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  • Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
  • Back with another weekly vlog! We're going to a fashion show, doing a Trader Joes grocery haul, exercising, going to a Baccarat Pegasus World Cup Event as well as a Dion Lee store opening. I also cry...again in this vlog LOL. DETAILS & LINKS BELOW!
    ALL OF MY MIAMI HOME DECOR: fashionsteelen...
    BAL HARBOUR FASHION SHOW
    Mara Hoffman Dress: bit.ly/48jjgiW and bit.ly/3vjKEPr and bit.ly/47pOeES
    Cult Gaia Heels: bit.ly/3HxqjZL and bit.ly/48MU8Bm
    Dior Lip Glow Oil: bit.ly/3ZaTJVm
    Chanel Sand Bag: bit.ly/3QL9U9k and bit.ly/3v6lNOJ and bit.ly/487psdG
    Kaecen Perfume: www.kaecen.com...
    Jennifer Lopez Perfume: bit.ly/47BTRRI
    Oscar De La Renta Earrings (similar): bit.ly/47RQHbp and bit.ly/47QI0y8
    Creed Queen of Silk Perfume: bit.ly/3vMPxjY
    TRADER JOE’S OUTFIT
    Uniqlo Legging: bit.ly/47Djws2
    Nike Panda Dunks: bit.ly/3U0KXsy
    Raey Sweater: bit.ly/419bLIB
    White Crop Tank Top: bit.ly/49diwMy
    All Saints Boots: bit.ly/498RIwB
    FAVORITE HOUSE DRESSES & /ROBES
    Wolford Dresses: bit.ly/48leFwV and bit.ly/3RoyI60
    Skims Tube: bit.ly/3GTrd33
    Skims Slip: bit.ly/3qpO7cq
    Long Sleeves: bit.ly/3LhIPYq
    Off The Shoulder: bit.ly/3WOkNZA
    Silk Slip: bit.ly/3fcDRP7
    Halter Dress: bit.ly/3fVdzSx
    Amazon Slip Dresses: bit.ly/45Ukpfn and bit.ly/45AKIHB
    Amazon 3-Piece Set: bit.ly/41dyR0F and bit.ly/46XAQHT
    Soma Intimates Robes: bit.ly/47BBXhh and bit.ly/3slLgTo and bit.ly/47BBXhh and bit.ly/3slLgTo
    Opi Passion Nail Polish: bit.ly/3PfO659
    BACCARAT EVENT
    Fenty Lipstick (HBIC): bit.ly/3Sbzfsq
    Tiffany Link Earrings: www.tiffany.co...
    Similar Earrings: bit.ly/3SBF83Q
    Loewe Leather Belt: bit.ly/3ScNMUZ and bit.ly/3u9egPa
    Alaia Sandal Heels: bit.ly/3tSRBGx
    Prada Triangle Bag: bit.ly/3CYh2aZ
    FILMING OUTFIT
    Oscar De La Renta Earrings: bit.ly/3tJtw5b and bit.ly/3tbmR39
    Source Unknown Top: sourceunknown....
    DION LEE EVENT OUTFIT
    Dion Lee Top: bit.ly/3u1oLnH and bit.ly/3vVFARt
    Margiela Slash Jeans (size 42): bit.ly/3SdrPoJ and bit.ly/3UiFaia and bit.ly/3SenO3u
    Alexander McQueen Pumps: bit.ly/3Sd1cA9 and bit.ly/3QrWjne and bit.ly/3MbjCiI
    Bottega Jodie Bag (Black): bit.ly/3U0edQ9
    White: bit.ly/460vqMQ
    Grey: bit.ly/3p378Ru
    Anthropologie Version (Black): bit.ly/3JhJtE6
    Cream: bit.ly/3YqeDPT
    Bottega Drop Earrings: bit.ly/3orBz3z and bit.ly/3UqqJGL
    Molecule 01 Perfume: bit.ly/3RjVj3J and bit.ly/47310de
    Rhode Strawberry Gloss: bit.ly/45xexrD
    Ab Home Workouts: / @lillysabri
    PLACE I WENT
    Bal Harbour Shops
    Makoto Restaurant (9700 Collins Ave, Miami Beach, FL 33154)
    Baccarat Miami (140 NE 39th St, Miami, FL 33137)
    Dion Lee Miami (115 NE 41st St, Miami, FL 33137)
    Moxy Hotel ( 915 Washington Ave, Miami Beach, FL)
    ❤︎
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    INSTAGRAM: / monroesteele
    MY BLOG/WEBSITE: fashionsteeleny...
    SHOP MY OUTFITS: www.shopltk.co...
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    SIGN UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER: bit.ly/FSNYCNew...
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    #weeklyvlog #pegasusworldcup #miami

Комментарии • 474

  • @FashionSteeleNYC
    @FashionSteeleNYC  7 месяцев назад +69

    back with another VLOG! we're doing a lot in this one. thanks for all the love on my Tulum vlog. Make sure to THUMBS UP and if you're new here, go ahead and SUBSCRIBE (or check to see if you're still subscribed cause YT will unsubscribe you) lol. Would love 5K thumbs up on this video and shout all to all of you who read the blog. y'all made me cry in this video.
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    READ MY BLOG: fashionsteelenyc.com I'm back to writing weekly blog post every Monday covering everything from Fashion to Dating to Making Money to Being a Full Time Content Creator. All the tea is in the ESSAY Section, so I'd love it if you'd take a look. I also have TRAVEL GUIDES for every place I've visited.
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    • @pamk1967
      @pamk1967 7 месяцев назад +3

      Make your life what you need and want ALWAYS, Monroe ❤ Proud of what you are doing for you and sharing your experiences with us✌🏾

    • @Ms.Rezint
      @Ms.Rezint 7 месяцев назад

      Blog post was bomb too

    • @Product_snob
      @Product_snob 7 месяцев назад

      awesome blog sis 💖

  • @JoyTwoTheWorld
    @JoyTwoTheWorld 7 месяцев назад +134

    Good morning Monroe! Happy Sunday. The title of this video should be 39, unmarried, childless and UNBOTHERED....😊

  • @maleekalove4499
    @maleekalove4499 7 месяцев назад +130

    ❤ Monroe your content is awesome! Love the title. I’m 53, never married, no children. Living my life and not ashamed of it!

