THE TRUTH ABOUT SOFT GUY ERA!!

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  • @FITXFEARLESS
    @FITXFEARLESS  Месяц назад +6

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  • @Boe3
    @Boe3 Месяц назад +116

    The “soft guy era” is made to troll them it ain’t really that serious 😂

    • @YuhhFeelMe
      @YuhhFeelMe Месяц назад +14

      Ong fit taking this too far 🤣

    • @lokidarkbeard2647
      @lokidarkbeard2647 Месяц назад +16

      It started as a troll, but guys got tired of paying $100s of dollars for first dates that didn't go anywhere. So now it's a real thing.

    • @deklolormeus1484
      @deklolormeus1484 Месяц назад +2

      @@YuhhFeelMe this the same dude who complained about guys spending money on females

    • @MasculinityR
      @MasculinityR Месяц назад +2

      ​@@YuhhFeelMedid you watch till the end where he stated it was a troll

    • @fforshort4483
      @fforshort4483 Месяц назад +3

      Watch till the end bruh he said that

  • @rogerwilliams7639
    @rogerwilliams7639 Месяц назад +25

    I'd rather do 100% myself. Because women are all for themselves.

  • @maskedman5657
    @maskedman5657 Месяц назад +51

    If she wanted to she would

  • @RickeOOO
    @RickeOOO Месяц назад +10

    If this first guy doesnt smoke weed on a daily basis. Im giving away my car today.

  • @claytonyoung5505
    @claytonyoung5505 Месяц назад +9

    It's a cold world my G. It comes down to money, looks, status and for real woman don't care if you are not winner they will just pick the winners and left the man who is not. Facts 💯

  • @eltoro_ttv
    @eltoro_ttv Месяц назад +52

    I'm good on the soft guy era. I'm a strong, independent man that don't need a woman

    • @maryamadedeji24
      @maryamadedeji24 Месяц назад +3

      What😂😂😂

    • @eltoro_ttv
      @eltoro_ttv Месяц назад +2

      @@maryamadedeji24 ... it's a troll response

    • @maryamadedeji24
      @maryamadedeji24 Месяц назад +1

      @@eltoro_ttv oh well I knew that, but some people are taking it so serious
      It's funny to me😂 because if u notice the type of people on tictok and other platforms that are taking this seriously are single...i really wish older women would stop lying to younger women smh going on tiktok and crying😂🙏 is next level & unbelievable.

    • @Jacob-nu4nd
      @Jacob-nu4nd Месяц назад +1

      @@eltoro_ttvyou gay?

    • @eltoro_ttv
      @eltoro_ttv Месяц назад +1

      @@Jacob-nu4nd ever heard of a troll response?

  • @Sacciuiguai
    @Sacciuiguai Месяц назад +39

    20yo with a kid is wild in 2024

    • @TSierra
      @TSierra Месяц назад +7

      I turned 22 in March and when he said 20 I was like “Bruh” lol

    • @3phraimlive183
      @3phraimlive183 Месяц назад +9

      I'm 26 & I'm scared to have a kid🤣

    • @princelevi1804
      @princelevi1804 Месяц назад +5

      I’m 33 with no kids . Life is Good

    • @TREY_CHAMBERS_95
      @TREY_CHAMBERS_95 17 дней назад

      @@princelevi1804you probably do you just don’t know about it yet

  • @3-dreticle826
    @3-dreticle826 Месяц назад +16

    He’s in his soft guy era Drizzle drizzle. If she wanted to she would. Period 😅🎉

  • @fatkenny9257
    @fatkenny9257 Месяц назад +7

    Light skin buddy wit the Afro hit the nail on the head

  • @Shottie-ci1cr
    @Shottie-ci1cr Месяц назад +9

    Pookie is undefeated!

  • @anonymous6594
    @anonymous6594 Месяц назад +16

    Soft guy era is American black men trolling American black women. Who started the soft girl movement? American black women. Who started the soft guy movement? American black men.

  • @DanteFortson
    @DanteFortson Месяц назад +22

    Drizzle drizzle... anyone that doesn't understand what the Soft Guy Era is about is slooooowwww

  • @StEvUgnIn
    @StEvUgnIn Месяц назад +13

    All these corporate girls date soft guys

  • @KyatrixxKush
    @KyatrixxKush Месяц назад +21

    drizzle drizzle

  • @joshuaafcutler7348
    @joshuaafcutler7348 Месяц назад +33

    As an older man in my 40s, this feels like a back and forth gender war to see who can ruin dating the most. This generation is an absolute disgrace and you should all be ashamed of yourselves.

