordanWheeler1999 Then just know that the Internet is what I described. They see that as "lucky."

    • @Tylarrisbetter
      @Tylarrisbetter 19 дней назад +74

      Eww, people actually say that?

  • @tra_stay_winning
    @tra_stay_winning 19 дней назад +15805

    Being called diddy bc you were diddied is crazy😂😂

    • @Diamondr11Blue
      @Diamondr11Blue 19 дней назад +390

      Bro was diddIed 😟

    • @riskiyasser
      @riskiyasser 19 дней назад +44

      What is diddy?

    • @johnlewis8934
      @johnlewis8934 19 дней назад

      ​@riskiyasser basically, this dude was a preditor in the rap industry and assaulted everyone men, and women. The industry kept it as an open secret, and no one did anything until recently. Glad he is finally paying for the harm he has done, but it's steal a lot more out there than just him

    • @moses4769
      @moses4769 19 дней назад +92

      Diddy = gay​@@riskiyasser

    • @Kizz217
      @Kizz217 19 дней назад +34

      @@riskiyasseror you can say No Diddy for now on

  • @maximumforce8275
    @maximumforce8275 14 дней назад +200

    I love how theres no music in this one because its an actual serious problem in our society.

  • @faithcyan2462
    @faithcyan2462 12 дней назад +90

    As a female, that piss me off when that woman touch that celebrity dude during that livestream. That could have been my son, my brother, my dad or any male figure in my life. 😡

    • @teamofwinter8128
      @teamofwinter8128 2 дня назад +6

      Thank you for being a reasonable person

    • @faithcyan2462
      @faithcyan2462 2 дня назад +1

      @@teamofwinter8128 you're welcome. Finding a reasonable person is rare. I understand your struggle...trust me....😂 ☕

    • @Mrlemon896
      @Mrlemon896 День назад

      ​@@faithcyan2462 yeah,honestly most people are either entitled pieces of shit or just braindead zombies at this point...

  • @HabitualThinker
    @HabitualThinker 19 дней назад +7781

    “Just enjoy it bro” is crazy lmfao I hate how accurate it is

    • @ucbucb30
      @ucbucb30 19 дней назад +106

      That shit took me out 😭

    • @iCantEditBro
      @iCantEditBro 19 дней назад

      I had the fat ass in highschool and got sexually assaulted like 4 times because of it. Shit bothered me, lost enough weight I ain't got the ass no more :/

    • @servantofthetruth8203
      @servantofthetruth8203 19 дней назад +15

      💯

    • @TheSongofSaya
      @TheSongofSaya 19 дней назад +84

      when simps tell me I gotta give it all to the woman and not have boundaries

    • @lemonnade5974
      @lemonnade5974 19 дней назад +37

      Tbh when I was in school almost every boy in my class dreamed of being graped by our history teacher 🤣

  • @Neonrena
    @Neonrena 16 дней назад +3911

    To any men that this has happened to. I’m sorry, it wasn’t right and you didn’t deserve it.

    • @dragoon260
      @dragoon260 14 дней назад +13

      Womp womp
      Game is Game

    • @Neonrena
      @Neonrena 14 дней назад +165

      @@dragoon260 ?

    • @chargemankent
      @chargemankent 14 дней назад

      The frick did you do to all those men, you psycho??!!

    • @Norrabal_anims
      @Norrabal_anims 14 дней назад +149

      ​@@Neonrena rage bait

    • @egoistagattoildiofelino7942
      @egoistagattoildiofelino7942 14 дней назад +83

      ​@@Norrabal_anims That's being insensitive and childish, it's not a rage bait. There are times for jokes and times for reflection, this is the latter.

  • @user-dp9tx2zt2k
    @user-dp9tx2zt2k 13 дней назад +116

    As a woman i cannot verbally explain how this video has hit me and when i read the comments i was hella shocked i really didn't know this happens to men as well. It's such a shame for the society, and I'm sorry for everyone who have gone through that

    • @amazingturtle5075
      @amazingturtle5075 13 дней назад +40

      That’s because society only paints men as the attackers and women as the victims. When in reality we’re all humans. And attackers/assaulters belong to both sexes. The real pain is it doubles down where people don’t believe a man can be a victim “well you had to get hard so you had to like it right?” Then on top of being a victim and having to live with that without any support or being able to share, they’re constantly chastised 24/7 for being male. (Lookin at you “come across a man or a bear” fad)

    • @bear33333
      @bear33333 12 дней назад

      It's cause it mostly men doing it to each other. I know women do this too but I feel like most women would have empathy for the victims automatically. Men teach each other that all men should want is s3x. So they don't see how they could be a victim. Women definitely do this too though.

    • @ToddTalksReal
      @ToddTalksReal 6 дней назад +6

      Finally, a women in her right mind. Thank you!

    • @user-dp9tx2zt2k
      @user-dp9tx2zt2k 6 дней назад

      That's so true actually and society hid this from all the woman​@@amazingturtle5075

    • @user-dp9tx2zt2k
      @user-dp9tx2zt2k 6 дней назад

      ​​@@ToddTalksRealuh.. actually I haven't seen a girl who knew that woman also assaults men as everyone hid it and its just the way the shitty society is we gotta be aware

  • @applesauce4389
    @applesauce4389 11 дней назад +35

    I used to work at a hospital. My job had me up in our psychiatric units multiple times a week. There was a woman up there that would be there for a few weeks, then gone for a few, then back. She became convinced that we were dating. It started as just saying hello and calling me "boyfriend". It made me uncomfortable, so I told the nurses on the floor. They smirked and said not to worry, she wasn't dangerous. A few months passed, and she was convinced that we were married. She bragged to all the nurses everytime I'd walk by. One day, she tried to hug me, and I slipped away. The nurses had to restrain her with how violent she got. I told my boss about this encounter and how incredibly uncomfortable I was. She laughed in my face and told me "A big man like you'll be fine. Just try to avoid her". I went to her boss, the director of food services, he also laughed at me. I quit later that day

    • @carlospomares3225
      @carlospomares3225 10 дней назад +13

      Makes my blood boil with how many people have the privative thinking "Oh, you big strong man. You *can and should* endure anything you don't like" I'm glad that you had enough self-respect to try to advocate for yourself and quit when they didn't take you seriously. Hope you are doing well now, brother!

    • @josephkashompa2450
      @josephkashompa2450 9 дней назад +8

      i hope you can find a better job apple.

  • @chelolistic
    @chelolistic 19 дней назад +5163

    «Queeeeerrr…. We forgot that one » 💀💀💀

    • @asadcoltes5020
      @asadcoltes5020 19 дней назад +85

      Shii had me weak 😭💀

    • @1501JayStarks
      @1501JayStarks 19 дней назад +12

      Dam😂

    • @aspectra1418
      @aspectra1418 19 дней назад +44

      Sounds like something from south park lmao💀

    • @weesyhd1439
      @weesyhd1439 19 дней назад +14

      Was looking for this one 😂

    • @vincehardy5190
      @vincehardy5190 19 дней назад +3

      I did forget. I think their was a football game about it or something

  • @nothanks71
    @nothanks71 16 дней назад +2562

    I saw a young man say he started going to the gym so "he'd be strong enough to not let a man assault him again" and the comments were deadass full of grownass men calling him gay.
    The fact that Diddy did what he did and people were more shocked that he was "gay" than what he did says a lot.

    • @gorbo3040
      @gorbo3040 16 дней назад +75

      being assaulted by a man is much different than being assaulted by a woman. And being assaulted as a child is much different than being assaulted as an adult. They're all bad, anything that is done to you without your consent is unacceptable and wrong, but there are different levels of trauma.

    • @m.a.1765
      @m.a.1765 16 дней назад +321

      ​@@gorbo3040 The levels of trauma thar someone experiences by who assaults them is completely dependent on the person.

    • @Jus4fun-mg5xg
      @Jus4fun-mg5xg 16 дней назад +10

      Not people, men.