  • @LoverofLife863
    @LoverofLife863 7 месяцев назад +227

    I live for the title! 👏🏾👏🏾 I knew when I was 15, I didn’t want to marry. I do have a child and he is the love of my life. Contrary to “societal norms”, marriage and children are not for everyone. However, if you still desire them, it’s not too late. Meanwhile, keep enjoying your life, building and growing. The world is your oyster, Chica. 🤗✨✨✨

    • @marilynfarley9213
      @marilynfarley9213 7 месяцев назад +1

      👍.

    • @OHoneyPot
      @OHoneyPot 7 месяцев назад +1

      This♥️

    • @nathalia_z7639
      @nathalia_z7639 7 месяцев назад

      💯

    • @carolynalexander3804
      @carolynalexander3804 7 месяцев назад

      Please share with me what products you use on your brows….i love how soft they are. Much appreciated

    • @Islandspice116
      @Islandspice116 6 месяцев назад +2

      I love that philosophy. This is exactly the way I’m raising my children,especially my 2 girls, but I tell the 3 of them the same thing. The spouse and picket fence isn’t for everyone and that’s ok. Find your purpose and make your mark on the world

  • @adriennemoore4789
    @adriennemoore4789 7 месяцев назад +109

    I loved ur article about singleness. Women are judged for succeeding and being successful especially if ur single and childless. We get labeled as masculine. We get told we will die alone. My motto is before I die alone, I’m going to live a fabulous life though with or without a man. Keep being fabulous Queen, you inspire so many!!!

  • @thaliahall4599
    @thaliahall4599 7 месяцев назад +63

    Happy Sunday Monroe. Am now 67 yrs old, childless and never married but still happy. I was fortunate to have a close family with nieces, nephews and great nieces & nephews & cousins.
    Ladies keep being the genuine you no matter your age and marriage status!❤😊

  • @mzskinner3706
    @mzskinner3706 7 месяцев назад +54

    I'm 43 and have never been married. I cried almost everyday months before I turned 40 realizing I'm now on the path of 50 and still single. Back in high school, I knew I wanted no kids, but God blessed me with my son in college. He's 21 now and is my life. I realized soon after I turned 40 that I'm actually living my best life and I always get mistaken for my son's sister. Single keeps you youthful 😂❤

    • @mrsreaferg
      @mrsreaferg 7 месяцев назад

      This is a word!

    • @athealovesu
      @athealovesu 7 месяцев назад

      Thank God you had a son, some of may never experience motherhood. We just have to make do

  • @BBROXY940
    @BBROXY940 7 месяцев назад +76

    I’m married with child and love your content the most, black women are not a monolithic and people need to get over it already

  • @successful6.
    @successful6. 7 месяцев назад +20

    This is a shock to me!!!! 39!!!😱🤯You look so young!!!! Living good and not letting things complicate your life!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾♥️♥️♥️

    • @beckyrollins8966
      @beckyrollins8966 2 месяца назад +1

      Ikr. I'm now watching this after the Tulum video. Could def pass for 20s

  • @lisbonreese7255
    @lisbonreese7255 7 месяцев назад +34

    My daughter is 36 never been married,and no children she is ok with whichever way her life goes. She loves children but she said she is not pressed. I am proud of women like you and my daughter. Amazing woman ❤

  • @lalalivinglifeover40
    @lalalivinglifeover40 7 месяцев назад +23

    Yes, true the older we get the softer we get. In my 20s I swore I was a thug! 😂😂😂 I can cry from commercials to now! We get softer but we learn not to take mess too! Peace is essential the more you age❤😊

  • @samanthalee-fleming9844
    @samanthalee-fleming9844 7 месяцев назад +60

    Living the beautiful life that you built for yourself, I love that for you ♥

  • @kwynetta2
    @kwynetta2 7 месяцев назад +20

    The vulnerability that you show in your writing and your vlogs are unmatched. We love and appreciate you . I see we’re at 120K !!! Like/ share . Come on people let’s make Monroe proud! ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

  • @BEEingLee
    @BEEingLee 7 месяцев назад +38

    Loved reading your blog. Turned 40 December 2023, unmarried and with no children. I dared to carve my own path and I am very proud of myself. I live my life with intention and have been since I was 10 years old. I make my wildest dreams come true.

    • @mayreejay3211
      @mayreejay3211 7 месяцев назад +2

      I share same with you sis

    • @cb4664
      @cb4664 7 месяцев назад +2

      Amen! Me too. Thank you God. So glad I chose ME.

  • @DosesOfUniqueness
    @DosesOfUniqueness 7 месяцев назад +15

    It’s the title for me!! Love this vlog!! 47, Single and no kids here!

  • @nathalia_z7639
    @nathalia_z7639 7 месяцев назад +10

    I thought about whether I should or had any right to comment on this vlog as I have kids, got married, and did the things, the way that society expected me to. At the end of the day, we should just give each other space and grace to live the life that we choose, without judgment. I've seen so many videos of women having to defend themselves or explaining why they are unmarried or don't have children. Women have fought for the right to choose their own paths, and it's often other women who are the most judgemental! People live full lives without partners without kids and often have experiences they never dreamed of. Let's start normalizing living our best lives without judgment. Love you, Monroe, for being vulnerable with us and just being who you are 🤗😀.

