parris jackson He stayed silent, but kept listening. Poor thing doesn’t know anything about dressing well. His parents never taught him. So I’ve been helping him with that. It’s hard to break old habits, but I told him it’s no excuse & he needs to step it up.
The video says “FEMININE” not beautiful. She’s not saying you’re unattractive if you wear sporty gear. These are tips that scientifically make you appear feminine. These textures and colors are psychologically linked to the female.
@@arya8214 So why would you say "why would you want to be something youre not?" That idea is so toxic for so many reasons. Its the most classic excuse for putting down women or men who want to better themselves. Not everyone is satisfied with what they already are, and thats OKAY. The terrible idea of using "be yourself" to encourage people not to aim for something better that doesnt come naturally to them is what's kept me and so many others down for so long. Asking why someone wants to change just shows you dont really know how to do it yourself. I hope you learn how.
1)Wear dainty jewlery(ankle bracelets, pendant bracelets). 2) Wear dresses(florals, nudes, baby blue, pink, lavender) 3) Wear heels 4) Wear off shoulder, scoop and v necks. For example, play around with highlighter on collarbone 5) Texture such as solid colors, play with fabrics(lace, silk, ruffles), 6) Wax and shave your body, this gives you a clean and polished look. (Wax underarms, eyebrows are groomed, lashes, cater to skin). 7)Lips(nudes, berry, pink) 8)Invest in a quality bag like Kate Spade, Tory Burch or Ted Baker. 9)invest into proper shape-wear 10) Quality Loungewear-invest in sets like matching underwear
I'm 16, and I can't wait to make such videos on my channel, I literally love them. I just need to get a proper camera and upgrade my wardrobe xx feel free to sub
Ladies as a woman in her 30’s, these tips go a long way. As dark skin women we have to work harder to dispel the “angry black woman” stereotype. So being feminine and tapping into your feminine energy will only benefit you. For those on a budget i suggest you invest in Afterpay. Everyone’s having sales, so start with the sales and clearance sections so you can get more bang for your buck. You can revamp your closet on the cheap and fast. Also get off of Instagram and get on Pinterest for outfit ideas. Instagram is for popularity. You don’t want to look like everyone else. Before this nonsense i went to Pinterest every night for outfit ideas. Putting time and thought into how i dress makes me prouder of my appearance.
kierra w it’s a great way to overhaul your wardrobe. And is super budget friendly. Being feminine doesn’t require a lot of designer labels. Just time and effort.
Nah. The way I see it is the epitome of having self respect as a woman is being authentic to yourself. Dress how you are most comfy; do not dress how you presume others think you should dress. That is self respect. When you are truly comfortable and proud of how you look is how you foster self love. If you’re doing you; nothing is off :)
I agree. If I'm going to the skate park with friends, I'm not going to show up in a dress and heels with my makeup done. I might have a little makeup on, some jeans, and some vans. Part of being classy and feminine is learning how to dress for the occasion.
I have a hard time with being feminine. I wasn't taught it growing up and I'm learning slowly but I use to be a tomboy and I still from time to time like comfortable baggy clothing😩🙏🏾 I promise to come out of quarantine looking better.
Thats exactly what this channel is here for sis. I will CONTINUE to educate and mentor until you get the hang of it. Practice and repetition makes perfect 💎
I don’t understand all the people in the comments talking about “I think it’s okay to do both”... you’re watching a video on f e m i n i n i t y... so if you don’t wanna be feminine why are you here?
Because we ARE the feminine woman - if you’re watching this and need these videos frequently - you just don’t have it. But that doesn’t mean you can’t attract a kindhearted man. And it is okay. Your demeanor is super masculine.
The comment about who gets more attention. When I was a little younger I actually used to notice that those cool sporty girls always got more attention and had the cute boyfriend or everyone had a crush on her. I now realize it was because those guys were young and loved the idea of being with a girl that was like his “bros”. I used to feel like I had to be more sporty chic myself because of that. Now I would still rather be feminine over anything else because at least I know I would be attracting “real men” not someone that wants a girl to play video games with 😂
Yes and those were the girls and guys that made you feel you weren't "black enough" if you didn't have that "hood persona"... I am learning to just be myself... If "bougie" to them means feminine well that's not my problem..
Also I do believe the "dress down look" can be feminized if you still are a feminine woman and add elements to the look that plays off your femininity.. Okay bye.
Sporty girls are liked cuz dude like physical activity’s, and from my experience they seem to be a lot more open an friendly. Guy are simple a they can basically get on our simple level.
Please know femininity is more about demeanor and mindset than what you wear. You can be feminine in a pant suit and masculine in a dress. If you’re thinking about this at 14 you’re probably ahead of the game. You got this girl, be authentically you.
Listen sistersss! ❤️ i started wearing dresses, and where I work there’s a korean store nearby. Because the owner and staff always see me always so feminine in my dress, I can request food that’s not even on the menu. Just this week I got 50% off of my meal. Let me tell y’all, dressing, appearing and being feminine is POWER. ❤️
MY PERSONAL TESTIMONY READ: I can honeslty testify to this whole video. Born and rasied a muslim (still am), I wasn't given the option to wear larger jewelry or shorts etc. Dresses and more "modest clothing" was my wordrobe. When I hit puberty I had a huge tomboy rebel faze where I would wear jordans etc. to feel more accepting around those at school. Around senior year of highschool i completely came out of that. I was always a dressy girl at heart regardless of my religion. When I started college i always wore and wear heels dresses (more so sweater style dresses) longer coats with nice clean cuts. Long skirts yet fit just the way they need to. Occasiaonly to give my feet a rest I would wear pumas or sneakers( ONLY BECAUSE I AM A BALLET DANCER...lol my feety get inured a lot). I would personally never wear a loud colored coat as it just simply doesn't fit my personal style. I was blessed to be taught by my mother and other older women around me in my youth the beauty of the form and how to use it. I was taught how to tailor my clothes to fit my body shape accordingly. I was taught the best clothes to wear and things to stay away from. NOW FOR THR REAL TESTIMONY! I have had men (grown men in college 36-40) tell me when I come in room they feel they need to stand up. I have had younger college boys athletes etc tell me they feel the need to make way when I come through. NOW LADIES THIS IS NOT JUST HOW I DRESS, THIS IS A MINDSET THAT YOU NEED TO CARRY. dressing different won't necessarily attract a better man, yet it can help. Change your cheap mindset and your cheap and vulgar ways will change too.... not being rude. I have heard people correct other people in front of me if they said something wrong...mind you some of these people were strangers to me. I have had girls tell others to stop cursing when I am in the elevator because I am there. Dudes are scared lifeless to talk to me and have told me I am very intimidating and come off very grown and not for the b.s just by my looks and how I carry myself.
I honestly love your story. It really gives me motivation. I’m graduating this year, and I am working on glowing up to my feminine side! If you don’t mind, I would like to ask you some questions! What steps did you take to transform your mindset? What did you do to glow up on the outside? And where do you buy really good quality feminine clothes? Do you know any brands that are non fast fashion?
@@parvatychery7073 IF YOUR WILLING TO READ ALL THIS LOL.....I am so flattered and honored to give some amazing tips and advice that I have learend. The first step to my mindset transformation was understading what it means to be a woman.These crusty, dusty, musty men lol will literally make you other than yourself. Surround yourself with women who think similar. FORGET BEING A "BAD BITCH" lol that's not going to cut it.The art and beauty of feminity is more than just showing cleavage and always getting your nails done. Feminity is another side to god that we as women have been blessed to attain. THE BIGGEST THING TO STOP DOING IS GET RID OF THESE TRENDS. In the name of god there is nothing worse that says lack of true character than following trends. Throw out those fashionova followers and trends that nearly every women follows. I will say men have a lot to do with what women like thesedays but honeslty damn them lol....atleast the bummy ones. I remeMber coming to school one day and seeing that nearly every girl looked exaclty the same jordans, eyelashes, crop top, wigs. Now there isn't anything horrible about these things but come on lets give it a break. Find out the kind of colors that contour your your face the clothes that contour your form regardless of your shape. Get some hobbies and I dont mean installing wigs. Personally I decided to play piano about 8 years ago and it has giving me the ability to do many things. I was also gifted with amazing artistic skills (drawing, painting).Study a new language. These subtle hobbies will already make you out of everyones league. I COULD NEVER SETTLE WITH HAVING A PRETTY FACE AND NO TRUE TALENTS OR CHARACTER. Most of these instagram models have nothing to offer and that is exaclty why they attract men who have nothing to offer but their bodies. Now as far as clothes brand slike zimmerman, max mara, or loft are good places. They are a little expensive so I recon starting offf small. Shein actually has very decent clothes just try to not to buy antyhing under 30 dollars. They have decent peices that can be put together well. Try zara or fancy clothing stores downtown that most people arent overhyping. Try to refrain from boisterous loud clothing like highlighter green hair or clothing. Find the colors that work best on your skin. Neat hair is always key along with neat modest nails and colors. HUGE DEAL GET YOUR OWN PERSONAL SMELL. STOP WEARING VS OR BATH AND BODY WORKS LOLLLL. So many girls wear these. Find your own personal sent that you can be identified as. I personally wear chanel and versace perfrumes just a classy little detail about myself.
