Impressive guy to keep attempting to communicate in English with her. He got what he asked for: a girl with a strong impact, a fierce image and a humorous personality!
They had HORRIBLE chemistry and I couldn’t stop cringing. She is a loud American who is outspoken and he is a shy Korean from a conservative culture. It was a horrible match I had to literally stop the video otherwise I would have gotten a seize or smth
Cuz it’s a stranger and ur trying to be nice while u don’t understand them and their saying eww and giving u dirty looks and snatching things from you…. He was confused
Okay I speak Korean and she is not polite at all. She doesnt know how to speak to koreans. he is too erratic and loud and over the top and randomly says things she shouldn't. . When she screams 그거 건셉 이죠?! (that's the concept isn't it?!) at the end, she screams it out loud like a 10 year old girl. And then when shes says 떡볶이 갈래? (wanna eat tteokbokki?) she suddenly says 'no'. Like literally dealing with a child, I guarantee you he felt really annoyed and uncomfortable by the end. She also doesnt speak with honorifics so thats also weird
She did, but as an american myself, i feel like this is normal of how americans speak to one another. If they’re just having an openminded conversation without getting offended.
I'm American and I thought she was kinda rude. You don't have to be snatchy and aggressive and 100% sarcastic in conversations. There's a time and place.
@@emmakins0515 Time and place, yes. With strangers, no! Especially not strangers from another culture. They might not understand that you're being playful or trying to be funny.
man I feel so bad for the dude my parents don’t speak the best English and I just felt for this guy. She came across too strong and intense. I felt almost embarrassed and guilty for some reason watching this
I am studying Korean and I almost cried one time after being laughed at by someone I tried to have a conversation with because it sucks when youre trying so hard and then it seems like someone is making fun of you 🥲 maybe i am too sensitive but I understand that speaking in a language that isnt your own can be sooo stressful and I have mad respect for the guy because he kept trying, even when she was coming off as so rude! It was like she was purposely trying to make him feel embarrassed
@Emily-dc3ut No, I feel you. When you try so hard at something and people just laugh at you for it it makes you feel bad and want to break down. She was being overly rude and I feel for the guy she was talking to. He's very patient. If it were me, I would've stopped right there. Her expressions and rudeness are a bit much
Being honest this was so uncomfy to watch. She came off incredibly rude. You can pretend you don't speak the language without being condescending. He was so patient and adorable and deserved a better interaction. Maybe it's because she's young but she came off as an entitled, culturally insensitive foreigner. I'd love to see him again but never her 😬
@@niv9679 it actually is seen as obnoxious over here, what do you mean💀this is coming from a high school senior🗿🖐 if you behave that way in any place you’ll get a lot of bad looks
Right!? I was just thinking that she was doing a little too much. Like, she didn't have to snatch that bag out of his hands like that, and also, she could've had a little more manners. She making American like me seem like we're just rude
SAME i am extremely introverted and shy, the guy would have matched my energy well I think because we would both be super shy and quiet. I don’t like ppl with the girl‘s personality she seemed a little rude and very loud she is probably one of those girls who always speak their mind and say „no offense“ even tho it would be offensive.
@@Black-io1uc I’m 19 and I still can pass for 13-14. My little brother looks older than me and he’s 14. A worker in Vegas was gonna let him into an 18+ area until my mom came up and said he’s 14. I however was told I couldn’t go into the building because I was too young.
@@hiidupiidu3292 The concept was to pretend not to speak Korean, she just came off too passive-aggressive and sarcastic. If you talk in a foreign language to someone who is not familiar with it, they will already not be comfortable in that language. So her sarcasm and ‘aggressiveness ’ makes it even more uncomfortable.
@@brennathecatlover4360 Why do you think the point is to get him to be into her? Tf? They can’t just be friends? Why do you guys always want some kind of romance going on, it’s weird as hell.
She reminds me of Billie elish for some reason but she's pretty and so much fun!!! I like tacky cute things but coordinated, like hyuna! He is handsome, he tried his best. Poor thing lol.
That girl is actually quite popular nowadays and appeared on some Korean shows and is known for her confident and joyful personality. She arrived in Korea when she was a child and she said she speaks better Korean than English (which makes sense). Some people said she was rude but I guess it's either they asked her to act a little bit more or she just got annoyed with the guy that was slow-witted (he even asked if he could speak Korean when knowing she's bilingual lmao), but I doubt it
The concept was to pretend not to speak Korean, she just came off too passive-aggressive and sarcastic. If you talk in a foreign language to someone who is not familiar with it, they will already not be comfortable in that language. So her sarcasm and ‘aggressiveness ’ makes it even more uncomfortable and hard to understand a person’s intentions.
That girl is actually quite popular nowadays and appeared on some Korean shows and is known for her confident and joyful personality. She arrived in Korea when she was a child and she said she speaks better Korean than English (which makes sense). Some people said she was rude but I guess it's either they asked her to act a little bit more or she just got annoyed with the guy that was slow-witted (he even asked if he could speak Korean when knowing she's bilingual lmao), but I doubt it
I've heard so many times, that the one thing Korean people feel about American people is that we are too loud. I sincerely wish she would have just spoken to him in a normal tone. I like her style of fashion. It's unique and joyful. I thought he did a fantastic job trying to communicate with her. 잘했어.