  • @danitasmith1245
    @danitasmith1245 7 месяцев назад +8

    I've been single longer than I've been married. I was married young.....had children young.....now a young grandmother at 51. I wouldn't trade my ups and downs for anything. But you live YOUR life. Tired of people saying that women need to be married. Marriage is not for everyone....hence some of the numerous divorces and custody issues. We enjoy seeing you. You are a genuine person....so thank you.❤❤❤

  • @wheelersla
    @wheelersla 7 месяцев назад +37

    Love it! I’m all the opposite of your life and I believe it is still amazing and grand! Some think we have to be 40, married with children but I believe we should enjoy our lives the way it is meant to be… meaning we have no control over some things in life but why sit and sob over it. Keep it moving and enjoy it while we can! It is always a pleasure to watch your content. I get a glimpse at what it’s like to live an opposite lifestyle. 🎊😊❤️

    • @FashionSteeleNYC
      @FashionSteeleNYC  7 месяцев назад +8

      Yes this is THE message!!! 🫶🏾

    • @wheelersla
      @wheelersla 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@FashionSteeleNYC ❤️💅🏾

  • @teresaguzman3648
    @teresaguzman3648 7 месяцев назад +18

    Can I say the tittle is everything. I feel this tittle! I’m 36 childless and unmarried and I have a life I’m proud of and still worth my own Love. Adore your Vlogs. But this one u Did that!!

  • @aliciahall9553
    @aliciahall9553 7 месяцев назад +18

    Girl you are doing it and don’t look a day over 25!! You actually look better than a lot of 25 year olds. You are an inspiration to the younger ones who will want to hopefully look like you when they get to your age. And an inspiration to us older ladies showing us no you don’t need to feel ashamed for not having kids and no you don’t need to have a man to be living your best life!!! And that’s why you’re my all time favorite ❤❤

  • @beverlymccormick4264
    @beverlymccormick4264 7 месяцев назад +14

    Hey Queen , I am 67 with 2 grown adult children and 7 grandchildren , and 2 great grandchildren. Was engaged, but never been a bride. To tell you the truth I have a awesome life. I always wanted 2 kids never thought I would have so many grandkids and to be a great grandma, makes my life meaningful. Kids are not for everyone your life is what you make it out to be. Some would say no kids, no man it works for some people but deep down you got the best life ever. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Your career is skyrocketing to success the way you planned it out . Stay strong, positive and happy. Love u ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @SdotDIVA
    @SdotDIVA 7 месяцев назад +39

    Who is messing with Monroe! (Refrencing the vlog title) Let them hate. Everyone's journey is different!

  • @juliacampbell6541
    @juliacampbell6541 7 месяцев назад +8

    I am now 60, never married and no children.
    Marriage and children can be great but also being single and childless.
    Living life on your own without constant consideration of a partner and children can give you a freedom no one can imagine. It is not being selfish. Yes, it can be hard doing it all by yourself but who else is worth all of you but you.
    Live life and even if you make a bad choice in any one aspect, learn and move on, as no one has a looking glass into the future. Live life with no regrets of the past. Enjoy the joys of the present and pray for guidance so you look to the future with hope and dreams.

    • @athealovesu
      @athealovesu 7 месяцев назад

      Amen thank you for dropping this wisdom to us slightly younger sis here! This one was a gem ❤

    • @egersis8
      @egersis8 6 месяцев назад +1

      Great comment! Should be pinned…..

    • @beckyrollins8966
      @beckyrollins8966 2 месяца назад

      Love this advice!

  • @silvawear831
    @silvawear831 7 месяцев назад +9

    Well, here is another comment.
    Marriage and children are wonderful. They are also mentally draining and far from perfect.
    If I could do it again in my next life, I’d be single and not have kids. Seriously.
    I guess in life we want or think we may want something or a situation because we never had a taste of it.. I see what you do and your life and I wish I could do what you do! I think you’re fabulous and I truly hope you’re happy because you’re excellent at it!

  • @OHoneyPot
    @OHoneyPot 7 месяцев назад +9

    Come On Title …
    You left out Unbothered ♥️
    Keep Living Your Life Beautiful ♥️

  • @daretoberare6435
    @daretoberare6435 7 месяцев назад +17

    ❤ haven’t commented in a while but I’ve been watching. Husband had a massive stroke 😂but your videos bring me joy and happiness. Helps me to relax and calm my mind. Thank you, and yes it’s that serious what you do for me

    • @FashionSteeleNYC
      @FashionSteeleNYC  7 месяцев назад +4

      Oh wow, im so sorry to hear about your husband. Will keep him in my prayers. ❤︎

  • @beckyrollins8966
    @beckyrollins8966 2 месяца назад +1

    Just reached the 18 min mark. This moment of vulnerability has inspired me to subscribe to your newsletter.
    You are on your own path, and every like, comment, and view represents someone who is inspired or entertained by something you do/ say.
    As a long-time YT subbie, keep doing you. We love it!

