The baby is really an angel!! he said that his friends did not grow their hair to help people in need and made that it made him upset! ?! A true angel!!. Humanity still exists in this world people!
The only problem here is the lack of communication & rude people touching the kid . The kid is really amazing , someone in his age speaking his thoughts clearly & he knows what he wants to do .
MC: “How do you feel when you see friends with short hair?” Hayul: “Upset.” MC: “Why?” Hayul: “Because they cant help those in need.” Hes too precious!🥺💞
I understand the father's concern though. "how is he happy when he doesnt know the things he's missing out on". The counselors still dont help the situation they just side with whoever think its right instead of staying neutral.
I'm oneida and I live on the rez so it's not uncommon to see people with long hair around town. There's a lot of non-natives that have grown their hair out in my state too
@@dadali61 it does have to do with culture though. Where I live hair length doesn't matter despite gender and how old you are. Old or young, people don't care.
@@dadali61 and it's because times are changing that this is a problem. Older people need to be able to adapt just like how younger people need to be understanding about some of the differences that come with generational gaps
this is my favorite episode, the boy is so eloquent, the mother is actually wise and so loving, and the father really is loving in his own way and you can see he really wants to communicate more with her. I really hope they were able to come to a balance in the way they choose to raise their son and their future child.
I loved that ending when they both started crying cus they both realised that they both just want the best for their son because they love him so much and that they forgot to love each other too and realised how pointless all the arguing was and they were obviously both sorry and awww my heart 💀💀💜💜
Lee Zieyra lol sorry 😅😅 someone said something similar to me about a week ago and had this big rant telling me to F off and stuff. I got a bit defensive sorry 🙏🏻😅
I'm Korean and my brother's hair is super long. He's younger than me and it hurts to see people call him a girl and not let him go into men's bathroom. He's only 7 now 😢 He has big eyes, a beautiful face shape and is very thin which is why he's accused. I wish people wouldn't judge based on the looks
Wow, Coyote's greeting to the public is so badass compared to today's idols lol I was shook. And SinJi look absolutely beautiful and youthful still after all those years.....gorgeous.
the mum wishes the best for the child, I’m glad that she’s doing that. For the mum, doing things unconventionally will help hayul be happy. However, the dad also clearly wishes the best for the child, but for him, doing things ordinarily is a better option for hayul to be happy. They parents seem like good people, just tired by the lack of communication. You can tell that the mum also got embarrassed that she didn’t tell her Husband about many things. Communication is really the number one thing in a relationship, I hope both of them, not just the dad, open up to each other and are able to negotiate with other another, and let hayul truly explores a variety of things to see what really makes him happy. Wishing them well
My thoughts on this: 1. The mother needs to stop raising the son on her own and stop avoiding fights with her husbands. He's the father all, they're married (I assume) and it's his son, he deserves having a say when it comes to his son too. I'm not just talking about the hair, but the way the son is being raised. 2. Having long hair isn't a problem, the main problem here is how the son is raised completely on her beliefs. I still think she's a great mom, but she needs to learn to face consequences more. 3. Koreans seem to have a problem with old perverts and little boys genitals... disgusting and very outdated.
I completely agree with this it was infuriating to see how one sided the parenting was. And yes it's great that she wants to do what's best for her son but his father has to also be a part of it and they have to instill love and respect for both parents not only one.
i agree about needing to parent together, but the dad seems to be pretty un-involved anyway, like if he noticed his sons hair was getting longer over 4 months, why did he not just go get it cut then, does he just expect his wife to do it?? and when the family members were rude to his son, why scream at his wife about it, who doesn't defend their son...? and why did no conversation about donating his hair take place between the son and dad over such a long period of time, at his age if something (often anything) happens, at school, with an imaginary friend, kids normally don't stop talking about it and will tell you about it multiple times. The wife seems to do the most work/school/learning with the son, but then the dad gets upset when the son relies on the mum more?? the dad needs to take more time to learn about his own kid and the mother needs to talk more to her husband about what she is doing. but if they watch documentaries together and the son asked how he could help and they came up with the hair thing, this shouldn't be a problem, ever I know that a lot of Koreans can have a very traditional view on raising their kids, and the main problem i see (the husband is doing it) is that kids are treated like property, even how they talk about the kid in front of him, instead of saying his name they say 'your' son and 'my' son, also, group mentality which is common in Korea, means that if a few people tell you something is weird then it is and you should change it or if everyone is doing it you should too (the father is too worried about what other think than what his own son thinks), but now with a more modern/younger generation coming through a lot of this is being disregarded. The dads seems to be a traditional person and the mother more open, don't get me wrong both are at fault for the lack of communication, but i think the father needs to grow up and listen to his wife more (if that kid is how he turned out being raised with more of the mothers values, then i think she is doing right, but i think she still needs to take a couple steps back from the son)...
She honestly seems like a great mother. My only concern is her communication skills with her husband (although he seems really stubborn). His hair isn't the problem but the arguing and people touching their son inappropriately is.
They’re such a soft-hearted family. The father is timid and I think because of the trauma that his wife experienced during her pregnancy, he doesn’t want to push her or argue with her so he just lets her do as she wishes. She’s raising her child much in the same way I want to raise my future child/children but she must communicate with her husband. Communication is the problem here not Hayul’s long hair. Like the hosts said “if you raise a child with happy parents, they’ll grow up happy”. Hayul is just the cutest! He’s so adorable and well spoken, I doubt he’ll have any issues with speaking up for himself when he’s older so the dad doesn’t have to worry. What he needs to do is start checking people who look at his son weird or want to touch his privates...this is an aspect of Korean culture I completely do not understand.
He only thought about the trauma after it was brought up on the show. Before, it seemed like he just wanted the wife to take care of everything *and* do what he and relatives wanted. Can't have your cake and gobble it up too, buddy.
"We should leave him alone. He's just a little kiddo. Everyone shouldn't be pointing finger at him just because his hair is long. Look how adorable he is. Let's just let him keep his long hair" What a beautiful scenery, where everyone minds their own business. Now before you all point fingers at me, I have nothing against this child. It's only right that people leave him and his long hair alone. No matter his hair is long or short or curly, it's nobody's business. Also, it's great and impressive of him to grow his hair to help others. He's been raised well. Now hear me out, a long time ago, I once watched a concern on this program, a mother was worried about her adult son's long hair, saying he should have it cut and everyone in the studio agreed. "His long hair doesn't look pretty on him. He looks like a f---ing gangster. Why doesn't he have it cut?" ^ This is not what they actually said. I just interpret their reaction and conclude the situation. Double standard much? Since when did you lose your right to grow your hair if you become a grown ass adult? Why couldn't you just leave this man alone? Or were you being hard on him because he's a rough-looking adult compared to a cute little kiddo? Apparently, the man isn't growing his hair to help people, so he lost the right to do whatever he wants with his hair I swear... typical South Korea, you really can't get away with anything if you aren't "beautiful"
I get the feeling that it was more of the image he looked and how his mom was embarrassed by it It's a bit weird, but the audience here in this video found the boy in having a justified reason for not cutting his hair: helping others. But as for the other case, the son was more or less unemployed, lacking in making his own decisions (although, it's really his moms fault for that) and thus, he was treated more harshly for being seen as a "whiny son who didnt want to cut his hair" And to people, I'm assuming they also judged him for how unkempt his hair was, compared to the boy here, where it "looks" healthy and even "clean" Just depends on the perspective, and clearly, many Koreans are either far right or left when it comes to issues like this
Gabrielle if you did your research well then you will know what I mean stupid! Also, I have many Korean friends and they told me, their age is 1 year difference.
