Black Women and the “Rich Auntie” Syndrome! | Dailyrapupcrew Podcast Ep 90

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  • Опубликовано: 13 июл 2024
  • In this episode of the Dailyrapupcrew Podcast, I discuss the "Rich Auntie" Syndrome and how it affects black women.
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    02:21 - ladies introduce themselves
    03:24 - how do men end up in the friend zone
    19:34 - does handsome privilege exist?
    28:25 - Does society condition black women to accept struggle love?
    40:21 - Black women and the “Rich Auntie”
    42:17 - “who hurt you”
    43:42 - Eli Gets passionate about black women and the black family
    50:42 - Jeuu Explains to the ladies about Eli position on the “Rich Auntie”
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  • @DailyRapUpCrew
    @DailyRapUpCrew  Год назад +54

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    • @chevyboichuck_81
      @chevyboichuck_81 Год назад

      Out of those four women. Which ones do you think are marriage material?

    • @OthoWilliamsJr
      @OthoWilliamsJr Год назад +1

      Wasssssssuppppp😜
      This is a hard watch brothas, I keep watching 10 minutes or less then have to cut it off....
      Imma watch, this hard Listen. 😶‍🌫️🫥😩😖

    • @OthoWilliamsJr
      @OthoWilliamsJr Год назад +2

      I tried I can't watch these Ladies talk. Two look as they want to be the Man of their Dreams. An the others is 🤯. The last 2 podcast of Women been horrible, NOT you guys the Women😫.
      This CAN'T be Real Life❗️ ....
      No one this is how Women are Thinking & BEing out here.

    • @pimpindnice910
      @pimpindnice910 Год назад +3

      You guys are WASTING YOUR TIME. Let these babbling women, and ALL modern women continue to know everything, and live lives of despair. It’s makes for good entertainment and that’s all
      “I want you to handle me…but I don’t mean it that way
      Their futures are going to be filled with Dogs, cats, boxed wine and starring out their windows to make sure none of the neighborhood kids step foot in Their grass

    • @OthoWilliamsJr
      @OthoWilliamsJr Год назад +1

      @dnice pimpin
      I said the same thing....
      In the 2 years ONLY had 2 Blaxk on on the Show that's worth the Blaxkness. This is bad bad💣💥

  • @chopgotsauce6812
    @chopgotsauce6812 Год назад +136

    🗣🗣🗣We not dealing with no woman who needs to be handled point blank period. 💯

    • @kurokaizen1889
      @kurokaizen1889 Год назад +10

      Facts. This ain't a Kennel. Be a lady or keep it moving.

    • @daddydise
      @daddydise Год назад +3

      Sad thing is that logically when you say it out loud it shouldn't make sense but you hear it all the time.

    • @youngsplikak5867
      @youngsplikak5867 Год назад +1

      FACTS. Fuck these hoes

    • @dentreveal3820
      @dentreveal3820 Год назад

      Big Facts !

    • @anisarenee7042
      @anisarenee7042 Год назад +1

      What does "handled" meannnnn? lol im confused is there not a difference between having to "handle" someone and communicating what you need from your partner? If you're truly budiling with someone both of you should be able to pull each others coat tail thats growth nobody perfect out here man or woman

  • @dallasmayke624
    @dallasmayke624 Год назад +377

    The more they talk. The more I see why they're single. And they are just going to become older and more bitter.

    • @ttlysweetgirl
      @ttlysweetgirl Год назад +11

      I’m actually in a happy relationship

    • @nonyabiz12
      @nonyabiz12 Год назад

      Bruh..exactly. Let those types die alone. You'd just be putting unnecessary stress om yourself dealing with these types of women.

    • @princessa.m.2088
      @princessa.m.2088 Год назад +33

      ​@@ttlysweetgirl happy today, break up tomorrow

    • @nodustflyzone
      @nodustflyzone Год назад +17

      Surely someone rich and old cannot survive without a dusty black man. 🤣🫢🙄

    • @nodustflyzone
      @nodustflyzone Год назад +7

      “A man cannot get you nothing nothing else outside of money.”
      Straight bums.

  • @AminehLivingTV
    @AminehLivingTV Год назад +192

    We need the married panel ASAP😂🙌🏾

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  Год назад +35

      We searching and trynna get that for y’all

    • @emperorcesar8208
      @emperorcesar8208 Год назад +19

      @@DailyRapUpCrewI am a married 37yr black male you can invite me to the panel

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  Год назад +3

      @@emperorcesar8208 you live in the nyc tri state area?

    • @emperorcesar8208
      @emperorcesar8208 Год назад +14

      @@DailyRapUpCrew yes sir I live in Buffalo New York . But can travel to New York City area if planned.

    • @lotusshona6367
      @lotusshona6367 Год назад +6

      Being eligible bachelor and a player has been the staple in the black Community and culture , so play in playa

  • @Mr2000Aj
    @Mr2000Aj Год назад +98

    Handsome privilege has always been a thing among the Chads and Tyrone society. Majority of women will treat you like a celebrity no matter the status of the man. It's very entertaining.

    • @isaac80745
      @isaac80745 Год назад +4

      There's a cesspool of women of different races willing to be near these Chad's or Tyrones and they are running through them day by day. Think about how guys using passport movement to take that to other women in other countries

    • @Mr2000Aj
      @Mr2000Aj Год назад +2

      @@isaac80745 There for this society of men and high value men are the prize. Men are the key to marriage, something a majority of women want.