    • @maxl8623
      @maxl8623 15 дней назад +126

      @@gorbo3040. If the implication is that being assaulted by a man is inherently more traumatic I’m gonna have to disagree 200%.
      Are men physically stronger? Yes. But women are also socially stronger in the SA sphere. Less physical presence during the assault doesn’t suddenly make it less traumatic, it just makes the same amount of trauma different

    • @Jake38nine
      @Jake38nine 15 дней назад

      Those aren't grown ass men. Those are perpetual boys who hit puberty and never matured. Maturity is mental, not physical. You can be 60 and still act like a 16 year old.

  • @pinktetris
    @pinktetris 14 дней назад +95

    Real shit. Last week when I was at the bar, this drunk woman literally threw her entire body into this man who was NOT interested in her at all. She then further harassed him by forcing him to dance with her. I felt so horrible for him because as a man he felt like he was not allowed to just say no and deem it harassment. She was horrid

  • @tprime2702
    @tprime2702 15 дней назад +76

    It's so funny because when I started working out, dieting, and cutting, my body changed and I noticed that my female colleagues would touch my arms and stomach without my consent.
    These were my nurse coworkers who are trained to know better, some of whom were married, and when I complained about it to HR, the woman handling it originally laughed at the issue. I'm grateful that there was another guy there that took it seriously because he had experienced this as well from other women.

  • @abduahs9366
    @abduahs9366 18 дней назад +2008

    It's how they turned him into the bad guy for me.
    "If you don't let her assault you, it's rape."

    • @StrikeDuelist
      @StrikeDuelist 16 дней назад +12

      haha xD

    • @Skdiehsudue1
      @Skdiehsudue1 16 дней назад +8

      Yall forget the key reason yalls generation is soft it's ultimate up to the people to decide if they wanna live in a mature society or a society where your brain develops at 25

    • @Skdiehsudue1
      @Skdiehsudue1 16 дней назад

      Yall only say that because this generation is stupid back then boys matured at a younger age there's nothing wrong with a boy keeping his tribe alive

    • @Skdiehsudue1
      @Skdiehsudue1 16 дней назад +6

      Yall only say that because this generation is underdeveloped
      back then boys matured at a younger age they took care of the village there's nothing wrong with a boy keeping his tribe alive

    • @onesyphorus
      @onesyphorus 16 дней назад +11

      it sounds so stupid but sadly there ARE ppl like that 🤦🏾🙄

  • @KingMuncheez
    @KingMuncheez 17 дней назад +3096

    Literally was hard R’d and at the trial my family called me so many f’s that the judge almost threw my mom in jail for making such a disturbance. I will never forgive that woman for that. Police treated me like a joke and the advocate assigned to me just abandoned me. Job terminated me while I was on leave for mental health then fought me IN COURT over unemployment. It’s sick how this country views men now. WE ARE HUMAN TOO GOD DAMNIT!

    • @bcj842
      @bcj842 16 дней назад +397

      This is horrifying. And people wonder why men keep trauma and things to themselves. If anything bad happens to you, it's always more trouble than it's worth to seek justice or support for it.

    • @onesyphorus
      @onesyphorus 16 дней назад +189

      im disgusted. at everyone but especially no mother should do that
      so backwards

    • @stephensaltau6481
      @stephensaltau6481 16 дней назад

      Yeah,human turds

    • @nodeloliver6201
      @nodeloliver6201 15 дней назад +99

      I couldn't imagine being in the sort of situation. Mine was an isolated incident. I never talked about it. I can't even fathom that level of betrayal. From family too.

    • @WeebtasticPrime
      @WeebtasticPrime 15 дней назад +51

      Not country bro, most of the world

  • @heyheyhey40
    @heyheyhey40 13 дней назад +97

    As a 16 year old working on my first job, there was a woman in her late 30s that used to always come over to my station and slap me on the butt. She also used to flirt with me and touch me in other places it made me feel very uncomfortable, and I never wanted her to do it, but I also never reported it

    • @bmendez3782
      @bmendez3782 9 дней назад +22

      Wait hold up despite them knowing about your age they decided to do inappropriate things to you? ok how is that this lady pervert isn't in jail right now sexually assaulting a minor? Smh.

    • @heyheyhey40
      @heyheyhey40 9 дней назад

      @@bmendez3782 The thing that made me sad about it is: I left that job at 18 and went to college; then my little brother started working at that same place and many years later, I found out that she had done the same thing to my little brother after I had gone.

    • @youamazing41
      @youamazing41 6 дней назад

      ​@@bmendez3782
      Braindead society

    • @spudcat2127
      @spudcat2127 4 дня назад

      three numbers !!!!!!!!!!! 9 1 1 !!

    • @robinthebird6421
      @robinthebird6421 3 дня назад

      How twisted can she be? She knew your age and she still touched you? She's a pedophile.

  • @Matt_JJz
    @Matt_JJz 10 дней назад +34

    Most sexual assaults for women are never reported, it scares me to think how many sexual assaults that occur towards men aren't.

    • @snowythecolaaddict
      @snowythecolaaddict 4 дня назад

      Absolutely agree with you on that one.

    • @CrustyRL
      @CrustyRL 3 дня назад

      Percentage wise its most likely higher, but men are much less commonly sexually assaulted

  • @michaelmahabir213
    @michaelmahabir213 19 дней назад +1636

    The worst part is that society expects men to "man up" or "take it like a man".

    • @thesong7877
      @thesong7877 19 дней назад +123

      Society expects men to genuinely like it, want it, consent to it, and not feel like a victim in the first place.

    • @idontevenknow741
      @idontevenknow741 19 дней назад

      I mean yeah, man up, it’s a woman, confront the btch. It would be different if it was a man on man S A assault

    • @risingmoon2456
      @risingmoon2456 19 дней назад +45

      Or fight back then you're in the wrong for doing so

    • @MaXiMoS54
      @MaXiMoS54 19 дней назад +73

      Men aren't allowed to have problems

    • @sqwxcbc
      @sqwxcbc 19 дней назад +16

      It's not society, it's patriarchy.

  • @Ironwolf-pm7zs
    @Ironwolf-pm7zs 18 дней назад +1386

    A kid in my elementary school class was assaulted by a female teacher. I decided to look up the case today and not a single news article said the word "rape."

    • @bcj842
      @bcj842 16 дней назад +233

      Language like that is reserved for male perpetrators. Most people see that as an intrinsically masculine term.

    • @Cell9074
      @Cell9074 16 дней назад +108

      @@bcj842 it’s gross

    • @jamesmattila-hine1133
      @jamesmattila-hine1133 16 дней назад +133

      Unfortunately I think that's because of how the law is written in many places in the world that it actually requires a penetration to the body or else it doesn't count as rape.
      And a lot of people don't want that to change for some weird reason

    • @TopFix
      @TopFix 16 дней назад

      ​@@jamesmattila-hine1133 It's always r@pe regardless when it comes to being underage. It's r@pe because minors can never consent.

    • @ZeApostle
      @ZeApostle 16 дней назад

      ​@@jamesmattila-hine1133because those people are sexist assholes

  • @amazingturtle5075
    @amazingturtle5075 13 дней назад +47

    Bro amen. There was a girl at work (when I was 17) who would and like I was raised super Christian so a little more prudish, never liked physical contact and was waiting till marriage.
    She’d always walk up while I was working, and just latch on with a hug and let her arms, “wander”. I’d ask her to let go and she’d always just reply with “no not until you say you love me” and.. I would. Just to get her off. Went on for a long time, no one did anything I would ask for help even from my other female friends and they just thought it was weird I wasn’t into it, and my guy friends didn’t know how to help because they’d never heard of a guy not being into it. It got to the point where everyone thought I was gay, because I said I hated it and didn’t like being touched. Then all the girls I worked with were always like “it’s ok to come out, you don’t have to be ashamed” and it’s like there was nothing I could do. Just had everyone gaslighting me into trying to be gay just because I was sexually assaulted. Now I’m anxious and super insecure about everyone thinking I’m gay even though it happened years ago and I know I’m straight.
    Freakin sucks dude

    • @SAMUEL-rw7ud
      @SAMUEL-rw7ud 13 дней назад +6

      So crazy man, hope you recover from that awful experience. God Bless you brother.

