MY HAIR FELL OUT! REPAIRING DAMAGED HAIR! TRANSITIONING TO NATURAL?!?!
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- Опубликовано: 24 июл 2024
- Updating you all on my hair journey and how my experience with apple cider vinegar rinse went all wrong and caused my hair to fall out. I will be working to grow my hair back long and beautiful this is all for now, I have homework to complete. leave ques, comments below.
added November 1, 2016
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OLDER VIDEOS ARE STILL PUBLIC ON MY CHANNEL FOR REFERENCE OF MY HAIR, IT'S THICKNESS (LEVEL) AND ANY OTHER CONCERNS YOU MAY HAVE S ABOUT MY HAIR. FEEL FREE TO SCROLL BACK AS FAR AS YOU WOULD LIKE =) (I SURELY DID REWATCH SEVERAL OF MY OLDER VIDEOS. I TOOK NOTES FROM MYSELF. IDKY I EVER SHYED AWAY FROM MY OWN ROUTINE OVER THE YEARS)
I have relaxed hair. I have always suffered dandruff, even when I had natural hair as a child ( the condition of my hair (relaxed or nautral ) is not related to my dandruff) In the past, Sulfur 8 worked wonderful on my dandruff (7+ years; since high school) but overtime as I stopped having a flaky scalp I slowly stopped using my sulfur 8.because I felt that my hair no longer needed it. Recently, about 5 hair tutorials back, I began to get lots of comments about my hair being dirty even after washing, and I received a few comments with concerns about "white specs being in my hair". I first used an oil treatment to help with my dandruff, which some of my subscribers were unsure that I suffered from years ago as It was never mentioned on my channel in depth before. The oil worked for a while but definetely not like the Sulfur 8 had worked for me in the past. I don't know what I was thinking even trying the apple cider vinegar rinse as I NEVER TRY ANY HOME REMEDIES FROM RUclips VIDEOS on my hair. As for the rinse, I use only a small amount mixed with water as mentioned in several of the natural hair tutorials that I watched. I allowed the rinse to sit on my relaxed hair for ~10 mins then I rinsed it out and proceeded with my usual wash day routine. Common sense I knew not to use vinegar in my hair because it strips things so I know it would strip my hair. Not to mention the fact that my mom says vinegar is what people used back in the day if they wanted to get rid of a relaxex / (perm as she calls it). Long story short, (not really) I will NEVER try home remedies, on my hair ever again. I plan to use my sulfur 8 for my dandruff. Yes, I have head and shoulders, T Gel,..you name it, If it's for dandruff I probably have it under my cabinet. so as for the apple cider vinegar rinse I don't know what I was thinking. like seriously, what was I thinking? =D. So your next question may be relaxed or natural? at this point, i am 15 weeks post relaxer. my hair is not ready to be relaxed and I will not choose to relax my hair until I feel that it is a better condition from the rinse before I choose to do so. It's honestly not a decision that I'm even focused on right now. as I am only concerned with getting my hair to be healthy again (the rinse has made it so brittle) this is all that I will say on the topic of relaxed or natural for now.
In conclusion, always do YOUR OWN RESEARCH, i am not blaming or bashing anyone else for the condition of my hair. as with all other hair decisions, it was my own choice and free will to try this rinse on my hair, I am only sharing with you my journey and experience. I do not plan on trimming my hair any shorter by the way. I do plan on revisiting my older regimen, hair routine, and choice of hair products to aid in growing my hair back because as I recently watched my older tutorials from previous years, it def helped my hair thrive. (idk how I shyed away from a lot of my own practices) but I'm def going back to them, example: roller sets, oil sheen sulfur 8, roller set straightening. basic routine!!! check older videos for details, as i cannot cover it all in this one place.
For now, this is all that I can think of to address and explain in detail for you all. If I think of anything else that I forgot to mention, I will update the info bar. thanks for watching and reading.