  • @Aristocharme
    @Aristocharme 7 месяцев назад +34

    Bonjour Monroe. La société impose trop aux femmes : réussir professionnellement, se marier, avoir des enfants, avoir une vie sociale palpitante. Et puis, si vous ne rentrez pas dans les cases, c'est aussi une valeur ajoutée !!! C'est une sacrée plus-value de vivre sa vie selon ses propres aspirations et attentes. Vous êtes parfaite. Je suis désolée que vous ayez pleuré mais essayez de ne pas vous mettre la pression 😂😅😅😊😊. Merci pour les merveilleuses vidéos et posts en tout genre

  • @Vstylzcreations
    @Vstylzcreations 7 месяцев назад +26

    "I'm living my life like its golden, living my life like its golden" is what's I'm humming as I'm watching this video! I live for these videos ❤❤❤❤

  • @angelawilliams9088
    @angelawilliams9088 7 месяцев назад +18

    Monroe, baby girl, don't cry. I had one child at 26, and now she's 35 and 5 weeks pregnant. The father is a great person, and he told her how happy he was about the baby. I never thought my daughter at 35! would be pregnant. So, take it from your many aunties ( I'm 60). You will meet the ONE soon. Love you, baby girl

  • @ppinnock4725
    @ppinnock4725 7 месяцев назад +13

    You are an amazing beautiful and talented woman, I have been your subscriber for a while now, but I want to say you give me so much information in your videos, I was drawn to you because you are so real with your subscribers. I love how you are so detailed in showing your products and services, the places you visit often make me feel as if I am there. You do not have an ego like most influencers. You are my go-to. Also, I am not married but was in a long-term relationship and have two amazing little human beings. I have my first at 34 and the second at 36. Anything is possible. ❤

    • @FashionSteeleNYC
      @FashionSteeleNYC  7 месяцев назад

      wow thank you so much for these words. I appreciate you ❤︎

    • @ppinnock4725
      @ppinnock4725 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@FashionSteeleNYCyou are so welcome. ❤

  • @charitaboseman2758
    @charitaboseman2758 7 месяцев назад +2

    I too was 39 unmarried and childless… life happened quick 40 w/child but not the man anymore! 44 living my best life with my little! Do you love!!!❤️

  • @lillieslovelettersnfff
    @lillieslovelettersnfff 7 месяцев назад +6

    When a man does look to marry, Most often they seek genuine natural beauty w little enhancements!! You do not come off as a toy, therefore most men will not try you or test your integrity!! Keep being you lovely!!!

  • @Psychefire
    @Psychefire 7 месяцев назад +7

    Some women have children and partner and don't have the career they would like ..I have done the latter and now over 45 I am trying to get the career i want being a poet, writer, coach on track. Be grateful for the life we have, bless

    • @FashionSteeleNYC
      @FashionSteeleNYC  7 месяцев назад +2

      I’m definitely very grateful for the life I have. Hope you are able to get back on track 🫶🏾

  • @deidrabenson361
    @deidrabenson361 7 месяцев назад +7

    Happy Sunday Monroe! This is your Great Auntie 75 years young! It has been a pleasure watching you grow into the incredible woman you have become! The Universe needed you to do what you’re doing, influencing thousands and thousands of women young and old weekly! You have an amazing life and you deserve it, you work very hard! Who knows, you might meet Mr Right in Trader Joe’s, stranger things have been known to happen! Keep doing you, we appreciate you more than you know!❤️❤️❤️

  • @jasminemccoy2952
    @jasminemccoy2952 7 месяцев назад +11

    It’s the title for me! Stay your authentic unapologetic fabulous self sis! 42 divorced and childless 🥂

  • @Jeannine_9
    @Jeannine_9 7 месяцев назад +13

    Monroe, we love your spirit and energy, you keep shining your light and helping us live our BEST. We proud of u sis!!!!
    I’m in my 40s , unmarried, no children, I have godchildren, friends and family, as a teacher I’ve been helping raise other folks children for years. I’m good.
    The men have come and go, plenty of apps to satisfy my sexual needs. 🤣

    • @FashionSteeleNYC
      @FashionSteeleNYC  7 месяцев назад +5

      I KNOW THATS RIGHT 😏😂

    • @lillieslovelettersnfff
      @lillieslovelettersnfff 7 месяцев назад +1

      'that is all some women seek and thats all they get!! at a risk of disease and true unfulfillment!!! Our girl has true standards and morals!!@@FashionSteeleNYC

  • @sharonjohnson6014
    @sharonjohnson6014 7 месяцев назад +3

    Adoption is always an option ❤️

  • @AlishaDixonTV
    @AlishaDixonTV 7 месяцев назад +5

    A flex! I'm 39 and childless and I love my freedom!

  • @nancyn5324
    @nancyn5324 7 месяцев назад +13

    Auntie here!!!! Love you Monroe! Life is what you make it. Our purpose in life will find us. No one life is a cookie cutter. You have have done a fabulous job. Be you, Be wonderful and crying is a good thing. It releases our insecurities and gives us clarity. Love you!

  • @soibijack2284
    @soibijack2284 7 месяцев назад +31

    No Sunday is complete without watching a vlog from my favourite.

  • @lesleegrubbs-king5748
    @lesleegrubbs-king5748 7 месяцев назад +6

    Gurl love you and so do all of the fashion girlies. I wish in my younger days i had a person like you to listen to and get style, travel, lifestyle advice. I made a lot of mistakes. But at 57 im loving life. You have helped me develop my fashion style. I have 6 kids all successful and happy. As a matter of fact my baby boy is NYU alumni and at Michigan University for law school. Girl if i was not trying to please my parents i would have nevered married or had children. I dont encourage my daughters to do it. I am a college graduate work in health science and research. So money not the issue. I just wish i had followed my own heart instead of doing what was expected. You living my best life😁. Love you and keep up the fabulous blogs, newsletter, and vlogs.

