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As a mom of 1 kid, I personally don't enjoy watching how other moms struggle. I find it more helpful to watch videos where moms with more on their plate do ALL THE THINGS cause it makes me feel like I can do it as well. Eases my stress and helps me to not overthink things.
Omg same!!!!
I was thinking the same way! It’s inspirational! She talks about having a mother who also kept the house to a high standard, so as someone who was raised in a much different house hold its extremely inspiring and educational to see Sarah share her life. I am constantly learning from creators like this! I grew up in a rough environment so I had a lot to learn to change that going forward!
Same!
You Can’t Please Everyone: exhibit A.
Yes same! If you only see other moms struggling, then you start thinking that's normal, but it doesn't have to be that way (some days but not all!). I'm not making sourdough bread (I have an 8 week old baby) but it's still really nice to see that things can become calmer.
If you’re watching this video and feel that Sarah’s lifestyle is unrealistic and unattainable for you, keep this in mind. There is a lot that Sarah has that makes being an intense homemaker realistic and attainable for her:
1. Sarah said her family’s income is from her RUclips work so I’m guessing her husband is home with her. They’re able to tag team together all day. That may not be the case for you.
2. Again, her income comes from being a homemaker. For Sarah, decluttering her closet and making money are one and the same. That may not be the case for you.
3. She says the home she grew up in is similar to the home she keeps. This tells me these organization and cleaning habits of hers were instilled in her from her youth. This may not be the case for you.
4. Many women struggle with mental illnesses that make even taking care of themselves a challenge, let alone taking care of a home and family. That may be you.
The rest of us are doing the best we can with what we’ve got and that is amazing!! Celebrate yourself and what you’re able to do. You’re doing a great job!!
good point. and to add to that: she is making a LOT LOT of money
Yes, you made some good points. For me her lifestyle is not attainable because costs of living in my country are so high that even without overcomsuption both wife and husband must work full time to afford basic needs and I'm not coming from rich background. Then, homeschooling is allowed but only in close cooperation with public schools and you must follow core curriculum prepared by the government, so even in such scenario you have limited control over the education of your children. Also, in my culture husband helps at home if he throws away trash once a week and women have to do like everything. 😰 I'm fighting with this in case of my husband. He is a good person and I love him dearly. He is trying his best but it is really hard when he has had literally no single example of a man helping at home in his whole life and almost everyone keeps telling him he does more than enough because he does simple things like doing grocery shopping from time to time and he was tought that helping at home is emasculating. 🤣 This is why it tiny bit annoys me that Sarah refuses to acknowledge simple things like her money and the help she receives and instead suggests she is super intense homemaker and you are not if your life is different or you may be spiritually weak or not motivated enough and to me she comes off a little bit tone-deaf. I also have never seen hate comments on this. Only comments asking for honesty which for me, there is not much in this video. It is only my suspicion that she just prefers not to say things which are against the brand of this channel which is fine. Or maybe she is honest and really sees it that way and I'm biased due to my experience. 🙂 Still, I love her and her content.
THIS!!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 The fact that her husband stays at home and helps her it’s huge!
I feel like you explained it better than she even did haha I see the social media side of it though, by creating something nearly perfect you are setting fire to the flame. If you have that sort of position and influence I can see why some moms dont feel as adequate. Its always good to separate yourself from what you see online and connect with moms/people in your area that give you a more realistic perspective on the overall struggles many in the community have. I think like you said her situation is special and specific that makes it easier for her to keep her home clean and get tasks done.
@@kickinitwithjess honestly, it didn’t seem to me like she was trying to acknowledge these things that make it possible for her to be so good at homemaking. It seemed like she just kept saying, “this is just who I am!” Like she just IS a gifted homemaker and other women are not. Which is why I wanted to comment and acknowledge these things! But yes, as viewers, we shouldn’t expect our lives to look like hers at all.
My house use to look like yours. Then I realized my kids were afraid to play and make messes and I felt like I was missing so much of their lives because I spent so much time cleaning. Yes, they could be involved but it’s not the same. I also don’t feel right about leaving my baby/toddlers to cry because I need to finish the dishes or mop the floor. I get 1 chance to raise my kids. Everything else can wait.
💯% this
I love this!
I think a good thing to remember is that Kieran is home with her. So, she’s not letting the kids cry washing dishes because she has a partner to help. It’s about priorities. Having a clean home is a priority for her. And she doesn’t compromise her relationship with her kids for it.
@@oliviaswieton she use to when Kieran wasn’t home. She talked about letting the kids cry so they could learn independence and so that should could do the things she “needed” to in many videos.
Sarah can literally film herself doing errands, cleaning and organizing her house and it creates income for her while being something she genuinely enjoys. So don't beat yourself up if doing household chores takes several, unrewarded hours on top of your job outside the house and therefore doesn't happen as often/"intensely".
Good point!
I get what you’re saying. But saying Sarah can just film herself do errands and house shores and make money from it, takes away from all the hard work of planning, editing, marketing, financial work and all the other stuff that goes into creating a successful RUclips account. It’s not like her videos make themselves and that an account on RUclips just automatically gains followers.
I think it’s also important to remember that this is your job. To the people who are envious or upset, this is her full time job. She is a homemaker/RUclipsr - making content for her channel as a direct reflection of her life. Other vloggers who work as nurses/businesswomen/etc. devote their time elsewhere and may have seemingly “unrealistic” standards in other areas of their life. It’s of no use to compare yourself to others. For as much as Sarah devotes time to making her house perfect, I devote myself to other things and make them perfect - and that’s okay.
Absolutely! You see these youtubers doing fitness tutorials, or personal trainers who spend ALL DAY working out and making those videos, and they have a perfect toned body, muscles etc. And we might look at that and think, how can I ever get there?!
The point is, most of us have other jobs. We don't have 12 hours to devote to cleaning the house, or working out, because we have different careers. Sarah chose this, she has been blessed in it, and it's what she _does!_ That's [partly] why her house is so immaculate, she has time to organise things, & the family life appears to run so smoothly. If we gave up our jobs and were paid to stay home, I'm pretty sure it wouldn't be so unattainable to keep a pristine house after all!!!
I dont think its unrealistic, just uncommon. Seeing motiviated and energetic people accomplish a lot probably intimidates some people who might be stuggling, but thats no reason to stop. Most inspirational pople have a drive like this and thats what makes them inspiring. Keep doing what you're going Sarah! I find it inspiring! Hugs from Ontario
Agree totally!! Not unrealistic just uncommon!
Love the way you worded not unrealistic, just uncommon. Perfect way to describe it!
I think also people say it’s unrealistic because they might want the type of lifestyle that Sarah has and they become jealous so they look towards her negatively. Of course you can’t do it ALL every single day, but that doesn’t mean you have to make someone else feel bad because they do, and I’m sure even Sarah has days where she feels like she hasn’t done enough just like she stated in her video. People just need to understand whether you laid in bed all day today or you cleaned the entire house spotless, you did enough because you did what your body and mind were telling you to do. No matter what, you are enough and you have done enough! No need to think negatively and put someone else down.
