Dealing With A Narcissistic Ex Husband Is A Lot, The Phone Call I never Shared With You Guys...
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And you were kind to this man (I always wondered what you saw in him); I am saying this as someone who was your neighbor in Protea Glen and witnessed everything. Those who don't know the facts will have doubts and invite him to their podcasts.
OMG 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I also know them.. Big guy is ungrateful and evil.
They don’t have doubt my dear... they just doing it because it’s Owamie. Sometimes people will entertain nonsense that’s said about you not because they believe those nonsense but because they hate you.
@@chloebadass9526true✅ without even verifying the shit content that they were circulation about Owami, but let Owami win an Award then everyone is quite not even a congratulations to show ukuthi their videos were not personal. It's pure jellousy and for views.
As for Big guy karma knows everyone's adress
Ayi Owami confused some of us in Medunsa days nje with this relationship, most of us saw Big guy for what he was
When you break up with someone and you don’t have kids with them, it’s a blessing in disguise.
say that again sister yo
Yes, make a video about it and get paid for it.. ankere he owes you... i love a smart woman 😂😂❤🙌🏾🙌🏾🥳
😂😂😂 hai wena
a Queen right there!
Unyanisile mntase.. 😂❤
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You must invite him on to Hell and back Finale episode😂😂😂😂😂😂
You must thank God every day that he didn't bless you with kids in that marriage😭😭Imagine dealing with this guy for life
Indeed it's a real blessing
She was gonna suffer hey 😂😂
I always say
As a business Man he failed to change ownership for R500
@@nomsamashaba4864his new name is broke boy and no longer Big boy.
That’s risky cause they might commit crime with the car and you’ll get in trouble, please open a case ASAP to avoid the possibilities of being in trouble,,,, they can get the car scrapped
True
My thoughts exactly or accident
Exactly. Hoping this video may be evidence
You have the patience of a saint 😥😥😥 I wish you had big brothers yaz
I agree. I don't even have a big brother but i was going to find him by fire by force. Queen Ninja is too patient.
Narcs will make you look like a fool while they act cool and “mature”. Yooooo people who don’t know them 👏🏽. These people ba kgathatsa matla maaan! Mnxim
They will leave you drained.
you can say that again, its actually very infuriating,
They are energy vampires!
Ninja, I completely understand your frustration and can see that you’re going through a tough situation. I think a lot of people use the term ‘narcissistic’ to describe difficult behavior, but it’s a complex diagnosis that may not always fit. From what I heard, he doesn’t come across as overtly manipulative or aggressive-it sounds more like he might lack the skills or awareness to handle things responsibly. It might help to maybe take the legal route to protect yourself and avoid putting these private matters online, especially since public feedback can sometimes add unnecessary stress. I genuinely hope things get better for you, and that you find a way to resolve this issue.
She should use weaponised incompetency
Yeah the term doesn’t fit here he just made a useless mistake . She was shouting a calm person 😂😂
Supported ❤
Yoh, Women niyinkinga Shem. I can only imagine being big guy, someone stressing me over such a non issue 😂🤯.
Nginga gula ngekhanda straight, ukuba neqiniso nje. Angifuni umfazi ophathisana ikhanda ngobala nje. 😂 🤯
It's not a matter of life and death 😂😂. u dramatic nje Wena Ninja ❤. Just a life lesson.
ON POINT MY LADY
He is not a narcissist. He is just not very responsible and bright 😢 he has demonstrated that many times on the story times you have told us.
Agreed
Weaponised incompetence. Trust me they manage to do things to completion if they want this gender.
Yes. The 8:26 "It is not my fault" sounded sooooo CHILDISH.
He sounds like an irresponsible child who has no idea about seeing things through
That said he is using the dealer to triangulate. Narcs are known for triangulating.
Even the "I don't want to fight" it a tactic to make you believe the issue here is that you want fight, not the car issues.