    • @justnothing1234
      @justnothing1234 2 дня назад +1

      Thats terrible sir, being religious and was thought gay just because didn't like to be touched. I wouldn't like that too because it's prohibited in my religion to do physical contact with another female (except family). Hope we all have a good day

    • @amiable_monster
      @amiable_monster 2 дня назад

      I'm sorry. It's normal that you don't want to be touched without consent as straight man. Don't listen to other people who have worms in their brains. Hope you'll heal

  • @xt3rm1nat0r8
    @xt3rm1nat0r8 13 дней назад +102

    Yupp been there. The girl classmate came at my home for "study help" and just came on me and took my shirt off and stuff and all happened. Don't ask me why I as a guy being strong didn't do anything, I was paralysed by the shock by the time I realised what happened it was already happened. I told my friends and they said "you must have enjoyed it at least right? Then what's the deal. Or else you were stronger than a girl you could've stopped her". I didn't tell many people coz I felt the girl must have had some confused feelings and she don't deserve to have her name slandered coz of one misunderstanding.
    And guess what, that girl told her friends that I forced her when she had come at my house for study. And then her firends told everyone and I was isolated and alienated for the entire college duration. Thanks to my homies who trusted in me and knew what kinda person I am. They stayed with me and used to hangout with me.

    • @grvnbrwn3761
      @grvnbrwn3761 10 дней назад +1

      I mean if u didn’t want it to happen u literally could’ve told her to stop, say it’s inappropriate maybe even tell someone what she tried to do and that’s that, if u let it happen u probably didn’t have a problem with it happening u weren’t “paralyzed” unless she drugged u or something

    • @grvnbrwn3761
      @grvnbrwn3761 10 дней назад +6

      But the girl saying u forced her his crazy

    • @kokushibo6823
      @kokushibo6823 7 дней назад

      @@grvnbrwn3761??he was shocked and couldn’t believe what was happening

    • @catbatrat1760
      @catbatrat1760 6 дней назад +22

      @@grvnbrwn3761 Dude, that's not how it works. Have you ever heard the phrase "deer in the headlights"? Sometimes, people freeze up. It's a natural and valid response to shocking, terrifying situations like this.

    • @grvnbrwn3761
      @grvnbrwn3761 6 дней назад +3

      @@catbatrat1760 sure u could freeze up for a few secs but letting her get her way with u is crazy, it’s like saying u see Godzilla from miles away and it shocked u but u choose not to run away and stand there until he steps on u because your shocked? Like that makes no sense when u had so much time to run away but u stand there and do nothing the whole time because of shock? Oh please, it’s not like she pinned him down and was stronger than him or he was drugged or something, he wasn’t paralyzed. Yeah he was in utter shock for a few secs, but it wasn’t like his soul left his body the whole time it happened bro, he obviously let that happen, he was in complete control of himself in that situation, terrified? Lol please it’s a harmless girl that’s just tryna get freaky, it’s rape when the person that’s being raped literally can’t do anything and it’s against their own will, it’s completely different when u are able to stop the situation, bro literally could just get the girl off him but he let it happen for who knows how long, it’s not like she pointed a gun to his head the whole time it happened, if he didn’t want it to happen why did he let it happen? He must’ve liked it, froze my ahhh

  • @BedroomView
    @BedroomView 16 дней назад +1167

    “If you don’t let her assault you, you’re assaulting her” bro they do this deadass if you say no

    • @aerynventress7702
      @aerynventress7702 13 дней назад +33

      That is SO fucked up.

    • @ThatGuy-lv7hf
      @ThatGuy-lv7hf 11 дней назад +1

      Most r4pe are done by men. And even when another man gets assaulted men themselves celebrated it. Men are taught to be perverts and most people are denying this.

    • @ThatGuy-lv7hf
      @ThatGuy-lv7hf 11 дней назад +1

      Most rаре are done by men. And even when another man gets assaulted men themselves celebrated it. Men are taught to be реrvеrts cuz they think its cool. people are really denying this problem.

    • @ThatGuy-lv7hf
      @ThatGuy-lv7hf 11 дней назад

      Most assaults are done by men and even when another man gets аssаulted, they themselves celebrated it. Men are taught to be perverts and people are denying this.

    • @Indon-tq7nm
      @Indon-tq7nm 11 дней назад

      Most such cases are done by men. And even when another man gets аssаulted men themselves celebrated it. People always fail to realize that this is men's own fault

  • @NathanTheWhatever
    @NathanTheWhatever 16 дней назад +1475

    When a woman gets tapped on the shoulder by a man, everyone in the room would accuse that man of sexual assault in less than 5 seconds.

    • @bigk.thekomik6983
      @bigk.thekomik6983 15 дней назад +216

      This very exact thing happened to me when I was 17. I tapped a girl’s shoulder as I literally said “Hi” to her, got suspended for 15 days and charged with assault contact.
      Even worse, earlier that same school year, I reported TWO female students who kept grabbing my ass to that same principal, and he didn’t do a damn thing to them.

    • @NathanTheWhatever
      @NathanTheWhatever 15 дней назад

      @@bigk.thekomik6983 Yikes, now THAT sucks. Nobody really cares about the men getting SA’d. It’s the women that matter because they’re the ones who can get pregnant. But still, depending on how a man gets SA’d, he can become infertile and never have an offspring.

    • @andreimcallister1365
      @andreimcallister1365 15 дней назад

      @@bigk.thekomik6983?????

    • @laweenerafiqahmed3293
      @laweenerafiqahmed3293 15 дней назад

      @@bigk.thekomik6983Im sorry to hear that

    • @KentPetersonmoney
      @KentPetersonmoney 15 дней назад +78

      ​​​@@bigk.thekomik6983principle sound like a jerk. You should not have even gotten detention for touching a girl shoulder let along suspended. I would get hit by kids and teachers wouldn't do nothing . Should have reported that principle and gotten them fired.

  • @kami_duuuh
    @kami_duuuh 8 дней назад +19

    As a woman, i am disgusted at people that assume that male victims aren’t as bad as female victims. They both are called VICTIMS for a reason and should be shown comfort to instead of bullying them.

    • @Buhhhhhhhhhhhh
      @Buhhhhhhhhhhhh 2 дня назад

      Ikr! I’m a woman too and like it’s so fucking disgusting that society has these standards. I don’t think we’ll ever reach true equality because of all the stereotypes put on each gender. Like WE’RE ALL HUMAN!

  • @luvedrage3578
    @luvedrage3578 15 дней назад +34

    The amount of times I’ve seen the comment “where were these teachers when I was in school”… and “why would he snitch”, huh?

    • @phanepacc5065
      @phanepacc5065 13 дней назад

      These people have never been assaulted or had anyone they love get assaulted, probably little kids too

  • @jons9584
    @jons9584 19 дней назад +1703

    As a man of 32, being sexually assaulted at the age of 12.....this is the reason I never spoke up. Thank you Griffy!!!!

    • @QU141.
      @QU141. 19 дней назад +134

      got assaulted at the same age by two 8th graders, still mad i didnt report them or anything

    • @Davidscomix
      @Davidscomix 19 дней назад +98

      Sorry that the both of you experienced that, hope you both stay strong and gain the courage to speak out

    • @Nymerian_
      @Nymerian_ 19 дней назад +68

      @@QU141. were they hot tho?

    • @user-wo2ky2cr8j
      @user-wo2ky2cr8j 19 дней назад +90

      ​@@Nymerian_wtf

    • @JST03
      @JST03 19 дней назад

      ​@@Nymerian_ seek help

  • @inanimatesum4945
    @inanimatesum4945 19 дней назад +2816

    Terry Crews still hasn't recovered from telling his story and the fact that MeToo people dialed it back because they would have to acknowledge men who were assaulted is the most disgusting part of the movement.

    • @VDOTU5
      @VDOTU5 19 дней назад +172

      That needed to happen to show that equality is still an uphill battle.

