Growing apart from friends, comparing yourself to others, long distance friendships & social media..
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- Опубликовано: 1 июл 2024
- insta: @joyishhhh / joyishhhh
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PODCAST: open.spotify.com/show/3M7semY...
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Time stamps:
00:00 - intro
03:22 - Long distance friendships - ways to stay connected
05:42 - Do guys use not wanting to be in a relationship as an excuse?
07:17 - How to navigate friendships with guys in a relationship?
09:11 - Moving away from family
11:05 - How to be more present in life?
15:51 - Growing apart from friends
17:40 - How to meet other creatives
20:18 - Can you have a creative job without a social media presence?
25:03 - How to stop comparing yourself to others
28:02 - spiralling
💌 contact me:
insta: @joyishhhh / joyishhhh
email: joybenhur@gmail.com
💌 music:
Epidemic sound 
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I'm a girl in engineering so have ended up with many guy friends but only one like you and Jahvis. I often get comments from ppl like "Oh you must have a crush" and such but struggle to put into words what it's like to have someone you completely gel with but don't at all see like that. I guess it's almost like a sibling but not quite. All I know is it's a special relationship to have. It allows you to gather perspective on so many different things in such a pure way knowing there's nothing more intended behind it. It's so refreshing to see examples of it on the internet. Glad to hear you're both doing well and great to get another catch-up vid!
You both somehow giving me hope in pure friendships between a girl and guy. Watching you both talking and sharing your thoughts makes my day.
Whenever you make a video with Jahvis I know that it will be full of honest emotions and fun at the same time.
I love your loyalty with your friends and how you cherish every moment with them 💜
um, i think its contribute! hope that helps!!
wow, that was pretty shocking that that video you showed of the two of you in 2022 is almost 2 years agoooo. It feels like 2 seconds ago since i watched that video, but at the same time like such a long time ago. still a real fan of your art joy, watching every video and feeling very proud of what you've also done since that last video with Jahvis
love you guys, didnt know how much i missed this! Pure ,authentic content
Omggg I missed u guys
Really enjoyed this one. Thank you, Joy and Jahvis!!
Favourite duo
Ahhhh i have been waiting for this video!!!!!!
I love this and you both. You’re two beautiful humans. 🤎
Cute vid w the best duo. Side note, love your outfit Joy!
love the vibes of this video! so cozy and vinatage and classy😍
best duo !!!
ugh I just love your videos so much !!! they always feel so warm and cozy and wholesome. I've been watching your videos for soolong, since I was a junior in high school and now I am a junior in college studying abroad in florence italy for the year! its so cool to watch someone who is at a similar point in life. Keep doing what you're doing, i always love your conversations with Jahvis :)))
Ohh it's been a while! So happy to see you again :)
Aww I'm glad you two are still good friends.. friendships like that are hard to find, treasure it 💛
CONtribute 🤭 love this video, as always. It's super encouraging to see your friendship grow and flourish over the years xx thank you for taking the time to give some much needed advice!
Love this video, so wholesome, I really feel like maturing with you both, I'm turning 22 this year and I've been watching you for 3 or 4 years.. Joy, you're really a comfort creator and it's soooo good to see you grow and still be creative 🤍 wish u all the best from Poland
You two both create such a cozy safe space, I love this little corner of the internet
I thought about so many of these things today! I waited for a to-go order and to be able to use tap-pay with my low battery phone I just sat and looked around, funny to hear Jahvis specifically mention fish and chips. You’re both a couple years older than me, and I see you in a really great kind and courageous light, it’s calming to hear you both talk about learning to do one thing at a time as that’s something I’m really focused on these days. To anyone else in a similar boat: it’s so worth slowing down in some moments, sometimes in moments where you feel you absolutely have to do 100 things in the next 12 minutes, pause. One of my most laid back friends who is always dreaming up ideas really lives in the present and his actions are very based on how he feels in the moment, being driven by loving what he does though he somehow gets more work done in a week than me stressing myself out may do in a month. There’s all sorts of factors, and there’s no need to compare. But to me it’s a reminder that there isn’t only one way to approach or live, and it’s important to figure out what works for you because that just might be the key to what you’re trying to have more of in your life! ✴️
the vibes are delicious
Jade!!!! Yoy and Joy are my favorite RUclipsrs 😝😝😝😝😝🤯🤯🤯🤯
I love you
Aww this made me so happy🥰 I'm also turning 24 this year and the fact that that could be labeled "mid-twenties" is the weirdest thing somehow but I'm really glad I got to grow up with the last few years!
Thanks you guys (: for inviting us to listen to this chat 🦔❤️
No! I'm English and your accents cracked me up in the best way! Me and my friends also always do Australian accents when we talk sometimes haha, I love hearing people try accents, no-one will kill you for it 🤣 Also I've been watching your videos for around 4 years now and they are still my absolute favourite ❤️❤️❤️
I’m still in love with Jahvis
Hahah love it! Hope everyone enjoyed listening to our problems..
I’ve watched you guys forever !! And you taught me that it’s okay to have guy friends… I feel like girls judge so hard sometimes
joy ur hair is so nice in this video ;)
so inspiring
As an American, it's conTRIBute :P The iconic duo is back wooooo I'm turning 24 in less than two weeks. So fun to grow up with you!
I love your connection and friendship 🥹
what camera do you use??? also i love the vibes in this video so much
You two are today’s version of 7up. Looking forward to seeing your annual updates forever.
hey!! thank you for making this video💛 what camera did you use to record it?
Definitely contribute. Hope this explains it 😂😂😂
Feels like 13 Going on 30 before she wakes up at 30
‘Cun’tribute LOL
6:50 It took me one year to really understand him, but yeah, I'm sure now it's not that he doesn't love who I am or he doesn't feel me as THE person... It's just I'm THE person, but of a life he didn't choose. In this life he choose all the rest, in this life it's all about things I'm not. He habits a life where he's a version of himself which doesn't fits the person he is with me. It's okay. We can not live us, but this doesn't mean we can not feel us.
You said square breath and I automatically started doing it😂
its contribute. u pronounce is like cuh-n-tribute
Contrib‘ute
Hi Joyish. Is he your bf?
They’ve been friends since they were in school
Yes it is her BF. They say they just friends but it’s clear they more than friends. They definitely banged after filming this. They will be having kids together within the next 2 years
These two definitely did the dirty with each other after filming this
Nah they're just friends, I'm pretty sure they went to school together