Forgive those who have the courage to apologize. Your uncle has already apologized, so move on and have peace. Don't dwell in the past. Thank your uncle for his harsh words that motivated you to work hard and have a better life.
Despite your late uncle's apologies, I don't believe he was genuine in his apologies because he never saw what he did was wrong. He still thought he was in the right and that's why he had no shame chastising his own children and their spouses for failing in life in front of you, your husband, and your sisters and their husbands. IMO, the real failure was your late uncle. He failed his children and children's spouses by not allowing them to pursue their own dreams and interests and instead he forced them to pursue his dreams and ambitions! Hmong OGs and their OLD SCHOOL "ua nom" dreams died the moment they came to the U.S., but they were just too blind to see the truth because they wanted to maintain their pretentious status! By thanking someone who put you down with their cruel words, you are saying that you couldn't succeed on your own without those cruel words! Maybe for some people this is true in order to prove the mean person wrong. It's best to succeed on your own merit and not depend on the words (whether good or bad) of others to carry you.
All nais phoo vajpov cov neeg los ua nom ua ntswv no, has no money, they're only living of pejxeem for money to contribute for them..if you don't give or contribute money for them, they treat you...these people use pejxeem, money for themselves..
Well said on your closing words! You are right that we should thank those who did us wrong and forgive them. They came into our lives to teach us a valuable lesson early on. Our struggles and those hurtful words ended up making us stronger and better in the long run. I’m glad it propelled you to become an even more loving and successful person! Thanks for sharing your story and wise words.
Koj tus Txiv Hlob yog Huabtais Hmoob lov? Es nws nim ua ib tug Nom kav lub Tebchaws twg thiab lubzos hulicas kiag ma? Uacas nws ua Nom haib npaum ntawv cas peb Hmoob tsis tau hnov dua ib tug Nom Hmoob hu ua Hlob Ntxuam li nab? Quav-DEV tshaj.
Kuv tsis paub tias yog vim li cas cov neeg no yuav xav ua nom ua luaj li. Txawm yog muaj txoj hmoo es rov tau lub teb chaws nplog los lawv yeej tsis yuav cov niag laus npwb2 zoo li lawv mus ua nom lawm na. Tub txawj ntxhais ntse kawm ntawv qib siab pawg lug ntawm tej, es luag yuav muab luag txoj kev txawj ntse lub laj lim tswv yim zoo2 mus ntuag rau lub ntiaj teb no sib xeem seb leej twg seb tus muaj peev xwm yog tus twg ces luag yuav tus ntaw lawm xwb na. Cov thaub laus ruam2 no es 1 tus ntaw twb tsis tau los khav qhov mus ua nom. Nyob tim nplog es yuav ua nom tseem yuav muab nyiaj mus xiab es thiaj li tau nom ua. Tib co tub2 nkeeg tsis xav ua hauj lwm li es twb tsis muaj nyiaj thiab es yuav muab nyiaj qhov twg mus xiab nplog thiab as. Zoo li tuaj teb chaws no es twb tsis muaj pes tsawg leej tub nom kawm tau Dr. as. Tam li pom thiab paub sis cov tub txom2 nyem niam txiv nyob puag pem roob cov tub cov ntxhais yog cov kawm tiav Dr. coob dua xwb. Txij li thaum Gen. Vang Pao tuag tag mas pom cov sawv los tau nais phoo thiab cov txhob xaab coj xaab coob kawg sawv nkaus li thov tsum thiab lau....
Zoo qhov koj txiv hlob thiab nws cov vauv tsis tau mus hlob kav hlau nrog yawg hlob vaj pao. This guy hasn’t learned his lesson. He’s on a wheelchair and still being so arrogant.
Koj tus txiv hlob no nws paub nws qhov txhaum lawm ces zoo heev .muaj 1 txhia qub tub rog nom ces tsav nws lub niag meej mom fwj chim txog ntua hnus nws paiskawslaws
Nej tus txiv hlob lub paj hlwb 75 paj hlwb ruam xwb os....leej twg hais tias tseem yuav muaj teb chaws es yuav tau nom na, cas nws yuav muab nws tej tub tej ntxhais lub neej ua xiam tiam tag li os.
Remember that if it weren’t for cov nom cov tswb such as your uncle during the war-risking their lives and others dying for your freedom, you and your siblings would have never had the chance to be in this country and accomplish the things you have. It was very difficult for some of these elders such as your uncle, to flee their motherland and leave behind the respect and status they’ve worked hard to earn. Mental health has rarely been addressed with the trauma the elders faced. No need to boast about how much better off you are than the others. Just be humble and have gratitude.
