dating in your twenties | falling in love with the potential and wanting validation from men.

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  • Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024

Комментарии • 62

  • @miamoudilou
    @miamoudilou 11 месяцев назад +34

    i literally wish i was there with youuu girls, i can so clearly see the vulnerability,depth and honestly when describing your inner feelings and im here to tell you that every single thing you girls expressed made me feel so so validated in my own inner world as a girl.uhhh i love girlhood, its crazy 2 humans overseas in london that I've never met made me feel so in understood and such alignment thank you for that you both are so precious

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  11 месяцев назад +3

      🥹🥹🥹 my heart!!! Thank you for this message xxxx

  • @erinkswart
    @erinkswart 11 месяцев назад +45

    i always love watching your little sit down videos with a little drink in your hand.. always makes me feel like i’m sitting there with you 🤎🌟🧸

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  11 месяцев назад +5

      awwww ❤ thats what I want !! xxx

  • @rous___
    @rous___ 11 месяцев назад +11

    just started online dating and omg it's so difficult lol - good luck to you girls out there! 🧡

  • @annaaskling4781
    @annaaskling4781 10 месяцев назад +5

    Wow! I really really felt seen with this video, and I think it really was what I needed to hear - It's so crazy how a lot of us share the same insecurities and thoughts, but you just assume that you're the only one feeling that way, but that's almost never the case! Such a beautiful video, thank you for sharing

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  10 месяцев назад +2

      You are not alone 💖💖💖💖

  • @carylannebeltran
    @carylannebeltran 11 месяцев назад +3

    Loved this conversation!! You two are precious 🤍

  • @carlaruizzz
    @carlaruizzz 11 месяцев назад +6

    LOVED this little chit chat with you both, you’ve just reminded me lots of important things and I’ve felt so understood in many ways even though I’m not in my twenties yet 🧡🧡🧡🧡 lots of love!!!

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  11 месяцев назад +2

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @anieko6623
    @anieko6623 11 месяцев назад +3

    loved this!! you both have the most amazing calming energy! 🧡🍊

  • @makaylamill6893
    @makaylamill6893 11 месяцев назад +3

    🍊🍊🍊 Keep holding your genuine friendships dearly! Such a sweet, laid-back chat...much love, from NY 💌

  • @rryan916
    @rryan916 3 месяца назад

    So telling… when a woman is not interested she’s not willing to settle. When a man is not interested he’s not willing to commit. Hmm… we should explore that one.

  • @isasofia6512
    @isasofia6512 8 месяцев назад +1

    woaw. Cam is SUCH a beautiful human being. Your both are. Thankyou for this video joy!

  • @lorisjerez3862
    @lorisjerez3862 11 месяцев назад +2

    Joy this is literally what I needed! Thank you for always having the right words! Ily

  • @vicyku
    @vicyku 11 месяцев назад +3

    thank u for this wonderful video, your chit chat videos are always my favorite ! could relate to sm of what u talked about + like u guys said it’s always good to know ure not alone in feeling this way, it’s part of the journey 🍊

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  11 месяцев назад +1

      Yes!! Sending love❤️❤️❤️

  • @heyitslj557
    @heyitslj557 11 месяцев назад +1

    yooooo Joy!! First of all. my current two fav youtubers. the only people i watch these days.
    on another note I just deleted instagram but am still trying to reach you. I want to buy your "JOY" pearl necklace but wont have the funds until the end of November so I can spend money while I travel to London! Personal problem lol.... just wondering whens the latest you'll take orders for pearl necklaces?!?!?

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  11 месяцев назад +1

      Hi!! thank you so much ❤❤❤❤ The necklaces will be available till December so that should be fine :) xxx

  • @rryan916
    @rryan916 3 месяца назад

    Haha no settle was the word.

  • @IoannaKonstantinou
    @IoannaKonstantinou 11 месяцев назад +2

    Exactly what I needed! 🍊🧡

  • @encly3881
    @encly3881 11 месяцев назад +2

    How do u know if you're settling? Is it a feeling where you don't know if you love the other person, because you've never been in love before - even when the other person is wonderful to you and a role model in many ways? My boyfriend is great and I smile whenever I see him, and he inspires me to be a better person. But I'm not sure if i love him (ive had moments where i felt i loved him, but shouldn't love be a constant feeling rather than a momentary spark of affection?)
    Also another topic i think u could perhaps cover in another video - how do u balance time between your relationship and friendships, especially making new friendships?
    xx a long time viewer

    • @ivag.5398
      @ivag.5398 11 месяцев назад

      I'm dealing with similar thoughts right now. He is not my boyfriend but we're in a situationship and only because I'm not sure I really like him. I feel like I love him sometimes but only really as a friend and I keep thinking if I go into relationship with him I might settle but If i break of the situatinship I will lose a friend. It's so weird, I still liked kissing him and hugging him but at the back of my mind I dont feel that this is IT. Sorry for spamming your comment just wanted to share. Also this is first any romantic thing I had in 25 years (I liked being single all my life) so this is all new to me.