I feel like she was portraying the stereotypical American, not normally like this but they tend to be overly outgoing when first meeting someone or someone shy. My experience anyways and even I've been guilty of this a few times lol
@@samuelsprings7245 just because there are Koreans who are racists or rude to foreigners doesn’t mean they all are. He was kind to her. She should be kind back…
"It was a little hard to act since i lived in korea for a long time and he was really nervous so i tried to make it a little fun i warned him before and he said thats okay wasn't trying to be rude at all ㅠㅠㅠ" Literally written by her after someone searched her Instagram just to tell her she acted rude. People need to chill a little and think before commenting without knowing anything, remember this is a video that takes a long time to do and edit. You don't know what happens before, during and after filming. Stop acting like yall know everything
I know she was prob acting for the video but goddamn some things are common sense like maybe don’t hate on other cultures food or be sarcastic to someone who obviously doesn’t know english?? she’s very pretty but this definitely rubbed me the wrong way. like the jelly worm thing?? that is literally in america too and she was acting like it was fucking alien shit or something. anyway, cool concept but I wish the girl wasn’t trying so hard to be this rude, loud, sarcastic character.
agreed, tho lots of comments keep mentioning how pretty she is (which is true, she's absolutely gorgeous), however, that shouldn't excuse her for her rude mannerism. The concept was not being able to speak korean, not do your best impression of an American. The "jelly worm" thing also bothered me too! Like we have those in America lol
Lots of people saying this isn't normal in general probably were pretty introverted. People are loud and playful like this all the time in the US. Getting offended because some1 doesn't like a food just because they are a foreigner is silly. Lots of people go from Asian countries to America and say this or that about 'American' food too. So do other Americans about other states and regions foods. Its no big deal. Honestly felt that this guy was too boring for this video.
She's sharp. You can tell she's very smart. She has a very pointed sense of humor. She would intimidate a lot of young guys in English or Korean really.
She was acting like an uneducated child the entire time, being extremely over the top and cringe and obnoxious and jarringly loud. When she screams 그거 건셉 이죠?! (that's the concept isn't it?!) at the end, she screams it out loud like a 10 year old girl. And then when shes says 떡볶이 갈래? (wanna eat tteokbokki?) she suddenly says 'no'. Never felt so annoyed watching an interaction I hope her mid looks dont fool people into putting her on shows anymore
@@stopthecap8810 i thought her behavior was very engaging, as expected of chaotic people. too bad she doesn't control loudness in some moments. what do you mean mid looks? she got cute down and with proper clothes she would be hot too
She's too much.. she acts rude and loud, and I feel like she thinks that it's ok to talk to someone like this lol. Maybe it's her young age, but her behaviour is really irritating and it was hard to watch.. I would be exhausted after talking to her too 😂
@@Strawberry-zb9mz young edgy teen rudeness that is somehow acceptable for Americans. For much of the rest of the world this would be considered rude even for 18 year olds
@@KLucero22 Really? You gonna call this rude? I mean it kinda was but in the end at least she isn't like most Americans cussing and being fake. I admit I would have been stunned by her at first but sometimes you gotta see where people are coming from and match their energy if you can't do a simple thing like this you are not gonna get far in life. It is not like she was overly rude because it could've been genuine rudeness in which in this case it was not. But that's just me I can get along with everybody because I stick with people and see who they are. Whether they are shy, outgoing, funny, sarcastic, sweet, I can match their energy and get along just fine with them.
@@daniellaNicole0 “sometimes you gotta see where people are coming from and match their energy” You can easily flip this around and ask why she didn’t do the same? She’s in Korea, not the US. So why didn’t she see where he was coming from and match his energy? For clarification, I’m a naturalized US citizen. I wasn’t born in the US, but I went through the K-12 and undergraduate university in the US. I have met plenty of Americans that act like her, and it wouldn’t bother me. But I grew up in a multicultural household. And I have lived and traveled to many other countries. And often, when visiting other countries Americans are often perceived as being rude, self-centered, and self important. Is this true of all Americans? No, of course not. But the stereotype persists because enough Americans are completely tone deaf to cultural norms outside of the US. What Americans consider acceptable behavior does NOT always fly outside of America. She is not in America, and so yes, her behavior would be considered rude by the standards of many Asian countries.
Some people mad at her for seeming rude but he did say he likes someone with a strong impact and fierce personality but also humourous. He got exactly what he wanted lmao
Everyone is saying she is rude she just seems very energetic, playful, and maybe lacking in discretion. She treated him like a friend though and seems like she is fun to hangout with.
She acts like someone who hasn’t been in Korea long lol, her actions can be perceived as rude bc of cultural differences. Luckily I think the guy understood that she wasn’t being rude intentionally But as a fellow American I felt she was rude 🤷♀️ idk how I would’ve reacted When he asked her age and said 20 he could have meant 18. Since 20 in Korea is 18 internationally I like her style though. She’s pretty
i can see how it can be perceived as rude but idk, i don’t really see it. i mean, i live in america and all but i’m asian myself (a native too at that). to americans, i feel like she would come off as outgoing, while the asians might see her as charismatic (at least that’s what my grandma always said)
Remember this context isn't general public and there are goals(blind date) at play that will change social dynamics. The most rude thing she did was what she was told to do, lie about speaking Korean. I could see the bait-and-switch playfulness as offensive as the mental lead on can trip you up, but I feel nothing in it. The most he reacts is in the case where she asks if he wants to eat just to say she doesn't. (Seems he's more jarred into confusion rather than offense.) Her energetic personality really makes her dominate the situation and she's very expressive. I can see that making a Korean uncomfortable, but rude? I have seen plenty of playful asian teenage girls though, it's not like that has to cross social boundaries. In this context, it's even entirely plausible to read it as flirtatious, and that's acceptable...It's a date after all.The other thing is I don't live in Korea and am not a Korean. IMO not only did he understand she wasn't being intentionally rude (context/goals play towards this strongly), the lack of suppression cues present in body posturing implies he in general didn't feel as if she was being rude. The only cases being the few times where he actually moves back or forward, in the "Lets go eat" case, it seems to be more shocking than rude to him. I don't disagree entirely, I'd assume she'd be jarring for most cultures like this. Her not being exactly helpful on correcting his mistakes was a mutual joke, you could see them both reacting to the situation. I think if he presented more upsetness, she could have adjusted, but she was interacting with him, not the generic idealism in public and adjusted to his responses. Again playing towards your side, he could be reacting better simply because his focus is on his english skills/video, his mutual part in the joking of his confusion could have been an uncomfortable play off. I expect the goal in Asian culture is to not upset or offend anyone. In that case, I agree with you. I still think she's entirely capable of reading the room and probably acts differently when walking down the street or with no-association strangers. I still think he wasn't just holding back, but in general wasn't as offended as this case is being made out to seem. (Notice his baseline posture/expression and compare his reactions to her forceful nature.) I could be completely wrong, but I don't think it's right to judge her at all with the information we have as Americans with a cut up video. Unless you do live in Korea, but still, I don't think there was anything significant to make legitimate criticism. We should adapt when it's called out by the offended party, not get offended for them. I have half-the-mind that many cultured westerners are hyper-sensitive to rudeness, such that we read it into anything we can, like a paranoia, also a sort of racial guilt virtue signalling thing. Again, I can see how some of that can be interpreted as rudeness, but context, and most of all their actual dynamics just make it seem impossible to ascertain. After all humans have to go situation by situation, you can't just know everything about someone from one event. Meh, after reasoning through it all, I do agree with you. I'm likely really downplaying how much her behaviour would stand out, because to me it's nothing strange. But I think it would be a lot more constructive if a Korean made your comment with his perception so we could then adapt properly instead of wonder about it.
