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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

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  • @Joe-un1tl
    @Joe-un1tl 11 дней назад +120

    “Most men live in quiet desperation.” A quote that hits too close to home in the modern age. May we all find our purpose.

    • @particleconfig.8935
      @particleconfig.8935 10 дней назад

      Yes but then we have ant-men culture an law and we have to suffer through that

    • @particleconfig.8935
      @particleconfig.8935 10 дней назад

      Men their instinct are not welcome and thus he suppresses it, that’s why coming out of bed feels so depressing. It’s culture and baked in Law. If those are lifted, we thrive

    • @Rotting12
      @Rotting12 9 дней назад

      @@particleconfig.8935stop r🍇ing women

    • @writervictoria
      @writervictoria 8 дней назад +4

      Plenty of women do too. This video is not even a man thing, so why are you turning it to that. We are sick of the gender victim playing and making things about gender and race all the time. Just enjoy the video.

    • @perle13930
      @perle13930 7 дней назад

      Mans most painful thought would be that life has a purpose for itself and human biengs. This isn’t the case, life has no particular wants or needs at all, men have a great need to believe that thier lives have a meaning.....its not so 🌱

  • @NatureHeals-k3j
    @NatureHeals-k3j 11 дней назад +94

    I nearly fainted last night because of my anxiety. I’m super tired right now . I hope you realize that you help me tremendously. Thank you so much. Please never stop doing what you’re doing and being who you are! People like you are so needed in this world! ☀️

  • @puduhari1
    @puduhari1 10 дней назад +36

    The best way to explore the word outside of us is by 'reading'; The best way to explore the world within us is by 'writing'!

  • @Joy4l23
    @Joy4l23 9 часов назад

    The timing of this message was divine. Purpose is practice and holding yourself accountable daily. When you meet those on a different path it presents an opportunity to acknowledge your growth. Grateful for your videos ✨

  • @NotUrBot
    @NotUrBot 9 дней назад +20

    Your influence and impact on those of us who grew up with absent or violent parents cannot be overstated. Our childhoods were consumed by the endless effort of keeping our parents calm, leaving little room for our own passions or sense of purpose. So many who have lived in the survival mode all our lives. You, simply by being authentically yourself, have managed to fill that void, becoming a much-needed mentor, brother, and father figure. Your wisdom and compassion have created a global family, uniting sensitive souls from all corners of the world. I am so incredibly proud of the way you show up in the world. You have helped me overcome my own struggles in such a gentle way. After a life filled with chronic shame, I have been able to develop healthy habits and learn how to stand up for myself and approach relationships with love, integrity and accountability.
    Work and waking up remained challenging for me, but your gentle and kind approach has helped me break down those barriers in my mind. This video especially hit home. My heart overflows with love and gratitude for having found you. Love from Pakistan.

  • @tangleduniverse
    @tangleduniverse 11 дней назад +28

    Every single thing you spoke on here is something that has been on my mind. Just yesterday I was asking myself "what's the point?" when struggling with a bad habit. Just yesterday I wrote in my journal that I must commit to reading and journaling every day to save myself from the loneliness and quiet desperation I feel so often. I may not have many friends or family, but I can do that. And through reading, through listening to your talks, etc., I can travel and explore this world. Through writing I can, as you said, explore my inner world. I want you to know how much I appreciate everything you share, and how much you inspire me. Thank you so much.

  • @celinebook
    @celinebook День назад +1

    I don't know what to say except this is brilliant, and so loving. Like you obviously love people so much.

  • @puduhari1
    @puduhari1 10 дней назад +19

    "Desperation" comes from meaninglessness; "Quiet" part comes from the feeling of not being able to do anything about it. - Wonderful explanation!

  • @laspilly
    @laspilly 11 дней назад +20

    I'm autistic and I've struggled with sleeping disorders all my life. I have A LOT of purpose in my life, but still if I sleep less than nine hours I won't be able to fully function, and sometimes I can't fall asleep before 3 a.m. and that means I will sleep till noon or 1 p.m. I don't feel guilty but frustrated and sometimes depressed about the impossibility of consistency in my projects. 😢

    • @sherrybuckner377
      @sherrybuckner377 11 дней назад +5

      its ok, your habits and struggles are just the "form". When you have purpose, rest in that, continue to find your own individual way of making your life meaningful. It is not the form, it your intent and personal direction, and allow yourself room for lack of "perfection". Perfection isn't real anyway.