Ua ib tus ntxhais Nyob es xyaum tsim txhiaj thiab maj. Muaj me nyuam ua tej mas yuav txiv ces tog neej tsa ces yeej kawg poob ntsej muag xwb tiag. Cas yuav tsis paub txaj muag. Yog ib tse neeg xwb ib tus tsis txhob muab ib tus coj los xyav maj
hmoob ruam teb chaws twb tsis muaj nyob av twb tsis yog yus li, los twb tsa nom los tuav lub npe tsis muaj nyiaj hnub nyiaj hli tsuas yog tau lub npe los haus cawv xwb, thiaj tsis muaj tsheb tsav thiaj li tau laub zaum xwb ruam tiag tiag li os hmoob,
nej niag hlob ntxuam ko ntshe yog noj paj hlwb npua ntau dhau lawm es thiaj ruam li niag npua nw twb tsi paub tia nw lub niag meej mom ua nom ce twb poob tag rau hauv dej nab khoo thaum nw lo hla ntawm lawm no naj ruam tiag2 😂😂😂😂
Peb ua neeg nyob tsis pom yav tom ntej os. Hnub no Koj muaj tus txij tus nkawm los twb tsis paub tias tsam tagkis twb yuav tsis muaj tus txij tus nkawm naj
Khaws qub nom ua rau lub teb chaws no ces pab tsis tau, lub neej kawg txomnyem, tus qub nom ntshe yog Neej txuam Vaj puas yog? Zoo li yog txiv hlub Neej Ntxuam sub? WOW! TUAG LOS TSEEM KHOO THIAB OS, KAVLIAM LOS MAS QHOV NO YOG NWS QHOV DYING WISH LAWM CES UA LI NTAWM ZAUM KAWG.
Forgive those who have the courage to apologize. Your uncle has already apologized, so move on and have peace. Don't dwell in the past. Thank your uncle for his harsh words that motivated you to work hard and have a better life.
Well said :)
Despite your late uncle's apologies, I don't believe he was genuine in his apologies because he never saw what he did was wrong. He still thought he was in the right and that's why he had no shame chastising his own children and their spouses for failing in life in front of you, your husband, and your sisters and their husbands. IMO, the real failure was your late uncle. He failed his children and children's spouses by not allowing them to pursue their own dreams and interests and instead he forced them to pursue his dreams and ambitions! Hmong OGs and their OLD SCHOOL "ua nom" dreams died the moment they came to the U.S., but they were just too blind to see the truth because they wanted to maintain their pretentious status!
By thanking someone who put you down with their cruel words, you are saying that you couldn't succeed on your own without those cruel words! Maybe for some people this is true in order to prove the mean person wrong. It's best to succeed on your own merit and not depend on the words (whether good or bad) of others to carry you.
All nais phoo vajpov cov neeg los ua nom ua ntswv no, has no money, they're only living of pejxeem for money to contribute for them..if you don't give or contribute money for them, they treat you...these people use pejxeem, money for themselves..
Luag tej laus hais tias: taws tsau tsis pom tom ntej es ua neej tsis pom hmoov no muaj tiag lau.
Well said on your closing words! You are right that we should thank those who did us wrong and forgive them. They came into our lives to teach us a valuable lesson early on. Our struggles and those hurtful words ended up making us stronger and better in the long run. I’m glad it propelled you to become an even more loving and successful person! Thanks for sharing your story and wise words.
Tais jenny kuv saib koj cov neej neeg koj twb mus rau Tim nplog teb lawm los me Tais jenny ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Sister your advertisement in the beginning is too long. Cut it shorter.
Agreed, It’s getting very annoying!!!
Koj tus Txiv Hlob yog Huabtais Hmoob lov? Es nws nim ua ib tug Nom kav lub Tebchaws twg thiab lubzos hulicas kiag ma? Uacas nws ua Nom haib npaum ntawv cas peb Hmoob tsis tau hnov dua ib tug Nom Hmoob hu ua Hlob Ntxuam li nab? Quav-DEV tshaj.