    • @greywitchwanderer9608
      @greywitchwanderer9608 19 дней назад

      😢Terry Crews came out saying it was MEN who clowned him and specifically black women who seemed to have empathy for him. Every time women acknowledge this fact, guys want to go on about women doing it too. Sure some women do. But not as much as men. You can see men in the comments on this post saying they wish they were assaulted and how it isnt serious. It doesnt seem we can progress until THAT is thoroughly acknowledged. What it seems like to me is that men specifically want WOMEN to take male sa seriously. They know men make light of it more than women do, but still want to put the onus of the issue on women because they feel as if women are treated better when they vome forward. They are shamed too in different ways than men. All sa should be taken seriously. What I dont understand about stuff like male sa and men's mental health issues is why MEN do absolutely nothing about these issues but complain that women dont care about them. If men know these issues exist why arent THEY opening mental health centers for men, or having seminars? Men seem more likely to get on a podcast and talk about how terrible women are and how irrational and stupid women are, and how useless women are aside from looks, than to come together and heal one another. They only bond over their hatred of women. Even here you see men not calling out other men making light of this issue only to fixate on hypotheticals or examples of women not caring. I care. But men shouldn't care if we care. They should have a brotherhood with one another on their own merits instead of trauma bonding over everything awful about women, have women see how their emotions are mocked, they are seen as seggs objects, and the utter lack of empathy for women while expecting women to ignore what they see and step up for men anyway. You guys dont like us. We get it. So love one another at least. Don't expect women to express the same behaviour towards men that men mock and ridicule as symptoms of weakness. I hope these issues are taken seriously for the betterment of humanity. But it isnt being looked at objectively. It isnt another pissing contest for men and women. We cant even unite on issues that affect us both in a painful way. Instead it devolves into what women don't do, or how women have it easier, or women lie more. Why would women show empathy when they receive none. Its as if men think they are obligated to care about women's issues but cant help but make it very clear they not only do not care, they resent pretending like they do. They hate pretending to care about women. But since women are these docile, harmless, nurturing creatures, they should live for showing men how much they care even in the face of the disgust they show women. They want women to love men more than themselves. They want women to love men more than MEN love themselves.

    • @kawaiionee-chan9557
      @kawaiionee-chan9557 18 дней назад +301

      Yeah Me too was all for women being the primary and automatic victims but the minute men are victims as well, suddenly they are quiet. Like no no where the fucking safety for men

    • @SnerMerNer
      @SnerMerNer 18 дней назад +110

      @@VDOTU5… I fail to see any way that women are treated worse than men. I only see men being treated bad by women. Equality has been here for a long time. Now it’s just rampant misandry.

    • @alihamza-4812
      @alihamza-4812 18 дней назад

      Now Terry Crews was assaulted by a man. The reaction is quite different when it's the man doing the assaulting, you can't retaliate against a woman because of how society works but you can definitely retaliate against a man and the society will support you. So its a bad comparison. Also, personally, I wouldn't let a man assault me like that, he getting these hands.

  • @BlanKaiYT
    @BlanKaiYT 14 дней назад +51

    1:08 "It's okay to be gay if you're actually gay, but not if you're straight. Then it's not okay... t-to gay."

  • @SleepyySoL
    @SleepyySoL 11 дней назад +22

    Im not a guy, im a young woman whos been sexualized and assulted all of my life, i know how it feels when no one hears you. Society is messed up all together, the system is corrupted. Theres women who dont get help but most are able to. I just hope its like that for the men in these situations one day and hopefully soon. If you need help please dont give up on getting it.💌

    • @rominagresely526
      @rominagresely526 10 дней назад +3

      You're a real queen 👑.

    • @SleepyySoL
      @SleepyySoL 10 дней назад

      I'm no queen I'm just telling it how it is ❤️‍🩹 I hope everyone could get the help they need one day

  • @lilrav4125
    @lilrav4125 19 дней назад +2060

    not 10 seconds in and this is already not playable in speakers

    • @firstavenger212
      @firstavenger212 19 дней назад +24

      😂😂😂😂

    • @Jeff-tt7wj
      @Jeff-tt7wj 19 дней назад +134

      If you’re watching a Griffy video expecting to play it on speakers, you’re on the wrong channel. 😂

    • @miscvids2810
      @miscvids2810 19 дней назад +3

      Lmao

    • @ItzzShazey
      @ItzzShazey 19 дней назад +3

      you want to cry about it?

    • @TYfariguy
      @TYfariguy 19 дней назад

      As someone who had everyone in Walmart turn around at “my penis” being shouted….. correct

  • @etantife
    @etantife 19 дней назад +1538

    I was SAd while on a work trip by an airline employee. I had lawyer tell me straight to me face “cmon man. You’re a grown man and you’re not a little girl. You’ll get over it.”

    • @Diamondr11Blue
      @Diamondr11Blue 18 дней назад +245

      Wow. Managing to be double sxist ar the same time.

    • @rwalker0130
      @rwalker0130 18 дней назад +169

      might wanna find a new lawyer dog

    • @YovaniBinuelo
      @YovaniBinuelo 18 дней назад +46

      Im sorry that happen bro 😕

    • @mimszanadunstedt441
      @mimszanadunstedt441 17 дней назад +7

      @@Diamondr11Blue thats how it works

    • @Diamondr11Blue
      @Diamondr11Blue 17 дней назад +6

      @@mimszanadunstedt441 what

  • @ThomasAndSkye
    @ThomasAndSkye 14 дней назад +88

    hey, man here. I've been SA. nothing was ever done. i do have some trauma from what happened too. police didn't care, family didn't care...

    • @water__cat5400
      @water__cat5400 14 дней назад +3

      I’m sorry that it happened to you. I hope you feel better or something

    • @agruntindisguise5021
      @agruntindisguise5021 14 дней назад +6

      That sucks bud, hopefully someday, someone will be able to help you overcome it man.

    • @ThomasAndSkye
      @ThomasAndSkye 14 дней назад +3

      @agruntindisguise5021 well, I have my partner Skye who is super supportive and understanding. I just wish something could've been done about it I terms of getting cops involved

  • @kiryuyoshikage4293
    @kiryuyoshikage4293 5 дней назад +14

    "Man can only do the assaulting"
    Me:"pull out the ASSAULT rifle"

  • @DemonInfused
    @DemonInfused 16 дней назад +603

    I got assaulted at school many times throughout my highschool years, my female teacher told me: "Guys can't be assaulted, she's probably just playing around, I think you're overreacting"

    • @kushbluntsgucci4203
      @kushbluntsgucci4203 16 дней назад

      Trust that's why I don't let them come close I practiced Kobe spin moves to avoid my dick being grabbed

    • @eldenemerald7962
      @eldenemerald7962 15 дней назад

      Your teacher is stupid. Know that people like her are not the determinants of what is valid and what isn't. Don't listen to her, many people stand with you.

    • @Keaton42
      @Keaton42 11 дней назад +50

      Bro that's horrible, I really hope you're doing better because nobody should have to go through that 🙏

    • @DENT9330
      @DENT9330 7 дней назад +13

      Sorry to hear that bro.

    • @mrfatrata7038
      @mrfatrata7038 5 дней назад

      That’s when you should start using your beautiful fist

  • @ampocalypsew3883
    @ampocalypsew3883 16 дней назад +713

    Nah the worst part is being in a relationship while another woman SA you, and if you tell yo girl she will act as if you cheated or you shouldn't have let it happen.

    • @SupHapCak
      @SupHapCak 15 дней назад +9

      Still like
      You sat back and let it happen
      Unless he was tied up, or drugged, you should be fighting tooth and nail and handing out concussions to keep people away from your bits.

    • @ampocalypsew3883
      @ampocalypsew3883 15 дней назад +65

      @@SupHapCak hmmhmmm

    • @ltb1345
      @ltb1345 15 дней назад +54

      @@SupHapCak Well yeah, he probably would've been drugged or drunk in that situation.

    • @oasjemdso4672
      @oasjemdso4672 15 дней назад +1

      @@SupHapCak tbh even if you fought them off theres a good chance they would sue and the court would probably still side with the woman.
      There was a court case in 1993 where a boy was raped when he was 13 by a 17 year old girl, who got pregnant after raping him. The court said that the 13yo who got raped had to pay child support.