@@GRAYgauss I'm Australian, she was plain freaking rude, loud and obnoxious. No "paranoia" or "a sort of racial guilt virtue signalling thing" going on at all. I guess you weren't raised right.
Idk why but it’s so adorable hearing someone speak a language they’re not entirely comfortable with. That goes for any language. I’m learning Korean, and I bet people would find it cute hearing me fail at it 💀
No it's really not, English maybe but Korean and Japanese learners often get passed off as korea or weebaboos, and to be fair they mostly are. It's unlucky but 🤷
Sorry I know she's acting but the girl is kinda mean tho..😅😅 I mean give him at least just a chance to understand what you say..😐😅 And btw about the food, not accepting someone's food is rude in some cultures..😐
Not sure why everyone is criticizing her. In the beginning of the video, HE HIMSELF specifically asked for, (and I quote,) "someone who has a strong impact and a fierce image, but turns out to have a very humorous personality." Well, he got her in spade.
This was too funny she got him so good at the end his brain had to catch up lol this was cute 🥰 they should bring these two back they’re adorable lol 😂
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people in the comments calling her rude need to touch some grass, its not rude its just her being overly sarcastic, just because you are not compatible with them does not mean they are rude because at the end of the day the world does not revolve around u
I’m digging this chicks energy, she gives me 90s chill chick/ layback vibes, I wasn’t feeling her taste in rappers like PBC cuz there’s definitely better but she was great with the guy and it was funny seeing Kim trying his best to get thru this.
the way she kept saying no so loudly and in disgust when he wanted her to try the worm jelly :( she didn’t even try it and acted like we don’t have those in America too
i honestly started feeling so bad for him at 4:50. she should've just ate the food and made him happy. he was so awkward and cute lmao. he was sweet and she was pretty rude
STOP SHES SO CUTE AND FUNNY😭😭 I love her personality their dynamic is like such a cute couple trope: the shy quiet boy and the charismatic sarcastic girl that he’s slightly afraid of. plsssss also she reminds me of billie eilish and robin from stranger things I would love to be friends with her
@@magnolia2 I mean it was just a joke but it's a different culture and she should have respected that even if she was acting. You don't joke around like that in Korea, that's just considered disrespectful even if you were joking Same with saying "no" so loudly when he asked about eating, and when she did that she wasn't supposed to keep pretending not to know Also I've seen her in other videos and she's exactly like that, so I don't think she was acting She's probably just young so she does whatever she wants, but that's not an excuse to be rude
@@ajoohcmoohc It’s not that deep. Even if she behaves like this in other videos, I’m sure she doesn’t act like this in the streets of Korea. There’s a time and place for everything. No need to be so uptight about a silly RUclips video. Again, it’s not that deep. Stop worrying about something so minuscule and irrelevant to your personal life. It’ll shorten your lifespan.
@@magnolia2 being disrespectful towards a culture It's not minuscule or irrelevant Being in a video on RUclips doesn't give less importance to the lack of respect towards a culture
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Impressive guy to keep attempting to communicate in English with her. He got what he asked for: a girl with a strong impact, a fierce image and a humorous personality!
I don't think she was what he had in mind to be honest
@@pinkpepperedsquid756 I agree. I feel like she's too loud
@@pinkpepperedsquid756 Oh, it never is. In that lies the pure evil hilarity. Chalk it down to a life lesson on wishing.
I mean she could’ve toned it down until they got to know each other cuz even that would be too much for me lol
@@brennathecatlover4360 wahwahwah
I really like him. He's trying and it's cute. Plus it's not just a language barrier but a cultural one as well
Yes she so loud 🤣 love how shocked he looked at her grab the gift so roughly and then claim the banana milk.
They had HORRIBLE chemistry and I couldn’t stop cringing. She is a loud American who is outspoken and he is a shy Korean from a conservative culture. It was a horrible match I had to literally stop the video otherwise I would have gotten a seize or smth
@@roselamoure they weren’t supposed to have “chemistry” the girl is literally acting. this is more of a reaction video…
@@roselamoure A “loud” American.. Girl be quiet.
apparently she grew up in Korea since being a child.
Lmao i think he was a bit scared of her😂
Cuz it’s a stranger and ur trying to be nice while u don’t understand them and their saying eww and giving u dirty looks and snatching things from you…. He was confused
I don't blame him. I would be too and I'm American. 🤦♀️😂😵 lol
His singing is very good and was the highlight of this vid.