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hey yall. want to see how my hair looks 7 months later? check out this video. 👇💖🌟 ruclips.net/video/By7antwfoc4/видео.html
allofdestiny..........How often should protein treatments be done on damaged, relaxed hair??
allofdestiny. HEY U K OW I WAS JUST WO DERI G ABOUT YOUR HAIR GROWTH SINCE THE SET BACK I HAD ONE TOO ITS NOW GROWING BACK HEALTHY IM GOIN TO CHECK OUT THE VIDEO UR VIDEOS ARE THE BEST AT YOUR HOUSE AND U CAN HEAR YOUR MOM & FAMILY MEMBERS IN THE BACK ROUND I LUV IT LOL DOWN TO EARTH PEOPLE KEEP THE VIDS COMIN ❤
I use apple cider vinegar for shampoo and I have relaxed hair and I’m 15 weeks post relaxer and it hasn’t made my hair fall out but you’re supposed to do equal parts of vinegar, water and coconut oil or your voice of oil. Everyone’s different tho thanks for the disclaimer. I also follow up with a protein conditioner ☺️
I hate naturals that try to force being natural down everybody's throat. I'm a natural, have been all my life and I suffer from a dry scalp and dandruff as well....and I'm STILL trying to find a way around it lol
I agree %100 I was forced to go natural by a stylist because she hated relaxers. My hair was in terrible shape. long story short I switched stylist and my relaxed hair is Happy & Healthy, Also growing too!!
MRSKINKY1 obviously not but if thats what she chooses to do its her hair and her choice. But you already knew that...or maybe not because you felt the need to make that dumbass comment. Good day!
ktkt220 Sulfur 8 girl.... I spent years avoiding grease because the natural hair community swears it stunts hair growth and is bad for you. But I'm finally getting relief from my itchy scalp and yes, my hair is still growing.
gigglyfitzgirl yes girl! I went back to sulfur 8 for a little bit but I had to stop because that stuff smells (which wasnt an issue) but being that I work out consistently after 3-4 days my hair would smell so bad so I had to stop. I've now been using a blend of jojoba and tea tree oil and its worked soo well. Sometimes I throw some Blue Magic in the equation lol
gigglyfitzgirl yes girl! I went back to sulfur 8 for a little bit but I had to stop because that stuff smells (which wasnt an issue) but being that I work out consistently after 3-4 days my hair would smell so bad so I had to stop. I've now been using a blend of jojoba and tea tree oil and its worked soo well. Sometimes I throw some Blue Magic in the equation lol
I prefer natural hair, but don't get it twisted, the wrong products can ruin natural hair as well. So with that being said, wear your hair whichever way you choose to. Natural does not necessarily mean healthy.
Natural is healthy
@@marilynking3350 natural CAN be healthy
I hate how people blame every problem you have with your hair on not being natural. 😑. I agree when I had my natural hair I had dandruff and with relaxed I still do 😑...
Why do people keep telling her to go natural? You can nurse relaxed hair back to it's optimal state ya know...
Pyper Anderson she's been nursing it for years and it's still not back. That's why ppl are telling her to go natural
If she doesn't go natural in the future she is going to be bold because of the relaxers .. Is just reality no one can change it
Simão Banina Lmao going relaxed doesn't automatically set you up for being bald. My aunt has been getting relaxers ALL her life, and she still has extremely thick hait that grows like wildfire. I've been getting mine relaxed since I was little and my hair is in good condition as well (minimal breakage, thick, past shoulder length). Speak for yourself. Different strokes different folks. Just because a relaxer is bad for you, that doesn't mean it will be bad for everyone else.
The Aphogee two step protein treatment and balancing conditioner is AMAZING!! Stops shedding instantly!
Kysha May I was just going to say that. I heard those homemade protein treatments help but do not really penetrate the hair as the one you suggested!
GlamNP Yes! It works wonders for the hair if used properly. Aphogee 2 minute reconstructer is great as well
Kysha May yes that Aphogee protein treatment works great and will stop her breakage and repair the hair quickly. I'm natural, but I tend to steer clear of the homemade treatments as well because I've heard that they're not that great and if you can't truly measure the ph and etc you could really damage your hair, I'll do natural oils and stop there.