Couldn't have worded it better
unrealistic part for many is to do so many with kids on hands. People forget - her husband stays home. As mom of 3 kids with my husband gone 80% of the time for work, I can see difference when both parents at home. It is half of work and everything. Majority of families has similar situations to mine - husbands are working outside of the home a lot of time.
Huge shoutout to moms out there getting up and showing up even when you don't have it all together. As women we should so build each other up and inspire, rather than judge.
I grew up in a very messy & disorganized home. For my personality, it caused me stress and anxiety even from a young age. I’ve grown up to highly prioritize a clean and organized home for this reason. My fiancé is the same, even more clean than me! It’s an intentional choice, it takes time and effort. We act on our priorities. Nothing you show is unattainable, but is always inspirational. Thanks for all your content, Sarah!!
You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone sarah. You make me want to strive to be like you and do better. I also want to be an extreme home maker it’s what I love! Don’t listen to that hate! You’re doing amazing!
That's sad people think your life is "unrealistic" and "unattainable." It absolutely is through living intentionally and only keeping items you need. Minimalism or mindful living is truly life changing and allows you to focus on making time for what matters most to you. Rather than focusing on how your lifestyle is "unrealistic," they should focus on how they can change their own mindset so they don't criticize others for how they live.
I think what people forget is Sarah makes a LIVING off videos of her homemaking. I’m not saying it’s all done for content but that is a motive, surely. Two birds with one stone! Yes, there’s the whole other side of RUclips with editing and branding, etc. Her husband ALSO works with her on that end so they are a team, which makes things easier I would imagine. Having both parents work from home at the same job that essentially requires them to film their daily lives but in a way they can monetize their daily life… why would anyone compare themselves to a successful mom/homemaking channel?
Ok, I might be crazy, but the things that people bash you on are literally the things I like about you. I never saw you as making other mom's feel bad, but more as an inspiration to do things better in my own home. I also don't find you unrealistic at all, if anything you are one of the influencers I find most realistic.
I feel this exact same way.
Just because the presentation of your content may intimidate some, it inspires others. If it is unhealthy for me it is my responsibility to not watch it. But Sarah you inspire me as a Christian and wife!
100 % agree
Yes! Took the words right out of my mouth!
For sure. I can't do as much as her cause of my health but I realize that and am inspired in what I can do..like homeschooling doing stuff at home etc..being more minimalist and intentional with what I buy!
Exactly right! I’m on my own journey of life and adulting and momming and I’ve had to stop watching RUclips when I find myself comparing and feeling envious. Once I can accept that my life is different and that’s okay, I can accept watching someone else’s reality and appreciate it and let it inspire me in other ways that I might be able to relate to. I’m not less than for being in a different place and it’s my responsibility to feel that. I see Sarah’s content as entertainment with inspiration and it does challenge me when I’m ready.
Exactly this! ❤
As someone who is prone to guilt and that feeling of not being or doing enough, especially in comparison to other people, your videos always make me feel inspired and SOMETIMES make me feel, not bad about myself, but convicted that I am not following through on the things I told myself or my husband or my friends that I would! That is a good thing. You’re basically my RUclips accountability, even though you don’t know it!
AGREED!
This exactly! After watching one of her videos, I’m more motivated to be the wife and mama God called me to be. I’m not perfect, she’s not perfect, no one is. But what a great woman to share her life on social media and encourage people to just be better 👌🏻
You worded that so well Alexa, I am constantly comparing myself to others in my life and other social media content creators. But Sarah somehow always makes me feel welcomed and ask inspired watching her videos.
This!
Love this!!!
I feel like there’s a trend of high standards being “wrong” but as long as it’s not intended to hurt others... then why does it matter how someone lives their life? Thank you for this video. Much respect
Yes. Modern people are not too fond at the idea that there are such things as ideals. We like living knowing and seeking to only serve our Lower Will/s. It reminds of some aspects of the “body positivity” movement where people get mad when someone they looked up to decides to lose weight. It’s an uncomfortable reminder of an ideal (need to exercise and be healthy) that can be forgotten in certain circles once we’re accustomed to the comfortability of doing very little accompanied with a delusion of greatness. ( no hate, as I also struggle with my weight)
The hard part that people need to understand is that everyone’s lives are different, and so are what each person values. For instance whilst you value being at home, I value being out and about when I can. I will drop everything I’m doing to go on a last minute trip to the park with a friend. I also have ADHD which means my brain is completely wired a different way, that is okay! This video was raw, vulnerable and so brave. I can see your heart pouring out. Thank you for honesty and for the reminder that I think a lot of people needed. Sending my love! ❤️
Sorry, but everyone is responsible for their own happiness. Those people are just envious, and that's not your problem. It's theirs.
Absolutely!!! You want Sarah's life, get off your arse and do something about it! If not, stop whining.
AGREED💯
I agree 100%
couldn't agree more, was about to write the same! unfortunately, there will always be the kind of people who make you feel like you have to explain yourself.
So right!!!
I’m also an intense home maker. My house is always “ready for guests”, I make my own bread, jams, my kids do their own laundry, I homeschool, and I wake up early to work out 4 days a week. And it’s not a pat myself on the back situation for me either. It’s just how I like to live my life. I hope these comments help you, knowing there are other people who live similarly to you and your family. It’s not unrealistic for people who make it a priority.
Edit: I also love how you put in how God weaves us into our personalities. That’s so important for people to realize as well.
You should pay yourself in the back. Everyone needs to learn how to be comfortable "bragging" on themselves. It's ok to admit where your strengths AND weaknesses are.
So glad you're living the life you envision for yourself!
Same! My job is to make my home and educate my kids. That’s what I prioritize 💗
Same!! I work really hard as a homemaker. It's a tough but rewarding JOB. Rarely is it dirty. My family appreciates it as much as I do 🥰
Your hard work doesn't go unnoticed ❤
@@musikluver I remember I was in an online baby group for new mothers with the same age babies. There was a woman who started a thread and clearly suffering from PPD / stress and or anxiety with her bub and knowing she couldn’t keep up with the house admin and take time to workout etc. She was struggling and reaching out. She wanted tips on how to help lose the baby weight and was very down on herself. There was a HORRIBLY SMUG poster who reminds me a lot like Sarah who basically said “well I get up at 5 am and do my workout, shower, get myself styled & groomed etc etc. Maybe you shouldn’t be so lazy and just get off your butt.” It was disgusting.
All it takes is for these narcissistic, smug influencers and youtubers to stuff up and get cancelled and then they end up with no income or savings, moving to their parents basement, begging for views whilst they figure out what to do with the rest of their working lives (looking at Nikki Phillipi 🙀) .
I'm 44 a divorced (when my kids were under 4) SAHM of 3 who lives 15min outside Boston. My oldest who is Autistic is now 15. My son 13yr is borderline. I've moved to many times to count (married in NC heart of the Bible belt) I've experienced the loss of my dad and my mom is now showing her age. My house is always pristine, laundry always done in-between bringing my 3 kids from and to, different places. Doctors , school, therapists. I have TV's but no cable because I don't have time to sit. I never leave the house or go to bed with a dish in the sink or throw pillow out of place. I don't leave my house unless my hair is done, makeup on and my kids clean and nicely dressed. I've been living on the edge of burnout for years hiding it with a smile on my face while crying on the inside.