I was scared of her too lmao
😁😁😁😁
@@taeblends she's literally most of my friends lmao 🥲
i would cry talking to her lol. i don’t even know that she’s intending to come across rude but her personality is so strong
LMAOOO y’all so soft
That's just a concept
Same
@@vasqify3636 ??? You fr dunno what that means cuz who tf ever likes it when ppl r condescending and rude (she’s probably acting but still)
@@tllsaeteurnn13 if u gon cry if someone has a harsher tone, then u do u 😂.
if someone talked to me like that i’d literally cry
Y’all so soft
@@yelizavetavardanyan2550 it’s a joke
@@yelizavetavardanyan2550 sarcasm exists
Why
FR😭
her energy is to much for me i would start crying
You're a little wimp
If you're over 13 grow up
right !
😭😂😂🚶🚶
@Cr1tikalisCritical Fr like…
Okay I speak Korean and she is not polite at all. She doesnt know how to speak to koreans. he is too erratic and loud and over the top and randomly says things she shouldn't. . When she screams 그거 건셉 이죠?! (that's the concept isn't it?!) at the end, she screams it out loud like a 10 year old girl. And then when shes says 떡볶이 갈래? (wanna eat tteokbokki?) she suddenly says 'no'. Like literally dealing with a child, I guarantee you he felt really annoyed and uncomfortable by the end. She also doesnt speak with honorifics so thats also weird
Next time he’s going to ask for a girl with calm and gentle personality lmaooo
True that
Imaooo true
I’ll volunteer since I’m shy around strangers😂
💀
😂😂😂nahhh fr tho
I felt she was a bit rude and overdramatic when it came to acting but, she was still funny and cool at the end and i like her personality a lot :)
She did, but as an american myself, i feel like this is normal of how americans speak to one another. If they’re just having an openminded conversation without getting offended.
I'm American and I thought she was kinda rude. You don't have to be snatchy and aggressive and 100% sarcastic in conversations. There's a time and place.
@@emmakins0515 Time and place, yes. With strangers, no! Especially not strangers from another culture. They might not understand that you're being playful or trying to be funny.
I thought that was just her personality, like super out going and energetic, but I get it sense most Koreans are reserved in situations like this😭😭😭
@@erinj.9923 First off that is not how most Americans talk to each other. Second, she just didn't come off as a bit rude she was rude.
man I feel so bad for the dude
my parents don’t speak the best English and I just felt for this guy. She came across too strong and intense. I felt almost embarrassed and guilty for some reason watching this
🌺empathy🌺
same here. I don't know why, but my first impression of her (watching the video) was a rude person.
I am studying Korean and I almost cried one time after being laughed at by someone I tried to have a conversation with because it sucks when youre trying so hard and then it seems like someone is making fun of you 🥲 maybe i am too sensitive but I understand that speaking in a language that isnt your own can be sooo stressful and I have mad respect for the guy because he kept trying, even when she was coming off as so rude! It was like she was purposely trying to make him feel embarrassed
@Emily-dc3ut No, I feel you. When you try so hard at something and people just laugh at you for it it makes you feel bad and want to break down. She was being overly rude and I feel for the guy she was talking to. He's very patient. If it were me, I would've stopped right there. Her expressions and rudeness are a bit much
Being honest this was so uncomfy to watch. She came off incredibly rude. You can pretend you don't speak the language without being condescending. He was so patient and adorable and deserved a better interaction. Maybe it's because she's young but she came off as an entitled, culturally insensitive foreigner. I'd love to see him again but never her 😬
yeah she was kinda rude lol
I absolutely agree with you 💯👍.
she's very annoying actually
@@niv9679 it actually is seen as obnoxious over here, what do you mean💀this is coming from a high school senior🗿🖐 if you behave that way in any place you’ll get a lot of bad looks
@@niv9679She has been in Korea since she was very young, and has also appeared on several Korean programs
If I ever met someone like her i will just run away her energy is just too much to handle for someone like me😩😂
Same
i feel like my social battery would run out in the first minute ngl
Right!? I was just thinking that she was doing a little too much.
Like, she didn't have to snatch that bag out of his hands like that, and also, she could've had a little more manners.
She making American like me seem like we're just rude
Agreed! Far too much to handle 😂
SAME i am extremely introverted and shy, the guy would have matched my energy well I think because we would both be super shy and quiet. I don’t like ppl with the girl‘s personality she seemed a little rude and very loud she is probably one of those girls who always speak their mind and say „no offense“ even tho it would be offensive.
The way she looked at him and said "excuse me", when he thought she's twenty is so mush funny 😭😂😂
And I was thinking she was 25 or smth
There's not even a difference in appearance between 18 and 20 year olds, it depends on the person.
I'm 20, am I old for you people ? ☹️
@@luanacoval9456 For kids probably lol
@@Black-io1uc I’m 19 and I still can pass for 13-14. My little brother looks older than me and he’s 14. A worker in Vegas was gonna let him into an 18+ area until my mom came up and said he’s 14. I however was told I couldn’t go into the building because I was too young.
Her facial expressions and tone were a little bit rude, but it was still entertaining 🤣
it was the concept...she was pretending to be rude
@@hiidupiidu3292 that obviously will make him not be into her lol
i thought i was the only one who thought that.
@@hiidupiidu3292 The concept was to pretend not to speak Korean, she just came off too passive-aggressive and sarcastic. If you talk in a foreign language to someone who is not familiar with it, they will already not be comfortable in that language. So her sarcasm and ‘aggressiveness ’ makes it even more uncomfortable.
@@brennathecatlover4360 Why do you think the point is to get him to be into her? Tf? They can’t just be friends? Why do you guys always want some kind of romance going on, it’s weird as hell.
