I was living with my neglect parent. I’m soon 30. I really try to forgive him. But he still forgets me. Even me and my childs birthdays.. 💔 I’m so sorry.
my dad was too busy messed up on drugs and lied constantly and made me lie awake at night wondering why he didn't want me. now I'm a father and doing my best to show my kids dad's gonna always gonna be there.
I hope u see this comment this song really helped me threw some of the pain of my dad walking out of my life at a young age I’m 23 now and it still hurts any dads out there please be there for your kids
Perfect song. Especially hurt when your dad drops you like bad habit. After you had to say good bye to your own son. He basically just left and hasnt been seen. But he loves my step mom. Family
I don’t know how many times I have watched this and each time I cry at the same time. You and your family hold such a special place in my heart and I’m loving seeing the good and the ugly. You’re so inspiring to be so vulnerable and I hope someone is able to connect with you from this. This definitely touched my heart as a parent point of view and too make sure our kids come first. NO MATTER WHAT ❤️💕
Haley Walker I can never thank you enough with all your positive and loving words you have shared 💖 so many people have reached out and shared there personal stories and it makes me feel so grateful that this song has made people feel strong and not alone 🙏🏽
This touched me to me core...This made me cry so hard that I had to stop the video several times to wipe away my tears... With the Love and understanding of your husband and Family, this deep wound will heal with time. Fabulous job with everyone involved! Thank you. Christine Barker
beav1962 thank you a million times Christine 💖 you have only ever shown so much love and support and you have no idea how much that truly means to me 🙏🏽
Wow Candice!! So proud of you being able to express your feelings this way. It was beautiful and it is only his loss that he doesn't get to have your love in his life. You are amazing and surround with love and that is all that matters. Both of my kids don't have their fathers in their lives but it is better that way.
I’m so sorry for anyone that had to go thru this… just know your not alone I’m going thru this too I’m only 14 and my dad is like this. I’m better off with my mother. He lied to me for all my years to make me cry he thinks it’s funny until I have a heart attac. He made me cry so much, by telling me things that happened even tho it assent true😭😭
My dad left me at 10 years old. It is so hard because he made so many memories with me and then just threw them away. But I just turned 14 and i had the worst birthday without him because now I am more aware of everything
I’m so sorry about that! It’s really hard to understand why these situations happen to us. I hope this song helped you in anyway! Stay strong and remember there are people around you who love you 🧡
Honey look forward to the life to come, do great in school, learn a great trade and when you have your children love them like you never thought you could. take them to all the things you enjoyed during the time you did have with your dad and live for your children. And bury those lonely times without him. Young man you are so loved my last son who is now 23 didn't meet his father till he was 13 and told me he'd be fine in life without him, i guess he saw he didn't need him and now my son is in the Navy and is also entering the police academy to be able to give his future kids a better life don't allow those memories to bring you down you are somebody and can do it all yourself!
I understand you pain to brother. My dad left me at 10 as well I'm 18 now and we had a lot of good memories but now they just feel like junk in the trash
Ik your pain my dad left me when I was born he didn’t want me around him and now I’m 14 years old and I miss him but he doesn’t want me around him 😞😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔
Good stuff, looking forward to hearing more in the future first time listener. The suffering of a child who isn't loved by their parents lives with scars that never truly heal. I'm a lyricists my song (Dark Room) is also about dealing with a similar situation if anyone wants to listen just pop right over.
Please, please!- Put the Lyrics out there for us! I cannot find them anywhere! You are amazing, by the way! Don't stop what you're doing, because you have so much talent and your songs touch your fans to the very core and soul of our beings...!!! Thank you!
I need a version of rhis about an abusive pill head father who neglected a child.exactly the same my dad passed away in 2020 i couldent forgive him for all the abuse and neglect and putting his habits first i wanted to forgive and love but that shipped sailed and im left here with the mental health issues he left on me
This video is absolutely amazing! This song touches really close to home, you truly are an inspiration being so vulnerable to share your story with the world❤️❤️
Lindsey O'Leary ugh thank you so much 😭 it feels really good to feel so much support. I don’t feel alone anymore, a lot of people have shared there stories and it’s amazing what music can do 💖
This is very real , i wanna send it to my dad. But i dont at the same time. I dont wanna forget him. But he has started a whole new family , hes still his same old self. Idk.