My point?
I don't see you as unrealistic, I don't see you as inspiring (and I do not say this to put you down in anyway) I see you as a very young mother, who lives in a sheltered Bible community. A mother in her 20's that has not experienced the harsh reality of the outside world. Your kids are young enough that you still have control over their day.
I became friends with mothers like you in NC and their "sheltered" life was one that I can honestly say, was something I would've loved to experience but knew I never could.
I may be wrong but if I had to guess the negative comments come from people that do not know anything more than what one video portrays. I also think that if they knew, they would have never commented. Why? Because if I didn't know, I to would think the same but instead I have met mothers in my 20's like you and never did I think their life was unrealistic, in fact the complete opposite.
I understand the point of this video but I can also see where the negatively comes from. Social media brings people from everywhere. Mothers, fathers from all walks of life, most having experienced a much harsher reality, people that have scars from their past ect.. I'm not belittling your life, your struggles, your work. But your age and lack of recognition or insight into the world and the way others live, is very clear in this video.
I watched this earlier today and I’ve been thinking about what you said. If I’m being honest, I only made it to 17 minutes. First, I can relate so much to you. When you talked about Martha and your home- that’s me. My house is 90-95% of the time in pristine conditions. I don’t want to say always because that insinuates that I never have a day or even a week where I’m just not feeling it or it’s been busy and we ran through it but majority of the time it looks immaculate. I can relate to that feeling of always being busy and working hard to serve my family. Your content doesn’t offend me. Honestly, I watch it for ideas or tips but never for comparison or aspiration.
One thing that you lost me with was where you started talking about “I don’t binge netflix” and stuff. Ok that’s good I guess but some moms do and that’s ok. I’m not sure what things like that have to do with mothering or staying home. I do both. I watch TV and I care greatly for my kiddos and keep a pristine home. No one is perfect. Not you nor I. We all have guilty pleasures or things we are lax on. All of that aside I think my issue is it’s fine to present yourself however but no need to say all of the things you don’t do like that’s a good thing. I’m not sure, maybe I’m reading into it or hearing it wrong.
My number one thing with this is remember your audience. If you have a percentage of audience who feels this way, it’s important to look at that. Yes, they don’t have to watch, but it’s important to recognize that they are the reason you get to do this. Views, comments, shares, etc. is how you get branding and things. It’s important to be true to yourself but also to remember who is watching. If a decent portion of women and mamas watching feel this way even if it’s only 25%, that’s a lot of viewers. You don’t have to change for anyone, but just say that and be honest. Croatian can be helpful sometimes. Just a suggestion.
Criticism*
Amen!
People at her level have hate viewers too. No two people can agree on every single thing. She mentioned she doesn't watch Netflix which gives her more time to do what she wants to do. She wasn't shaming for watching Netflix shes saying she's able to get more done because she doesn't. Those are two different things. We all sacrifice things to live the life we want to live.
@@TheeKellyMcG lol
Whatever made you stop 17 mins into the video is what the guilt in you is wanting to address. Address that issue in you and then.. you will hear clearly what Sarah is saying.
I am the opposite of you in many ways (messy, not that organized in my home, work outside of the house, not religious) but I appreciate and admire you! You clearly put a lot of work into your home and I can totally understand that drive to go after something you want and doing what you need to do to accomplish it. And it totally shows in the way your home and family life looks like! I can be totally ok with doing things differently while supporting another mom in the way she rocks her goals. Love to see women thrive in the way they choose to!
I totally agree. I also have a much messier and laid-back personality but it doesn’t make me want to hate on clean, busy moms or deny that they exist.
I think maybe people see it as unrealistic because you don’t have a “traditional” job (not going somewhere 9-5 you know?) and maybe people think it’s unrealistic for an offline person to achieve it?
You’re not responsible for managing the way anyone else compares themselves to you or another. Some of my most inspired, productive, and fulfilling days happen when I’ve seen one of your videos. Thank you for being genuine in what you do. I appreciate you Sarah! I see your true spirit in the care you give providing us with your “YOU” content.
YES. Exactly thiis.
I think it’s hard because it’s not often brought up that you have marital support other mothers often don’t have. My husband is gone 80% of the time and I still have to work 3 hours a day outside of the home to supplement our income WHILE living frugally because my oldest is neurodivergent and my oldest 2 children are from a prior unhealthy marriage. I never felt challenged by your videos, moreso saddened - you portray this amazing life I wish I could lead, and I can’t. My ex wouldn’t consent to homeschooling, I work outside of the home during nap time, and while I also “don’t binge Netflix” it’s because my day is totally full of solo parenting 3 kids under 4, breastfeeding, cleaning, cooking, prepping and working. My husband helps however he can WHEN he’s at home. It just feels like a genuine lack of transparency that would give your life/videos/vlogs some personally necessary context. You have 2 able bodied adults in your home at all times. That’s an anomaly that should and could be addressed in some awesome ways.
But you are choosing to watch her. You are choosing to be like wow this persons lifestyle makes me feel bad but I am going to watcher anyway for...what? It is not her responsibility to filter her life for you? This is HER life. It is however your responsibility to take responsibility of the choice you're making.
@@champagne2568 did I say I feel bad? Please quote me directly, I pointed out what MANY other people took away from this video. I love a majority of Sarah’s content and respect her as a human being, but at best, this video came off as both tone deaf and disingenuous.
@@champagne2568 additionally, she *does* filter her life. Everyone does on a public platform for whatever purpose that may be. Certain information omitted here would have given this video an air of softness and tenderness that I am more used to seeing from her, not this level of self centeredness. As her husband, I would be hurt if my wife took credit for a majority of all household work when it’s actually much more egalitarian than she tends to let on.
My dad's mom was also a very intense homemaker. It's all about priorities. I would love to live in your home, but I also recognize I have other priorities in some areas and that's okay.
Very well said 😄
If anyone has ever felt like they had to make themselves smaller because they were too much for someone else, please read: take a deep breath and take a good hard look at yourself. If you're honest, you'll soon know if they are A) shining a light on a problem, or B) this was a projection of their own insecurities onto you and go ahead and keep shining brightly as you!
Remember that honesty is key here and there's no shame in seeking personal therapy to get to know one's self even more intimately 😌
This is such a great comment. I also found a great children's book a few days ago who says the same thing. It's called the beam of the little lighthouse from Esme van der harst she also has one for adults 10/10 recommend
Personally, i follow you for that specific reason: I'm feeling motivated when I watch your videos, most of the time, i want to clean my house more, be more gentle with my kids, exercise more and so on... And that is the magic of RUclips, i mean, if u feel that one channel makes you feel bad about your life, than don't watch it... You can choose.. personally, i thank you for your content... Really helps me... Soo much... Thanks Sarah.
You know the saying “Humility isn’t thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less”? Anyone can see that you do a great job of keeping up your home. This video could have been about 10 minutes long saying that you are trying to steward the gifts the Lord has given you and that any good you do is purely out of His grace. Instead, you spent 30 minutes talking about how amazing you are. As someone who has enjoyed your videos for years, this video really missed the mark as far as humility goes. Not trying to be hateful, just trying to give some perspective.