I’m glad I wasn’t the only one uncomfy watching this 😭 like I felt so sorry for that guy
he’s so cute, trying to communicate was absolutely the cutest, love people like him
She reminds me of Billie elish for some reason but she's pretty and so much fun!!! I like tacky cute things but coordinated, like hyuna! He is handsome, he tried his best. Poor thing lol.
Me toooo omggg !!!
Wtf me too
thats the first thing i said omg
I was thinkin the exact thing!
Her personality and smile reminds me of a young Emilia Clarke.
she’s so pretty omg
and her pronunciation is really good aaa
she moved to korea when she was young i think ^^
@@tarosykes Proof? You have none. "i think" so you don't know then for sure? Cool.
@@sleeperboi8701 calm down mister 💀
@@sleeperboi8701 wtf
That girl is actually quite popular nowadays and appeared on some Korean shows and is known for her confident and joyful personality. She arrived in Korea when she was a child and she said she speaks better Korean than English (which makes sense).
Some people said she was rude but I guess it's either they asked her to act a little bit more or she just got annoyed with the guy that was slow-witted (he even asked if he could speak Korean when knowing she's bilingual lmao), but I doubt it
That poor guy was thinking she was just another rude-ass foreigner.
and she was
that was the concept 😂
@@hweart she’s lived in Korea since she was a child and speaks better korean then English…
@@joshuasheppard278 ok but who asked
@@jxxi i thought the concept was pretending to not know korean..
I love that he sung to her I think he’s so gentle and sweet
he was so cute with her i’m crying😭😭😭😭 it’s so adorable
THE WAY SHE GRABBED THE GIFT ☠️😭
Ikkkk
I literally gasped.
NO BCUZ WHY DID SHE DO THAT LMFOAOO
3:16
LMAO BRO THAT WAS VIOLENT
The concept was to pretend not to speak Korean, she just came off too passive-aggressive and sarcastic. If you talk in a foreign language to someone who is not familiar with it, they will already not be comfortable in that language. So her sarcasm and ‘aggressiveness ’ makes it even more uncomfortable and hard to understand a person’s intentions.
That girl is actually quite popular nowadays and appeared on some Korean shows and is known for her confident and joyful personality. She arrived in Korea when she was a child and she said she speaks better Korean than English (which makes sense).
Some people said she was rude but I guess it's either they asked her to act a little bit more or she just got annoyed with the guy that was slow-witted (he even asked if he could speak Korean when knowing she's bilingual lmao), but I doubt it
I don’t think he knew she could speak Korean in the beginning and obviously he’s gonna be a little slow since his English isn’t the best
What is her full name ?
@@taylor-vt1yu 매도우
what's her instagram or name ?
@@aleaaerktyka1052 it's written in the description ^^ It's 매도우, @pretty._.birdy
My introvert self would run away from this girl 😭 she has soo much energy that I won’t be able to handle
2:20 he’s actually a good singer whattt
she was so intense and kind of rude, trying to bridge a language gap with someone with this personality would have made me cry 😭
Yeah, she came across as pretty rude and obnoxious to me as well.
She was just acting pls
Dude I speak English and still wouldn't talk to people like this. This is not a language barrier but someone acting spoiled rotten.
Ugh she was awful and made the situation so uncomfortable. The guy was chill and trying his best
It's for entertainment.
I felt uncomfortable by her rudeness so imagine how he felt 😬
Yeah like I don’t think he ended liking her personality much
I have no idea what ur talking about til I realized I grew up with people like that 😂
Right like with the gummy worms she was a bit too rude 😭
Same
His singing voice is amazing
Was looking for this comment
Fr. Related. #facts lol
The high note needs a little improvement, but his voice when he sings is really good!
@@gxmxz i was thinking the same thing but it really was good
This girl is billie eilish undercover 💀
Ahhhh the way she grabbed the gift out of his hands whhyy
Why did she act like the worst American foreigner stereotypes 😭
I've heard so many times, that the one thing Korean people feel about American people is that we are too loud. I sincerely wish she would have just spoken to him in a normal tone.
I like her style of fashion. It's unique and joyful.
I thought he did a fantastic job trying to communicate with her. 잘했어.
Don't care. If they can be rude to foreigners with darker skin, it's nice to see White foreigners be rude to them. 🤣
ironically she’s been in korea since she was a child so i think that’s just her personality lmao
just bc ur insecure about ur volume dosnt mean everyone else has to be
@@leticiatapia8715 LMAO 💀 fr
Yeah I get that all the time...I speak too loud..I don't get it..but it is what it is I guess..Much respect from NYC
For the people saying “this is how Americans act” it’s not. And she knows better, she’s in Korea…
ive never met someone like this unironically. she was rude
I feel like she was portraying the stereotypical American, not normally like this but they tend to be overly outgoing when first meeting someone or someone shy. My experience anyways and even I've been guilty of this a few times lol
@soobinsfallenhairstrand Literally
Don't care. If they can be rude to foreigners with darker skin, it's nice to see White foreigners be rude to them. 🤣
@@samuelsprings7245 just because there are Koreans who are racists or rude to foreigners doesn’t mean they all are. He was kind to her. She should be kind back…
The boy is literally so cute and generous
Dude is calm, soft spoken and polite.
She's rude, loud, obnoxious and entitled.
This was painful to watch 💀💀
fr
he was so kind and respectful. why is she acting like that
"It was a little hard to act since i lived in korea for a long time and he was really nervous so i tried to make it a little fun i warned him before and he said thats okay wasn't trying to be rude at all ㅠㅠㅠ" Literally written by her after someone searched her Instagram just to tell her she acted rude.