    • @Kareena1988
      @Kareena1988 10 дней назад +3

      Try traumasenditive yoga before bedtime and a louise hay sleep meditation and magnesiumglycinat before bedtime

    • @SafiraSaputry-v2z
      @SafiraSaputry-v2z 10 дней назад +2

      Hi, i struggle with sleeping too. And i try vitamin b1 and b complex, ITS help a lot.

  • @myrkatt3d
    @myrkatt3d 11 дней назад +14

    Perfect message as I’m sipping my morning cup of coffee, cheers everyone

  • @Shreya.Kapoorr
    @Shreya.Kapoorr 11 дней назад +16

    Been struggling through this for a while. The fact that guilt DOES make this problem even worse, is such an eye-opening point for me. I'll ponder upon the perspective shared in today's video.
    I don't think I can thank you enough for how you've been impacting, bringing in such amazing perspectives.
    🙏🌟

  • @loreley3126
    @loreley3126 10 дней назад +6

    Since I am not forced any more to wake up at a certain time, my body naturally adapted to the circadian rhythm … after years of constantly being tired and sleep deprived, that is real luxury for me … and I also hope that one day they will finally stop the change of summer -and wintertime… 😮‍💨🙂… and hopefully the calendar will be adapted again to the rhythm of nature, which means the year has 13 months and not 12.

  • @Cozyartcafe
    @Cozyartcafe 8 дней назад +6

    I strongly suspect I am either BPD or autistic due to a lifetime of intense struggles with emotional regulation and interpersonal relationships. I cannot tell you how stoicism, and your content in particular, have helped me regulate my emotions, think more clearly, and focus on what is in my control. Thank you.

  • @Superleggeraa
    @Superleggeraa 10 дней назад +3

    I' now going through an extremely rough period right now and very recent tough breakup. Needed something to watch tonight to help put my mind at ease a bit, thank you. I'll hopefully come back to this comment someday to update.

  • @beesmongeese2978
    @beesmongeese2978 11 дней назад +14

    Yep. Literally all my issues boil down to this. I'm saving this video and pinning a screenshot of the thumbnail+title on my wall.

  • @Itisdennis
    @Itisdennis 7 дней назад +3

    Grounding energy here on your channel. Love your work my friends. I think personally that the moment we wake up in the morning, our senses plug us back into 3D reality and we literally start to look for the familiar feeling that is us. But I think we are here to strive for the unknown & the best way to make our way towards that is to express ourselves. And reading and writing are beautiful for that. Thank you so much my friend for this video

  • @andreajoy224
    @andreajoy224 10 дней назад +5

    Enjoyed this very much! Especially the example you described of the brick wall. Thank you! 🤗
    I have gotten into a habit of reading a little of the Meditations every morning with my coffee followed by some form of movement (a walk/yoga) and this has helped me feel more clear minded and ready for the rest of the day. More reading after dinner instead of tv or endless scrolling.
    Still going strong with the Seneca journal entry every week... I need to start daily journaling...

  • @susbedoo
    @susbedoo 7 дней назад +2

    You, Sir, are my favourite person on RUclips when it comes to topics like these. ❤
    Thank you for all this.
    After watching your videos, I ordered Medications by Marcus Aurelius (Gregory Hays translation) and that was the first book I completely read. As you said it's one of the dailies.
    The next book I ordered and just received is "Letters on Ethics" by Seneca (University of Chicago press). And I am reading along with your newsletter.
    Thanks for bringing these amazing ancient philosophers to my life. I wish I could meet you someday and offer my gratitude

  • @rosslovesthedark
    @rosslovesthedark 11 дней назад +6

    The complicated, simplified. Great video. I wake up early and go to my job, which I truly like! When I get home, I go right to reading, and sometimes writing, it’s a great balance for me.