    • @davidg7136
      @davidg7136 Год назад

      Yeah but it's not necessarily because of looks always. With women it's just the guy that all the rest of the women like. He doesn't have to be handsome charismatic or anything. As long as the head.bitch in charge of the sisterhood likes him..... they all do

    • @RobinXlone
      @RobinXlone Год назад +2

      thats a lie. a mans looks means next to nothing. women arent treating a dude like a celeb just cuz he cute

    • @namesurname9668
      @namesurname9668 Год назад

      VERY!!!

  • @dallasmayke624
    @dallasmayke624 Год назад +32

    They're showing exactly why men don't approach women like that no more.

    • @kitejohnson515
      @kitejohnson515 Год назад +2

      Bring the violin 😂

    • @SlinkyVibe
      @SlinkyVibe Год назад +1

      Men still approaching women gal just so lost in these spaces it’s really sick.

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 9 месяцев назад

      They do. It's on the job. In the DMs. At house orgies. They definitely meeting. Just not in the way that's rare.

  • @Tony_Wes
    @Tony_Wes Год назад +134

    Every time someone is talking about the rich aunty, they always refer to the aunty that's rich, SINGLE and no kids. Most of these aunts are lonely with lots of health problems when they get 70. Your moms ask you to take your aunt to her appointment because she don't have a husband or kids to help her. I never heard someone call someone a rich aunty that's married without kids.

    • @pimpindnice910
      @pimpindnice910 Год назад +3

      And the gap sweater knows this. She’s just acting naive, like most women do when they don’t want to accept the negative realities about women…main reason why it’s almost pointless to talk to these women

    • @LadyAstarionAncunin
      @LadyAstarionAncunin Год назад

      And yet, statistically, it's the men who've abandoned their children/ruined their families so much that they're the ones who end up alone. It's insane that in 2023 y'all think the only way a woman won't be lonely is if she cuts herself off at the knees with your big-headed children. Big yikes. You hate/judge single mothers/you hate your own mothers/you hate childless, upwardly mobile women (unless you can sponge off of them).
      Degeneracy.

    • @VixxKong2
      @VixxKong2 9 месяцев назад +2

      At least they get to 70, while single men die at 50

  • @gunsdown4497
    @gunsdown4497 Год назад +32

    Just Because your kid has all the new Jordan’s and freshest clothes.. y’all love saying my baby DONT WANT FOR NOTHING... but your baby in the 6th grade reading at a Kindergarten level... all kinds of behavioral problems, taking care of your kids consist of more than buying clothes, shoes, games, toys, phones... Learn what it really means to be a parent.. because providing material things isn’t parenting...👌🏽🤷🏽‍♂️‼️

  • @Kenny-Alpha
    @Kenny-Alpha Год назад +93

    It was painful as hell watching this episode. Thesw chicks were insanely naïve and ignorant

    • @CB4is40
      @CB4is40 Год назад +9

      They were all over the place smh

    • @patricksainclair2384
      @patricksainclair2384 Год назад +8

      this was really hard to watch

    • @Joso97
      @Joso97 Год назад +7

      thought i was the only one .. smh

    • @TruGank
      @TruGank Год назад +9

      Yep. Painful as all the other episodes. Watching this show expedites my desire for the day when they refer to black men as men instead of n*gas. Aint shit endearing about it.

    • @patricksainclair2384
      @patricksainclair2384 Год назад +1

      @@TruGank in reality, they are literally telling you what they want. Niggas. Gotta let them be.

  • @TheOriginalKingofAFK
    @TheOriginalKingofAFK Год назад +79

    The level of insanity in this world where a makeup artist struggles to find a man on her level (avg salary being 25-30k annually) is wild.

    • @ttlysweetgirl
      @ttlysweetgirl Год назад +11

      L hey I’m the makeup artist in this video. I make around $1,000 a week doing makeup. One makeup class with 30 students makes me 15,000 in a day. Lmao you do the math

    • @ttlysweetgirl
      @ttlysweetgirl Год назад +7

      And I do credit repair as well.

    • @gravestone93
      @gravestone93 Год назад +13

      ​@@ttlysweetgirl 🔥🔥🔥
      The million dollar question is: would your income become y'all income? (At least 40%)

    • @ObjectivelyBias
      @ObjectivelyBias Год назад +17

      @@ttlysweetgirl sure you do

    • @yannickyannick3317
      @yannickyannick3317 Год назад

      @@ttlysweetgirl This lie is so embarrassing that I cringed for you. It speaks to a deeper insecurity and immaturity that you feel like you have to lie to strangers on the internet about making 15,000 a day. Please go seek help.

  • @gunsdown4497
    @gunsdown4497 Год назад +50

    Women try to “you’re traumatized“ everything instead of holding themselves accountable 💯

    • @JordanClemons
      @JordanClemons Год назад +10

      They sprinkle that on everything like parsley from an IG chef

    • @The_mrs86
      @The_mrs86 Год назад

      Exactly 💯

  • @sijioni1064
    @sijioni1064 Год назад +20

    "If love doesn't find me". This in of itself is inherently a bad way to look at relationships. Love finding you implies you had to do no work. Relationships (and marriage!) Are work.
    I don't hear "if money doesn't find me, I guess I'll just be broke".
    So how does this not make it seem that some women care more about money and/or working for money, than a relationship and/or working for and to preserve the relationship?