Jbutterfly15 I totally agree with everything you said! #JobWellDone 👍😀
Kysha May my hair sheds that something I would try does really it work
I can't wait to see how you bounce back from the set back! This was encouraging to see and plus you were still smiling regardless and that's what's up! 😘
Leeny Lynn awwww thanks for the kind comment. Definitely taking you all on the new journey with me.😊
THAT VOICE THOUGH! Girl you can sing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i have updated the information bar. it should help with the concerns/questions
that you all may have. read there first please before leaving comments;
it will help you understand the video/ my experience better as I cannot cover or
mention everything in 13 mins or in one video. thanks for watching & be sure to check out my older hair tutorials to see my hair before trying the apple cider vinegar rinse.
allofdestiny I'm so sorry this happened to you. I am a licensed cosmetologist and, I'm pretty sure that other subscribers mentioned this, but please try Aphogee two step protein treatment. Follow it up with the ph balancing conditioner this will restore the natural ph balance in your hair cuticles. Also, you don't have to big chop your hair. Trim it a little then wear a protective style. Keep trimming as your hair continues to grow that help your hair to grow in healthy. I agree with you about not relaxing your hair until it becomes healthy again.
+sharon gordy where do you purchase those products from? i would like to try them for my hair.
Shonda Smith try Sally's beauty or most local beauty supply store also sell them. please, please make sure to follow the directions and to use the PH balancing conditioner after. The protein is liquid and it smells awful, your hair will harden like a rock while it's penetrating the cuticle don't try to comb your hair once it's hard. Rinse it out then follow with the PH balancing conditioner.
+allofdestiny boo, I'm so sorry but I got you... you were experiencing a protein overload and that vinegar knocked you right on out of the park. what you will be needing now is a moisture/protein balance to get you back in this thang correct...do this for a month and I swear you will be thanking me.
Sunday- hot oil in dry hair with jbco/evoo heated. wash with cream of nature shampoo. deep condition with cream of nature intensive treatment. rinse. moist with Cantu cream and oil- rollers set.
Wednesday hot oil on dry hair and aussie moist conditioner on dry hair let it sit for a while. rinse. Come in and moist with Cantu cream and oil, then roller set.
Friday- oils and Queen Helene Cholesterol (protein) on dry hair walk around with it and a shower cap. rinse then wash hair with cream of nature. moist. roller set.
the rules of this game is no heat...I wouldn't sit under the dryer once and please do not relax for a month because your hair will fall out. try to relax a week after the big protein treatment. dont let water touch your head with out oil in it. and in the last day of this month you can use a real cleansing shampoo and then relax a few days later. she the problem is to much protein its in the gel the shampoo and conditioner then you used the vingear protein rinse. during this time dont use grease, baby oil, and get a non protein gel. also get some botein. do this till December 1st and you will be popping again. promise. let be know how it goes. love ya !
I use the apogee 2 step leave in treatment and it is awesome
I look forward to watching you grow your hair back. Setbacks happen to us all; with relaxed and natural hair.
The white stuff in your hair is probably the egg. If you used warm/hot water it's going to cook the egg in your hair & leave the chunks that you saw. That's why you have to make sure you rinse it out with cool/cold water.
I learned the hard way lol oh & since you sat under the dryer with it, the heat could have helped cook it.
people will tell you anything smh. i STILL have dandruff & I've been natural for almost 4 years. relaxed hair & dandruff have nothing to do with one another.
**people will say anything....
Donna Marie yeees
Actually relaxers dry the scalp and hair then combined with poor products and practices it can be a recipe for dandruff. Being natural and having dry hair is slightly different from having hair chemically dried out. Dandruff can occur in either situation but it is up to each person to analyze their routine to see if products or practices are the problem. Genetically some people can do what another can't.
I stop getting dandruff when I went natural though .
I can say my dandruff stopped when I went natural
I think the white stuff in your hair is the egg because it "cooked" happened to me before
Kim D. yea i was thinkin the same because she sat under the dryer and heated it up , happened to me also .
