Dear Dad (Official Music Video)

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  • Опубликовано: 16 дек 2024

Комментарии • 137

  • @davidmccalljr.6866
    @davidmccalljr.6866 3 месяца назад +9

    my dad was too busy messed up on drugs and lied constantly and made me lie awake at night wondering why he didn't want me. now I'm a father and doing my best to show my kids dad's gonna always gonna be there.

    • @calebalires9009
      @calebalires9009 Месяц назад

      I know how it feels keep pushing and showing ur kids what a real dad is keep breaking the cycle

  • @leese465
    @leese465 Год назад +15

    If i didn't know better you would think the artist himself didn't just write the song but actually experienced what he is singing about.

  • @LalaHunt-r3n
    @LalaHunt-r3n 11 месяцев назад +6

    So true

  • @JasmineonImpact
    @JasmineonImpact 6 месяцев назад +18

    Living with your dad and having him neglet you is a different kind of pain trying to make him proud . Im done im gone .

    • @HaileyPage-sn7qb
      @HaileyPage-sn7qb 5 месяцев назад

      My dad left me when I was younger and I miss him so much I’m crying it’s so much pain to feel this way 😭😭😭💔💔💔

    • @LoafOfBeans424
      @LoafOfBeans424 3 месяца назад +1

      I was living with my neglect parent. I’m soon 30. I really try to forgive him. But he still forgets me. Even me and my childs birthdays.. 💔 I’m so sorry.

    • @nicolepotts1952
      @nicolepotts1952 Месяц назад

      My dad had custody of me but didn’t see him much unless he was single. I finally had enough and told him I’m done

  • @hunterhowe7157
    @hunterhowe7157 4 года назад +10

    Can’t stop watching this 😭😭😭😭

  • @calebalires9009
    @calebalires9009 Месяц назад +1

    I hope u see this comment this song really helped me threw some of the pain of my dad walking out of my life at a young age I’m 23 now and it still hurts any dads out there please be there for your kids

  • @HarleyLilo1988
    @HarleyLilo1988 7 месяцев назад +7

    Perfect song. Especially hurt when your dad drops you like bad habit. After you had to say good bye to your own son. He basically just left and hasnt been seen. But he loves my step mom. Family

  • @theresayeckl6540
    @theresayeckl6540 4 года назад +22

    Very well done. Sad but true for so many children.

  • @damawardle1828
    @damawardle1828 4 года назад +5

    Love love !!!!

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 года назад +1

      Dama Wardle thank you Dama!! Love you 🥺😭💖

    • @damawardle1828
      @damawardle1828 4 года назад

      HOWE HAPPENINGS love you too 🥰🥰😍🙈

  • @saeroun-church4
    @saeroun-church4 4 года назад +8

    This is so amazing....i love this video....

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 года назад

      COMMUNITY SAEROUN wow thank you! I’m honestly left speechless with all this amazing feedback 🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭

  • @DJJusJay
    @DJJusJay 4 года назад +2

    Great song and work on the video. I came from the behind the scenes vlog!

  • @LalaHunt-r3n
    @LalaHunt-r3n 11 месяцев назад +4

    You just described my life

  • @KevinLandBand
    @KevinLandBand 4 года назад +6

    Wow! Tanner this production (audio and video) has me floored. I officially believe in MNO !

    • @TannerHowe
      @TannerHowe 4 года назад

      Kevin Land thanks man! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @KaydenceJohnson-o6g
    @KaydenceJohnson-o6g 27 дней назад +1

    I know this feeling all to well my dad left so many times when I was younger and he's back and all that pain is the same.

  • @alecdenby1316
    @alecdenby1316 4 года назад +5

    Such a great video! Very touching.

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 года назад +1

      Alec Denby ALEC!!! Thank you so much my dude 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 your support means a lot to me 😭😭😭

  • @kermit-the-gay-frog7973
    @kermit-the-gay-frog7973 Год назад +1

    I love this song so much I personally have a pretty rough relationship with my dad so I relate very much

  • @friendz906
    @friendz906 4 года назад +6

    Soooo well made 🙌🏼❤️ love it

  • @gwendolyntsosie3395
    @gwendolyntsosie3395 3 года назад +2

    I love this!

