Love covers a multitude of sin. Peace is so important to me. I just recently stopped getting angry back and it has helped our marriage so much. One of us needs to stop throwing the ball back. I also tell myself my husband is Not my enemy. The enemy is using my husband to get a reaction from me so we fight, dont pray together because we are angry at one another and it puts a wedge between us and the Lord..
My marriage is going through a very hard season. I am so thankful for your podcast. It brings me hope and at times I share them with my husband. I do not think he listens to them but I am thankful for the understanding.
It would be wonderful if you could post this in Spanish, millions of people would be blessed with these powerful resources and godly strategies to save their families. God bless you all.
Words spoken in an argument are like nails driven into a wooden board. You can apologize once things calm down ( remove the nails from the board ) but the holes/damaged created can still linger. Think long and hard before attacking your spouse. Discuss the action they are doing without attacking the person. "That was an unwise choice to do...so and so" or "you're stupid and always make dumb decisions" which one will be remembered and wound your spouses soul. Pent up bitterness and resentment will bite you when u least expect it. Argue smart. Cool off and agree to work things out when both are cooled off. If you viciously attack your spouse with your words you are attacking yourself as well. No wise person would tear down their own house. If you wouldn't speak that way to your boss or pastor then dont speak that way to your spouse who is worth much more then the others..
Neo Anderson she doesn't have to say nothing. Women are not doormats. Yes I get your point about the verse but she can share her thoughts in a proper way. And if she believed his requests are against the teaching of scripture she can refuse.. It helps if she knows scripture versus an uneducated opinion... Women are to be the helpmate to the man in marriage, not a mute servant. Just have to be respectful. Eve was created from the side"rib of Adam not his foot bone. She is an equal. But I agree that the man has spiritual authority over his home/wife but that authority should never be lorded over or cruel.
Neo Anderson you are single or have no relationship with your wife.. That's that. Nowhere in the Bible to it tell the husband to be a tyrant. He is to love/value his wife as Christ loves the church...
Neo Anderson not sure what version u use. I believe most say to love your wife as Christ loved the church. Been married 25 years to the same woman. Very blessed. Glad u are having sex regularly. It is a very important part of a healthy marriage. I would still warn you to check your wife's heart with your authoritarian attitude towards her. If u are a good man and treat her well and does what a man should do then it is easier for a woman to submit to your leadership. Hopefully that is the case. My experience is that most men with the thought pattern u wrote about do very little for the wife to be able to respect them. But want to pound scripture in their heads so that they submit regardless. Those men may see outward submission from fear or intimidation but I can tell you the heart of the wife is being shattered and that marriage may not make it the distance. Like I said. If yours is different then you may be the exception not the rule. It is always easier to follow a kind loving leader. No one likes an insecure leader who has to throw their "authority" around. Best of luck
Neo Anderson Ephesians 5:25 is the verse on a husband loving his wife. No mention of sacrifice... But yes a good man clearly does sacrifice for her and his family..
Neo Anderson kinda makes u seem arrogant ragging on me about scripture knowledge while you being wrong... But ok. No harm. Thanks for assuming to clean the speck out of my eye while you have a plank... Funny. See ya
On today's question. What about if the husband brings his concerned wife to work and has a meeting with the other woman, where they kindly, but firmly state that husband and wife are a united front and that they will be praying for the other woman's marriage. In my experience, when the other woman sees that the husband and wife are being accountable to one another, and a united front, she will quickly back off.
On today's question. The husband should file a formal sexual harassment complaint with HR. It creates what the literature describes as a "hostile work environment" and would not be tolerated by the organization if the roles were reversed. It is not appropriate to bring in her spouse, this is a workplace issue and should be addressed as such.
This is great stuff you guys I'm going to start sharing y'all on Facebook praise the Lord for you guys and what you're doing! Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ is awesome and so down-to-earth and so practical even more so than a bunch of legalistic Christians a lot of the time. May the Lord bless you and keep you and make his face to shine upon you in Jesus name!💯🔥❤🙏
My spouse seems to take things out on me all the time n idk y then 10 mins later he acts like it's all good n when he's mad he says the most horrible things to me that hurts me sooo super much that idk how to help him find his happy place or how to calm him to disarm him...
You might want to buy "The Power of a Praying Wife" by Stormie Omartian. I know what your talking about and this book has helped greatly when you don't know what to pray. Make it meaningful &sincere when you read the prayers though. Also, remember it's not flesh & blood we war with but spirits & principalities. He may need deliverance... also, ask the Holy spirit what you need to be doing differently as well.
Love covers a multitude of sin.
Peace is so important to me. I just recently stopped getting angry back and it has helped our marriage so much. One of us needs to stop throwing the ball back. I also tell myself my husband is Not my enemy. The enemy is using my husband to get a reaction from me so we fight, dont pray together because we are angry at one another and it puts a wedge between us and the Lord..
This podcast has really been helpful as I am almost getting married this year. I have been listening to this since 2017
My marriage is going through a very hard season. I am so thankful for your podcast. It brings me hope and at times I share them with my husband. I do not think he listens to them but I am thankful for the understanding.
It’s encouraging that you share this with your husband. I feel scared to share these podcasts with mine. I hope you’re going through a good season.