Wow...👏👏👏 well done you guys. I remember getting goosebumps when you told me about this project prior to filming and my first thought was how I grew up in a similar environment and how traumatic it was. I'm glad I'm over it and all is forgiven but for many it's not the same, for some scars run deep and for others they still bleed. This is definitely a message to all and it needs to be heard (P. S. I hate that guy with the beard 😝😂).
steven torres my guy!!!! I will never forget the feeling I kept getting to have you play the role, you absolutely crushed it! Thank you so much for helping me share this message 💖🔥
My dad basically abandoned me and my siblings, I don't want anything to do with him now, I hate him for what he's done to my mom and what he did to my and my siblings, the divorce has really messed with my mental health ever since I realized what actually happened
I was lucky enough to have a stepdad that stepped in to my mom's life and chose us both. Still, the relationship with my sperm donor is one fraught with disappointment after pain inducing disappointment so I feel these lyrics to my core....
Im adopted and 28 i still have yet to meet my real parents i was taken away at birth went through the. System ended up with an older married couple with one other adopted and one bio thatvthe parents had Well lets just say i talk to noone of them due to Being told before i get married after losing my father that i was way to hard to deal with Well if i was to hard to deal with growing up why are you here lying 🤥 so for the past 2 years i havennt spoken to them and dont plan on it Im the blame of everytbing and thats just how it goes sometimes Only god can judge me its pretty bad after everything yoj cant even trust the ones who raised you SAD
My dad left me when I was a newborn and then my sister passed away when I was 18 months old and she was 17 months old she’s passed away in 2012 and then my uncle died last year in 2023 and then my friend passed in the hospital 5 months old 8/10/2024
Oh my god my dad has hurt me so bad he lived me up in till I was 9 then left and changed he called his first three daughters his oops kicked his 15 year old daughter out I told him the way he made me feel and he said sorry that's just the way things are now
I only called my daughters father once in her entire life for help because she was getting in the party scene to much so he'd just talk to her about things that could happen and he told me thats her F-en problem and hung up in her entire life i never asked him for anything When child support got him then he called me asking to drop the amount or he'd lose his house i said No!
my dad had a choice me or he's dog he chose he's dog I'm really badly allergic to dogs that was 16 years ago and now he wants me back but I can't forgive him
I love this song so much I personally have a pretty rough relationship with my dad so I relate very much
Living with your dad and having him neglet you is a different kind of pain trying to make him proud . Im done im gone .
My dad left me when I was younger and I miss him so much I’m crying it’s so much pain to feel this way 😭😭😭💔💔💔
I was living with my neglect parent. I’m soon 30. I really try to forgive him. But he still forgets me. Even me and my childs birthdays.. 💔 I’m so sorry.
My dad had custody of me but didn’t see him much unless he was single. I finally had enough and told him I’m done
So true unfortunately...
Destroys a man who feels useless to their son
my dad was too busy messed up on drugs and lied constantly and made me lie awake at night wondering why he didn't want me. now I'm a father and doing my best to show my kids dad's gonna always gonna be there.
I know how it feels keep pushing and showing ur kids what a real dad is keep breaking the cycle
You can try fella and good luck man:)
I'm a waste you sound like good father mate
Great song and work on the video. I came from the behind the scenes vlog!
Oh no way!? Well thank you so much! 🙌🏽
If i didn't know better you would think the artist himself didn't just write the song but actually experienced what he is singing about.
Seems like this generation of dad's care more though and see the cycles and are trying their butt's off to break them while losing everything.
@@Sparkdriver102 Too many of us are doing that because we know too well what the opposite feels like.
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So true
Can’t stop watching this 😭😭😭😭
I hope u see this comment this song really helped me threw some of the pain of my dad walking out of my life at a young age I’m 23 now and it still hurts any dads out there please be there for your kids
Very well done. Sad but true for so many children.
Theresa Yeckl thank you 🥺😭🙌🏽🙏🏽
Ya I guess
Love love !!!!
Dama Wardle thank you Dama!! Love you 🥺😭💖
HOWE HAPPENINGS love you too 🥰🥰😍🙈
This is so amazing....i love this video....