    • @lesleegrubbs-king5748
      @lesleegrubbs-king5748 7 месяцев назад +2

      BTW IM 57 years young and loving life-travel, fashion and helping black women. We deserve the best and have to support each other. Keep shining little sis. You do it so well.❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tiarobertson2832
    @tiarobertson2832 7 месяцев назад +4

    I'm single and childless. I didn't picture my life this way. However I'm not bothered by it. Although sometimes I come across people that want to tell me oh you can still have children. Someone actually apologized to me. It made me feel like why are you apologizing for my life. I usually don't like to bring up the subject because the way some people react. Thank you Monroe for addressing this topic. I actually feel part of a community instead of an outcast.

  • @vintagebetty
    @vintagebetty 7 месяцев назад +4

    Monroe, can you start dipping back into some of the vintage thrift shops that you use to shop in when you first started vlogging?! I really miss those days when you first started. You should really blend them in here and there sometimes. Some of us miss you shopping in places that we can afford. And also let me speak for my self when I say this, I really liked when you use to put together some fabulous outfits that you thrift from different places showing people that they can be fabulous on a budget. Don't get me wrong! I know that you have to go where the money flow with the big brands that is, but I would definitely like to see some of your older style videos like what Would Monroe Thrift today from an old vintage boutique shop🤔🥰

    • @FashionSteeleNYC
      @FashionSteeleNYC  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks so much. Unfortunately I’m not into thrifting anymore. Every now and then I will do consignment shopping online like ThredUp or maybe an antique show here and there but there will not be new thrifting content and there hasn’t been for about 5 years now. It’s ok to unsubscribe if the content doesn’t resonate with you anymore. Find your tribe. There’s so many amazing people on RUclips where you can get the content you want.

    • @vintagebetty
      @vintagebetty 7 месяцев назад +2

      Omg Monroe, it's ok if thrifting is not your thing anymore I was only asking you if you would do one a simple no would have been ok with me. I understand. And I always consider you as my tribe since day one, so I thought it may have been ok to ask you a question and get a simple answer but you basically told me to unsubscribe and find my tribe, WOW! And I know that it's so many amazing people on RUclips as you said, the reason I'm still here is because I always looked at you as one of them.

  • @theebajanqueen6599
    @theebajanqueen6599 7 месяцев назад +6

    I would love to see the day when people could just stop putting their limitations on others, 'aging out of your profession' LOL. Please, have they seen you?
    If you want children there is still time and having a man is not the be all and end all. In any case, he's going to have to be really something to deserve a lady like you.
    You rock Monroe Steele, you fly and you bad. Period.
    Keep shining and rising and making me shout 'Yasss!' at my TV on a Sunday for as long as you want to!

  • @ameriebj
    @ameriebj 7 месяцев назад +17

    Living your best life! I’m here for all of it! Team unmarried, child free🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @soulblacklady
    @soulblacklady 7 месяцев назад +13

    Baby that’s why it’s called your life. Being 39 and being 💯 spiritually you is what life is about. Don’t let anyone put you in their life because it won’t be your own. You are dynamic and beautiful. Love your content and blogs.

  • @chandamochaswirl
    @chandamochaswirl 7 месяцев назад +5

    You look fabulous. Creed Aventus For Her I just ordered it today. Folks always watching folks UTERUS. I was 40 when I decided I was ready 😊. Enjoyed watching ❤

  • @latiaunique7715
    @latiaunique7715 7 месяцев назад +8

    I believe that we build the life we want for ourselves not the life people expect us to have. I have 3 children and had them young. I love my children but l always felt like l was restricted to do what l want because l had to re-arrange everything for them. So girl the title is NOTHING to be ashamed of...I wish you all the best and whatever you desire will come to you in due time.

    • @FashionSteeleNYC
      @FashionSteeleNYC  7 месяцев назад +4

      No shame at all. Thanks for sharing your story ❤︎

  • @tomekaross3820
    @tomekaross3820 7 месяцев назад +8

    It was early on in life I decided I did not want any kids, high school to be exact . Live your life Monroe ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @monique638
    @monique638 7 месяцев назад +1

    Long time follower..51, never married and one wonderful high school son.
    Happily living my best life in Pasadena CA .

  • @AshleyRania
    @AshleyRania 7 месяцев назад +32

    Hi Queen!!!!! I hope you and everyone is feeling rejoiced today! I thank you for that vulnerable, powerful and beautifully authentic blog post. I appreciate it and you so greatly! I felt seen after reading it! Shoutout to you for cultivating the life you want! Not the one conditioned for Black women! And showing other Black women (and women period) to f society’s norms and create our own! Brava! Now let em get into these vibes ✨✨✨

    • @FashionSteeleNYC
      @FashionSteeleNYC  7 месяцев назад +5

      Thank youuuuuu! Appreciate you taking the time to read it xo

  • @SharonWillams
    @SharonWillams 7 месяцев назад +5

    Monroe you are respected and admired by teens young adults middle aged and senior ladies . You continue to open our awareness to travel fashion and living with purpose on so many levels.❤❤❤

  • @cheryldian
    @cheryldian 7 месяцев назад +5

    Hey Monroe, you made me cry girl, I’m a cryer too, you have company lol! Live your life whatever way makes you happy.
    This Trinidad Aunty is here for you.❤❤

  • @Deenie1215
    @Deenie1215 7 месяцев назад +17

    Good morning Monroe gang in da house

  • @origblkwoman
    @origblkwoman 7 месяцев назад +1

    Monroe, I love your blogs! Keep writing because its inspiring us! Thank you for being vulnerable ❤

  • @effiebroadnax
    @effiebroadnax 7 месяцев назад +4

    Thanks for your honesty. Your life your way, no drama no doubt. I wished I could have been brave during my era to be or say without judgment. I support your wishes. 😊