I felt similarly after only 6 minutes in. Granted, I didn't watch the whole thing so I can't comment intelligently or fairly on everything she's said, but I've watched similar videos of hers - after following her pretty closely and gratefully for years - and had to stop after a few minutes because it's too painful for me - partly because of where I'm at in life and how different it is from her life, which so many of us are saying here... And partly because of what I see her communicating here - basically just talking about herself and defending her lifestyle. Maybe I'm wrong and this video is different. Either way, her content is less encouraging and inspiring than it used to be for me, and sparks more discontent than thankfulness and motivation to be a good mom/wife/homemaker in the place the Lord has put me now. But that's on me! I don't have to watch 😉
This is exactly what I was thinking. This video kind of left me like 😬
@@jenniferh7129 Yep, I’d been feeling the same way! I really do like Sarah and most of her content, but this video made me realize it’s just not beneficial for me to follow her anymore. I unsubscribed/unfollowed after watching this.
Honestly, I disagree. I think the segment in the middle explaining her struggle finding time to rest in the Lord really tied in together why this video needed to be made. She’s not perfect, she’s recognizing that and also recognizing that the people hating on her content may think she’s trying to portray perfection when she’s just displaying her life and struggling in areas that may be different for the people not liking her content.
The thought process flowed and turned into lots of good thoughts and conversation so I appreciated the entirety of it.
*Also gotta keep in mind it’s mostly unedited.
@@rnbear Exactly! I've seen the hateful comments of people saying she's fake, her life isn't real and it's staged for the videos. So of course she'd spend a lot of time in this video explaining her reality and what exactly she does as a wife, mother, homemaker, and business woman. This isn't a lack of humility. :'( She's stating the facts of what she does. :') She needed to make it clear that she doesn't only do all that in and for her videos. This is her life! 💗💖💕🥰
I’m 6 minutes in and if I’m being honest. I totally get where people are coming from with those comments.
There are some times that I watch your videos and it doesn’t make me feel great. Because mentally I’m comparing my homeschool my homemaking and my mothering to you. But that’s not on you. That’s a me problem that I need to shift my perspective and realize that everybody does things differently and how I’m doing my life is perfectly okay.
I can’t imagine the heaviness that those comments bring to you, just because I’m a stay at home mom of three and I homeschool etc doesn’t mean that I am less than you. Doesn’t mean that I’m not enough for my family. Comparing my mothering to yours is like comparing winter in Canada to winter in Australia. It doesn’t make any sense.
I hope you understand what I’m trying to say with all of that. You’re doing nothing wrong you’re just sharing how you and your family are choosing to live and raise your kids. Any comment negatively about that is not on you it’s on the person making it and they need to dig deep and figure out why your content bothers them. You are truly a light, don’t let someone dim it.
This, “ they need to dig deep and figure out why your content bothers them”
I enjoy watching some of Sarah‘s videos but let’s face it, if we bumped into this mum at a toddler group we would avoid her. It’s not nice when people boast about themselves and avoid talking about any negativity. It makes other people feel inferior. She knows that and she doesn’t care. To say “I don’t want people to relate to me, I want people to be challenged and inspired “insinuate that she wants to be the best as no one else can match up. i’m quite surprised she has so many followers and I’m questioning myself on why I watch them myself. I’m not jealous, don’t have a bad life myself but I would not ever go on social media I’m ghost about how wonderful my life is. Who is this audience aimed at?
Boast not goast:)
@@sianevans3159 I don't think she's boasting with her life. She doesn't try to do that = it's not intended that way! Maybe you need to figure out why exactly you feel that way. We ALL go in RUclips Instagram and Facebook to be entertained and watch things we can relate to and or are interested in. And just because a Person isn't constantly negative about everything (like so many people are) doesn't mean they don't go through hard times. She also made a video where she was crying because her pelvic pain was so bad. She doesn't constantly talk about it, but that's ok. Some people have a wonderful and nice pregnancy till the end. Do only people who have negative things to say about life, pregnancy and kids get to be listened to? Is this what the world has come to?
I think it's uplifting and nice to watch positive videos! If you choose not to do that that's your personal right. If you don't enjoy her content then unsubscribe and be done with it. It's as easy as that.
@@sianevans3159 God talks about how horrible it is to complain. Sarah is a woman of God that wants to follow the Bible. Just because she's not negative doesn't mean she thinks her life is perfect. We are not supposed to compare ourselves to others the Bible says. So anyone that gets offended at how she lives is being envious or coveting and that's not right. Just look away if you can't handle watching.
My mother always taught me that when I see a woman who is beautiful, successful, and happy and has her stuff together in all areas that are important to her (which may or may not be the same areas that are important to me), that I should see it as excellent news, as an encouraging sign that it is possible to have "it all" (of course we always wish for something else and more, having dreams is wonderful, but you see what I mean). You and I lead very different lives, but I love your channel because it shows a woman who lives her best life, and that is a major inspiration and makes me appreciate my own lovely life. So thank you ♥️
Wise mom.
Yaaas! And support her, women supporting women is such an awesome thing
Yeah, most of us can't relate to you, because you have your husband home with you 24/7.
Your lifestyle is unattainable for most. Is that challenging us? Do we all have room for improvement with how minimal, clean and organized our home is? There are more important things to improve on.
It's not your responsibility to cater to people's feelings. You're doing what you think is best for you and your family, and that's quite alright. If someone feels bad seeing your clean house, that's on them, not on you. Keep up the good work! God bless!
It’s because people want justification for their short comings and failures. That’s why culture is always bashing what they deem “supermoms” as not being real and authentic.
10:50 YES!!!! You do all those things for me! I adore you and your channel. I have been subscribed since way back when you were filming in your childhood home. Thank you for sharing so much of yourself! We love you Sarah!
Oh you here? I've watched quite a few of your videos since I'm in a local cgm Facebook group and our hair type seemed similar lol
I really like this channel and I won't unsubscribe based one one video, but this one was hard to watch. I read through so many comments both positive and negative. This video is probably beneficial to your channel because it's getting so many comments which I'm sure helps you, your brand, and your income. I don't feel like you came off well in this video. You are probably extremely sweet and clearly driven and organized...but you really did come across as defensive and self righteous. Your content has never made me feel bad about myself, and I am prone to that, but this video was bordering on guilting and shaming people way more than just living your daily life ever would. Again, I think your channel is great, but this did not have the impact that, I think, you were going for. Maybe bring someone who isn't in a situation just like yours onto your channel and have some dialog with them. Or just do that in real life 🤷♀️
I kind of feel this. 😬 Love her and her content (and will continue to watch) and maybe I need to check any offense in my heart, but this felt very self righteous and at the same time I understand it. It's a weird tension. I don't want this comment to come off as negative to her. I truly enjoy watching her! Good opportunity to check my heart in this. What does God want ME to do?! 💛
This!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I totally disagree!! This is her life, people should stop being so negative just because other people have joy and enjoy doing life this way.
How righteous of you to blame her for any guilt and shame you might feel! And to further try to imply that she is closed minded and unaware of people with differing lives than her because she’s content?
Honestly girl, it just seems to me that those people accusing you of causing “mental distress” from how clean and organized your home is just more people refusing to take responsibility for their own mental health/actions/life. You keep doing you, and other people need to just go deal with their own problems instead of trying to blame you. ❤️ I appreciate you!