    • @komodokisaragi9398
      @komodokisaragi9398 Год назад

      Great apology, anybody who gotta work to live should be able to relate

  • @gxraiderable
    @gxraiderable Год назад +22

    I have a great father figure taught me, when making a decision make the right choice the first time. So you don't have to try and make up for it later.

  • @nonyabiz12
    @nonyabiz12 Год назад +49

    Eli going deeper down the Redpill rabbit whole I see.😂 That's what's up.

    • @AacaL05
      @AacaL05 Год назад +7

      In the 40+ of the show I was like Eli Samuel's has entered the building

    • @nonyabiz12
      @nonyabiz12 Год назад +13

      @@AacaL05 ...Yeah I can tell He getting tired of their bs just like Kevin. That's why Kevin used to go off on these modern chicks.

    • @darijohnson3870
      @darijohnson3870 Год назад +2

      Can you blame him tho......he's an Aquarius...and we vet things pretty deep so I can relate....especially being RP aware

  • @BamSlaughter
    @BamSlaughter Год назад +73

    This is the mentality of too many. I'm encouraging my son to date out of this culture.

    • @MikeJones-mi3di
      @MikeJones-mi3di Год назад +6

      Real shit

    • @azraelfirstofhisname8695
      @azraelfirstofhisname8695 Год назад +9

      Make sure you let him get his passport

    • @BamSlaughter
      @BamSlaughter Год назад +6

      @Azrael First of his Name he's 13. Has had a passport since he was a year old

    • @DC...
      @DC... Год назад

      @@BamSlaughter Try a student exchange program?

    • @keitht24
      @keitht24 Год назад +2

      At this point, it's just pointless for us as black men to even engage. Let them end up alone thinking they're going to be the rich aunty & cry themselves to sleep.

  • @terrencecrawford8370
    @terrencecrawford8370 Год назад +9

    Listening to them make me go harder for my daughter.... this is sad that they can't grasp the concept of family.

  • @ifanagglebagels3411
    @ifanagglebagels3411 Год назад +7

    I love how women love to call a working man that has his own broke but the female is living wit her mama/friend and a kid spending their kids child support. Nasty work

  • @ShootingWithEJ
    @ShootingWithEJ Год назад +8

    “I look at men an women as humans I don’t see no difference.” That’s the problem we are completely different!!

  • @aymani1
    @aymani1 Год назад +7

    handsome privilege is definitely a thing.

  • @tashunabrown7972
    @tashunabrown7972 Год назад +15

    I think they meant to say they want a man to basically correct them when they are wrong (aka put me in my place). But the way she describing it sounds like a domestic dispute waiting to happen. Also women have to learn when to STFU and listen rather be quick to give a response & so combative!

    • @dicerevo
      @dicerevo Год назад

      Amongst men you know the risk you run of being disrespectful. Women don’t understand this risk. Therefore they feel they can be disrespectful and when they get checked todays women immediately go to abuse. I’m not running that risk. If you need checking I’m checking out.

  • @eachoneteachone30
    @eachoneteachone30 Год назад +4

    Keep doing yall thang Daily Rap Up Crew, great content!

  • @saika216
    @saika216 Год назад +28

    Based on this session intro, it's highly unlikely that a woman has sex with someone without a connection, so if a woman cheats or is hanging with someone she hooked up with in the past, there's a high chance she's connected to him

    • @NwoFresh
      @NwoFresh Год назад

      Cap them hoes are hoes no connection needed

    • @ajtoofly7315
      @ajtoofly7315 Год назад

      Exactly i say it all the time. Women are emotionally connected to sex but if a woman has gotten to the point where she’s no longer emotionally connected to sex she might as well be a whore.

    • @queenbeaute9967
      @queenbeaute9967 Год назад +4

      Lies yall dnt know women like u think

    • @ajtoofly7315
      @ajtoofly7315 Год назад

      @@queenbeaute9967 women always make claims like that and speak for everyone but then y’all turn around and say shit like “you can’t generalize “
      I’m not an expert on women because every woman is different and to be an expert on a specific woman takes time. But just because I’m not an expert at something doesn’t mean i don’t know the trade well. Most women can’t have sex with a man without some kind of connection that’s why cheating is so bad on the woman’s part. Now if a woman can have sex with no connection at all then she might as well be a whore because she’s a broken woman and damaged goods

    • @steadmoney3431
      @steadmoney3431 Год назад

      @@queenbeaute9967 I have soul ties with an ex of mines. She’s married and we still hook up from time to time…

  • @geraldshavers8352
    @geraldshavers8352 Год назад +10

    "Stop referring to bitches as bitches " Lmaoo 😂😂 I know they say a womans education doesn't matter but honestly it definitely makes them have a wider vocabulary as well as the ability to be in the room with other educated women. Lol this is low-key necessary.

  • @deandade4632
    @deandade4632 Год назад +32

    It's so sad to hear the mentality of our melanated women 😢. What happened to our/the street women?? Everything is a facade, they adopt the social media norms and lose their individuality. Wigs, Makeup and Niavette is all I see. Hats on top of weaves is a major turn-off!