    • @AnnieDaddo
      @AnnieDaddo 11 дней назад +1

      Such wise counsel and an important reminder for all our ears🙏Those early morning hours , always in darkness, are imperative for me to learn, think ,pray and prepare as best I can for what may come.I cherish that solitude whilst the rest of the house is still sleeping.I light a candle and begin my “work”. To see and hear the world awake then after this time…breathe in the fresh air, watch the sun rise, hear the bird song gives me strength to move on.We all must do our work.Go well.

  • @mikolajsluzewski6121
    @mikolajsluzewski6121 11 дней назад +4

    Laughing out loud with tears in my eyes, that's how much I'm loving this message from you and from Marcus A 😉 Thank you both 🙏🏻

  • @romanianclubculture
    @romanianclubculture 10 дней назад +2

    Your channel is such a needed statement against current "trends" about videos that are saturated with excessive & useless editing/music and have little information in them. A lot of resources invested in editing, filming, scripting and other stuff by these people. You nailed “just” with Quality. Information does not need any "circus" around it. Good stuff, clean, on point 👍

  • @DankChili
    @DankChili 10 дней назад +5

    “You have the ability to regenerate, the brick wall doesn’t. Whatever you take away from it today will still be missing tomorrow”🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @asmaahadir3883
    @asmaahadir3883 10 дней назад +2

    Got new books today, unfortunately couldn't find Meditations, but will be starting with the ones I have right now. Tomorrow will be waking up at 4 AM and using the quietness of the world as you said to reflect on my readings and myself. Indeed, the highest of purposes is to explore this world. Thank you for another wonderful video!

  • @RadeenChoudhury
    @RadeenChoudhury 10 дней назад +2

    This video really enlightened me on how to operate going forward and relieved me of some anxiety. Thank you for your advice brother

  • @salmaanbokhari
    @salmaanbokhari 11 дней назад +4

    Started this video 58 seconds after it was uploaded. Thank you for sharing your insight and wisdom. I’m going to start waking up even earlier now and take some time to refocus my purpose

  • @juantorres90
    @juantorres90 10 дней назад +1

    Your words are a big help. I am not at a good moment, and to find out that I must seek for my proper human work gives me strength and spirits. Thanks.

  • @iamkhadija3186
    @iamkhadija3186 11 дней назад +9

    thank you for saving my life
    i feel like it was meant for me to watch this entire youtubes channel videos

  • @sydrii
    @sydrii 10 дней назад +1

    This reminds me a lot of the idea that you should “Put the first thing first”. In your case that is reading and writing. In my case it is learning and studying, eventually to contribute to the world. When you fulfil your daily purpose early in the day the rest of the day will be full of ease and your rational mind is more free of anxiety and guilt. Thanks for the video

  • @laca103
    @laca103 11 дней назад +2

    Reading&Writing. Until now, I never considered them as "valid tasks for a human", but only as tools. Even when I read Seneca in the past, I "used Him" to calm my nerves or to get some motivation to do bigger things (like preparing for exams, or for job-interviews). But since many years I don't have so distinctively big and epic obstacles (except job interviews, but I gained rutin) before me. Only the daily "adult-life"....
    As you said, we shouldn't consider our daily life in the relation to Epic Battles: daily Reading&Writing are already a worthy task for a Human.
    I have been always ashamed even before myself that "nothing is happening in my life", so I escaped more and more towards the easy escape from reality. But this re-framing is very helpful!
    This video of yours is closely in parallel with the Math Sorcerer's "Quit Waiting For Inspiration". I think many people would be happy when we would see a collaboration between you two.

  • @because-strudels
    @because-strudels 10 дней назад +6

    The low camera and overhead lamp makes it like we're literally in bed and woke up to this guy talking to us

  • @hēsukhos
    @hēsukhos 8 дней назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this video with us, I only understood how much I needed it while listening to it.

  • @joyslove3858
    @joyslove3858 11 дней назад +6

    This talk is for me
    🙏

  • @dxvhttps
    @dxvhttps 10 дней назад +1

    I have been struggling a lot with procrastination and the fear of doing things, this came at a very specific time

  • @margaretmcgregor5686
    @margaretmcgregor5686 11 дней назад +2

    A great talk as always and so nice that i recognise the passage from my reading of the Meditations 😊 I do read early - probably not as early as you but it starts the day well! I love Marcus and Seneca like friends now and it's wonderful 😊 thank you from Scotland 😊

  • @blue-grey6656
    @blue-grey6656 7 дней назад +2

    I love this video so much. Thank you ❤

  • @lucasa462
    @lucasa462 11 дней назад +4

    Great wisdom like always. Really appreciate the videos!