    • @sakurahirawa
      @sakurahirawa 14 дней назад +83

      @@SupHapCaknot everyone has a fight response, some people freeze instead - especially in certain social situations.

  • @hellodude9929
    @hellodude9929 9 дней назад +14

    idgaf whos trying to assault me, i wont look at them as a man or a woman, i will look at them as an attacker, and i will defend myself rightfully

    • @TheAmericanTroll
      @TheAmericanTroll 7 дней назад +5

      Equal rights equal fights

    • @danielg778c3
      @danielg778c3 3 дня назад

      Yeah but if it is a woman you are reaaaaally fucked up thats the thing

    • @Updated_logger
      @Updated_logger 2 дня назад

      I got mad respect for u 🙏💯

  • @Madame_Reina
    @Madame_Reina 12 дней назад +17

    Genuinely wish society wasn't so braindead. Sexual assault is sexual assault, no matter the gender

  • @sjr100
    @sjr100 16 дней назад +508

    Whenever a male high school student is assaulted by a female teacher, majority of comments are "I wish I had a teacher like that when I was in highschool".

    • @joshuajefferson3504
      @joshuajefferson3504 13 дней назад +3

      😂😂😂 are you serious ?

    • @enlightened7master
      @enlightened7master 13 дней назад +29

      ⁠@@joshuajefferson3504 It is easy to believe, so I am not sure how you can wonder that. Yes, a lot of males who have not experienced it think that way.

    • @bear33333
      @bear33333 12 дней назад

      ​@@joshuajefferson3504look up high school teacher arrest for abusing student and you'll see it. The comments are always other guys saying the kid should have enjoyed it

    • @ThatGuy-lv7hf
      @ThatGuy-lv7hf 11 дней назад +7

      almost like males themselves are celebrating and liking this

    • @januszpolak254
      @januszpolak254 11 дней назад +14

      And the worst part is that 99% of this comments come from other men.

  • @MKJ_Clipz
    @MKJ_Clipz 19 дней назад +1693

    “Let it happen” is crazy 💀

    • @ucbucb30
      @ucbucb30 19 дней назад +15

      Fr 😭

    • @arnoldziffel4943
      @arnoldziffel4943 19 дней назад +18

      But true

    • @leviismyoppa967
      @leviismyoppa967 19 дней назад +3

      I just started hearing the song and had to pause myself because of how fucked the situation was.

    • @trafalgarlaw8373
      @trafalgarlaw8373 19 дней назад

      Shit men used to say for women victims, same ridiculous shit

    • @Hxtice
      @Hxtice 18 дней назад +3

      Like no?? I don’t want to

  • @thebruh1883
    @thebruh1883 14 дней назад +41

    One of the saddest things about this is that a LOT of the men that say stuff like "men are supposed to enjoy it" are just parroting/repeating what they were told by those types of women. Hell, if you actually look into it, most of them were assaulted too, but they don't even know that what happened was assault because they were gaslit to hell and back by their abuser. This gaslighting goes back DECADES. "Men always enjoy it" was not a sentence made by a man, it was told to men by people that should've been locked up, and then repeated to other men by the men that fell for the manipulation.
    1:21 This was pretty much legally enforced for the longest time. BY LITERAL DEFINITION men couldn't be raped, and they only VERY RECENTLY changed this. Most times a man would be raped, it would be downplayed to just assault, not even SA, because that was also downplayed to just assault. This STILL happens in a lot of places.

    • @carlospomares3225
      @carlospomares3225 10 дней назад +1

      "men should just enjoy it" is just guys collective trauma response to the fact that no one cares when men are the victims.

  • @thefilmrookie3099
    @thefilmrookie3099 9 дней назад +19

    I was sexually assaulted at a bar by a woman right in front of my friends. This woman had no boundaries, grabbing me and trying to kiss me by forcing my head around (she couldn’t get me on the lips, so she started doing it on my cheek). I was very uncomfortable and just got up and left. My friends were laughing and some of my friends were female too, so I thought at least they’d notice it’s not right to do something like that to a stranger.
    I came back a bit later, I cope with stuff like that through comedy so I just laughed and joked along with them. But while doing so I couldn’t help but think that if any of the female friends in my group were getting groped and forcibly kissed, me and the other guys would jump to defend her.
    Woman are more likely to find a man and most likely they will reciprocate. But still, whether you are a man or woman going out, to a pub or club, just stay conscious of their body language, if they don’t seem interested and not reciprocating your advances, then just let it go. Better yet, use your words.
    One of my personal favourite experiences was when this girl started dancing with me and later in the night asked if she could kiss me. She didn’t just go in for it, she was respectful and understood I was a human being and not an object and asked if it is ok. I know some people prefer to let their actions guide over words, and there are definitely ways to do it respectfully and in a way that can communicate whether she or he wants the same, but just don’t treat people like toys you can play with whenever you want.
    I probably made the most obvious essay ever, and people who commit sexual offences, especially with the likes of hard rape, know it’s wrong but do it anyways. But just recognise that everyone around you is a human being with complex feeling and emotions just like you, people don’t just exist to be played with (unless if they are into that).
    But yeah, stay safe out there ladies and gentlemen, and always have friends around when you go out, never be alone, man or woman.

    • @Ratio429
      @Ratio429 8 дней назад +4

      Big L for the first girl and your friends but a huge W for the second girl actually.

    • @justnothing1234
      @justnothing1234 2 дня назад +1

      The fact that theres comment right above that they were being assaulted at a bar too. Hope you're doing well sir

  • @jshooper7819
    @jshooper7819 19 дней назад +1112

    The sad part is that this applies to female teachers assaulting their male child students as well. No age is too young for the "he should like it" responses. It's really disgraceful.

    • @Diamondr11Blue
      @Diamondr11Blue 19 дней назад +132

      Don't forget some of those boys have to pay child support to their own of fenders .. wiId

    • @JST03
      @JST03 19 дней назад

      Or little ass boys assulted by female babysitters. Any and all forms of sexual assult perpetrated by a female assailant onto a male is generally looked at as fine or unproblematic. It's even worse tho that so many van find a way to justify a child predator by saying the boy "enjoyed" it. Many female victims "enjoy" it too by their standards, but that doesn't sway them from going after the man.

    • @Chickensammich710
      @Chickensammich710 19 дней назад +9

      Shid i wish my teacher would’ve made advances. I was also a hypersexual since puberty. So, we don’t all want the same things i guess.

    • @jshooper7819
      @jshooper7819 19 дней назад

      @@Chickensammich710 WTF kind of comment is this??? Seek therapy

    • @caiden3396
      @caiden3396 19 дней назад +27

      "Nice!😎"-People when that happens

  • @cheesyboy1627
    @cheesyboy1627 18 дней назад +547

    I remember a kid that teacher assaulted him and got pregnant, and the courts said he has to pay child support.

    • @RealAureliusCaesar
      @RealAureliusCaesar 17 дней назад +70

      its happened numerous times, almost all stemming from the hermesman v seyer case.

    • @mimszanadunstedt441
      @mimszanadunstedt441 17 дней назад +15

      maybe teachers are underpaid lol

    • @ClovePink
      @ClovePink 17 дней назад

      @@mimszanadunstedt441💀

    • @crongo4284
      @crongo4284 17 дней назад

      ​@@mimszanadunstedt441tf

    • @user-mt3of8uu1r
      @user-mt3of8uu1r 17 дней назад

      @@mimszanadunstedt441THAT?! THAT?! is what you take away from this? bruh maybe just shut up next time and THINK FIRST before opening your goddamn mouth

  • @elarr400
    @elarr400 12 дней назад +15

    Honestly the worst part isn't that the majority of people aren't willing to help, it's that the few people who ARE willing to help straight up don't know how to, or at least *I* don't know how to...