Two years will be added if he was born on december 31, because he is one when he is born and the new year adds another year 🥰 we don’t know tho if he was born on dec 31.
6:36 as soon as the mother introduce herself..i think i can see that the father getting flustered by his wife cuteness by looking the way he touch his heart 😊🌈
They want to grow hair for some deed and here parents are fighting among them ,I wish his mother talk with his father and decide what to do!! Madam please change your attitude towards your husband!!wish you luck
suzan xavier yea she should communicate with her husband and he doesn’t seem to be too unreasonable. I think both of them should re-evaluate how they communicate and decide when it comes to their kid
The problem here isn’t the mother and son, because they’re doing this for a good cause, but rather the people staring in the first place, like mind your own business jesus christ
Exactlyyyyyy the mother is allowing the kid to make his own choices and he’s trying to help people and isn’t causing harm therefore she’s allowing him to do it so the little boy shouldn’t have to cut his hair which is something he wanted to do because people don’t know how to show respect and not make rude comments
This kid is polite and smart, and he knows he's doing this for a good reason, Korean society really needs to change I guess that's a matter of time, here in Perú if your boy has long hair people just don't care or at least they talk about it but not in front of the kid ya know Ps I think the mom is doing a great job raising that child he's so smart
I'm just reminded of the episode about that one 30 year old man who had long hair and his mum came because she thought it was a major concern. She literally stopped talking to him just because she felt embarrassed and angry at how long his hair was. And honestly he didn't even look that bad. She was so much more concerned about his long hair than about the fact that he was still unemployed and unmarried. One of the idols that was there gave the shittiest and dumbest reason for him to cut his hair, it made me so mad and confused as to how she could even come up with such a dumb reason like that. In the end the hosts just convinced the guy to cut his hair, despite him trying to tell them that it was a part of who he was and that the reason he started in the first place was to protest against the rules in his old workplace that said men were not allowed to have long hair. That episode made me so mad and this in addition to that just shows how narrow-minded Korea still is, despite it having improved in some aspects,
I remember that. That bitch nearly disowned her son and said she regretted giving birth to him FOR HIS FREAKIN HAIR!! I felt like jumping into the screen and punching her! Hell, the dude is older than me, yet I would've been willing to adopt such a sweet, helpful son! KUDOS TO THIS MOTHER FOR ENCOURAGING HER SON TO THINK FOR HIMSELF! This will carry him so far in life!! He's so lucky to have such supportive parents! T_T
@@samhayet4286 Yes ugh. She acted like his whole personality turned bad just because he grew out his hair but he really was just the same sweet son who was still willing to go shopping with his mum and help her out a lot. I'm also happy with the way the mother in this episode, she just needs to communicate more with her husband lol.
@@misakik6608 Yeah. I think they'll be fine. If her husband is yelling at her for what the relatives tell him I can understand not wanting to talk to him Seems like the husband trusts his wife's judgement now is willing to listen. She seems like a fantastic mom! This is how "tiger" moms should be (not like that dreadful Amy Chua). Wish I had a parent like that! I hope that she's willing to meet her husband halfway since he's changed his POV.
She's a good mom. She ask her son his opinions and respect it. Yul is one lucky boy to be raise by such amazing mother. You can see he talk politely and doesn't make a fuss during recording. He can decide what he likes or not and why. It means his mom works hard to teach and guide her child to be able to do that in a young age.
He’s such a angel...I realize I’m making wrong choice for my baby brother who have long hair on back-side. I kept telling my parent to cut my baby brother’s hair because people saying he looking like a cute doll that would taken. My baby brother may be so spoiled by my parent but at someway he’s sweet and comfort us when we cries... All I hope is the little boy can help people and keep his path peace without getting cruel judgement. ❤️
i have 4 kids.. 3 of them donate their hair 4 times already(since their hair grow so quickly) that kid dad should be proud.. beside d kid knows it will be for a good cause... so proud fr d mother and kid👏👏👏👏
Aweee .... such a beautiful little one, parents are so nice it’s just that they don’t communicate.... husband seems nice and mom is too, over all they are beautiful little family!
"Lack of communication" is the main reason. It could not be denied that the mother is doing a really good job in raising her child to be a kind people who is willing to help people in need although many people complain that she brainwashed her child. I agree that it's brainwashing, yet it's how it works for kids to grow up! Children are fast learners and they learn from what they see and hear. If the purpose is to grow a kind kid, I don't see any harms of it. If you said it limits the kid's self-thinking ability, I don't think so because while he grows older, he is going to school and meet many different types of people, at this moment only is the time for this kid to develop more and more his self-thinking ability. Another thing which the mother does well is, she is also bringing her kid to join all of the classes which allow the kid to socialize with other people at his age while she is doing home schooling. This proves that she is making a good effort in balancing the disadvantage of homeschooling. For the father, while he complains about his son was having long hairs before summer and he kept asking his wife to get the son a hair cut. I wonder “you had so many months to bring your son to have a hair cut by yourself, why didn't you do so???” don't say that you work and earn money, so you have no time to bring your kid to have hair cut. How about weekends? Instead of asking your wife for not taking the son to hair cut for months, you could actually bring your son to hair cut by yourself, do you know? It could be seen at the end that both of the parents love their son very much. Yet the father should try to participate more in raising the child (e.g. take the son to hair cut by yourself instead of spending months to ask you wife doing it) and also have more discussions with wife regarding child raising issue then your ideas or your preferred ways to raise your son could be applied in future to. If you don't communicate with your wife, of course your wife would assume that you have no opinion and then she raises the kid in her own way. Communication is the best way to find a balance between father's and mother's ways in raising a child. You should not complain about your wife's way of raising child if it's yourself who doesn't want to put efforts in participating the process.
weird this is such issue in south korea when all of their historic drama usually have long hair to begin with. long hair is common and it's not wrong, whether western or asian what's so weird bout it?
people need to stop with the "men should have short hair, girls should have long hair" tradition- it's already 2019, let people do whatever they want to do. honestly tho, it's really sad to see how constricting it is in south korea where people cannot even act on their own personal freedoms without being judged, despite being a first world country.
What's interesting is that it was the norm for everyone to have long, cascading hair in ancient/old Korea! Actors will get wigs or extensions for historical dramas and everyone swoons over the main character but outside of television it doesn't seem acceptable in South Korea anymore for some reason :/ I wonder when the change happened and if it was from Western influence back in the day?
okay so i think the mom should talk to the dad but like the dad is an average traditional korean man so i get why she hides things from him. it seems both parents have good intentions just different ways to raise a child. they need to find a middle ground. the only thing i'd criticize the dad for would be that he expects his son to cut his hair instead of telling others to stop being perverts (he should be defending his son who is a victim) or thinking that long hair might make him question his gender (or sexuality) bc i dont think theres really a correlation. other than that, i wish the best for them. also a comment id like to add is that the son is compassionate and well-spoken bc of his mother's education:)
The kid is such a gem! Even adults are afraid to be different at times, and scramble to the marjority. But look at Hayul, he is not afraid to stand out from the rest and is always ready to stand firm on his ground. In fact, he doesnt feel inferior at all, he feels sad for the others not being able to contribute more to the world instead,
Oh my God I always click on Hello Counselor videos expecting to end up frustrated and angry but this made me so happy and soft what the hell. They're so precious.