  • @simplystar6601
    @simplystar6601 7 месяцев назад +5

    For so long I thought that I needed to have a husband and children to be “ happy,” however at 43 I have realized that there is more to life and being single and childless is OKAY!!! ❤ Cheers to carving out our paths and enjoying the adventure along the way 🍾

  • @lillieslovelettersnfff
    @lillieslovelettersnfff 7 месяцев назад +3

    Hi beautiful!! I was married and divorced since 1995. I have three grown children. I have not been in a relationship in five years! As I age I have become more selective when dating, especially having girls!! It is nothing wrong with not been easily captivated by a happy meal or a compliment. Some women feel their life is not complete without a man. A man does not complete a lady, but should compliment. You are a lady of standards and integrity and do not fall for everything in pants!! If a man does not add to ones life and you have a man or dating seriously, and are still paying your own bills and footing most things, what is the point!! Any one can have a lay, but if it that is all they have to offer, they can keep it moving!! When it is your time it will happen. Children arent for everyone, relationships that have substance are not built over night. For some women just to have intimacy is the most important thing, Usually that is all they get if that is the premise!! Stay true to your values and knowing what you deserve!! Keep shinning star!!!

  • @jenniferl.jonesmaom7347
    @jenniferl.jonesmaom7347 7 месяцев назад +7

    Happy Sunday Monroe! I wanted children and thought I wanted to be married. I turned 65 last summer and I'm fine being a single. Someone tracked me down recently and said he was moving back to DC. I dated him when I was in my 20s. I told him we could get together for dinner. I don't circle the block. It's been too long, and I'm not interested. I love my life the way it is. I enjoy your content and so does my great niece. We watched your vlog last week together. She was excited to see where you vacationed. 💖

  • @Carnivoresistaz8022
    @Carnivoresistaz8022 7 месяцев назад +4

    You are Amazing and Beautiful! You are walking in your purpose. The plan and Blessings that God has in store for you baby sis, you hold tight and know that it is the Creator when you are trying to figure out what to do with the overflow! As a 55yr in July young woman I only learned 7-8 years ago what happiness and peace of mind are. PRICELESS! When you wholeheartedly shift your thoughts and feelings towards having a family. Your prayers will be answered. God knows our hearts. I admire you, you are an inspiration to me. Keep doing you!
    Thank you, Carmen

  • @naiyajahan
    @naiyajahan 7 месяцев назад +3

    I forgot what I said to you on the blog, but you keep being you. Fill your cup first so you can give to others. I am one of your internet Aunties, I have a few years on you, but you have continued to grow more fabulous each year. Every thing is not everybody. But what is for Monroe, will be for Monroe. Love and Light

  • @valda9642
    @valda9642 7 месяцев назад +4

    Love your new combat boots & Dion Lee black sandals fire 🔥

  • @bridgestowisdom
    @bridgestowisdom 7 месяцев назад +8

    Monroe you are a gift from GOD! And only someone worthy of you can realize that and find you being the rare jewel you are.
    I didn't get married until I was 47 and honestly I can say it happened at the right time for me. And as far as children, my brothers have enough for me to love like they're mine but send them back to them because they're not mine.😂
    Love found me when I least expected it and wasn't worried about it. I was looking for my next business opportunity, job etc. quite frankly.😂
    Keep being wonderfully you and being the toast of the town!🍷🤗💖🙏🏽
    Blessing Little Sis!💞

  • @TheeStrawberryLee
    @TheeStrawberryLee 7 месяцев назад +1

    I can’t remember if I comment already but this video speaks to Meeeeee!!! I too, am 35+, unmarried, no kids and STILL living my best life wrapped in PEACE!!! I was so touched seeing that I am not alone in my journey so thank you for that. Plus I’m with you 1000%, if I meet a man and it’s right and we want to have kids then great but, in any other circumstance, it’s a no for me cuh & I stand on that!! I enjoy being able to move in my own time and spend all my hard earned money on me and when i choose to, I bless others. Just dropping by to say thanks again for an amazing video and keep thriving Sis!!! The nieces and nephews keep us busy enough!!! 💚✨💚✨💚✨

  • @305heat_
    @305heat_ 7 месяцев назад +10

    A HAPPY ,DRAMA FREE Woman’s Vlog.
    Proud of you Lady
    #Sisterhood

  • @MayGreen-bw8bq
    @MayGreen-bw8bq 7 месяцев назад +4

    When I read your title, I felt like you were saying on Stick it to you, I'm 39, no kids and still fine...

  • @godisgood8653
    @godisgood8653 7 месяцев назад +4

    Hi Monroe, Thank you for being so true and real. You are so relatable. I’m divorced And come to be ok not ever marrying again. Life gets better. It’s ok to be emotional. God sees our tears and we are our God favorite ❤

  • @DayshaGraceL.Argrow
    @DayshaGraceL.Argrow 7 месяцев назад +1

    Be encouraged. I am 46 and had my son at 41. You are a beautiful person inside and out. Love is coming for you, when you least expect it.

  • @lillieslovelettersnfff
    @lillieslovelettersnfff 7 месяцев назад +4

    Numbers are climbing lovely!!! Keep bringing realness and genuine vlogs!!!

  • @kimberleybowman8406
    @kimberleybowman8406 7 месяцев назад +3

    You are an amazing young woman and just keep praying because god has a man that will be deserving of you and equally yoke. I didn’t have a very good record with relationships and I’m fine with that now that I’m 60.