  • @aaronglenn721
    @aaronglenn721 Год назад +49

    Man y’all gotta stand stronger on being against that Auntie thing man y’all let them off easy.

    • @jsanders9975
      @jsanders9975 Год назад +11

      They go soft on females. Sometimes I question they advice.

    • @tuff3jay
      @tuff3jay Год назад +16

      Ain't no point in trying. They are too far gone 🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @elmztana1201
      @elmztana1201 Год назад +5

      Juju they only one who snaps every once in a while and tell them the truth 🤣

    • @Cb36900
      @Cb36900 Год назад

      Eli the only one who somewhat holds frame

    • @samono7726
      @samono7726 Год назад +1

      I'm not going to lie, these fellas are the weakest of any panelists I have ever seen host a podcast. Respectfully. I mean they constantly get buffeted in every episode that I see. It is almost like they are scared or too intimidate to speak the actual points or articulate their thoughts.

  • @nightowlbronny_6131
    @nightowlbronny_6131 Год назад +4

    Shawty wit the Gucci hat and the braces. She got some potential with her mindset.

  • @fredjohnson1996
    @fredjohnson1996 Год назад +6

    If your strickly with someone because they can elevate you, or help you build a business, your using that person.
    There so many times people get with someone who helps them get where they want to be then leave after they've gotten everything out of you they need

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 9 месяцев назад

      These are the only relationships that exist. The ones producing said needs.

  • @christopherburtson9094
    @christopherburtson9094 Год назад

    I love the content of yall shows, keep doing what you're doing and keep elevating kings

  • @mackin5999
    @mackin5999 Год назад +18

    8:10 mark. There was literally a post on social media recently where a dude sent a woman flowers to her nail shop and she thought it was weird and creepy. Clearly it's only "applying pressure" if they find the dude attractive

    • @gabbygiovanna9011
      @gabbygiovanna9011 Год назад +3

      It’s applying pressure if there’s mutual acknowledged attraction. ❤

    • @nigel4184
      @nigel4184 Год назад +2

      A women has to find a man attractive before a man can go anywhere with a women in this situation you having mutual acknowledged attraction does not apply tbh what men find attractive and what women find attractive are very different things entirely I call cap and I call that to be a very disingenuous thing to say 🥱

    • @unklemelshow4775
      @unklemelshow4775 Год назад

      She’s very unattractive though.

  • @indigobeauty1
    @indigobeauty1 Год назад +6

    i appreciate the conservation but Lord there needs to be more Feminine etiquette classes...the delivery is so abrasive 😮‍💨

  • @dazaedesigner6689
    @dazaedesigner6689 Год назад

    I appreciate both the men and the woman expressing all there truths , and everyone’s opinions were valid to me 💗 i hope you guys can take each others knowledge like I have been doing.

  • @tedroscourt1205
    @tedroscourt1205 Год назад +2

    37:00-39:42 👏👏 Well said Eli! You articulated all of those thoughts well! Keep that shit up!

  • @seymour_videos
    @seymour_videos Год назад +41

    Shout out to shorty in the Gucci hat. She was articulate and the only thoughtful person. .. I spoke too soon, she lost me with the cool auntie thing… essentially you’re saying they need to be comfortable making the mistake of valuing worldly possessions more than the bond and love a family can bring.

    • @nonyabiz12
      @nonyabiz12 Год назад +13

      Notice how she said she wants to get married and have kids but she's going so hard defending the "rich auntie." What she's actually saying is she's interested in marriege and kids but she's open to break the family up if and when she chooses to.

    • @charlesficherwcoffeebreaks7521
      @charlesficherwcoffeebreaks7521 Год назад +1

      ❤🎉web510threadpg-13friendly420

    • @alfordelliott6943
      @alfordelliott6943 Год назад +13

      That Gucci woman is a modern woman chameleon stay away from this type

    • @MrLayz_DaPipe
      @MrLayz_DaPipe Год назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂🤕

    • @mjareacts2731
      @mjareacts2731 Год назад +1

      Most of them chicks probably cloning credit cards anyway for some dusty. It seem like every chick that come on this show claim to be an "entrepreneur", yet most of them probably can't even spell the word let alone know the actual definition. As a former New Yorker now residing on my own Texas homestead, half the stuff these young girls be talking about on this show is extra laughable.

  • @keenanthrower1806
    @keenanthrower1806 Год назад +8

    I agree with Eli because I have a lot of the black women in my family who never got married or married sorry man and had kids out of wedlock and there paying for it now.

    • @Th3lite
      @Th3lite Год назад

      Could it be because blk men are not marrying? Just saying. How many of you all are marriage minded. A lot of people shack up and don't even consider marriage.

  • @jimynutron87
    @jimynutron87 Год назад +1

    Intro still DOPE as ever!!!!!

  • @kippreggelogan9570
    @kippreggelogan9570 Год назад

    Great episode!

  • @LowercaseKev
    @LowercaseKev Год назад +3

    I see exactly where the disconnect was. When she brought up Rich auntie at first it wasn't specified the aunt is married. And given the convo I can see how it sounded like the independent rich aunt who isn't married and refocuses her source of joy outside marriage and family. That is the only definition that I've heard for rich auntie. And going off that I agree with Eli point before all hell broke lose. That non family stuff is harming the community. We need to bring back family units and not just single independent people. Family being either just a married couple or whatever else

  • @25tjack25
    @25tjack25 Год назад +25

    That dancing at a party topic is hilarious as hell because my girlfriends were just talking about this. This generation of young women are weird lol. When we went to parties we danced with the men not our homegirls! Nobody be dancing no more, that's so weird to me.

