What Women Want: Should We Even Care?

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  • Опубликовано: 28 окт 2024

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  • @MahdiTidjani
    @MahdiTidjani  2 года назад +5

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    • @DrHamzeM
      @DrHamzeM 2 года назад +1

      Akhi it’s your brother Hamze quick question habibi please could you you further clarify no string Nikah? That you’ve been promoting for a while.

    • @yasminshah20
      @yasminshah20 Год назад

      Sound like prostitution to me. I think you need to learn the definition of marriage its a lot more than sex.

    • @galagainstterror
      @galagainstterror Год назад

      I only saw hatred you have from the title itself... so annoying. Im going to unsubscribe.. Im not a feminist but I have respect for dear sisters and myself

  • @osmans1694
    @osmans1694 2 года назад +25

    The first caller, Brother ismael is wise man and always make great points. May Allah bless him.

  • @Full2635
    @Full2635 2 года назад +5

    I like how they are quick to address hate against women but never do the same when women hate men

    • @catcat4697
      @catcat4697 Год назад +1

      You can't hate men, because once they are affected by the hate they're not a man anymore. Once you take them seriously you're below them, they hold the power over you. That's not what they hate, they hate the idea of someone they can't control. Don't give attention to their insecurity

  • @mohammed96011
    @mohammed96011 2 года назад +12

    Ismael explained hypergamy the best I ever heard. He explained it in realistic way.
    Mahdi explains it unrealistically sometimes

    • @TolerantAcceptingModernCommuni
      @TolerantAcceptingModernCommuni 2 года назад +2

      That is the problem with the viewers, they want to use emotionality and exceptional cases as evidence to disprove a rule. (I am not referring to Ismaeel, just to be clear. I am talking about those who think that Mahdis view is unclear because they seen things happening another way.)
      When you learn Mathematics or Science, the teachers first run you through the foundational rule, and then later on you will be introduced to the eception. It is a rule that w0men like men who are strong and provide, you can not come and say that Elizabeth from Estonia likes to do the housework, is ready to protect the family from harm and wants a stay-at-home husband who cooks and cleans, this is a silly way to approach topics.

    • @d.bcooper2271
      @d.bcooper2271 2 года назад

      @King Sultan he's N'Djamena 🤣🤣🤣

  • @malenedietl3369
    @malenedietl3369 2 года назад +3

    Alhamdulillah! The brothers description of the masajid and the reciters in the middleeast, how good they are gives me hope for this world. Alhamdulillah, things can't be all bad then.

  • @bigtaco4362
    @bigtaco4362 9 месяцев назад

    Yes Medina is the best place. it feels like home i swear

  • @wilddon5363
    @wilddon5363 2 года назад +15

    Sister Lucy was hilarious, ma sha Allah seems feminine may Allah make it easy for her she has the right attitude and that counts big time especially nowadays.

  • @juxtapositionMS
    @juxtapositionMS 2 года назад +9

    It's true. Free lunch always comes with hidden obligation. I have same experience multiple times.

    • @d.bcooper2271
      @d.bcooper2271 2 года назад +1

      Like those "foreign aids" ?

    • @juxtapositionMS
      @juxtapositionMS 2 года назад

      @@d.bcooper2271 man, foreign aids don't come with hidden obligation. They come with full force.

  • @smeshcel3025
    @smeshcel3025 2 года назад +10

    17:53 for future refrence mahdi that name is how you spell SAED in somali. The "c" is prononced as the arabic letter "ayn" so siciid phanetically is pronoce si-(ayn)-eid(as in eid). Somali is spelt in english letters with arabic pronciation. Anyone who knows arabic could learn to read somali pretty quickly. Understanding would take a bit😂

    • @zenkahnz3859
      @zenkahnz3859 2 года назад

      I once knew a somali SA-EA-EED in school

    • @smeshcel3025
      @smeshcel3025 2 года назад

      @Healing Misogynist x letter in somali is ح and the h in somali is a weaker version of that almost like the english h

    • @TolerantAcceptingModernCommuni
      @TolerantAcceptingModernCommuni 2 года назад +2

      The script we are writing with is actually Latin in origin, English adopted that from the Romans, and the numerals we use was adopted by Europe from Arabs, who adopted it from Indians, and so did most of Europe, not too important though 👍🏾.