Kuv tsis paub tias yog vim li cas cov neeg no yuav xav ua nom ua luaj li. Txawm yog muaj txoj hmoo es rov tau lub teb chaws nplog los lawv yeej tsis yuav cov niag laus npwb2 zoo li lawv mus ua nom lawm na. Tub txawj ntxhais ntse kawm ntawv qib siab pawg lug ntawm tej, es luag yuav muab luag txoj kev txawj ntse lub laj lim tswv yim zoo2 mus ntuag rau lub ntiaj teb no sib xeem seb leej twg seb tus muaj peev xwm yog tus twg ces luag yuav tus ntaw lawm xwb na. Cov thaub laus ruam2 no es 1 tus ntaw twb tsis tau los khav qhov mus ua nom. Nyob tim nplog es yuav ua nom tseem yuav muab nyiaj mus xiab es thiaj li tau nom ua. Tib co tub2 nkeeg tsis xav ua hauj lwm li es twb tsis muaj nyiaj thiab es yuav muab nyiaj qhov twg mus xiab nplog thiab as. Zoo li tuaj teb chaws no es twb tsis muaj pes tsawg leej tub nom kawm tau Dr. as. Tam li pom thiab paub sis cov tub txom2 nyem niam txiv nyob puag pem roob cov tub cov ntxhais yog cov kawm tiav Dr. coob dua xwb. Txij li thaum Gen. Vang Pao tuag tag mas pom cov sawv los tau nais phoo thiab cov txhob xaab coj xaab coob kawg sawv nkaus li thov tsum thiab lau....
Zoo qhov koj txiv hlob thiab nws cov vauv tsis tau mus hlob kav hlau nrog yawg hlob vaj pao. This guy hasn’t learned his lesson. He’s on a wheelchair and still being so arrogant.
Koj tus txiv hlob no nws paub nws qhov txhaum lawm ces zoo heev .muaj 1 txhia qub tub rog nom ces tsav nws lub niag meej mom fwj chim txog ntua hnus nws paiskawslaws
Nej tus txiv hlob lub paj hlwb 75 paj hlwb ruam xwb os....leej twg hais tias tseem yuav muaj teb chaws es yuav tau nom na, cas nws yuav muab nws tej tub tej ntxhais lub neej ua xiam tiam tag li os.
Remember that if it weren’t for cov nom cov tswb such as your uncle during the war-risking their lives and others dying for your freedom, you and your siblings would have never had the chance to be in this country and accomplish the things you have. It was very difficult for some of these elders such as your uncle, to flee their motherland and leave behind the respect and status they’ve worked hard to earn. Mental health has rarely been addressed with the trauma the elders faced. No need to boast about how much better off you are than the others. Just be humble and have gratitude.
Ua ib tus ntxhais Nyob es xyaum tsim txhiaj thiab maj. Muaj me nyuam ua tej mas yuav txiv ces tog neej tsa ces yeej kawg poob ntsej muag xwb tiag. Cas yuav tsis paub txaj muag. Yog ib tse neeg xwb ib tus tsis txhob muab ib tus coj los xyav maj
hmoob ruam teb chaws twb tsis muaj nyob av twb tsis yog yus li, los twb tsa nom los tuav lub npe tsis muaj nyiaj hnub nyiaj hli tsuas yog tau lub npe los haus cawv xwb, thiaj tsis muaj tsheb tsav thiaj li tau laub zaum xwb ruam tiag tiag li os hmoob,
nej niag hlob ntxuam ko ntshe yog noj paj hlwb npua ntau dhau lawm es thiaj ruam li niag npua nw twb tsi paub tia nw lub niag meej mom ua nom ce twb poob tag rau hauv dej nab khoo thaum nw lo hla ntawm lawm no naj ruam tiag2 😂😂😂😂
Peb ua neeg nyob tsis pom yav tom ntej os. Hnub no Koj muaj tus txij tus nkawm los twb tsis paub tias tsam tagkis twb yuav tsis muaj tus txij tus nkawm naj
Tsam no ces koj thiaj muab nej cov viv ncaus cov neej los khab theeb kom nej hlob ntxuam ntshav haj yam siab lol.
Luag twb hais Tias neeg khav theeb Ces yog nej to us hlob xwb .
Hmoob yeej nyiam khav theeb thiab tsa2 hwj chim.
Khaws qub nom ua rau lub teb chaws no ces pab tsis tau, lub neej kawg txomnyem, tus qub nom ntshe yog Neej txuam Vaj puas yog? Zoo li yog txiv hlub Neej Ntxuam sub? WOW! TUAG LOS TSEEM KHOO THIAB OS, KAVLIAM LOS MAS QHOV NO YOG NWS QHOV DYING WISH LAWM CES UA LI NTAWM ZAUM KAWG.
Hmoob cov laus cov hlwb ces xav rau puag looj ceeb xwb. Hmoob cov nom tswv khib kaus xwb.
Kkoom.koj nawb❤❤❤❤❤
Hais tau zoo kawg
nyob zoo os koj mus ua sis lam lo 😊😊😊😊😊😊
Yog kawg os