COMMUNITY SAEROUN wow thank you! I’m honestly left speechless with all this amazing feedback 🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭
Perfect song. Especially hurt when your dad drops you like bad habit. After you had to say good bye to your own son. He basically just left and hasnt been seen. But he loves my step mom. Family
I am so sorry for the pain you feel right now
Such a great video! Very touching.
Alec Denby ALEC!!! Thank you so much my dude 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 your support means a lot to me 😭😭😭
Soooo well made 🙌🏼❤️ love it
Wow! Tanner this production (audio and video) has me floored. I officially believe in MNO !
Kevin Land thanks man! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
My Dad is not in my life anymore and I just tear up when I listen to this😭
💕 I told some friends. 👍🏻
sherryl begay thank you thank you thank 🥺🥺😭😭😭😭 so grateful for people like you 💖
@@howehappenings I got a lot of good feed back. Good job. Proud of ya.
I told my friend but they just laughed at me so oh well I love your song
This is so well done!!!!! I am so impressed and proud of you Candise 💛
I love this!
You just described my life
Amen
Incredible song Thank you it is much needed so these children and adults can feel it and hopefully let it go and love and cherish their own kids
AMAZING🔥🔥🔥🔥
HaveNoFrost thank you so much 🥺🙏🏽
Dy dearest dad, I miss u so much!!☹️😓😢
So inspiring! Thank you for sharing your story! This song. These words. I’m left speechless.
Vivian Vargas wow thank you so much 🥺😭🙏🏽
My Dad OD'ed in 1998. This is an amazing song. 🖤
Thank you!! I hope it helps in anyway 🤍
😍😍😍😍 love u and your mamma !!! Ya’ll really did it with this one ! Much love always u da strongest girl i know , native power !!
Love you Anika 🥺😭 thank you so much 💖💖💖
I love you guys. This shattered my heart 💔💔 the struggle is real
Lisa Norris love you Lisa!!! It totally is 🙏🏽 keep sharing the song ☺️
please release this song on Spotify . this song is amazing ive never related to a song as much as this one..
its sad when the first man in a kids life is there father and they was the first to break your heart as there kid
The message to this song/video... I felt that 🙌🏽
theOnly GENCH thank you so much 💖😭
i love your song.. im so sorry that this happened to you.
I don’t know how many times I have watched this and each time I cry at the same time. You and your family hold such a special place in my heart and I’m loving seeing the good and the ugly. You’re so inspiring to be so vulnerable and I hope someone is able to connect with you from this. This definitely touched my heart as a parent point of view and too make sure our kids come first. NO MATTER WHAT ❤️💕
Haley Walker I can never thank you enough with all your positive and loving words you have shared 💖 so many people have reached out and shared there personal stories and it makes me feel so grateful that this song has made people feel strong and not alone 🙏🏽
Same I’m crying right now
OMG!!! I love this music video!!! Great message and such talent all around from the artist and videography!!!! Beautiful work you guys!!!!
Hunter Howe love you babe! Couldn’t have made it through this process without you 🥺🥺🥺🥺
This touched me to me core...This made me cry so hard that I had to stop the video several times to wipe away my tears... With the Love and understanding of your husband and Family, this deep wound will heal with time. Fabulous job with everyone involved! Thank you. Christine Barker
beav1962 thank you a million times Christine 💖 you have only ever shown so much love and support and you have no idea how much that truly means to me 🙏🏽
Just WOW!! Spectacular!
Thank you in this song is how I feel I sent it to him today I’m letting go of my past and him he can no longer hurt me so thank you 🙏
So powerful, props for being able to put yourself out there like that! Very well done!!
allstar052009 I appreciate that so much! I feel so thankful for the amazing feedback 😭
Wow Candice!! So proud of you being able to express your feelings this way. It was beautiful and it is only his loss that he doesn't get to have your love in his life. You are amazing and surround with love and that is all that matters. Both of my kids don't have their fathers in their lives but it is better that way.