    • @mzwetlovequeen
      @mzwetlovequeen Месяц назад +1

      Yes sir

    • @UncleSwell707
      @UncleSwell707 Месяц назад +3

      You ain’t lying bro.

    • @jordanprice9285
      @jordanprice9285 Месяц назад +1

      Well guess what? We didn't start all this bullshit, we all had to adapt to the shit y'all started DECADES before most of us were even born. You MADE this shit and it escalated to where it is now. So YOU ALSO are to blame for this bullshit even though you think it doesn't. Y'all old heads with all that rampant 90's Simping shit going on.

  • @thelordan66
    @thelordan66 Месяц назад +7

    my guy fit looks so good, im getting better and better too thanks to this dude

  • @thetoolsonyoutube56
    @thetoolsonyoutube56 Месяц назад +3

    If u pay 100 percent of everything and let her not pay anything you don’t know if ur going to be with her in the next 2 3 years. She just ran up a bag and finessed ur ass

  • @SAGEEDITZ24
    @SAGEEDITZ24 Месяц назад +18

    From my upbringing and how my father, mother, and older brother and grandfathers and grandmothers raised me. As a Man, always provide 100%, the Dominant role has the most responsibility and yes it’s true with Great Responsibility it comes with Great Power. Doing 50/50 with your Woman, she won’t respect you because you can’t even hold up your end as the Masculine dominant role. If you see she doesn’t appreciate any of it, leave her and find a Woman that will and was raised right as a Feminine woman with at least a stable family foundation. My Grandpa taught me, that a Woman never had to worry about her security or wallet in my presence. Because I took care of all that and made her feel safe and secure with me, that’s a Man’s job. What I learned today especially from FitXFearless, is to only do that for Women that deserve it.

    • @DanteFortson
      @DanteFortson Месяц назад

      🤣🤣🤣
      Are y'all really this slow and don't understand that men are mocking women's stupid dating standards?
      Women use to come as childless virgins... but now they come ran through with other men's kids but want men to be traditional. Hell no.

    • @maskedman5657
      @maskedman5657 Месяц назад +6

      That's your prerogative as a man. And you free to believe it. I don't fully agree. Now granted I think most men should be the sole provider but the women should be chipping in as well with the bills. Why should you pay everything while she stacks bread?

    • @waltsturvee4651
      @waltsturvee4651 Месяц назад +3

      Divorce the woman takes half of everything while you put 100% Make it Make sense

    • @Lifeofredo
      @Lifeofredo Месяц назад +3

      My guy we living in different times, even if you provide 100% they will still find a way to fuck up 🤣🤣

    • @maryamadedeji24
      @maryamadedeji24 Месяц назад

      Completey agree, I just wish that today their were more woman that are ladies and are highly feminine...it rare to find a woman that live being feminine

  • @blakjiren9930
    @blakjiren9930 Месяц назад

    5:13 he hit the fit x high voice 🤣 he had to chuckle

  • @Jesusgarcia-yg7qq
    @Jesusgarcia-yg7qq Месяц назад

    We need a meeting about his hair.

  • @Rudebwoy64
    @Rudebwoy64 Месяц назад +1

    You got 2 kids from another relationship we going 50/50. I had to block a female who didn’t appreciate me

  • @hyperiondragon
    @hyperiondragon Месяц назад +4

    The softguy era is still too new. It hasn’t even taken form yet. It’s still just a meme. It may or may not even take physical form. You have to approach these gentlemen differently. Just explain it to them then get their opinion. None of the dudes that thought they knew what the movement was about actually knew what it meant.

  • @actorjt
    @actorjt Месяц назад +1

    Haha peaches wild crazy 🤣

  • @MrUnpredictable187
    @MrUnpredictable187 Месяц назад +2

    It’s Like this if she wants to pay something, I’m gonna let her but she’s not going do nothing she’s going to do something! Bring some type of value to my life! but I’m not gonna make it seem like I need her. I can take care what I need to take care. I don’t need to go 50-50 with no woman. I’m gonna do what I have to do as a man. But I get what bro was saying 6:14 you pay for anything so she can’t have no bragging rights to use against you in the future!