This is what’s wrong about the korean’s society, they tend to disregard diversity and demand people to follow the norms and are way too traditional, I mean I know its a part of them but can’t they just really, at the very least, learn to respect the decision of an individual and stop meddling with their lives? Like why would you even have to touch someone else’s private part just to satisfy your own curiosity and ignorance? And this little kid is really such an angel. Its very rare to see kids like him specially in the current generation. I’m so proud of him. He really is a treasure. Also, I think both of his parents are a really good people, its just that they have been fighting that it ended up hurting one another and decided to just make decisions without asking the other to avoid it, which is nice if its a way for their kid to not see them fighting, but also has a negative effect which separates the mon and dad, they both have a point and they have to come up with a better idea to be able to meet in the middle. I love his mom but maybe she could at least, step down a little and realize that the dad is also a part of their kids lot and his opinion also matters.
Both the parents are good hearted .....I got emotional when they cried together ....I wish I had such parent...rather ...such a father. Ohgod I'm literally sobbing rn !! They held back hurting each other .. Bless you both mom and dad of hayul !!
The mother said younger people are completely fine with it. It's some older people who keep teasing the boy or stealing glances when he's at a male's bathroom. Referring to a whole country for this matter is what's weird.
@@Youngnrrwhtjwtjetk Nope, I'm from an entirely different country (Portugal) and older men here, even older women, still find it quite weird whenever they see a man/boy with long hair, and Portugal is a country that keeps up with times. They're just not vocal about it because it's a different culture. I'm 28 years old and people back then thought the same, even I did while growing up, but I just kept up with the times and don't mind. There are male Korean idols with longer hair than usual and people like it. Male idols with a mullet is actually trending in Korea right now, actually. It's just older people and their old views of the world as per usual, which manifest in various forms around the world.
@@Pumpkin0_0 korea is definitely behind in terms of accepting people who look different from the standard of "normal." even my Korean friends and many Koreans agree
@@theashmaster1000 I know. I'm talking about this case. The mother said young people were fine with it, but the older people were the ones who teased the boy. It's not as if everyone who looked at the boy did the same thing, so judging a whole country based on this case still doesn't make sense. What does that make of the people who are fine with boys/guys with long hair? Generalizing a country isn't smart.
Awwww, my heart swells of warmth watching this, it's obvious they love each other so much, but the lack of communication drove them apart, they could only see the difference between how each want to raise their son, and forgot about their love in the process. I am so happy to see they realize how much they love each other through this, I started crying when the wife teared up, and smiling while crying when the husband cried as well. Oh and their son though, such a sweet little angel. I wish them eternal happiness, and may they continue to build their family with love and care. God bless them.
Not only is he more mature than his father, he's more mature than every single person to ever appear on this show. A 6 year old child has compassion and will to help others in need but instead, he gets sexually and verbally abused. Except for his loving mother, entire society should be ashamed of themselves.
I’m sorry but if I had been the father I think I would go crazy. She’s not even listening or trying to adapt for what he wants. It’s not just HER child it’s theirs.
The dad is being dumb. Either way, his reasons for not wanting his son’s hair is so stupid. “Ion wanna him to be confused about his identity.” He’s 6. He’ll figure out who he is just fine. What he needs to worry about is telling his nosy ass family members to mind their business and the strange pedophiles touching his son. Not his wife.
yoongi's hoe I agree that some of the reasons for cutting the hair is bad, and I’m not saying that the mother is totally in the wrong, but the dad has more than one reason, he said that random men are looking at his son’s private parts to check if it’s a son when they’re at public bathrooms etc. The son also said it himself, that he doesn’t like it when grown up women touch his PeePee to check on him. I understand that the mother tries to make his son fight for what he means is right and that’s a good thing, but she is totally ignoring the fathers opinion, which isn’t good.
Kristiane grr That’s what I said. Something is wrong with those men/women who are touching and watching the son that’s not the mom’s fault. Those adults need to be reported and imprisoned for touching a kid because at the end of the day he’s a kid. They have to understand boundaries. Nothing is wrong with the mom growing her son’s hair. I agree, she should include the dad into more decision making but the dad is worrying about trivial things. He’s paranoid that his son isn’t really happy in life. It doesn’t take much to make a toddler happy. All they need is happy parents and they’re happy too.
yoongi's hoe I agree almost completely, I also think that the mother is being way too overprotective over the child. She won’t let him go out of the house unless she is coming with him, she suddenly and randomly goes on trips without telling the dad. It’s good that she wants her child to be healthy and have a good childhood but not letting him go to normal kindergarten (or school or what it was he was supposed to go to) and not letting him eat out with other friends is too much. Especially if his father wanted the son to do all of that. I think the dad is bad with all of his unnecessary worrying and irrational thinking but I think the mother is even worse in some aspects.
Kristiane grr homeschool is totally fine tho? He is being educated at home and the kid is also getting vital commutative skills by interacting with people he meets at his other activities like swimming lessons. So what’s the issue? Nothing is wrong with what she is doing. She allows her son individuality and independence but he’s 6. He can’t get that much freedom. She’s doing enough. The kid’s hair will cut eventually and life would be fine.
My son had very long hair by his own choice as a child and was often mistaken for a girl. It annoyed him for a bit but he got used to it. He'd just roll his eyes and say "I'm a boy" and walk away lol. I told him that it's nothing to be ashamed of. If he wants his hair long then he will have it long and never mind what all the busybodies have to say about it. At one point it got him bullied at school and he came home and asked for a hair cut. I told him to wait and think about it until the weekend and if he still wanted it we would go to the salon to cut it. He DID get it cut, but he hated it short and ended up growing it back out again lol. He has hair to the middle of his back until recently. He had to cut it because it was damaged at the bottom but he is busily growing it back out again lol. He's in his 20's now so he doesn't get all the looks he used to and is rarely mistaken for a girl any more. In fact the girls seem to follow him around alot...I feel like I should be worried about THAT more lol.
She needs to have more communication with her husband AND she needs to have respect for him too! Like he just ain't your child, ugh! She's annoying.. Plus the older generation needs to move on with the times and need to stop touching strangers. I get you're curious, but that doesn't give you the right to be touching whoever you want's body. Idk what Korean laws are like, but that's harassment and maybe even sexual harassment >___
@@Youngnrrwhtjwtjetk Unless you take other routs like artificial insemination, you don't make a baby alone. Making a baby and then behaving as if you're the only parent isn't healthy for the child. Carrying it yourself is no excuse. It's not men's fault they can't have babies. Any child should feel a balance in the relationship, not to be treated like their parents are using him/her for some sort of competition.
If a stranger wants to touch my kid's private area, i would just punch them That's inapropriate af But i wish the best for this family 👍 He's so pure and mature for his age! 😍
My tears dropped when he said he's upset with friends who can't help others. I'm not lying that my tears began to drop :" How is it possible for a kid like him say such a deep words. I hope this kid will keep grow as real gentleman in the future.
Why should the father yell at the mother, if their son is making a decision at such a young and impressionable age that the son shouldn't do that. The son may grow up thinking that donating is something to not be done. His mother is encouraging his good will and decision making skills by allowing him to grow his hair for charity. The son is obviously mature, and smart and if encouraged can grow up with a good mindset.
I believe the father was mad at the mother for allowing their son to make such decisions at such early age without being completely aware of the consequences. He even mentioned how it was uncomfortable having people staring at the boy, especially during the bathroom incidents. Such things could possibly have a mental impact on their child thus causing problems for the child's future. I think that was the reason the father lost it and yelled at the mother, it wasn't really with bad intentions, but it was also partly her fault for not discussing it with him in first place.