People need to chill a little and think before commenting without knowing anything, remember this is a video that takes a long time to do and edit. You don't know what happens before, during and after filming. Stop acting like yall know everything
Thank you! I feel like people are trying to really drag her down cause it's easier but she was likely just playing around for the show
Yk... jelly..😅🥲 that's why there's stupids scolding on her now
I know she was prob acting for the video but goddamn some things are
common sense like maybe don’t hate on other cultures food or be sarcastic to someone who obviously doesn’t know english?? she’s very pretty but this definitely rubbed me the wrong way. like the jelly worm thing?? that is literally in america too and she was acting like it was fucking alien shit or something. anyway, cool concept but I wish the girl wasn’t trying so hard to be this rude, loud, sarcastic character.
agreed, tho lots of comments keep mentioning how pretty she is (which is true, she's absolutely gorgeous), however, that shouldn't excuse her for her rude mannerism. The concept was not being able to speak korean, not do your best impression of an American. The "jelly worm" thing also bothered me too! Like we have those in America lol
@@jordandaye3593 yes!! you are absolutely right.
Exactly
Fr…she probably wanted that funny sarcastic character for the vid and it came off a lil rude 😭😭
Lots of people saying this isn't normal in general probably were pretty introverted. People are loud and playful like this all the time in the US. Getting offended because some1 doesn't like a food just because they are a foreigner is silly. Lots of people go from Asian countries to America and say this or that about 'American' food too. So do other Americans about other states and regions foods. Its no big deal. Honestly felt that this guy was too boring for this video.
The fear in his eyes is valid
She's sharp. You can tell she's very smart. She has a very pointed sense of humor. She would intimidate a lot of young guys in English or Korean really.
I'm sorry but I was having secondhand embarrassment 💀💀💀💀💀💀😭
She was acting like an uneducated child the entire time, being extremely over the top and cringe and obnoxious and jarringly loud. When she screams 그거 건셉 이죠?! (that's the concept isn't it?!) at the end, she screams it out loud like a 10 year old girl. And then when shes says 떡볶이 갈래? (wanna eat tteokbokki?) she suddenly says 'no'. Never felt so annoyed watching an interaction I hope her mid looks dont fool people into putting her on shows anymore
@@stopthecap8810 based
@@stopthecap8810 i thought her behavior was very engaging, as expected of chaotic people. too bad she doesn't control loudness in some moments. what do you mean mid looks? she got cute down and with proper clothes she would be hot too
@@stopthecap8810you just dont like confident women
Ahhh I wanted to see more! Her personality was so fun and energetic. He seemed confused even by her energy.
She kinda loud and annoying ngl , I know it’s just the concept but still he seems intimated by her even at the end , but honestly she’s really pretty
FR THO
LITERALLY SHE WAS SO ANNOYING 😒
Don't care. If they can be rude to foreigners with darker skin, it's nice to see White foreigners be rude to them. 🤣
FRR she kind of annoys me
Lmao here goes jelly asses🤣🤣🔫🔫
she’s straight up being rude and everyone is overlooking it simply cause she’s pretty
I don’t think she actually acts like this guys she’s probably just trying to protect his type. But the snatching the snacks was crazyyyy!!!
as a korean-american who lives in korea but attends an international school the beginning was so hard to watch ksfdshfha the poor guy 😭
He has a beautiful voice
She was being overdramatic and rude. I’m an American female and I don’t act like that. He was very uncomfortable. I felt bad for him.
yes! anyone who can read a room could tell she was making him uncomfortable
at first she seemed pretty sweet but towards the end i felt enraged, shes being too hostile for no reason
@@NasrinNazar-z5n be quiet. Not Koreans act innocent and native. They would prefer to hang out with people like her who is outgoing and fun.
@@boredom3646 she’s not outgoing and fun, she’s obnoxious and loud.
@@boredom3646 there's a very thin line between being outgoing and being obnoxious. ur part of the problem if u disagree.
😂 the amount of people that don’t realize that she is acting! Even though she’s portraying Americans as rude and loud
oh my god he did so well I'd be freaking out in his position, she was brutal lol
She's too much.. she acts rude and loud, and I feel like she thinks that it's ok to talk to someone like this lol. Maybe it's her young age, but her behaviour is really irritating and it was hard to watch.. I would be exhausted after talking to her too 😂
No not young age just a rude person…
@@natashahyung5585 Nah she's only 18 and her rudeness def felt like young edgy teen rudeness. She'll hopefully grow out of it hopefully.
@@Strawberry-zb9mz young edgy teen rudeness that is somehow acceptable for Americans. For much of the rest of the world this would be considered rude even for 18 year olds
@@KLucero22 Really? You gonna call this rude? I mean it kinda was but in the end at least she isn't like most Americans cussing and being fake. I admit I would have been stunned by her at first but sometimes you gotta see where people are coming from and match their energy if you can't do a simple thing like this you are not gonna get far in life. It is not like she was overly rude because it could've been genuine rudeness in which in this case it was not. But that's just me I can get along with everybody because I stick with people and see who they are. Whether they are shy, outgoing, funny, sarcastic, sweet, I can match their energy and get along just fine with them.
@@daniellaNicole0 “sometimes you gotta see where people are coming from and match their energy”
You can easily flip this around and ask why she didn’t do the same? She’s in Korea, not the US. So why didn’t she see where he was coming from and match his energy? For clarification, I’m a naturalized US citizen. I wasn’t born in the US, but I went through the K-12 and undergraduate university in the US. I have met plenty of Americans that act like her, and it wouldn’t bother me. But I grew up in a multicultural household. And I have lived and traveled to many other countries. And often, when visiting other countries Americans are often perceived as being rude, self-centered, and self important. Is this true of all Americans? No, of course not. But the stereotype persists because enough Americans are completely tone deaf to cultural norms outside of the US. What Americans consider acceptable behavior does NOT always fly outside of America. She is not in America, and so yes, her behavior would be considered rude by the standards of many Asian countries.
he looks so scared😭
Some people mad at her for seeming rude but he did say he likes someone with a strong impact and fierce personality but also humourous. He got exactly what he wanted lmao
I don't know if she's what he wanted or was talking about
Nah she was just rude and obnoxious lol strong impact though for sure 🤣
Being rude knowingly to someone is now what a fierce personality is!!