    • @smeshcel3025
      @smeshcel3025 2 года назад

      @@TolerantAcceptingModernCommuni thats pretty cool. Somali was actually never written until the mid 70's. Never needed to know how to write to be nomads😂. I wish they opted for arabic letters instead of using the english ones though

    • @TolerantAcceptingModernCommuni
      @TolerantAcceptingModernCommuni 2 года назад +1

      @@smeshcel3025
      They did write in Arabic, the president Siyad Barre changed it, in his mind, he saw that having the Latin script would make the education easier, since majority of students would go abroad to western nations and come back, I see the logic, but knowing multiple scripts is an advantage, and is just going to aid your ability to recognise patterns and problem solve, it's better in my opinion.

  • @phoenixknight8837
    @phoenixknight8837 2 года назад +1

    Quality discussion! Barakallahu feekum!

  • @j2shoes288
    @j2shoes288 2 года назад +6

    When we, as natives, learn foreign languages, we improve on our understanding of our own language.

  • @AK-bk8rt
    @AK-bk8rt 2 года назад +16

    Only few exceptional men can have more than 1 wife and maintain it successfully....unfortunately mahdi is not in that category!

    • @Marwadear512
      @Marwadear512 2 года назад +11

      And will be until he stops carrying around his emotional damage.

    • @ghurabaa114xx
      @ghurabaa114xx 2 года назад +9

      The best example being the Prophet Muhamamd SAW💕, sometimes just reading his seerah brings tears to my eyes. He was such an incredible man, he dealt with the ppl in such a benevolent, humble attentive manner.
      There's a beautiful book out there called 'the sealed nectar' I recommend it to everyone....it will make u fall in love with our Beloved Muhammad Sallahu alayhi wasallam even more 🥰 may Allah join us with him in jannatul firdous al a'la 💕

    • @TolerantAcceptingModernCommuni
      @TolerantAcceptingModernCommuni 2 года назад +1

      Not necessarily, you do not have to be exceptional, you just have to have justice Islamically, arguably being just makes you exceptional. Nonetheless, anyone CAN have a wife, your options would just be low-value old Whales, like most the angry commenters.

  • @adamj6364
    @adamj6364 Год назад +1

    Halal man??? The Irony.🤣

  • @dawoedderidder2451
    @dawoedderidder2451 Год назад

    The car you mean is a dogdge ram TRX bruhv😂😂

  • @simonesimone1101
    @simonesimone1101 Год назад +2

    Lucy is amazing and so funny, I blush all the time too😅❤ I hope she gets a lovely husband that treats her well xx

  • @ninaarmynina9141
    @ninaarmynina9141 2 года назад +3

    Mahdi I wathced your videos everyday so please turn on the subtitle sometimes I don't understand your words, Salam from Indonesia..

  • @suhuyinimohammedaminimoro8346
    @suhuyinimohammedaminimoro8346 2 года назад +1

    It's easy to do what comes naturally.

  • @nizal9388
    @nizal9388 Год назад +3

    The way modern women fall for players is the way the brothers fall for pretty hijabi's. Don't get blinded by looks. If she is pretty, other guys and not just you are after her.

    • @rosekay7090
      @rosekay7090 Год назад

      I’m a stereotypically pretty hijaabi (maybe I’m being lied to). Nobody is after me trust me lol. I’ve spoken to 3 men this year that I was genuinely into (how Mahdi describes women to be into a man). All three spoke for 2-3 days or maybe a week at best.. when I asked to make matters official (families etc) I was ignored and dismissed completely. It destroyed my self-esteem each time. I work like a dog and keep myself busy so that I don’t have time to feel lonely and rejected.

    • @realist1641
      @realist1641 Год назад +1

      @@rosekay7090 You just don’t know that men notice you or you decide to ignore it. Those guys at your work place/ were at your school are not/ weren’t your friends, they are/ were interested in you. 😮

  • @louisalfrednickolasstalwar7554
    @louisalfrednickolasstalwar7554 2 года назад +1

    The Short Answer: "No."
    The Long Answer: "No, absolutely not."