Nice work
Sierra Rice thank you so so much 🥺💖
There's nothing more painful than the ache that loved ones leave when they don't. ♡
Piper Archer I couldn’t agree more 🥺🙌🏽
Incredible 💖 I love you candise
Shandean Bell I love you very much Sunshine 🥺😭💖🔥
I’m so sorry for anyone that had to go thru this… just know your not alone I’m going thru this too I’m only 14 and my dad is like this. I’m better off with my mother. He lied to me for all my years to make me cry he thinks it’s funny until I have a heart attac. He made me cry so much, by telling me things that happened even tho it assent true😭😭
I’m so sorry to hear this! I hope this song helps in anyway, I know it has helped me 🤍
This was done really well. Good job guys!!!
TheBrownRecluse thank you so much 🔥🔥
LOVE THIS!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻
Joseph Films love you BRO 💖🥺
I know this feeling all to well my dad left so many times when I was younger and he's back and all that pain is the same.
same
My dad left me at 10 years old. It is so hard because he made so many memories with me and then just threw them away. But I just turned 14 and i had the worst birthday without him because now I am more aware of everything
I’m so sorry about that! It’s really hard to understand why these situations happen to us. I hope this song helped you in anyway! Stay strong and remember there are people around you who love you 🧡
The song did help but it feels like nobody around me love me. Because it’s just hard to know if someone loves me
Honey look forward to the life to come, do great in school, learn a great trade and when you have your children love them like you never thought you could. take them to all the things you enjoyed during the time you did have with your dad and live for your children. And bury those lonely times without him. Young man you are so loved my last son who is now 23 didn't meet his father till he was 13 and told me he'd be fine in life without him, i guess he saw he didn't need him and now my son is in the Navy and is also entering the police academy to be able to give his future kids a better life don't allow those memories to bring you down you are somebody and can do it all yourself!
I understand you pain to brother. My dad left me at 10 as well I'm 18 now and we had a lot of good memories but now they just feel like junk in the trash
Ik your pain my dad left me when I was born he didn’t want me around him and now I’m 14 years old and I miss him but he doesn’t want me around him 😞😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔
You are so strong for being able to make this
Good stuff, looking forward to hearing more in the future first time listener. The suffering of a child who isn't loved by their parents lives with scars that never truly heal. I'm a lyricists my song (Dark Room) is also about dealing with a similar situation if anyone wants to listen just pop right over.
This relates to me soooo much
PLEASE LEAVE A COMMENT BELOW, 🙏🏽I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR YOUR THOUGHTS!! LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH 💖
Please, please!- Put the Lyrics out there for us! I cannot find them anywhere! You are amazing, by the way! Don't stop what you're doing, because you have so much talent and your songs touch your fans to the very core and soul of our beings...!!! Thank you!
I am so sorry for your pain and your sadness you are feeling
I need a version of rhis about an abusive pill head father who neglected a child.exactly the same my dad passed away in 2020 i couldent forgive him for all the abuse and neglect and putting his habits first i wanted to forgive and love but that shipped sailed and im left here with the mental health issues he left on me
This video is absolutely amazing! This song touches really close to home, you truly are an inspiration being so vulnerable to share your story with the world❤️❤️
Lindsey O'Leary ugh thank you so much 😭 it feels really good to feel so much support. I don’t feel alone anymore, a lot of people have shared there stories and it’s amazing what music can do 💖
My dad started a new family and slowly pushing me away. It hurts so much
this song hit hard
Underrated
My dad left me at 5 and im now 13 now i realize what a sick man he is and that i cant even call him a dad. This song is exactly how i feel.
This is very real , i wanna send it to my dad. But i dont at the same time. I dont wanna forget him. But he has started a whole new family , hes still his same old self. Idk.