Viewers see your life as "unobtainable" and "unrealistic" because you aren't upfront about the fact that there are 2 of you. Kieran is a homemaker alongside you: this is a huge privilege that most families don't have. Your content would be more honest if you showed us just how much work Kieran does (childcare, homemaking, editing etc) instead of pretending that you do it all yourself.
I so agree! It’s a privilege for both of them to be at home, which some families can’t do.
She's not pretending anything though I agree it would be awesome to know more about Kieran's role too. Having said that, it's also his right to not share as much if he doesn't want to. Also, yes, most families don't have that privilege but that's the point she's also making is that she's not saying this is everyone's life at all and it's not meant to be relatable or something we aspire to be necessarily. It's just her, sharing, and us, taking from it what we do. Maybe getting entertainment from it, maybe being inspired by something, or something else.
F*ck you for that, dude.
She never claimed that she does it all by herself, she have said multiple times that every help Kieran does for her she appreciates and values so much. In almost every video she mentions him being with the kids while she films. Its easy to hate, but at least be realistic about it.
Kieren evidently looks like the guy who's more on the shy and awkward side and who isn't very comfortable being in front of a camera. He has the right to choose to be shown or not. They have divided the tasks between them by having Sarah do most of the presentation while he takes care of the behind the scenes stuff like editing and whatnot. And as the above comment mentioned, even when he's not being shown, Sarah frequently mentions him and updates us with what he's doing atm. I really do not understand the logic behind the hate, if there's any logic to begin with
I’m not a religious person and I never have been but I have a genuine appreciation for you and your relationship with religion and I think it’s beautiful and something more than worthy of respect.
Thank you for this video 💕
I don’t think people actually think you’re fake. We do believe you do all of this, regardless of filming.The thing is, in order to truly inspire and challenge people, they need to feel like you are one of them. That you are not a superhero or an alien from other planet. They need to see that you too are not perfect, you wake up with messy hair, your kids don’t always behave, sometimes you stress about things, sometimes you make a bad decision you regret, sometimes your cooking exeriment goes wrong... We don’t see those parts of your life very often and that makes it look unreal. What I’m trying to say is, if you want to make a change and be inspiring, you need to also be relatable. We do love your content and I personally find it very inspiring, but oftentimes I wish you could make your videos less filtered, which would make me go "ahah, she is a person like me, maybe I could do it too".
Yesss
Except she doesn't wanna be relatable. I've recently discovered loepkkyslife and found that they're both so similar except Delilah admits to being exhausted and i feel that and love that it feels normal and that i'm not a shitty mom. But at the same time i also feel like watching Sarah makes me wanna elevate and be a better version of myself in a way that if she's not tired, i can be not tired too. Lol contradicting but i hope that makes sense
I never thought that this was “unattainable “ because HUSBAND Is at home doing tedious behind the scenes work. I would love to re organize and bake while my husband is taking care of our kids or editing, and then get paid for reorganizing my house hahahaha well played Sarah, well played. Everything is divided 50/50 . If keeran had a normal job outside of the home then you would see what 80% percent of moms deal with
THANK YOU 💯
Amen!
But that is still fairly new!
@@jaylynnmatthies6500 so are the “hate” comments that she’s referring to in th video lol
@@Nat859 I don’t think so. I’ve been following her for years and it’s definitely been something she deals with from people lots
I'm just about your age, just got married last year, and am hoping to start a family. I love getting to see a part of your life because I grew up in a mess (in more ways than one) and I love seeing that it is possible to be different. I love how clean your house is and that you don't just throw up your hands and say, "It won't be clean until the kids are gone." I love seeing your kids playing together (and I know you've said that you don't show us their struggles, but to see them so sweet together is so precious) And I love that you have never claimed that it's easy. You show us your unmade bed, you tell us you're exhausted like any mom with a new baby is. You encourage me to try to have the home and family I've always craved because it clearly is possible. Thank you. I'm praying for you, sister.
I too grew up in a messy house, emotional and material. And I watch videos to see what a normal home looks like... but it is possible to escape the cycle, not to follow in your parents' footsteps. Just work through your experiances, don't hide or deny them. I have 2 little kids and my house is a little bit messy, but put together. But the best thing is that everyone in this house feels safe and loved - and that's up to you to make your house that way!
I feel 100% the same!! 🙌🏼
You have a beautiful life. I recognize every one has unique experiences and I love seeing yours. It's all about perspective, and if your life triggers someone, chances are it's because of a lack of self worth, or a trauma someone isn't healed from. Keep it up, you are loved!
Jesus had haters too…and he was perfect. You’re an inspiration to me and I know so many other (step)moms out there! Stay authentic to yourself. Thanks for the vulnerability…you don’t have to explain why you are the way that you are. ❤️
Wow so cool to see you here. This makes me love and respect you and your content so much more!
@@petramayes2564 hey Petra!! I love this channel :) glad you do too!! 💕
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Completely agree , love her
Did you just compare this woman to Jesus?
“If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you.” John 15:18
Girl!! I love you! I can’t even tell you how much of an inspiration your channel is to me. Don’t let the devil fool you, he tries to use the haters to derail you because he knows what good seeds your planting in your viewers. Keep pushing sister, the Lord is working through you in more ways than you imagine! Praise the Lord for you and your channel!
Literally, your "unrealistic" content makes me push myself to do better and makes me realize when i`m lacking in my faith. Thank you so much Sarah!🙏❤
I also keep my home “extremely” organized. My house is always picked up and clean. It’s something I value for my mental health. I make sure I leave the house every day with every put in its place. Many people assume I pick it up knowing I’ll have company, but it’s for me to be able to do a 360 and see clean
This is what I’m working. It’s amazing waking up or walking into my home after a day out and the house is clean. It’s alot but it’s soo worth it.
I love Sarah’s videos. They’re like a peaceful escape from my life when things are a bit crazy. They inspire me to take specific steps to get my metaphorical and physical house in order.
You inspire me Sarah! Your life is so beautiful, and I love how intentional you are with everything you do for you, your home, and your family!
You didnt need to explain yourself at all but damn Sarah...you need a big slice of humble pie😂
um.. this a hate comment or something?
Wym
What i mean is that shes over here literally saying how her home IS perfect all the time and how her life IS perfect and that she literally does NOT want 'us' to be able to relate to her, like...what?!😂🙈 thats why i have a love/hate relationship with her. I just think she could have been a little bit more humble about it, thats all.
@@hellymia88 100% the rachel hollis pride vibes. So self glorifying. Girl wash your face. "I'm challenging you -- nay, INSPIRING -- you to be better than you are... Like me!"
Whoa...her humble pie just got served🙈
The lord has used your channel to inspire me for years. Please keep challenging us, I know I can’t speak for everyone but I love it.
I’ll keep you in my prayers Sarah!🤍🤍
Okay so I love Sarah’s channel. Her kids are amazing and I get so much inspiration. But this video makes me cringe. It’s just 30 minutes of her praising herself which could have been 10 minutes of saying “hey guys I love not taking a break and being super hyper focus on cleaning and the Bible” which is totally fine but seems weird to make a video about it. If your work is public people are going to compare and complain, it’s just how social media is. But saying hey guys I know I’m perfect and I’m sorry you are not because Jesus made me this way is so odd to me. But this is just my opinion. I enjoy the channel as a whole this video is just…weird.