  • @skywa7183
    @skywa7183 2 года назад +1

    I hope moh hasn't talked to any girl that isn't his wife in a frienly manner

  • @nicklausb
    @nicklausb 2 года назад

    Barakallahu feek ya akhee. may Allah make us spend time together in Al Jannah. ameen

  • @K55365
    @K55365 Год назад +1

    The stories about teaching in Saudi Arabia are hilarious 😂 😃

  • @mohammed96011
    @mohammed96011 2 года назад +8

    How can u be a practicing Muslim if you took a hijabi on a date 😅

    • @mohammed96011
      @mohammed96011 2 года назад

      @Gyxu Euehr my point exactly

    • @mohammed96011
      @mohammed96011 2 года назад

      @King Sultan not really Kufr. Depends on the circumstances. A muslim can date knowing its haram but falls into it out of weakness of faith. Doesnt mean they committed Kufr. Its means they are sinning.

  • @j2shoes288
    @j2shoes288 2 года назад +4

    Brother, have you given a talk, solely, on your experience of teaching the Saudi students. I'd love to hear your experiences

    • @sayeeed1303
      @sayeeed1303 2 года назад

      I thought saudi men were aware of stuff like this. Is that true

  • @zeinebledou3931
    @zeinebledou3931 Год назад +1

    Of course it is important to what women want. But it has to be realistic. And also, you have to make a difference between a women and a girl. The last ones due to their age and have no experience in life. It’s true, obedient women need more softer approach then younger stubborn sisters. An advice to the brother. If you want to get married easier go to Morocco. Same couscous different taste.

    • @CodnGta
      @CodnGta Год назад

      Why do people recommend Morocco for marriage? And yes, a good man should be soft in his approach to a good obedient woman

  • @Ll_jfdk
    @Ll_jfdk Год назад +1

    May Allah give Lucy a husband that will be the coolness of her eyes in this life and the next and may He give her children that will be the coolness of her eye ameen

  • @skywa7183
    @skywa7183 2 года назад +3

    Halal man, you need to repent. And I don't understand why this is so explicitly discussed here? Like? Astaghfirullah.
    I don't think guys shud be texting girl or girls guys for marriage. It's haram. Do it thru the wali.

  • @khubaibashraf8298
    @khubaibashraf8298 2 года назад +4

    It was an amazing streak!!

    • @khubaibashraf8298
      @khubaibashraf8298 2 года назад +1

      @King Sultan walikum Assalam brother, I am better than before. What about u?❤️

    • @khubaibashraf8298
      @khubaibashraf8298 2 года назад +1

      @King Sultan May Allah bless you brother. ❤️

  • @MadAdz64
    @MadAdz64 2 года назад

    i dont care bro when i was high i thought of a tranforming car that changes form to do each of those things plus have autopilot bro and it only comes in batman black. follow your dreams guys MAKE IT HAPPEN lmfao
    ps. if i make it to jannah best know that its gon be a reality so just know, you CAN have your cake and eat one day if you strive for the ultimate success

  • @SativaSeanLasVegas
    @SativaSeanLasVegas 2 года назад +11

    Understand women. It's completely useless? Focus on yourself, your goals, and what is "required" to make your life amazing.. She will choose you, or they will choose you, and you pick from who you want, or you just keep going...they're not going anywhere. Women Do NOT KNOW THEMSELVES...so why would you want to?

    • @SativaSeanLasVegas
      @SativaSeanLasVegas 2 года назад +4

      @King Sultan 1 Billion Percent correct. 1) Get Educated 2) Stay Healthy 3) Sleep well -then us 100% of it to MAKE MONEY. for your children. A woman?? She's a plus or minus, but not a necessity and definitely NOT a daily requirement to speak with, weekly at best ; after I buy my first plane, I will write a How TO book for Muslim Men.

    • @Trilliman707
      @Trilliman707 2 года назад +1

      @@SativaSeanLasVegas how do you know more about women than women themselves you know my mother more than me?

    • @SativaSeanLasVegas
      @SativaSeanLasVegas 2 года назад +3

      @@Trilliman707 Brother, read my comment..I didn't say I knew women better, I said they don't know themselves, so it makes no sense to try and get to know them...it's the largest waste of time in the world besides spending money on them...save your time and money and energy for money-making...for your children. Your wife is there to help you, stay out of your way and update you once a week as needed but if she's living up to yours standards...less than that. The ONLY people that can immediately occupy your time are 1) Your Mother/Father 2) Your Children. ..that is the way to succeed in life as a Muslim Man.