  • @jasminebaby3375
    @jasminebaby3375 7 месяцев назад +6

    The first dress looks amazing on your skin. When it comes to fashion you are the FASHION. 🔥🔥🔥
    Edit: I’m still watching the video, I had to pause to subscribe to your blog. Thank you ❤

  • @paulinewhooten1630
    @paulinewhooten1630 7 месяцев назад +12

    Girl you’re killing it. Don’t let anything stop you❤❤

  • @khrstnsibley1
    @khrstnsibley1 7 месяцев назад +7

    Happily single and living life on her own terms!! You're always so positive so that's how I see you💯👏🏿👏🏿 that dress is everything!!

  • @karenwilson594
    @karenwilson594 7 месяцев назад +3

    Hi, Monroe. I am an older woman and I have 2 sons. Let me tell you that I love, love my sons, but….children will not define who you are. You are a beautiful woman inside and out live your life and if you meet someone that makes you happy to the point where you want to have children that is another chapter of your life. Live for today and tomorrow will bring something new. Love you and stay true to yourself❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @afrochica05
    @afrochica05 7 месяцев назад +3

    The title is giving❤ That is the way I'm enjoying my life!🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @margaretdominic7828
    @margaretdominic7828 7 месяцев назад +8

    According to my Son he had to sit back down because top tier Monroe came on the screen😂. Couldn’t agree more😍👌🏾
    Edit- Now I’ve watched in full and read your captivating blog post. You’re beautiful, thriving and living by your own rules. Keep doing you🤗❤️

  • @mrod87
    @mrod87 7 месяцев назад +1

    I needed this title this week. Thank u. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ truly. Now let me tuck myself in and watch.

  • @thobekamantshongo4458
    @thobekamantshongo4458 7 месяцев назад +3

    Love the title❤️💞

  • @sntntrangelaarmstrong8711
    @sntntrangelaarmstrong8711 7 месяцев назад +8

    Keep living your best life and enjoy every “ moment”❤

  • @ONEACCORD-r4f
    @ONEACCORD-r4f 7 месяцев назад +4

    You are giving the fashion gods a run for their money in today vlogs I am glad you are living life with no regrets 😍😘🤗

  • @KM-hr6bm
    @KM-hr6bm 7 месяцев назад +6

    Thank you for title! From another 39 year old, unmarried and childless woman!!

  • @lillieslovelettersnfff
    @lillieslovelettersnfff 7 месяцев назад +2

    Hi Monroe to clarify my last comment, I certainly am not referring to you!! You are definitely genuine and sincere. I am referring to those who will fabricate situations or make something more than what it is. This is usually done for outside validation. If you watch others content, it does not take long to know who is genuine or not!!! You are a rare breed!!!!

  • @MJCreative-Bleu96
    @MJCreative-Bleu96 7 месяцев назад +2

    So very proud of all your accomplishments. We have been taught in order to be a "whole woman" or validated as a women we must be married and have children. It is nice to be married and to have a great husband; however, there are so many more women who are now entrepreneurs and leaders that its hard to find a man who is secure in themselves to want to share our knowledge and love without having to choose. Do all the things you are meant to do and let God continue to work on you and continue to walk by faith and not by sight. There are still great men out there... you never know when , where, nor the time Love will show itself.

  • @michelleforgenie3685
    @michelleforgenie3685 7 месяцев назад +2

    Love you Monroe! Thank you for being so vulnerable. Thankfully, society has moved away from the idea that women are incomplete without a man / partner and children. Advances in science enables women to have children by different methods and at more advanced ages so, hang in there, Monroe. You’re intelligent and beautiful and you are living an incredible life. Your time will come. Trust God !

  • @tangelachampion5048
    @tangelachampion5048 7 месяцев назад +1

    Monroe, to each his own. There are many things in life that are overrated, especially marriage. I am married and have a very wonderful husband... the 2nd time around, lol! We both took a dating break before meeting each other and my life has been wonderful from the day we met. He's out there, don't look for him, you will find each other. Love and blessing to you!!!

  • @JamaicanGems
    @JamaicanGems 7 месяцев назад +3

    Small rant😂😂😂
    39 years old, married 20 years this year, with 5 kids😅😅😅😅..... Lord have mercy. Needless to say, Monroe, I applaud you for fabulously living your best life unapologetically. Girl!!!! Do it for us, I'm here for all of it. Personally, being married with kids (though I love my family dearly) is NOT a flex. Live you life... be happy 😊. What's meant to be will be. That's it and that's all folks. Yes, I started early my eldest is 21, been with my husband for 22yrs now😬😬😬 time truly flies. Here I am living vicariously through Monroe's vlogs😂😂😂😂😂😂
    End of rant.😂😂😂😂

    • @FashionSteeleNYC
      @FashionSteeleNYC  7 месяцев назад +2

      I love that you’ve been married for such a long time yet you’re still young! Amazing! Thank you for sharing 🫶🏾

    • @JamaicanGems
      @JamaicanGems 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@FashionSteeleNYC thank you. I love the life you're living. Either option is a win. 🥰🥰🥰 As always, thanks for taking us along on your journey.

  • @everydayfefe
    @everydayfefe 7 месяцев назад +2

    I’m a “auntie”. Just turned 59 and started my own channel. Having a ball!!

  • @DaisyMae19138
    @DaisyMae19138 7 месяцев назад +4

    I’m 47 and I always wanted to be married with kids, but neither ever happened and I struggled with such for YEARS-I still struggle with not being a mother (it was easier for me to let go of not being married). I tried various methods and roads to motherhood, but it just was not in the cards and I hate that for me. I love that you and other women who never had the desire (or cared) about being a wife or mother avoid all the feelings/emotions that come with desiring such and it not happening. I have nieces and nephews, but I will always regret not being a mother, but such is life-we all have our own cross to bear. To my ladies in your 30s/early 40s who know you want to be a mom, please FREEZE your eggs or start IVF/IUI as a single mom by choice in your early 40s if possible!!