ĴẴᵯilah ṦḤakir OMG!! Thank you so much for responding so fast!! This is the best best advice that’s been given to me! I am totally agree with what you say! Thank you so much for your time! I legit screenshoted this!!😂😂😊😊😊
@@parvatychery7073 No problem ! I love helping ladies out and if you want even more details and tips you can dm me on my ig @jamilah.shakir for my number if you want more tips and help in the future.
TIP: I reccomend pairing these femininity videos with technical videos about color, shape, and technique. Alexandras Girly Talk is one that has really helped. She breaks down how to dress down to the details like shade. For example, when Miss Feminine says to wear florals, nudes, pinks, I can take that information and then go to a channel like the one I listed. In a video, she explains how shades impact the color you wear. That helps me pinpoint what kind of pinks, nudes, and florals will compliment my skin
Aly Art has really good set of videos on body shape and Justine Leconte has a really good one on how to analyse your skintone. They're both white but i think it would work whatever. Also, Aly Art's video on making your eyes look huge - sounds stupid but it's amazing!
Femininity truly is powerful. This is why I started my brand. Showcasing femininity and beauty without showing too much. There is something about a soft elegant woman that is simply alluring. Thank you for the great tips and for including so many details!
I’m 21 and I really needed this video ! I’m really transitioning in to woman hood & becoming much more feminine . I am you sneaker and jean type of girl but now I’m cleaning out my closet and starting all over !! Make more videos like these it really helped me
I’m not understanding why y’all came onto a “how to dress more feminine” video to make a statement about how you’ll dress how you want. like… read the room. if you don’t want to learn how to dress more feminine, why did you even watch?
Am definitely working on my look,...I already have an idea of how I want to dress..I even have a list of clothes,shoes,and accessories that I want to buy..I don't want to be frumpy anymore..I want to be the girl that gets compliments everywhere she goes. Thank u for this video,and to all the ladies let's enjoy being feminine..happy Wednesday..😍
I'm in my early 20's, and in my teens, I always felt bad about myself cause my friends would always get attention from guys. No one ever liked me. I definitely believed that sexy=showing more skin. But the few times I wore revealing clothing, whether for a birthday party or a night out with my girls, I felt SO uncomfortable. I didn't feel sexy and I got unwanted attention. I'm older and more aware of myself now, and definitely feel sexier and more confident when I'm covered. Wearing high quality clothing that fits right does a lot more for my confidence than wearing super short-shorts and crop tops. But no judgement to anyone who does feel confident like that. It's just not me.
While I agree with the whole feminine ideology, there are some things to take into consideration such as one's finacial situation. For instance, you mention investing in a brand hand bag but if one is unemployed or finacially constrain, this investment would not be viewed as an asset.
Then revamping a closet should be the last thing on your mind. This journey you should be leveling up and working on financial, emotional, and physical health.
I love this! I’ve dressed masculine all my life and now I want to switch it up! I’m ready to be my true feminine self, heels, dresses, dainty jewelry, glowing skin! I’m trying to look good for myself! And my future husband.
I use the like this between 18 to 20 n people use to laugh at me n say where u think you going so gradually i stopped ..i use to love wearing dresses n small jewelry was so cute n fun for me.. but my self esteem doped my confidence.. i need to get back to where i was before.. you speak truth my friend.. thanks for your words
I usually wear small gold hoops or small gold hoops with pearl ball attachments and other small feminine minimalistic attachments because it looks dainty and very feminine.
Hi, thank you for making this video😊. I’m 14 and all my life my mom had never been feminine or ever taken care of herself so I don’t know about any of these things and your video really helped me!! Thank you❤️❤️
A friend sent this video to me because she mentioned that I appeared in it. I’m honored that you added me to this video, I would have loved to have been tagged for credit.
I absolutely love how much work you put into your content. The power behind feminine energy is amazing. I’ve been doing it naturally since I was a young girl. Thank you for taking the time to make women more soft and approachable:) seeing so many hard calloused women out there is very sad. Having content like this can change so many lives! 👍 ♥️ 😚
I grew up being taught that being this feminine behavior was bad. But everything in your videos I couldn’t agree more with. Thank you❤️ ! Could you do a video on feminine eye wear and opinions on tattoos and piercings 🌺
I feel like femininity is more a vibe than a way of dressing. I feel like we can go too far with trying to look perfect all the time and we end up actually constricting our feminine energy because were not actually feeling comfortable and free in ourselves. At the end of the day i feel like what you feel personally comfortable AND beautiful in that is also effortless is how to feel the most feminine. Nothings worse than being dressed up with your makeup perfect but you feel constricted or like you cant move freely and be you
Chaya H, that's precisely why I fell off from my feminity. I use to be hella feminine, but of course, men destroyed my confidence, and I felt like I was trying too hard to be feminine. I wasn't comfortable anymore.
@@kaybee46 yeah i feel you! Sometimes these vids can send the impression that preforming "hyper feminine "rituals and always dressing the part is how to be more feminine when really its your energy and how free and safe you feel in your body actually, not having all these restrictions and rules
@@13ikea Dont get me wrong i could wear dresses every day but I mean focusing on it too much or wearing pretty things you dont really feel comfortable in is counter productive. Like really you dont need heels and delicate jewelry to feel and look feminine
When you said find stuff that properly fits you and doesn’t hug your rolls I felt that my mom and me went shopping last week and she told me the straight truth I’m glad she did cause I didn’t even notice. 😭
I'm 15 and I dont mind being in touch with my femininity but I mainly wear boy clothes to not be sexualized so I can be comfortable due to past experiences
Same… but i realized that i was being looked at like a piece of meat even in boys clothes anyways so i decided i should embrace feminine clothing again for myself.
GIRL! I know, i know…im a 45 year old suburban white women, BUT I LOVE EVERYTHING YOU TEACH!!!! You are spot on! I am a life coach that helps women think through their life so they can be more authentic. This is such valuable information in a woman’s authenticity! I don’t know where you’re getting this information girl, but keep up the good work, because you are so valuable
I love this channel and it’s overall content but I’d like to challenge you to not talk down about other women while uplifting yourself and your own choices. The non-feminine photos you use are still black queens and they didn’t ask to be looked at in a negative light in front of thousands for not being up to your standard
ya know what? im super into this channel and how it flat out tells women to look pretty bc we're always pushed to "think like a man" when u really just dont. there is nothing wrong with feeling like a woman💕
There's Toke Makinwa, tokemakinwaluxury.com/ , luxury bags by a Nigerian woman designer. There's also ZAAF, www.zaafcollection.com/, also luxury bags by an Ethiopian woman designer. Both ship internationally.
