10 Reasons Why So Many Great People Stay Single | Stoicism

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  • Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024

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  • @marka.8535
    @marka.8535 2 месяца назад +20

    A great reminder about how romantic relationships often bring drama , compromise and limitations of choices ; essentially a loss of freedom.

    • @Real-StoicJourney
      @Real-StoicJourney 2 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing your perspective! It's true that romantic relationships can sometimes bring challenges and require compromises that impact our freedom. Stoicism offers valuable insights into how we can navigate these dynamics while maintaining our personal well-being. If you're interested in exploring more about maintaining balance and freedom in relationships through Stoic principles, my channel Live Kindly covers these topics. 📚✨ Feel free to check it out for more insights and practical advice. Stay strong and keep embracing the Stoic way! 💪😊

    • @Jorda5s
      @Jorda5s 2 месяца назад +3

      Exactly it seems like a sacrifice with little reward. I like being contempt with being alone I am scared of being dependent on someone else’s presence again.

    • @marka.8535
      @marka.8535 Месяц назад

      @@Jorda5smany people, both men and women went into the relationship understanding there would be compromises but they were undermined, slowly drained of their uniqueness and literally hated by and sabotaged by their life partner. 15:50

  • @Jorda5s
    @Jorda5s 2 месяца назад +6

    I put my dreams on hold for my last relationship and it didn’t work out. Now I’m chasing my dreams and I’m much happier alone with my freedom of choice. Doing photography with women I have a hard time finding a partner who won’t be insecure. It’s a gift and a curse.

    • @jamesondavisfilms
      @jamesondavisfilms 2 месяца назад +1

      Same here, as a photographer. I can relate.

    • @marka.8535
      @marka.8535 2 месяца назад +2

      They’re all insecure no matter what your profession .

    • @Jorda5s
      @Jorda5s 2 месяца назад +1

      @@marka.8535 true lol. Ironically the more scared you are of losing someone the more likely they will leave.

  • @jonathanbowles2577
    @jonathanbowles2577 2 месяца назад +7

    Good Afternoon Sir. You have a very Good Channel. I am very Happy and Content with being Single. I am very Independent, Self Sufficient, I do what I decide to do, I go to anywhere i choose, I follow my own Pathway and it is my Lifestyle and my own Choice of Activity I choose for me. I have a Great Life of Happiness and Positive Mental Attitude. I am Strong!!.

  • @Micwar01
    @Micwar01 2 месяца назад +1

    Seeing how we live in times that seem negative or always at odds with our beliefs,being single helped me build myself back up finding new friends with similar interests and beliefs, stoicism being the reason to keep pushing forward despite times of hardship and during challenges,now times are less challenging and the stepping stones plenty,and the best part are my friends,my family and this community are there to bring the best out in me in these hard times,thank you stoic journal

  • @johnhernandez1235
    @johnhernandez1235 2 месяца назад +1

    This one will be placed on constant repeat. Absolutely loved this one.

  • @caffiend.
    @caffiend. 2 месяца назад +4

    Marrying means to halve one's rights and double one's duties--
    Arthur Schopenhauer

  • @LaurieValdez-zk3dy
    @LaurieValdez-zk3dy 2 месяца назад +3

    Yes you are right !

  • @user-rn6bk6hq4g
    @user-rn6bk6hq4g 2 месяца назад +5

    True contentment comes from within.

  • @ronnie_5150
    @ronnie_5150 2 месяца назад +1

    I've heard so many men I know say the expression, "Happy wife, happy life." Or when asked if they want to do something, "Let me check with my wife first."
    I thought, "My God, how do you live your life like that?

    • @peterlk3276
      @peterlk3276 2 месяца назад

      @ronnie_5150 Wemon, do it too they just don't say that phrase. It is normal in relationships. When you decide to share a life with someone, you no longer can just do what you want. You have to compromise with your partner. It goes both ways. If she is not happy, she will leave. If you're not happy, you will leave. So when you hear a guy say "happy wife happy life," he really is just saying, "dude, this is how much I love my wife"

    • @ronnie_5150
      @ronnie_5150 2 месяца назад

      @@peterlk3276 Disagree. That expression means, "I need to keep my wife happy to keep the peace. If SHE'S not happy then I won't be." The MAN needs to compromise, not the woman. I know men like this. That makes you a bitch. The secret to be married to one woman your whole life? Do what your told. No thanks.

  • @Real-StoicJourney
    @Real-StoicJourney 2 месяца назад +2

    Wow, this video beautifully explains why some of the most successful people stay single. It's all about inner peace and personal growth. Do you agree with this philosophy? Let’s chat in the comments!

  • @lindastone7419
    @lindastone7419 2 месяца назад

    Oh gosh i NEEDED this video! Cause ain't no man controlling anything!

  • @WiseAristo
    @WiseAristo 2 месяца назад +1

    Wow! Great information ❤ I have same...

  • @dnellwatson4954
    @dnellwatson4954 2 месяца назад +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @dnellwatson4954
    @dnellwatson4954 2 месяца назад +1

    Yes sir

  • @user-sg6zp8yf7h
    @user-sg6zp8yf7h 2 месяца назад

    10 Reasons Many Great People Embrace Singlehood:
    1.High Standards ( simplicity, virtuous life, authenticity )
    2.Independence is key(true contentment comes from within)
    3.Skeptical about relationship dynamics
    4.Unique Lifestyles
    5.Career Commitments
    6.Valuing Financial Autonomy
    7.Fulfilling in Platonic Relationships
    8.Pursuit of Unconventional Goals.
    9.Learning from our Past Experiences.
    10.The Joy of Solitude

  • @naveensalvi-vy8gv
    @naveensalvi-vy8gv 2 месяца назад +2

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  • @KoMerdan
    @KoMerdan 2 месяца назад +3

    If a relationship is not liberating, why bother?

  • @peterlk3276
    @peterlk3276 2 месяца назад +4

    Im a stoic philosophy nerd and this sounds like horse crap. Sounds like someone who has never been in a relationship. This person he is discribing sounds like a man who is consumed by his ego. A true stoic has no problems finding relationships if they desire one. Because a true stoic is open and humble and will not compare people with themselves and come to the conclusion that they are too good for most people. 😂

    • @peterlk3276
      @peterlk3276 2 месяца назад +1

      @stoickingdom2024 This is just my interpretation, so take it with a grain of salt.Emotions are an essential part of being human. Stoicism doesn't teach us to suppress emotions but to avoid letting them control our lives. There's a big difference. In relationships, relying solely on logic is unrealistic. You can't plan your love life like a trip to Disneyland. Eventually, you fall in love, and logic takes a backseat. Love involves mutual desires and compromise. As people grow and change, so must the relationship, especially when kids are involved. Believing you can always have your way or that neither you nor your partner will change is egotistical. Ego is a Stoic's worst enemy.

    • @patrickcahill4862
      @patrickcahill4862 2 месяца назад

      Completely respect your comment my stoic philosophy belief system does not quite a line perfectly think this does not matter once you have a strong belief system💯💯👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @heinmolenaar6750
      @heinmolenaar6750 2 месяца назад

      Nowadays in the modern world most people stay single.