Should I play it cool when I like a guy?

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  • Опубликовано: 27 дек 2024

Комментарии • 31

  • @LyttonAshcroft2001
    @LyttonAshcroft2001 Год назад +1

    I'm the world's worst flirt. One thing I do is have my hands on my hips the whole time, but at least I'm smiling so it doesn't look _too_ aggressive, right? I do this by instinct, it's not conscious. If I have a crush on a guy, my hands are on my hips and I'm smiling and I'm too into him to do anything about this. Also, I can't swallow my spit when I like a guy. Not too bad at first, I'm okay at first, good with witty and playfully sarcastic banter, but eventually my mouth gets so full all I can do is say "yeah" over and over again. Worse yet, I'm really short, I'm 5 foot 1, so I'm looking up at him and that means eventually I sound like I'm underwater when I try to talk. I'm 22 years old but sound like an infant after about 20 minutes of talking to a cute guy. Guys that like me at first are always off-put by me. I wish more than anything I could meet a guy who doesn't mind that. Ironically, under every other context I have no salivary issues whatsoever.

  • @princessladylyea2466
    @princessladylyea2466 2 года назад +2

    Hello, I'm Yim from Malaysia. A very good morning, Coach Alex Cormont. Now, it's 04:46 AM. I just want to say you did a great job! You helped so many women in order to get the man and real vision of love! And I love it! Thank you so much, Coach Alex Cormont!

  • @mytinyhomestudio
    @mytinyhomestudio 2 года назад +2

    Thank you Alex, this was a great reminder for me to first of all, put myself on that pedestal. He is really treating me right, from the start, and tried to keep me with him when we started dating 3 weeks ago, that he is going to Colombia. I tried to cut him off several times, even without meeting him as we met on Tinder. I have abandonment issues and fear of men cheating on me, so he came in with a bang 🤣 the big 2 scares.. But he has been truly trying with me, and we have been on 7 dates in 1,5 week time and he really shows me more and more he is growing feelings, and so do I, but I do try to keep it more down and it feels nice that he asks for what I'm thinking and feeling. But I do show affection, in my own way, show him my appreciation for his effort of showing interest and setting up our dates together. It's so lovely to finally feel that I can do this with a guy, instead of me being the only one!! And it all happens when you higher your standards and script your perfect partner. Live as if you already have him, feel the feels that come with it. And ladies: you can feel all the love you have for a guy, but we have to play it cool. Don't show all your cards, let them work for us. We deserve it, but men also need it, the chase. Let them show us how amazing they find us, and not just after the first few weeks, but it is a give and take for the whole life long thing, if that may occur like this. Men need a bit of chasing, just don't be a little b*tch about it haha, or too hard to get, just be grateful when he does it, just not too much 😅🤪
    Hugs from a true girl who got hurt too much, but found a way to add the law Of attraction into her life, to find happiness in all aspects of her life. We can be happy, as long as we can direct our own happiness, with like minded souls that will follow, because of our attraction, not because of force. 😘

  • @ninaphommavongsy5016
    @ninaphommavongsy5016 2 года назад

    That’s so true thank you so much for your advice Alex

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id 2 года назад

    I still nervous around my best friend , it's difficult to know how valuable I am to him. . .

  • @saloneee
    @saloneee 2 года назад

    Your tips are really valuable. Thank you:)

  • @TheBxChica
    @TheBxChica 2 года назад

    Alex, you give phenomenal advice! THANK SO MUCH! God lead me to your page! THANK YOU!

  • @zelik654
    @zelik654 2 года назад

    Thank you Alex. You really do a great job! ✨

  • @sunflowermoon413
    @sunflowermoon413 2 года назад

    Connection, memories

  • @ek8928
    @ek8928 2 года назад

    thank you Alex!!!

  • @reynettefausto2537
    @reynettefausto2537 2 года назад

    Merci beaucoup Alex!!

  • @jamilehmasaeli7857
    @jamilehmasaeli7857 2 года назад

    I am funny and crazy with my friends 😄

  • @jamilehmasaeli7857
    @jamilehmasaeli7857 2 года назад +2

    Thank you so much Alex for fantastic advices. Exactly what I needed to hear right now. Blessings 🙏💕

  • @fantadmalay3052
    @fantadmalay3052 2 года назад +2

    Is not easy

  • @moonshine2603
    @moonshine2603 2 года назад +1

    But what if he replied less and less. One month ago he asked for a date out of the blue after asking me if i dated other guys since our first date in nov 2021. yes i do. I needed to cancel our date because of my grandpa. Than i suggested him another date. He imidiately responded „cannot“ after 1week of ignoring. Than he wrote me that he see no relationship with me if i don‘t drive 120km to him. I accepted it although i liked him much. But he sometimes comment on my insta stories. But when i replied he again ignored me. If i would just focus on myself. I don‘t think that we will come together because he told me to focus on himself that‘s why he didn‘t dated other girls.
    So i believe he is stubborn and wants me to act his way. Please give me your opinion 😮‍💨👍 best wishes from North-Germany

    • @effatsharmin8389
      @effatsharmin8389 2 года назад

      Hi, Moonshine, I think when you canceled the date, it's okay. I think you are in love. Your situation sounds like a domino effect. I hope you are able to work things out with him. This happened to me, too. I make a move, then it gets me to a point which I am desperate to recover with him, and he won't respond. I put him on the pedestal, and he sits back because I made him feel he is too good. And I have too many questions. Then I need coaching badly. I self struggled this way, and the guys I like don't get me anywhere. Thanks.

  • @teresa3831
    @teresa3831 2 года назад

    Alex? What if they do not live near you? Only have texting or phone?

  • @sadafmunir8521
    @sadafmunir8521 2 года назад

    Commitment

  • @janetwunder3000
    @janetwunder3000 2 года назад

    What is the answer for the most important thing to know? PLEASE tell me/us.

  • @karengarr8370
    @karengarr8370 2 года назад

    YES!

  • @louisemcshane8709
    @louisemcshane8709 2 года назад

    YES!!!

  • @priscillasultana6420
    @priscillasultana6420 2 года назад

    Is it control alex ?

  • @Monica-ky9eh
    @Monica-ky9eh 2 года назад

    💯👏🙌

  • @kathleenlewis1954
    @kathleenlewis1954 2 года назад

    ☺️

  • @staceyv2683
    @staceyv2683 2 года назад

    💕 🙏

  • @gwortman3515
    @gwortman3515 2 года назад +1

    I guess playing it cool is something a hot woman sweats over doing!!!