  • @jamaulezra5049
    @jamaulezra5049 Месяц назад

    Speaking facts

  • @ulrr23
    @ulrr23 Месяц назад +2

    ayoo. why you running away from the mic is crazy

  • @mikus197
    @mikus197 Месяц назад

    2:46 bro got so uncomfortable he was moving out of the cameras view 🤣🤣

  • @santiagogurem3979
    @santiagogurem3979 Месяц назад +9

    DAMN BRO YOU ARE TINY LOL 😂

  • @OGFantum
    @OGFantum 23 дня назад

    I don't mind providing at all for a woman who don't mind paying for something some time. She has to be invested in also. From experience paying for everything won't make her stick around. There's no reason for her not paying for something when she has an income also.

  • @nativeboy718
    @nativeboy718 Месяц назад +1

    I’m not no soft guy but I’m not paying all the bills either if I have a woman we’re going half on bills if I gotta work she gotta work she spoils me I spoil her that’s the way it’s gonna be for me POINT BLANK PERIOD

  • @joshuagonzales8451
    @joshuagonzales8451 Месяц назад +9

    Four eyed chic on the right around 11:00 is a 6 😂 talking a bout a provider. Don’t sell yourself short u can find a woman way badder that will go 50/50 or even provide for you

  • @thetoolsonyoutube56
    @thetoolsonyoutube56 Месяц назад +2

    Yo how tall are you ?

  • @genovasquez8361
    @genovasquez8361 Месяц назад +12

    I love women spending money on me

  • @TheSandersSons
    @TheSandersSons Месяц назад +3

    Love the videos FitXFearless! I don't know if you have created a video like this before but could you let me know? Women love to talk about how s*x, cleaning, taking care of the kids, listening, behaving/loyal, and other shit hold as much value as paying the bills and providing security. Well, the crazy thing is, the list of what they bring to the table has everything we men have to do as well as providing for them. Could you do a video where you ask people the value of what is actually being provided and actually being expected? I believe as the days go by and more and more women start to drift into the dark abyss, the market for modest and beautiful women will be inflated.

    • @CosminPerisan
      @CosminPerisan Месяц назад

      Great topic and idea for a video, but I would argue that s3x is "something that women offer men". It is not! It is a thing that men and women SHARE equaly, that's how you need to view it, otherwise is tricking...

  • @Nipsiii
    @Nipsiii Месяц назад

    From my personal experience women make things easy for you when they're into you or afraid to lose you, work on improving yourself you'll see how easy it is to get women you like you don't need to be a millionaire though that's an easier & hardest way since being millionaire requires more effort.

  • @ashtonjackfanny
    @ashtonjackfanny Месяц назад +3

    Damn ole boy was shorter than all the men he interviewed. Get you some better elevator shoes and some height increasing insoles

  • @Cricis11700
    @Cricis11700 Месяц назад

    Had a girl take me to Knott's, haven't paid her back, she was buying me drinks and shit, I love it haha!

  • @TSierra
    @TSierra Месяц назад +1

    Omg this “soft guy era” is not that serious, it’s just a troll! When that women said “sprinkle sprinkle” men started saying “drizzle drizzle” as a troll.

  • @MrDLew
    @MrDLew Месяц назад +4

    Can’t talk to a dude with a kid he a simp.

    • @blacklyfe5543
      @blacklyfe5543 Месяц назад +1

      How? What does having a kid have to with you being a simp?

    • @MrDLew
      @MrDLew Месяц назад +3

      @@blacklyfe5543 specifically he makes decisions off his kid who is provided by who his woman he don’t wanna make his woman mad with the questions fit will be asking. He was a simp before the kid and he’s a Simp afterwards.

  • @swapandebnath7124
    @swapandebnath7124 Месяц назад

    Classic man always pays

  • @Drizzydid
    @Drizzydid Месяц назад +5

    Why these young people looking so old holy hell these guys saying they're 20 and 19 when I was thinking they were pushing 30. What's going on in Miami streets?

  • @jeangroves1564
    @jeangroves1564 Месяц назад +5

    Damn, how tall is fitxfearless?

    • @DatGuyVonni
      @DatGuyVonni Месяц назад +1

      5’8

    • @dlou93
      @dlou93 Месяц назад +1

      ​@DatGuyVonni lies...he's literally shorter than all the dudes in this video and the same height as the women...he's at least 5'6

  • @MrBarnardoo98
    @MrBarnardoo98 Месяц назад +5

    Under no circumstance am I going to depend on a woman to take care of me. A man is a man! I will always provide. But!! If she wants to work then it’s totally fine but i will still be 80% and she will be 20%.