Nice video. But I also think there's no standard of beauty, am not being negative ❤️people dress how they Wana express themselves and it works for them. There's nothing wrong with wearing sweat pants, it's actually cute. U gotta know that people have a lot insecurities in themselves and when u promote anything regarding a women👑= cover all insecurities but when you point out things that make other women feel less about themselves just cs they wear long pink wigs 'not that I wear them'= it doesn't elevate you as a women at all...this ain't a competition, it's about being dominant (so be you) Wear however u Wana wear❤️ and stop making such women feel less cs they ain't feminine... Ferminity is about an aura, your presence and if u get intimidate by such in life then what's your value of being a women? I belong in all categories =faminine, sweat pants, chilled clothes, sexy clothes, rag clothes cs am human and a women of all beauties... And I love all women regardless of what they wear or their past! ❤️ they are still women who deserves to be loved, crowns of this nations. Clothes does not define beauty=not that we should be wreckless/careless but rather build/teach women than making famininity a trend to crush other women.
Authenticity is key! I think that confidence and authenticity are the most feminine characteristics a woman can have. So do what makes you feel the most authentic and confident. Remember, we are dynamic souls and we have different needs and wants in every season. So your style can be dynamic as well and it can change depending on where you are in your journey. This video has tips for a certain type of aesthetic. If it doesn’t fit you or another woman right now, that is okay, life is an ongoing journey. At the end of the day, you have the right to live it however you please.
@@shae1005 its really not about this thing fitting me or other women... Embrace ferminity yes but don't think u better than any other women cs that ain't attractive... By the way I love the tips she gave but crushing others cs they wear pink wigs or show much skin ... What makes u more feminine? Did u even see the comments others gave 'like what wrong with wearing addidas pants...? Yes live however u Wana live an embrace all❤️
So like.....what if you’re somewhere in the middle? I wear heels and dresses and keep myself up....but I also love sneakers and athletic clothes. But I want that alluring feminine energy!
I definitely invested in a high quality bag a few weeks ago (Dior) and felt so good while making my purchase. So I agree with not wearing the same handbag as every woman around the way while leveling up. Also, I don’t wear T shirts and stuff around the house I wear silk or satin lingerie or pajamas for lounge wear and to bed. I also spray perfume on me before laying down on silk sheets but that’s just me lol
Men are simple an can have a one track my and can’t always tell the difference between sexual & romantic attraction it took time an thought for me to notice it.
Yes, and like you said people can feel the energy so it's not just the feminine look, that's 50% of it, the other half is the attitude and the aura you give. You can't just be a classy baddie and have a stank or stuck up attitude that won't get you far or what you truly want.
Thank God there’s way around remaining feminine w/o wearing heels and dresses all the time bc those are my weak points. I can never find a comfortable heel😩 love the video🌸
That last tip was so helpful with the quality lounge wear for indoors! I need to find some nice quality wrap dresses to wear for when I step outside for errands! These tips were amazing ! I’ve been loving your videos lately and it has been helping me take better care of myself mentally and physically! xx 💋
At 3:27, I feel like it matters what a girl wears, but if she has a style then thats her style. A guy will like a girl for her attitude, personality, and yes appearance. But if you just have appearance with a soft little voice.... then the girl who has all three key factors will get the guy. I personally love the 90s baggy tlc look, but I also love the Aaliyah and Beyonce feminine look and I can pull off both. I just feel like maybe make a video on how to improve your personality and attitude along with appearance. ✨ ❤️
what’s wrong with wanting to dress like a tomboy? not every girl wants to dress like this😂. i dress to please myself. my face attracts people, not what i wear. love the video though!
Bonolo Nkokou Femininity = having qualities or an appearance traditionally associated with women, especially delicacy and prettiness. This channel is spreading her version of femininity in terms of physical appearance and inner qualities. You can be a woman and be masculine and there is nothing wrong with that. She is just promoting feminine women. Masculine = having qualities or appearance traditionally associated with men, especially strength and aggressiveness. Being a women doesn’t automatically mean you are in touch with your femininity. A lot of women prefer to be more masculine in terms of the way they dress and how they carry theirselves. This channel is here to help the women who want to be more feminine. If you guys don’t agree with it or don’t want it for yourselves, exit the video. If it doesn’t apply let it fly.
I honestly love these videos. I have always been a very modest women. However like you said. Showing a little skin and leaving the rest to the imagination sets you/me apart from other women. I love that! You also gave me some other great tips and information!😊
I am 32 years old getting out of a long-term relationship. I’ve always thought my “way” was natural. I’ve always kept a mans attention and anytime I walked in a room and I felt as if all eyes are on me. Welp, after being with my boyfriend for so long I got comfortable. I really forgot these things I have always done naturally made me attractive, confident and feminine! I love your videos, my new “bible”. Love love love this education and reminders! I am a living truth that all of your advice is genuinely THE foundation to self-confidence and MOSTLY a healthy and meaningful relationship! Thank you Queen 👸🏾
I like this video and I am on my own feminine journey myself, but some of these tips are a bit...eh. Like the comment about "throw away all your cheap bags from fashion Nova and invest in designer", well not everyone has the luxury of spending money on expensive things; I'm a college student who supports myself and pays for most of my schooling out of pocket. I spend money for my own pleasure maybe twice a month and it usually doesn't go over $150, if that. I know its possible to save up money towards a material investment, but designer items have never been on top of my priority list. If something looks nice to me, I'll get it...I don't care about whose name is on it. Shoot, one of my favorite purses I got for $35 a Target, 2 years ago, lmao. Also, I think it's okay to be feminine yet relaxed sometimes; running to the store or gas station doesn't necessarily call for putting on your tightest dress and a full face of makeup.
Thank you so much for this video ❤️🙏🏾 I realized I’ve been purchasing wrong stuff! Ive been thinking lately about doing a shopping spree now I know what to buy that associates with femininity. Thank youuu ❤️
I notice when I wear weave at work men are all over me staring . But when I wear my natural hair they walk pass me lol . I still get compliments on my natural hair they say with my high cheekbones I can rock anything but idk it makes me not want to talk to those men . They are so shallow . There is this one guy there that likes me with anything I wear . He is a supervisor and very much married . Very inappropriate and makes nasty comments towards me . Old enough to be my dad ugh .
I get the opposite. My natural hair is a plus ---I live well outside the black community , and am considered exotic. I art model in my spare time teach art too. My two cents : Leave , find work and travel somewhere else. Where u are RESPECTED. P.S. I am sixty this month. Men 30 years younger even do not know this. u got a ton of time. Be SELFISH.
Thank you for this video 🙏🏾I’m using quarantine to my advantage to level up which includes pampering myself, and working out so I’ll fit better in my new clothing💖 I’m also cutting out music that I use to like that has masculine frequencies
I really love your video and I've been trying hard to start to become more feminine. But as a college student, it's a bit hard to balance and this is a new concept for me. I'm from Jamaica 🇯🇲 and all I grow up to was that rough woman who took care of things. It's kinda expensive to keep up sometimes and I don't want this feminine experience to feel overbearing. Could you make a video on how to start out mayb on a budget or for college students ?? I would really love that💟
Hey girl Im from Jamaica too! Start with staple pieces! A white cotton button up blouse, dark jeans without rips or acid wash and a nice biege point toe sandals! You can check out brit bran, sovereign and payless for these items! Less is more! Start with basic colours and no neons or overly patterned clothing! But most importantly wear your confidence no matter what outfit you have on!
You made some valid points with the lounge wear and stuff but there isn’t one particular straight forward way to be feminine. Ladies can be sporty and still feminine. You can wear statement jewelry, you just have to know the right things to pair them with. Individuality is more important than trying to fit into one particular female stereotype.
i agree with you on these things, especially on some outfits we see women wear, but a girl can wear nikes and a dress or nikes and a skirt if that what they're comfortable with. any woman can have femininity, regardless if they have hoop earrings. some girls like streetwear or alot of colors, and that doesn't make them any less feminine
Thank you for sharing! The times and trends are definitely shifting 2020. Less sexy and more romantic in women’s fashion. This is what us ladies need to be hearing now! May you continue sharing!:)
When you asked who gets looked at more, I instantly said “the girl with the cropped tee” simply because they give off this aura that says “I’m easy going” meanwhile the girl who looks a little more “put together” gives off the aura of “I’m not playing any games” and sometimes I feel awkward dressing up because I don’t like for people to think my nose is in the air
Thank you Miss Feminine for the wonderful tips. please do upload a video for students at varsity who would like to still dress in a feminine way while under the pressure of books on a budget. Lots of love from Namibia!!!!