  • @sophiadaly4712
    @sophiadaly4712 6 дней назад

    Currently healing a broken leg and have to stay in bed, there’s little point getting out early when I’m stuck at home for the time being.
    I don’t like being complacent. I would love to go for a run right now.
    Remember. If you are struggling to get out of bed, are you getting enough rest? Are you deficient in something? Are you eating enough or too much or too late at light?

  • @monikabender1024
    @monikabender1024 9 дней назад

    Thank you so much for this inspiring speech of yours.Talking out of my soul.Sending you greetings from Greece ❤

  • @Diya-ht2ue
    @Diya-ht2ue 10 дней назад +2

    Thank you! I made a morning routine after watching this..
    & i have a request~ if possible kindly make a video on the topic "free will vs determinism", i couldn't grasp the whole concept while reading a book called "Freedom evolves" by Daniel Dennett.

  • @draganapasti_
    @draganapasti_ 10 дней назад

    Thank you so much for your support and great words of wisdom, particularly examples how to achieve our human goals. Yes, exploration encourages us to go further in knowing the world and ourselves better. Marcus Aurelius is an infinite inspiration in that sense, as in many others. I guess there's no anything more challenging than exploring. It's not always easy to get out of bed :)

  • @clairjunior5291
    @clairjunior5291 11 дней назад +8

    It’s hard to have a purpose when you see you’re not in control of your life. You can stay on course and do all the right things, but we live in a society and laws and decisions made by people in charge have huge impacts on our lives, especially when those people are insane and sometimes evil.

  • @foreverbelongingcm
    @foreverbelongingcm 10 дней назад

    thank you so much for this ! may we all stay calm and cherish each day :) and learn to grow and build for ourselves so we can as well build and stand for other ! thank you! be an explorer is the best purpose that can ever be !

  • @zensvlognotapro
    @zensvlognotapro 10 дней назад

    Keep sharing your wisdom . God bless .

  • @melissawalker7570
    @melissawalker7570 11 дней назад +4

    I really liked this one as I am in a habit of oversleeping to avoid life.

  • @rbmanishgamer5603
    @rbmanishgamer5603 10 дней назад +1

    for all book enjoyers like myself, reading the ebook 'Magnetic Aura' is a must

  • @sweettidings
    @sweettidings 8 дней назад +2

    Thanks!

  • @esteraolendraite9948
    @esteraolendraite9948 10 дней назад +1

    "Wake your body up". I woke up to see this video:). Thanks a lot. Greetings from Lithuania

  • @Freer07
    @Freer07 8 дней назад

    I literally got out of bed, opened the RUclips app and your video came up. Wow, talk about coincidences.
    Thanks for your video 👍

  • @sweettidings
    @sweettidings 8 дней назад +1

    Thank you for the constant inspiration. Now i’m ready to seize the day. Carpe diem.

  • @meropale
    @meropale 9 дней назад +1

    The quote is "the mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation".

  • @Jedi_Master_Krish
    @Jedi_Master_Krish 5 дней назад

    Marcus Aurelius struggled to rise too! 💡 Find purpose, take small steps, and explore within. #StoicWisdom #Habit10xJourney

  • @kyle7143
    @kyle7143 11 дней назад +4

    I'm watching this while in bed lol

  • @anshpradhan1954
    @anshpradhan1954 11 дней назад +1

    A lovely idea and brilliantly talked and presented, thank you and love your content ❤

    • @mabaker
      @mabaker 11 дней назад

      We love his hair.

    • @loreley3126
      @loreley3126 9 дней назад

      @@mabaker😂…

  • @annjay2581
    @annjay2581 6 дней назад

    Me, wrapped in blankets in my bed, watching this video before getting up...

  • @NN-ht1lp
    @NN-ht1lp 11 дней назад +1

    Thank you so much for these!

