Sexually I love "masculinity" but I loath the fem discrimination in the gay community. I like to tell myself that I like the performance of masculinity not the practice. We can puff our chests and be grunty dudes when it comes to fun time but your true self can actually be soft and feminine. Like fem tops, that is a beautiful mix of masc and fem and I love how it kind of retakes the idea of gay masculinity while rejecting the straight version of that.
Sexually I love "masculinity" but I loath the fem discrimination in the gay community. I like to tell myself that I like the performance of masculinity not the practice. We can puff our chests and be grunty dudes when it comes to fun time but your true self can actually be soft and feminine. Like fem tops, that is a beautiful mix of masc and fem and I love how it kind of retakes the idea of gay masculinity while rejecting the straight version of that.