    • @raggedcaster123
      @raggedcaster123 5 дней назад +3

      or they are too scared because they’ll also be laughed at

  • @omegafawful2437
    @omegafawful2437 7 дней назад +7

    I’m a dude, but I was assaulted by another dude a year younger than me in high school, I punched him to defend myself, conveniently enough the camera only saw me punching him, not the actual assault, so I get suspended the next day, my dad argued with the school but eventually gave up. Even worse the school assigned an aide to watch me & prevent anything like this from happening, and she didn’t even see it. She always threatened me if I said anything mean to her she’d tell my mom, and after I got back the next day I unloaded all my anger on her, even worse this was high school, the only reason they set me up with her is because I was being sexually harassed daily & she was “assigned to stop it”, but she didn’t do shit. Oh & a senior almost touched me too, but I stopped him, and unfortunately the teacher did nothing after he saw it, shame, it was my favorite teacher too, then after the incident whenever the senior saw me after he graduated he said “lemme r*pe you”, he was 20-21 the last time this happened & I was 17-just turned 18. Im 20 now, and This is why I’m trying to forget high school & disassociate with everyone I knew there, I doubt I’ll go to any of the reunions because of their fuck ups

  • @Mogazilla
    @Mogazilla 19 дней назад +2160

    They act just as caring as they do when mens mental health month comes around 💀😂

    • @JordanWheeler1999
      @JordanWheeler1999 19 дней назад +99

      But hates it that men wanting people to celebrate men's day

    • @ThisIsntTwitter
      @ThisIsntTwitter 19 дней назад +154

      We have a month?

    • @demonslayer5122
      @demonslayer5122 19 дней назад +218

      @@ThisIsntTwitter Yeah, it's June. Because someone thought making it the same as pride month would be a great idea.

    • @brothercoconut6599
      @brothercoconut6599 19 дней назад +3

      Wat now?

    • @chrisramos3454
      @chrisramos3454 19 дней назад

      ​@@demonslayer5122 i dont think the person who came up with that was an idiot. It was clearly either meant to not to be known about by being drowned out by pride month or it was to make a point that no one cares about men's mental health in general.

  • @LordFoxxyFoxington
    @LordFoxxyFoxington 18 дней назад +713

    As someone who was sexually abused by his older sister as a child this genuinely makes me angry.

    • @Diamondr11Blue
      @Diamondr11Blue 18 дней назад +193

      Your own sibling?? That's awful

    • @LittleJerryFan92
      @LittleJerryFan92 18 дней назад +70

      Sorry you had to put up with that. I imagine neither of you are in contact anymore (which I don’t blame you if that is the case).

    • @Planck944
      @Planck944 18 дней назад +50

      Im sorry man

    • @LordFoxxyFoxington
      @LordFoxxyFoxington 18 дней назад +80

      @@Planck944 Thank you but dont worry, ive managed to mostly put it all behind myself.

    • @realnikka2446
      @realnikka2446 17 дней назад +10

      lucky

  • @KNLShine
    @KNLShine 9 дней назад +12

    As a woman society needs to get it together. i take sexual assuault of a men serious.

    • @Ratio429
      @Ratio429 8 дней назад +2

      Thank you for this.

  • @dejiadeleye5697
    @dejiadeleye5697 12 дней назад +6

    “I’m leaving”
    This conversation?
    No this planet

  • @palladiamorsdeus
    @palladiamorsdeus 18 дней назад +278

    "But didn't you enjoy it, just a little?" No, no I did not. It took me two years of deep depression and finally telling the woman I was dating at the time for me to even realize I had been raped, that's how ingrained in me the idea that men can't be assaulted was. And I still don't like to tell people even twenty years later because of stupid questions or comments like that.

    • @Sir_Lancel0t
      @Sir_Lancel0t 14 дней назад +31

      Stay strong bro, the people say that comment because the pornography has rotten their brains

    • @egoistagattoildiofelino7942
      @egoistagattoildiofelino7942 14 дней назад +16

      I have spent two years now unsure if the fact a girl forcefully made out with me, held me down on her couch and started to touch me without my consent can actually be considered SA. It's crazy that something like that still isn't registered as nothing in my brain, although I couldn't feel pleasure by any female touch after the experience.

    • @hamzaimran771
      @hamzaimran771 14 дней назад

      No offence but if you have been raped by a women then you are a seriously weak man; and I don't mean physically but from the heart. There is no scenario where a brave man gets raped by women because a brave man would just fight back consequences because damned. Frankly this a symptom of a greater issue of Cowardly men becoming more and more common because we all have started acting like there is no difference between men and women and that aggression and masculinity is a toxic thing.

    • @Sebasii.girlie
      @Sebasii.girlie 13 дней назад +5

      You have my full support, I hope you're taking good care of yourself right now 💖

    • @Keaton42
      @Keaton42 11 дней назад +5

      @@egoistagattoildiofelino7942 Man that's horrible, please, if you have any recollection of her I would recommend trying to get her in jail because nobody else should have to experience what you've gone through from that woman as well. My heart goes to you as well because of how awful an experience like that can be, and the trauma it can instill on your mental state. I'm so sorry this happened, I wish I could help some way but I can't. God bless and stay strong. I wish you well on your journey

  • @thedrewdog
    @thedrewdog 16 дней назад +469

    I worked as a CNA in a state hospital from 2016-2019, and I tended to get groped by patients. Whenever I mentioned it, my coworkers would laugh in my face - one actually saying: "Oh get over it, it's funny when it happens to a man".
    I brought it up to my supervisor....who then proceeded to say: "I hear Drew has a girlfriend" in a room full of coworkers, who all burst out laughing, and it's not a good memory.

    • @Your_Average_Black
      @Your_Average_Black 14 дней назад +49

      Sorry to hear that bro. No one deserves to go through that

    • @Marcell2aG
      @Marcell2aG 14 дней назад +34

      That is seriously messed up. I’m sorry, brother.

    • @therewassun
      @therewassun 12 дней назад +22

      wtf is wrong with people? Not okay sorry that happened

    • @knuxuki1013
      @knuxuki1013 12 дней назад +7

      Why are you not a villain

    • @Keaton42
      @Keaton42 11 дней назад +3

      Wtf bro I really hope you're doing better, that's horrible to hear especially when nobody is one your side in such a horrible experience

  • @CrusaderWithACockatoo
    @CrusaderWithACockatoo 8 дней назад +9

    So, a man can be thrown in jail if he so much as taps a woman's shoulder to grab her attention, but a woman is innocent when she full on sexually assaults a man? What a world we live in.

    • @danielg778c3
      @danielg778c3 3 дня назад

      Even if there is cameras around and the girl is caught
      The woman would never have the same sentence like a man

    • @CrusaderWithACockatoo
      @CrusaderWithACockatoo 3 дня назад

      @@danielg778c3 Right? It's so ridiculous.

  • @SanSan_Chi
    @SanSan_Chi 11 дней назад +14

    I swear it's always "Bro you're lucky she's hot" like fuck no it's not

    • @Updated_logger
      @Updated_logger 2 дня назад

      Fr, nobody should be uncomfortable like that

    • @ShadowDante7
      @ShadowDante7 14 часов назад

      And if the genders were reversed, imagine how people would react if you said that same statement.

  • @deshawnanderson7777
    @deshawnanderson7777 19 дней назад +534

    Fun fact: this happened to terry cruz by a female and a male on two different occasions and both times everyone blamed him.. this a terrible generation we got today

    • @mychaeljones7526
      @mychaeljones7526 19 дней назад +17

      I just mentioned Terry Crews too.

    • @DankoleClouds
      @DankoleClouds 18 дней назад +63

      While yes, this generation is terrible, it's also this generation that's making it more normalized for men to speak out about assault. I grew up a victim scared to talk about it because of how society made it seem "gay" to be a victim. The fact that one of the most wholesome male celebrities went through something similar and was able to be open about it gave me hope we're heading in the right direction, even if other areas of society tried to downplay it.