    • @FashionSteeleNYC
      @FashionSteeleNYC  7 месяцев назад +8

      Was adoption not an option? I always figured if later in life I wanted kids I’d just adopt them. There’s so many children waiting for an amazing loving home.

    • @DaisyMae19138
      @DaisyMae19138 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@FashionSteeleNYC Yes, and it never worked out and I’m still paying on the loan I took out for the process-adoption (private) is expensive and an emotional rollercoaster…I was ONE week away from adopting THREE different times and the birth mothers either decided to parent or went with another family. Trying to adopt as a single person is HARD and I was mentally exhausted, plus I’m 47 and not a spring chicken-I started the process at 43.

    • @FashionSteeleNYC
      @FashionSteeleNYC  7 месяцев назад +1

      oh wow @@DaisyMae19138 thanks for sharing this. I'm sorry it didn't work out for you love.

    • @DaisyMae19138
      @DaisyMae19138 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@FashionSteeleNYC You are welcome and thank you for sharing and living your truth!

  • @camib645
    @camib645 7 месяцев назад

    Girl, you're the blueprint! Keep being fabulous.....you know there are mean mad insecure opionated haters then there are people (lots of) that admire you..

  • @srp8977
    @srp8977 7 месяцев назад +3

    Girl, I'm 53 starting over after being with my husband for 30yrs no kids and I never had the urge even though I love them. Live life, have fun, be fearless, we love ya. You are doing great from what you give to us.❤😊

  • @tashahall1855
    @tashahall1855 7 месяцев назад +4

    Hey Monroe . I’d take your life over being a mom and wife anyway lol. Life doesn’t have to be the same for everyone . I hope as a society more ppl respect the choices of single and child free / childless women just the same as mothers/ wives. One is not better than the other.

  • @lovelybrowngirls1673
    @lovelybrowngirls1673 7 месяцев назад +4

    Another amazing video 💛 I myself am 34 this year and I thought I’d be married by now, but I don’t want to settle for mess and get married just to say “I’m married.” I’m beginning to be at peace with the notion that I may never get married; it may not be in God’s plan for me, and that’s ok. I have a wonderful life and am learning that being alone romantically doesn’t mean that I’m lonely. My life is full in so many ways 💛

  • @walkwithdevwalker
    @walkwithdevwalker 7 месяцев назад +2

    The Title alone told me it was gonna be a great one !😍

  • @joylastname3035
    @joylastname3035 7 месяцев назад +2

    I scromed a scream at your title 😂😂😂😂😂. Girl, live your life to the fullest. Look at what you've achieved for yourself, by yourself. I feel so proud when women succeed in spite of society and expectations.

  • @walkbyfaithnotbysight7403
    @walkbyfaithnotbysight7403 7 месяцев назад +4

    Monroe you are so relatable. I really do adore you. And I truly appreciate your honesty. You had me in tears this morning. I had a health scare to last year that a lot of people didn't know about. and I am still going through it. I am divorce and people are always asking me when are you going to get married again. I really have no desire to get married right now I am just enjoying life and traveling and enjoying my grandkids. You can have a fulfilled life without being married. I just love everything about you. Your style your personality is everything! And it also helps that I am a Taurus too. And we do have some things in common. I pray that you continue to have success and that you will be blessed abundantly. 🙏🏾🤎👑

  • @laguelhowell22
    @laguelhowell22 7 месяцев назад +2

    I been here for years and I am so happy for the life you have created for yourself! It’s a joy to watch! Here for the duration ❤

  • @cb4664
    @cb4664 7 месяцев назад +1

    53 and childless here. I actually made the decision not to have kids WHILE I was married lol. I decided he wouldn’t be the type of father I’d want to raise kids with after all and honestly I didn’t feel the need. I watched my sister with three GOOD kids and was like, nah. Every time I hear a child screaming in the grocery store I’m like “whew”! 😂 Ironically I just babysat my nephew’s daughters this weekend for a few hours and ITS A LOT. I was like, there’s no way I would want this life every day. I am so happy with my decision. I think we feel pressure to have kids because society makes us believe that’s our purpose. And then a lot of women end up feeling overwhelmed and unhappy. But your life is yours. You do you. And I have that TJ’s chili lime seasoning, try it on corn on the cob. Yum!

  • @l.e.bingham6643
    @l.e.bingham6643 7 месяцев назад +6

    Hello I hope you’re doing well, go ahead and live your best life GOD has designed the perfect man just for you. And when the time comes you will know and it going to happen hold on and keep going. GOD BLESS and much LOVE 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💖🥰👸🏽💯💫

  • @sunflowerbutterfly7023
    @sunflowerbutterfly7023 7 месяцев назад +4

    Good afternoon Monroe, I’m about to watch, and I just wanted to say thank you for your blogpost, it reinforced the need of self love, acceptance, to appreciate one’s unique path, and that our journey is an individual experience, that should not be determined or defined, by others’ expectations. Congratulations on reaching 120k subscribers, your authentic personality is most appreciated, humble and extremely inspiring. 🌻🦋❤️👑✨

    • @FashionSteeleNYC
      @FashionSteeleNYC  7 месяцев назад +3

      Thank you love!

    • @sunflowerbutterfly7023
      @sunflowerbutterfly7023 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@FashionSteeleNYC Always a great pleasure, your Tulum vlog, was one of the most inspiring, enjoyable, tranquil and beautifully delicious, that sis and I have ever experienced. 🌻🦋❤️‍🔥🔥❤️❤️‍🔥🔥❤️✨