Same
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My dad took his life before I was born my mother told me he wasn’t really ready to be a dad yet ❤ Stay strong y’all Don’t give up ❤
I thought you loved my dad loves but I've been alone without in my I haven't seen my dad for
I have absolute chills. This entire production is incredible. I loved it. ❤️
Kaetlyn Agatep wow thank you 🙏🏽🔥
this hits
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It’s true this it the song of my life
It's been 12 years now you want me f you you had your chance your dead to me I felt this song
I’m sorry to hear that! So hard, I’m really glad this song can help in anyway 🥺
Thanks
Hey, how do I get lyrics for this song? Awesome song!
too my dad who left me and my sisters and my brother
The same thing happened to me 😢
DADDY IM SORRY I FAILED YOU 😞
Wow...👏👏👏 well done you guys. I remember getting goosebumps when you told me about this project prior to filming and my first thought was how I grew up in a similar environment and how traumatic it was. I'm glad I'm over it and all is forgiven but for many it's not the same, for some scars run deep and for others they still bleed. This is definitely a message to all and it needs to be heard (P. S. I hate that guy with the beard 😝😂).
steven torres my guy!!!! I will never forget the feeling I kept getting to have you play the role, you absolutely crushed it! Thank you so much for helping me share this message 💖🔥
This is so true because, this is me to my dad… he took a picture with my sisters mom and my sister but not me.. he is soooo mean to me…😢😢😢
My dad basically abandoned me and my siblings, I don't want anything to do with him now, I hate him for what he's done to my mom and what he did to my and my siblings, the divorce has really messed with my mental health ever since I realized what actually happened
😭😭😭😭😭
I was lucky enough to have a stepdad that stepped in to my mom's life and chose us both. Still, the relationship with my sperm donor is one fraught with disappointment after pain inducing disappointment so I feel these lyrics to my core....
My dad left my mum for someone who’s old enough to be my sister and he has five kids with her he’s always been in and out of my life this hit hard 😢😢
Same I love haw my dad left me
Im adopted and 28 i still have yet to meet my real parents i was taken away at birth went through the. System ended up with an older married couple with one other adopted and one bio thatvthe parents had
Well lets just say i talk to noone of them due to
Being told before i get married after losing my father that i was way to hard to deal with
Well if i was to hard to deal with growing up why are you here lying 🤥 so for the past 2 years i havennt spoken to them and dont plan on it
Im the blame of everytbing and thats just how it goes sometimes
Only god can judge me its pretty bad after everything yoj cant even trust the ones who raised you SAD
Period
my dad left and im a kid even though my mom has someone else none loves me besides her and my grandma
😢 man i needed this my dad always rejected me
Same
2024 respect my music perfect
My dad left me when I was a newborn and then my sister passed away when I was 18 months old and she was 17 months old she’s passed away in 2012 and then my uncle died last year in 2023 and then my friend passed in the hospital 5 months old 8/10/2024
@HaileyPage-sn7qb I’m so sorry to hear that! I hope this song helps you in anyway ♥️♥️
@ and I’m 15 now my birthday was last month and it still hurts so much
My dad left me. I was 6 and ive been waiting for him because he promised but he never did. I want to die
My dad told me he really hates me and his drugs were more important then me and he left.
And my friend passed away 43 months before my birthday
Oh my god my dad has hurt me so bad he lived me up in till I was 9 then left and changed he called his first three daughters his oops kicked his 15 year old daughter out I told him the way he made me feel and he said sorry that's just the way things are now
This is what my dad did
This is true my dad was never there for me but when he was in my life he used me and lied to me it's my fault hes not here
I listen to this every day bec my dad never saw me when I was born and never came andy mom raised three kids me andy sister and brother
And I wonder why did my dad leave me
I’m glad this song is able to speak to you! I know it isn’t easy. God bless your mama! ❤️
NEVER DISRESPECT YOUR PARENTS NO MATTER WHAT!!!
I only called my daughters father once in her entire life for help because she was getting in the party scene to much so he'd just talk to her about things that could happen and he told me thats her F-en problem and hung up in her entire life i never asked him for anything When child support got him then he called me asking to drop the amount or he'd lose his house i said No!
Lrean look
I'm 8 years old and my dad left me I don't know when but my birthday is coming up I haven't seen him since my 7th birthda
my dad had a choice me or he's dog he chose he's dog I'm really badly allergic to dogs that was 16 years ago and now he wants me back but I can't forgive him
my dad i have not heard from him in 6 yease because he ius on drugs and weed
Where's dear Mom?
My dad is in jail this second for domestic violence and he did drugs and valed
Never met my dad
My dad walked out on my sister, my mom and I
wheres the “dear mom” … my Dad was my rock.. my incubator is the one who is toxic
Sounds like my dad f him
I don’t care this sick