I really struggle with: - slip-on shoes that look feminine (I have fallen arches so ballet flats are a no for me) - what to wear to the grocery store - how to dress as a straight body type (It’s easy for me to look..like a young teen) - strawberry legs - nice wax, wax warmer, body scrub, and antiperspirant (The diy thing ain’t workin for me!)
I don’t disagree with what she’s saying but I do believe there’s a balance between what she’s saying we as women “should” do and what she’s negating. I believe all women are made to not only be beautiful in their own way, but don’t have to be the social or etiquette “norm” to be considered desirable. I love her boldness for giving these tips though. I’m here for all of it either way.
New subbie here! I love vids like these even though my personal aesthetic is more metalhead/ goth/alternative I make it a point to have my style still feminine and not so off-putting. Granted most black women look at me like I'm crazy because its not the stereotype of style a black woman would have. But u can't tell me i don't look good or smell good. I personally believe if you got a quirky style you can always refine it and make it more wearable and put together. I take pointers and advice and apply them to my personal style.
5:38 is my quarantine look. And I threw out my frumpy jogging pants and bought a bunch of silk slip dresses / short sets. Thank you for making this video.
What if you can't wear heels? I had a knee dislocation and ever since it's been really hard for me to wear heels. I love heels but they hate me😫 Great video! I also love to be more natural with less make up. I do my eye brows and lip gloss most days.
I definitely want to dress more feminine I already love wearing dresses I try to wear them as much as possible but I’m overweight now and I always feel uncomfortable in clothes the xl is to tight and the 1x is to big it’s so annoying but I’ve started working out and changing my eating habits and once I get to a comfortable size imma really step it up in the feminine department
My mother always said if you show your legs cover your top and if you show your top cover your legs🥰
So true thats what i do it comes off as not slutty
I was talking to my boyfriend about this same concept. Very true 💯
Intersectionality girl what he said ?
parris jackson He stayed silent, but kept listening. Poor thing doesn’t know anything about dressing well. His parents never taught him. So I’ve been helping him with that. It’s hard to break old habits, but I told him it’s no excuse & he needs to step it up.
Yass my mom said the same it’s such a good rule to follow because I notice if I don’t follow this rule I tend to look like I’m overdoing it
The video says “FEMININE” not beautiful. She’s not saying you’re unattractive if you wear sporty gear. These are tips that scientifically make you appear feminine. These textures and colors are psychologically linked to the female.
THANK YOU!!
Why do you want to be something, you're not?
@@arya8214 You missed the point.
@@theecreativesoul8263 Whatever, I said the truth, those who want to can change can still change. No force of opinion
@@arya8214 So why would you say "why would you want to be something youre not?" That idea is so toxic for so many reasons. Its the most classic excuse for putting down women or men who want to better themselves. Not everyone is satisfied with what they already are, and thats OKAY. The terrible idea of using "be yourself" to encourage people not to aim for something better that doesnt come naturally to them is what's kept me and so many others down for so long. Asking why someone wants to change just shows you dont really know how to do it yourself. I hope you learn how.
Love it! I always say, “Dress how you want to be addressed.” I mean class and self respect will go a long way!👌🏾
I like that one! 🥂 Amen
Well said ☺
Hazel thank you! I hope you have a great night!💗
🎯....🙌🏽 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
1)Wear dainty jewlery(ankle bracelets, pendant bracelets). 2) Wear dresses(florals, nudes, baby blue, pink, lavender) 3) Wear heels 4) Wear off shoulder, scoop and v necks. For example, play around with highlighter on collarbone 5) Texture such as solid colors, play with fabrics(lace, silk, ruffles), 6) Wax and shave your body, this gives you a clean and polished look. (Wax underarms, eyebrows are groomed, lashes, cater to skin). 7)Lips(nudes, berry, pink) 8)Invest in a quality bag like Kate Spade, Tory Burch or Ted Baker. 9)invest into proper shape-wear 10) Quality Loungewear-invest in sets like matching underwear
jane johnson Thanks so much!!! ❤️😩
Any recommendations for quality shape wear?
Jules Love Spanx, Miraclesuit, Honeylove, Maidenform
where can i get some good shape wear for under my dresses ?? is macys good ?
@@reizrblade Macy’s is good but even target has a line of shape where that’s made by spanx
Am I the only 15 year old here? lol im just taking down some notes for the future 🙂
you go girl
Shoot I’m 13 😭
Alayah Jazmine period
@@nzingalou7556 I just followed!!
I'm 16, and I can't wait to make such videos on my channel, I literally love them. I just need to get a proper camera and upgrade my wardrobe xx feel free to sub
Ladies as a woman in her 30’s, these tips go a long way. As dark skin women we have to work harder to dispel the “angry black woman” stereotype. So being feminine and tapping into your feminine energy will only benefit you. For those on a budget i suggest you invest in Afterpay. Everyone’s having sales, so start with the sales and clearance sections so you can get more bang for your buck. You can revamp your closet on the cheap and fast. Also get off of Instagram and get on Pinterest for outfit ideas. Instagram is for popularity. You don’t want to look like everyone else. Before this nonsense i went to Pinterest every night for outfit ideas. Putting time and thought into how i dress makes me prouder of my appearance.
Yes, I loved that you mentioned afterpay. More and more retailers are accepting this form of payment now.
kierra w it’s a great way to overhaul your wardrobe. And is super budget friendly. Being feminine doesn’t require a lot of designer labels. Just time and effort.
Yes afterpay made it easy for me to update my wardrobe
thankyou 💕
what is afterpay?
I’m keeping my hoop earrings 😭
Period 💯😂
PERIODTT
Same 😂
Lmao, people should do what they want
Oh no keep them girl! She meant chunky ones but still they’re beautiful earrings
Listening to this during quarantine I’m like dammm my appearance is all off 😂🥴
girl .... fr 🤣😭😭😭
Nah. The way I see it is the epitome of having self respect as a woman is being authentic to yourself. Dress how you are most comfy; do not dress how you presume others think you should dress. That is self respect. When you are truly comfortable and proud of how you look is how you foster self love. If you’re doing you; nothing is off :)
Girrlllll.....same. she got to the heels, I said Lord, I gotta throw out my whole closet.
Hello my fellow okeke..😁..I'm vivian okeke from Anambra. Saw your name and smiled..
😂😂
Lmao! I feel like it’s okay to have a “masculine” style sometimes as well. Idk it might just be me I love to do both !! Depending on the occasion etc
Tishara Doby yes!!! agreed
Righttt
rightt! i find it so attractive when a girl can be both feminine and masculine
I agree 100%
I agree. If I'm going to the skate park with friends, I'm not going to show up in a dress and heels with my makeup done. I might have a little makeup on, some jeans, and some vans. Part of being classy and feminine is learning how to dress for the occasion.
I have a hard time with being feminine. I wasn't taught it growing up and I'm learning slowly but I use to be a tomboy and I still from time to time like comfortable baggy clothing😩🙏🏾 I promise to come out of quarantine looking better.
Thats exactly what this channel is here for sis. I will CONTINUE to educate and mentor until you get the hang of it. Practice and repetition makes perfect 💎
start by wearing dresses around the house, or to run small errands...after a while you will be comfortable enough to wear it out all the time.
Dorothy Zbornak girl yes! It’s over once quarantine is over. I wanna look and feel good all the time! Lol
I love your name..golden girls is my jam lol
@@tawandadent6386 thanks🙌🏾, I love me some Golden Girls
I don’t understand all the people in the comments talking about “I think it’s okay to do both”... you’re watching a video on f e m i n i n i t y... so if you don’t wanna be feminine why are you here?
Maybe they were looking more on how to include some feminine things in their everyday outfit 🙂 At least I know I was 😂
Because we ARE the feminine woman - if you’re watching this and need these videos frequently - you just don’t have it. But that doesn’t mean you can’t attract a kindhearted man. And it is okay. Your demeanor is super masculine.
MAYA KELLY I don’t see how
@@mayakelly3457 a
@@mayakelly3457 S
The comment about who gets more attention. When I was a little younger I actually used to notice that those cool sporty girls always got more attention and had the cute boyfriend or everyone had a crush on her. I now realize it was because those guys were young and loved the idea of being with a girl that was like his “bros”. I used to feel like I had to be more sporty chic myself because of that.