Such a loving soft hearted family. Lack of comunication is a problem for sure but there is so much love and good will there. I hope this helped them get closer. When the parents started crying i got very teary eyed too.
That kid can empathize with other conditions and asking what he could do to help. It wasn't happen just like that his mother definitely is a huge influence. Yul Mom you are a great mom! To be able to help preserve and grow your child innocent thinking and his care for others is a hard work.
Am I the online thinking the mom is low-key brainwashing the son into her way of thinking? Granted they are mostly things that are good for him and for others but she's literally cut out all possible opportunity to explore new things she doesn't want him too and cut dad out of the picture and just lives off his money. He's spending every single day taking in her mentality to the point where he's taking his mom's side against the dad in things he knows nothing about.
all parental decisions are brainwashing. you could argue that parents making their kids go to public school is brainwashing to accept that way of learning. going to church is brainwashing. keeping kids healthy is brainwashing. if we just let kids do whatever they wanted then they'd stay at home, watch tv, and eat ice cream for every meal. parents just have to do what they think will produce the best adult and hope it works. also, the issue with the husband is that no doubt apart from playing with and discipline, he absolutely does not help raise his child in any capacity (as you can tell he's traditional). these sorts of men leave everything to do with the child to the mother but expect to be in charge of decisions relating to them. they act like they own the child. we see this so much on HC. men have nothing to do with their kids but make every decision in regards to their raising.
It takes a lot for a parent to homeschool the child. I'm in early childhood industry and I've seen teachers who wasn't passionate and wasted their time in school just to get a paycheck month after month. If the parent is confident in raising the child in her own education system, especially in early years, why not? The mom has to prep everything to raise the child well. I'm sure she has done alot of homework to support her child, seeing the result. And the son is going to mainstream school soon. I don't see a problem if homeschool means.... the child is being taught on how to respect others, love himself, love others, be good and kind and not lose himself, able to speak eloquently and has unique experiences by daily exposure by traveling and see the real world, I really wonder, why not? But of course, she could have communicated with the husband better. Not everyone has the ability and capacity to homeschool. It requires ALOT of work! Imagine not only you are the mom, you are the Social studies,science, language, art, math, geography, culinary, music, sports teacher. Not only that, you also spend time teaching the child the right value, good character, social and self management skills in life. I have seen parents throwing ipad to kids when they are with them. Wasting the child's precious early years. Education from my point of view is to raise up children who can contribute positively to the society in their own ways. Doing extraordinary is a bonus. At least not commit crime and harm the society. Family values are much more important and should be instilled by the family. You don't pin all the hope on teachers on teaching your child on self-management or social awareness. Honestly, when the teacher see the kids' behaviour, we asks, how did the parents raise them. It's just like some parents see the teachers and ask, "how did you teach my child". *PARENTING* is meant for parents. Please be responsible for your child. The teachers can only do so much. BTW, if the parent can provide more meaningful experiences for the child, by all means. See? Some schools due to budgets etc could only afford to bring the kids out for excursion every 2months. 6 times a year. That's really not enough. If the mom could support the child daily in various experiences, really, why not??? How I wish that more kids can spend more time with the parents! Some are trapped in kindergarten for 10 hours. Which is better? I feel so sad for some kids in school. Find out more about homeschooling before passing judgement. If an adult have the capacity and ability to provide a positive homeschooling experience, please do so. (usually a lot more hard work, effort, energy and $$$)
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The baby is really an angel!! he said that his friends did not grow their hair to help people in need and made that it made him upset! ?! A true angel!!. Humanity still exists in this world people!
Shruti Guna ikr
Ik but, why didn't they hide his hair with a beanie or a hat?
Ugly potato no they didn’t they out it in a ponytail
Let her donate her hair.
Yeah, it made me tear up. He is truly an angel😘
The only problem here is the lack of communication & rude people touching the kid .
The kid is really amazing , someone in his age speaking his thoughts clearly & he knows what he wants to do .
No comments?
MC: “How do you feel when you see friends with short hair?”
Hayul: “Upset.”
MC: “Why?”
Hayul: “Because they cant help those in need.”
Hes too precious!🥺💞
that was too cute of him.
Unicorn Paradise he should be protected at any cost 😭😭
Me too kid me to
@@wiupset6696 aww cutie cuchie coo~~
Their major issue is definitely the lack of communication.
I understand the father's concern though. "how is he happy when he doesnt know the things he's missing out on". The counselors still dont help the situation they just side with whoever think its right instead of staying neutral.
jak3fromstatefarm Yeah, I honestly understand both sides. They just need to work on their communication better.
Syuhadah Anuar yea
There’s nothing wrong with boys having long hair, all the men in my family have super long hair (native Americans lol)
Its actual really Petty on woman and men
I'm oneida and I live on the rez so it's not uncommon to see people with long hair around town. There's a lot of non-natives that have grown their hair out in my state too
@@dadali61 it does have to do with culture though. Where I live hair length doesn't matter despite gender and how old you are. Old or young, people don't care.
@@dadali61 and it's because times are changing that this is a problem. Older people need to be able to adapt just like how younger people need to be understanding about some of the differences that come with generational gaps
i work in a Native American school and see young boys with long hair and 1 teacher with long hair ... their hairs are so pretty =) ...
this is my favorite episode, the boy is so eloquent, the mother is actually wise and so loving, and the father really is loving in his own way and you can see he really wants to communicate more with her. I really hope they were able to come to a balance in the way they choose to raise their son and their future child.
It's become my favourite too
TheDorkyDorcas yeas
blue sky him*
mines too you can tell both of the parents really wanted to try and fix what was wrong instead of ignoring it and thinking they’re both right
@@maryam101kikiki r
I loved that ending when they both started crying cus they both realised that they both just want the best for their son because they love him so much and that they forgot to love each other too and realised how pointless all the arguing was and they were obviously both sorry and awww my heart 💀💀💜💜
Yeahhhhh....
Lee Zieyra what, you don’t agree? So they don’t love each other then?
@@lucythomas3320 what??....i agree with u tho😅
Lee Zieyra lol sorry 😅😅 someone said something similar to me about a week ago and had this big rant telling me to F off and stuff. I got a bit defensive sorry 🙏🏻😅
@@lucythomas3320 hehehehe.. it's okay...
Have you seen little Gun Hoo he's so cute with long hair😶
OMG YES
Exactly what I was supposed to mention 😊
Army Animal Nerd MyDays IKR
Yeah but the difference is that people actually know Gunhoo. No one knows that little boy.
@@shiloh8734 we know him now and he's cute, I wished my grandma would let my little brother grow his hair out a little 😅
That child is a true angel, he's so intelligent and well mannered. We need more people like him in this world.
We don't need more people like him in the world. We need to become like him in this world.
I'm Korean and my brother's hair is super long. He's younger than me and it hurts to see people call him a girl and not let him go into men's bathroom. He's only 7 now 😢 He has big eyes, a beautiful face shape and is very thin which is why he's accused. I wish people wouldn't judge based on the looks
when people do That
CALL THEM OUT
@Mitch 1066 fr
How is he doing right now?
Youngja: ''Let's make her cry more. Tell her you love her!''
Bahahaha she is the best
I remember in TROS that Haru had short hair and everyone thought she was a boy . it's 2019 come on anyone can have short hair ,long hair , medium
IloveBloo orellana Yes, I was thinking about Siha when watching this.