So there anti-social personality disorder traits there
Vulnerable narcissist
Definitely agree he is a narc@@LM-he7eb
I personally love the divorce content. I’m am a 25 year old with no older siblings. I take owamie’s story as a cautionary tale
Nonchalant men are a very traumatic experience. You never fully recover from them.
Iyhoo true,they will have you looking crazy. They will do they most craziest shit to you,than act so cool and calm.
Yhooo 😰😰😭😭 it's true. I feel Owamie's pain when speaking to him. They act good for people to not see who they are
You go on & on and he'd just say "Ok"
or "and so?"
God's people are so special ka nnete😂
@@Hlangothi25Yooh, currently going through that I feel crazy 🤣🤣🤣
Horrible character trait
Block him everywhere yz uya glow i was watching videos 6 years back no darling your in better place❤
Report the car stolen so that they locate the owner then change ownership
My thoughts exactly
BigGuy, can still change the ownership, while the car is with the dealer.
I think she should report it stolen. So that the dealer can knock on BigGuys door & beat him up.
Locating the owner after reporting the car stolen is not an easy thing. Trust me, I know
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I don’t think he’s a narcissist I think he’s someone who’s extremely lazy and bratty
O sele a le calm, that's what I picked up from his interview with Promise.
Ke satane
😂😂when was the interview i want to see something😅
That's what I also saw
O sele a le calm
And some people believe him
True you will look crazy wena alone
@@mabathomosekeli mmm, he's the type to throw a rock, hide his hand and sit in a corner quietly whilst everyone is questioning who threw the rock
Judging from this call...I dont think he is being narcissistic...i think he's just a guy who didn't care to follow up on important things because it doesn't affect him.
Njani became it’s his car, he sold the car months after i gave him the paperwork why didn’t he change ownership to himself if this wasn’t his plan?
I think from this call we saw both toxic in a couple rather
"i think he's just a guy who didn't care to follow up on important things because it doesn't affect him" Dear Lerato, you just described a narcist, they care only about what affects them...That is a character of a narcist, watch out for that so you do not ever fall into such relationships thinking they just do not care, because that is how they operate hey.
I also think so Lerato
@@OwamieEntertainmentThe car is still legally in your name, in the eyes of the law and in the eyes of traffic department, it belongs to you Owamie. I understand the chat of what Big guy should do, but I still think you were still responsible to properly dot the I’s and cross your T’s because you’re the one now suffering. Kahle kahle, you know that Big guy is not responsible according to you, you should have tried by all means to ensure the car was taken off from your name.
Narcissist will be calm while they are hurting you and they love it when they see you frustrated.
Yho! They thrive on that and then spin it to say you are the problem when you get frustrated.
Darling you look so cute with the low cut and the make up is sitting right.
THAT'S WHY I'M RECORDING!!
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Askies Owamie. I hope this gets resolved. Narcs are the worst.
Absolutely!
Just tell yourself this is last money he will ever eat that’s yours, that will give you peace. And he won’t be lucky going forward.
Owamie you are lucky you don’t have kids with him, my ex doesn’t even support his own child sana but leaving his best life
To the people saying that big guy is not a narscasist, you guys have never dealt with a narcissist. If he was a person who cared he would've sorted this out a long time ago but because he is narcissistic he doesn't care he feels like it's none of his business. He deliberately does this to force Owami to communicate with him because going no contact with a narcissist is the only thing that hurts them.
Or purposed to hurt her. He is toxic shem
The thing is the only time you call someone a narcissist is when they’re officially diagnosed by a qualified medical personnel, it’s not as simple as calling someone troublesome or annoying it is a real clinical diagnosis.
@@neopooe6042How many black people are diagnosed with mental health? Hai sesi we will diagnose them ourselves, as people who are going through this with narcissistic people.
Narcisstic people are very bitter, vengeful and jealous, especially when they realize that you have truly moved on and thriving!
By the grace of God, you will come out of it with a blessing. You are going forward and the almighty will continue to protect you.
