The example of laughing with the opposite sex speaks to me. It took me too long to realize that this is a red flag and something I need to check. There’s nothing more awesome to men than a woman you can truly laugh with.
I want to thank you guys so very much I have been listening to your Podcast on spotify for quite some time and I know you mentioned RUclips but usually I would always listen you guys in the morning before go to work so I never turned on RUclips you know mainly because you know you need to have your WI fi on the saviour your phone blah blah blah you know you don't want to get distracted and I have to say I enjoy you guys so very much everything you have to say and for you guys to To be christians and still understand that we still live in this world you have such a beautiful outlook on how to bring the christians in M people that are not christians and not feel like
I know this episode was two months ago. But it was very timely for me . My question is Yes we are to forgive our spouse when they mess up and the forgiveness is for the one that was hurt , But when the other spouse keeps repeating the same old thing over & over with no REPENTANCE what do you do then ? Please help me.
Bible tells us to keep forgiving. Jesus was asked this same thing and Jesus' words are to forgive 70 × 7? Does that mean we need to keep a tally? The answer is NO. NO we don't need to keep tally. It means to keep forgiving. It might be hard. I can attest to that. But asking the LORD to give you the strength to keep forgiving is key. And this is my own answer to you and there's probably more that I could add and maybe someone else can give a better more insightful answer.
Or something that really speaks to what we may be going through our member and send it to him so then when he reminds me a bit later will listen together and we've done some a counselling in our church and then we moved to California and have not found a church like the one we left we understand it's not gonna be the same but I want to go back to council we tried a little bit here outside of the church and the lady was still new in counselling and she did admit But I want to say it's not so easy to just go to counselling and have someone gently dig in to your thoughts and feelings
I hear the saviour say Thy strength indeed is small Child of weakness watch and pray Find in me thine all in all Jesus paid it all All to him I owe Sin had left a crimson stain He washed it white as snow
The problem with affairs is you absolutely can forgive but you will never forget, if I had a wife and she committed the act of adultery I would forgive but never forget, there is certain lines that are no to be crossed period, I would divorce end of story because I would never want to be intimate with her ever again, still would forgive but would not forget
Butter trying to let them understand that God is so very important only just in your life but in your marriage and we all at some times you know forget all this or that and in me in my husband's marriage we've been married for 4 years and we are a mixed race couple but we've never had that been issue at all our issues or more of definitely the male female outlook on things I more nurturing in carrying his loving person but He really truly didn't understand the partnership of marriage and I have him listen to it when men hammered together and you guys got a new one coming out I haven't listened to it or if there's something that
If you love the person your with than you protect what you have diligently, and pray for one another diligently, the world is a very sneaky place, and people must be aware
My husband and I are separated and we have been separated for months now. This has not been the first time we've been separated but I think this time it is real this time. I left this time because he is just so hateful and would go for weeks without even a month without talking to me. Acting like I don't exist. It hurts so much. I miss him. This is really hard for me. I go every day like it doesn't bother but in reality I'm really hurting me. I had to leave because it was allowing me to take that offense. I guess I'm hoping that we get back together, but we haven't even talked since the end of July is when I left. But we did talk for a whole month before that. I'm hurting so bad. I love him but what do I do. I know I have to let go because he probably doesn't love me anymore. Should I let go.
There is always hope. Seek Biblical counsel. Resolving conflicts Biblically is key to forgiveness and reconciliation. Pray for him as well as yourself that God will change both of you and help both of you to see any wrongs or faults. If we are to pray for and love our enemies, then that's the least we can do for our spouse. Usually both spouses are hurt. He is supposed to be the spiritual leader and move first toward reconciliation, but the husband's biggest obstacle is usually his pride. I speak from experience. Hang on. Ask and Believe God can change both of you to trust God more than yourself which leads to humbleness, forgiveness, trust, and reconciliation. God wants your relationship to work. God hardwired men to need respect and women to need love. If a man feels disrespected, he withdraws which makes the wife feel unloved which usually causes her to say or do something he feels is disrespectful, so he withdraws more which makes the wife feel more unloved. This cycle spirals out of control to destruction if something is not done. The husband is commanded to love his wife even if she is not doing what she is supposed to, and the wife is commanded to respect her husband even if he is not doing what he is supposed to. It doesn't mean you have to agree with him. Emerson Eggerich has videos and audio on his blog concerning this issue. If you would like to find out more, go to his blog and youtube for audio and video of "Love and Respect" ruclips.net/user/results?search_query=emerson+eggerichs+love+and+respect. God bless you.