I agree 100%
I completely agree! Why does she need to justify or explain the way she lives?
Just ignore the haters and move on….otherwise, she’s gonna make a ton more videos like this in the future.
I agree, and on top of that I feel that the last part o video sounded like she was trying to convince herself that all of her life isn't overwhelming and too much, because she feels like she has to do it in order to provide income, which would be very sad if that's true. But I migh read it in the wrong way, these are just my feelings after watching
@@AnnaEmilka I don’t know if you have been following her for a while but if so, do you remember her breaking down stating she, “couldn’t do this anymore,” referring to RUclips and mom life? That’s why her husband left his job to assist her with RUclips and the kids. She tries to pretend she doesn’t get overwhelmed but she does. And nothing is wrong with that but she just can’t seem to allow herself to be human. She pushes herself way too hard and tries to appear to be this perfect person online when in reality, she struggles inside just like most of us. Mom life and work life, especially combined, is not easy. Sarah just can’t be honest with herself or anyone else about it because she doesn’t want to appear “weak” or like she doesn’t have it all figured out or have her “life together.”
@@catsoflotusandrooted I haven't seen that, I know this channel for a good couple of years but I only watch videos occasionally, so it's very likely that I missed that one. It does look a lot like you described though - she's pushing herself too much and thinks that it makes her happy, and when she's saying that we can see that it doesn't
The fact that I feel challenged when I watch your videos is exactly why I keep coming back to your channel!! Like you said- what we watch influences us. I'm definitely hoping you rub off on me lol. I feel like your channel has been a Godsend in my life to help me gain a healthier lifestyle, especially since I grew up not knowing what a healthy home life actually was. So thank you!!!
you're actually the person that inspired me to want kids again. I love the way you interact with them, and being able to see a healthy parent/child relationship made me see that it really is possible. Especially coming from an abusive family. Im actually possibly expecting my first now, so thank you for making me feel powerful and able. ❤
Congratulations! I hope you have a safe and happy delivery
@@brittanybertram484 thanks so much!! ❤
Wow this is such a powerful comment! Wishing you good health and happiness as you welcome your little one into the world ❤️
Girl, of course your house is that way, both of your jobs are in that house! You’re not leaving the house to go to a job, you’re spending ALOT of time in your house.
Yes
Yes, feeding two birds with one scone
Dear Sarah, I really appreciate you taking about spending time with the Lord. That is an area that, no matter where we are in life, that needs to be a priority, especially in the times we are in. The Lord needs to be our #1. God bless you, your family, home and channel. Shalom dear sister! ✌🏽♥️
Sarah I’ve been watching you for years and your life is so different than mine, your beliefs are different than mine and your goals are different than mine. That being said I’ve found so many parts of your life inspiring, especially how you’ve dedicated yourself to being the best mom you can for your kids. My unsolicited advice would be to listen to negative feedback with as much as an open heart as possible. You can remain strong in who you are while listening and learning from others. At the beginning of this video you say your lifestyle is realistic and then by the end you admit that you DO need help and you are using your income to pay for assistance. It’s okay to need help. You have many privileges and it’s important to recognize them. It is clear you have a compassionate heart. Put down your defenses and listen to the challengers.
Whenever I’m feeling down or like I’m “not doing enough” I go straight to your videos for motivation to get up and get things done. You’re videos have helped me out immensely to enjoy cleaning and cooking instead of looking it as a tiring chore. You cannot please anyone. And that’s on them. Not on you. Keep being amazing!
I grew up in a home like this. My mother was obsessed with keeping the house immaculate, and going above and beyond what was expected of a mother of 5. It was hell as a child. Living in such a controlled and sterilized environment without any freedom to "make a mess", or to not have a normal relationship with your mother since she is too busy caring about her home being perfect, is a very toxic environment for any child to grow up in.
My mother didn't mother, she kept house. And this is all I'm hearing from this video. Now granted, my mother was a SAHM with a husband that worked out of the house and didn't get any outside help. Compared to Sarah Therese who is essentially a co-homemaker with her husband, and i'm sure because of this their workload is much more manageable and less stressful. But that is the only way she would find time to "mother" her children. Not one person can run a business, homeschool, clean, cook, and look after the needs of 4 young kids. And I wish she would give Keiran the credit he deserves.
So anyone that views this as "goals" and says she is such and inspiration, this is only goals if you and your husband are both staying at home running a online social media business that literally revolves around you trying to sell your lifestyle. Then yes, they're totally goals!
This!!!👏🏻👏🏻
I can’t agree more. She has the advantage of being home and raising her kids and being a homemaker. Not many women enjoy this luxury these days with barely any maternity leave. “Stretching” yourself means different things to different people.
Yup this was me until my 3 year old son said "you're always cleaning" and it truly broke my heart. I wasn't present or engaged with my kids when I was consumed with my house being immaculate. I have balance now and realistic expectations and it's wonderful.
@@Haley_Wozniak yes! I felt obligated to parent that way since it was all I ever knew and felt anything less to be slothish, until I realized I was missing out on my motherhood. Feel so much more free and happy now choosing my kids over "homemaking".
@@jannamosinyan4317 glad I'm not the only one! These comments were making me feel like I was going crazy!
“We don’t work or function or think like a normal wife and mom does”…. Yeah you lost me there. The entitlement is real.
Would you consider how she does things like a normal mom? Putting aside the very tidy house, she records then edits a good portion of her life for public judgement so she can get a paycheck. Like yeah my mom's house was super clean and organized, but most mom's doing get paid to be homemakers.
Hi Sarah, I am from small country Slovakia in Europe and I watch your videos all the time because of your work ethic even you are at home. My mum is the best intensive homemaker as you are. And that’s is not just like everyone says do your bed and leave. It is about small details and doing it for your Family. It is the best thing to have mums like you out there. You really do your job perfectly 👏🏽❤️
thank you for being vulnerable and explaining yourself even though you don’t have to!!! you are appreciated and you are enough❤️❤️
“Comparison is the thief of joy.” Whenever we view social media, in all it’s forms, we must remember not to compare ourselves and our lives to what we see online. For one, social media is a glimpse of people’s lives, and we never truly know how accurately it portrays anything. And for another, our lives are all unique. There are too many variables to be considered, and just one different variable can have a big effect on someone’s life. Rather, we should take what we see as reminders, of how we do and do not want* to live our own lives. Use what we see as inspiration or cautionary tales. Then apply that to make our own lives the best it can be for ourselves and those we love. Keep being you, Sarah, living your life for God, for His glory, in the best interests of your beautiful family. ❤️🙏🏻
*Edited to correct a typo (what -> want)
Sarah, your videos always leave me inspired to do better. For the people who think it’s ‘unrealistic’, it may be in your priority list. If you make having a clean home more of a priority than watching netflix, or baking bread on the weekend instead of going out to a party it is realistic. It’s all in the priority you place them in. To me, it’s unrealistic to go to events every weekend or to spend my days out and about around town. I work a full time 8-5 at home job, homeschool my child, cook all our meals, garden, raise animals, my husband runs his own mechanic shop, we lead the Youth at church, we don’t have time to to the things others can do. Our priorities are different. Thank you for being SO REAL with us. It has been truly appreciated over the years.