*UwU* who is ur profile pic 😖😇😘
Haha now millions of people went bald :)
i almost cried when he said “im upset because other friends can’t help those in need.” HE IS SO PRECIOUS PLEASE LEMME PROTECT HIM AT ALL COST
13:52 A boy growing long hair won't make him confused about his identity lol. It doesn't work that way sir
koreans right? huuur
Ikr that was so dumb
i dont think he meant the hair but the comments were what would confuse him
FlamingGhost no I’m pretty sure he didn’t mean the hair. It’s probably from all the com ents that everyone else says
i don't think he meant the hair he meant the comments ppl would make
Wow, Coyote's greeting to the public is so badass compared to today's idols lol I was shook.
And SinJi look absolutely beautiful and youthful still after all those years.....gorgeous.
the mum wishes the best for the child, I’m glad that she’s doing that. For the mum, doing things unconventionally will help hayul be happy. However, the dad also clearly wishes the best for the child, but for him, doing things ordinarily is a better option for hayul to be happy.
They parents seem like good people, just tired by the lack of communication. You can tell that the mum also got embarrassed that she didn’t tell her Husband about many things. Communication is really the number one thing in a relationship, I hope both of them, not just the dad, open up to each other and are able to negotiate with other another, and let hayul truly explores a variety of things to see what really makes him happy. Wishing them well
My thoughts on this:
1. The mother needs to stop raising the son on her own and stop avoiding fights with her husbands. He's the father all, they're married (I assume) and it's his son, he deserves having a say when it comes to his son too. I'm not just talking about the hair, but the way the son is being raised.
2. Having long hair isn't a problem, the main problem here is how the son is raised completely on her beliefs. I still think she's a great mom, but she needs to learn to face consequences more.
3. Koreans seem to have a problem with old perverts and little boys genitals... disgusting and very outdated.
I completely agree with this it was infuriating to see how one sided the parenting was.
And yes it's great that she wants to do what's best for her son but his father has to also be a part of it and they have to instill love and respect for both parents not only one.
Totally agree!
i agree about needing to parent together, but the dad seems to be pretty un-involved anyway, like if he noticed his sons hair was getting longer over 4 months, why did he not just go get it cut then, does he just expect his wife to do it?? and when the family members were rude to his son, why scream at his wife about it, who doesn't defend their son...? and why did no conversation about donating his hair take place between the son and dad over such a long period of time, at his age if something (often anything) happens, at school, with an imaginary friend, kids normally don't stop talking about it and will tell you about it multiple times. The wife seems to do the most work/school/learning with the son, but then the dad gets upset when the son relies on the mum more?? the dad needs to take more time to learn about his own kid and the mother needs to talk more to her husband about what she is doing. but if they watch documentaries together and the son asked how he could help and they came up with the hair thing, this shouldn't be a problem, ever
I know that a lot of Koreans can have a very traditional view on raising their kids, and the main problem i see (the husband is doing it) is that kids are treated like property, even how they talk about the kid in front of him, instead of saying his name they say 'your' son and 'my' son, also, group mentality which is common in Korea, means that if a few people tell you something is weird then it is and you should change it or if everyone is doing it you should too (the father is too worried about what other think than what his own son thinks), but now with a more modern/younger generation coming through a lot of this is being disregarded. The dads seems to be a traditional person and the mother more open, don't get me wrong both are at fault for the lack of communication, but i think the father needs to grow up and listen to his wife more (if that kid is how he turned out being raised with more of the mothers values, then i think she is doing right, but i think she still needs to take a couple steps back from the son)...
Agree with you..
나야나사야나 I think it’s just in Texas cause kids literally don’t have a say if they want there hair cut or not until maybe teenage years
Am i the only one that tears up every time this precious kid says something😅💜
Risha Talokder me too 😭😅
She honestly seems like a great mother. My only concern is her communication skills with her husband (although he seems really stubborn). His hair isn't the problem but the arguing and people touching their son inappropriately is.
They’re such a soft-hearted family. The father is timid and I think because of the trauma that his wife experienced during her pregnancy, he doesn’t want to push her or argue with her so he just lets her do as she wishes. She’s raising her child much in the same way I want to raise my future child/children but she must communicate with her husband. Communication is the problem here not Hayul’s long hair. Like the hosts said “if you raise a child with happy parents, they’ll grow up happy”. Hayul is just the cutest! He’s so adorable and well spoken, I doubt he’ll have any issues with speaking up for himself when he’s older so the dad doesn’t have to worry. What he needs to do is start checking people who look at his son weird or want to touch his privates...this is an aspect of Korean culture I completely do not understand.
He only thought about the trauma after it was brought up on the show. Before, it seemed like he just wanted the wife to take care of everything *and* do what he and relatives wanted. Can't have your cake and gobble it up too, buddy.
"We should leave him alone. He's just a little kiddo. Everyone shouldn't be pointing finger at him just because his hair is long. Look how adorable he is. Let's just let him keep his long hair"
What a beautiful scenery, where everyone minds their own business.
Now before you all point fingers at me, I have nothing against this child. It's only right that people leave him and his long hair alone. No matter his hair is long or short or curly, it's nobody's business.
Also, it's great and impressive of him to grow his hair to help others. He's been raised well.
Now hear me out, a long time ago, I once watched a concern on this program, a mother was worried about her adult son's long hair, saying he should have it cut and everyone in the studio agreed.
"His long hair doesn't look pretty on him. He looks like a f---ing gangster. Why doesn't he have it cut?"
^ This is not what they actually said. I just interpret their reaction and conclude the situation.
Double standard much? Since when did you lose your right to grow your hair if you become a grown ass adult? Why couldn't you just leave this man alone? Or were you being hard on him because he's a rough-looking adult compared to a cute little kiddo?
Apparently, the man isn't growing his hair to help people, so he lost the right to do whatever he wants with his hair
I swear... typical South Korea, you really can't get away with anything if you aren't "beautiful"
I get the feeling that it was more of the image he looked and how his mom was embarrassed by it
It's a bit weird, but the audience here in this video found the boy in having a justified reason for not cutting his hair: helping others. But as for the other case, the son was more or less unemployed, lacking in making his own decisions (although, it's really his moms fault for that) and thus, he was treated more harshly for being seen as a "whiny son who didnt want to cut his hair"
And to people, I'm assuming they also judged him for how unkempt his hair was, compared to the boy here, where it "looks" healthy and even "clean"
Just depends on the perspective, and clearly, many Koreans are either far right or left when it comes to issues like this
@@rikali3695 I agree with you some Korean are too much
What if their opinions changed in that amount of time?
an angel 😚😚he so calm intelligent considerate baby never seen one like him
FINALLY! AN ORDINARY COUPLE ON THIS SHOW! LMAO
It is a concern if people are assaulting him! Now I have respect for elders, but that doesn’t mean they should just get away with anything!
Hayul is legit the smartest 4 year old (American age; he's 6 in Korean age) ever. I think his mother is raising him to be smart AND considerate.
Chanel Essence If I am not mistaken, he is 5 years old but 6 years old in Korean age....
Hana Jeong from what I know, Korean add 1 year in their age... fyi ur English is perfectly fine 😊
Gabrielle it’s 1 year difference
Gabrielle if you did your research well then you will know what I mean stupid! Also, I have many Korean friends and they told me, their age is 1 year difference.