    • @thejessicadiaries
      @thejessicadiaries Год назад +4

      lol wow I never noticed this (i'm married with 3 kids so i don't get out a lot anymore lmao) but in college we definitely was trying to find the dudes we had little crushes on or wanted to get with and dance with them. you're right women don't do this anymore, they be all over each other lol

    • @NESGTorro
      @NESGTorro Год назад +5

      Yea they not dancing at all everybody just on they phones

    • @MiamiPush2theLimit
      @MiamiPush2theLimit Год назад +4

      No. It’s not safe to really interact with men anymore.

    • @shrektaculer
      @shrektaculer Год назад +3

      ​@MiamiPush2theLimit say your mindset is damaged without saying your mindset is damaged.

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 9 месяцев назад

      People are not used to interacting with each other outside of raw sex with semen. Anything else, straight mute. The conversation does not matter unless it's a means to the end. That's the current climate. Hence why everything is burning hot. But everyone loves it tho so nobody can't complain.

  • @CorneliusSmalleliterealtor
    @CorneliusSmalleliterealtor Год назад +2

    most of the time when I hear rich aunty its usually when its too late or the clock is winding down with no potential in sight.

  • @iremainunimpressed1589
    @iremainunimpressed1589 Год назад

    Sad I missed this but great video so far pretty ladies

  • @gus9280
    @gus9280 Год назад +4

    The saddest demographic of person in western countries is a 40+ year old woman making $50k+, no kids and family. Those woman are taking more antidepressants than ever before. The more freedom women got (specially sexually) the more the levels of depression have risen every year for them! These woman are masculine af and I see why they are gonna stay single!

  • @the13rook
    @the13rook Год назад +21

    It terms of this rich auntie thing is similar to other situations. It doesn't matter the path. It's the results of where you are in the end. So you can choose to be a rich auntie or just be there by happenstance, what you're going to see is majority of them are not happy to be the minorities of the group are going to be the vocal leaders of it. So when you see a doctor, that's 47 that has her own place but is alone. You're going to think about that minority group that keeps telling you that we're all happy. However, the numbers show that if you are single and childless by around 38, you're most likely unhappy. That's just facts.

  • @shaunm.bealesr5009
    @shaunm.bealesr5009 Год назад +1

    It’s crazy how ppl always talk about how Ciara went from future to Russell but somehow forgot that she was with bow wow, 50, and a hit of other guys before future.

  • @realmontana6838
    @realmontana6838 Год назад

    I’m glad Eli checking her

  • @ST-lp4hq
    @ST-lp4hq Год назад +11

    we are doomed, we should always be lookin for companionship, we arent meant to be alone

    • @MiamiPush2theLimit
      @MiamiPush2theLimit Год назад +3

      You can find companionship amongst friends and pets. It doesn’t have to be a romantic relationship.

    • @foxyboop4164
      @foxyboop4164 Год назад

      @@MiamiPush2theLimit Exactly, everyone is not meant for parenthood or marriage.

  • @iamshaneblackfilms
    @iamshaneblackfilms Год назад +5

    These women rode the short bus to the podcast 😂

  • @LGullyE
    @LGullyE 7 месяцев назад

    Good stuff

  • @dallasmayke624
    @dallasmayke624 Год назад +4

    If a woman cusses every other word it's a turnoff. And the way these women look I don't think we should be really worried about somebody looks

  • @WazirinJosnEnvirons
    @WazirinJosnEnvirons Год назад +10

    I like your discussions: however I think we should establish baselines with the ladies/guests..e.g age, relationship status, what kind of home structure they come from and motherhood status. So we know how to weight what guests say based on their results. Because some could just come and chat all kinds of baseless stuff and we need to understand where it comes from. IG handle for makeup, wig or nails business just doesnt cut it.

  • @don-won-mr.commonsense820
    @don-won-mr.commonsense820 Год назад +2

    I am a very accomplished man in my mid-50s for the last 10 years this is what I've been saying, if there aren't any traditional women left modern women must come to the table with their bag

  • @jesstheromantic
    @jesstheromantic 7 месяцев назад +1

    I'm a big advocate for people not having children if they truly don't want them/can't take care of them. That's a huge life decision that not enough people take seriously and now the child is here inheriting a life of struggle that could've been avoided.

  • @ST-lp4hq
    @ST-lp4hq Год назад +5

    does anyone realize what happens if we all start to look for someone who is doin better than us, we are in trouble

  • @lobecosc
    @lobecosc Год назад +8

    Bruh. The cap is strong in these women. Why would you go to a club just to dance with your lady friends and not dance with men? So if men stop going to clubs would women still go? Not counting the gay clubs? Just weird. Men end up in the friendzone because women want boyfriend benefits from the guy they are not attracted to and not the potential relationship. If she tells him directly that she's not interested in him and feel free to move on, she's losing the boyfriend benefits that she gets from the guy provides. She gets someone to talk to, protection when they are out and some provisioning to a degree all without having to give him any girlfriend benefits (i.e. box) Great episode though and keep up the good work.