Now I would still rather be feminine over anything else because at least I know I would be attracting “real men” not someone that wants a girl to play video games with 😂
Omg I always notice that too !!!!
Yea, u get friend zone like the movie Just Wright but her fits was still cute tho
Yes and those were the girls and guys that made you feel you weren't "black enough" if you didn't have that "hood persona"... I am learning to just be myself... If "bougie" to them means feminine well that's not my problem..
Also I do believe the "dress down look" can be feminized if you still are a feminine woman and add elements to the look that plays off your femininity.. Okay bye.
Sporty girls are liked cuz dude like physical activity’s, and from my experience they seem to be a lot more open an friendly. Guy are simple a they can basically get on our simple level.
I’m 14 and wanna learn abt femininity especially as a brown skin teen. Your videos rlly help and I like how short they are
I love short videos. Because I don't have to get up and come back and forget what was already said
Please know femininity is more about demeanor and mindset than what you wear. You can be feminine in a pant suit and masculine in a dress. If you’re thinking about this at 14 you’re probably ahead of the game. You got this girl, be authentically you.
I definitely need to be more feminine in my dress sense 😭 I’ve been slacking recently
Me too
BlackEmpress i just realized i only have one dress in my closet
BlackEmpress Me too smh 🤦🏽♀️
I always wear dark/dull colors, jeans, sneakers and T-shirts, Yet I admire girly clothes and colors. I wanna change my style 😫
As a mom I try to be comfy at all times
Listen sistersss! ❤️ i started wearing dresses, and where I work there’s a korean store nearby. Because the owner and staff always see me always so feminine in my dress, I can request food that’s not even on the menu. Just this week I got 50% off of my meal. Let me tell y’all, dressing, appearing and being feminine is POWER. ❤️
Can’t wait to show out after this quarantine. I’m getting older, can’t be out here dressing like a teen skater girl 😩
IM CRINE 🤣😭😭😭😭
@Angxlyes girl we can do it!
I feel this so much! I’m too old for that man! 😂
MY PERSONAL TESTIMONY READ: I can honeslty testify to this whole video. Born and rasied a muslim (still am), I wasn't given the option to wear larger jewelry or shorts etc. Dresses and more "modest clothing" was my wordrobe. When I hit puberty I had a huge tomboy rebel faze where I would wear jordans etc. to feel more accepting around those at school. Around senior year of highschool i completely came out of that. I was always a dressy girl at heart regardless of my religion. When I started college i always wore and wear heels dresses (more so sweater style dresses) longer coats with nice clean cuts. Long skirts yet fit just the way they need to. Occasiaonly to give my feet a rest I would wear pumas or sneakers( ONLY BECAUSE I AM A BALLET DANCER...lol my feety get inured a lot). I would personally never wear a loud colored coat as it just simply doesn't fit my personal style. I was blessed to be taught by my mother and other older women around me in my youth the beauty of the form and how to use it. I was taught how to tailor my clothes to fit my body shape accordingly. I was taught the best clothes to wear and things to stay away from. NOW FOR THR REAL TESTIMONY! I have had men (grown men in college 36-40) tell me when I come in room they feel they need to stand up. I have had younger college boys athletes etc tell me they feel the need to make way when I come through. NOW LADIES THIS IS NOT JUST HOW I DRESS, THIS IS A MINDSET THAT YOU NEED TO CARRY. dressing different won't necessarily attract a better man, yet it can help. Change your cheap mindset and your cheap and vulgar ways will change too.... not being rude. I have heard people correct other people in front of me if they said something wrong...mind you some of these people were strangers to me. I have had girls tell others to stop cursing when I am in the elevator because I am there. Dudes are scared lifeless to talk to me and have told me I am very intimidating and come off very grown and not for the b.s just by my looks and how I carry myself.
I honestly love your story. It really gives me motivation. I’m graduating this year, and I am working on glowing up to my feminine side! If you don’t mind, I would like to ask you some questions! What steps did you take to transform your mindset? What did you do to glow up on the outside? And where do you buy really good quality feminine clothes? Do you know any brands that are non fast fashion?
@@parvatychery7073 IF YOUR WILLING TO READ ALL THIS LOL.....I am so flattered and honored to give some amazing tips and advice that I have learend. The first step to my mindset transformation was understading what it means to be a woman.These crusty, dusty, musty men lol will literally make you other than yourself. Surround yourself with women who think similar. FORGET BEING A "BAD BITCH" lol that's not going to cut it.The art and beauty of feminity is more than just showing cleavage and always getting your nails done. Feminity is another side to god that we as women have been blessed to attain. THE BIGGEST THING TO STOP DOING IS GET RID OF THESE TRENDS. In the name of god there is nothing worse that says lack of true character than following trends. Throw out those fashionova followers and trends that nearly every women follows. I will say men have a lot to do with what women like thesedays but honeslty damn them lol....atleast the bummy ones. I remeMber coming to school one day and seeing that nearly every girl looked exaclty the same jordans, eyelashes, crop top, wigs. Now there isn't anything horrible about these things but come on lets give it a break. Find out the kind of colors that contour your your face the clothes that contour your form regardless of your shape. Get some hobbies and I dont mean installing wigs. Personally I decided to play piano about 8 years ago and it has giving me the ability to do many things. I was also gifted with amazing artistic skills (drawing, painting).Study a new language. These subtle hobbies will already make you out of everyones league. I COULD NEVER SETTLE WITH HAVING A PRETTY FACE AND NO TRUE TALENTS OR CHARACTER. Most of these instagram models have nothing to offer and that is exaclty why they attract men who have nothing to offer but their bodies. Now as far as clothes brand slike zimmerman, max mara, or loft are good places. They are a little expensive so I recon starting offf small. Shein actually has very decent clothes just try to not to buy antyhing under 30 dollars. They have decent peices that can be put together well. Try zara or fancy clothing stores downtown that most people arent overhyping. Try to refrain from boisterous loud clothing like highlighter green hair or clothing. Find the colors that work best on your skin. Neat hair is always key along with neat modest nails and colors. HUGE DEAL GET YOUR OWN PERSONAL SMELL. STOP WEARING VS OR BATH AND BODY WORKS LOLLLL. So many girls wear these. Find your own personal sent that you can be identified as. I personally wear chanel and versace perfrumes just a classy little detail about myself.
ĴẴᵯilah ṦḤakir OMG!! Thank you so much for responding so fast!! This is the best best advice that’s been given to me! I am totally agree with what you say! Thank you so much for your time! I legit screenshoted this!!😂😂😊😊😊
@@parvatychery7073 No problem ! I love helping ladies out and if you want even more details and tips you can dm me on my ig @jamilah.shakir for my number if you want more tips and help in the future.
ĴẴᵯilah ṦḤakir yes!!! Thank you! I’m going to message you right now!!
Also... ALDO handbags are highly underrated take a look at those maybe, ladies!! Love content like this
Oh absolutely. They also have very feminine dainty affordable jewellery.
Yes!!! I have an ALDO bag and I get compliments on it all the time💖
TIP: I reccomend pairing these femininity videos with technical videos about color, shape, and technique. Alexandras Girly Talk is one that has really helped. She breaks down how to dress down to the details like shade. For example, when Miss Feminine says to wear florals, nudes, pinks, I can take that information and then go to a channel like the one I listed. In a video, she explains how shades impact the color you wear. That helps me pinpoint what kind of pinks, nudes, and florals will compliment my skin
Aly Art has really good set of videos on body shape and Justine Leconte has a really good one on how to analyse your skintone. They're both white but i think it would work whatever. Also, Aly Art's video on making your eyes look huge - sounds stupid but it's amazing!
I always am FEMININE, I love skirts and heels. Manicure and Bags...I never liked Boyish clothes! 🙂
Amen! Would not have it any other way!!
I like to look feminine I also love the boy look but I like to look feminine with the boy look uwu
Watching this in my dad’s T-shirt. I’ll learn 😂
what do i do when i go to home depot?