I think we live in a society that seems to judge what everyone else does or has. Thankyou Sarah for sharing your life, I’m disgusted that the few who judge or hate your way of life etc, I can’t stand cyber bullying or any kind of bullying I know we all have different views and that’s fine it’s when people criticise in a hateful way. I love watching your videos i like how your organised and that is the way that I like to live it helps mentally as I suffer anxiety and depression and a tidy comfy home helps me so much. Love to you and your family, be proud of your life and kids xx 💕
My whole life I felt like in order to be a strong woman I had to pursue a career and “not need a man” or wait to have kids, etc. With Gods help I saw the strength in serving my husband and kids and making my house feel like a home but haven’t met another woman who could relate. Seeing your videos shows me how beautiful the role of a woman is and how beautiful it is to love and respect my husband and care for my kids. Please never doubt who you are in The Lord.
8:03 I definitely find it bizarre as well that people give you hate for your clean, organized house. I've been watching your videos for several months now. I started when I was pregnant with my daughter and now she is about to be 1 month old. Watching your videos has helped me get more organized. I really strive to do more and keep my house better kept up because of you. You're such an inspiration. I love watching your videos so much. It makes my day when I see that you've posted something.
Agree. Tired of the “hot mess mom” trend
Sarah I am so grateful for your content. And most of us are!! You do inspire and challenge in the best way! Thank you for being you!! And for sharing your heart. I think this needed to be heard by all of us. You are appreciated!
Maybe this year's lesson could be humility... ;)
AMEN!
I don’t agree, it sounded like being unapologetic for the way she wants to live her life and inspire people.
@@noelleleithem1731 it's not just that she "wants" this life, she also has an immense amount of privilege, as another commenter said. Not every homemaker can make money on RUclips from what they do the way she does. Sarah worked hard to get this channel up and running, but there are only so many people who can achieve this, the way that there can only ever be a few people who win a gold medal at the Olympics.
One has to love all these super humble people here who have found time to listen for half an hour even though they didn't like what they're hearing, and then tell Sara (and the internet) what humility score she gets. The world is a miraculous place. Do you people treat your friends like this as well?
No wonder complaining is much more popular in female conversations, it seems that people are just having a very hard time listening to someone tell them how happy they are in their life.
@@patisauniausia you're totally right that people who don't like her should just not watch the videos -- clearly from the overwhelming positive comments on the video, we do have this self-selection effect. For me, I had subscribed because I got into minimalism and vaguely liked her decluttering videos and just kinda kept watching her stuff without really connecting with it too much but I couldn't put my finger on why. But with how arrogantly she talked in this video and the discussion in the comments, I finally understand why I never really vibed with her. So, I have unsubscribed actually because I can't stand her now that she's revealed her ugly perspective like this. I bet she lost a few followers with this humblebrag video (though maybe made up for it with the amount of engagement/comments it generated...).
people need to stop binge watching whatever it is including RUclips - you can get a lot done in 30 minutes. People need to put down other people's perfection and create their own.
love this!! Needed to hear it!
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Agreed 100%! I watch RUclips for a short time only after I have my responsibilities done. If I my to-do list isn't done, I skip the internet for that day. As a result my house stays clean, my family stays happy, pets stay well cared for, I stay happy & busy. This makes me feel productive and happy, has even helped my mental health. I understand everyone has different circumstances, but the people I know that complain about other people being "unrealistic" or that their life is disorganized, are the ones binge watching Netflix or scrolling RUclips for hours.
I totally relate to you about not being able to relax until things are “perfect”
Sarah,
I’m 40, Jesus lover, Wife, Mom, and CEO of a company. I love learning from you. I appreciate you being vulnerable and sharing snapshots of your day and your heart. Thanks for all the work you do to encourage us Mamas to press into the Lord and bring Him honor and glory in all we do! Sorry some people are jerks. You keep on doing good work, girl! Xoxo 💜
And please everyone don’t forget, that she seems to have her husband at home and he is obviously at least helping with the children and work. Not everyone has that. I love her clean house and everything. But please don’t compare to her. She is just in a very different situation than most people are.
So true! But I also remember her videos before Kieran was able to stay home, her priorities and habits were much the same. I really think her clean home and organized life is from her personality and years of prioritizing and making certain habits.
Yes exactly this!!!
You don’t set an unrealistic lifestyle, it’s just the world’s “normal” is overconsumption, cluttered, in debt, and unhappy, so you’re just going against the grain.
Omg, yes.
So proud of you for being open, honest, and vulnerable with all of us. Praying for you and your family. You are honestly such a huge inspiration for me. I’ve sent friends your videos and they love them so much. All of us find them insanely helpful! You are wonderful keep sharing and doing what you’re doing🤍🤍
This made so much sense to me. I’m intense in my home too and in my teaching job. I’ve come to realise this my personal standard, it’s what makes me happy, calm, gives me peace. I just wish I could make my personality less busy🥲 I find you so calming to watch. It’s always good to have someone to look up to and something to aspire too. I’ve also gotten quite a bit of flack for the way I am.
PREACH! Your channel is such a blessing and encouragement to me ❤️ We all have different gifts, jobs, schedules, and personalities and it is beautiful to see a mom who loves taking care of her home and being with her people. And love to see how you use your time so wisely! It helps me navigate all the things with all the little people ❤️
You are so inspiring, don’t let anyone bring you down. You’re homemaking is an absolute ministry 💕 My goal in life is to be a Proverbs 31 woman, and in many ways you help me get there through a more modern lens.
Something about this almost felt like watching Mr. Rodgers and when he would talk about hard topics. Loved it and I love being motivated and challenged by how wonderfully productive and diligent your lifestyle is. It's impacted my personal life and helped me to create healthier habits that make me happier! Especially in a hard, rut season of my life. Thank you for all of your hard work!
LOVE THIS! You go girl! You not only inspire me, but you challenge me and I’m thankful for that!
I also came from a home with a mother who was very “intense” and I know for a fact that we “pristine girls” aren’t better than anyone for living that way, we simply do what we need to function better, as you mentioned.
Your videos actually makes me feel seen and quite honestly inspired to be the best mom, wife, friend, sister, daughter, Christian I can be.
Keep letting God use you as He has and know that I’m only one of many young women who are learning sooo much from you. ❤️
So much of this speaks to me. From your channel over the years, I have gathered you love being a mama, a wife, and a child of God, with minimal items in your life and an abundance of love around you. And you live intentionally. Mindfully. You inspire me to live more intentionally in my life. Thank you for sharing your life. It's inspiring for me.
Sarah, I love your channel, it gives me so much inspiration and motivation to know that I always have things to improve on. I love how you are set in your faith and are so appreciative of where you are in life despite everything. You have blessed me so much in your content and your little chats! Keep doing what you're doing! x
Almost 2 years now I am watching your channel. Every time it is so relaxing. I send you (and your family) a lot of love! You are a great person. Do what makes you happy. Other’s jealousy will always be around… 🌞🌼
“I don’t make content to make you feel small but I want to challenge you” you most definitely do this Sarah!