@@sonnyh9774 thank you so much I will continue to keep him in my prayers to fix him to fix me me mostly only God can change us. But I have to believe for myself to be changed first I forgive him and I love him. You God bless
Update: He messaged me about 2 weeks ago we have been going on dates. Dinner and now riding. Most importantly we go to church for these past 2 Sundays. I'm so grateful. Continue praying for us. Please. I pray daily. Thank you Jesus.
Know a guy ... Wrote a book ... based on Matthew 18 and 1 Corinthians 13 ... the title of the book ... "Do you want to be right? ... Or Free?" ... Great title ... A? ... Smile ... Blessings to you and your family 🙏 ...
" In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace." Ephesians 1:7✝️ Jesus paid it all Forgiveness does not cost us anything On the contrary we receive Forgive and you will receive " .. a crown of beauty instead of ashes The oil of joy instead of mourning A garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair Oaks of righteousness..." Isaiah 62:1-3✝️
To that wife you made an error in choosing The best you can do is to pray You have spoken to him He does not listen You can't change him Jesus alone can
The example of laughing with the opposite sex speaks to me. It took me too long to realize that this is a red flag and something I need to check. There’s nothing more awesome to men than a woman you can truly laugh with.
Thank you for all you do. And the validation I received from the Q&A was much needed and invaluable. THANK YOU. 🥺
I want to thank you guys so very much I have been listening to your Podcast on spotify for quite some time and I know you mentioned RUclips but usually I would always listen you guys in the morning before go to work so I never turned on RUclips you know mainly because you know you need to have your WI fi on the saviour your phone blah blah blah you know you don't want to get distracted and I have to say I enjoy you guys so very much everything you have to say and for you guys to To be christians and still understand that we still live in this world you have such a beautiful outlook on how to bring the christians in M people that are not christians and not feel like
This is brilliant and very accurate...God 🙌 🙌 🙌
I know this episode was two months ago. But it was very timely for me . My question is Yes we are to forgive our spouse when they mess up and the forgiveness is for the one that was hurt , But when the other spouse keeps repeating the same old thing over & over with no REPENTANCE what do you do then ? Please help me.
Bible tells us to keep forgiving. Jesus was asked this same thing and Jesus' words are to forgive 70 × 7?
Does that mean we need to keep a tally? The answer is NO. NO we don't need to keep tally. It means to keep forgiving.
It might be hard. I can attest to that. But asking the LORD to give you the strength to keep forgiving is key.
And this is my own answer to you and there's probably more that I could add and maybe someone else can give a better more insightful answer.
That’s so nice to hear you
Or something that really speaks to what we may be going through our member and send it to him so then when he reminds me a bit later will listen together and we've done some a counselling in our church and then we moved to California and have not found a church like the one we left we understand it's not gonna be the same but I want to go back to council we tried a little bit here outside of the church and the lady was still new in counselling and she did admit But I want to say it's not so easy to just go to counselling and have someone gently dig in to your thoughts and feelings
Thank you for the excellent content today. It was very helpful.
God bless you both. 😇
Awesome! You addressed ALL the issues currently relevant in my marriage. My spouse heard and took notice. Thanks!!!