  • @sherrylbegay8904
    @sherrylbegay8904 4 года назад +7

    💕 I told some friends. 👍🏻

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 года назад +2

      sherryl begay thank you thank you thank 🥺🥺😭😭😭😭 so grateful for people like you 💖

    • @sherrylbegay8904
      @sherrylbegay8904 4 года назад +1

      @@howehappenings7280 I got a lot of good feed back. Good job. Proud of ya.

    • @LalaHunt-r3n
      @LalaHunt-r3n 8 месяцев назад +1

      I told my friend but they just laughed at me so oh well I love your song

  • @XXXXBUGSXXXX
    @XXXXBUGSXXXX 4 года назад +15

    I don’t know how many times I have watched this and each time I cry at the same time. You and your family hold such a special place in my heart and I’m loving seeing the good and the ugly. You’re so inspiring to be so vulnerable and I hope someone is able to connect with you from this. This definitely touched my heart as a parent point of view and too make sure our kids come first. NO MATTER WHAT ❤️💕

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 года назад +2

      Haley Walker I can never thank you enough with all your positive and loving words you have shared 💖 so many people have reached out and shared there personal stories and it makes me feel so grateful that this song has made people feel strong and not alone 🙏🏽

    • @LalaHunt-r3n
      @LalaHunt-r3n 11 месяцев назад +1

      Same I’m crying right now

  • @txangie800
    @txangie800 Год назад +2

    Incredible song Thank you it is much needed so these children and adults can feel it and hopefully let it go and love and cherish their own kids

  • @vivianvargas5913
    @vivianvargas5913 4 года назад +7

    So inspiring! Thank you for sharing your story! This song. These words. I’m left speechless.

  • @piperarcher9706
    @piperarcher9706 4 года назад +5

    There's nothing more painful than the ache that loved ones leave when they don't. ♡

  • @Payton-z6h
    @Payton-z6h Месяц назад +1

    This relates to me soooo much

  • @theonlygench5862
    @theonlygench5862 4 года назад +7

    The message to this song/video... I felt that 🙌🏽

  • @lorettabell6527
    @lorettabell6527 4 года назад +7

    This is so well done!!!!! I am so impressed and proud of you Candise 💛

  • @allstar052009
    @allstar052009 4 года назад +8

    So powerful, props for being able to put yourself out there like that! Very well done!!

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 года назад

      allstar052009 I appreciate that so much! I feel so thankful for the amazing feedback 😭

  • @lisanorris1299
    @lisanorris1299 4 года назад +6

    I love you guys. This shattered my heart 💔💔 the struggle is real

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 года назад +1

      Lisa Norris love you Lisa!!! It totally is 🙏🏽 keep sharing the song ☺️

  • @anikaortiz126
    @anikaortiz126 4 года назад +7

    😍😍😍😍 love u and your mamma !!! Ya’ll really did it with this one ! Much love always u da strongest girl i know , native power !!

  • @tierragratefultofatherGod222
    @tierragratefultofatherGod222 8 месяцев назад +2

    ❤❤

  • @smrtcookie
    @smrtcookie 10 месяцев назад +1

    Just WOW!! Spectacular!

  • @Mininessabarrett010
    @Mininessabarrett010 18 дней назад +1

    I just saw m6 dad I haven't seen him in a year just to see him leave again I miss it all it feels right with here I feel safe but he leaves maybe he will stay maybe not just hope drags me along

  • @Coffee-person
    @Coffee-person 2 года назад +1

    i love your song.. im so sorry that this happened to you.

  • @beav1962
    @beav1962 4 года назад +8

    This touched me to me core...This made me cry so hard that I had to stop the video several times to wipe away my tears... With the Love and understanding of your husband and Family, this deep wound will heal with time. Fabulous job with everyone involved! Thank you. Christine Barker

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 года назад

      beav1962 thank you a million times Christine 💖 you have only ever shown so much love and support and you have no idea how much that truly means to me 🙏🏽

  • @christelleprinsloo4437
    @christelleprinsloo4437 2 месяца назад +2

    My dad left me at 5 and im now 13 now i realize what a sick man he is and that i cant even call him a dad. This song is exactly how i feel.