Gal I feel your pain. Don't bother yourself about the issue if the decree states that your ex-hubby has been granted ownership of the car. Simply call your lawyers and let them handle this for you and claim a refund for the renewal fee from him. You cannot continue to carry the responsibility of an asset that is no longer legally in your name.
It wasn't that's why he's dragging it
Why does he not just accept responsibility and fix the mess? What a child 🚮
He says he is hoing to the dealershio what else can he do ?
@@mbofloriberttanzey-mh8ef He is supposed to then go there and sort it out, it is months after and he still did not do it. Pause for a moment and imagine Owamie being your daughter, taking care of her two sisters and rising a small boy being derailed like this.
Kids are innocent sou n dnt deserve to be liked to such,sm kids are even wiser n responsiblel.he is evil.
Typical narcissists "I don't want to fight" during serious situations 😢
I can see through your eyes that you are hearting when speaking to him on the phone. You are drained and exhausted. So sorry My dear ❤ he has taken more than enough shem.God will fight on your behalf. Sending you love and light
He’s not the brightest tju 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Yeah, he sounds like a 5 year old attempting to dodge responsibility. I cringed the whole time, I despise dumb people
Owamie Queen you are too sweet, people like you get easily taken advatage of because of the kind heart- the world is too evil for soft people like you. I wish you all the strength. The best thing to do is to take him to small claim courts aker yena he thinks he is the boss, let the law proof him wrong.
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The way he's so relaxed, yho I'd lose my mind yerr😡😡
But that's exactly how one can tell this guy is no good...
But that's a good trait 😂. He sounds like a normal guy to me.
Some things are just not as important to other people. Maybe he just has many more important things demanding his attention. 😂
He reason's like a child
Tjooo cabanga
Not a clever dude 😏
Owamie is the testament of how important it is to protect your womb ladies 🙌🏾. If you are unfortunately attracted to men and prefer to date them, protect your womb
Your kindness must stop Owamie....I understand what you are saying.Be kind to people who are kind to you 🤞. This world is not beautiful as you see it ... vhathu vhoddala ngavengo
I learnt this the hard way this year.
Ankere people were busy saying Owamie o bitter, they even said she loose friends every now and the, DIDNT SHE CALL BIG GUY WITH OUR FRIEND LEBO'S PHONE??!! bakae bo madam Mdletshe😅
My friendships are off social media 😂😂😂 let them talk
Mxm bo ntado are just bitter,envious haters with no bright brains and exposing their dark heart on the internet
He is truly a Narcissist,reminds me of my BD ,he would say I don’t wanna talk to you,and then go ahead and send paragraphs saying how much he loves me ,how our breakup hurt him blah blah
Latoya LIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSS😭😭😭
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😂😂 bring your phone 🫴
😂😂o wrong for this
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Send the proof of payment to Promise Makunyane😹😹😹 she should pay that 1.8 akere she had time to drive to Free state to gossip with Big Guy💀
Hey sis when did Promise interviewed him?
Great advice 😂😂😂
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Big guy seems like a nice guy with terrible flaws
He’s pretending 😅
@@missloganleave them they don’t know these types. They act
There is nothing nice about him. He is acting foolish to disguise his cruelty. Instead of sorting the car issue responsibly as he should have, he comes to say he doesn't want to talk to her, wtf?
Typical covert narcissist.
You probably have the same character as big guy🤞
4:30 there....right there, that is how he was able to manipulate and bully you. NEVER LET ANYONE FUND YOUR DREAMS. Nothing is free in life, the bill will ALWAYS come due
This man still loves you. He's realizing he made a mistake by losing you. Let him suffer. It's now not nice in the streets. The women he was cheating with are not even responsible enough to advice him on important matters.
The women thought he had money kanti it was Owamie's money. 😂😂😂
True
His married lol ...happily 😂
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@@lets_talk1600how is he happily married and still doing this ?
Shuu, this hit home. I too started sharing my story. Unfortunately, there are children involved in my case.
Eish me too. I stopped sharing current experiences but still have my previous stories on my channel. Ugh narcs are EXHAUSTING!