You can be fierce, strong and sassy while also being nice. She was none of those.
@@zkart8038 hope you understood the sarcasm there
Everyone is saying she is rude she just seems very energetic, playful, and maybe lacking in discretion. She treated him like a friend though and seems like she is fun to hangout with.
Aint no way this many of you would actually start CRYING while having a simple interaction with this woman. Lmao WHAT 😂
She acts like someone who hasn’t been in Korea long lol, her actions can be perceived as rude bc of cultural differences. Luckily I think the guy understood that she wasn’t being rude intentionally
But as a fellow American I felt she was rude 🤷♀️ idk how I would’ve reacted
When he asked her age and said 20 he could have meant 18. Since 20 in Korea is 18 internationally
I like her style though. She’s pretty
I don't think she was rude tbh. I think she was just trying to be herself or at least be nice and out going
i can see how it can be perceived as rude but idk, i don’t really see it. i mean, i live in america and all but i’m asian myself (a native too at that). to americans, i feel like she would come off as outgoing, while the asians might see her as charismatic (at least that’s what my grandma always said)
Remember this context isn't general public and there are goals(blind date) at play that will change social dynamics. The most rude thing she did was what she was told to do, lie about speaking Korean. I could see the bait-and-switch playfulness as offensive as the mental lead on can trip you up, but I feel nothing in it. The most he reacts is in the case where she asks if he wants to eat just to say she doesn't. (Seems he's more jarred into confusion rather than offense.) Her energetic personality really makes her dominate the situation and she's very expressive. I can see that making a Korean uncomfortable, but rude? I have seen plenty of playful asian teenage girls though, it's not like that has to cross social boundaries. In this context, it's even entirely plausible to read it as flirtatious, and that's acceptable...It's a date after all.The other thing is I don't live in Korea and am not a Korean.
IMO not only did he understand she wasn't being intentionally rude (context/goals play towards this strongly), the lack of suppression cues present in body posturing implies he in general didn't feel as if she was being rude. The only cases being the few times where he actually moves back or forward, in the "Lets go eat" case, it seems to be more shocking than rude to him. I don't disagree entirely, I'd assume she'd be jarring for most cultures like this. Her not being exactly helpful on correcting his mistakes was a mutual joke, you could see them both reacting to the situation. I think if he presented more upsetness, she could have adjusted, but she was interacting with him, not the generic idealism in public and adjusted to his responses.
Again playing towards your side, he could be reacting better simply because his focus is on his english skills/video, his mutual part in the joking of his confusion could have been an uncomfortable play off. I expect the goal in Asian culture is to not upset or offend anyone. In that case, I agree with you. I still think she's entirely capable of reading the room and probably acts differently when walking down the street or with no-association strangers. I still think he wasn't just holding back, but in general wasn't as offended as this case is being made out to seem. (Notice his baseline posture/expression and compare his reactions to her forceful nature.)
I could be completely wrong, but I don't think it's right to judge her at all with the information we have as Americans with a cut up video. Unless you do live in Korea, but still, I don't think there was anything significant to make legitimate criticism. We should adapt when it's called out by the offended party, not get offended for them. I have half-the-mind that many cultured westerners are hyper-sensitive to rudeness, such that we read it into anything we can, like a paranoia, also a sort of racial guilt virtue signalling thing. Again, I can see how some of that can be interpreted as rudeness, but context, and most of all their actual dynamics just make it seem impossible to ascertain. After all humans have to go situation by situation, you can't just know everything about someone from one event.
Meh, after reasoning through it all, I do agree with you. I'm likely really downplaying how much her behaviour would stand out, because to me it's nothing strange. But I think it would be a lot more constructive if a Korean made your comment with his perception so we could then adapt properly instead of wonder about it.
@@GRAYgauss I'm Australian, she was plain freaking rude, loud and obnoxious. No "paranoia" or "a sort of racial guilt virtue signalling thing" going on at all. I guess you weren't raised right.
@@dannieallen9556 She was definitely rude and very immature for someone who is considered an adult..
Hanseul's English is adorable. The fact that he was trying hard too makes it even better 🥺
Whats is @
Him? He's a freaking sweetheart! But her? They couldn't find One Korean speaking foreigner with, Idk, Manners?
I'd like to see him again. Her, no thanks.
In my opinion, she was way too "sharp" , that I was sorry for the boy.
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nah being a pretty white girl is more important lol
@@Strawberry-zb9mz ..
having a strong impact is different than being rude ..
5:00 NOO I FELT SO BAD FOR HIM
Poor guy, she was too much :'(
She was just acting like a typical American teenager
@@booseungkwansboo6442 pretty sure typical American teenagers aren't that obnoxious and ill mannered, surely.
Don't care. If they can be rude to foreigners with darker skin, it's nice to see White foreigners be rude to them. 🤣
@@booseungkwansboo6442 american teenagers do not act like that. she was kinda rude
@@daddyball_z6293 coming from an American teenager, yes we do
I feel like he actually likes her. He would probably go on a second date with her. Lol.
I think he would find her exhausting to be around.
Probably since she’s pretty. He seemed to think so when he first saw her, but other than that , their personalities might not mesh well.
@@tulipmars That's what i tought.
They are so different in many ways.
@@tulipmars haha NO, I meant her personality would be exhausting, not her looks.