  • @Lady_Ima2
    @Lady_Ima2 10 дней назад

    Must admit I’m not a ‘corporate’ fan, but I must admit even Apple’s ‘journal’ app is not super appealing, but very easy to get used to. I appreciate being reminded of ‘what made you smile today ? Highly encourage everyone to start journaling ❤

  • @Englishroserebecca
    @Englishroserebecca 10 дней назад

    Thank you for another wonderful video.

  • @whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607
    @whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607 11 дней назад

    Thank you for sharing. 🇬🇧💛🤍

  • @enkhkhuslenenkhbaatar1112
    @enkhkhuslenenkhbaatar1112 11 дней назад

    Thank you. I really enjoyed your video.

  • @MistyVarin
    @MistyVarin 5 дней назад

    I believe the Quite Desperation he speaks of is shared among the masses.
    To me he seems to be referring to the very Question we all seek the answer to and the very one that brought you to us.
    Which is the; WHY if all.
    I feel that since the answer is one that is different for each of us and the fact that sometimes we have one and at other times we don't. That the loneliness of its need lingers among us.

  • @artisticexpressions59
    @artisticexpressions59 10 дней назад

    The quiet desperation of not being able to let go....I want to learn how to let go, to let go of the past, to dare believe in something, to reclaim living and evolving..to let go of the nagging, neverending quiet desperation that destroys everything and to be brave enough to soar beyond it..thx for your video..

  • @CatastrophicDisease
    @CatastrophicDisease 10 дней назад +1

    A timely video for us Americans.

  • @RickRayborn
    @RickRayborn 10 дней назад

    Thank you.

  • @1TrueNature
    @1TrueNature 10 дней назад

    A Course in Miracles attends to this subject of purpose and meaning.
    It does take discipline to get out of bed some days. Best not to think about getting up, rather just get
    up.
    I see the body as animal, myself as something quite different, invisible awareness.

  • @khaoulalgn9630
    @khaoulalgn9630 9 дней назад +1

    i needed this

  • @nihilisticnirvana
    @nihilisticnirvana 10 дней назад +1

    Best video you've made

  • @TK101-q8m
    @TK101-q8m 11 дней назад +1

    This feels too synchronized ❤

  • @K.P.777
    @K.P.777 6 дней назад +1

    It seems to me that what you are describing is what we Catholics call the sin of "Acedia". How to fight against it? By developing virtues.

  • @productanalysis5291
    @productanalysis5291 10 дней назад

    Indeed. Journaling is an activity that’s rarely practiced these days. It’s almost a rarity. I agree with you. I also believe that journaling has the power to change lives. Moreover, the inner world you mention in the video is essentially an internal exercise to develop our intrapersonal intelligence, something that you apparently have quite well-developed, and which, by the way, is a type of intelligence highly present in philosophers. Anyway, thank you very much for this video. I’d like to ask you: what is your name? I’d love to know the name of the man who’s been helping me so much these past few days. Best regards, and please keep up the great work.
    " Be like the headland on which the waves continually break, but it stands firm and about it the boiling waters sink to sleep. 'Unlucky am I, because this has befallen me.' Nay rather: 'Lucky am I, because, though this befell me, I continue free from sorrow, neither crushed by the present, nor fearing what is to come.' "

  • @elchiponr1
    @elchiponr1 10 дней назад

    Im laying in my dark bed 3 o clock at night watching this, and a tiny beetle walks onto the screen Exploring :)

  • @lansvance4870
    @lansvance4870 8 дней назад

    This reminded me of Shawshank Redemption ❤

  • @DermotHynes
    @DermotHynes 11 дней назад

    Thank you
    Godbless

  • @kyrstenmarie
    @kyrstenmarie 10 дней назад

    ♥️♥️♥️ thank you for sharing

  • @Rina2525
    @Rina2525 9 часов назад

    Great video, though they were 5 good emperors (not 4 as you mentioned): Nerva, Trajan, Hadrian, Antoninus Pius, and Marcus Aurelius.
    Keep going, your videos are life-changing!

  • @louisaholst8708
    @louisaholst8708 14 минут назад

    thank you.

  • @NemoandStitchthecats
    @NemoandStitchthecats 7 дней назад

    I get up for a purpose not knowing. Could we be happy as a nihilist. Could u make a video about this?