    • @inesmainguet9145
      @inesmainguet9145 Месяц назад +1

      Hey i saw your comment and i just want to say that love doesn’t necessarily have to feel like sparks and butterflies all the time!
      If your partner makes you smile, makes you happy and inspires you to be the best version of yourself, it’s more than enough.
      In social medias, movies etc you always have this almost toxic depiction of love where you’re always chasing the « drama », the passion, the desire but loving is a feeling but also a choice!
      Doubts are so normal and completely ok, don’t get into your head too much and overthink these moments of doubt, just accept them and let them pass, it’s a normal human mechanism.
      I hope this helped, I’ve had the same problems and just letting go of all this pressure about love is so freeing, wishing you the best :)

    • @encly3881
      @encly3881 Месяц назад

      @@inesmainguet9145 thank you for ur reply!!

  • @KayaPodolsky
    @KayaPodolsky 4 месяца назад

    this video hit the right spot ringt now, thank you so much for your courage to put yourself out here 🧡

  • @jw6034
    @jw6034 7 месяцев назад

    Exactly the conversation i needed to hear, great vid thank you guys🍊🤍

  • @TotallyJackMarko
    @TotallyJackMarko 11 месяцев назад +3

    Super amazing ❤

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  11 месяцев назад +1

      thank you!!!💌💌

  • @fienvandenhoek3084
    @fienvandenhoek3084 10 месяцев назад

    loveeee these subjects!! this is exactly the kind of stuff that have been on my mind the past few weeks.

  • @amychatelet6024
    @amychatelet6024 10 месяцев назад

    this video was so healing for me

  • @deborahostmo
    @deborahostmo 10 месяцев назад

    lovely girls chat

  • @diariesofagirlabroad
    @diariesofagirlabroad 10 месяцев назад

    ahh have missed videos like this

  • @tonaruch8623
    @tonaruch8623 11 месяцев назад

    I hope your family in Israel is OK. I know you had said you were supposed to go there.

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @simomanqele6995
    @simomanqele6995 11 месяцев назад +1

    🍊

  • @diariesofagirlabroad
    @diariesofagirlabroad 10 месяцев назад

    and of course: 🍊🍊🍊

  • @heleenfokker5155
    @heleenfokker5155 6 месяцев назад

    Loved the video ❤

  • @tillyevans7119
    @tillyevans7119 10 месяцев назад

    Where's Cams Jumper from? - so nice!!!!!! x

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  10 месяцев назад

      Pangaia ! Xxxx

  • @morenasilvestroni
    @morenasilvestroni 6 месяцев назад

    i love women

  • @f.b.7164
    @f.b.7164 11 месяцев назад

    'orange emoji':)

  • @emmaprosper742
    @emmaprosper742 10 месяцев назад

    🍊

  • @caitrionanimhathuna1550
    @caitrionanimhathuna1550 10 месяцев назад

    🍊🍊🍊

  • @dialeawa8826
    @dialeawa8826 10 месяцев назад

    🧡

  • @dar04_
    @dar04_ 10 месяцев назад

    🍊

  • @BriannaFraser-yf4ip
    @BriannaFraser-yf4ip 10 месяцев назад

    🍊🍊🍊🧡

  • @joaylee
    @joaylee 11 месяцев назад

    🍊

  • @aleksandraw299
    @aleksandraw299 11 месяцев назад

    🍊

  • @valereels9272
    @valereels9272 11 месяцев назад

    🍊🍊🍊

  • @nadiahowarth990
    @nadiahowarth990 11 месяцев назад

    🍊🍊

  • @larakuhn8739
    @larakuhn8739 11 месяцев назад

    🍊

  • @rubypaterno2680
    @rubypaterno2680 11 месяцев назад

    🍊💌

  • @reem.voiceactress
    @reem.voiceactress 11 месяцев назад

    🍊🍊

  • @olabanacka1760
    @olabanacka1760 11 месяцев назад

    🍊🍊🍊❤

  • @lillywitharose
    @lillywitharose 11 месяцев назад

    🍊

  • @libertinefH
    @libertinefH 11 месяцев назад

    🧡

  • @meleymerke
    @meleymerke 11 месяцев назад

    🧡🧡🧡🍊

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  11 месяцев назад

      🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡

  • @mayalye9974
    @mayalye9974 11 месяцев назад

    So many great topics covered in this!!! 🏀🥮🍊