@@tdbaker3564 Wear whatever you want
Femininity truly is powerful. This is why I started my brand. Showcasing femininity and beauty without showing too much. There is something about a soft elegant woman that is simply alluring. Thank you for the great tips and for including so many details!
Feminine is not synonymous with “tight” and “short”.
I’m 21 and I really needed this video ! I’m really transitioning in to woman hood & becoming much more feminine . I am you sneaker and jean type of girl but now I’m cleaning out my closet and starting all over !! Make more videos like these it really helped me
I’m not understanding why y’all came onto a “how to dress more feminine” video to make a statement about how you’ll dress how you want. like… read the room. if you don’t want to learn how to dress more feminine, why did you even watch?
@Eberechi Rebecca she's using them as examples of what not to do
@Eberechi Rebecca she was addressing what not to wear of you want to be more more feminine. And all those were examples of what NOT to wear.
@Eberechi Rebecca she is right if you want to dress more feminine you should not dress like that at all.
@Eberechi Rebecca why did your non feminine self come on here if you didn't want to dress feminine though?
@@nosiphomadlala3918 Nah she’s saying it like what they’re doing is wrong...when it’s not
I’m LOH-VING this femininity movement in the black women community 💕 love to see it 😍
Am definitely working on my look,...I already have an idea of how I want to dress..I even have a list of clothes,shoes,and accessories that I want to buy..I don't want to be frumpy anymore..I want to be the girl that gets compliments everywhere she goes. Thank u for this video,and to all the ladies let's enjoy being feminine..happy Wednesday..😍
fr
watching this as a tomboy is hilarious but don’t worry i’m still taking notes ✍🏾
😂same
cause frl😭! idc tho cause my face cute
Right like tf 🤣🥴 ima pull em IN the tracksuit
hilarious fr 🤣😭😭
Milan me too I like dressing comfortable cute
I'm in my early 20's, and in my teens, I always felt bad about myself cause my friends would always get attention from guys. No one ever liked me. I definitely believed that sexy=showing more skin. But the few times I wore revealing clothing, whether for a birthday party or a night out with my girls, I felt SO uncomfortable. I didn't feel sexy and I got unwanted attention.
I'm older and more aware of myself now, and definitely feel sexier and more confident when I'm covered. Wearing high quality clothing that fits right does a lot more for my confidence than wearing super short-shorts and crop tops. But no judgement to anyone who does feel confident like that. It's just not me.
love how straight to the point your videos are
While I agree with the whole feminine ideology, there are some things to take into consideration such as one's finacial situation. For instance, you mention investing in a brand hand bag but if one is unemployed or finacially constrain, this investment would not be viewed as an asset.
A name brand is not needed. Quality material is more important.
There are so many dupes out there
Brandy Gee yes, gorgeous bags all around with no brand name, just needs to be searched and found.
@@luxyluz2442 Too often ppl get wrapped up in labels and don't analyze stitching etc... I own both. High/Low
Then revamping a closet should be the last thing on your mind. This journey you should be leveling up and working on financial, emotional, and physical health.
I need to learn how to walk in heels 😭 im 5’11 & look like a horse tryna walk
Miss Keyy same
Miss Keyy practice around the house sis I’m 6”
I’m 5’11 too and I’m starting off with shorter block heels. My feet are big but I’m embracing it
I'm 6'1
Try 3 inches and below
I love this! I’ve dressed masculine all my life and now I want to switch it up! I’m ready to be my true feminine self, heels, dresses, dainty jewelry, glowing skin! I’m trying to look good for myself! And my future husband.
My parents just purchased the e- guide for me im so excited about it time to level up 💖💋💄💅🏾
Where do u get it?
@@scooterlovya its in the description of all her videos
Feminine Teen what's a e-guide?
@@gracajose8474 a book in digital form
I love it that you included picture,what we should wear and what we should not wear
Love form germany😘✨
Lmaooooo! I agree being feminine is so nice but still be yourself!!! I like to have fun & play around sometimes
Do you ladies know of any affordable stores to find a feminine wardrobe? I want to start dressing more classy, but I am an 18 year old on a budget lol
Tahlia White im commenting so i can find out too lol
Shein , (used to be called She Inside. )
SHEIN is really trendy and affordable
@@nzingalou7556 Thank you all for the reccomendations! And I just followed the ig! :)
Go to all the stores there is always that one piece u will find that is classy. Or you can make the piece classy.
My struggle is getting an even skin on my whole body.please do a video on this
Right
Yess
Yes me too
Matina Jazmine I’m dark skin and I still get spray tans in the winter to deepen its color like the summertime
Kojac acide soap helped me with that.
Edit: to maintain it, you must wear sunblock.
I love how she shares different shades of black women ♥️♥️ thank you 🙏🏾
Yeah she sounds Hispanic though
You can prove a point without putting others down.
I use the like this between 18 to 20 n people use to laugh at me n say where u think you going so gradually i stopped ..i use to love wearing dresses n small jewelry was so cute n fun for me.. but my self esteem doped my confidence.. i need to get back to where i was before.. you speak truth my friend.. thanks for your words
I laughed so hard when you mentioned the neverfull bag. I definitely need to buy more heels and dresses thank you for these tips !
Yes ive always wanted a never full bag. But the you end up filling with random things and you think it looks good with Everything! Its a nono
Yup, thats me with the neverfull bag lol.
kierra w don’t feel bad! I’ve always wanted one I just laughed because I know the look she was trying to describe like the Instagram look
Not the hoop earringsssssss. I don’t wear my earring much. Just me necklace. But, when I wear my earrings, I prefer hoops.
You can wear hoops and still look feminine and classy. Just depends on the outfit and how big the hoops are
Kristen G thank you ❤️
I usually wear small gold hoops or small gold hoops with pearl ball attachments and other small feminine minimalistic attachments because it looks dainty and very feminine.
I think thickness also matters. Thinner sleek hoops look lovely. You don't want them to weigh down the earlobe.
larueceries yea, I prefer the thin hoops.
Shave your sideburns ladies and don’t forget about that moustache Too👀
I love mine too..I get alot of compliments
I love my side burns😩
I love mine :( lol i swoop them 😂
@@taelahharris7154 same lol
I felt that
Hi, thank you for making this video😊. I’m 14 and all my life my mom had never been feminine or ever taken care of herself so I don’t know about any of these things and your video really helped me!! Thank you❤️❤️
This spoke to me on so many levels and I consider myself very feminine. This is right on target. Thank you
A friend sent this video to me because she mentioned that I appeared in it. I’m honored that you added me to this video, I would have loved to have been tagged for credit.
Can you do a video about where to buy feminine, classy clothes and shoes too
Sarah M. Asos is my favorite online store
Oh polly
Yes I'd like a video like this too.
Try Naomi Byer on YT I love her style
Nordstrom has classy options.
I absolutely love how much work you put into your content. The power behind feminine energy is amazing. I’ve been doing it naturally since I was a young girl. Thank you for taking the time to make women more soft and approachable:) seeing so many hard calloused women out there is very sad. Having content like this can change so many lives! 👍 ♥️ 😚
I grew up being taught that being this feminine behavior was bad. But everything in your videos I couldn’t agree more with. Thank you❤️ ! Could you do a video on feminine eye wear and opinions on tattoos and piercings 🌺
I feel like femininity is more a vibe than a way of dressing. I feel like we can go too far with trying to look perfect all the time and we end up actually constricting our feminine energy because were not actually feeling comfortable and free in ourselves. At the end of the day i feel like what you feel personally comfortable AND beautiful in that is also effortless is how to feel the most feminine. Nothings worse than being dressed up with your makeup perfect but you feel constricted or like you cant move freely and be you
Chaya H, that's precisely why I fell off from my feminity. I use to be hella feminine, but of course, men destroyed my confidence, and I felt like I was trying too hard to be feminine. I wasn't comfortable anymore.
@@kaybee46 yeah i feel you! Sometimes these vids can send the impression that preforming "hyper feminine "rituals and always dressing the part is how to be more feminine when really its your energy and how free and safe you feel in your body actually, not having all these restrictions and rules
@@kaybee46 dont let this shit stop you though! Youre still a Goddess either way
I think dressing the part and feeling feminine go hand and hand.