  • @Thelateliferesetshow
    @Thelateliferesetshow 11 дней назад

    Youre helpful..❤

  • @netinhovideos7099
    @netinhovideos7099 11 дней назад

    Gosto muito das suas palavras.

  • @Djellowman
    @Djellowman 11 дней назад

    Jokes on you, I sleep from 8:30 until 16:30

  • @zhalefarahani1489
    @zhalefarahani1489 5 дней назад

    It is nice to find something touching your soul ... how can I join you email chain of thought?

  • @goodvibes.9956
    @goodvibes.9956 10 дней назад

    It’s 4:54 AM I think I’ll stay a little

  • @David-cm4ok
    @David-cm4ok 10 дней назад +1

    What about cats and dogs though Marcus? They sleep all day. Maybe that’s my work too 🤨

    • @yash6303
      @yash6303 8 дней назад +1

      Lol. You want to be someone's pet then? Be petted, fed and played with?

    • @David-cm4ok
      @David-cm4ok 8 дней назад

      @ You make a good case for it 😁

  • @KellySnow
    @KellySnow 10 дней назад

    Doesn’t the Tao speak of drifting with no aim is the way?

  • @UziProSniper
    @UziProSniper 9 дней назад

    I love brother

  • @MistyVarin
    @MistyVarin 5 дней назад

    Didn't he get pretty much handed off a few times before he finally had a legal family and I don't even think that happened until after he was basically an adult I believe.
    Do I remember that correctly?

  • @carlaespen491
    @carlaespen491 5 дней назад

    I am italian . I will read Seneca in original language😅❤

    • @laspilly
      @laspilly 4 дня назад

      Seneca wrote in Latin

  • @MistyVarin
    @MistyVarin 5 дней назад

    Didn't he get pretty much handed off a few times before he finally had a legal family and I don't even think that happened until after he was basically an adult

  • @WestPrideAgain
    @WestPrideAgain 5 дней назад

    I loved your deep dive into Marcus Aurelius and the battle between purpose and comfort-it’s a timeless struggle that resonates deeply. Your take on exploration through reading and writing as a path to uncovering purpose aligns closely with my own philosophy.
    What strikes me is how this approach bridges rationality and creativity. I’d love to hear your thoughts on how modern distractions, like social media, might derail this journey of exploration and whether you see any tools or practices today that can aid in reclaiming focus.
    Thanks for the inspiration-looking forward to more reflections like this!
    Here's my take on being authentic, becoming proper Proud again ! West Pride Again

  • @KuvanaKajgana-y5n
    @KuvanaKajgana-y5n 11 дней назад

    But what if we don't like our potential purpose

    • @darrinheaton2614
      @darrinheaton2614 11 дней назад +3

      You can't know what your 'potential purpose' is, you can only know what is 'possible' for you. Big difference between potential - which is wide open, and which has to be discovered by you and you alone - and possibility, which is only your ego telling you what you can and cannot do. You are so much more than your 'possibilities', but in order to find your potential, you have to journey deep within yourself. You might want to look up the writing and ideas of C.G. Jung. He offers a way into the world of your inner potential.

  • @seandunlap1743
    @seandunlap1743 9 дней назад

    as within, so without

  • @WertBeraterFS
    @WertBeraterFS 11 дней назад

    everyone in history i can think of who was great suffered

  • @trvnq
    @trvnq 9 дней назад

    13:45

  • @davemojarra4734
    @davemojarra4734 9 дней назад

    Marcus forced his son Commodus on the Empire. Disaster!

  • @PiotrRakowski
    @PiotrRakowski 8 дней назад

    signed

  • @FHY742
    @FHY742 9 дней назад

  • @JoVeda_xo
    @JoVeda_xo 10 дней назад

    my peeve is the f words lately.

  • @scottguy5452
    @scottguy5452 10 дней назад

    Marcus wasn’t too successful as a father was he

  • @Leadwithlove654
    @Leadwithlove654 10 дней назад

    Ok not related to the point made here but intelligent guys are just so hot. Have a nice day!

  • @kaynicolehil
    @kaynicolehil 9 дней назад

    no

  • @idontknowyetwhoiam
    @idontknowyetwhoiam 9 дней назад

    No lol