    • @BjtheLawyer_
      @BjtheLawyer_ Год назад +1

      Women who only go out to dance on other women are losers in my opinion. It’s weird but is normal now lol. Women who are single unmarried over 30 are losers. We need to normalize women being losers because that’s what some of them are 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @robfolarin
    @robfolarin Год назад

    Great video

  • @Ultraa_ray
    @Ultraa_ray Год назад +2

    Ngl, anytime a woman says “I want a man that’s gon lead me to the bag, teach me to start a business, xyz” I cringe and crack up at the same time bc why on Gods good green earth would you think another grown adult is gonna hold your hand and force you into success??😂😂😂😂

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 9 месяцев назад

      This hoe babble sounds like music to the producers ears. Got them a smart boss babe about her future and semen. That's admirable.

  • @FollowPickMeekPodcast
    @FollowPickMeekPodcast Год назад +18

    19:50 absolutely! Women let the finest and richest men treat them the worse! And if he fine with a bag, we’ll most of them end up a baby mama 🤷🏾‍♀️🤣

    • @joannamonique707
      @joannamonique707 Год назад

      And the only time niggas is mad about it is when they ain't fine or got a bag 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 9 месяцев назад +1

      That's a solid start. Both got the goods and now it's a permanent connection like they always wanted.

  • @KingMike-un5vz
    @KingMike-un5vz Год назад +20

    Dying with nobody coming after you is kinda sad.

    • @TheresaA1
      @TheresaA1 Год назад +2

      Its their prerogative. I don’t know why people get so upset how people choose to live “there” life

    • @KingMike-un5vz
      @KingMike-un5vz Год назад +1

      @@TheresaA1 well its a interesting 1 I'd say

    • @jameshamel3578
      @jameshamel3578 Год назад +7

      Let em bro. Save yourself. You cant save everyone. if you try, you're just gonna end up saving no one. Do what interests you and forget the rest

    • @ninany3870
      @ninany3870 Год назад +8

      Listen, even when you have children they can leave you for dead too, I see it alllll the time.

    • @KingMike-un5vz
      @KingMike-un5vz Год назад +3

      @@ninany3870 it does happen sadly but where did that come from

  • @ochozero3108
    @ochozero3108 Год назад +1

    Can't wait to peep the Bobby Shmurdah memes on shorty in the blue! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @510t-mac
    @510t-mac Год назад +1

    Right on the 47:41 sis was speaking up for folks and she didn’t have to!!!!

  • @JKingMustang
    @JKingMustang Год назад +3

    This show needs one of them old guys that can teach both the men and the woman. I seen Charleston White go on podcast and drop plenty of knowledge in an understandable way where both sides understood what he was saying. He’s gonna be like that one great uncle that nobody likes because of the way he delivers a message but it doesn’t invalidate what he says from being true.

  • @foxyboop4164
    @foxyboop4164 Год назад +2

    If you love BW, you'll have NO PROBLEM finding one to marry. There's more like that than there are rich auntie types.

    • @Li3Records
      @Li3Records Год назад

      When you find one let us know

  • @chopgotsauce6812
    @chopgotsauce6812 Год назад +2

    34:15 I feel so sorry for you king

  • @krazyk9466
    @krazyk9466 Год назад

    What part of Brownsville these shorties from?😂😂😂

  • @MustafaPriestt
    @MustafaPriestt Год назад +7

    The fact that a woman or some women, have a sense that they need a man (or the kind of man) to put her in her place is crazy to me 😂🤦🏾‍♂️ I believe she’s trying to paraphrase a need for “leadership” when out of order or misguided. When being misguided or out of order is the first issue. Not just the kind of man needed.

  • @THIZZAVELI
    @THIZZAVELI Год назад +4

    Good lord, the masculine energy is over 9,000!!!!! No wonder most passport bros are from the east coast lol. They voices deeper than the dudes! East coast dudes always taking vacations down south too. I can't blame them. I heard skrippas be in the club with Tim's on.

  • @k-as2105
    @k-as2105 Год назад

    Yo that one in the middle is lost fully the lady in the dap top seems to have sense lol good topic first time watching

  • @victorb3612
    @victorb3612 Год назад +1

    Ju says what we all thinking
    🤔 💭

  • @theimpaler2317
    @theimpaler2317 Год назад +6

    If a female calls me “bro” I already know we can’t be together! It’s un-feminine! If I wanted to be called bro I would go talk to a male friend. 34:49

    • @KayTalkNYC
      @KayTalkNYC Год назад +1

      It's 2023, get over it. This is a podcast, they're in causal conversation, not a first date.

    • @theimpaler2317
      @theimpaler2317 Год назад +2

      it can be 2073 it doesn’t matter! Biology is biology! Us men are designed to want feminine women not date ourselves!
      And I can tell you didn’t watch the part I’m talking about because the one girl is talking about calling her friends and bf “bro”, not used in the podcast.
      But anyways now thinking about the way masculine women talk and act it makes sense that a lot of them are single or can’t keep a man.