@@13ikea Dont get me wrong i could wear dresses every day but I mean focusing on it too much or wearing pretty things you dont really feel comfortable in is counter productive. Like really you dont need heels and delicate jewelry to feel and look feminine
I found your channel a few days ago and I am obsessed.
When you said find stuff that properly fits you and doesn’t hug your rolls I felt that my mom and me went shopping last week and she told me the straight truth I’m glad she did cause I didn’t even notice. 😭
I'm 15 and I dont mind being in touch with my femininity but I mainly wear boy clothes to not be sexualized so I can be comfortable due to past experiences
Same… but i realized that i was being looked at like a piece of meat even in boys clothes anyways so i decided i should embrace feminine clothing again for myself.
GIRL! I know, i know…im a 45 year old suburban white women, BUT I LOVE EVERYTHING YOU TEACH!!!! You are spot on! I am a life coach that helps women think through their life so they can be more authentic. This is such valuable information in a woman’s authenticity! I don’t know where you’re getting this information girl, but keep up the good work, because you are so valuable
I love this channel and it’s overall content but I’d like to challenge you to not talk down about other women while uplifting yourself and your own choices. The non-feminine photos you use are still black queens and they didn’t ask to be looked at in a negative light in front of thousands for not being up to your standard
yeah the famous ones shown have men 😂😂🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Thanks karen
Ellie B Karen? Please elaborate
Sly Fox & are happy & very desired
Thank you for saying this. Why are women bashing women ? That's not nice. At that point your just a mean girl, feminine or not. Just mean.
ya know what? im super into this channel and how it flat out tells women to look pretty bc we're always pushed to "think like a man" when u really just dont. there is nothing wrong with feeling like a woman💕
Do you know any (black designer) bags compagnies that looks feminine and even ships internationally? I want to support BOB.
My god mother sales leather bags and is a woman of color! Her shop is on Instagram Tree Fairfax
you should check out Fe Noel!
There's Toke Makinwa, tokemakinwaluxury.com/ , luxury bags by a Nigerian woman designer. There's also ZAAF, www.zaafcollection.com/, also luxury bags by an Ethiopian woman designer. Both ship internationally.
Sassy Jones has AMAZING pieces! You can see them all at shopsassyjones.com you won't be disappointed. 💯
@hesfordhandbags on ig
Nice video. But I also think there's no standard of beauty, am not being negative ❤️people dress how they Wana express themselves and it works for them. There's nothing wrong with wearing sweat pants, it's actually cute. U gotta know that people have a lot insecurities in themselves and when u promote anything regarding a women👑= cover all insecurities but when you point out things that make other women feel less about themselves just cs they wear long pink wigs 'not that I wear them'= it doesn't elevate you as a women at all...this ain't a competition, it's about being dominant (so be you) Wear however u Wana wear❤️ and stop making such women feel less cs they ain't feminine... Ferminity is about an aura, your presence and if u get intimidate by such in life then what's your value of being a women? I belong in all categories =faminine, sweat pants, chilled clothes, sexy clothes, rag clothes cs am human and a women of all beauties... And I love all women regardless of what they wear or their past! ❤️ they are still women who deserves to be loved, crowns of this nations. Clothes does not define beauty=not that we should be wreckless/careless but rather build/teach women than making famininity a trend to crush other women.
Bonolo Nkokou exactly
Exactly!
Bonolo Nkokou her videos are for a certain demographic
Authenticity is key! I think that confidence and authenticity are the most feminine characteristics a woman can have. So do what makes you feel the most authentic and confident. Remember, we are dynamic souls and we have different needs and wants in every season. So your style can be dynamic as well and it can change depending on where you are in your journey. This video has tips for a certain type of aesthetic. If it doesn’t fit you or another woman right now, that is okay, life is an ongoing journey. At the end of the day, you have the right to live it however you please.
@@shae1005 its really not about this thing fitting me or other women... Embrace ferminity yes but don't think u better than any other women cs that ain't attractive... By the way I love the tips she gave but crushing others cs they wear pink wigs or show much skin ... What makes u more feminine? Did u even see the comments others gave 'like what wrong with wearing addidas pants...? Yes live however u Wana live an embrace all❤️
Yessss I saw my fav RUclips latoya ❤️
I think this is the best video yet, the information is so essential.
So like.....what if you’re somewhere in the middle? I wear heels and dresses and keep myself up....but I also love sneakers and athletic clothes. But I want that alluring feminine energy!
theres time and places for both , but do it thinking straticagally.
I definitely invested in a high quality bag a few weeks ago (Dior) and felt so good while making my purchase. So I agree with not wearing the same handbag as every woman around the way while leveling up. Also, I don’t wear T shirts and stuff around the house I wear silk or satin lingerie or pajamas for lounge wear and to bed. I also spray perfume on me before laying down on silk sheets but that’s just me lol
It’s Time for Tea hmm to the perfume! I might try that too. I’m thinking of getting a good quality bag as well.
Fiona M Yes you should! It definitely will make you feel more feminine and the bag will make you feel good while carrying it💕
It’s Time for Tea perfume ordered!
I went on a date with a guy fully covered midi short sleeve dress which was literally 2nd skin, and he asked me why was I covered up 🥴
Smh.
Don't date him again.
Men are simple an can have a one track my and can’t always tell the difference between sexual & romantic attraction it took time an thought for me to notice it.
I sincerely hope that he never got a second date. *facepalm*
Yes, don’t date him again.
Ladies just be you
If you okay with you being you than be you.
I love how she just gets straight to the point in her videos! Plus her videos are not a drag.. good job 🌷
AMAZING! You're advice has been helping me on my level up journey ❤️❤️
You are very welcome !
Tyra A same here
Yes, and like you said people can feel the energy so it's not just the feminine look, that's 50% of it, the other half is the attitude and the aura you give. You can't just be a classy baddie and have a stank or stuck up attitude that won't get you far or what you truly want.
Thank God there’s way around remaining feminine w/o wearing heels and dresses all the time bc those are my weak points. I can never find a comfortable heel😩 love the video🌸
Have you tried chunky heels?
Brown Skin Beauty yes, but for some reason the soles of my feet always hurt. Idk what it is
@@ForeverJanae Have you tried gel insoles? Like the ones you put in the shoe yourself?
Brown Skin Beauty I have! It’s been so long since I’ve used them tho, I think I’m gonna give em a try again next time. Thank you🤗
@@ForeverJanae You're welcome 💚
That last tip was so helpful with the quality lounge wear for indoors! I need to find some nice quality wrap dresses to wear for when I step outside for errands! These tips were amazing ! I’ve been loving your videos lately and it has been helping me take better care of myself mentally and physically! xx 💋
At 3:27, I feel like it matters what a girl wears, but if she has a style then thats her style. A guy will like a girl for her attitude, personality, and yes appearance. But if you just have appearance with a soft little voice.... then the girl who has all three key factors will get the guy. I personally love the 90s baggy tlc look, but I also love the Aaliyah and Beyonce feminine look and I can pull off both. I just feel like maybe make a video on how to improve your personality and attitude along with appearance. ✨ ❤️
I think putting a girly twist on sporty looks good.
I’m 5’7 and I feel uncomfortable wearing heels because I’m already tall lol
raytone3 girl put those heels on! You’ve got model height! Walk in there like a model and rock them heels honey
Christy Woodley aww thank you ☺️
I'm 5ft11 girl
Girl I’m 5’9
Show those great legs and strut girl! Height doesn't matter, if you like heels and feel beautiful in them, wear them!
what’s wrong with wanting to dress like a tomboy? not every girl wants to dress like this😂. i dress to please myself. my face attracts people, not what i wear. love the video though!
Periodt Pooh!
There’s one thing about giving advice, but putting down other women for their styles are not it!
This is video is for women who want to be more feminine...if you don’t want to be more feminine than this won’t apply to you.
@@thewell-readnegrita4941 last time I checked...as long as u are a women! U are feminine darling.. It's not about clothes that make u one.