I hear the saviour say
Thy strength indeed is small
Child of weakness watch and pray
Find in me thine all in all
Jesus paid it all
All to him I owe
Sin had left a crimson stain
He washed it white as snow
The problem with affairs is you absolutely can forgive but you will never forget, if I had a wife and she committed the act of adultery I would forgive but never forget, there is certain lines that are no to be crossed period, I would divorce end of story because I would never want to be intimate with her ever again, still would forgive but would not forget
Butter trying to let them understand that God is so very important only just in your life but in your marriage and we all at some times you know forget all this or that and in me in my husband's marriage we've been married for 4 years and we are a mixed race couple but we've never had that been issue at all our issues or more of definitely the male female outlook on things I more nurturing in carrying his loving person but He really truly didn't understand the partnership of marriage and I have him listen to it when men hammered together and you guys got a new one coming out I haven't listened to it or if there's something that
Never thought about the laughing with the opposite sex could be something bad. But something I think about 💜💜
If you love the person your with than you protect what you have diligently, and pray for one another diligently, the world is a very sneaky place, and people must be aware
My husband and I are separated and we have been separated for months now. This has not been the first time we've been separated but I think this time it is real this time. I left this time because he is just so hateful and would go for weeks without even a month without talking to me. Acting like I don't exist. It hurts so much. I miss him. This is really hard for me. I go every day like it doesn't bother but in reality I'm really hurting me. I had to leave because it was allowing me to take that offense. I guess I'm hoping that we get back together, but we haven't even talked since the end of July is when I left. But we did talk for a whole month before that. I'm hurting so bad. I love him but what do I do. I know I have to let go because he probably doesn't love me anymore. Should I let go.
There is always hope. Seek Biblical counsel. Resolving conflicts Biblically is key to forgiveness and reconciliation. Pray for him as well as yourself that God will change both of you and help both of you to see any wrongs or faults. If we are to pray for and love our enemies, then that's the least we can do for our spouse. Usually both spouses are hurt. He is supposed to be the spiritual leader and move first toward reconciliation, but the husband's biggest obstacle is usually his pride. I speak from experience. Hang on. Ask and Believe God can change both of you to trust God more than yourself which leads to humbleness, forgiveness, trust, and reconciliation. God wants your relationship to work. God hardwired men to need respect and women to need love. If a man feels disrespected, he withdraws which makes the wife feel unloved which usually causes her to say or do something he feels is disrespectful, so he withdraws more which makes the wife feel more unloved. This cycle spirals out of control to destruction if something is not done. The husband is commanded to love his wife even if she is not doing what she is supposed to, and the wife is commanded to respect her husband even if he is not doing what he is supposed to. It doesn't mean you have to agree with him. Emerson Eggerich has videos and audio on his blog concerning this issue. If you would like to find out more, go to his blog and youtube for audio and video of "Love and Respect" ruclips.net/user/results?search_query=emerson+eggerichs+love+and+respect. God bless you.
@@sonnyh9774 thank you so much I will continue to keep him in my prayers to fix him to fix me me mostly only God can change us. But I have to believe for myself to be changed first I forgive him and I love him. You God bless
Update: He messaged me about 2 weeks ago we have been going on dates. Dinner and now riding. Most importantly we go to church for these past 2 Sundays. I'm so grateful. Continue praying for us. Please. I pray daily. Thank you Jesus.
You need to talk like he needs physical intimacy. Was his withholding a way of getting back for not getting what he needed?
Know a guy ... Wrote a book ... based on Matthew 18 and 1 Corinthians 13 ... the title of the book ... "Do you want to be right? ... Or Free?" ... Great title ... A? ... Smile ... Blessings to you and your family 🙏 ...
Do you know where i could find a book like that?
" In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace." Ephesians 1:7✝️
Jesus paid it all
Forgiveness does not cost us anything
On the contrary we receive
Forgive and you will receive
" .. a crown of beauty instead of ashes
The oil of joy instead of mourning
A garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair
Oaks of righteousness..."
Isaiah 62:1-3✝️
Love love love this
Amazing content
To that wife
you made an error in choosing
The best you can do is to pray
You have spoken to him
He does not listen
You can't change him
Jesus alone can
Some things can't be forgiven though.
Wat if the wife goes to counseling but the husband will not?!
The music is annoying and very distracting.
What about if a mother cheats on a father? Stop only blaming it on Men... im getting real tired of it
You are dragging it out to long we understood the first 10 seconds the points we aren't all as simply as you Americans