  • @FollowPickMeekPodcast
    @FollowPickMeekPodcast Год назад +5

    42:23 family is forever, and the ppl who have them tend to live longer. I come from a Legacy family, and on average most our elders live well into their 90s. Being surrounded by family and love sustains your life. And that’s why our mortality rates our up! We don’t live as long as we once had, and we have more knowledge than any generation prior. So what does that say!? 🤔

  • @imdifferentMr843
    @imdifferentMr843 Год назад

    I know one thing…. “I ain’t gone hold you”😂

  • @lilmotown8109
    @lilmotown8109 Год назад

    Teach me to get to the baaaaaag😂

  • @randymelendeznbbb1543
    @randymelendeznbbb1543 Год назад +33

    "Rich Auntie Syndrome" is a very selfish mentality. It's almost worst than the "Ms.Independent" syndrome. Especially for the Black women who prioritize their careers & vacation trips. And "Rich Aunties" only hurts the black community. It shrinks Black Family growth within the community. That individualistic mindset is dangerous...

    • @suziepickes702
      @suziepickes702 Год назад +24

      Just focus on the black women who want to be married and have kids. Tbey do exist.
      Why try to shame women who don't want to have kids to have kids?

    • @randymelendeznbbb1543
      @randymelendeznbbb1543 Год назад +7

      @@suziepickes702 You got to think long term. Realistically the decisions you make in your 20s can haunt you in your 40s...modern women treat child birth like a option on a McDonald's menu instead of treating it as a form of legacy building.

    • @suziepickes702
      @suziepickes702 Год назад +18

      @Master Giza but there are some women who legit don't want kids and that okay. Why shame them into doing that?

    • @Achilles645
      @Achilles645 Год назад

      ​@@suziepickes702 Because we are tired of that bullshit that's why most of them aren't even truthful about not one kids. They just can't find the kind of man that they really want or have been taught to get and that's the real reason why they are not selling down and have a kid.

    • @suziepickes702
      @suziepickes702 Год назад +15

      Or because kids are expensive AF.

  • @malchieljackson2198
    @malchieljackson2198 Год назад +6

    Part of the issue is when they no longer want to be the rich auntie it's too late to try and make that change and that's the point they are overlooking

    • @MiamiPush2theLimit
      @MiamiPush2theLimit Год назад +3

      Yeah, unfortunately we have to provide for ourselves until we find the right mate. Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.

  • @itswhatever31
    @itswhatever31 Год назад

    That WHY ELI shirt is wild lol

  • @joyceg7859
    @joyceg7859 Год назад

    “ I feel like we more than n when we link up “ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @FollowPickMeekPodcast
    @FollowPickMeekPodcast Год назад +16

    I feel like I should be featured as a guest host to come down on some of these arguments. As men, y’all can only push so much. But a woman could shut a lot of these bs points down. Who tf argues for the women they don’t wanna be like?! Like this weird to me..

    • @ttlysweetgirl
      @ttlysweetgirl Год назад

      We were sticking up for all types of women! He was putting us in he category of those women so we were defending those with those mentality’s !!

    • @unklemelshow4775
      @unklemelshow4775 Год назад

      @@ttlysweetgirl What?… What the Fk?!

    • @lifncar28
      @lifncar28 Год назад +1

      You should contact them. You know sistas don't like another BW going against the narrative. They would come at you hard, might even lead to a fight 🤣🤣

    • @latoyatmissdivasupplies4504
      @latoyatmissdivasupplies4504 Год назад

      No thanks we need women who are able to represent women from a neutral position. You seem to be coming at this from a pick me position. You cannot seriously say that a lot of the points these men make are echo-chamber-esque as well. Even the men disagree with each other at times

    • @FollowPickMeekPodcast
      @FollowPickMeekPodcast Год назад

      @@latoyatmissdivasupplies4504 I am a single mom who created a baby out of casual culture. I add more to the conversation than you ever will. I’ve faced both sides, raised others ppl children, and an active member of my community. I work with leaders and mentors throughout my city to get a change. Maybe you should be focused on getting picked other than worrying about where my conversations will be valued. Don’t reply, b/c next time I won’t be so nice! 😘✌🏾

  • @OB_TUCK
    @OB_TUCK Год назад +3

    These Women Don’t Realize They Are Going To Age Out 😂😂 You Gone Be The Rich Auntie With Nobody At The End Of Your Life

    • @latoyatmissdivasupplies4504
      @latoyatmissdivasupplies4504 Год назад

      If it comes to that then they can get one of the numerous old men abandoned at the nursing homes. Circle of life

  • @vocaltv2.0
    @vocaltv2.0 Год назад

    YOOOO 😂 “THE WRONG LIPS IS MOVING” is CRAZY JEUU✅

  • @megaboy28
    @megaboy28 Год назад

    The first 6 minutes, I've heard 1 lady say 'like' twice ot thrice per sentence.

  • @NightRidah777
    @NightRidah777 Год назад +3

    Imma just chill by myself my brothers. This ain't worth it.

  • @kingChan12
    @kingChan12 Год назад +5

    New york hood boogers on this panel. The vernacular and way of speaking is such a turnoff. Recreational use only

  • @erwildersr
    @erwildersr Год назад +1

    Why are they dealing with guys who are incarcerated or jobless? Because real men don’t want to deal with this shit….

  • @lilmotown8109
    @lilmotown8109 Год назад

    My level or above 😂😂😂

  • @nonyabiz12
    @nonyabiz12 Год назад +6

    36:30...She mentioned something that went over everyone's heads. The music people listen to has a major influence on them. One of the reason these chicks are so combative and out of order is because of the music they listen to. At this point I don't even entertain women that are deep into mainstream rap music.