    • @DTreatz
      @DTreatz 18 дней назад

      kissing alphabet gang and female asses for the last 70 years
      Guess we know where the *mistakes* was made. 🐸☕

    • @deshawnanderson7777
      @deshawnanderson7777 18 дней назад +9

      @@DankoleClouds yea but the majority of people still call u gay and make fun of u for speaking out its not this generation that makes it easier for men to speak out its the internet and certain social groups that do that but yea i see your point and sorry u had to go through whatever bs u went through my guy. I hope its all behind u now and that u have nothing but good fortune and success (obviously unless your a bad person)

    • @jlivb
      @jlivb 17 дней назад +14

      I would say if anything this generation is recognizing it more the generations before were terrible

  • @onesyphorus
    @onesyphorus 16 дней назад +464

    i like how he DIDNT make the victim witty and find his way out with smart comebacks. bc in that situation you become shellshocked. its a horrible feeling

    • @Ok-_-719
      @Ok-_-719 12 дней назад +20

      Bro frrr

    • @Indon-tq7nm
      @Indon-tq7nm 11 дней назад

      Most assaults are done by men and even when another man gets аssаulted, they themselves celebrated it. It's a man's issue basically.

    • @roaddemon20011
      @roaddemon20011 10 дней назад

      The only good side to me being groped by women, is the fact that my wife was there the whole time and saw that I was not cheating on her. These girls just would not leave me alone. The worst part is, is while they were "joking around" my wife laughed...

  • @thebigdyl5974
    @thebigdyl5974 4 дня назад +4

    I was sexually harassed at one of my old jobs. Some 60 year old lady would tell me she was going to sexually torture me even if I didn’t want it or like it. The last day I worked there, she crawled under my work station and tried to grab me as she yelled “I want it!”
    To make things worse for me, everyone was laughing.

  • @alyssatheharpy1031
    @alyssatheharpy1031 7 дней назад +6

    It's sad that the reaction to anyone getting assaulted is almost the same for anyone

    • @TheAmericanTroll
      @TheAmericanTroll 7 дней назад

      I’m sorry but I do not understand this could you please explain (I actually cannot understand this comment, no hate I actually don’t understand what it means)

    • @AuroraDreams_
      @AuroraDreams_ 5 дней назад

      Sorry are you talking about men and women because that’s not true at all

  • @z_kd
    @z_kd 19 дней назад +816

    Realization that he's talking to them in his underwear rn

    • @dannygjk
      @dannygjk 19 дней назад +9

      That's underwear?? He could survive at the South Pole wearing that.

    • @Thegreatitsltallianbread
      @Thegreatitsltallianbread 19 дней назад +8

      @@dannygjk the North Pole is closed till till October

    • @duck0023
      @duck0023 19 дней назад +2

      hes not actually talking to anyone retrd

    • @SOLOSKEPTIC
      @SOLOSKEPTIC 19 дней назад +29

      ​@@duck0023 duh no shit genius. he meant in terms of the skit. no need to call people retrds

    • @samholdsworth420
      @samholdsworth420 19 дней назад +6

      He free balls

  • @montecristo7527
    @montecristo7527 19 дней назад +606

    I remember my older brother had a friend who was sexually assaulted by a girl back in high school, they were freshman and she was a senior, everyone thought he was gay for denying her and trying to report her, and they bullied him until he took his own life unfortunately

    • @Diamondr11Blue
      @Diamondr11Blue 19 дней назад +205

      They should be charged

    • @ADesertHat
      @ADesertHat 19 дней назад +165

      My condolences, people will fuck up your life man.

    • @montecristo7527
      @montecristo7527 19 дней назад +150

      @@ADesertHat It was moreso harder on my brother, that was my brother's best friend, they knew each other since preschool, and I don't know all the details bc my brother refuses to talk about it and my parents didn't want me to know anything more than necessary, I just hope he's in a better place

    • @JordanWheeler1999
      @JordanWheeler1999 19 дней назад +45

      ​@montecristo7527 damn bro sorry for your bros loss, I mean as much as it's a personal matter, if your parents knows about it, if I were you I would like to know more about it.
      But I get it tho don't cross that line you know

    • @zeosummers3984
      @zeosummers3984 19 дней назад +2

      nice,

  • @ChelseaFanboyDave
    @ChelseaFanboyDave 2 дня назад +3

    "Queer!! We forgot that one." That made me laugh so hard😂😂

  • @saunScaryStory
    @saunScaryStory 5 дней назад +4

    As someone who was just recently assaulted by a woman and went to the police about it.. the police pretty much said exactly this. Because she’s smaller they also pretty much said I could have stopped it from happening..
    Lovely society we live in folks.

    • @GG_ming
      @GG_ming 5 дней назад +1

      My girl cousing just pops out of nowhere and touch my penis, its so weird so i have to tell my friend but they just say "i wish it was me", im speechless, its disgusting even to think about it

  • @AldermanFredCDavis
    @AldermanFredCDavis 16 дней назад +121

    “Women don’t need consent for anything.” Hilariously accurate.

  • @justanotherday08
    @justanotherday08 19 дней назад +546

    Whats more sad is when younger boys get assaulted and go to get help, they get told "your so lucky." It happened to my friend when he was assaulted by a teacher in middle school and because she was late twenties and pretty nothing happened

    • @marcoaurelio-ql8os
      @marcoaurelio-ql8os 18 дней назад +31

      lucky bastard it should have been me

    • @me-specifically
      @me-specifically 18 дней назад +58

      that's actually fucked up

    • @damonperes3067
      @damonperes3067 17 дней назад

      You're desperate, this never happening to you 😂​@@marcoaurelio-ql8os

    • @realnikka2446
      @realnikka2446 17 дней назад +8

      where were these teachers i need to know

    • @azealealewis3721
      @azealealewis3721 17 дней назад +60

      @@marcoaurelio-ql8osand that is exactly why it gets overlooked because men celebrate that type of behavior

  • @e.sibonjic
    @e.sibonjic 10 дней назад +6

    as a nurse student my female colleague at my internship spanked my ass once and I did not know how to react. I just froze and thought about it the whole day. its been 8 months now and I still feel uncomfortable around that woman. just because I'm a man she assumed I'd like that. smh

  • @RedInkTheOneAndOnly
    @RedInkTheOneAndOnly 4 дня назад +4

    On one hand, girls have to deal with “boys will be boys” and “he probably likes you but doesn’t know how to say it”
    On the other, we have to deal with crap like this.
    Thankfully, I haven’t been assaulted like this, but damn it I hate seeing other people go through this bullshit.
    Sorry fellas, I wish I could help.

  • @tonyblake7569
    @tonyblake7569 16 дней назад +205

    Missed insulting him for not being strong enough to stop her, but also if he stopped her he assaulted her.

  • @JOGA_Wills
    @JOGA_Wills 19 дней назад +740

    Bro got demonitized in 0:10 , a new record

    • @esteban8471
      @esteban8471 19 дней назад +32

      What about the ones that started with him saying a slur or making sexual moaning noises?

    • @mr.duanesharpe
      @mr.duanesharpe 19 дней назад +22

      Not really. I’m sure YT knows he made an advance towards himself. Plus they know he Diddy 🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @blacklivesorblackvotes2985
      @blacklivesorblackvotes2985 19 дней назад

      @@mr.duanesharpe but Diddy do it?

    • @TheDragonRuler-
      @TheDragonRuler- 19 дней назад +12

      There are definitely ones that have been demonetized quicker lol

    • @Al_Gore_Rhythmn
      @Al_Gore_Rhythmn 19 дней назад +6

      Alex Jones been demonetized since the Dawn of Time

  • @FlappyCat-ef6oq
    @FlappyCat-ef6oq 2 дня назад +1

    Love how the phrase "be a man" is only ever used to get other people to do things that convenience you and not the person you're using it towards

  • @blazejunior2293
    @blazejunior2293 4 дня назад +4

    Society, tell me this
    If a man not enjoying being sexually assaulted is gay
    Is a woman not enjoying being sexually assaulted lesbian?
    Because if it isn’t lesbian for a woman to hate being sexually assaulted it isn’t gay for a man to hate it. If it is gay for men to hate it then it’s lesbian for women to hate it.

    • @Nightmare-kn9pj
      @Nightmare-kn9pj 2 дня назад

      THAT'S WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT!!!! THAT'S WHY HE'S THE GOAT!!!! THE GOAT!!!!