I thought I was the only one that happened too.. That is why I don't use egg
There's no need for the negative comments I am reading. I am a new natural and I am learning that everything isn't for everybody. I remember when I was relaxed and I tried an acv rinse and my hair was so dry and brittle afterwards and for that very reason I am still scared of trying to do an acv rinse now that I'm natural. Being natural doesn't solve every issue that relaxing causes. Being natural is hard work also and it takes patience and understanding of your new curls and coils to achieve a head full of strong hair period. With that being said Destiny I am so sorry this happened to you. I know how awful it feels to have a setback during a hair journey but I have watched you grow your hair before and I am confident that you will be able to make a comeback whether you choose to transition or remain relaxed. Which is strictly your choice- again everything isn't for everybody.
Everything happens for a reason I finally decided to go natural too and I don't regret it at all.
Cathy Marie she's not natural..?
Cathy Marie she's relaxed
I think she's means this should be a reason for her to go natural 🐸☕️
rose jordan lmao yes thank you that's what I meant
Long hair, short hair, you're a beautiful person.
Did you dilute the vinegar I'd like to know I hope you didn't put plain vinegar in your hear you supposed to dilute it along with rice water rinse you're not supposed to put the rice water right in your hair because it ferments and you supposed to dilute it with water ladies listen to what's going on or you going to be bald headed
have to tell you I love your positivity and you made your hair work and it looks great !!
You have a very positive attitude. I think your outlook on things are great.
love the ending style! looking forward to your major come back hun
We live and we learn, Dollface. Happens to the best of us. About 15yrs ago, I did an egg conditioning followed by a beer rinse on my relaxed hair. It got so matted and tangled... I mean I could hear it stretching and snapping as I was trying to detangle. Ended up having to get a cute lil pixie cut and started a new trend at school, lol! Your attitude rocks!!! Bless up! 😘❤
L. Rachelle Babb im sorry but u made me laugh with the bear rinse the things us girls go through i remember i tried to lighten my hair with bacon soda and peroxide 😩 never again lol.
Girrrrl, I can laugh now, but at the time I wanted to cry. My Auntie was watching me and saying she didn't think it was a good idea, so when it went wrong I had to play like I wasn't dieing a bit inside. My hair was really long and has always been super thick, but after detangling??? It looked reeeeally bad. People had started a rumor that I had cancer, smh. Girls can be so petty. It bounced back tho. And I stopped taking my hair so seriously after that too, lol.
Lol I remember I used sun in when I was a teenager to lightened my hair, Biggest mistake ever!!! I also dyed my hair with cool aide lol terrible.
I have watched your hair journey for years and I must say I believe you have a good grade of hair. With that being said, your hair WILL grow back and it will be even
More beautiful. Thanks for sharing
Thanks so much Destiny for being transparent with us. I know that you will recover from the Apple Cider Vinger rinse. Continue on with the healthy hair journey.
You still slayed those hair styles , it will grow back time and patience you got it this was a nice inspiration video your come back is coming back full and in effect 😘🤘🏽💯
Girl your attitude is amazing. Glad I found your Channel. Yes embrace! thank you for this video. Gave me a well adjusted attitude.positive
your style at the end was beautiful. glad you're going back to what works for you, that's always the best choice, I think so many of us have learned that through trial and error the hard way. can't wait for the updates!
Hi Destiny!
I like the way you embraced your hair loss! KUDOS TO YOU!!
You kept it moving. Love, love. love your style. I am an older woman and you have taught me a lot about hair.
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
I'm sorry this happened to you 😞. Can't wait to go along the journey back to health with you.
Props to you for admitting that to us, most people would be embarrassed. Anywho good look to you on this new hair journey!
I'm glad you uploaded this is was just about to do this tonight. Thank you girl! I been following you channel for a while and I consider what you say.
your voice is so soothing. oh girl congrats on 70k
I am so sorry you had to go through this. Hope all goes well in the future. And middle fingers up to the people who has something negative to say. We all suffer with something... you're just brave enough to show yours. I know you're going to keep it moving anyway because of the person you are. Lookin forward to more beautiful vids!