  • @howehappenings7280
    @howehappenings7280  4 года назад +14

    PLEASE LEAVE A COMMENT BELOW, 🙏🏽I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR YOUR THOUGHTS!! LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH 💖

    • @alycatgf
      @alycatgf 4 года назад

      Please, please!- Put the Lyrics out there for us! I cannot find them anywhere! You are amazing, by the way! Don't stop what you're doing, because you have so much talent and your songs touch your fans to the very core and soul of our beings...!!! Thank you!

  • @hnfrost6446
    @hnfrost6446 4 года назад +4

    AMAZING🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @nagaboy688
    @nagaboy688 Месяц назад +1

    Dy dearest dad, I miss u so much!!☹️😓😢

  • @CiaraCici-r3p
    @CiaraCici-r3p 3 месяца назад +1

    This is very real , i wanna send it to my dad. But i dont at the same time. I dont wanna forget him. But he has started a whole new family , hes still his same old self. Idk.

  • @heidiarneson4184
    @heidiarneson4184 7 дней назад

    My Dad OD'ed in 1998. This is an amazing song. 🖤

  • @jillianlangiewicz1620
    @jillianlangiewicz1620 4 года назад +1

    Wow Candice!! So proud of you being able to express your feelings this way. It was beautiful and it is only his loss that he doesn't get to have your love in his life. You are amazing and surround with love and that is all that matters. Both of my kids don't have their fathers in their lives but it is better that way.

  • @blazeit3860
    @blazeit3860 Год назад +2

    this hits

  • @sarahegerton
    @sarahegerton Год назад +1

    this song hit hard

  • @heatherherling8651
    @heatherherling8651 Год назад +4

    I’m so sorry for anyone that had to go thru this… just know your not alone I’m going thru this too I’m only 14 and my dad is like this. I’m better off with my mother. He lied to me for all my years to make me cry he thinks it’s funny until I have a heart attac. He made me cry so much, by telling me things that happened even tho it assent true😭😭

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  Год назад

      I’m so sorry to hear this! I hope this song helps in anyway, I know it has helped me 🤍

  • @hunterhowe7157
    @hunterhowe7157 4 года назад +7

    OMG!!! I love this music video!!! Great message and such talent all around from the artist and videography!!!! Beautiful work you guys!!!!

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 года назад

      Hunter Howe love you babe! Couldn’t have made it through this process without you 🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @Jay_ZZ-v2t
    @Jay_ZZ-v2t 3 года назад +1

    You are so strong for being able to make this

  • @theoneandonlykatie265
    @theoneandonlykatie265 8 дней назад

    Thank you in this song is how I feel I sent it to him today I’m letting go of my past and him he can no longer hurt me so thank you 🙏

  • @LalaHunt-r3n
    @LalaHunt-r3n 11 месяцев назад +1

    It’s true this it the song of my life

  • @shandeanbell9635
    @shandeanbell9635 4 года назад +4

    Incredible 💖 I love you candise

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 года назад

      Shandean Bell I love you very much Sunshine 🥺😭💖🔥

  • @Josephthedp
    @Josephthedp 4 года назад +7

    LOVE THIS!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @lindseyoleary5907
    @lindseyoleary5907 4 года назад +5

    This video is absolutely amazing! This song touches really close to home, you truly are an inspiration being so vulnerable to share your story with the world❤️❤️

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 года назад

      Lindsey O'Leary ugh thank you so much 😭 it feels really good to feel so much support. I don’t feel alone anymore, a lot of people have shared there stories and it’s amazing what music can do 💖

  • @nicholecyrus899
    @nicholecyrus899 29 дней назад +1

    Hey, how do I get lyrics for this song? Awesome song!

  • @kaetlynagatep5398
    @kaetlynagatep5398 4 года назад +5

    I have absolute chills. This entire production is incredible. I loved it. ❤️

  • @matthewgomez8255
    @matthewgomez8255 4 года назад +9

    This was done really well. Good job guys!!!