    • @Flitalidapouet
      @Flitalidapouet Месяц назад

      Drizzle Drizzle movement is simply repeating what women says on all their video's and tik tok to EXPOSE those entitled brats.
      FITXFEARLESS is either to dumb to get it, or did not do research, OR is FACKING not understanding the movement.

  • @JeremyGyan
    @JeremyGyan Месяц назад

    14:11 facts

  • @unknown-vo3di
    @unknown-vo3di Месяц назад +4

    Drizzle drizzle

  • @MadSwaqqr247
    @MadSwaqqr247 Месяц назад

    First dude look like tyler herro

  • @zeethree
    @zeethree Месяц назад

    Women do not always pick the winner. I was long term unemployed, living with my parents, no friends, no car, in therapy and my gf still wanted to have a baby with me. Not every girl is materialistic, they may value attraction, humor, and intelligence more than money.

  • @blacklyfe5543
    @blacklyfe5543 Месяц назад +3

    50/50 relationships never work!

  • @naj959
    @naj959 Месяц назад

    Drizzle drizzle ninjas

  • @TraPortal007
    @TraPortal007 Месяц назад

    Wtf??? These people would be vulnerable in every unaccustomed life situation which lead to depression and drugs

  • @divyv20
    @divyv20 Месяц назад

    Hey FITXFEARLESS , very good video . I can do better editing in your videos which can help you to get more engagement in your videos . Pls lmk what do you think ?

  • @dendi1076
    @dendi1076 Месяц назад +1

    fitx loves to mock and disrespect the people he interviews on the streets.

  • @legacysiam
    @legacysiam Месяц назад

    If you got game she would do anything for you and buy you shit with out asking. Bro in the first clip knows the game lol

  • @sageagbonkhese4091
    @sageagbonkhese4091 Месяц назад

    He should have made sure they didn't bring up motherly duties and household chores if they aren't living together and have no kids together.

  • @OgSleep
    @OgSleep Месяц назад

    No one gets 100 percent

  • @user-qc8rm6yr7p
    @user-qc8rm6yr7p Месяц назад +1

    "being in the soft guy era is a waste of time" well said.

  • @YuhhFeelMe
    @YuhhFeelMe Месяц назад +3

    Aye, she pay her own bills & I pay my own. Yall talking this soft guy era shii wayyyy too serious 🤣

  • @josephcieplak8920
    @josephcieplak8920 Месяц назад +5

    Being a soft guy is a clear indication of laziness and no woman want to be with a guy who is not remotely interested in getting ahead in life.

    • @eltoro_ttv
      @eltoro_ttv Месяц назад +6

      It's a troll on modern woman logic

    • @YuhhFeelMe
      @YuhhFeelMe Месяц назад +5

      The soft guy era is a troll, chill out dawgg 🤣

    • @Nobleman23
      @Nobleman23 Месяц назад +1

      It’s a troll lol.

  • @xxgamerz96ftw84
    @xxgamerz96ftw84 Месяц назад

    Personally in these times I believe 50/50 or 70/30 man to woman is best. You dont want to provide 100% this is an expensive world you won't get a head living like that. These females got their own job and bread these days, make them women pay up occasionally.

  • @phenomenalfx7134
    @phenomenalfx7134 Месяц назад

    I wont lie brother, you didnt really tap into the main idea of what the movement is all about. You were too blunt with the question...

  • @fazlehadiazmat7g803
    @fazlehadiazmat7g803 Месяц назад

    society is FUCKED

  • @bistorionbeats
    @bistorionbeats Месяц назад

    The choice i have being a man is to go overseas to find me a traditional woman and stop complaining about soft guy era...😮

  • @Drizzydid
    @Drizzydid Месяц назад +1

    Also i don't understand 50/50 why would anyone help someone else pay any of their bills if they're not living together. Or is living together the assumption here?

  • @Trix2k0
    @Trix2k0 Месяц назад

    You can tell this guy wit the 🎤 doesn’t have enough game to make women pay 💰 for a short term relationship. He seems shock lol …. Guys wit game adapt to any situation.

  • @footworkfighttalk163
    @footworkfighttalk163 Месяц назад

    Said it was trolling then pivoted to crying and complaining? The women definitely call the shots!