It would be wonderful if you could post this in Spanish, millions of people would be blessed with these powerful resources and godly strategies to save their families.
God bless you all.
Words spoken in an argument are like nails driven into a wooden board. You can apologize once things calm down ( remove the nails from the board ) but the holes/damaged created can still linger. Think long and hard before attacking your spouse. Discuss the action they are doing without attacking the person. "That was an unwise choice to do...so and so" or "you're stupid and always make dumb decisions" which one will be remembered and wound your spouses soul. Pent up bitterness and resentment will bite you when u least expect it. Argue smart. Cool off and agree to work things out when both are cooled off. If you viciously attack your spouse with your words you are attacking yourself as well. No wise person would tear down their own house. If you wouldn't speak that way to your boss or pastor then dont speak that way to your spouse who is worth much more then the others..
Neo Anderson she doesn't have to say nothing. Women are not doormats. Yes I get your point about the verse but she can share her thoughts in a proper way. And if she believed his requests are against the teaching of scripture she can refuse.. It helps if she knows scripture versus an uneducated opinion... Women are to be the helpmate to the man in marriage, not a mute servant. Just have to be respectful. Eve was created from the side"rib of Adam not his foot bone. She is an equal. But I agree that the man has spiritual authority over his home/wife but that authority should never be lorded over or cruel.
Neo Anderson you are single or have no relationship with your wife.. That's that. Nowhere in the Bible to it tell the husband to be a tyrant. He is to love/value his wife as Christ loves the church...
Neo Anderson not sure what version u use. I believe most say to love your wife as Christ loved the church. Been married 25 years to the same woman. Very blessed. Glad u are having sex regularly. It is a very important part of a healthy marriage. I would still warn you to check your wife's heart with your authoritarian attitude towards her. If u are a good man and treat her well and does what a man should do then it is easier for a woman to submit to your leadership. Hopefully that is the case. My experience is that most men with the thought pattern u wrote about do very little for the wife to be able to respect them. But want to pound scripture in their heads so that they submit regardless. Those men may see outward submission from fear or intimidation but I can tell you the heart of the wife is being shattered and that marriage may not make it the distance. Like I said. If yours is different then you may be the exception not the rule. It is always easier to follow a kind loving leader. No one likes an insecure leader who has to throw their "authority" around. Best of luck
Neo Anderson Ephesians 5:25 is the verse on a husband loving his wife. No mention of sacrifice... But yes a good man clearly does sacrifice for her and his family..
Neo Anderson kinda makes u seem arrogant ragging on me about scripture knowledge while you being wrong... But ok. No harm. Thanks for assuming to clean the speck out of my eye while you have a plank... Funny. See ya
Praise God for both of you, Dave and Ashley. God bless you
Thank y'all for the open ans honesty you bring... prayers and blessings
On today's question. What about if the husband brings his concerned wife to work and has a meeting with the other woman, where they kindly, but firmly state that husband and wife are a united front and that they will be praying for the other woman's marriage. In my experience, when the other woman sees that the husband and wife are being accountable to one another, and a united front, she will quickly back off.
On today's question. The husband should file a formal sexual harassment complaint with HR. It creates what the literature describes as a "hostile work environment" and would not be tolerated by the organization if the roles were reversed. It is not appropriate to bring in her spouse, this is a workplace issue and should be addressed as such.
Truly helpful advice. I can use this for both angles. Sometimes I’m the grumpy Gus or sometimes she can be.
I really love listening to them it healps me a lot in me and my marriage
What happens when a spouse is closed? Meaning: doesn’t want to talk...at all.
I am right there with you girl I got one of those hubby's to ugh...
This was a very helpful video. Thank you.
I'm so tired of getting angry so easily. And or irritated. I feel like I'm grumpy a lot and don't want be. 😕 my husband is so patient with me.
This is great stuff you guys I'm going to start sharing y'all on Facebook praise the Lord for you guys and what you're doing!
Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ is awesome and so down-to-earth and so practical even more so than a bunch of legalistic Christians a lot of the time. May the Lord bless you and keep you and make his face to shine upon you in Jesus name!💯🔥❤🙏
Great podcast from the one who is usually the "grumpy spouse".
7:27 - Ashley is a Jedi master! Lol!!
Amen I agree
Thank you so much video awesome both amazing
My spouse seems to take things out on me all the time n idk y then 10 mins later he acts like it's all good n when he's mad he says the most horrible things to me that hurts me sooo super much that idk how to help him find his happy place or how to calm him to disarm him...
You might want to buy "The Power of a Praying Wife" by Stormie Omartian. I know what your talking about and this book has helped greatly when you don't know what to pray. Make it meaningful &sincere when you read the prayers though. Also, remember it's not flesh & blood we war with but spirits & principalities. He may need deliverance... also, ask the Holy spirit what you need to be doing differently as well.
What I do not want to be is a grumpy old single man.
I think it would be great if you guys prayed on your podcast before you got into things 👍😊🙏
Can someone please tell me what the XO means?
@Thomas Anderson thank you...i just thought it might stand for something Christian-wise :)
Hugs and kissing
@@ashleyaderholt4353 thanks, hon!
Amen
I’m the angry spouse I keep asking God to transform me to reflect Him more slow to anger ...
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