  • @mollyhahn6125
    @mollyhahn6125 3 года назад +6

    My dad left me at 10 years old. It is so hard because he made so many memories with me and then just threw them away. But I just turned 14 and i had the worst birthday without him because now I am more aware of everything

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  3 года назад +1

      I’m so sorry about that! It’s really hard to understand why these situations happen to us. I hope this song helped you in anyway! Stay strong and remember there are people around you who love you 🧡

    • @mollyhahn6125
      @mollyhahn6125 3 года назад +2

      The song did help but it feels like nobody around me love me. Because it’s just hard to know if someone loves me

    • @txangie800
      @txangie800 Год назад

      Honey look forward to the life to come, do great in school, learn a great trade and when you have your children love them like you never thought you could. take them to all the things you enjoyed during the time you did have with your dad and live for your children. And bury those lonely times without him. Young man you are so loved my last son who is now 23 didn't meet his father till he was 13 and told me he'd be fine in life without him, i guess he saw he didn't need him and now my son is in the Navy and is also entering the police academy to be able to give his future kids a better life don't allow those memories to bring you down you are somebody and can do it all yourself!

    • @Kratos-788
      @Kratos-788 6 месяцев назад

      I understand you pain to brother. My dad left me at 10 as well I'm 18 now and we had a lot of good memories but now they just feel like junk in the trash

    • @HaileyPage-sn7qb
      @HaileyPage-sn7qb 5 месяцев назад

      Ik your pain my dad left me when I was born he didn’t want me around him and now I’m 14 years old and I miss him but he doesn’t want me around him 😞😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔

  • @pokeson1861
    @pokeson1861 Год назад +2

    My dad took his life before I was born my mother told me he wasn’t really ready to be a dad yet ❤ Stay strong y’all Don’t give up ❤

    • @RonnieOsby
      @RonnieOsby Год назад

      I thought you loved my dad loves but I've been alone without in my I haven't seen my dad for

  • @noahfranklin8473
    @noahfranklin8473 2 года назад +1

    too my dad who left me and my sisters and my brother

  • @sierrarice2819
    @sierrarice2819 4 года назад +4

    Nice work

  • @kathyflannery8681
    @kathyflannery8681 5 месяцев назад +1

    Same I love haw my dad left me

  • @zoeleenafrizzell1872
    @zoeleenafrizzell1872 26 дней назад +1

    My dad basically abandoned me and my siblings, I don't want anything to do with him now, I hate him for what he's done to my mom and what he did to my and my siblings, the divorce has really messed with my mental health ever since I realized what actually happened

  • @Jay_ZZ-v2t
    @Jay_ZZ-v2t 3 года назад +4

    It's been 12 years now you want me f you you had your chance your dead to me I felt this song

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  3 года назад +1

      I’m sorry to hear that! So hard, I’m really glad this song can help in anyway 🥺

    • @Jay_ZZ-v2t
      @Jay_ZZ-v2t 3 года назад

      Thanks

  • @steventorres1427
    @steventorres1427 4 года назад +4

    Wow...👏👏👏 well done you guys. I remember getting goosebumps when you told me about this project prior to filming and my first thought was how I grew up in a similar environment and how traumatic it was. I'm glad I'm over it and all is forgiven but for many it's not the same, for some scars run deep and for others they still bleed. This is definitely a message to all and it needs to be heard (P. S. I hate that guy with the beard 😝😂).