Two years will be added if he was born on december 31, because he is one when he is born and the new year adds another year 🥰 we don’t know tho if he was born on dec 31.
6:36 as soon as the mother introduce herself..i think i can see that the father getting flustered by his wife cuteness by looking the way he touch his heart 😊🌈
they're so softtt im glad this ended with a nice and good results :') and their son omg i wish soon i can have a child like that too:'))
They want to grow hair for some deed and here parents are fighting among them ,I wish his mother talk with his father and decide what to do!! Madam please change your attitude towards your husband!!wish you luck
suzan xavier yea she should communicate with her husband and he doesn’t seem to be too unreasonable. I think both of them should re-evaluate how they communicate and decide when it comes to their kid
I know this has nothing to do with kpop but I LOVEEE your profile lmao GOT7💚
@@yourdoneyourdone8551 Thank you same as you
The problem here isn’t the mother and son, because they’re doing this for a good cause, but rather the people staring in the first place, like mind your own business jesus christ
Exactlyyyyyy the mother is allowing the kid to make his own choices and he’s trying to help people and isn’t causing harm therefore she’s allowing him to do it so the little boy shouldn’t have to cut his hair which is something he wanted to do because people don’t know how to show respect and not make rude comments
This kid is polite and smart, and he knows he's doing this for a good reason, Korean society really needs to change I guess that's a matter of time, here in Perú if your boy has long hair people just don't care or at least they talk about it but not in front of the kid ya know
Ps I think the mom is doing a great job raising that child he's so smart
He’s the most adorable kid I’ve ever seen lmao I feel like everyone started smiling as soon as he came on the screen
I have never loved a kid this much before. my heartt
I'm just reminded of the episode about that one 30 year old man who had long hair and his mum came because she thought it was a major concern. She literally stopped talking to him just because she felt embarrassed and angry at how long his hair was. And honestly he didn't even look that bad. She was so much more concerned about his long hair than about the fact that he was still unemployed and unmarried. One of the idols that was there gave the shittiest and dumbest reason for him to cut his hair, it made me so mad and confused as to how she could even come up with such a dumb reason like that. In the end the hosts just convinced the guy to cut his hair, despite him trying to tell them that it was a part of who he was and that the reason he started in the first place was to protest against the rules in his old workplace that said men were not allowed to have long hair. That episode made me so mad and this in addition to that just shows how narrow-minded Korea still is, despite it having improved in some aspects,
I remember that. That bitch nearly disowned her son and said she regretted giving birth to him FOR HIS FREAKIN HAIR!! I felt like jumping into the screen and punching her! Hell, the dude is older than me, yet I would've been willing to adopt such a sweet, helpful son!
KUDOS TO THIS MOTHER FOR ENCOURAGING HER SON TO THINK FOR HIMSELF! This will carry him so far in life!! He's so lucky to have such supportive parents! T_T
@@samhayet4286 Yes ugh. She acted like his whole personality turned bad just because he grew out his hair but he really was just the same sweet son who was still willing to go shopping with his mum and help her out a lot. I'm also happy with the way the mother in this episode, she just needs to communicate more with her husband lol.
@@misakik6608 Yeah. I think they'll be fine. If her husband is yelling at her for what the relatives tell him I can understand not wanting to talk to him
Seems like the husband trusts his wife's judgement now is willing to listen.
She seems like a fantastic mom! This is how "tiger" moms should be (not like that dreadful Amy Chua). Wish I had a parent like that! I hope that she's willing to meet her husband halfway since he's changed his POV.
I felt bad that he cut his hair off just to be able to speak to his mom.
@@samhayet4286 she's just brainwashing him to think like a feminist.
She's a good mom. She ask her son his opinions and respect it. Yul is one lucky boy to be raise by such amazing mother. You can see he talk politely and doesn't make a fuss during recording. He can decide what he likes or not and why. It means his mom works hard to teach and guide her child to be able to do that in a young age.
it was so cute that both mom and dad cried at the end! Hayul is powerful! i want a baby like that too!
Cried me a river..parents deserve medals for doing their best to raise that bright little boy who is everything
This little boy is so precious he need to be protected at all costs❤️❤️❤️❤️
He’s such a angel...I realize I’m making wrong choice for my baby brother who have long hair on back-side. I kept telling my parent to cut my baby brother’s hair because people saying he looking like a cute doll that would taken. My baby brother may be so spoiled by my parent but at someway he’s sweet and comfort us when we cries...
All I hope is the little boy can help people and keep his path peace without getting cruel judgement. ❤️
she really is a wonderful mom. she's exactly the kind of mother i would like to be (minus the lack of communication lol)
i have 4 kids.. 3 of them donate their hair 4 times already(since their hair grow so quickly) that kid dad should be proud.. beside d kid knows it will be for a good cause... so proud fr d mother and kid👏👏👏👏
he has a beautiful heart and mind uwu
i hope he never changes !! he could really do even more amazing things in the future
Aweee .... such a beautiful little one, parents are so nice it’s just that they don’t communicate.... husband seems nice and mom is too, over all they are beautiful little family!
"Lack of communication" is the main reason.
It could not be denied that the mother is doing a really good job in raising her child to be a kind people who is willing to help people in need although many people complain that she brainwashed her child. I agree that it's brainwashing, yet it's how it works for kids to grow up! Children are fast learners and they learn from what they see and hear. If the purpose is to grow a kind kid, I don't see any harms of it. If you said it limits the kid's self-thinking ability, I don't think so because while he grows older, he is going to school and meet many different types of people, at this moment only is the time for this kid to develop more and more his self-thinking ability. Another thing which the mother does well is, she is also bringing her kid to join all of the classes which allow the kid to socialize with other people at his age while she is doing home schooling. This proves that she is making a good effort in balancing the disadvantage of homeschooling.
For the father, while he complains about his son was having long hairs before summer and he kept asking his wife to get the son a hair cut. I wonder “you had so many months to bring your son to have a hair cut by yourself, why didn't you do so???” don't say that you work and earn money, so you have no time to bring your kid to have hair cut. How about weekends? Instead of asking your wife for not taking the son to hair cut for months, you could actually bring your son to hair cut by yourself, do you know?
It could be seen at the end that both of the parents love their son very much. Yet the father should try to participate more in raising the child (e.g. take the son to hair cut by yourself instead of spending months to ask you wife doing it) and also have more discussions with wife regarding child raising issue then your ideas or your preferred ways to raise your son could be applied in future to. If you don't communicate with your wife, of course your wife would assume that you have no opinion and then she raises the kid in her own way.
Communication is the best way to find a balance between father's and mother's ways in raising a child. You should not complain about your wife's way of raising child if it's yourself who doesn't want to put efforts in participating the process.
Omg so precious! I wish there were more kids like him in the world.
weird this is such issue in south korea when all of their historic drama usually have long hair to begin with. long hair is common and it's not wrong, whether western or asian what's so weird bout it?
So cute and such a strong lil man. I think his parents raise him very well (specifically his mom), hands down!
When I was six I was still trying to figure out how a juice box works
people need to stop with the "men should have short hair, girls should have long hair" tradition- it's already 2019, let people do whatever they want to do.
honestly tho, it's really sad to see how constricting it is in south korea where people cannot even act on their own personal freedoms without being judged, despite being a first world country.