I love this channel so so much. Destiny girl, you give me life!
Your hairstyles still look great Destiny! We all go through rough phases with our hair but if only we could look as good as you while we're in it. Girl continue to slay and lay and be your wonderful self!
Im happy im not the only one with relaxed hair its hard to find youtubers with these kinds of videos
Thanks for sharing sis! you will get ur hair back..yes a major comeback
You have such a good attitude about your setback. It happens to us all. I had a setback a while ago and my hair bounced back fine. And I knew yours would too and it has. I knew you could do it
Destiny Ms. April (me) have been following you for a while now, just know you can rock any style, you are a beautiful young lady thank you for having the courage to share this video, you are inspiring to many young and older women around the world.
Yeah your hair doesn't look the same. It got thinner. I'm so sorry about your set back. Sometimes you gotta stop listening to other ppl and do what works for you. You gone bounce back tho 💪🏽
sorry about your hair! but your still slaying that hair ! looking forward to your new journey!💗💖💕💞
Ok so I'm super excited to see what hair tutorials you have from now on because that is the length of my hair now and I can't get it to grow longer so this is a bittersweet feeling. It sucks what happened but I'm anxious to see what you do so I can try and hopefully it will work for me as well.
You are a great inspiration to anyone who has had a setback!...You are SO going to get back on track by doing what you know works! I tried an ACV on my relaxed hair once and it left it feeling "mushy"...I said NOPE...never again!
congrats on all ur subbies!! I commend you on sharing ur story about the problem u had with the acv rise and what it did to ur hair..You still holding on to that smile and like you said it's hair, it will grow back!! Evryone hair is different I am relaxed too & the only time I use acv is when I have braids & so far n problems. .I hate u had to go thru that but I can't wait to see ur hair bounce bac!!
I did something like that trying to clean my crochet braids. i was windering what hapoened. I'm so glad I watched this because I was about to try it again. You just saved me anf my baby.
Congratulations on your subscribers girl!!!! 💜 I'm sorry that happened to your hair. Good luck getting it back to health!
the same thing happened to me. I have dandruff real bad and natural hair and the first time I used a ACV rinse my hair fell out at the root! like I had a huge bald spot in the front! I think it fell out because I didn't cut the acv with water. but I massaged Jamaican black castor oil in my head (and prayed) and it grew back! try Jamaican black castor oil and protective styles
Nia Moore
Nia Moore did you not dilute it or something like how does this happen
The most important thing with the apple cider vinegar rinse is to dilute it to start off with a very weak solution it look like you put too much vinegar cuz I use apple cider vinegar but right after I also give myself a protein rinse and that's the rice water which I use with my shampoo when you have relaxed hair you have to be careful of the other chemicals that you put in your hair cuz apple cider vinegar will be considered as a chemical when you're using another chemical in your hair which is the relaxer be careful because you will go bald if you make too many mistakes that you will have mass breakage
So glad that you are embracing the shorter hair and not dwelling in the mistakes made. Watching your hair grow back and thrive is so enjoyable. I cut mines just because this summer and learning to do hairstyles on various lengths of hair is a challenge be quite doable.
yay! congratulations on the subscribers
Love your videos and your personality ! I be waiting for a new upload I be like " yaaaasss girl " 😂😂 you seem so chill
New subscriber!! I love your energy, honesty and positivity. I am starting my own hair journey when I restyle my hair. I had breakage as well due to a change in a permanent hair color brand. Your video was very helpful!!
you are gorgeous and your skin is so nice!! lovee
wow, thanks for the info about apple vinegar rinse, I was planning on doing that today. I am so glad I watched this video.
Girl I'm weak lol but I'm glad that you're taking it so well. You're really good with your hair so I know it'll bounce back in no time 💪🏾☺️
Sorry that happened to you! Your hair will grow back and it'll just be a lesson learned. We all experience crazy things while on a HHJ, but thank you for your continued positivity and for having the courage to keep things 100% with your viewers.🖒🖒🖒
Thank you so much for this! Something said make sure all the acv videos on RUclips are not just for natural hair. My gut said it wouldn't be right for relaxed. You saved my hair! Thanks!