@LethoHali just subscribed to your channel. Glad you made it out and praying for a complete mental healing for both of us and our children as well as family. ❤️
Owam, you ooze confidence !!! You really are the girl that you think you are ❤
Irresponsible, unreasonable and small minded people yhuu. Indoda engaka 😢
Saying he does not want any contact with you while you are paying for his car is crazy🤦🏽♀️
Thank you like they do things to force you to communicate I never contact this guy, this was like last year or early this year since then I never said anything
Honestly!
😂😂😂😂😂😂this is so intentional 😂😂😂😂 akere she was being compared to a certain woman 😂😂😂Owamie mara😂😂😂
Queen Ninja, de register the car and go completely no contact these narcissist will legit drain you(speaking from experience). And they become worse when you expose their character. Stay blessed ❤
Bengithi ngibheka i Comment ka Madam Speaker mara angiyiboni.
I would have reported that car stolen and end this with pettiness 😂😂
Im that toxic, dont judge😂
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Bestie😂😂😂I'm petty as f
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Yazini, we would be talking a different story😅😅😅
Yazini,😂😂you are me, I am you wena chomi 😂😂
Lesson learnt always make sure paperwork is done properly to transfer ownership
I like you whn you add Sesotho 😂❤and you are so calm in your conversation 🎉
We don't want any stories from him. He must pay back the money and ensure that the ownership is changed
Signing the register at work, I’ll come back ❤
😅gurl
I am going through the same thing, this is my sign to pay the disk money and scrap the car, leave him Owamie just scrap the car God will return your money.
babe i tried in2022 those people made me sighn a form and did nothing but i am going back today yhoo
Owamie dont forget Gogo Manzini is your friend..she can deal with him
😂😂😂😂heban
😂😂😂And Dr hoti
Imagine and Dr Hoti. Owamie o dangerous 😂😂😂
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If only they were still in love... 🤦Guys can you hear that Owamie Owamie... But narcissist behaviors, 🙃🙌
Thank you for your bravery ❤
Call xrepo and get your car back and let him deal with the people that he sold the car to. He'll have to pay them back.
Plus she has a call record where big guy was saying I didn’t want that car from the start.
To put this in perspective, R12 airtime had you giving this man half your savings, a car and land... Ladies, don't let narcissists play you.
If it was me in this situations and with my witch gang by my side,one call to them will solve this big guy.Owami you are so nice to him.Nna nkamo hlantsha just to punish him.
😂😂true bo dlozi are uncontrollable when u summon n send em😂😂
Gogo Manzini would run fast😂😂😂❤
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😂😂😂 my patience wasn’t gonna allow me to say so much
Morning Queen 👑 Ninja ❤️
Queen 👑 you look so beautiful ❤️
Yoooh Big Guy is not a responsible person
Sorry Owamie but please don't drain yourself over this and if possible I would suggest you forget about the money coz I don't think he wants to pay it back.
You have a good heart Sisi❤mark my words you going far my love❤
This is valid owami, even if there was someone that someone wanted to express it wont make sense here. We have a lot cases of identity theft. He’s not narcissistic, he negligent
Go to court, appeal,get half of his pension, and give him a reason for not wanting to talk to you.
His relaxed because it's not affecting him.
If the tables were turned, he was going to be calling the dealership none stop to change the ownership because it's costing him.
I understand your frustration Owamie. Lessons for all of us, when you give a car to another , sell any goods etc, make sure you the current owner change the ownership documents to the new owner before they leave with goods. Because any thing that happens there after is not your responsibility 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾💝
Owamie, I'm busy with other things 😂 why are you making me rush to your channel? 😅
Since it is in your name just deregister the vehichle...just scrap it, let whoever has it look for you. He did seem kind on the phone call though.
@@AnnaMuzaza he's patronizing not kind
He has the nerve to say I don't wanna fight, I don't wanna talk to you, TF?!😅
There's a difference between kind and calm"Kindness " is not what he showed when he said it's nit his problem coz the car is nolonger with him.