@@KyoFanDuB sometimes opposites attract 😂
the way she grabbed the bag had me rolling omg
Idk why but it’s so adorable hearing someone speak a language they’re not entirely comfortable with. That goes for any language. I’m learning Korean, and I bet people would find it cute hearing me fail at it 💀
No it's really not, English maybe but Korean and Japanese learners often get passed off as korea or weebaboos, and to be fair they mostly are. It's unlucky but 🤷
omg this girl is like SUPER pretty. I adore her personality as well
shes not
He has a lovely singing voice! 😍😍
i love her energy!! Hahaha he's clearly flustered here but he def did a great job keeping up with the convo. i wouldve given up ages ago
Sorry I know she's acting but the girl is kinda mean tho..😅😅
I mean give him at least just a chance to understand what you say..😐😅
And btw about the food, not accepting someone's food is rude in some cultures..😐
Yeah honestly i dont find her that sympathic
@@Cauliflowerr_ It was acting. She was acting mean to intimidate him and make him feel more uncomfortable about not speaking the language.
Stop being so sensitive
U didn’t finish the video did u?
@@esophagus3319 bruh I don't know what your problem is with being sensitive but I don't agree with you..😑😑😤
I mean even after they said he was here first time ,she acted very rude....I was so shocked that he literally got what he asked for...😄he is so gentle
The fact that he still tries to communicate with her in English ❤
She's too rude and beautiful at the same time.
3:16 she didn't have to grab that like that.. bro was scared lol
Not sure why everyone is criticizing her. In the beginning of the video, HE HIMSELF specifically asked for, (and I quote,) "someone who has a strong impact and a fierce image, but turns out to have a very humorous personality." Well, he got her in spade.
I CRIED INSIDE WHEN SHE GRABBED THE GIFT LIKE THAT-
This was too funny she got him so good at the end his brain had to catch up lol this was cute 🥰 they should bring these two back they’re adorable lol 😂
i LOVEE how he's so shy and calm and she is strong and loud 😂 opposites atract👀
This video was randomly proposed to me and I’m dying , he’s so adorable and caring 😭😭😭
Yeah it just randomly came to my recommending and he really is caring
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She doesn't' deserve that guy.. pure gentleman. i'm crying 😢😢
people in the comments calling her rude need to touch some grass, its not rude its just her being overly sarcastic, just because you are not compatible with them does not mean they are rude because at the end of the day the world does not revolve around u
WHEN HE STARTED SINGING I COULD FEEEEEEEL THE AWKWARDNESS… so cute
Aweee can you bring them back they look cute together 😭
nah she's too passive aggressive
@@NasrinNazar-z5n no she wasn't
@@medowwww she was
@@cloudyminn she wasn't
she has so much character i love her
you didn't need to do that.....
* aggressively grabs the gift*
when he said "My brain stopped functioning" I felt that
boy was so lost😭
Please bring them back they are really cute together❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
No you know he found her exhausting😭he even said it
Yeah she was also really rude to him
@@ayah-q2v yeah, I feel like she didn’t have any etiquette
You want to inflict her on to him again? Hasn't he suffered enough 😩
@@pinkpepperedsquid756 literally 😭 he don’t want to suffer no more
His English is so cute
The way just because she can speak English she was so proud of it at least respect another person who can't speak your language
She grabbed the gift . Seemed very condescending.
He was trying!!
2:31 that actually sounds so good 💫
There chemistry when they were communicating in Korean was like so cute. I hope they make another video with them.
Definitely some sparks here
THE WAY SHE GRABBED THAT BAG 💀💀💀
I’m digging this chicks energy, she gives me 90s chill chick/ layback vibes, I wasn’t feeling her taste in rappers like PBC cuz there’s definitely better but she was great with the guy and it was funny seeing Kim trying his best to get thru this.
He is so cute
She’s like the ideal friend I love her 😍
Ahhhhh I cringed so hard she was so rude 😭😭😭😭 the way she grabbed the snacks my heart broke 🥺😭
i felt the second hand embarrassment 😭
Love this individuals, she's so extrovert kinda rude but so authentic. And he looks so sweet and caring. This would be a good relationship combo ❤️
the way she kept saying no so loudly and in disgust when he wanted her to try the worm jelly :( she didn’t even try it and acted like we don’t have those in America too
i felt bad for him when she did that 😭 ik it’s an act but it’s not hard to be like no thank u and be over the top in a different way
I actually like her, she come off fresh after all the korean videos. Their chemistry is not bad too
i honestly started feeling so bad for him at 4:50. she should've just ate the food and made him happy. he was so awkward and cute lmao. he was sweet and she was pretty rude
I really liked her! I thought her personality was bold but fun. Would love to see them both again!
STOP SHES SO CUTE AND FUNNY😭😭 I love her personality their dynamic is like such a cute couple trope: the shy quiet boy and the charismatic sarcastic girl that he’s slightly afraid of. plsssss also she reminds me of billie eilish and robin from stranger things I would love to be friends with her
It was just a gummy worm she’s abit dramatic
That's the point lol
She still ate them at the end. It was clearly a joke to intimidate him. It was funny!
@@magnolia2 I mean it was just a joke but it's a different culture and she should have respected that even if she was acting. You don't joke around like that in Korea, that's just considered disrespectful even if you were joking
Same with saying "no" so loudly when he asked about eating, and when she did that she wasn't supposed to keep pretending not to know
Also I've seen her in other videos and she's exactly like that, so I don't think she was acting
She's probably just young so she does whatever she wants, but that's not an excuse to be rude
@@ajoohcmoohc It’s not that deep. Even if she behaves like this in other videos, I’m sure she doesn’t act like this in the streets of Korea. There’s a time and place for everything. No need to be so uptight about a silly RUclips video. Again, it’s not that deep. Stop worrying about something so minuscule and irrelevant to your personal life. It’ll shorten your lifespan.
@@magnolia2 being disrespectful towards a culture It's not minuscule or irrelevant
Being in a video on RUclips doesn't give less importance to the lack of respect towards a culture