I know you'll bounce back! By the way I love your hair videos! You rock! ❤
I love your positive attitude
I'm so sorry that this happened to you and your gorgeous locks! It happened to me years ago. My hair never fully recovered. But I'm a also impatient with my hair. I've had it cut, relaxed, natural and then I repeat (with sew ins, braids and wigs thrown in). I'm currently natural but I want to relax my hair again. I digress. You still LAY & SLAY dem locks tho! Whatever you do to your hair is ALWAYS on point!
awwwwwwwwww thanks so much! sorry that happened to you. enjoy your hair. as it sounds like you do. def have patience girl! thanks for the kind comment
allofdestiny. i remember win mine fell out thanks to Dr. miracles. urghhhh. girl i was bald. but i prayed. cut it into a style. i took to everything ol school known bck in the day and biotin protein pills for healthy hair. and one yr later its shoulder length. so don't be discouraged. your hair will grow bck beautiful. and don't be afraid it will come bck with a vengence.😉
girllllll im a fan i been natural for about 4 years now your the one that got me wearing rollers them curls be poppin girl yass i wear my hair straight mybe twice a month but if you go natural or not i will still watch your videos we all go through set backs with our hair believe me i know just do what you love and everything will be ok i been using tea tree oil and pure olive oil on my scalp 😊 love you destiny coming from harlem NewYork 💖
Congratulations on your 70 thousand subscribers 🎊🎉🎈
Your HAIR is GORGEOUS!!
if I were you I wouldn't worry too much about your hair, as young women we experience different hair journeys on the bright side all your hair didn't fall. so yeah no worries I've experienced breakage I realized after i stopped worrying it started to go back in the middle😊😊😊😊
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so sorry that you went through that. I've been following you for awhile and this was great info for us with relaxers still in our hair. can't wait to see what your rocking next. I'm almost 20 weeks post and the transition is a struggle 😂😂😂
I’m so grateful for this video. My hair is in need of a protein treatment due to my hair coming out from get over postpartum. Didn’t know this was a thing that happens of hair falling out after a baby. I used to do the mayo and egg years ago and you gave me the reminder of how well it works. Much luv!!!
You're too adorable, hope everything works out for your hair.
It's still beautiful girl!!!! No worries we all go through it and sharing is caring you just saved another person I'm sure.
I am natural now and loving it been following you for a while love your Personality and you right its just Hair!!
I'm sorry that happened to your hair. it will grow back fast because you take great care of your hair!!
You might have to wait a few months before you decide whether to relax again or not. I'm 16 months post and my hair is the longest it's ever been. But it may also be the combination of not blowing & flat ironing every week that helped. But, of course, I had to subscribe to stay updated on your journey. ☺️
OMG!!! But I know your comeback is going to be amazing!!! Also, a good treatment that I use is the ic fantasia super concentrated reconstructor. It saved my hair from a similar situation.
hi destiny!! Going natural was one of the best decisions I made. Once I noticed my hair stop retaining length and thinning out I knew I had to make some changes.In only one year my hair has doubled in length and thickness. Good luck on you journey!!! #teamnatural
Thank you for sharing your hair journey and you have given me a lot of cute hairstyles to wear over the years! 😊😊 I hate that the apple cider process cause your hair to come out but you're still gorgeous!!!! 😍
this setback is the perfect opportunity to go natural, I think your hair will grow a lot longer and healthier
Whew! Praise God, you just saved me from stripping my relaxed hair! I've been preparing to do an ACV rinse. Your momma's comment makes great sense!
This is just one of those mishaps with any hair journey relaxed or natural . I had dandruff for years and like you I had it as a child so not relaxer related . I started using Aveda damage remedy shampoo ( although my hair isn't damaged) it cleared up my dandruff and is now a shampoo I use all the time because it's ingredients is naturally derived. Keep trimming every 6-8 weeks until all the damage of the treatment is gone. Home treatments can be hit and miss and with relaxed hair it can be risky . The low bun is a great protective style 👌🏾 I love your videos!