What's interesting is that it was the norm for everyone to have long, cascading hair in ancient/old Korea! Actors will get wigs or extensions for historical dramas and everyone swoons over the main character but outside of television it doesn't seem acceptable in South Korea anymore for some reason :/ I wonder when the change happened and if it was from Western influence back in the day?
she’s a good mom thats why her son is so mature
I am crying watching this video. The kid being considerate in his way touches my heart deeply.
okay so i think the mom should talk to the dad but like the dad is an average traditional korean man so i get why she hides things from him. it seems both parents have good intentions just different ways to raise a child. they need to find a middle ground. the only thing i'd criticize the dad for would be that he expects his son to cut his hair instead of telling others to stop being perverts (he should be defending his son who is a victim) or thinking that long hair might make him question his gender (or sexuality) bc i dont think theres really a correlation. other than that, i wish the best for them. also a comment id like to add is that the son is compassionate and well-spoken bc of his mother's education:)
What an amazing child. God bless you for your compassion towards others Hayul.
The kid is such a gem! Even adults are afraid to be different at times, and scramble to the marjority. But look at Hayul, he is not afraid to stand out from the rest and is always ready to stand firm on his ground. In fact, he doesnt feel inferior at all, he feels sad for the others not being able to contribute more to the world instead,
This child is so precious I want to cry
This family is so cute and lovely omg ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Oh my God I always click on Hello Counselor videos expecting to end up frustrated and angry but this made me so happy and soft what the hell. They're so precious.
This is what’s wrong about the korean’s society, they tend to disregard diversity and demand people to follow the norms and are way too traditional, I mean I know its a part of them but can’t they just really, at the very least, learn to respect the decision of an individual and stop meddling with their lives? Like why would you even have to touch someone else’s private part just to satisfy your own curiosity and ignorance? And this little kid is really such an angel. Its very rare to see kids like him specially in the current generation. I’m so proud of him. He really is a treasure.
Also, I think both of his parents are a really good people, its just that they have been fighting that it ended up hurting one another and decided to just make decisions without asking the other to avoid it, which is nice if its a way for their kid to not see them fighting, but also has a negative effect which separates the mon and dad, they both have a point and they have to come up with a better idea to be able to meet in the middle. I love his mom but maybe she could at least, step down a little and realize that the dad is also a part of their kids lot and his opinion also matters.
The mom is so sweet and they've raised such a caring and eloquent son
The way the little boy speaks and his cute satoori 😭💕💕
Oh my god this is literally my favorite couple that has ever been on this show. They just have so much love for each other it's so nice and warming.
Oh my goodness. He is so precious.🤗
Both the parents are good hearted .....I got emotional when they cried together ....I wish I had such parent...rather ...such a father.
Ohgod I'm literally sobbing rn !!
They held back hurting each other ..
Bless you both mom and dad of hayul !!
Wow korea is so far behind a kid growing his hair is looked at as weird
The mother said younger people are completely fine with it. It's some older people who keep teasing the boy or stealing glances when he's at a male's bathroom. Referring to a whole country for this matter is what's weird.
@@Youngnrrwhtjwtjetk
Nope, I'm from an entirely different country (Portugal) and older men here, even older women, still find it quite weird whenever they see a man/boy with long hair, and Portugal is a country that keeps up with times. They're just not vocal about it because it's a different culture. I'm 28 years old and people back then thought the same, even I did while growing up, but I just kept up with the times and don't mind. There are male Korean idols with longer hair than usual and people like it. Male idols with a mullet is actually trending in Korea right now, actually. It's just older people and their old views of the world as per usual, which manifest in various forms around the world.
@@Youngnrrwhtjwtjetk
That's what foreigners that don't know much about Portugal believe.
@@Pumpkin0_0 korea is definitely behind in terms of accepting people who look different from the standard of "normal." even my Korean friends and many Koreans agree
@@theashmaster1000
I know. I'm talking about this case. The mother said young people were fine with it, but the older people were the ones who teased the boy. It's not as if everyone who looked at the boy did the same thing, so judging a whole country based on this case still doesn't make sense. What does that make of the people who are fine with boys/guys with long hair? Generalizing a country isn't smart.
How could people being rude to such an cute lil angel?
He's too precious
In my culture, it's actually very common for boys to grow out their hair.
Just Passing Through exactly. The culture shock is real
Awwww, my heart swells of warmth watching this, it's obvious they love each other so much, but the lack of communication drove them apart, they could only see the difference between how each want to raise their son, and forgot about their love in the process. I am so happy to see they realize how much they love each other through this, I started crying when the wife teared up, and smiling while crying when the husband cried as well. Oh and their son though, such a sweet little angel. I wish them eternal happiness, and may they continue to build their family with love and care. God bless them.
Not only is he more mature than his father, he's more mature than every single person to ever appear on this show. A 6 year old child has compassion and will to help others in need but instead, he gets sexually and verbally abused. Except for his loving mother, entire society should be ashamed of themselves.
On the moment he said other friends can't help...My eyes just got teary.
This angel had truly touch a lot of hearts
honestly i wish i was as cool as hayul
This is the most touching story in hello counsilor..the little boy was so matured enough to know what is right....he's an angel...godbless baby..
I’m sorry but if I had been the father I think I would go crazy. She’s not even listening or trying to adapt for what he wants. It’s not just HER child it’s theirs.
The dad is being dumb. Either way, his reasons for not wanting his son’s hair is so stupid. “Ion wanna him to be confused about his identity.” He’s 6. He’ll figure out who he is just fine. What he needs to worry about is telling his nosy ass family members to mind their business and the strange pedophiles touching his son. Not his wife.
yoongi's hoe I agree that some of the reasons for cutting the hair is bad, and I’m not saying that the mother is totally in the wrong, but the dad has more than one reason, he said that random men are looking at his son’s private parts to check if it’s a son when they’re at public bathrooms etc. The son also said it himself, that he doesn’t like it when grown up women touch his PeePee to check on him. I understand that the mother tries to make his son fight for what he means is right and that’s a good thing, but she is totally ignoring the fathers opinion, which isn’t good.
Kristiane grr That’s what I said. Something is wrong with those men/women who are touching and watching the son that’s not the mom’s fault. Those adults need to be reported and imprisoned for touching a kid because at the end of the day he’s a kid. They have to understand boundaries. Nothing is wrong with the mom growing her son’s hair. I agree, she should include the dad into more decision making but the dad is worrying about trivial things. He’s paranoid that his son isn’t really happy in life. It doesn’t take much to make a toddler happy. All they need is happy parents and they’re happy too.
yoongi's hoe I agree almost completely, I also think that the mother is being way too overprotective over the child. She won’t let him go out of the house unless she is coming with him, she suddenly and randomly goes on trips without telling the dad. It’s good that she wants her child to be healthy and have a good childhood but not letting him go to normal kindergarten (or school or what it was he was supposed to go to) and not letting him eat out with other friends is too much. Especially if his father wanted the son to do all of that. I think the dad is bad with all of his unnecessary worrying and irrational thinking but I think the mother is even worse in some aspects.
Kristiane grr homeschool is totally fine tho? He is being educated at home and the kid is also getting vital commutative skills by interacting with people he meets at his other activities like swimming lessons. So what’s the issue? Nothing is wrong with what she is doing. She allows her son individuality and independence but he’s 6. He can’t get that much freedom. She’s doing enough. The kid’s hair will cut eventually and life would be fine.
The little kid made me cry when he said to grow hair to help sick people🥺 He’s the sweetest and wisest kid I’ve ever seen omg my heart🥺❤️
My son had very long hair by his own choice as a child and was often mistaken for a girl. It annoyed him for a bit but he got used to it. He'd just roll his eyes and say "I'm a boy" and walk away lol. I told him that it's nothing to be ashamed of. If he wants his hair long then he will have it long and never mind what all the busybodies have to say about it.