  • @eachoneteachone30
    @eachoneteachone30 Год назад +4

    The rich auntie is pushed in our community to lessen our population in our community. If you can have children it’s selfish, but if you can’t I get it.

    • @joannamonique707
      @joannamonique707 Год назад +5

      Why is it selfish? Why do yall seem to think the human race is currently at risk of going extinct? You're only calling it selfish because men wants kids and women don't. Basically women refusing to give men what they want is selfish but a man expecting a woman to completely change who she is to please him is somehow not selfish. Yall are tripping on babies like there only 4000 humans left 🙄

    • @foxyboop4164
      @foxyboop4164 Год назад +2

      Having kids is more self serving than not having them.

    • @eachoneteachone30
      @eachoneteachone30 Год назад +1

      @@joannamonique707 It is selfish to your family tree. You can have children but don't want to. Then when you get older, the less and less you have a family because everyone has to die at some point in life. The rich auntie want to make all that money for who? I think people are paying attention to the wrong things. If women don't want to reproduce then what are they doing for this world?

    • @eachoneteachone30
      @eachoneteachone30 Год назад

      @@foxyboop4164 So how will it feel like when the family is getting lower and lower in numbers til everyone die off and there is no one in the family anymore? What are we all here for if we're not reproducing? seriously.

  • @emanuelwatson1330
    @emanuelwatson1330 7 месяцев назад +1

    If a girl calls me bruh or son I’m leaving immediately 😂

  • @yungwoog7453
    @yungwoog7453 Год назад

    Shorty in the middle wanna sound so intelligent 😂😂😂

  • @eddiejamesbrown5275
    @eddiejamesbrown5275 Год назад +3

    Hoodboogers acting like they deserve elegance. 😂😂😂

  • @kalonb5101
    @kalonb5101 Год назад +3

    These women are masculine and naive

  • @is.that.Mazzi.
    @is.that.Mazzi. Год назад +2

    Shawty all the way to the left with the glasses is a W. The problem with so many of the women on this show is because they don’t understand how to separate themselves from the generalization. It’s crazy how it was 4 women and only 1 understood that you must use a generalization.

  • @sherardjones5969
    @sherardjones5969 Год назад +1

    The meek mill reference is wicked

  • @victorshaw8619
    @victorshaw8619 Год назад +4

    Damn homie...It's a wrap out here. The masculine energy, the lack of intellectual reasoning, the materialistic mindset and the struggle weaves/wigs. I'm glad I worked and minded my business in my 30's; I couldn't imagine having to deal with women like this, there would be no peace to be had.

  • @dantebreal377
    @dantebreal377 Год назад +3

    I've left many women with the attitudes ,that came at me for no valid reason,and I left them alone for good , and I didn't care if we had dinner,movies, concerts, without having sex , I was happy too leave out their life, without giving them children and paying child support, so that's my Blessing and I never regretted for treating them right, they could never say that good men , don't exist because they experienced me, their lost my Victory with another good woman who's deserving of me.

  • @tonyking5391
    @tonyking5391 Год назад +1

    It’s always a 3 in a wig talking about getting on her level🤣🤣🤣

  • @chevyboichuck_81
    @chevyboichuck_81 Год назад

    18:33 when they start a statement off with "I feel like" you know she's going to over explain what it is she's talking about. And as far as the equal thing goes I bet none of them picked up the check @ dinner

  • @ashleyadams3453
    @ashleyadams3453 Год назад

    I like y'all banter with each other u can tell y'all real friends unlike the other podcast 😂

  • @BlackManUntethered
    @BlackManUntethered Год назад +4

    This is the cold truth the number one killer of ppl of elderly age is loneliness so I hope that money feels like a family and that career feels like children lol 🥂

    • @foxyboop4164
      @foxyboop4164 Год назад +1

      More men die alone than women.

    • @BlackManUntethered
      @BlackManUntethered Год назад

      @@foxyboop4164 check the stats sis you'll find you're incorrect.

    • @mr.k7977
      @mr.k7977 Год назад

      @@BlackManUntethered Well, to be fair only 40 percent of men have reproduced in history, and 80 percent of women have reproduced which means 60 percent of men will die without ever bearing kids.

    • @BlackManUntethered
      @BlackManUntethered Год назад

      @@mr.k7977 that doesn't mean they'll die lonely sir

    • @latoyatmissdivasupplies4504
      @latoyatmissdivasupplies4504 Год назад

      @@BlackManUntetheredcheck the nursing homes. You’re all 🧢

  • @dallasmayke624
    @dallasmayke624 Год назад +3

    If I have to handle you and you're my woman. I'll just get someone else. And you'll probably become the side chick

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 9 месяцев назад

      They love that position. That actually gets Benefits. The main chick gets thrown in prison or dies from the toxic waste produced by the man and his love interest. Being with God is way better than ever entertaining any of this dumpster lifestyle

  • @navytanutrof1823
    @navytanutrof1823 Год назад +1

    Damn!!!! The way that girl in the middle talk!!!!

  • @bjohnson2u
    @bjohnson2u Год назад

    Much respect for Eli.. no matter how much these ladies try to swindle out of a corner in the convo…. My man Eli stays on point.. holding them accountable 😂😂😂 it’s actually hilarious.. he really be triggering these ladies but they cannot hear themselves.