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 года назад +1

      steven torres my guy!!!! I will never forget the feeling I kept getting to have you play the role, you absolutely crushed it! Thank you so much for helping me share this message 💖🔥

  • @ArianaBrowne-n2d
    @ArianaBrowne-n2d 8 месяцев назад +1

    The same thing happened to me 😢

  • @heatherherling8651
    @heatherherling8651 Год назад +1

    This is so true because, this is me to my dad… he took a picture with my sisters mom and my sister but not me.. he is soooo mean to me…😢😢😢

  • @mstudio7401
    @mstudio7401 5 месяцев назад +1

    2024 respect my music perfect

  • @Josephthedp
    @Josephthedp 4 года назад +4

    😭😭😭😭😭

  • @JailahStrickland2549
    @JailahStrickland2549 5 месяцев назад +1

    Oh my god my dad has hurt me so bad he lived me up in till I was 9 then left and changed he called his first three daughters his oops kicked his 15 year old daughter out I told him the way he made me feel and he said sorry that's just the way things are now

  • @JasmineonImpact
    @JasmineonImpact 6 месяцев назад +1

    😢 man i needed this my dad always rejected me

  • @francescadinardi8778
    @francescadinardi8778 Год назад +1

    Period

  • @AntiGreenScreen-dq8ni
    @AntiGreenScreen-dq8ni 9 месяцев назад +1

    My dad left me. I was 6 and ive been waiting for him because he promised but he never did. I want to die

  • @alexandradowns817
    @alexandradowns817 3 месяца назад +1

    Im adopted and 28 i still have yet to meet my real parents i was taken away at birth went through the. System ended up with an older married couple with one other adopted and one bio thatvthe parents had
    Well lets just say i talk to noone of them due to
    Being told before i get married after losing my father that i was way to hard to deal with
    Well if i was to hard to deal with growing up why are you here lying 🤥 so for the past 2 years i havennt spoken to them and dont plan on it
    Im the blame of everytbing and thats just how it goes sometimes
    Only god can judge me its pretty bad after everything yoj cant even trust the ones who raised you SAD

  • @Emily-df2gk
    @Emily-df2gk 3 года назад +1

    This is true my dad was never there for me but when he was in my life he used me and lied to me it's my fault hes not here

  • @unknownmask2786
    @unknownmask2786 3 года назад +1

    I listen to this every day bec my dad never saw me when I was born and never came andy mom raised three kids me andy sister and brother

    • @unknownmask2786
      @unknownmask2786 3 года назад

      And I wonder why did my dad leave me

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  3 года назад

      I’m glad this song is able to speak to you! I know it isn’t easy. God bless your mama! ❤️

  • @rebekahcastaneda3339
    @rebekahcastaneda3339 Год назад +1

    This is what my dad did

  • @pokemongirl2024writes-vw7kn
    @pokemongirl2024writes-vw7kn 5 месяцев назад +1

    my dad left and im a kid even though my mom has someone else none loves me besides her and my grandma

  • @txangie800
    @txangie800 Год назад +1

    I only called my daughters father once in her entire life for help because she was getting in the party scene to much so he'd just talk to her about things that could happen and he told me thats her F-en problem and hung up in her entire life i never asked him for anything When child support got him then he called me asking to drop the amount or he'd lose his house i said No!

  • @MelissaHillenburg-ul2hy
    @MelissaHillenburg-ul2hy 2 месяца назад +1

    My dad told me he really hates me and his drugs were more important then me and he left.

  • @KennedyAncondo
    @KennedyAncondo 9 месяцев назад +1

    I'm 8 years old and my dad left me I don't know when but my birthday is coming up I haven't seen him since my 7th birthda

  • @lilylight-zi2qg
    @lilylight-zi2qg 28 дней назад +1

    my dad had a choice me or he's dog he chose he's dog I'm really badly allergic to dogs that was 16 years ago and now he wants me back but I can't forgive him

  • @txangie800
    @txangie800 Год назад +1

    Where's dear Mom?

  • @seanrochon9240
    @seanrochon9240 3 месяца назад +1

    Lrean look

  • @rekohawk2856
    @rekohawk2856 Год назад +2

    Never met my dad

  • @tanyapollock3479
    @tanyapollock3479 13 дней назад +1

    my dad i have not heard from him in 6 yease because he ius on drugs and weed

  • @amymarron7955
    @amymarron7955 Месяц назад +1

    My dad is in jail this second for domestic violence and he did drugs and valed

  • @ciangrant2253
    @ciangrant2253 3 года назад +1

    Sounds like my dad f him

  • @only1ofthisgirl
    @only1ofthisgirl 3 месяца назад +1

    ❤❤