  • @hoss70711
    @hoss70711 17 дней назад +114

    In the rare event men actually report sexual assault.... this is 100% spot on.

    • @Noahloveless1
      @Noahloveless1 11 дней назад +4

      Most don't because they know this is how they will be treated.

    • @Indon-tq7nm
      @Indon-tq7nm 11 дней назад

      almost like males are the main demographic to do that and celebrates when other gets it 🤔

    • @ThatGuy-lv7hf
      @ThatGuy-lv7hf 11 дней назад +2

      almost like males themselves are celebrating and liking this

  • @JosueAguilar_01
    @JosueAguilar_01 18 дней назад +133

    Had a chick in my car that really wanted to sleep with me. She was in my car for hours and I was so ashamed and thought that if I called the cops, they would make fun of me. I tried telling my mom and she just acted as if it didn’t matter and that I wanted it. I’m still pretty hurt to this day.

    • @GothicLeviathan
      @GothicLeviathan 18 дней назад

      Your own fucking mother? Bro I would not blame you if you never talked to her again, that is FUCKED UP

    • @prettyboishah2898
      @prettyboishah2898 18 дней назад +18

      Bro you could of just called the cops & not mention anything sexual, just that you guys got into a heated argument & she wouldn't leave your vehicle

    • @prettyboishah2898
      @prettyboishah2898 18 дней назад +29

      But then again, it's you against a woman, so who knows if the cops would if taken her side & even kicked you the car

    • @harrysachz5408
      @harrysachz5408 17 дней назад +11

      I'm really sorry that happened to you. But, not everyone is ignoring it. You are valuable and loved. Don't ever forget that, okay?

    • @JosueAguilar_01
      @JosueAguilar_01 17 дней назад +8

      @@harrysachz5408 yeah, I remotely got over it a year after it happened. I’ve been told to tell my mom, but I’m still very try hesitant and heartbroken to explain to her because I know I’m still her that she didn’t want to hear me out the first time.
      You too are valuable and loved. Take care of yourself, king

  • @etrangray-mane8610
    @etrangray-mane8610 6 дней назад +2

    My man being so honest I'm shocked RUclips keeps his channel up

  • @5y9h3r
    @5y9h3r 5 дней назад +1

    Yo this is too fucking relevant though, I just spent that entire video laughing in the most uncomfortable, real, I think I might cry kinda laughs.
    That shit was intense, your humor and ability to weave in reality is just incredible, you make art that I am truly grateful for, thank you.

  • @helljumper_
    @helljumper_ 19 дней назад +367

    had a chick all over me back in high school at a party, but i was in love with another girl at the time, so didn't shoot my shot and even though i kept telling her no she kept touching me and tried to undress me. when i told my friends the next day what happened they literally called me gay and a loser for not letting it happen.
    at the time i was real pissed at them, but as i grew older i came to the realization that this behavior wasn't exclusive to my "friends", society as a whole don't give a flying f about men.

    • @QU141.
      @QU141. 19 дней назад +68

      fake friends fake friends... what a fucking shame, feel for you bro, it happened to me too

    • @Diamondr11Blue
      @Diamondr11Blue 19 дней назад +6

      Talk to ur homies

    • @Chickensammich710
      @Chickensammich710 19 дней назад +3

      Not me wishing i could go back and take advantage of every advance. Denying for “love” reasons. 👀

    • @QU141.
      @QU141. 19 дней назад +45

      @@Chickensammich710 jit desperate as hell ☠️

    • @tablettablet8335
      @tablettablet8335 19 дней назад +1

      ​@@QU141.Aren't you from Soullspa?

  • @fftydgh7769
    @fftydgh7769 19 дней назад +287

    happened to me at 13. the double standards and hypocrisy that I had to deal with was insane.

    • @Tricolor40004
      @Tricolor40004 18 дней назад +17

      Happened to me to in high school. I didn’t even feel like sharing what happened

    • @comradegab3344
      @comradegab3344 18 дней назад +5

      I'm so sorry about your experiences 🙏

    • @fftydgh7769
      @fftydgh7769 18 дней назад +5

      @@Tricolor40004 I can understand why, im sorry that happened to ya brother. personally I felt I had no choice but to try and tell someone due to the fact that she got pregnant, was holding it over me and I had no idea what to do

    • @fftydgh7769
      @fftydgh7769 18 дней назад +2

      @@Tricolor40004 but at the end of the day what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.

    • @fftydgh7769
      @fftydgh7769 18 дней назад

      @@comradegab3344 thank you 🙏 it’s unfortunate but I’ve had a lot of time since then to work through it and move on as much as I can. Still hard to be around women. And issues with physical contact at times. But I’ve been lucky enough to find someone who’s amazing. And we’ve Been together for five years now.

  • @penpad5555
    @penpad5555 5 дней назад +4

    “You’re assaulting her by calling out her assaulting you.” That’s that new math 🧑‍🏫🤓

  • @huey1987
    @huey1987 14 дней назад +3

    LongBeachGriffey, you Sir have done it yet again! Also to add, from the middle to the end of the video, them statement(s) didn't make no damn sense. Sounds like something "The Usual Suspect(s)" would say!

  • @DarkLight6Tv
    @DarkLight6Tv 16 дней назад +93

    It's really sad when you actually hear men irl with this mindset. They got problems with SA towards lil girls while also thinking boys being touched by older WOMEN is the equivalent of an unlocked achievement.

    • @x2hundred69
      @x2hundred69 7 дней назад +3

      As I man, I hate it tbh. Imo, it just makes our situation worse too when women think some men are okay with that.

  • @Sprite_525
    @Sprite_525 19 дней назад +256

    It happened to me. They banned the woman. But half the group disbelieved me cuz I’m a guy and it’s ’just funny’ when women do it.

    • @Diamondr11Blue
      @Diamondr11Blue 19 дней назад +31

      Equal rights and Iefts in this situation, brother

    • @pangkoulee7648
      @pangkoulee7648 19 дней назад +14

      They don't want to see the truth. Or they're afraid of it. 😞 Don't give up. Reach out to everyone.

    • @itsHXZE
      @itsHXZE 19 дней назад

      A woman touching your penis actually made you uncomfortable? Serious question

    • @Sebasii.girlie
      @Sebasii.girlie 13 дней назад

      Those people are fucked up in the head

  • @Jahz_
    @Jahz_ 6 дней назад +3

    Worst part is
    If this happens behind closed doors with no one there
    It’s your word against hers and we all know who they will believe
    And then she can hold it above you the res rod her life saying you did something you didnt

  • @thebrandunsafeone7184
    @thebrandunsafeone7184 12 дней назад +1

    Thank you for this.

  • @iIliterati
    @iIliterati 19 дней назад +338

    I was literally sexually assaulted and when I told people they all said I should just forget it and not go to the cops because it could ruin her life. She literally had sex with me while I was drugged and people were like so???

    • @yxrackman2397
      @yxrackman2397 19 дней назад

      So sorry man don’t listen to them and if you still have to the courage to, try tell the cops. People like her can’t be getting away with shit like that just because of their gender

    • @jayrobinson525
      @jayrobinson525 19 дней назад +102

      ​@@prof.wailboutahra Bruh, are you serious?

    • @prof.wailboutahra
      @prof.wailboutahra 19 дней назад +33

      @@jayrobinson525 Joking

    • @jayrobinson525
      @jayrobinson525 19 дней назад +20

      @@prof.wailboutahra Oh ok.

    • @whoareyoutoaccuseme6588
      @whoareyoutoaccuseme6588 18 дней назад +9

      Damn, you living the best life rn.

  • @tretrefairman
    @tretrefairman 19 дней назад +249

    It’s unreal how braindead these people be about the situation.

  • @straightouttazambia2835
    @straightouttazambia2835 14 дней назад +3

    He forgot the "I wish that would have happened to me" brigade that always pops up when a teacher gets caught sleeping with one of her highschool students.

  • @Goth-zm9yp
    @Goth-zm9yp 15 дней назад +6

    This why i advocate for equal rights equal fights and not giving a single iota of a fuck what society thinks.