Also praying you continue to grow in trusting in the Lord to find rest in him so you can keep serving him as you serve your family!
Your energy feels like home to me. You inspire me despite some of my goals being different. And seeing what you do, with food specifically, has really encouraged me to branch out and use whole foods more.
Sarah, you inspire me every day to be better, to try to live a more mindful life and to love and care myself to be able to it with others. 💖 You don't have to explain yourself!! You are doing great and you should keep being real! I love it and I know bunch of people do it too 😘 Gigante hug
I love having my house clean, that’s when I thrive the most, but some people think I’m judgmental if their house it’s not, and I honestly don’t care how they live😅 if they invited me I’ll be happy to have fellowship, but some people are just like that, so I totally can relate to you. Thanks for sharing this ❤️❤️
As long as you're happy in your home, that's all that matters!
I can't even begin to fathom how people blame the way THEY feel about themselves, on you. Different people have different priorities. If they feel some type of way for the way you live, then they should just use that as motivation to make small changes little by little. Doesn't mean they have to be EXACTLY like you, but simply just use it as motivation.
Am I the only one that feels like it's "trendy" to be lazy. Not only trendy but applauded? I absolutely agree with what you said Sarah. The Lord wants us to work hard and try to be better EVERYDAY then we were the day before. I watch you because you inspire me to be a better wife, mother, and daughter of God. Thank you🤍 xoxo
I don't think that it's about laziness. And implementing that is what makes people feel angry or overwhelmed. It's not fair. People have different circumstances and different priorities. I like to have my home clean and organized, but I don't assume that people whose homes are a bit more messy then mine are lazy. That's potentially very hurtful way of thinking. It can damage relationships.
My goal is to have a “guest ready home” all the time. It’s a lot of work. But it does feel so much better when the house is under control. Especially when it comes to taking care of my two year old. But my whole family benefits when I put in the work. It’s worth it. And my house is sooooooo much better than it was when I started. And no, my house isn’t always pristine. I do like seeing how nicely your house is put together. Your minimalism videos are great motivation for me to work on my house to get to that point too. It’s do-able. But yes, it is a lot of work. 💜
Ever since I started watching your videos and became a subscriber, you have motivated me more than anything. I never felt less than or inadequate. When I watch your declutter videos for example, I’m not the type of person that declutters their closet constantly but I have been motivated to go through my stuff and donate it a little bit more than normal. It’s the little things that you share in your videos that have made an impact on my life. ❤️
I think though that we often forget that there is an immense amount of privilege that comes with being able to be a homemaker. A privilege that's not often afforded to a lot of BIPOC homemakers. Staying home and being a full-time homemaker is a privilege. I start my day at 5:30am, and I work all day outside of the home to provide for my children and family, and no matter how much prioritizing I do, I will truly never have enough time for a daily sourdough starter. That's because of the fact that I do not have the economics for staying home with my family. So I watch this channel because it's the lifestyle I pray that one day my family will have the financial stability and opportunity for. With that being said, I take time away and time in prayer and thought to never become overwhelmed with what I don't have. Hence, I don't feel any type of way and it makes me sad Sarah receives hate because that's not her burden to carry. But I think it's important that we remember the immense amount of privilege we each hold in different ways.
Privilege is the perfect word for it.
Everything has a bite. Its one thing for another ... more likely... one thing or another. I think it's more the decisions that we have made in life that lead us into some hardships that we face at the present. I wouldn't change them though. They have lead me to what I have now. Tell you the truth though, bipoc i am but i don't think that had much to do the hardships (pridefully stupid decisions most likely). Probably controversial but ... my immigrant mom (full time homemaker/ full time maid) showed me hard work and will power ... regardless of the racist/sexist/toxic stuff she put up with .. triumphs, always. God is good, continue to kick butt in your life. I pray that the good will always outweigh the bad in your life, in Jesus' name. I pray that same prayer for myself.
Don't be offended. Im really just talking to myself. Time to hang some wet clothes.
@@catr9698 I totally agree with you. I’m Mexican, so I guess considered “bipoc”? However I’ve never thought of myself as more or less privileged than others and believe what the Bible says that there is “neither Jew nor gentile”. I do think that maybe Sarah is overthinking things a bit here though. It’s not a bad thing for her to have developed these specific skills and success.
Being a public figure/influencer especially a Christian one is incredibly difficult in the times we’re in. Continue to be a light!! Do what you need to do and stick to what you believe and continue living in what you know to be the Lord’s will for your life and your families. Sending love your way❤️
I can count the times that I sit down during the day and I just sat for half an hour to watch this video. There are so many days that I wonder how in the world I make things happen. I can’t think when my house is not in order so I work HARD to keep it going. Thank you so much for opening up to us about this. I know it’s not easy being vulnerable online!❤️
Sarah, you inspire me! You hit the nail on the head with your mission to give us an example of a well run home and to challenge us. I feel like I struggle with similar criticism from others when they see me as “Miss Perfect” and it hurts. I’m not perfect, I’m just a stay at home mom working hard to contribute to the household and shine in everything I do. You’ve worded it all so beautifully. Thank you for being you. The world needs more Sarah’s.
LOVE THIS. the people you watch online should challenge you. I am only 18, but you have done that for me! You inspire me to build healthy habits NOW for not only me in this moment, but for my future self and my future family. You are motivating me to change my life so that I live in a way that makes sense for me, and my best functioning. Thank you for being an “influencer,” for the good.
I am the same way with my house, I don't feel in the flow if things aren't neat, clean, and orderly, there is definitely an energetic component to this. Love your "fishbowl" thoughts, good reminder for us all!
Sarah - I really do admire your content. I enjoy learning new recipes from you, and am inspired by your minimalist home. This comment comes from a place of truly being a fan of yours. This video lacks acknowledgment of privilege of many kinds. I don’t want to make assumptions about you because I don’t think that’s fair. So I’ll just say this: women of color, single mothers without help, and those who are below the poverty line don’t have the same advantages that others may take for granted. For some, daily life presents immense challenges and a clean home is the last thing on their minds. For others, they are a minimalist mom out of complete necessity and not being able to afford anything outside of what’s needed. Have you ever sat in line at a grocery store wondering if your card will bounce? What about experiencing prejudice and racism while applying for a job? It’s terrifying. I am a white, privileged woman in a corporate career and I acknowledge this because it’s important. May I suggest if you haven’t already reading Uncomfortable Conversations with a Black Man to broaden your perspective. Others may have suggestions too. I hope you’ll take them.
Hear, hear!
I was also thinking about the privilege she enjoys of having children who are healthy and who don’t have special needs. And the privilege of having her personal health and her husband’s health, not to mention a husband to begin with.
Hear hear
Hear , hear.
omg you’re completely right
I was like that when I was younger. For my first 20yrs of marriage, my house was always so clean and organized, homemade meals, etc, etc, while I had a full time job. Until I had a nervous breakdown. I ended up getting therapy and now I do things very differently. I admire you so much and you seem to enjoy it and you look so calm. I was happy too and I loved my pretty house but in the end I just realized I needed to relax and enjoy life more. Blessings