Forget any naysayers sista! you put alot of helpful detail into your vids without alot of "talking about nothing" that I see in most haircare vids...so love these and keep them coming! Ive subscribed!
Tea Kea the naysayers were never thought about to even be forgotten🙊🤷🏾♀️. Thank you. Im glad to have you here. Welcome. I hope you enjoy more videos 💖
You are soo beautiful!! And thank you sis ! I appreciate you sharing this experience with us hopefully you do stay relaxed our relaxed community is getting a bit smaller 😅 but relaxed hair can indeed be healthy. We need your inspiration!! Thank you so much 😊💕💞
That little singing part u did.... yessss i liked it
and you can sing. girl you truly blessed
Thanks for the realness! We as girls go through it. Very beautiful woman.
I would have cry 😭 my eyes out . New journey
Ms. Destiny you sing beautifully! #SLAYGIRLSLAY!!!!
Thank you for sharing this. I agree that you should embrace it. Your hair looks great and healthy.
Yea I've only done the vinegar rinse on dreads...I'd be to scared to do it on my natural...can't wait for ur hair videos on ur new hair!!
your still beautiful, thank you for the realness and education on hair. im tryn to get my hair nice and bouncy but it always seem so limp.
Glad i found your channel i went through some stuff with my hair back in high school and ended up having to cut it all off and then i had an under cut and then a shaved the side of my hair so my hairs been though a lot lol but im in the process of growing it out and i was thinking about sharing my hair journy on my channel as well. im also relaxed so its nice to watch someone whos going through the same process and to get ideas from
Omg. I watching this 1-8-19 at 11:35 am and this song just popped up on Pandora right when you started singing. So cool.
Go to your dermatologist. You may not even have dandruff it may a simple treatable scalp condition. I thought my sister had dandruff for years since she was a kid and it was a different scalp condition that was cleared up after a couple of weeks of some prescription shampoo.
Sorry about your set back :( I'm sure your hair will bounce back and be thicker and longer than ever girl!!! :)
I went thru a similar situation and your story while it maybe frustrating at times is a process to move forward and on to greater things. No acv wash formed against you shall stop your shine. Glow on girl!
Im sorry this happened....Continue to remain positive. It will grow back stronger and better.
So prettyyy! Nice video
It's OK Destiny! Setbacks happen. Your hair will bounce back and become longer and stronger. But, try to do more protective styles to give your hair a break. Great video. BTW, Congrats on reaching 70k🎉🎉🎉
Hey destiny I am currently experiencing the same issues like you, but trying to get back to my regular routine, I also had dandruff even before my hair was relaxed , what I found worked for me was not relaxing my hair much and also I used an Anti Dandruff hair and scalp treatment called "Stop It"... it has been a life saver for me , I apply it every two days in my hair and I haven't seen a spec of dandruff in my hair after keeping up with the routine, and girl do whatever works for you and honestly I like my hair being relaxed , I'm not into this "natural hair movement", it's what you feel comfortable with and I love taking care of my relaxed hair, so keep up the great work and Congrats on 70,000 subscribers.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. Trust me, I know the feeling. I'm natural but tend to rock weaves, because I love color (blonde). Earlier this year I figured since I'm natural I could use Dark & Lovely hair color. Although I was wearing my natural hair out at the time, the color broke my hair. I think it was a combination of the color plus flat ironing. So I went back to weaves to keep my hands out of it. You're not alone. Hang in there and keep taking care of your hair and I'm sure it'll grow out. You're beautiful and your hair is beautiful. I love your channel.
Congratulations on 70,000 subies! I love your YT and IG. I'm not relaxed, but I love your styles and tips from your beauty regimens. Your feathering technique was my birthday/Christmas style last year when I flat ironed for the first time. Girl it was in point! Regarding your breakage...I'm not really sure if my tip will work for you since it looks like you still plan to use heat. But for me, when my hair experienced lots of shedding, I created a solution made with aloe vera juice and flaxseed oil. I placed 8 Oz of the juice mixed with about a table spoon of flaxseed oil in a spray bottle and used this weekly as my leave in conditioner prior to doing my bun updos or natural rod sets. The solution immediately stopped my hair from breaking and added lots of thickness. With weekly deep conditions, my hair is now growing. Just thought I'd share what worked for me. BTW your hair is still on fleek!