At one point it got him bullied at school and he came home and asked for a hair cut. I told him to wait and think about it until the weekend and if he still wanted it we would go to the salon to cut it. He DID get it cut, but he hated it short and ended up growing it back out again lol.
He has hair to the middle of his back until recently. He had to cut it because it was damaged at the bottom but he is busily growing it back out again lol. He's in his 20's now so he doesn't get all the looks he used to and is rarely mistaken for a girl any more. In fact the girls seem to follow him around alot...I feel like I should be worried about THAT more lol.
This lil boy is a sweetheart 😍 He's so smart and mature 😢💕
Personally, i love boys with long hair. I think its cute!!
Despite his young age he wants to help other people so sweet keep it up!
She needs to have more communication with her husband AND she needs to have respect for him too! Like he just ain't your child, ugh! She's annoying.. Plus the older generation needs to move on with the times and need to stop touching strangers. I get you're curious, but that doesn't give you the right to be touching whoever you want's body. Idk what Korean laws are like, but that's harassment and maybe even sexual harassment >___
She felt that she was going to lose her baby before he was born. It's not a surprise that she took things a bit far. It's easy to talk.
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Unless you take other routs like artificial insemination, you don't make a baby alone. Making a baby and then behaving as if you're the only parent isn't healthy for the child. Carrying it yourself is no excuse. It's not men's fault they can't have babies. Any child should feel a balance in the relationship, not to be treated like their parents are using him/her for some sort of competition.
this couple truly loves each other
If a stranger wants to touch my kid's private area, i would just punch them
That's inapropriate af
But i wish the best for this family 👍
He's so pure and mature for his age! 😍
I would call the police tbh
he is so cute! really proud of him to be thinking that way in such a young age!!
I think the mom is too much... By the way it's okay to boys have long hair...
The child is really precious.
The mother is really wise.
The father is really realllyy good looking as well as wise too.
Why is no one talking about the witty answer of the father?! "I'm sure Hayul will be tired later". Absolutely Hilarious!
What a good looking family! I hope they learn to communicate better
I adore Coyote song .. I heard it in Music Bank & I was like : Who's this woman & what group. 💎
My tears dropped when he said he's upset with friends who can't help others. I'm not lying that my tears began to drop :" How is it possible for a kid like him say such a deep words. I hope this kid will keep grow as real gentleman in the future.
Why should the father yell at the mother, if their son is making a decision at such a young and impressionable age that the son shouldn't do that. The son may grow up thinking that donating is something to not be done. His mother is encouraging his good will and decision making skills by allowing him to grow his hair for charity. The son is obviously mature, and smart and if encouraged can grow up with a good mindset.
I believe the father was mad at the mother for allowing their son to make such decisions at such early age without being completely aware of the consequences. He even mentioned how it was uncomfortable having people staring at the boy, especially during the bathroom incidents. Such things could possibly have a mental impact on their child thus causing problems for the child's future. I think that was the reason the father lost it and yelled at the mother, it wasn't really with bad intentions, but it was also partly her fault for not discussing it with him in first place.
@@nnnee.01 He yelled at her because HIS family members were touching the little boy. He could not yell at the elders, so he yelled at her.
This kid is gonna be a great humanitarian
wowoowow, the cultural differences are so real compared to NA
Such a loving soft hearted family. Lack of comunication is a problem for sure but there is so much love and good will there. I hope this helped them get closer. When the parents started crying i got very teary eyed too.
With the sound that the girl is trying to make, I can hear it! It sounds like a little bird! Can anyone hear that too or am I imagining things????
That kid can empathize with other conditions and asking what he could do to help. It wasn't happen just like that his mother definitely is a huge influence. Yul Mom you are a great mom! To be able to help preserve and grow your child innocent thinking and his care for others is a hard work.
He so cute 😂💜
they're gonna be a happy family :)
so warm.
edit: this by far has to be my favorite HC episode
Yeongja: Dongyeob, what can I do?
Dongyeob: You can keep eating.
hayul is such a precious child
Am I the online thinking the mom is low-key brainwashing the son into her way of thinking? Granted they are mostly things that are good for him and for others but she's literally cut out all possible opportunity to explore new things she doesn't want him too and cut dad out of the picture and just lives off his money. He's spending every single day taking in her mentality to the point where he's taking his mom's side against the dad in things he knows nothing about.
all parental decisions are brainwashing. you could argue that parents making their kids go to public school is brainwashing to accept that way of learning. going to church is brainwashing. keeping kids healthy is brainwashing. if we just let kids do whatever they wanted then they'd stay at home, watch tv, and eat ice cream for every meal. parents just have to do what they think will produce the best adult and hope it works.
also, the issue with the husband is that no doubt apart from playing with and discipline, he absolutely does not help raise his child in any capacity (as you can tell he's traditional). these sorts of men leave everything to do with the child to the mother but expect to be in charge of decisions relating to them. they act like they own the child. we see this so much on HC. men have nothing to do with their kids but make every decision in regards to their raising.
@@shadycatz85 no just no
I am crazy now ,this little child is sooo cutee and he has a perfect heart.
It takes a lot for a parent to homeschool the child. I'm in early childhood industry and I've seen teachers who wasn't passionate and wasted their time in school just to get a paycheck month after month. If the parent is confident in raising the child in her own education system, especially in early years, why not? The mom has to prep everything to raise the child well. I'm sure she has done alot of homework to support her child, seeing the result. And the son is going to mainstream school soon.
I don't see a problem if homeschool means.... the child is being taught on how to respect others, love himself, love others, be good and kind and not lose himself, able to speak eloquently and has unique experiences by daily exposure by traveling and see the real world, I really wonder, why not?
But of course, she could have communicated with the husband better. Not everyone has the ability and capacity to homeschool. It requires ALOT of work! Imagine not only you are the mom, you are the Social studies,science, language, art, math, geography, culinary, music, sports teacher. Not only that, you also spend time teaching the child the right value, good character, social and self management skills in life.
I have seen parents throwing ipad to kids when they are with them. Wasting the child's precious early years.
Education from my point of view is to raise up children who can contribute positively to the society in their own ways. Doing extraordinary is a bonus. At least not commit crime and harm the society.
Family values are much more important and should be instilled by the family. You don't pin all the hope on teachers on teaching your child on self-management or social awareness.
Honestly, when the teacher see the kids' behaviour, we asks, how did the parents raise them. It's just like some parents see the teachers and ask, "how did you teach my child".
*PARENTING* is meant for parents. Please be responsible for your child. The teachers can only do so much.
BTW, if the parent can provide more meaningful experiences for the child, by all means. See? Some schools due to budgets etc could only afford to bring the kids out for excursion every 2months. 6 times a year. That's really not enough. If the mom could support the child daily in various experiences, really, why not??? How I wish that more kids can spend more time with the parents! Some are trapped in kindergarten for 10 hours. Which is better? I feel so sad for some kids in school.
Find out more about homeschooling before passing judgement. If an adult have the capacity and ability to provide a positive homeschooling experience, please do so. (usually a lot more hard work, effort, energy and $$$)
Exactly. And judging from the high level of illnesses and suicides in Korean schools, I'd do the same thing.
Watching this has changed my perspective about boys growing/having long hair. Thank you for sharing this video ❤️