Bonolo Nkokou Femininity = having qualities or an appearance traditionally associated with women, especially delicacy and prettiness. This channel is spreading her version of femininity in terms of physical appearance and inner qualities. You can be a woman and be masculine and there is nothing wrong with that. She is just promoting feminine women. Masculine = having qualities or appearance traditionally associated with men, especially strength and aggressiveness. Being a women doesn’t automatically mean you are in touch with your femininity. A lot of women prefer to be more masculine in terms of the way they dress and how they carry theirselves. This channel is here to help the women who want to be more feminine. If you guys don’t agree with it or don’t want it for yourselves, exit the video. If it doesn’t apply let it fly.
I honestly love these videos. I have always been a very modest women. However like you said. Showing a little skin and leaving the rest to the imagination sets you/me apart from other women. I love that! You also gave me some other great tips and information!😊
What if you’re a sporty girl tho? Some of us are athletes and still want to keep it cute!
Look pathetic while at the gym , park or games, but otherwise keep it fememine
WatNow 893 no lol
@@amarie1852 u only wear gym clothes at the gym.
Sorry I meant to look sporty while at the gym or games, otherwise keep it femenine
WatNow 893 well I guess I meant how to be cute while working out, going to games etc. But I already have an idea on how
I love your unique approach on black femininity
One of your beat videos yet! Love your content. Video suggestions: feminine hobbies, dressing feminine as a plus size gal. Stay safe!
I am 32 years old getting out of a long-term relationship. I’ve always thought my “way” was natural. I’ve always kept a mans attention and anytime I walked in a room and I felt as if all eyes are on me. Welp, after being with my boyfriend for so long I got comfortable. I really forgot these things I have always done naturally made me attractive, confident and feminine! I love your videos, my new “bible”. Love love love this education and reminders! I am a living truth that all of your advice is genuinely THE foundation to self-confidence and MOSTLY a healthy and meaningful relationship! Thank you Queen 👸🏾
I like this video and I am on my own feminine journey myself, but some of these tips are a bit...eh. Like the comment about "throw away all your cheap bags from fashion Nova and invest in designer", well not everyone has the luxury of spending money on expensive things; I'm a college student who supports myself and pays for most of my schooling out of pocket. I spend money for my own pleasure maybe twice a month and it usually doesn't go over $150, if that. I know its possible to save up money towards a material investment, but designer items have never been on top of my priority list. If something looks nice to me, I'll get it...I don't care about whose name is on it. Shoot, one of my favorite purses I got for $35 a Target, 2 years ago, lmao. Also, I think it's okay to be feminine yet relaxed sometimes; running to the store or gas station doesn't necessarily call for putting on your tightest dress and a full face of makeup.
Thank you so much for this video ❤️🙏🏾 I realized I’ve been purchasing wrong stuff! Ive been thinking lately about doing a shopping spree now I know what to buy that associates with femininity. Thank youuu ❤️
I notice when I wear weave at work men are all over me staring . But when I wear my natural hair they walk pass me lol . I still get compliments on my natural hair they say with my high cheekbones I can rock anything but idk it makes me not want to talk to those men . They are so shallow . There is this one guy there that likes me with anything I wear . He is a supervisor and very much married . Very inappropriate and makes nasty comments towards me . Old enough to be my dad ugh .
I get the opposite. My natural hair is a plus ---I live well outside the black community , and am considered exotic. I art model in my spare time teach art too. My two cents : Leave , find work and travel somewhere else. Where u are RESPECTED. P.S. I am sixty this month. Men 30 years younger even do not know this. u got a ton of time. Be SELFISH.
You're probably feeling yourself more with the weave and they all notice it
I feel so calm watching this. It just reminds me of how feminine I actually am and that concentrating on that will just make me feel better x
Can you please talk about how to look feminine when working out?
Thank you for this video 🙏🏾I’m using quarantine to my advantage to level up which includes pampering myself, and working out so I’ll fit better in my new clothing💖 I’m also cutting out music that I use to like that has masculine frequencies
I really love your video and I've been trying hard to start to become more feminine. But as a college student, it's a bit hard to balance and this is a new concept for me. I'm from Jamaica 🇯🇲 and all I grow up to was that rough woman who took care of things. It's kinda expensive to keep up sometimes and I don't want this feminine experience to feel overbearing. Could you make a video on how to start out mayb on a budget or for college students ?? I would really love that💟
Hey girl Im from Jamaica too! Start with staple pieces! A white cotton button up blouse, dark jeans without rips or acid wash and a nice biege point toe sandals! You can check out brit bran, sovereign and payless for these items! Less is more! Start with basic colours and no neons or overly patterned clothing! But most importantly wear your confidence no matter what outfit you have on!
Love these videos!! Keep em coming.
Thank you Sarah 💄
I don’t know how I stumbled on this page but now that I’m here I can’t leave.
You made some valid points with the lounge wear and stuff but there isn’t one particular straight forward way to be feminine. Ladies can be sporty and still feminine. You can wear statement jewelry, you just have to know the right things to pair them with. Individuality is more important than trying to fit into one particular female stereotype.
i agree with you on these things, especially on some outfits we see women wear, but a girl can wear nikes and a dress or nikes and a skirt if that what they're comfortable with. any woman can have femininity, regardless if they have hoop earrings. some girls like streetwear or alot of colors, and that doesn't make them any less feminine
some people want to be feminine but might have a preferred style is all.
I feel personally victimized by this video😂😂
Thank you for sharing! The times and trends are definitely shifting 2020. Less sexy and more romantic in women’s fashion. This is what us ladies need to be hearing now! May you continue sharing!:)
When you asked who gets looked at more, I instantly said “the girl with the cropped tee” simply because they give off this aura that says “I’m easy going” meanwhile the girl who looks a little more “put together” gives off the aura of “I’m not playing any games” and sometimes I feel awkward dressing up because I don’t like for people to think my nose is in the air
Thank you Miss Feminine for the wonderful tips. please do upload a video for students at varsity who would like to still dress in a feminine way while under the pressure of books on a budget.
Lots of love from Namibia!!!!
I really struggle with:
- slip-on shoes that look feminine
(I have fallen arches so ballet flats are a no for me)
- what to wear to the grocery store
- how to dress as a straight body type
(It’s easy for me to look..like a young teen)
- strawberry legs
- nice wax, wax warmer, body scrub, and antiperspirant
(The diy thing ain’t workin for me!)
awkwardletter95 for strawberry legs exploitation is key along with great moisturizers and they shouldn’t be as noticeable.... hope this helps you 💗
I don’t disagree with what she’s saying but I do believe there’s a balance between what she’s saying we as women “should” do and what she’s negating. I believe all women are made to not only be beautiful in their own way, but don’t have to be the social or etiquette “norm” to be considered desirable. I love her boldness for giving these tips though. I’m here for all of it either way.
When she said the girl that wears the adidas track pants religiously 😭😭that meee! Lord help me
Lmfaoo I laughed at the fashion nova bags...😂😂 I definitely agree!
New subbie here! I love vids like these even though my personal aesthetic is more metalhead/ goth/alternative I make it a point to have my style still feminine and not so off-putting. Granted most black women look at me like I'm crazy because its not the stereotype of style a black woman would have. But u can't tell me i don't look good or smell good. I personally believe if you got a quirky style you can always refine it and make it more wearable and put together. I take pointers and advice and apply them to my personal style.
Nami G. Same here! I love the alt look but I still find ways to make it look feminine & romantic.
5:38 is my quarantine look. And I threw out my frumpy jogging pants and bought a bunch of silk slip dresses / short sets. Thank you for making this video.
Can you talk about how to be feminine in a work environment?
lilli look up idesign8 she’s a RUclipsr that makes videos on how to dress feminine and classy
Especially in uniform
Especially in male dominated fields.
Chloe_ has one on her channel check it out.
What if you can't wear heels? I had a knee dislocation and ever since it's been really hard for me to wear heels. I love heels but they hate me😫 Great video! I also love to be more natural with less make up. I do my eye brows and lip gloss most days.
I definitely want to dress more feminine I already love wearing dresses I try to wear them as much as possible but I’m overweight now and I always feel uncomfortable in clothes the xl is to tight and the 1x is to big it’s so annoying but I’ve started working out and changing my eating habits and once I get to a comfortable size imma really step it up in the feminine department