    • @Trilliman707
      @Trilliman707 2 года назад +2

      @@SativaSeanLasVegas that sounds incorrect I'm pretty sure women know themselves more than so called men and other women do and again you talking like you know women , trust me when u find the right one like I have you wouldn't be saying that marry a women for Deen mostly that than the virtue of her character you might say this now but once you find the right one you would learn to value ur women the woman I've met litterly broke through my standards she exceeded through them. She broke the barrier once you have a women that treats you so right you would be crazy for her trust me

    • @Trilliman707
      @Trilliman707 2 года назад +1

      @@SativaSeanLasVegas and no ur wife comes before your kids than your kids first it's Allah than you that. Your wife than your kids ur wife is absolutely worth ur time ,if u find the right one u would make all the time for her even if she is hours away

  • @nizal9388
    @nizal9388 Год назад

    For money instead of looking at precise numbers just consider a plumbers salary which is the highest blue collar worker salary and accountant salary. What the local salary for those jobs whether in dollars or pounds. Sisters be aware that plumbers and accountants represent a high income relative to the average.

  • @mermaidaughter7
    @mermaidaughter7 2 года назад

    I had a revelation of myself the other day. My hubby was going to work and asked me if I was going to go out and party. I said NO because it wouldn't be fun without him there.
    Someone I know on the other hand likes going out alot with her friends and leave her husband behind at home. Maybe I'm missing something here but I thought marriage was about unity not individualism. Nonetheless some women like to rock the boat without there partner been there but expect him to buy the boat and give it up when the party is over

    • @Trilliman707
      @Trilliman707 2 года назад +1

      @K. Kong no it doesn't depends, what she said about marriage being a unity is valid ,that's irefutable truth individualism just another word for narcissism

  • @MegaAni93
    @MegaAni93 2 года назад +1

    Wanna say something about the English language subject. You said you weren't taught. But Actually you were taught but when you don't study at school you will never know why you speak how you speak😂

  • @AA-nx8ki
    @AA-nx8ki 2 года назад +1

    When I go to my country of origin men and women segregated and you can feel something in the air, an extreme sexual magnetism between the sexes. And everyone has a story of love at first sight. Sonething you don't experience in the west. Love at first sight is bit strange but nice nothing sexual about it.

  • @aghatevenus135
    @aghatevenus135 Год назад

    Revise Seera u could get the anwser ...
    و حسب نفسك (reminding myself 1st)

  • @Snippets635
    @Snippets635 2 года назад

    Curious to know why she would blush? Lucy that is…..

  • @mikeasahi3960
    @mikeasahi3960 Год назад +4

    Brother u talk to much its annoying i had to skip thru half an hour stay on track only women talk so much and say so less

  • @AA-nx8ki
    @AA-nx8ki 2 года назад

    Similar thing happened to me but I blocked the sister. And didn't show her my private parts. Unfortunately women are acting like men use you and move on. So you have to do what what women used to do by trapping them without giving them free sex.

  • @damirage2010
    @damirage2010 Год назад

    I'm a she but really I can never marry a man who first kind of behaved strange with me because I will have suspicious of him all my life just the way Iam.Of course I excuse guys for what they say.

  • @smeshcel3025
    @smeshcel3025 2 года назад +2

    40:49 WHOA HARAM MAN😂

    • @smeshcel3025
      @smeshcel3025 2 года назад

      @King Sultan The whole situation came outta left field. Caught me off guard😂

  • @jls534
    @jls534 2 года назад

    is that 'Isa the Blacktellect' guy the lame guy from speakers corner who always has a mask covering his face?

  • @razer0072073
    @razer0072073 2 года назад

    1:24:33
    1:37:27

  • @d.bcooper2271
    @d.bcooper2271 2 года назад +1

    Lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @TheOrganics01
    @TheOrganics01 Год назад +1

    More talking to non mahram

  • @Ystrly
    @Ystrly 2 года назад +1

    Bro you don't know the grammar for countable and uncountable nouns!? I've known since I was little. Lmao

  • @zenkahnz3859
    @zenkahnz3859 2 года назад

    @30:01 this right here 💔

  • @BrikMalek
    @BrikMalek Год назад

    want $$$$$$$