I just had to point out u have a nice voice, u can sing!😊💯
Oh no Destiny this is so unfortunate! I agree with you in the aspect that some people just have dry scalp. I also had the same issue relaxed and natural. I am relaxed now and have used diluted acv directly on my scalp for my dandruff and actually worked but now you got me scared girl! now that I wash and condition my hair once a week I do find myself with less dandruff. peppermint oil in my my shampoo definitely helps. I wish you luck on this journey. I think you will be fine as long as you give your hair moisture and protect your ends. I too have become bun girl after recovering from a minor setback but my hair is really thriving now
I love how you took this negative and made it a positive! I have to subscribe!
Thank you. Welcome.👋🏽 Glad to have you here 💖
Long or short hair, you still SLAYED, LAYED, AND ROCKED IT.
Ok Destiny..I been watching for a while and I was wondering why your hair was getting shorter and shorter...My Personal Opinon is that you should Leave your hair alone ..stay away from Heat...because along with the ACV rinse you appeared (on camera) to use a lot of heat I have seen you Blow dry then flat iron, Then hot curl, in the same style...My suggestion is to stay away from Direct Heat so much and since you have damage now try wearing protective styles like large box braids, crochets, or braid it up and continue to wear wigs...its getting cold soon so wigs may be a good option especially to hide your dandruff..and if you haven't used Pure tea tree oil. try it and be consistent with using it.. You may not always have to have dandruff or it may not even be dandruff My daughter Poobie scalp was just like that as a child and completely got rid of it by never using only Sulfer 8 products for about 2-3 years straight the whole line and only that and there was this tea tree oil in that line that I think completely cured it and it was really strong but it worked a miracle it didn't hurt her scalp it healed it..anyways hunny I have always watched your videos and I know you'll bounce back once you get a good regimen started you'll be just fine By the way I am on a hair Journey and I am also Texlaxed and learning new things everyday ♡♡♡♡♡ ♡
goldmouth100 Your opinion is so extra. She grew her hair the first time using the same technique. Nobody is asking for all this.
Stephany Lewis AND NOBODY ASKED YOU FOR YOUR OPINION TO ME IF I WANTED TO ADDRESS YOU THEN I WOULD HAVE TAGGED YOU... I AM AWARE THAT SHE GREW HER OWN HAIR.. BECAUSE IT'S ON HER HEAD.. I WAS JUST GIVING ADVICE AND I WAS NOT BEING MEAN AT ALL ..AND I WAS NOT TALKING TO YOU.. I LOVE HER CHANNEL .. I DIDN'T COME TO START JUNK AT ALL .. SO NO NEED FOR YOU TO RESPOND TO ME BECAUSE I DIDN'T ASK YOU SHIT
goldmouth100 Just because it's in all caps doesn't mean it matters more. Female... I addressed you and tagged you. Just like you can state your unneeded low level opinion. I can state mine.
Stephany Lewis glad you do know that I am a female ...but well let me go back to lower case letters for you then... don't come for me if I don't come for you!! .i gave my opinion to (destiny) in hopes that it helps her..i am a youtuber and also a fan of hers and I am also a licensed cosmetologist so low level is not the correct words when you're speaking of me or about me if it's about hair. i learn new things everyday and you can never learn enough and no one will never know it all so it's always good to have someone give you advice wether you take it in or not that's your ultimate decision..if you need someone to talk to you can kindly get on your knees and pray to God because i am not the one...not today or tomorrow..i am done here but you can go ahead continue this unwanted conversation with yourself so if you feel the need to make a comeback consider yourself talking to yourself .. I am better than that and i digress ;-) .. still love me some destiny.. that's my girl all day long
goldmouth100 I sent for you and you attended. And from the look of your essay, I sent you back.🍵