Manipulative
You have a kind heart Owami, unfortunately others misuse that.
It’s honestly frustrating. And now you still have to apply for new car papers and wait if you decide to scrape the car. I was in a similar situation beginning of the year. Running up and down in traffic departments is annoying
Guuuuuuuys I hope you paid attention to the part where he said he didn't want the car, if he didn't have any ill intentions why didn't he tell her that he didn't want it from the on set??? And she played her part by giving him all the relevant documents to change the ownership, how would she force him to go change it, when she didn't even know that he didn't want the car to begin with? Annnnnd he kept shifting blame and saying it's the dealership's fault yet it's His car????? Why would he sell without changing ownership?
He is lying, he tried to fix it many times until he couldn’t afford it and sold 😂😂😂😂😂
@OwamieEntertainment ooooooooooh🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏽🙌🏽 I hope you sorted it out yoh
And he got the money from the sale yet he ddnt want the car😂😂😂😂😂wow
@Mmagoboys2 EXACTLY 😭😭🤣🤣
He is such a tiring person yhooo🙆🏾♂️🙆🏾♂️....haai maan...
I can't believe He said it's not his fault😢😢😢
"Owamie I don't wana talk to you"😢
He's not bothered cause it doesn't affect his finances, selfish act of man acting like a boy.
#JustGiveMeMyMoney😂
Yoooh but you soo beautiful ❤❤❤you are in a better place
Emphasis on “the car you won kadivorce” reminding him that he was nothing without her. Yaas girl!
He reasons like my ex husband. 😂
Where is Gogo Manzini she made me watch your channel we miss her
This is so sad 😢after so many years. I’m so sorry that you have to go through this 😢.
You were logical . Ukuthi he thinks it has nothing to do with him is insane
And that time he pocketed the sale money ......yhoooooooo🙆🏾♂️🙆🏾♂️🙆🏾♂️...dha!
When he said 'it's non of my business' I died, Ninja you are blessed you don't have kids with this guy, he is so slow.
Narcissist is such a wrong term in this case, he is just not bright or one of those people who just don’t care about things! Narcissistic people are very dangerous, so manipulative and that one is not
Yhoo..keep trying to convince yourself that. Because how dare he even used to chow Owamie's money but didn't want Owamie to spend her money on herself....😂🚮
Nna I don't go overboard financially for a project we will both share ayyy NEVER .I have learnt from these streets
You are soo kind sisi
You have a good Sisi...and believe me when I say you still going far my angel❤
Ohoo dear. It's still about him again. Lebo vibes
Lol am also busy Jesus Owamie pls dont.
Wishing you the best at the department. Hope you get sorted darling ❤
my daughter love your intro😄
His loss. You’re a beautiful Woman inside out
M so sorry Owamie,mey God interfere so that everything can be resolved,We love ❤️ you gal.
Yhuuu aaaah! Good riddance 🚮 he doesn't deserve you ❤
Been there. I once sold my car to someone and handed them everything without demanding they first do a change of ownership. Guys, never agree to a car sale or otherwise until the other party does a change of ownership, there's nothing worse than that.
You see why they fanisa you with….😅😅😅😅
😂😂😂😂 Ninja please don't
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I think the most important thing from yonke lento is for you to try and solve this yourself, because the car is under your name. Mans won’t do anything about it.
You are so pretty
Big guy upfala a na big problem
😂😂😂 u guys 😅😅😅
Ninja signing in 🙋🏽♀️ I do think that you’ve used a big word here, big guy is not narcissistic, he just sounded like a teen boy who had no idea of what the process entails but cared enough to benefit 🤷🏽♀️
I do not blame you for your reaction, I would have 1000% reacted the same sana…😮
Being Mageza in peace 🤣😂 that took me out🫢
Yooo Big guy ke problem hle
Owami I feel for you iyooooo wa bora shame
Uthe "sorry" kalok🤭